Divorce Advice, Letting Go

[SimonDB2006]

Thanks for this RJ, I think this exercise could be used in everyday relationships, weather they be personal or even business... thanks!

[MommyApples]

Great advice RJ! This is why I don't share my story with everyone. I don't have a problem telling people on a personal basis but there are two sides to every story. I don't want to turn my ex into a villain and does it really matter how I became a single parent or just that I am one?

I realized a long time ago I could either use this as a positive in my life or let it drag me down. To use it as a positive I had to really look at it as what can i learn from this to become a better person.

[traderpete007]

Eventually you also realize that you don't want to live in the shadow of the story any longer. That you want to let go of the past and move on for future. The longer we define ourself by the story, the longer we have to wait to Make Life Happen.... again.