I once shoved away the one that I loved, and tried to shove her out of my love, pretending not to care, barely even noticing she was away as I hated myself. and the whole she just loved me and waited patiently until I came back to her, realizing what I had done and that she was the one for me.. and we have been together deeply in love sense. This song is the perfect description of us and I love it, even as it makes me feel terrible for what I did. I love you mikayla.
I find the part about the taxi driver hits me. I've had love spend awhile with me before, and it left me soon thereafter. I see myself as the taxi driver in this song. As for Love and Hate, well, I think Love spent some much-needed time away from Hate, and I think Hate realized how miserable he was without her. I worry though that he probably turns his abuses toward her when she's around, rather than at himself. In any event, this is such a very beautiful song.
"There's a fine line between love and hate" is a very real statement c: Whether you hate someone or you love someone, you still care deeply about them. The only difference is one's negative and the other is positive~
I think most of the people on here are missing the point. The last lines are LOVE apologizing for being "gone for so long" (her vacation), NOT Hate apologizing for being out late/drunk/an asshole. He treats her with no respect, she blames herself. Reminds me of Pearl Jam's "Better Man".
@joshuamccorkle1 Actually, Hate starts apologizing. I think he apologizes for how he is, and she starts saying he shouldn't feel bad about it, because they belong together, and that she "shouldn't have been gone for so long". He's no good when she's not around, and maybe, when they're both together (like I think someone's wrote before) he turns into some Love himself, stops being Hate you know.
My writing teacher for my first year of college this year is rather fond of the Avett Brothers... First day of class we listened to Die Die Die and analyzed it and just today we analyzed this song... Never heard of these musicians beforehand but I think i'm rather fond of them now as well...
@ecdcheerleader247 Dude, I dunno. Laundry Room and Talk on Indolence and Slight Figure of Speech pack a lot of meaning. Just different kinds. The sort of meaning they convey necessitates that stronger and faster sound, while the meaning this song carries requires this soft melody.
It's a message that it doesn't matter how much hate and indifference is out in the world, because love is there no matter what...yours and that's it forever. BTW It is not good to be indifferent. Indifference is a lack of care. One closes their eyes to emotion and passion when they are indifferent. It may be easier, but without emotion, there is no love or its antithesis...hate.
@sorayasaki yeah, a lot of their songs are hard to understand...i think it can be interpreted many ways, and I guess one is that love is a woman, and the different places represent her different boyfriends. Hate, however is her final destination, who needs the love the most. in the end, they both turn into love.
I think Love would be a girl, and hate would be the guy. Hate is the person that needs love in general. Love is the perfect girl. Hate is lucky enough to have Love in his life. Yet because Hate is a guy, he fucks a lot up and does not deserve Love. At the end of the song Hate confesses his love to Love and that's pretty much what I got out of it.
are teacher handed out these poems today in school and we read it then she showed us the song i fell inlove with the little poem i asked to keep it she said yes of corse you may have it so i went home today and made a anime version of love and hate :D <3 this song and poem most beautiful :) thumbs up to you avett bros :D
i saw this song in my english class and my teacher let us listen to the song i became so inlove with the little poem i asked my english teacher if i could take it home and she said yes of corse have it so i kept it and i decided to make a little anime version of love and hate :) <3 this song truely heart warming and poem
By the way you have two typos that have ruined the video experience for me. First of all you have "your" when it should be "yours" and secondly you have "your's" and that is a not a word...it should be "yours."
Without exaggeration and cliche, I am the epitome of love and my ex-boyfriend is that of hate in this song. The shoe fits like Cinderella and her glass slipper. Unbelievable.
Love tells Hate.." Relax,,I miss your smile...people dont hold nothing against you,,we are all angry at our selves for not being real,,let yourself go,,be free,,lets go play." Hate replies.."Fine Fuck em!..Lets go have a good time." And Love and Hate lived happily ever after.
my theory is that once love and hate meet at the end of the song hate no longer is "hate" anymore. he is broken and humble. he is now love. with out love there is hate but with love there is forgiveness and and humility and goodness.
@DylGio Im going to respectfully disagree. Think about closely related love and hate are. You can be so in love with someone and the second they betray you, you hate them. I think this is about how close the relationship is. Although at the end when hate turns a new leaf, your perception makes more sense.
This song brings a tear to my eye and a special warmth to my soul. It is so amazing.
acciosaraa 2 weeks ago 2
thumbs up if ur listening in 2012!! anyone?
tealalovesgreenday 2 weeks ago 3
plus she is a rlly good singer so it sounded just like this... exept in a girl's voice (:
tealalovesgreenday 2 weeks ago
my teacher sung this to me today, i think it's pretty.
(:
tealalovesgreenday 2 weeks ago
This girl showed me this song about 8 months ago...we've been dating for about 8 months now..I love you Victoria
TheSteamyPotato 3 weeks ago 2
@NoOneEverQuotes
WillieD7311 4 weeks ago
Had to listen to this in language arts. Its beautiful. Im so glad our teacher shared this.
MsKirkle 1 month ago
The lyrics are so simple, but they say so much.
EVideoJ77 1 month ago
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jam0blues 1 month ago
I once shoved away the one that I loved, and tried to shove her out of my love, pretending not to care, barely even noticing she was away as I hated myself. and the whole she just loved me and waited patiently until I came back to her, realizing what I had done and that she was the one for me.. and we have been together deeply in love sense. This song is the perfect description of us and I love it, even as it makes me feel terrible for what I did. I love you mikayla.
chinothe1st 1 month ago
Aahhh...The Avett Brothers, their songs so full of wisdom and meaning! I can always relate to them no matter where I'm at in my life. <333
charismatickarma 1 month ago
8 people listen to listen to only dubstep and dont understand real music when they hear it.
gtarguy22 1 month ago
I love this so much.
AccountingCat2014 2 months ago
I find the part about the taxi driver hits me. I've had love spend awhile with me before, and it left me soon thereafter. I see myself as the taxi driver in this song. As for Love and Hate, well, I think Love spent some much-needed time away from Hate, and I think Hate realized how miserable he was without her. I worry though that he probably turns his abuses toward her when she's around, rather than at himself. In any event, this is such a very beautiful song.
MrJcass10 2 months ago
I hate hate.It always have something to do with the dislike button.
narutokakashi2k2 3 months ago 2
But tears follow after, at the end of the ride, cause he might never see her again.
superbigboy1324 3 months ago
"There's a fine line between love and hate" is a very real statement c: Whether you hate someone or you love someone, you still care deeply about them. The only difference is one's negative and the other is positive~
Zeakari 3 months ago
I always cry
xCalifoniaXxXChicax 3 months ago
B.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l.
ChangeInTheMaking 3 months ago
I think most of the people on here are missing the point. The last lines are LOVE apologizing for being "gone for so long" (her vacation), NOT Hate apologizing for being out late/drunk/an asshole. He treats her with no respect, she blames herself. Reminds me of Pearl Jam's "Better Man".
joshuamccorkle1 4 months ago 3
@joshuamccorkle1 Actually, Hate starts apologizing. I think he apologizes for how he is, and she starts saying he shouldn't feel bad about it, because they belong together, and that she "shouldn't have been gone for so long". He's no good when she's not around, and maybe, when they're both together (like I think someone's wrote before) he turns into some Love himself, stops being Hate you know.
Podelonge 4 months ago 2
I saw this live for the first time this weekend in Greensboro. It was amazing. I kind of liked them before the show. Hooked big time now.
wags53177 4 months ago
First time I heard it, and I got chills
greengirllover 5 months ago
My writing teacher for my first year of college this year is rather fond of the Avett Brothers... First day of class we listened to Die Die Die and analyzed it and just today we analyzed this song... Never heard of these musicians beforehand but I think i'm rather fond of them now as well...
Rosadius93 5 months ago 2
I'm yours and that's it, whatever. I should not have been gone for so long; I'm yours and that's it.. Forever. <3
DrakeIsLove 5 months ago 2
semptember 14 2011 at 3:31 central time-
666 likes, 6 dislikes o.0
mgbeach97 5 months ago
Some typos, but great effort. Fantastic song! Thanks! :-)
jimsabean 6 months ago
My 10th grade English teacher played this for us during class. That's when I knew when he was the best teacher ever.
TooMuchPwn 6 months ago 7
@TooMuchPwn ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME??? BEST TEACHER EVER.........PERIOD!!
dmirti1993 6 months ago 3
@TooMuchPwn LOL, you go to Sidrabene?
hello2its3me4 5 months ago
@hello2its3me4 No?
TooMuchPwn 5 months ago
I personally don't like many of their faster songs, due to the lack of meaning in them. That is why I fell in love with their slow songs.
ecdcheerleader247 6 months ago 14
@ecdcheerleader247 10,000 words and weight of lies you must listen to
luckeyone222 6 months ago 10
@ecdcheerleader247 Dude, I dunno. Laundry Room and Talk on Indolence and Slight Figure of Speech pack a lot of meaning. Just different kinds. The sort of meaning they convey necessitates that stronger and faster sound, while the meaning this song carries requires this soft melody.
QuackerSnap 3 months ago
ok its official. I am going to see this band next time they come close to me.
denver97ghost 6 months ago
I THINK THIS SONG IS ABOUT MY CURRENT RELATIONSHIP
modestmark90 6 months ago
I hate that I feel like I relate more to hate....
SpartanH90 7 months ago 2
@SpartanH90 Better than relating to the taxi driver.
DMoneyMuzak 6 months ago
It's a message that it doesn't matter how much hate and indifference is out in the world, because love is there no matter what...yours and that's it forever. BTW It is not good to be indifferent. Indifference is a lack of care. One closes their eyes to emotion and passion when they are indifferent. It may be easier, but without emotion, there is no love or its antithesis...hate.
puckdiv 7 months ago 5
Six people never saw her again.
bookwormgracie 7 months ago 2
how can you dilsike this song?
kellen488 7 months ago 2
Why does this only show my views?
AorangeHat 7 months ago 25
@AorangeHat Mine shows 128,811 views as of August 5th 2011
luckeyone222 7 months ago
@luckeyone222 no, i've watched this so many times it seems like all the views are mine.
AorangeHat 7 months ago
@luckeyone222
The Joke.
Your head.
OfficialAtramental 6 months ago 3
@luckeyone222 You don't get it, do you?
EbayMjakeWinters 5 months ago
@luckeyone222 i think you didnt understand
piwini 1 month ago
Dia Frampton sings this song. Almost as good.
higgies82 7 months ago
I feel like I'd be love and my girl is hate, but wants to be love. And just can't bring herself to be that...
TheLumberjackHero 7 months ago
god i miss him...
niffymissyou 7 months ago
Hate sits alone on the hood of his.....CAR
poliCASHtro 7 months ago 3
oh, THIS will be my wedding song
peggy986 8 months ago
so liget
GramaNinna 8 months ago
love hate relationship
workdatupdo007 8 months ago
This is pure poetry.
daanbanaan789 8 months ago 3
This song is amazing!!!
I got a little teary eyed!
babybre14 8 months ago
Ah, this is beautiful.
HerNameIsCherry 8 months ago
Some relationships are doomed, no matter what.
alemmingsdeath 8 months ago
i think this song means that being filled with love with make your path through life easier but if your filled with hate it will be way tougher
musicisfreedom1695 9 months ago in playlist danny
i love this song... but im trying sooo hard to understand it and i cant...can someone please explain?
sorayasaki 9 months ago
@sorayasaki yeah, a lot of their songs are hard to understand...i think it can be interpreted many ways, and I guess one is that love is a woman, and the different places represent her different boyfriends. Hate, however is her final destination, who needs the love the most. in the end, they both turn into love.
arsenalo14 9 months ago 3
@sorayasaki
I think Love would be a girl, and hate would be the guy. Hate is the person that needs love in general. Love is the perfect girl. Hate is lucky enough to have Love in his life. Yet because Hate is a guy, he fucks a lot up and does not deserve Love. At the end of the song Hate confesses his love to Love and that's pretty much what I got out of it.
Balladsofloveandhate 8 months ago 2
@Balladsofloveandhate cool name, you're an authority on this song?
JDicexxx 8 months ago
@JDicexxx
No haha. I just made an account again and I happened to be listening to this song.
Balladsofloveandhate 8 months ago
@JDicexxx
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@Balladsofloveandhate makes much more sense now ....story of my life :/
thanks for the reply
sorayasaki 7 months ago
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sorayasaki 9 months ago
two opissits in love, never heard a song like that.
DelfinoDude 9 months ago
5 people have no souls
boywonder2078 9 months ago 2
are teacher handed out these poems today in school and we read it then she showed us the song i fell inlove with the little poem i asked to keep it she said yes of corse you may have it so i went home today and made a anime version of love and hate :D <3 this song and poem most beautiful :) thumbs up to you avett bros :D
teeheeemilee 9 months ago
i saw this song in my english class and my teacher let us listen to the song i became so inlove with the little poem i asked my english teacher if i could take it home and she said yes of corse have it so i kept it and i decided to make a little anime version of love and hate :) <3 this song truely heart warming and poem
teeheeemilee 9 months ago
true poetry.
rawrMeg27 9 months ago
i actually found this song through a cover of it, and i'm really glad i clicked on it :)
WannabeRomantic 9 months ago
hate is so sad
watcherfacehurtlolol 9 months ago
gets me every time.
MsMoodyBoody 9 months ago
Supurb.
samothra 9 months ago
hey guys i just uploaded a medley between If its the beaches.
and the ballad of love and hope " i jut uploaded it please tell me what you think
CaLebHillSmallMt 9 months ago
By the way you have two typos that have ruined the video experience for me. First of all you have "your" when it should be "yours" and secondly you have "your's" and that is a not a word...it should be "yours."
NumerounoCathefan 9 months ago
@NumerounoCathefan gee man, get the stick out of your ass... he's human and makes mistakes like everybody else...
hesdabear 6 months ago 2
amazing
hannahevilangel 10 months ago
sounds like my two alter egos.
archie9987 10 months ago
chills :)
2infinityandbey0nd 10 months ago
Hate hits dislike 4 times
BanjoSiren 10 months ago 15
This song is great amazing and it sends a chilling sensation down ur spine a good chill
francesandbeanie 10 months ago
such a good song. brilliant lyrics, and his voice, just so amazing.
twiggylovesyou2 10 months ago
@3AtomicJabez8 well I think this song is more delicate than that hahaha :)
maggielicious14 10 months ago
Most poetic song ever..these guys r pure amazing and talented...so great and beautiful
maggielicious14 10 months ago
4 people don't know a meaningful song when they hear one.
BenRussell1022 10 months ago
4 people don't know a meaningful song when they hear one.
BenRussell1022 10 months ago
To trust, to *hold*, to care.
gozardina 10 months ago
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gozardina 10 months ago
Without exaggeration and cliche, I am the epitome of love and my ex-boyfriend is that of hate in this song. The shoe fits like Cinderella and her glass slipper. Unbelievable.
kellycatlauder 10 months ago
Who the hell disliked this?
conr9774 10 months ago
Simply. Amazing.
It's like they wrote this song just for me.
hippiescummmmm 11 months ago
this could be a childrens book...and a dam good one
papacheese98 11 months ago
Anyone else Identify with "Hate"?
Brockashock 11 months ago
@Brockashock sometimes
Danni3lilbirds 11 months ago
I love the Avett Brothers, and all of their songs, this one however is my favorite...<3(:
lonleyshell22 11 months ago
My baby and I's song.-3 One year and counting.
xashlielolz 11 months ago
We are Love. We are Hate.
rochellescrew 11 months ago
My heart just broke.
jasmineparlay 11 months ago
i don't know what it is about this song but.... :'(
kkchica97 11 months ago
im crying what a beautifull song
brightstarofhope 11 months ago
I have so been in the shoes of the taxi driver....
silentplane 11 months ago 2
the words r so sick with it!!!
RatFaceJohnny 1 year ago
I love how Love is on vacation.
waterdust05 1 year ago 2
@waterdust05 ohhhh thats why i havent seen it Lately
RatFaceJohnny 1 year ago
oh gosh...... im just mesmerized by this.... it hits way too close to hm for me as well
bellahunna 1 year ago
Love tells Hate.." Relax,,I miss your smile...people dont hold nothing against you,,we are all angry at our selves for not being real,,let yourself go,,be free,,lets go play." Hate replies.."Fine Fuck em!..Lets go have a good time." And Love and Hate lived happily ever after.
3AtomicJabez8 1 year ago
So great
Awesomesaurus100 1 year ago
sometimes I feel like Taxi
StringMaster94 1 year ago 3
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amc987654321 1 year ago
I can really see this song going well on the back of a photo reel.
Zmapes89 1 year ago
my theory is that once love and hate meet at the end of the song hate no longer is "hate" anymore. he is broken and humble. he is now love. with out love there is hate but with love there is forgiveness and and humility and goodness.
DylGio 1 year ago 37
@DylGio I think you've pretty much got it.
knate08 1 year ago
@DylGio What was that the clock is slow thing about?
HicksCherokee 6 months ago
@HicksCherokee it was even later at night/morning than the clock said.
cherryblossomlm 6 months ago
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@DylGio im going to write that down.
rockinredneck8 5 months ago
@DylGio Im going to respectfully disagree. Think about closely related love and hate are. You can be so in love with someone and the second they betray you, you hate them. I think this is about how close the relationship is. Although at the end when hate turns a new leaf, your perception makes more sense.
feelit4 5 months ago 2
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152 likes 2 unlikes ? my theory is we got trolls in this cave
DylGio 1 year ago
152 likes 2 unlikes ? my theory is we got trolls in this cave
DylGio 1 year ago
2 people are hate.
phexus82 1 year ago
@phexus82 make that three
colossalcaniac 1 year ago
I'M ANGRY.
Arkthane 1 year ago
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Arkthane 1 year ago
@(o_o)@ <-- my face. love <3.
DColeman138 1 year ago 2
@DColeman138 You have big ears lol.
BlackSiteX 1 year ago
@BlackSiteX dont hate. thats his job. ^
DColeman138 1 year ago
@DColeman138 Not hating. Just making an observation.
BlackSiteX 1 year ago
@BlackSiteX haha i was kidding
DColeman138 1 year ago
This is pure poetry. It breaks my heart a little everytime I hear it.
sweeneysdominatrix 1 year ago 8
i can sit for hours on end, and just listen to this song. so beautiful.
MagicalGreenDragon 1 year ago 3
i hate how this song, like, ends.
MagicalGreenDragon 1 year ago 5
Im in love.
ag0nyNdeath72209 1 year ago 3
i'm yours. that's it. whatever...
that's what i want to say to him...=)
slightlymental1380 1 year ago
We're singing this in A Cappella....
killerferret411 1 year ago
i love this song so much. i try to hit all the high notes, but its hard cause i have a deep voice lol. but any way its
"A reason to live and a reason to grow
To trust. To hold. To care."
TheMikePauley 1 year ago
Love this song. <3<3<3
MissWildandFree 1 year ago
My 14 year old son turned me on to this......LOVE IT!!!!!!!!
troopersbloo 1 year ago 2
I. LOVE. THIS. SONG. Goosebumps every time I hear it.
Libertine910 1 year ago 73
@Libertine910 My favorite Goosebumps book is the Slappy the dummy one.
areology 11 months ago 4
i love this :D
cheerfreak12345 1 year ago
BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!
toolchick71 1 year ago
this song hits a little too close to home
maaaaaaaaddie 1 year ago 125
@maaaaaaaaddie i know what you mean :(
TheMikePauley 1 year ago
@maaaaaaaaddie
i was trying to think of a way to put similar feelings into a song...looks like they beat me to it
clicheskate19 1 year ago
@maaaaaaaaddie the last three lines get to me always!
twiggylovesyou2 10 months ago
Now this is a simple favorite. :)
I really like the end, I think that's when it either makes me smile or cry, just from happiness. It's a sweet song.
MixxelPixxel 2 years ago 2
this song makes me wanna cry! but it's so beautiful! <33333 :']
missbrowneyedgirl161 2 years ago 2
Reg's Cofee House is AHHmazing.
Noogit1 2 years ago
lovelovelovelovelove this song
jazzercise 2 years ago
This song is ^-^.
frankieroandMCR 2 years ago
:} <3
DbabyDawl 2 years ago
damnnn I love this song
reginaholic 2 years ago
yes indeedy
luckeyone222 3 years ago
<3.........
MissAlli1288 3 years ago