I dont like bitch clothes at all, since I was little. Never liked chillen with the girls. I rather b with the boys. I feel if im wearing boy clothes, I feel more like who im suppose to be. Not a fem ass nigga.
so i know i'm late in commenting, but figured i'd still comment anyway. i identify as a transgender person.born female and now i dont feel male but i feel more male than female. i identify as a boy/boi. im not out as trans, though, and so i live as a female and have to wear female clothes all the time. it makes me uncomfortable because i just feel like im not doing it right, or that im playing a part in a play or something. cause i feel like i cant relate so its weird for me.
I understand. An for me i jus hav a big issue with how tight girl clothes are an how it touches my boobs an private it jus doesnt feel rite an makes me so uncomfortable. So i dress in boy clothes jus for the fact that it doesnt touch me. I could care less about saggin an all that bs. I jus wanna be comfortable an the only thing girly that i accept wearing is a sports bra. Buh my mom forces me to dress girly for going out so theres nothing i can do buh suffer through it an not say anything. Im i
I am a female and i like dressing down as in jeans, sneakers, shirts at times. Then sometimes i dress up as in flats or heels. I love being able to do whatever. Its comfortable. Now i was a tomboy but i mellowed down and dated studs. One i wanted her to wear flats or dress up like a girl....so at time we looked like two girl but her dress up was slacks and a button up wish a hat. She may wear a dress only to perform. She a singer. But its whatever makes you happy
I have to say that I am a female and I have to say that I dont think that a girl always has to dress all girlly because I surely dont do that I hate wearing heals but I do it.....
I like dressing in loose fitting clothes BUT I am so androgonous (is that how you spell it?) Anyway it's like people can't tell I'm a girl. I figure that I have to soften up my appearance cause I HATE the looks that I get. When I have my hair down people know I'm a chick cause it's like my face soften up or something. I'm stuck between playing by the rules of the corporate world or just being my androgonous self.
i feel likeive always been a tomboy,but as ive grown up.(a freshie in college, 18)..ive become more tomboyish little by little...n i have 4 bros... so i did get masxuline gifts sometimes.& i just like wearin looser clothing..cuz i feel more relaxed and comfortable that way......im still kinda in the closet.. but i feel like some people still consider me either a total tomboy or know that im a lezzie.. I dont really like labels but i identify as a TOTal tomboy/boyish stem/supersoftstudmuffin...
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growing up i always "dressed like a boy" bcuz i was uncomfortable with my body (which as i look back there was absolutely nothin wrong with my body) but back then every other 8 year old was a stick & i didnt understand that i was just developing b4 everybody else.. but a t-shirt & jeans was just how i was comfortable, now i just swag (for a lack of a better word) it up a lil more.. "u see back in the day i used to give a fuck about what they say, now i could give a fuck about what they say"
Yo B you are one cool stud keep on doing your thing living your life the way you see best I'm from Dallas I've been away from there since 04 I'm out here in Corvallis Oregon I'm a writer I'm working on a book about studs! peace!
My name is Della I go as Bling. I like how you expressed yourself in the video. I am a stud I always called myself a thug. When I 1st began 2dress like a dude it was 4 the same reason as you. Then when I grew older I realize it was safer4 me. I was abuse verbally I was built very nice and didnt like the way men looked at me or talk2 me it made me uncomfortable. Also my mom was an addict so no money 4clothes. When I began2 dress boyish it was so much safer4 me. I still do feminine things4 myself
last comment: 6:36 i really do believe this is how i am. i have been throwing tantrums about dresses since i was a small small child. i never liked it. honestly i personally believe that i should have been born a man....now that's something i don't share with a lot of ppl because it's none of their business. recently i've been much more comfy in my own female body (thk goodness). so all that "change" stuff is on the backburner...at least 4 now
it has always made me feel super uncomfortable. and you wearing a bra. I REFUSE lol. Thank goodness im smaller up top. no shade but for a long time i thought i wanted a sex change. i have never felt comfy as a female. i am dealing with it alot better now. something came in my life that made me comfy with my body. but i still have the clothing issue. it's such a habit. but i dress my ass off in men's clothes, no doubt
I STRUGGLE EVERYDAY!!! Girl look at my channel!!! Lol...sorry for the caps but it be heavy on my heart. I really don't put effort into it. it just kinda come naturally. i have NEVER liked dresses or anything even as a young child. I am bisexual. I didnt realize i like women until around 17 and before then i liked guys. still do. and i STILL dressed in mens clothing. recently i have made a change cause i've gotta bored with my styles but its still there
since you want opinions.I am a stud. I guess my reasoning is. Its comfortable for me to dress like this. i do relate to you in the fact that when i was younger i was shopping and was like,ooh if i was a guy i would look good in that.Or i would see a guy and rather than saying "oh hes sexy". i would say."ooh i could rock them clothes better".lol.Another reason is that, i dont have to say that im gay to anybody.females just automatically know by my style.lol(: check out my channel i just started(:
hey hey. listen. you strut your thing how ever you want. If women want to dress like 19c street walkers, then you dress whatever you like b/c at least your being true to yourself. if you didnt want to wear a bra then shit whatever. some bitches dont even wear bras. you are beautiful, whatever. you go girl. your strong and i admire that.
It wouldn't even matter what you wear. You're a woman, a beautiful woman. To me- attraction has nothing to do with the exterior. Underneath the clothing that "studs" wear... they are beautiful, a beautiful body being hidden away from the world. And you are a normal, don't ever question or doubt it. :)
I'm a stud, well dominant female. I got the label stud in 9th grade after I realized how much attention I got dressing with a dude swagg. I've always been a tomboy since my earliest years but Neva once thought of the way I dressed til high school. I love being a girl, gettin my eyebrows done, hair done (NO WEAVE) lol just stuff like that. But my senior yr I don't care about girl clothes honestly. But them damn things is uncomfortable point blank. Bras irritate tf out of me, jeans that make my t
@RedLightning05 First, go get a job or an education. At least go get your GED. I can't even take you seriously, you can't even spell. lmao. ho please lmao.
@RedLightning05 Underneath the clothes its a WOMAN and that's ultimately what she wants. It has nothing to do with men even though men always want to make everything about them. The clothes don't take away the fact she has a VAGINA. People spend way too much time worrying about the wrong shit. You just happen to be one of them.
women trust me i know i am one but things the things u try to forget whats on the outside but who u think u is in the inside i dressed like a tomeboy my whole all my life i say but i dont get jealouse of guys in wanted to dislike them i didnt like wearib women colthes not because i didnt think i was beautiful because i hated the attention of a guy try to talk to me been disrespectful when i did have to dress like one for specail reason like church
Great topie im a stud never cross my mind how i dressed i just feel more laid bac in boy gear then rockin a dress i guess its about that person i dressed like a boy my whole cuz i was cool with it i feel u i hated dressin like a women cuz i always felt somewhere in my heart i was put in the wrong body lol i blam my bro how u dress its all his fault he wanted lil bro when i was lil in dress me up in his gear all the time but yea i still struggle to this day with gurl things i dont know how to be
Me personally U can say I have a problem or whatever, I am a stud 33 yrs old no kids, and I dress in mens clothes because these are the only clothes on the market im comfortable in, wear a dress not even at a funeral it aint in me and I dont wanna be a man i accept im a woman with a sexual orientation problem (in society eyes) in my eyes as long as I dont bother U and U dont bother me who cares what I dress like a long as im happy in my own clothes.
Hey I know how u feel I myself a 13 year old female have trouble dressing in girls close becuz I'm used to be considered as a guy. Now I haven't figured out my sexuality but I believe I'm a stud myself thanks for making this vid I wish u good luck.
Lastly stud doesnt not equail man. every stud doesnt not want to be a man, that is a very bad assumption to put on us all, I dont have a very deep voice nor an im macho, im tough when i have to be and im fragile if i have to be. everyone has their specturm of emotions they go through thats called being human. nothing more nothing less
most studs go through that phase in the beginning trying to figure out what type of stud is really them. some move on to older years being as tough as they started out, and other move on the tone it down slightly. Never the less, being jealous of the comfort a guy has is not uncommon. No i can not wear a reg bra, they are uncomfrotable, most femine cloths are not appealing for me to wear and are akward. that is the bottom line. a lot of pressure come from other studs, in the age brackt & femms 2
when you first starting out as stud (im speaking from experience) you are pressured into the more masculine way of being, how you should walk talk and act. It is a very true fact for studs between the ages of high school up to college, as you get older and get to know yourself all of that metls away. At 19 i wore the xxls and really baggy clothes, but no im 27 i dont do that. Yes i do shop in the mens department but my clothes fit me a little better, i also dont concern myself with being "macho"
Interesting. I don't know much about the LGBT community even though I dress like a dude, after seeing this video, I'm beginning to understand why gender is so important in the community.
hey umm i really understand where you were coming from....ummm me as a stud i feel for me that its just a normal thing for me to dress the wa i do not as a man though i have that stud look but i do it with some femmine twists to it..there are those moments where i want to be less studish but im not going to stop being me if i do. i think for me its just the way i choose to be because i have seen a lot of fashion and the way i like to dress is the fashion sense i like most. keep posting though <3
Im a straight tomboy chick and I feel like loser clothes are so much more comfortable. I do dress like a girl from time to time but I change into my sweats or basketball shorts as soon as possible. I do have my thoughts like "I wanna be sexy" but idk. I just love hoodies, Jeans, and high top shoes. It's kinda hard for me to be sexy.
Wud up! Tis a stud . I think a lot of stud wanna feel sexy we just have different ways go bout doing it.I lot studs dnt admit it tho, they think make them look weak but shit we still women and Im real modafuher so i dont give a #*$@. When u young u feel like u got prove shit but when u get to that point WHEN LOVE U WHAT U R. That wuds up!!
I like to say a few more thing we have to stop judging our selves through a hetrosexual model there are things about us that dont fit.I also want to say that for transgender people there are things about them that dont fit with clear cut genital identification we all must find the shoes that fit and be grateful that we found them.
When I was child to boys clothes because I feit comfortable well long story short people may tolerate a little girl that way but not a young lady the thing is Ive never felt very feminine Ive felt somewhat feminine not much when I look at a feminine woman I desire that I dont want to be that because it doesnt suit me.
what up doe.... how do you on the whole new wardrobe issue... I haven't dressing in male clothing all of my life... if I dressed in women clothing I feel like im in drag
I feel you on this seriously for me dressing feminine is very personal, when i dress feminine it changes my mode, i get pissed off because of how uncomfortable it is then as u said when i use to look at dudes it would make it worse like why they get to dress like that n i cant. Dressing feminine is just not me i cant do it and be happy with myself. And I wouldn't say I dress like a dude, i dress like me. We all were born naked for a reason.
So I decided I wasn't gonna read all those comments but im a stud and I went thru the tomboy stage when I was younger I played basketball and softball so I mean I was always the sweat pants and addidas flip flop type. I mean dressin "dudeish" honestly does not make you less woman than if you were to dress feminine. But when you get into taking hormone pills tryna grow facial hair and clinching your teeth to make a stronger jaw line then that's where the less woman comes in. I dress like a man b
How many of you women had fathers? Gender issues are usually the result of single parent families. When parents are balanced about who they are, ie, in their roles as mother and father, children stand a better chance at developing into well adjusted adults, free of these issues.
@dothedeed Well you reacted to it with a reply. I wouldn't if I thought it was that silly. But don't be too annoyed cos there's always an exception to the rule.
I went through somewhat similar experiences. However, I didn’t lean towards wearing men’s clothing in order to get girls, I was naturally a tomboy. It didn’t take long for me to realize that the feminine style of dress was not for me. It wasn’t until my later days in college that I became truly comfortable with my own sense of style (and lack of femininity if you will). I'm glad I went through that process. I may not dress in high heels and mini skirts but it makes me no less of a woman.
Your opinion is clearly based on outside influences. You're doing what you think works, you're not living for yourself. Just like men find women's clothes to fit them, women can find men's clothes to fit them. If that's what you want. Its unfair that so many people have seen this video and now think its okay to be as confused as you were.
Your opinion is clearly based on outside influences. You're doing what you think works, you're not living for yourself. Just like men find women's clothes to fit them, women can find men's clothes to fit them. If that's what you want. Its unfair that so many people have seen this video and now think its okay to be as confused as you were.
@darealprettychas its not necessarily bad for people to be confused. its a part of progressing in life. you find your way out of it by experiencing it. for me it wasn't necessarily outside influences, i just knew what females were looking for and i wanted to be that. it wasn't what i shouldve done, but did.
@ladyballer44 Confusion is terrible, and leads to regrets. Life happens, indeed. However, you dont have to experience being burned to know that fire is dangerous. So I'm glad you posted such a video, and are yet replying to comments about it. . I myself am a lesbian woman that has dressed in mens clothes since I was 10. Came up in a small town, in the church, which is the only time I wore dresses. I was born a woman, I will die one. Its a blessing. I will never see it as an inconvenience.
Id like to put my input. In high school, I was a stud as well. I was all "hard core, & a touch-me-not." After High school I changed dramaticly, infact Im not even a stud anymore. I switch it up, which every one trys to lable that as a "stem" or whatever. I tend to dress more femanine. But I also have my days where I put on some kicks, kargos, a snap back, & no make-up what so ever. I LOVE to dress like that but I start to miss being femanine, when it comes to how ppl act w/ me.
Bein a stud I've struggled with my body also. When I was younger I wore a mixture of both female and male clothes but when i developed more i wanted 2 hide my breasts so now i wear mainly male clothes. I wear skinny jeans and fitted shirts from time to time tho and I've learned to wear it in a way i don't get mistaken for str8 or fem. I'm comfortable with being a female tho and hav no problem wit a girl touchin me although it was a lil weird at first
AND FOR ALL THE STUDS OUT THERE. F*ch that dont touch me sh*t. That is the dumbest thing ive ever heard. you are a WOMAN and feel womens emotions no matter how hard you try to be. Dudes get head and stick it in any hole they can. Why whould you short change yourself? Spread them legs and get that head lol. Your invisible p**sy will love you for it. Full blown sex with a woman is too good not to. Open up Just had to say that since somehow she thought it was the right thing to do.
whats up lady, ima soft stud and i know how you feel somewhat. I started off dressing like a tomboy like fem as a teen but liked fems and later felt as if i had to dress the part (hard stud) to get em. well did it and got em but it wasnt ME. Ima pretty chick who can look good as a stud or fem, so now i just Bette(from L word lol) it up cause its me and thats what make me comfortable. And i still Get em
Oh okay i feel it i mean it thats what u like then do it i mean cant nobody judge u but God not everybody was put on this earth for u to lik them or for them to like u but it do say in the bible love everybody including your ememies but well for me ima stud so i cant do studs i really cant see myself be n attracted to a stud i look at it lik okay dis my brah lik we cool
ok i must say that i am a female and i love females! but i dnt really kno how i waqnt to dress!....i lyke to dress like a boi and shyt but at the same tyme i lyke dressing lyke a gurl but it complicated cuz i lyke both fems and studs!...n its hard to put a label on miself!...i jus like a woman regardless of the fact of be a fem or a stud!...i love the woman body and i love to touch it and its crazi to me cuz i get both types of attention when i dress girly and when i dress boyish!
but really i mostly dress my a boy like 25 r less % u will see me dress lik a girl bcuz so of my fam dnt except it or i have to dress lik that it hurts though i can tell u that but i mean i just made me a lil account idk how to wrk this do i add ppl as my friend how do i make videos hit me up
whats gud brah ima stud i feel u on dis im really not to sure how to work this youtube stuff i just got a account im tryna make some videos but i can tell u its hard living the way we are because of how ppl look at u but at the same times its like what eva no matta how much ppl hav to say u gotta dfo u regardless but i dress lik a boy because i feel comfortable but at the same time i still have my female ways and things but im big but not that big lol n i jus dont like wearin tight clothes
it's however you feel comfortable. i dress up, and it doesn't bother me. i am a stud, but i love being a woman. however, some people are trans-gender, and don't like having breast ect. do what makes you happy, and allow someone to love you for you.
it's however you feel comfortable. i dress up, and it doesn't bother me. i am a stud, but i love being a woman. however, some people are trans-gender, and don't like having breast ect.
I feel u on what u were saying. I agreed wtb most of whT u were sayin. I'm a stud been dressin like this for years now at first my momma had da biggest problem with me dressin like a stud but like I told her I feel weird n out of place when I even put on a bra it's just not for me. Sometimes I really think o was suppose to b a boy cause no one could pay me to put on girl clothing no matter how much.
i fell you on that i have try dress up fell weired make me uncoufuble in stuff i don't always dress up anymore i no when i was going up mom made me where dresing going to church an everthing idk.
I don't know what to really tell you. All I can tell you is that all people want to feel good in the clothes that they're wearing. As far as me feeling more femme or more stud according to my clothes, I don't really care. I mean that as in, I don't care what it is I'm wearing, I just want to feel good in them and I want to like myself and the way I look. I feel as if, if I like myself, nothing else matters.
Hey i feel exactly where u coming from,i was always a little tomboy-ish but when i got to high school i wanted to be gurly and feminin so i tried the tight pants and shirts to shw clevage and a lil make up ....lol fuck no i was very uncomfortable!i jus wantd to be gurly and feel good but that was a negative.so i went back to the men clothes and i felt at home i felt better.and i too was one who lookd at duded and just wished i was one of them!now ima be 22years old in a month and im at the po
It sounds as though you are still struggling with this question of dressing butch but feeling pressured to dress feminine. I'm an Intersex person. In my teens & 20s, I went back & forth between feminine & masculine appearance. It depended sometimes on the way I felt. Sometimes, when men stared at me, it was easy to go butch. Now, in my 40s, I want to dress masculine or butch ALL THE TIME. I'm being pressured by family not to. If you envy men, like I do, you may be Transgender.
@xander7ful i am not struggling so much as i had before in my younger days. i work on accepting whatever i feel like that dressing that day. now days i am more comfortable dressing feminine just depending on how i feel. some days i look in between and somedays straight butch. i don't criticize myself now days for not being all one way, i just accept it and me as i am ya know.
@duhkiddice i mean ya know... its just i came to realization i don't have to dress like a female... theres a million in 1 ways to get a great look without looking straigght like a dude.. unless thats the purpose.
@BrokenWings94 lol im actually da same way i even checked to c if i wrote this but yea i had put on my brothers clothes n i liked it n yea i was modeling in front of the mirror but i have days where i lik wearin girly clothes
i love this video it answers a lot of my questions of why studs dress the way they do....I'm a fem and i love to dress real girlie but I have my days where I just want to be comfortable and throw on a t-shirt, sweats, and sneaks....but if I do that then I get the backlash of the gay community around saying I'm confusing, also by me being bisexual it just makes things worst.
when I have on my jeans and converse a nice waistcoat or something i feel like such a different person I feel almost stronger and more confident because I dont have to dress all femininie and be submissive. I have a problem people expecting me to be submissive I dont like it and I dont like fitting into labels. while dressed as a femme when i was first coming out, I did struggle with the idea of not looking/acting/ being gay enough. Its taken me alot of time to feel comfortable with myself.
wow I really like ur honesty! Im not a stud, I have always considered myself a femme, Expect I dont like wearing heels and i dont wear that much make up. I remember the day I brought myself men jeans I was like wow I feel so damn comfortable I feel relaxed I dont have to look all cute and sweet. To be honest sometimes i associate wearing very feminine clothes, thats tight and showing my breasts or legs makes me feel very vulnerable and that I have to compete with other females.
@ladyballer44 Is it true that studs like yourself give feminine lesbians a hard time because they dress like women.My sister came out a couple of yrs ago,she used to have long hair and dressed really feminine.All of a sudden she cut her hair short and on with the man clothes.I never understood it but i have a feeling she got a hard time from the "real lesbians" and she relented and changed her whole fucking wardrobe to please those bullys.
thankyou for posting this video wow it helps when someone knows exactly how your feeling.i used to force myself to dress like a girl until i almost went crazy until one day i just dressed how i always felt to and it felt great .it drove me mad men lusting over me i felt like a sex object i felt like men always have the upper hand and a woman is always the weaker one expected to be subserviant and stay at home and have kids but for a man its like nothing touches them they are immortal to judgemen
I get where your coming from with this vid. I feel like this too and I get a bit of crap from family and other people. It's fucking hard. I like the way I am most of the time but when I was a kid I didnt think I was meant to be a girl and I used to hide and stuff. I got into hoodies and didnt like it if people spoke about my body. sometimes I don't know how to deal with it and get annoyed at myself too. But I've never envied guys for it. Do you consider yourself androg?
i want to feel pretty but i don't like guys to look at me. Plus people know who i am and they tell me it looks like i'm trying waaay to hard to look pretty. They say i'm pretty as myself. Which is a stud. And I'm beginning to be okay with that.
Yeahh i know exactly how you feel. I'm only happy when i'm dressed like guy. It doesn't feel right when i dress girly and the clothes aren't comfortable to me. But when i'm wearing guy clothes i feel like myself and i love how i feel. And i completely understand what you said about feeling lower when you're dressed like a female because that's exactly how i feel. I feel strong and dominant while dressed like a guy and i feel weak when i'm dressed like a girl. And yes there are times when.....
im 15 and my mom hates that i dress like a boy, so every once in a while she makes me dress up, i just hate males looking at me, the approaches, and the lame lines. I love dressing like a dude.and i love Females, Lesz For Life <3
i understand what u mean i feel uncomfortable dressin lik a girl with tight clothes n jeans and bras and im constantly by my girl n my mom being bugged about not dressin lik a girl but i hate dressin dat way cuz i dnt feel gud in dat clothes i feel comfortable in baggy jeans
now im str8 bt i think that a lesbian is a woman who likes women.. meaning u dnt have to try to b a dude n dress like a dude. being feminin doesnt mean that you cant b comfortable u jst have to find ur style thats all-there is no one way 4all girls to dress. to you(i might b wrong) bt it sounds like you like being like a woman n dressing like a woman, bt ur just self conciouse, n proly a lil tomboyish, which is cool..once again u jst have to find ur feminin style. hope dat helped. n JST B URSELF
i dress like a tomboy, i guess, but its obvious i'ma girl. Then sometimes i'll wear capris and a boy's shirt or wear dull colors and shii- all my shirts are long and fit my 'curves', i wear tight jeans and baggy ones sometimes, and i can't stand dresses or skirts or qirl shorts- but i don't really feel right in boy's shorts excpt basketball shorts- all my shoes are DG- NO HEELS or no shii lyk dat so idk- i'm still Albani
yea i feel for you on that subject. when i was in high school i felt out of place and ugly. people tell me numerous of times that i look cute as a boy. they also say i look FLY as a girl but the thing is .. i like to be a girl cause i like the attention. i like the people that i attract as a female. when im a boy i think that im not as social or
the name KJ and im also a stud. i agree with you 100 %. It makes me incredibly uncomfortable to dress like a female. I do want to feel beautiful and proud of my gender. The reason i dress like a dude is b/c i feel comfortable in this clothing and femmes are attracted to this. I struggle be a "girly girl" and dressing like a female... and the end of the day, i am who i am though
you know im in high school and i used to be a femme, now im a stud, but like a soft stud-but im definitally struggling to figure out how i like to dress. like im more comftroable in guy clothes but i dont think it really fits me. idk-its hard. hard to find out who i am.
And sista I hope you remember your ansestors paved the way so you could do all this. Back in the day u woulda got yo Ass woped for even thinking about this.
Aye! Well for me it changes like sometimes i feel like i wanna dress a little more girly but i mean i do wear more tom boyish cloths a lot of the time. Every since i was little i dressed more like a boy i mean i just wore what ever. For me the reason i dress for dudeish is because i like the way it looks and i think the reason for that is because of the role models i look up to are guys who are athletes. But yah thats me. ~sam
ladyballer - This is interesting to me, did you ever think you were trans? Do you ever feel trapped in the wrong body, even when youre alone in your house with nobody there? I disagree with society and how they are always like, females must be this way with "class", etc, fuck that.. Act however you want to act as long as youre not physically harming someone. It seems like theres a thin line between what youre saying and what some trans ppl go through.. Makes me wonder a few things about myself
@mynamekeisha i think i did when i was younger, not so much any longer. though i do agree with the fact i'm borderline... if i was okay with changing my body structure, i'd consider being a trans... but i am built the way i am. so it is what it is.
Im 20 too and I dont think I could dress in female clothes and feel comfortable and beautiful. But I do feel attractive in the masculine clothes I wear. Yes, I admire the work that a female puts into her looks. The makeup, the heels, waxing, shaving...etc. Even if we dress in mens clothes, were still female even if we're more aggressive and masculine than the avg female. Jus because we have characteristics that are associated with males, dont mean we are.
i feel yah ma im a female that has been struggaling over the past 18ys to dress like a femm but hey i gave up on that thats why i knw how hard it is to dress like a femm it aight easy for sum of us.....anywayiiz its easy for me to dress like a studd/tomboii i cna mix match shit like shoes shits tanks belst ext n i enjoi it alot...to yall femms dnt jugde us studds aight one peac out
Im a femme... im into makin sure my hair looks right my clothes are fitted tight. i get attention from both males an females but i'm gay. an i dont chill with females.. i chill with dudes... so sometimes it is hard for me as well to dress as i do an not have my homeboys come on to me. but in the same breath my fiances a stud, an dudes try to hit on her.. an even underneath all tha baggy clothes, my fiance wears her lil cutesy panties :)
lol um this stud at my job i see u in houston so i work downtown in the lee p brown bldg for metrolift so she works on a floor or so above mine and she doesnt now im gay or no one else for that matter cause they neva asked and i dont blast my busines cause women are trashy lol but any way our wor attire is business
and she liked so if uve tried and was uncomfortable than daddy always make u comfortable first k u cute than a muthafukka yea and i have no problem wit cha ball clothes yea so u have to learn how and when is a good time for u to test u k like i'm almost finish honest
you shouldnt question your self on other peoples' opinions cause wut makes u comfortable confomity is something that we have to break ouselves away from so if ur ball shorts and t shirts and g nikes make u feell comfortable than baby look wear ur clothes my ex had long hair and she neva wanted it down or str8 becuz she would look more like a girl but i did it while she was sleep :0P
But due to my jamaican culture they do not accept the lesbian community especially studs in reference to your video "not normal" so in order for her not to get beat down femme was the way to go not by choice.The conclusion to my story FUCK SOCIETY !!!!!
Honestly I have always believed studs are tom boys and it is wh@ your comfortable with I love femmes and studs and I know th@ clothes doesn't define who you are and wh@ you love..my ex girlfriend wasn't high maintanence she didn't wax her eyebrows or shave her arms,legs etc. but wh@ was femminine was her hair, I would style it with in reason. In comparison to my first girlfriend she was a goddess she wore femme or stud clothing and mek yuh pum pum wet lmao!
Wow, I never heard of this culture before! I guess I am a "FEMME"! I just googled that (LOL!). And when I was small, I would dress as a boy to prove that "GIRLS ARE THE SAME AS BOYS". Well, in reality, I very much enjoyed poofy pink dresses and gave up.
I really enjoy the creative versatility of being a female and wearing fashion. I love boots. I love hats. Sometimes I do feel kind of "lowered". I can't "chill" with dudes because I am so obviously girly... vs if I were a stud. It'd be more fun
i'm not labeled or i don't label myself a stud nor a fem, but more so of a stem. some days i feel like wearing jeans & a polo whereas other days i dress like a female does. i have struggles because i want to get attention from both genders, but it sucks because i always get my gender and sexuality confused with people. i guess some times i want to feel masculine while others i want to feel feminine.
When I got to college, I continued to dress girly and tomboy. I had decided to explore being with another woman. Now at age 28, I dress casual. I dress in whatever I feel like. One day, I'm wearing my relaxed jeans, solid loose fitted color tee and nike air forces. The next day, I'm wearing a women's long sleeve button down, some women's dress pants and heel boots. I'm at the point where, I'm not my clothes. I'm a lesbian and a woman. I dress according to my mood. Do you LadyBaller!!
I was pretty much a tomboy growing up. I hadn't explored my curiosity of being with another girl. I was into boys but wasn't opposed to being with a girl. I didn't dress to attract women. I dressed tomboyish because I liked the style, especially the sneakers and jerseys. In my last year high school, I started dressing girly. Rather I was dressed girly or tomboy, I would attract guys. When I think back, girls flirted with me but I didn't take it seriously. To be continued in next post...
i feel u. imma stud. idk if i can exactly say i struggled (yet cuz im yung, jus started high skool). but i dressed lik a fem up until i was lik 13 cuz idk it was ok 4 me 2 dress lik a stud and i always admired them becuz of dat. mayb every 1 or 2 weeks i mite dress a lil lik a fem becuz...idk. mayb its cuz i feel a lil mo feminine every otha week and i embrace that.
One thing I learned is that you have to do what feels natural to you, because what is considered normal or not normal is strictly based on what works for other people.
Thanks for sharing your story and being honest. Some studs have gender issues, some don't. I have had those same issues even though I am a femme. The older I get the more they go away... like wearing dresses, and heels, and makeup, and panty hose and all them uncomfortable clothes... love my bras though. How society tells you to be lady-like... what the fuck does that mean? Oops... I'm suppossed to be a lady so I can't say FUCK... my bad, lol... fuck society...
I dont like bitch clothes at all, since I was little. Never liked chillen with the girls. I rather b with the boys. I feel if im wearing boy clothes, I feel more like who im suppose to be. Not a fem ass nigga.
90210mw 1 day ago
so i know i'm late in commenting, but figured i'd still comment anyway. i identify as a transgender person.born female and now i dont feel male but i feel more male than female. i identify as a boy/boi. im not out as trans, though, and so i live as a female and have to wear female clothes all the time. it makes me uncomfortable because i just feel like im not doing it right, or that im playing a part in a play or something. cause i feel like i cant relate so its weird for me.
whatgenderami 1 week ago
I understand. An for me i jus hav a big issue with how tight girl clothes are an how it touches my boobs an private it jus doesnt feel rite an makes me so uncomfortable. So i dress in boy clothes jus for the fact that it doesnt touch me. I could care less about saggin an all that bs. I jus wanna be comfortable an the only thing girly that i accept wearing is a sports bra. Buh my mom forces me to dress girly for going out so theres nothing i can do buh suffer through it an not say anything. Im i
cjstuddedup 1 week ago
i undeSTAND that most studs dress like a stud now is because they turned gay.. i been dressing like this since i was a tomboy.
t2buggie 3 weeks ago
Can totally relate.
Thugsterchick 4 weeks ago
I am a female and i like dressing down as in jeans, sneakers, shirts at times. Then sometimes i dress up as in flats or heels. I love being able to do whatever. Its comfortable. Now i was a tomboy but i mellowed down and dated studs. One i wanted her to wear flats or dress up like a girl....so at time we looked like two girl but her dress up was slacks and a button up wish a hat. She may wear a dress only to perform. She a singer. But its whatever makes you happy
Tomeia23 4 weeks ago
I have to say that I am a female and I have to say that I dont think that a girl always has to dress all girlly because I surely dont do that I hate wearing heals but I do it.....
AwqJen 1 month ago
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HateiThings 1 month ago
I like dressing in loose fitting clothes BUT I am so androgonous (is that how you spell it?) Anyway it's like people can't tell I'm a girl. I figure that I have to soften up my appearance cause I HATE the looks that I get. When I have my hair down people know I'm a chick cause it's like my face soften up or something. I'm stuck between playing by the rules of the corporate world or just being my androgonous self.
PawneeStud 1 month ago
i feel likeive always been a tomboy,but as ive grown up.(a freshie in college, 18)..ive become more tomboyish little by little...n i have 4 bros... so i did get masxuline gifts sometimes.& i just like wearin looser clothing..cuz i feel more relaxed and comfortable that way......im still kinda in the closet.. but i feel like some people still consider me either a total tomboy or know that im a lezzie.. I dont really like labels but i identify as a TOTal tomboy/boyish stem/supersoftstudmuffin...
tu2kale22 1 month ago
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS. IMMA GOLD STAR STUD AND IMMA NEVER CHANGE ME. IT HONESTLY MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A DRAG QUEEN.
laugh51885 1 month ago
Look to All Young People... Call it what you want--- I am just speaking from experience but if you want to play Stupid n DuMb So B it!!! I am well Educated... Get Your Heads out Your A** and DeFine Yourself!!! Trying to Correct Me and don't seNd another comment to my Email!!! Have a Nice DaY
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SimplyMeh4Lyfe 1 month ago
ItS GoDs GiFt 2 Us cuZ We R Still WoMeN daT Lik WOMeN!!! DoNt MaTta Wha u LuK Lik or Dress Like
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LoNicks 1 month ago
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WhAt ThE FuCk iS tHiS? Seriously! Its not cool, you look stupid!
ThreeLittleBirdsssss 1 month ago
YouR Still YouNg AnD OnCe U Start haVin KiDs n A Family n Married ThinGs Will ChaNge... I Am A 28 yr old StuD but As I Got older My Appearance Start ChaNGin n never acted Lik A DuDe but it's Me but naH um More NaturaL n I LuV itMt GuY but U havE 2 DeFinE Your OWN SeLF
MrMohawk2003 1 month ago
Great Video!!!
sajm4315 2 months ago
growing up i always "dressed like a boy" bcuz i was uncomfortable with my body (which as i look back there was absolutely nothin wrong with my body) but back then every other 8 year old was a stick & i didnt understand that i was just developing b4 everybody else.. but a t-shirt & jeans was just how i was comfortable, now i just swag (for a lack of a better word) it up a lil more.. "u see back in the day i used to give a fuck about what they say, now i could give a fuck about what they say"
GetHighRuleTheWorld1 2 months ago
Yo B you are one cool stud keep on doing your thing living your life the way you see best I'm from Dallas I've been away from there since 04 I'm out here in Corvallis Oregon I'm a writer I'm working on a book about studs! peace!
Keith
keithdcobbin 2 months ago
could a stud be ashamed of her body or shy for people to look at her curves if she have any..and this is why she dress like a boy.
SistersOfTruth 2 months ago
My name is Della I go as Bling. I like how you expressed yourself in the video. I am a stud I always called myself a thug. When I 1st began 2dress like a dude it was 4 the same reason as you. Then when I grew older I realize it was safer4 me. I was abuse verbally I was built very nice and didnt like the way men looked at me or talk2 me it made me uncomfortable. Also my mom was an addict so no money 4clothes. When I began2 dress boyish it was so much safer4 me. I still do feminine things4 myself
Blingbiotch 2 months ago
last comment: 6:36 i really do believe this is how i am. i have been throwing tantrums about dresses since i was a small small child. i never liked it. honestly i personally believe that i should have been born a man....now that's something i don't share with a lot of ppl because it's none of their business. recently i've been much more comfy in my own female body (thk goodness). so all that "change" stuff is on the backburner...at least 4 now
miamivicepastels83 3 months ago
it has always made me feel super uncomfortable. and you wearing a bra. I REFUSE lol. Thank goodness im smaller up top. no shade but for a long time i thought i wanted a sex change. i have never felt comfy as a female. i am dealing with it alot better now. something came in my life that made me comfy with my body. but i still have the clothing issue. it's such a habit. but i dress my ass off in men's clothes, no doubt
miamivicepastels83 3 months ago
I STRUGGLE EVERYDAY!!! Girl look at my channel!!! Lol...sorry for the caps but it be heavy on my heart. I really don't put effort into it. it just kinda come naturally. i have NEVER liked dresses or anything even as a young child. I am bisexual. I didnt realize i like women until around 17 and before then i liked guys. still do. and i STILL dressed in mens clothing. recently i have made a change cause i've gotta bored with my styles but its still there
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DeeBennGone24 3 months ago
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DeeBennGone24 3 months ago
I feel really uncomfortable when I dress female, but I sometimes wish I could and like being female... :/
alisonglover17 4 months ago
@alisonglover17 What is dressing female?
Larae718 3 months ago
since you want opinions.I am a stud. I guess my reasoning is. Its comfortable for me to dress like this. i do relate to you in the fact that when i was younger i was shopping and was like,ooh if i was a guy i would look good in that.Or i would see a guy and rather than saying "oh hes sexy". i would say."ooh i could rock them clothes better".lol.Another reason is that, i dont have to say that im gay to anybody.females just automatically know by my style.lol(: check out my channel i just started(:
StUdL0Ve 4 months ago
hey hey. listen. you strut your thing how ever you want. If women want to dress like 19c street walkers, then you dress whatever you like b/c at least your being true to yourself. if you didnt want to wear a bra then shit whatever. some bitches dont even wear bras. you are beautiful, whatever. you go girl. your strong and i admire that.
gdragon9410 4 months ago
wack put a dress on bitch!!!!
tylicious100 4 months ago
It wouldn't even matter what you wear. You're a woman, a beautiful woman. To me- attraction has nothing to do with the exterior. Underneath the clothing that "studs" wear... they are beautiful, a beautiful body being hidden away from the world. And you are a normal, don't ever question or doubt it. :)
Chamorrita89 4 months ago
you dont have to dress like a male to get females i think females feel comfortable with approaching studs because then they can tell ur gay...
dannitycane25 4 months ago
I'm a stud, well dominant female. I got the label stud in 9th grade after I realized how much attention I got dressing with a dude swagg. I've always been a tomboy since my earliest years but Neva once thought of the way I dressed til high school. I love being a girl, gettin my eyebrows done, hair done (NO WEAVE) lol just stuff like that. But my senior yr I don't care about girl clothes honestly. But them damn things is uncomfortable point blank. Bras irritate tf out of me, jeans that make my t
SuperRejectedLosers 4 months ago
it's impossible for a woman to be dominate.
puhdussyrampage2010 5 months ago
I think your strong and awesome! FU** what anyone thinks - Never tolerate ignorance in ANY FORM!
0neinamilli0n 5 months ago
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man this shit is retarded if you fuckin lezbo and you dont like guys why the fuck would you go with a female dressed like a motherfuckin MAN
shit is fuckin retarded lezbos are stupid as fuck, n fuck all ur replies, not interested
RedLightning05 5 months ago
@RedLightning05 First, go get a job or an education. At least go get your GED. I can't even take you seriously, you can't even spell. lmao. ho please lmao.
ladyballer44 5 months ago 8
@ladyballer44 truth hurts huh, its all good
be mad u bad
RedLightning05 5 months ago
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laugh51885 1 month ago
@RedLightning05 Underneath the clothes its a WOMAN and that's ultimately what she wants. It has nothing to do with men even though men always want to make everything about them. The clothes don't take away the fact she has a VAGINA. People spend way too much time worrying about the wrong shit. You just happen to be one of them.
carmelallover 5 months ago 2
@RedLightning05 you need to go HANG YOURSELF
0neinamilli0n 5 months ago
@0neinamilli0n you need to blow me LMAO
RedLightning05 5 months ago
@RedLightning05 its not al about what u prefer its what kinda clothes u feel comfortable in.
dannitycane25 4 months ago
women trust me i know i am one but things the things u try to forget whats on the outside but who u think u is in the inside i dressed like a tomeboy my whole all my life i say but i dont get jealouse of guys in wanted to dislike them i didnt like wearib women colthes not because i didnt think i was beautiful because i hated the attention of a guy try to talk to me been disrespectful when i did have to dress like one for specail reason like church
cearaearl 5 months ago
Great topie im a stud never cross my mind how i dressed i just feel more laid bac in boy gear then rockin a dress i guess its about that person i dressed like a boy my whole cuz i was cool with it i feel u i hated dressin like a women cuz i always felt somewhere in my heart i was put in the wrong body lol i blam my bro how u dress its all his fault he wanted lil bro when i was lil in dress me up in his gear all the time but yea i still struggle to this day with gurl things i dont know how to be
cearaearl 5 months ago
Burn that bra!! I'msick of the bra and these dam boxes small minded society put AWomen in!
JewelJGtv 5 months ago
Me personally U can say I have a problem or whatever, I am a stud 33 yrs old no kids, and I dress in mens clothes because these are the only clothes on the market im comfortable in, wear a dress not even at a funeral it aint in me and I dont wanna be a man i accept im a woman with a sexual orientation problem (in society eyes) in my eyes as long as I dont bother U and U dont bother me who cares what I dress like a long as im happy in my own clothes.
Stud3733 6 months ago
Hey I know how u feel I myself a 13 year old female have trouble dressing in girls close becuz I'm used to be considered as a guy. Now I haven't figured out my sexuality but I believe I'm a stud myself thanks for making this vid I wish u good luck.
XAiRForcebRaTxx 6 months ago
Lastly stud doesnt not equail man. every stud doesnt not want to be a man, that is a very bad assumption to put on us all, I dont have a very deep voice nor an im macho, im tough when i have to be and im fragile if i have to be. everyone has their specturm of emotions they go through thats called being human. nothing more nothing less
BlastOutCo 6 months ago
most studs go through that phase in the beginning trying to figure out what type of stud is really them. some move on to older years being as tough as they started out, and other move on the tone it down slightly. Never the less, being jealous of the comfort a guy has is not uncommon. No i can not wear a reg bra, they are uncomfrotable, most femine cloths are not appealing for me to wear and are akward. that is the bottom line. a lot of pressure come from other studs, in the age brackt & femms 2
BlastOutCo 6 months ago
when you first starting out as stud (im speaking from experience) you are pressured into the more masculine way of being, how you should walk talk and act. It is a very true fact for studs between the ages of high school up to college, as you get older and get to know yourself all of that metls away. At 19 i wore the xxls and really baggy clothes, but no im 27 i dont do that. Yes i do shop in the mens department but my clothes fit me a little better, i also dont concern myself with being "macho"
BlastOutCo 6 months ago
Interesting. I don't know much about the LGBT community even though I dress like a dude, after seeing this video, I'm beginning to understand why gender is so important in the community.
Ty98ink 6 months ago
hey umm i really understand where you were coming from....ummm me as a stud i feel for me that its just a normal thing for me to dress the wa i do not as a man though i have that stud look but i do it with some femmine twists to it..there are those moments where i want to be less studish but im not going to stop being me if i do. i think for me its just the way i choose to be because i have seen a lot of fashion and the way i like to dress is the fashion sense i like most. keep posting though <3
ace19912001 7 months ago
uh shit idk baby but im tronna make u feel beautiful wasup baby
smartone23yea 7 months ago
just do you baby
licialicous 7 months ago
Im a straight tomboy chick and I feel like loser clothes are so much more comfortable. I do dress like a girl from time to time but I change into my sweats or basketball shorts as soon as possible. I do have my thoughts like "I wanna be sexy" but idk. I just love hoodies, Jeans, and high top shoes. It's kinda hard for me to be sexy.
prittylady72793 9 months ago
Wud up! Tis a stud . I think a lot of stud wanna feel sexy we just have different ways go bout doing it.I lot studs dnt admit it tho, they think make them look weak but shit we still women and Im real modafuher so i dont give a #*$@. When u young u feel like u got prove shit but when u get to that point WHEN LOVE U WHAT U R. That wuds up!!
mzlick69 9 months ago
What is a "Touch Me Now Stud"?
I do gather a "stud" is a female who is not a tomboy; but still a female and relates to dudes and likes females or both men and females right?
Please forgive me, I am just trying to be clear about this; I have wondered about this for years and have heard the name "Stud" before used this way.
1DjRadeoConscyous 10 months ago
I like to say a few more thing we have to stop judging our selves through a hetrosexual model there are things about us that dont fit.I also want to say that for transgender people there are things about them that dont fit with clear cut genital identification we all must find the shoes that fit and be grateful that we found them.
cynt123able 10 months ago
When I was child to boys clothes because I feit comfortable well long story short people may tolerate a little girl that way but not a young lady the thing is Ive never felt very feminine Ive felt somewhat feminine not much when I look at a feminine woman I desire that I dont want to be that because it doesnt suit me.
cynt123able 10 months ago
Nice. I might have to do a vid response to this beause I've had moments where i could relate.
1flypoodle 10 months ago
what up doe.... how do you on the whole new wardrobe issue... I haven't dressing in male clothing all of my life... if I dressed in women clothing I feel like im in drag
romeoisha 11 months ago
I feel you on this seriously for me dressing feminine is very personal, when i dress feminine it changes my mode, i get pissed off because of how uncomfortable it is then as u said when i use to look at dudes it would make it worse like why they get to dress like that n i cant. Dressing feminine is just not me i cant do it and be happy with myself. And I wouldn't say I dress like a dude, i dress like me. We all were born naked for a reason.
MzPhillyTV 11 months ago
So I decided I wasn't gonna read all those comments but im a stud and I went thru the tomboy stage when I was younger I played basketball and softball so I mean I was always the sweat pants and addidas flip flop type. I mean dressin "dudeish" honestly does not make you less woman than if you were to dress feminine. But when you get into taking hormone pills tryna grow facial hair and clinching your teeth to make a stronger jaw line then that's where the less woman comes in. I dress like a man b
MrDeiGratia 11 months ago
How many of you women had fathers? Gender issues are usually the result of single parent families. When parents are balanced about who they are, ie, in their roles as mother and father, children stand a better chance at developing into well adjusted adults, free of these issues.
Angel19403 11 months ago
@Angel19403 Over simplification - and silly.
dothedeed 5 months ago
@dothedeed Well you reacted to it with a reply. I wouldn't if I thought it was that silly. But don't be too annoyed cos there's always an exception to the rule.
Angel19403 5 months ago
this bitch is crazy...
johnsmdm 11 months ago
I went through somewhat similar experiences. However, I didn’t lean towards wearing men’s clothing in order to get girls, I was naturally a tomboy. It didn’t take long for me to realize that the feminine style of dress was not for me. It wasn’t until my later days in college that I became truly comfortable with my own sense of style (and lack of femininity if you will). I'm glad I went through that process. I may not dress in high heels and mini skirts but it makes me no less of a woman.
IHEARTHIPHOPDOTCOM 1 year ago
Your opinion is clearly based on outside influences. You're doing what you think works, you're not living for yourself. Just like men find women's clothes to fit them, women can find men's clothes to fit them. If that's what you want. Its unfair that so many people have seen this video and now think its okay to be as confused as you were.
darealprettychas 1 year ago
Your opinion is clearly based on outside influences. You're doing what you think works, you're not living for yourself. Just like men find women's clothes to fit them, women can find men's clothes to fit them. If that's what you want. Its unfair that so many people have seen this video and now think its okay to be as confused as you were.
darealprettychas 1 year ago
@darealprettychas its not necessarily bad for people to be confused. its a part of progressing in life. you find your way out of it by experiencing it. for me it wasn't necessarily outside influences, i just knew what females were looking for and i wanted to be that. it wasn't what i shouldve done, but did.
ladyballer44 1 year ago 10
@ladyballer44 Confusion is terrible, and leads to regrets. Life happens, indeed. However, you dont have to experience being burned to know that fire is dangerous. So I'm glad you posted such a video, and are yet replying to comments about it. . I myself am a lesbian woman that has dressed in mens clothes since I was 10. Came up in a small town, in the church, which is the only time I wore dresses. I was born a woman, I will die one. Its a blessing. I will never see it as an inconvenience.
darealprettychas 1 year ago
@darealprettychas See, everything you said reveals the realness of GOD
ilovesoulrecords 2 months ago
Id like to put my input. In high school, I was a stud as well. I was all "hard core, & a touch-me-not." After High school I changed dramaticly, infact Im not even a stud anymore. I switch it up, which every one trys to lable that as a "stem" or whatever. I tend to dress more femanine. But I also have my days where I put on some kicks, kargos, a snap back, & no make-up what so ever. I LOVE to dress like that but I start to miss being femanine, when it comes to how ppl act w/ me.
ripmailk09 3 weeks ago
i'm not a female but i just wanted to say that you explained yourself very well ;-)
DGGogetterTVflorida1 1 year ago 2
@DGGogetterTVflorida1 thanks!
ladyballer44 1 year ago
Bein a stud I've struggled with my body also. When I was younger I wore a mixture of both female and male clothes but when i developed more i wanted 2 hide my breasts so now i wear mainly male clothes. I wear skinny jeans and fitted shirts from time to time tho and I've learned to wear it in a way i don't get mistaken for str8 or fem. I'm comfortable with being a female tho and hav no problem wit a girl touchin me although it was a lil weird at first
bizzythekiid91 1 year ago
im 15 abd transgender. ftm. boy in a girl body. this helped me out (: plus i love the word fuck and you said it some!
caspersomaly 1 year ago
feel u bro hate wearin a bra hated dudes they always got wat i wanted hot females clothes that i like nd such
bustitwydeopen365 1 year ago
AND FOR ALL THE STUDS OUT THERE. F*ch that dont touch me sh*t. That is the dumbest thing ive ever heard. you are a WOMAN and feel womens emotions no matter how hard you try to be. Dudes get head and stick it in any hole they can. Why whould you short change yourself? Spread them legs and get that head lol. Your invisible p**sy will love you for it. Full blown sex with a woman is too good not to. Open up Just had to say that since somehow she thought it was the right thing to do.
Vrashan 1 year ago
whats up lady, ima soft stud and i know how you feel somewhat. I started off dressing like a tomboy like fem as a teen but liked fems and later felt as if i had to dress the part (hard stud) to get em. well did it and got em but it wasnt ME. Ima pretty chick who can look good as a stud or fem, so now i just Bette(from L word lol) it up cause its me and thats what make me comfortable. And i still Get em
Vrashan 1 year ago
Oh okay i feel it i mean it thats what u like then do it i mean cant nobody judge u but God not everybody was put on this earth for u to lik them or for them to like u but it do say in the bible love everybody including your ememies but well for me ima stud so i cant do studs i really cant see myself be n attracted to a stud i look at it lik okay dis my brah lik we cool
MemeMack87 1 year ago
ok i must say that i am a female and i love females! but i dnt really kno how i waqnt to dress!....i lyke to dress like a boi and shyt but at the same tyme i lyke dressing lyke a gurl but it complicated cuz i lyke both fems and studs!...n its hard to put a label on miself!...i jus like a woman regardless of the fact of be a fem or a stud!...i love the woman body and i love to touch it and its crazi to me cuz i get both types of attention when i dress girly and when i dress boyish!
ashleyEwart2010 1 year ago
@ashleyEwart2010
but really i mostly dress my a boy like 25 r less % u will see me dress lik a girl bcuz so of my fam dnt except it or i have to dress lik that it hurts though i can tell u that but i mean i just made me a lil account idk how to wrk this do i add ppl as my friend how do i make videos hit me up
MemeMack87 1 year ago
whats gud brah ima stud i feel u on dis im really not to sure how to work this youtube stuff i just got a account im tryna make some videos but i can tell u its hard living the way we are because of how ppl look at u but at the same times its like what eva no matta how much ppl hav to say u gotta dfo u regardless but i dress lik a boy because i feel comfortable but at the same time i still have my female ways and things but im big but not that big lol n i jus dont like wearin tight clothes
MemeMack87 1 year ago
it's however you feel comfortable. i dress up, and it doesn't bother me. i am a stud, but i love being a woman. however, some people are trans-gender, and don't like having breast ect. do what makes you happy, and allow someone to love you for you.
LILNAPPIHEAD 1 year ago
it's however you feel comfortable. i dress up, and it doesn't bother me. i am a stud, but i love being a woman. however, some people are trans-gender, and don't like having breast ect.
LILNAPPIHEAD 1 year ago
I feel u on what u were saying. I agreed wtb most of whT u were sayin. I'm a stud been dressin like this for years now at first my momma had da biggest problem with me dressin like a stud but like I told her I feel weird n out of place when I even put on a bra it's just not for me. Sometimes I really think o was suppose to b a boy cause no one could pay me to put on girl clothing no matter how much.
beezyb337 1 year ago
i fell you on that i have try dress up fell weired make me uncoufuble in stuff i don't always dress up anymore i no when i was going up mom made me where dresing going to church an everthing idk.
BeStrong1920 1 year ago
I don't know what to really tell you. All I can tell you is that all people want to feel good in the clothes that they're wearing. As far as me feeling more femme or more stud according to my clothes, I don't really care. I mean that as in, I don't care what it is I'm wearing, I just want to feel good in them and I want to like myself and the way I look. I feel as if, if I like myself, nothing else matters.
SaffronAJK 1 year ago
i like your video girl
qtgonewild 1 year ago
Hey i feel exactly where u coming from,i was always a little tomboy-ish but when i got to high school i wanted to be gurly and feminin so i tried the tight pants and shirts to shw clevage and a lil make up ....lol fuck no i was very uncomfortable!i jus wantd to be gurly and feel good but that was a negative.so i went back to the men clothes and i felt at home i felt better.and i too was one who lookd at duded and just wished i was one of them!now ima be 22years old in a month and im at the po
DJ88daBEST 1 year ago
Damn you fine you live in houston I do too get at me.
MZHUNELUV 1 year ago
thnx for posting!
I feel exactly the same!
fartje0512 1 year ago
It sounds as though you are still struggling with this question of dressing butch but feeling pressured to dress feminine. I'm an Intersex person. In my teens & 20s, I went back & forth between feminine & masculine appearance. It depended sometimes on the way I felt. Sometimes, when men stared at me, it was easy to go butch. Now, in my 40s, I want to dress masculine or butch ALL THE TIME. I'm being pressured by family not to. If you envy men, like I do, you may be Transgender.
xander7ful 1 year ago
@xander7ful i am not struggling so much as i had before in my younger days. i work on accepting whatever i feel like that dressing that day. now days i am more comfortable dressing feminine just depending on how i feel. some days i look in between and somedays straight butch. i don't criticize myself now days for not being all one way, i just accept it and me as i am ya know.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
i feel u on diz bruh kuz me n gurl clothez dnt mixz i all wayz seen my self n boi clothez n i truggled 2 put on gurl clothez
duhkiddice 1 year ago
@duhkiddice i mean ya know... its just i came to realization i don't have to dress like a female... theres a million in 1 ways to get a great look without looking straigght like a dude.. unless thats the purpose.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
when i was a child i stole my brothers clothes looked in the mirror and was like
yea....i look good i was modeling in the mirror and stuff
im a mix like ill wear a skirt and illl wear flannel but not at the same time
so idk what i am if im a stud or a fem or butcxh or hwat but what i do know is
i like ALL TYPES OF GIRLS
BrokenWings94 1 year ago
@BrokenWings94 i like all types of girls as well. lol
ladyballer44 1 year ago
@BrokenWings94 lol im actually da same way i even checked to c if i wrote this but yea i had put on my brothers clothes n i liked it n yea i was modeling in front of the mirror but i have days where i lik wearin girly clothes
droman1590 1 year ago
i love this video it answers a lot of my questions of why studs dress the way they do....I'm a fem and i love to dress real girlie but I have my days where I just want to be comfortable and throw on a t-shirt, sweats, and sneaks....but if I do that then I get the backlash of the gay community around saying I'm confusing, also by me being bisexual it just makes things worst.
TaFierce 1 year ago
@TaFierce just do you, whatever makes you comfortable ya know.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
when I have on my jeans and converse a nice waistcoat or something i feel like such a different person I feel almost stronger and more confident because I dont have to dress all femininie and be submissive. I have a problem people expecting me to be submissive I dont like it and I dont like fitting into labels. while dressed as a femme when i was first coming out, I did struggle with the idea of not looking/acting/ being gay enough. Its taken me alot of time to feel comfortable with myself.
brwnhoney 1 year ago
wow I really like ur honesty! Im not a stud, I have always considered myself a femme, Expect I dont like wearing heels and i dont wear that much make up. I remember the day I brought myself men jeans I was like wow I feel so damn comfortable I feel relaxed I dont have to look all cute and sweet. To be honest sometimes i associate wearing very feminine clothes, thats tight and showing my breasts or legs makes me feel very vulnerable and that I have to compete with other females.
brwnhoney 1 year ago
@brwnhoney they say clothes don't make the person but they can definitely determine how you are feeling.. idc what people say.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
@ladyballer44 Is it true that studs like yourself give feminine lesbians a hard time because they dress like women.My sister came out a couple of yrs ago,she used to have long hair and dressed really feminine.All of a sudden she cut her hair short and on with the man clothes.I never understood it but i have a feeling she got a hard time from the "real lesbians" and she relented and changed her whole fucking wardrobe to please those bullys.
jimmy27paul 1 year ago
i definitely feel you on the being jealous of the guys lookin comfortable cuz i felt the same damn way
tyronesha89 1 year ago
@tyronesha89 hell yeah that shit would kill me... like this shit is so unfair lol
ladyballer44 1 year ago
thankyou for posting this video wow it helps when someone knows exactly how your feeling.i used to force myself to dress like a girl until i almost went crazy until one day i just dressed how i always felt to and it felt great .it drove me mad men lusting over me i felt like a sex object i felt like men always have the upper hand and a woman is always the weaker one expected to be subserviant and stay at home and have kids but for a man its like nothing touches them they are immortal to judgemen
myangelo 1 year ago
@myangelo yeah just be yourself.. i couldn't do with dudes just staring at me.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
@myangelo exactly you have to do what is best for you.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
I get where your coming from with this vid. I feel like this too and I get a bit of crap from family and other people. It's fucking hard. I like the way I am most of the time but when I was a kid I didnt think I was meant to be a girl and I used to hide and stuff. I got into hoodies and didnt like it if people spoke about my body. sometimes I don't know how to deal with it and get annoyed at myself too. But I've never envied guys for it. Do you consider yourself androg?
BladeTHK 1 year ago
@BladeTHK yup im an androg all the way...
ladyballer44 1 year ago
p.s. the big long one is the one you read first lol
TayEllen10 1 year ago
i want to feel pretty but i don't like guys to look at me. Plus people know who i am and they tell me it looks like i'm trying waaay to hard to look pretty. They say i'm pretty as myself. Which is a stud. And I'm beginning to be okay with that.
TayEllen10 1 year ago
Yeahh i know exactly how you feel. I'm only happy when i'm dressed like guy. It doesn't feel right when i dress girly and the clothes aren't comfortable to me. But when i'm wearing guy clothes i feel like myself and i love how i feel. And i completely understand what you said about feeling lower when you're dressed like a female because that's exactly how i feel. I feel strong and dominant while dressed like a guy and i feel weak when i'm dressed like a girl. And yes there are times when.....
TayEllen10 1 year ago
@TayEllen10 yeah just be yourself under all circumstance... don't worry about what people are going to say. just do your thing.
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5starStones 1 year ago
im 15 and my mom hates that i dress like a boy, so every once in a while she makes me dress up, i just hate males looking at me, the approaches, and the lame lines. I love dressing like a dude.and i love Females, Lesz For Life <3
5starStones 1 year ago
@5starStones yea i know how you feel... just ignore the dudes.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
i understand what u mean i feel uncomfortable dressin lik a girl with tight clothes n jeans and bras and im constantly by my girl n my mom being bugged about not dressin lik a girl but i hate dressin dat way cuz i dnt feel gud in dat clothes i feel comfortable in baggy jeans
droman1590 1 year ago
now im str8 bt i think that a lesbian is a woman who likes women.. meaning u dnt have to try to b a dude n dress like a dude. being feminin doesnt mean that you cant b comfortable u jst have to find ur style thats all-there is no one way 4all girls to dress. to you(i might b wrong) bt it sounds like you like being like a woman n dressing like a woman, bt ur just self conciouse, n proly a lil tomboyish, which is cool..once again u jst have to find ur feminin style. hope dat helped. n JST B URSELF
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GlamourAngel321 1 year ago
i dress like a tomboy, i guess, but its obvious i'ma girl. Then sometimes i'll wear capris and a boy's shirt or wear dull colors and shii- all my shirts are long and fit my 'curves', i wear tight jeans and baggy ones sometimes, and i can't stand dresses or skirts or qirl shorts- but i don't really feel right in boy's shorts excpt basketball shorts- all my shoes are DG- NO HEELS or no shii lyk dat so idk- i'm still Albani
Albaniboo 1 year ago
u cute damn
xoxo sarah
snowwhite7810 1 year ago
... fun i fiure that you should what ever is most comfortable to you as possible cause you only live once..
cmbbmw 1 year ago
yea i feel for you on that subject. when i was in high school i felt out of place and ugly. people tell me numerous of times that i look cute as a boy. they also say i look FLY as a girl but the thing is .. i like to be a girl cause i like the attention. i like the people that i attract as a female. when im a boy i think that im not as social or
cmbbmw 1 year ago
the name KJ and im also a stud. i agree with you 100 %. It makes me incredibly uncomfortable to dress like a female. I do want to feel beautiful and proud of my gender. The reason i dress like a dude is b/c i feel comfortable in this clothing and femmes are attracted to this. I struggle be a "girly girl" and dressing like a female... and the end of the day, i am who i am though
VampireFreax 1 year ago
you know im in high school and i used to be a femme, now im a stud, but like a soft stud-but im definitally struggling to figure out how i like to dress. like im more comftroable in guy clothes but i dont think it really fits me. idk-its hard. hard to find out who i am.
singerbabee14 1 year ago
And sista I hope you remember your ansestors paved the way so you could do all this. Back in the day u woulda got yo Ass woped for even thinking about this.
2107ben 1 year ago
Aye! Well for me it changes like sometimes i feel like i wanna dress a little more girly but i mean i do wear more tom boyish cloths a lot of the time. Every since i was little i dressed more like a boy i mean i just wore what ever. For me the reason i dress for dudeish is because i like the way it looks and i think the reason for that is because of the role models i look up to are guys who are athletes. But yah thats me. ~sam
SamanthaTaylor94 1 year ago
can i do a response ta dis vid?
StudProdigy228 1 year ago
@StudProdigy228 sure i suppose..
ladyballer44 1 year ago
What is a "stud"? Last time I checked that was an attractive boy. No comprende.
madieliz1996 1 year ago
ladyballer - This is interesting to me, did you ever think you were trans? Do you ever feel trapped in the wrong body, even when youre alone in your house with nobody there? I disagree with society and how they are always like, females must be this way with "class", etc, fuck that.. Act however you want to act as long as youre not physically harming someone. It seems like theres a thin line between what youre saying and what some trans ppl go through.. Makes me wonder a few things about myself
mynamekeisha 1 year ago
@mynamekeisha i think i did when i was younger, not so much any longer. though i do agree with the fact i'm borderline... if i was okay with changing my body structure, i'd consider being a trans... but i am built the way i am. so it is what it is.
ladyballer44 1 year ago
Im 20 too and I dont think I could dress in female clothes and feel comfortable and beautiful. But I do feel attractive in the masculine clothes I wear. Yes, I admire the work that a female puts into her looks. The makeup, the heels, waxing, shaving...etc. Even if we dress in mens clothes, were still female even if we're more aggressive and masculine than the avg female. Jus because we have characteristics that are associated with males, dont mean we are.
jjjkkk1212 1 year ago
i feel yah ma im a female that has been struggaling over the past 18ys to dress like a femm but hey i gave up on that thats why i knw how hard it is to dress like a femm it aight easy for sum of us.....anywayiiz its easy for me to dress like a studd/tomboii i cna mix match shit like shoes shits tanks belst ext n i enjoi it alot...to yall femms dnt jugde us studds aight one peac out
LADIEETIGER18 2 years ago
Im a femme... im into makin sure my hair looks right my clothes are fitted tight. i get attention from both males an females but i'm gay. an i dont chill with females.. i chill with dudes... so sometimes it is hard for me as well to dress as i do an not have my homeboys come on to me. but in the same breath my fiances a stud, an dudes try to hit on her.. an even underneath all tha baggy clothes, my fiance wears her lil cutesy panties :)
nelli306 2 years ago
lol um this stud at my job i see u in houston so i work downtown in the lee p brown bldg for metrolift so she works on a floor or so above mine and she doesnt now im gay or no one else for that matter cause they neva asked and i dont blast my busines cause women are trashy lol but any way our wor attire is business
songfulhope08 2 years ago
and she liked so if uve tried and was uncomfortable than daddy always make u comfortable first k u cute than a muthafukka yea and i have no problem wit cha ball clothes yea so u have to learn how and when is a good time for u to test u k like i'm almost finish honest
songfulhope08 2 years ago
you shouldnt question your self on other peoples' opinions cause wut makes u comfortable confomity is something that we have to break ouselves away from so if ur ball shorts and t shirts and g nikes make u feell comfortable than baby look wear ur clothes my ex had long hair and she neva wanted it down or str8 becuz she would look more like a girl but i did it while she was sleep :0P
songfulhope08 2 years ago
But due to my jamaican culture they do not accept the lesbian community especially studs in reference to your video "not normal" so in order for her not to get beat down femme was the way to go not by choice.The conclusion to my story FUCK SOCIETY !!!!!
lilamycat 2 years ago
Honestly I have always believed studs are tom boys and it is wh@ your comfortable with I love femmes and studs and I know th@ clothes doesn't define who you are and wh@ you love..my ex girlfriend wasn't high maintanence she didn't wax her eyebrows or shave her arms,legs etc. but wh@ was femminine was her hair, I would style it with in reason. In comparison to my first girlfriend she was a goddess she wore femme or stud clothing and mek yuh pum pum wet lmao!
lilamycat 2 years ago
Wow, I never heard of this culture before! I guess I am a "FEMME"! I just googled that (LOL!). And when I was small, I would dress as a boy to prove that "GIRLS ARE THE SAME AS BOYS". Well, in reality, I very much enjoyed poofy pink dresses and gave up.
I really enjoy the creative versatility of being a female and wearing fashion. I love boots. I love hats. Sometimes I do feel kind of "lowered". I can't "chill" with dudes because I am so obviously girly... vs if I were a stud. It'd be more fun
quitejaded 2 years ago
i'm not labeled or i don't label myself a stud nor a fem, but more so of a stem. some days i feel like wearing jeans & a polo whereas other days i dress like a female does. i have struggles because i want to get attention from both genders, but it sucks because i always get my gender and sexuality confused with people. i guess some times i want to feel masculine while others i want to feel feminine.
BaldButWigged 2 years ago 2
When I got to college, I continued to dress girly and tomboy. I had decided to explore being with another woman. Now at age 28, I dress casual. I dress in whatever I feel like. One day, I'm wearing my relaxed jeans, solid loose fitted color tee and nike air forces. The next day, I'm wearing a women's long sleeve button down, some women's dress pants and heel boots. I'm at the point where, I'm not my clothes. I'm a lesbian and a woman. I dress according to my mood. Do you LadyBaller!!
NikkiFreakStyles 2 years ago 13
I was pretty much a tomboy growing up. I hadn't explored my curiosity of being with another girl. I was into boys but wasn't opposed to being with a girl. I didn't dress to attract women. I dressed tomboyish because I liked the style, especially the sneakers and jerseys. In my last year high school, I started dressing girly. Rather I was dressed girly or tomboy, I would attract guys. When I think back, girls flirted with me but I didn't take it seriously. To be continued in next post...
NikkiFreakStyles 2 years ago
i really dont try to put a label on. sum ppl say imma tud and sum say imma stem. it doesnt matter wat they say to me tho i jus do me
SouljaGirl531 2 years ago
i feel u. imma stud. idk if i can exactly say i struggled (yet cuz im yung, jus started high skool). but i dressed lik a fem up until i was lik 13 cuz idk it was ok 4 me 2 dress lik a stud and i always admired them becuz of dat. mayb every 1 or 2 weeks i mite dress a lil lik a fem becuz...idk. mayb its cuz i feel a lil mo feminine every otha week and i embrace that.
SouljaGirl531 2 years ago
To answer ur question:
In this man's world, we r socialized 2 feel that anything fem is "lower",so some tomboyish woman do feel "lower" about dressing fem
Although, I now dress more on the fem side, I do think that womens' clothes r uncomfortable such as tight jeans & bras...lol
If I wasn't pressured by my family & peers to dress more fem, I'd still be dressing masc... I still do at times
TheTruPoet 2 years ago
You are doing you! There is nothing wrong with you at all. You aren't bothering anybody. Who is society to judge anybody.
Jah Love, Guide and Bless,
Cinnamonslices
cinnamonslices 2 years ago
Good topic
KendraC 2 years ago
One thing I learned is that you have to do what feels natural to you, because what is considered normal or not normal is strictly based on what works for other people.
MsQueen804 2 years ago
the real question is do u feel like a woman or man ?
primodondadda 2 years ago
Thanks for sharing your story and being honest. Some studs have gender issues, some don't. I have had those same issues even though I am a femme. The older I get the more they go away... like wearing dresses, and heels, and makeup, and panty hose and all them uncomfortable clothes... love my bras though. How society tells you to be lady-like... what the fuck does that mean? Oops... I'm suppossed to be a lady so I can't say FUCK... my bad, lol... fuck society...
deborahdaughter7 2 years ago 8
so after a while.. i guess you have just gotten used to the clothing. and lol.. that last sentence was a good one. fuck society. lol.
ladyballer44 2 years ago
I wear what is comfortable to my body so I am very picky about what I buy. I wear cute flats and no stockings... I de