Thanks so much for posting this. This is very well done. May I embed it on my site? I'll most likely embed this on my site. - Please keep up the great work. It would be great knowing that you are doing this great work rather than responding to silly hate male. You have a wonderful talent. (I love numbers, they really help make your statement.) Peace, Growth and Prosperity to ya!
@freshencounter Thank you for your very positive comments. You are welcome to embed the video in your site, if you feel it would be of benefit to people.
@FollowMyDamnedLaws You obviously have issues regarding sexuality. You need to work those out my friend, or you will be very angry, bitter, and frustrated.
Actually in my schoolthe gays who do the bullying too, theres a group of 6 gays in my school who are always threatening the teachers and students. They all brag about getting expelled, beating people up and vandalizing the school. I caught 3 of them in the bathroom writing sexually desturbing graffiti on the walls about how they want to rape some guy.
@FollowMyDamnedLaws Pedophilia involves children, and therefore a lack of legal consent. The most likely person to be a pedophile is a STRAIGHT, WHITE, MARRIED man. Check the stats yourself. And as for "faggotry" being developed through liberal brainwashing, etc., what about gay people from extremely conservative and religious families - families who never laid a hand on them?
And evidently you don't have control over your actions, or you wouldn't post so much on this topic, Cruisinite.
im bisexual and nobody picks on me ;) its not a big deal its just the retard who shot the kid really and i don't care if people make fun of me really just let it be o_e
I hear comments such as "That's so gay!" at least 10 times a day. I think that if people at my school realized that we are all human and how much these comments kill us, there would be a lot less homophobia.
@FollowMyDamnedLaws That is taught in our society, but it has not stopped people from being born with same-sex attractions. The reality is gay people do not choose to be gay, or nobody would be gay.
FAGGOTRY IS DEVELOPED THROUGH BAD PARENTING, LIBERAL BRAINWASHING, AND SEXUAL MOLESTATION. But people DO chose to embrace their terrible behavior. For example I want to kill faggots, but I (unlike them) have control over my actions.
@FollowMyDamnedLaws That's what my parents taught me, but since I do not like girls I told them, what if I want to marry a boy? They said, ok. One is free to make his own life, if that is what you feel, you can marry a boy? They have always told me, if you are happy, we are happy, that's what matters and of course real LOVE. Even if they are very catholic, when it comes for their love for me, they respect my life, as I respect theirs. Peace!
Ive seen families split, teenagers forced off to camps to become straight, and a man badly beaten because a group of Christians thought he might be gay (he was, in fact, heterosexual). Christians fanatically shriek, Its in the Bible! I guess. But your Jesus never said it. Not once. The symbol of Christianity is the cross, a symbol of death. I wonder, if Christ had been executed in the 50s would Christians be wearing little electric chairs around their necks today? My guess?
man you must live under a rock, i am using that the phrase "thats what they all say" as an example of a minority group, such as the gays that have been abused in school jeeezzz.
There is a difference between random and common violence, and the kind of violence where people are sought out, and killed, just because of their sexual orientation. A person who singles out Black people and kills Black people out of hate would be charged with a hate crime. The same should be true when people single out gays and kill gays, just because of who they are.
Homosexuality is not like pedophilia. Underaged people cannot give informed consent to sex. Same-gender sexual relationships are found in hundreds of animal species. Homo-sapiens are not the only animal species where there is homosexual relationships. Stop trying to pervert what is normal.
What do you mean 'may be' wrong. Bashing someone because they are somehow don't have your belief system IS absolutely wrong. Being gay is not a perversion. You have been brought up to believe that. When you were young, you believed in Santa Clause right? When you found out that he wasn't real, your belief system changed. Don't think for one minute that what you currently think of homosexuality is normal - your belief is what isn't normal. BTW being gay has nothing to do with a peodophile.
It is NOT JUST GLBT Students, it is everybody. All groups get it,so DON'T give the Attention to only the gays. Christians also get harrassed and bullied as well, many cases even worse than the gays. What is the difference between bullying a gay kid and a christian kid, should be none. Just like with the gays, christians need support groups in schools as well. (Which does not violate any seperation of Chruch and State laws.)
Many straight kids are perceived to be gay and are bullied, because of that. Protecting gay kids helps protect straight kids, and kids of different ethnic and racial backgrounds. When schools take a zero tolerance stand on bullying, that helps all students.
I understand the point you are making. I have not seen that in schools, but I would not deny it never happens. Christians are in the majority in the US and majority group members tend not to be bullied as much as minority students. I realize, however, there are exceptions to the general trends.
Im gay myself, and I cringed when I heard this news about Lawrence, BUT, he wasnt shot ONLY because he was gay. I read all the articles online. Lawrence sexualy harrased and threw his gayness on guys who clearly told him they didnt like it and wanted him to stop and one boy took the wrong path and shot him. I hold the shooter completely accountable but Lawrence wasnt as innocent as we might think.
At times there have been efforts to discredit members of minority groups to help justify the fact that minority people do not deserve to live. That has been a long-theme for GLBT people. A lot of bad and false things appeared about Matthew Shepard after he was murdered.
I would be interested in knowing more details. Some people claim a person who acts in a socially acceptable manner is "pushing himself" on others, when the person is doing what straight people do every day.
I agree 100%. But I think straght or gay, it wasnt ok for him to harass the boys. Maybe it was false what I read. But we only have the internet to find more about Lawrence so I went by what I read. I think he was extremely brave and i commend him, BUT his actions towards others was uncalled for at most times.
I am cautious about accepting as fact rumors that might be spread. A common pattern in hate crimes is to blame the victim. In the case of Matthew Shepard, the claim was made that Matthew came on to the guys, and that caused them to kill him. That was an attempt to get a reduced sentence.
We are responsible for how we act. Our responses to inappropriate behavior are our personal decisions. The courts take into consideration the events and the information witnesses bring to trials.
There are times when that is true. Not all crimes against minority members are due to prejudice.
The person who physically assaults another person can be charged and convicted, even if the person they assaulted is a total jerk. We are responsible for our responses, even when the person is a jerk.
fuck you people in all this "hate crime shit" around here these days you can be killed for nothing. School has always been a place for immaturity, prejudice, and everything else including sex and drugs. It's just ignorant tribalism, and NO sex doesn't need to be talked about in school, children shouldn't even be fucking at that age. and in high school? what are you going to do? Just make up a bunch of shit and try and make it seem like homosexuality is natural? THIS IS BULLSHIT!
That interests you? I'm not a "fucking" teacher. Although I think it's the parents responsibility to teach their kids certain things. In any case, thats perfectly alright if you want to believe that we should accept homosexuality because it's in the animal kingdom. I get that from allot of people who support it. I don't really agree with that. And theres no telling what else people will probably try and say is normal because it's commonly found in the animal kingdom.
You demonstrate a very profane mouth. I do not care who you are, but you need to start talking with some degree of respect, if you expect people to listen to your comments, to take you seriously, or to agree with your comments.
This video is not about hate crimes. Do you have a guilty conscience? Your comments actually support hate crimes legislation.
Why not give them social services instead of letting them be degenerates? Why let armies of dykes and fags march proudly through federal institutions? Why not show them the natural beauty of the opposite gender and help them develop positive social skills toward the opposite gender? Help them learn to cope with the opposite gender so they can stop "coping" by going for their own gender.
Social services, psychiatrists, and all of the mental health on the face of the earth is not going to make gay people straight. Gay people do not find the opposite gender sexually attractive. They will not want to have a sexual relationship with somebody of the opposite sex regardless of their social skills. The fact is a lot of gay men have very deep friendships with girls, but they do not want a sexual relationship with girls.
I agree with this video. I went to a fairly small conservative christian school for years. And ss a homosexual, I know what its like to be bullied for just being homosexual. It's really difficult. I even attempted suicide once because I couldn't deal with the harassment. Something needs to be done about the bullying in schools for all people.
There is no need for spewing insults here. Either you treat those who post here with respect, or I will stop you from posting here. Your insults do not promote any kind of intelligent dialogue.
It's hard to be openly gay, lesbian or bi. They usually get harassed, beaten up, pushed around and called all kinds of slurs.
So I think for GLBT, they'd better find some online community or something like that, to come out first, where they may feel support, happy, free, like the one "BisexualMingle dotcom" is a good place for them.
It's more like this: Being part of a caring community involves positive proactive change toward heterosexuality, not homosexuality. Nature is best, which is why science and medicine are failing to solve problems even with multitudes of pills and why homosexuals are never truly happy.
Science can't cure anything without making new mutations with every cure.
It's not about "curing" homosexuals, it's about reminding them that the proverbial doors remain open to heterosexuality, and that they can still enjoy the opposite gender. One bad experience doesn't have to end it all.
Being open to heterosexuality is desired. Being open to, at the very least, bisexuality, is tolerated. I would rather see all the faggots and dykes become bisexuals and come that much closer to being straight than see them continue to be crooked.
The argument you are illustrating applies more directly to you than to me, so no u
Your faggotry is not my faggotry, and homosexuality won't change with more homosexuality. If you have a cock you should enjoy a cunt, if you have a cunt you should enjoy a cock. Any other way is a cop-out. Settling for less just because you are afraid of the opposite gender or awkward with them doesn't excuse you. It means you're ruled by your inhibitions and weak. The weak are always trampled on.
Sounds to me like you demand more from gay people than you are prepared to do yourself.
We can use the same logic the other way around. That would mean any man who has a rectum should be able to learn to love anal intercourse. The reality is life is not that way.
Well, that is true, and any woman who has a clit should be able to learn to love having it tickled by other women who have fingers just as good as their own. However, the point here is to restore homosexuals [males and females] to openness to the opposite gender. Jade from one or two bad relationships or a couple rough experiences should not rule a person's life. It just isn't worth it to decide that you love the cock because your girlfriend was a bitch whose toes you sucked for nothing.
You really know very little about gay people. Many gay men have much richer emotional relationships with straight women than straight men have with straight women. They just do not want to have sex with women. And that has zero to do with having had a bitchy girl friend. I hear more straight men bitching about women than gay men.
Because my bigotry is right and is how all straight people feel. Well, at least, the non-liberals, the people who DON'T feel a need to spend millions of American taxpayer money on a lost cause like AIDS in Africa. The people who DON'T want witches to be just as prominent and respected as doctors. The people who DON'T think women should rule the world and men should rule the kitchen. The people who KNOW political correctness keeps Americans weak and fragile. I'm talking about proud Americans.
Bigotry is a weakness. You have a right to be bigoted, but you have not right to abuse, bully, beat up, or kill people who are gay. This is not a case of being politically correct; this is an issue of being a decent, kind person. If you do not want to be decent and kind, that is your choice.
AIDS in Africa is a straight problem. The vast majority of AIDS cases in the world are in the straight community.
Many straight Americans do *not* agree with you. You do not speak for everybody.
i was not talking to you. i am a lesbian and i go through this stuff every day at school. it is so hard and so frustrating, teachers dont even say anything to students who call me a dyke or a fag. but they get mad when me and my friends make fun of christians who make fun of us. and it is stupid that in the land of the free and the home of the brave that we cant stand up for ourselves without getting in trouble.
why is there a need to openly be gay? I'm not openly straight. I don't understand that. Like I said, my personal opinion on homosexuality itself has nothing to do with it. I just want to know, why do you need to advertise your sexuality? Not many people care until you attempt to show it off because then you're basically asking everyone to "ACCEPT" homosexuality. and I'm sorry, thats just not going to happen. Tolerance is one thing, acceptance is another.
You are openly straight if you do any of these things - date, talk about dating, get married, get pregnant, have children, have photos of a spouse or children at work.
Why do you flaunt and advertise your sexuality? You are asking everybody to accept you.
Lol, how exactly am I doing that? we must have a different notion on this subject. I'm thinking you mean openly gay = guys in flowery shirts, rainbow shirts, mini skirts, looking like chris crocker and doing the things he does. Chris He claims to represent and advertise homosexuality, and I'm against that kind of garbage. I have no problem with two dudes holding hands or even kissing in public, it's nice to know they're happy.
If we do not approve of people showing their sexuality, nobody should be able to show their sexuality - straight or gay. That means a straight person can never talk about a date, children, or partners, just as gay people are not able to do those things.
I am glad you have no problem with gays kissing. :-D
People have a right to feel same-gender sexual relationships are wrong or are just "gross." What people do not have the inherent right to do is to be abusive, to bully, to belittle, to demean, and to dehumanize.
I never heard about anti-gay beeing bullied by gay, I never heard, I never heard an ant-gay beeing insulted by gay so please stop acting like a victime, cause you are not.
What makes me etremely angry is that the media doesn't talk about this, they don't care about this issue, they just focus about how *quote*'mentally damaged' gays are(not a fact.). Like Chris Crocker, have you seen his video "Gay HATE on Youtube"? Its basically saying what I'm describing right here. Peace and love(lol, I'm not a hippie), Kittycatbeck
The media is not as bad as it used to be, but the media has a tendency to be biased against gay people. Chris Crocker's video on gay hate concerned me quite a bit. I think Chris Crocker is a decent person. While I only like some of his videos, he does not deserve the comments that were made. :-(
as of now the media only cares about crime, death,hate and oxycotten(if thats how you spell it)while I do agree with some things that Chris is saying on the gay hate video, I don't think he should represent the homosexual society The media only cared about him because the is every stereotype that gay bashes hate. there are so many other people who have a better message about homosexuality than him (he tends to complain way too much for my taste)just look at the video that xypowerpop responded to
hmmm I love your points! yeah... chris crocker is in the 90s (I mean, look at his hair when he started out making videos!) What about Gaygod... I mean, hes not so bad, he does have good points. So does WhattheBuck?!
I honestly haven't seen their videos I'll have to look at them when I get a chance. I'm just sick of all the hate in the world, Why is it so hard to love one another?I wonder though if ignorant people hate homosexuals because they are afraid of being hit on... I'm straight and I've been hit on by a guy, I took it as a complement and told him I sorry but I'm engaged ( I actually am it isn't an excuse the wedding will be in 2010 if all goes well) I should make a survey asking why they hate so much
I agree with you completely and I'm glad another straight person like me doesn't have a problem with homosexuals. Actually, I'm not afraid of being hit on, I'd take it as a complement too! Just like as if a straight man hit on me, see we are all equal. I hope the wedding goes well and I hope you guys are happy =) Yeah, got your message about it. We should make a survey.
I respect that you adressed this important issue and I'll stop saying "Gay" as a adjective, even though I don't mean to direct it towards gay people themselves. I feel bad for this generation, people need to wake up and realize that everyone is equal and has the right to love whomever they want. I'm glad that you reply to comments on this video and I hope you reply to mine.
Check out how young Serbian men deal with the filthy sodomites that parade down their streets. It will warm your heart. Click on my name to view the vids.
fuck yeah kill those gay fuckers it never used to be like this even 10 years ago. those gays used to get their asses kicked more now they got the protection of the government
=O omg, those numbers are really scary! I'm only 13, but I definitely know better to treat everyone with respect. Seriously, why would someone hurt another deliberately? It doesn't make sense to me. Most of the harassment about gay/bi/lesbian students at my school is verbal, but I stay up for them ^_^ Actually, lots of my gay friends are really nice, so idk why people are so mean to them ^^
u guys want the right to suck another mans dick? and get fucked by a dick up your ass and spread HIV and AIDS? you dirty disgustingly nasty mother fuckas..
instead; i'll cut your dick off, shove it in ur mouth, have ur mouth stappled so it stays in they fo life.. then i'll cut ur daddys dick off and stick it up ur ass, then staple ur ass shut. there ye go exactly what ye faggots want. fuckin gay fagss
lol dats wazup fuck dem fagz.. how da fuck u gonna demand da right 2 suck dick.. if u wanna suk somthin u should b suckin pussy.. n fagz like asshole guhz have ass holes n a nice pussy hole dat grips ya dick until it comes.. DAT ONLY REASON PPL R GAY IZ BECAUSE DEY DONT KNO HOW 2 TALK 2 GUHZ SO DEY WANNA AVOID DAT N SUCK A DICK INSTEED... so sad FUCK U FAGGITS
great video man, thank you so much for posting this and making it a video response also.
the data is alarming and something needs to change immediately
I came across a really good document a few months back that was very in-depth and described policy changes and teacher behavior changes in order to make the school as safe and harassment free as possible for GLBT students. This document wasn't American, though, it was given to several Australian schools I believe, not sure how it turned out.
My post did not come through, so I will try again. In Alberta, Canada the teachers' union/professional association is taking a leadership role in protecting the health and safety of queer students. The leadership came from the teachers profession, not from the government.
Physical harassment can be a form of physical assault. The dividing line can be blurred. Harassment can include threatening actions, blocking a person's passage, pushing, shoving, and the like. It can also involve unwanted sexual touching. The more serious forms of harassment can be assault. You will want to talk to a lawyer, if you are needing advice for legal reasons.
My boyfriend, he gets herrased, daily he says, about being 'gay' or asked if hes gay. when truth be told he isn't, he is bisexual(not out of the closest) and is dating a female currently, whom also is. this is terrible and sad, he is afraid to come out because he believes it will only feed the flame of herrassment
Well I am far past the school days, but I have been threatened with death for being out. I have had a knife pointed at me and I think the only thing that saved me was others coming out of the club. I can only imagine how bad it is for a student in schools today.
I cannot imagine what it would be like to be out as a school student. High school can be difficult without having being out to deal with too. I appreciate your bravery and courage.
these statistics make me feel sad, wish i could help my lgbt peers in someway more than going to those gay-straight alliance meetings
MrDroopdog1 11 months ago
@MrDroopdog1 Going to GSA meetings is making a difference. :-D Thank you for what you are doing. :-)
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
They should talk about homosexuality and bisexuality in schools
MsSneakerlover 1 year ago
@MsSneakerlover I agree! Thank you for watching and commenting. :D
garysdeskcom 1 year ago
Thanks so much for posting this. This is very well done. May I embed it on my site? I'll most likely embed this on my site. - Please keep up the great work. It would be great knowing that you are doing this great work rather than responding to silly hate male. You have a wonderful talent. (I love numbers, they really help make your statement.) Peace, Growth and Prosperity to ya!
freshencounter 1 year ago
@freshencounter Thank you for your very positive comments. You are welcome to embed the video in your site, if you feel it would be of benefit to people.
garysdeskcom 1 year ago
Oh and by the way... LOL DEAD HOMOS!!!
FollowMyDamnedLaws 1 year ago
@FollowMyDamnedLaws You obviously have issues regarding sexuality. You need to work those out my friend, or you will be very angry, bitter, and frustrated.
garysdeskcom 1 year ago
Actually in my schoolthe gays who do the bullying too, theres a group of 6 gays in my school who are always threatening the teachers and students. They all brag about getting expelled, beating people up and vandalizing the school. I caught 3 of them in the bathroom writing sexually desturbing graffiti on the walls about how they want to rape some guy.
FollowMyDamnedLaws 1 year ago
@FollowMyDamnedLaws I don't think that happens very often.
garysdeskcom 1 year ago
I think you need to realize the FAG=PEDOPHILE
FollowMyDamnedLaws 1 year ago
@FollowMyDamnedLaws Pedophilia involves children, and therefore a lack of legal consent. The most likely person to be a pedophile is a STRAIGHT, WHITE, MARRIED man. Check the stats yourself. And as for "faggotry" being developed through liberal brainwashing, etc., what about gay people from extremely conservative and religious families - families who never laid a hand on them?
And evidently you don't have control over your actions, or you wouldn't post so much on this topic, Cruisinite.
arayalrio 1 year ago
im bisexual and nobody picks on me ;) its not a big deal its just the retard who shot the kid really and i don't care if people make fun of me really just let it be o_e
xmlgxrevengex 2 years ago
I am glad you are not facing a lot of problems at school. :-)
garysdeskcom 1 year ago
I hear comments such as "That's so gay!" at least 10 times a day. I think that if people at my school realized that we are all human and how much these comments kill us, there would be a lot less homophobia.
IamAnneMarie 2 years ago
Unfortunately, "That's gay" is a very common expression.
Thank you very much for watching and commenting.
garysdeskcom 1 year ago
the state should not be teaching sexuality to children. that is the parents job.
MensRifleAssociation 2 years ago
Most parents are not teaching their children about sexuality. They either are not able to do the job or do not want to do the job.
garysdeskcom 2 years ago
they can work it out for themselves then. the state has no business pushing it's sexual propaganda onto children.
MensRifleAssociation 2 years ago
When it is an issue of safety for students, the state has the right and the business in talking about sexuality.
garysdeskcom 2 years ago
Parents teach children that boys marry girls, pure and simple and that's how it should be.
FollowMyDamnedLaws 1 year ago
@FollowMyDamnedLaws That is taught in our society, but it has not stopped people from being born with same-sex attractions. The reality is gay people do not choose to be gay, or nobody would be gay.
garysdeskcom 1 year ago
FAGGOTRY IS DEVELOPED THROUGH BAD PARENTING, LIBERAL BRAINWASHING, AND SEXUAL MOLESTATION. But people DO chose to embrace their terrible behavior. For example I want to kill faggots, but I (unlike them) have control over my actions.
FollowMyDamnedLaws 1 year ago
@FollowMyDamnedLaws That's what my parents taught me, but since I do not like girls I told them, what if I want to marry a boy? They said, ok. One is free to make his own life, if that is what you feel, you can marry a boy? They have always told me, if you are happy, we are happy, that's what matters and of course real LOVE. Even if they are very catholic, when it comes for their love for me, they respect my life, as I respect theirs. Peace!
roberes34 1 year ago
Ive seen families split, teenagers forced off to camps to become straight, and a man badly beaten because a group of Christians thought he might be gay (he was, in fact, heterosexual). Christians fanatically shriek, Its in the Bible! I guess. But your Jesus never said it. Not once. The symbol of Christianity is the cross, a symbol of death. I wonder, if Christ had been executed in the 50s would Christians be wearing little electric chairs around their necks today? My guess?
Absolutely.
cold6001 2 years ago
have fun in hell bitch ah ha ha ha you faggots going to burn
SuperNoobsaibot 2 years ago
Your homophobia is showing, and it is obscene.
garysdeskcom 2 years ago
i have a feeling that the guy talking in the video was bullied in school
looks like someone needs a hug (dont ask me for one )
naszgame 3 years ago
Hate to disappoint you. I was not bullied very often in school.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
thats what they all say
naszgame 3 years ago
Who is "they?" Your post does not sound good.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
man you must live under a rock, i am using that the phrase "thats what they all say" as an example of a minority group, such as the gays that have been abused in school jeeezzz.
Take it easy I am only kidding .
naszgame 3 years ago
Thanks for the explanation. :-)
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Um . . . like jerk.
2urchin2 2 years ago
Every Violent Crime needs to be a hate crime. 50 percent of students in general has been physically assualted, not just gays.
DerektheDuctTape 3 years ago
There is a difference between random and common violence, and the kind of violence where people are sought out, and killed, just because of their sexual orientation. A person who singles out Black people and kills Black people out of hate would be charged with a hate crime. The same should be true when people single out gays and kill gays, just because of who they are.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
im heterophobic
kronx1999 3 years ago
I suspect there are GLBT people who are afraid of straight people, due to gay bashing, and verbal abuse. :-(
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Though gay bashing may be wrong, homosexuality is a perversion much like pedophilia. Quit trying to normalize it; it is unnatural.
CindaLorraine 3 years ago
Homosexuality is not like pedophilia. Underaged people cannot give informed consent to sex. Same-gender sexual relationships are found in hundreds of animal species. Homo-sapiens are not the only animal species where there is homosexual relationships. Stop trying to pervert what is normal.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
No, heterosexuality is common. Not necessarily normal. (and I'm straight for gay rights =])
pookiebear32 3 years ago
Thanks. :-D Gay people need many straight allies. :-D
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
haha of course =]
pookiebear32 3 years ago
It just means your attracted to the same sex. The only reason it's unnatural in your eyes is because you want it to be.
AlexThePaleZombie 3 years ago
What do you mean 'may be' wrong. Bashing someone because they are somehow don't have your belief system IS absolutely wrong. Being gay is not a perversion. You have been brought up to believe that. When you were young, you believed in Santa Clause right? When you found out that he wasn't real, your belief system changed. Don't think for one minute that what you currently think of homosexuality is normal - your belief is what isn't normal. BTW being gay has nothing to do with a peodophile.
Regalcourt101 3 years ago 2
Very well said! Thanks for the post. :-D
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Homosexuality has been observed in over 400 animals in nature. Its not unnatrual. How can the love someone feels for someone else be unnatrual?
spacedmoose 3 years ago 7
Very good point! Thank you. :-D
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
It is NOT JUST GLBT Students, it is everybody. All groups get it,so DON'T give the Attention to only the gays. Christians also get harrassed and bullied as well, many cases even worse than the gays. What is the difference between bullying a gay kid and a christian kid, should be none. Just like with the gays, christians need support groups in schools as well. (Which does not violate any seperation of Chruch and State laws.)
DerektheDuctTape 3 years ago
Many straight kids are perceived to be gay and are bullied, because of that. Protecting gay kids helps protect straight kids, and kids of different ethnic and racial backgrounds. When schools take a zero tolerance stand on bullying, that helps all students.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I understand that, but what I am saying, is that Christians do get harrassed because they are Christians. Even in Schools in the US.
DerektheDuctTape 3 years ago
I understand the point you are making. I have not seen that in schools, but I would not deny it never happens. Christians are in the majority in the US and majority group members tend not to be bullied as much as minority students. I realize, however, there are exceptions to the general trends.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
i would have shot him 2, fucking faggot
philadude45 3 years ago
HAHA I AGREE THERE JUST QUEER BAITS
esesmokeybear 3 years ago
Im gay myself, and I cringed when I heard this news about Lawrence, BUT, he wasnt shot ONLY because he was gay. I read all the articles online. Lawrence sexualy harrased and threw his gayness on guys who clearly told him they didnt like it and wanted him to stop and one boy took the wrong path and shot him. I hold the shooter completely accountable but Lawrence wasnt as innocent as we might think.
Stretch2325 3 years ago
At times there have been efforts to discredit members of minority groups to help justify the fact that minority people do not deserve to live. That has been a long-theme for GLBT people. A lot of bad and false things appeared about Matthew Shepard after he was murdered.
I would be interested in knowing more details. Some people claim a person who acts in a socially acceptable manner is "pushing himself" on others, when the person is doing what straight people do every day.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I agree 100%. But I think straght or gay, it wasnt ok for him to harass the boys. Maybe it was false what I read. But we only have the internet to find more about Lawrence so I went by what I read. I think he was extremely brave and i commend him, BUT his actions towards others was uncalled for at most times.
Stretch2325 3 years ago
I am cautious about accepting as fact rumors that might be spread. A common pattern in hate crimes is to blame the victim. In the case of Matthew Shepard, the claim was made that Matthew came on to the guys, and that caused them to kill him. That was an attempt to get a reduced sentence.
We are responsible for how we act. Our responses to inappropriate behavior are our personal decisions. The courts take into consideration the events and the information witnesses bring to trials.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
who said they were attacked because thier gay maybe thier just assholes
Awz3e 3 years ago
There are times when that is true. Not all crimes against minority members are due to prejudice.
The person who physically assaults another person can be charged and convicted, even if the person they assaulted is a total jerk. We are responsible for our responses, even when the person is a jerk.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
fuck you people in all this "hate crime shit" around here these days you can be killed for nothing. School has always been a place for immaturity, prejudice, and everything else including sex and drugs. It's just ignorant tribalism, and NO sex doesn't need to be talked about in school, children shouldn't even be fucking at that age. and in high school? what are you going to do? Just make up a bunch of shit and try and make it seem like homosexuality is natural? THIS IS BULLSHIT!
XioC652 3 years ago
This post is interesting. You feel sex should not be discussed in schools, while using profane sexual language in the post.
Homosexual behavior is found in hundreds of animal species. Same-gender sexuality is naturally occurring.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
That interests you? I'm not a "fucking" teacher. Although I think it's the parents responsibility to teach their kids certain things. In any case, thats perfectly alright if you want to believe that we should accept homosexuality because it's in the animal kingdom. I get that from allot of people who support it. I don't really agree with that. And theres no telling what else people will probably try and say is normal because it's commonly found in the animal kingdom.
XioC652 3 years ago
You demonstrate a very profane mouth. I do not care who you are, but you need to start talking with some degree of respect, if you expect people to listen to your comments, to take you seriously, or to agree with your comments.
This video is not about hate crimes. Do you have a guilty conscience? Your comments actually support hate crimes legislation.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Why not give them social services instead of letting them be degenerates? Why let armies of dykes and fags march proudly through federal institutions? Why not show them the natural beauty of the opposite gender and help them develop positive social skills toward the opposite gender? Help them learn to cope with the opposite gender so they can stop "coping" by going for their own gender.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
Social services, psychiatrists, and all of the mental health on the face of the earth is not going to make gay people straight. Gay people do not find the opposite gender sexually attractive. They will not want to have a sexual relationship with somebody of the opposite sex regardless of their social skills. The fact is a lot of gay men have very deep friendships with girls, but they do not want a sexual relationship with girls.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I agree with this video. I went to a fairly small conservative christian school for years. And ss a homosexual, I know what its like to be bullied for just being homosexual. It's really difficult. I even attempted suicide once because I couldn't deal with the harassment. Something needs to be done about the bullying in schools for all people.
I say: STOP THE HATE!!
ilikeguys09 3 years ago
Stop the faggotry and you will see the hate stop. There is no reason for you to be gay except that you choose to be gay and choose to be a target.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
There is no need for spewing insults here. Either you treat those who post here with respect, or I will stop you from posting here. Your insults do not promote any kind of intelligent dialogue.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
It's hard to be openly gay, lesbian or bi. They usually get harassed, beaten up, pushed around and called all kinds of slurs.
So I think for GLBT, they'd better find some online community or something like that, to come out first, where they may feel support, happy, free, like the one "BisexualMingle dotcom" is a good place for them.
bisexualgirl1 3 years ago
I fear you observations about how gay and bisexual students are treated are correct.
I am not convinced an online dating service is what students need. Being part of a caring community involves more than just dating.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
It's more like this: Being part of a caring community involves positive proactive change toward heterosexuality, not homosexuality. Nature is best, which is why science and medicine are failing to solve problems even with multitudes of pills and why homosexuals are never truly happy.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
Science cannot cure homosexuals. Gay people have existed on earth for thousands of years.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Science can't cure anything without making new mutations with every cure.
It's not about "curing" homosexuals, it's about reminding them that the proverbial doors remain open to heterosexuality, and that they can still enjoy the opposite gender. One bad experience doesn't have to end it all.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
So being open is a good thing. On the basis of that logic, you should be open to homosexuality. Try it out.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Being open to heterosexuality is desired. Being open to, at the very least, bisexuality, is tolerated. I would rather see all the faggots and dykes become bisexuals and come that much closer to being straight than see them continue to be crooked.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
You need to provide a role model for the gay community, by being anal receptive in sex 50 or 60 times, so you can demonstrate what being open means.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
The argument you are illustrating applies more directly to you than to me, so no u
Your faggotry is not my faggotry, and homosexuality won't change with more homosexuality. If you have a cock you should enjoy a cunt, if you have a cunt you should enjoy a cock. Any other way is a cop-out. Settling for less just because you are afraid of the opposite gender or awkward with them doesn't excuse you. It means you're ruled by your inhibitions and weak. The weak are always trampled on.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
Sounds to me like you demand more from gay people than you are prepared to do yourself.
We can use the same logic the other way around. That would mean any man who has a rectum should be able to learn to love anal intercourse. The reality is life is not that way.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Well, that is true, and any woman who has a clit should be able to learn to love having it tickled by other women who have fingers just as good as their own. However, the point here is to restore homosexuals [males and females] to openness to the opposite gender. Jade from one or two bad relationships or a couple rough experiences should not rule a person's life. It just isn't worth it to decide that you love the cock because your girlfriend was a bitch whose toes you sucked for nothing.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
You really know very little about gay people. Many gay men have much richer emotional relationships with straight women than straight men have with straight women. They just do not want to have sex with women. And that has zero to do with having had a bitchy girl friend. I hear more straight men bitching about women than gay men.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
look cock makes me wanna barf. andi find boobs and vaginas way more attractive. that is why im gay.
wah0089 3 years ago
And keep it online, because nobody wants to know about it offline.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
And nobody wants to read your bigotry too, so why don't you keep it off line.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Because my bigotry is right and is how all straight people feel. Well, at least, the non-liberals, the people who DON'T feel a need to spend millions of American taxpayer money on a lost cause like AIDS in Africa. The people who DON'T want witches to be just as prominent and respected as doctors. The people who DON'T think women should rule the world and men should rule the kitchen. The people who KNOW political correctness keeps Americans weak and fragile. I'm talking about proud Americans.
IndiaSevenSeven 3 years ago
Bigotry is a weakness. You have a right to be bigoted, but you have not right to abuse, bully, beat up, or kill people who are gay. This is not a case of being politically correct; this is an issue of being a decent, kind person. If you do not want to be decent and kind, that is your choice.
AIDS in Africa is a straight problem. The vast majority of AIDS cases in the world are in the straight community.
Many straight Americans do *not* agree with you. You do not speak for everybody.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
you are actually being the complete oposite of a proud american.
wah0089 3 years ago
I am not an American.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
i was not talking to you. i am a lesbian and i go through this stuff every day at school. it is so hard and so frustrating, teachers dont even say anything to students who call me a dyke or a fag. but they get mad when me and my friends make fun of christians who make fun of us. and it is stupid that in the land of the free and the home of the brave that we cant stand up for ourselves without getting in trouble.
wah0089 3 years ago 2
why is there a need to openly be gay? I'm not openly straight. I don't understand that. Like I said, my personal opinion on homosexuality itself has nothing to do with it. I just want to know, why do you need to advertise your sexuality? Not many people care until you attempt to show it off because then you're basically asking everyone to "ACCEPT" homosexuality. and I'm sorry, thats just not going to happen. Tolerance is one thing, acceptance is another.
XioC652 3 years ago
You are openly straight if you do any of these things - date, talk about dating, get married, get pregnant, have children, have photos of a spouse or children at work.
Why do you flaunt and advertise your sexuality? You are asking everybody to accept you.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Lol, how exactly am I doing that? we must have a different notion on this subject. I'm thinking you mean openly gay = guys in flowery shirts, rainbow shirts, mini skirts, looking like chris crocker and doing the things he does. Chris He claims to represent and advertise homosexuality, and I'm against that kind of garbage. I have no problem with two dudes holding hands or even kissing in public, it's nice to know they're happy.
XioC652 3 years ago
If we do not approve of people showing their sexuality, nobody should be able to show their sexuality - straight or gay. That means a straight person can never talk about a date, children, or partners, just as gay people are not able to do those things.
I am glad you have no problem with gays kissing. :-D
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
you preach tollerance of gay rights but what about the tolerance of people who don't agree with this?
craze710 3 years ago
People have a right to feel same-gender sexual relationships are wrong or are just "gross." What people do not have the inherent right to do is to be abusive, to bully, to belittle, to demean, and to dehumanize.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I agree
craze710 3 years ago
Thanks for your support! :-D
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I never heard about anti-gay beeing bullied by gay, I never heard, I never heard an ant-gay beeing insulted by gay so please stop acting like a victime, cause you are not.
emysimo 3 years ago
I preach tollerance for both sides. How often the two sides of arguments refuse to see the grey middle, no matter how expansive it is.
GilmoreGuy101 3 years ago
What makes me etremely angry is that the media doesn't talk about this, they don't care about this issue, they just focus about how *quote*'mentally damaged' gays are(not a fact.). Like Chris Crocker, have you seen his video "Gay HATE on Youtube"? Its basically saying what I'm describing right here. Peace and love(lol, I'm not a hippie), Kittycatbeck
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
The media is not as bad as it used to be, but the media has a tendency to be biased against gay people. Chris Crocker's video on gay hate concerned me quite a bit. I think Chris Crocker is a decent person. While I only like some of his videos, he does not deserve the comments that were made. :-(
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I agree totally.
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
extremely* (typo)
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
:-D I make tons of typos.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
as of now the media only cares about crime, death,hate and oxycotten(if thats how you spell it)while I do agree with some things that Chris is saying on the gay hate video, I don't think he should represent the homosexual society The media only cared about him because the is every stereotype that gay bashes hate. there are so many other people who have a better message about homosexuality than him (he tends to complain way too much for my taste)just look at the video that xypowerpop responded to
celldweller1986 3 years ago 3
hmmm I love your points! yeah... chris crocker is in the 90s (I mean, look at his hair when he started out making videos!) What about Gaygod... I mean, hes not so bad, he does have good points. So does WhattheBuck?!
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
I honestly haven't seen their videos I'll have to look at them when I get a chance. I'm just sick of all the hate in the world, Why is it so hard to love one another?I wonder though if ignorant people hate homosexuals because they are afraid of being hit on... I'm straight and I've been hit on by a guy, I took it as a complement and told him I sorry but I'm engaged ( I actually am it isn't an excuse the wedding will be in 2010 if all goes well) I should make a survey asking why they hate so much
celldweller1986 3 years ago
I agree with you completely and I'm glad another straight person like me doesn't have a problem with homosexuals. Actually, I'm not afraid of being hit on, I'd take it as a complement too! Just like as if a straight man hit on me, see we are all equal. I hope the wedding goes well and I hope you guys are happy =) Yeah, got your message about it. We should make a survey.
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
lol, makes me laugh when people attempt to spread homophobia on these comments and put so much efort into hurting someone's self esteem. Haha. =D.
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
I am not sure why people do that.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I respect that you adressed this important issue and I'll stop saying "Gay" as a adjective, even though I don't mean to direct it towards gay people themselves. I feel bad for this generation, people need to wake up and realize that everyone is equal and has the right to love whomever they want. I'm glad that you reply to comments on this video and I hope you reply to mine.
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
Thank you for your very kind comments. Your willingness to try to be very sensitive to the needs of gay people is awesome. :-D
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
thank you! :D I'm not homophobic of gay people at all, or against them :) *Subscribing for more videos*
kittycatbeck123 3 years ago
Check out how young Serbian men deal with the filthy sodomites that parade down their streets. It will warm your heart. Click on my name to view the vids.
CatholicCrusaders 3 years ago
fuck yeah kill those gay fuckers it never used to be like this even 10 years ago. those gays used to get their asses kicked more now they got the protection of the government
supagog 3 years ago
With a such a negative view of a good size of our nation's population, you are likely to be very unhappy for many years.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
fuck you
supagog 3 years ago
=O omg, those numbers are really scary! I'm only 13, but I definitely know better to treat everyone with respect. Seriously, why would someone hurt another deliberately? It doesn't make sense to me. Most of the harassment about gay/bi/lesbian students at my school is verbal, but I stay up for them ^_^ Actually, lots of my gay friends are really nice, so idk why people are so mean to them ^^
Deidara7899 3 years ago 2
Thank your for treating people with kindness and respect. :-D You are making a difference.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
Keep on rockin
KristenHartung 3 years ago
Thanks. :-D
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
fuck all of u fuckin faggots
you fuckin gay pieece of shits
u guys want the right to suck another mans dick? and get fucked by a dick up your ass and spread HIV and AIDS? you dirty disgustingly nasty mother fuckas..
instead; i'll cut your dick off, shove it in ur mouth, have ur mouth stappled so it stays in they fo life.. then i'll cut ur daddys dick off and stick it up ur ass, then staple ur ass shut. there ye go exactly what ye faggots want. fuckin gay fagss
iKingMe 3 years ago
Jesus loves you too.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
fuck u
u fuckin faggot
i'll cut ur gay partners dick off with a razor blade knife and put in yo mouth and stich ur mouth shut so u can suck it all day
iKingMe 3 years ago
Your comments support the fact that gay people need protection in schools.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
lol dats wazup fuck dem fagz.. how da fuck u gonna demand da right 2 suck dick.. if u wanna suk somthin u should b suckin pussy.. n fagz like asshole guhz have ass holes n a nice pussy hole dat grips ya dick until it comes.. DAT ONLY REASON PPL R GAY IZ BECAUSE DEY DONT KNO HOW 2 TALK 2 GUHZ SO DEY WANNA AVOID DAT N SUCK A DICK INSTEED... so sad FUCK U FAGGITS
xMaC10x 3 years ago
Latest theories feel homosexuality is either genetic or due to hormonal levels in the uterus during pregnancy.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
great video man, thank you so much for posting this and making it a video response also.
the data is alarming and something needs to change immediately
I came across a really good document a few months back that was very in-depth and described policy changes and teacher behavior changes in order to make the school as safe and harassment free as possible for GLBT students. This document wasn't American, though, it was given to several Australian schools I believe, not sure how it turned out.
xypowerpop 3 years ago
My post did not come through, so I will try again. In Alberta, Canada the teachers' union/professional association is taking a leadership role in protecting the health and safety of queer students. The leadership came from the teachers profession, not from the government.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
I was just walking with my friend today and we were both called fagots. XD people suck!
undeadevilchick 3 years ago
Thank you very much for sharing. I am sad you experienced verbal harassment.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
What is the difference between physical assault and physical harrassment?
majubamonkey33 3 years ago
Physical harassment can be a form of physical assault. The dividing line can be blurred. Harassment can include threatening actions, blocking a person's passage, pushing, shoving, and the like. It can also involve unwanted sexual touching. The more serious forms of harassment can be assault. You will want to talk to a lawyer, if you are needing advice for legal reasons.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
GOOD JOB.
davfritz 3 years ago
Thanks for our kind words. :-)
garysdeskcom 3 years ago
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Darrenbelfast 4 years ago
Your video is very good! I like it.
garysdeskcom 4 years ago
this is like my video
check it out.
Darrenbelfast 4 years ago
My boyfriend, he gets herrased, daily he says, about being 'gay' or asked if hes gay. when truth be told he isn't, he is bisexual(not out of the closest) and is dating a female currently, whom also is. this is terrible and sad, he is afraid to come out because he believes it will only feed the flame of herrassment
Iceycoldbluefire 4 years ago
I am very sad to learn of your boyfriend's situation. :-(
garysdeskcom 4 years ago
great video ..finally someone who talks sense! =) x
blairsey 4 years ago
Thanks for the kind comments.
garysdeskcom 4 years ago
Great new video! True words
Agila1 4 years ago
Thanks for your kind remarks. :-D
garysdeskcom 4 years ago
Well I am far past the school days, but I have been threatened with death for being out. I have had a knife pointed at me and I think the only thing that saved me was others coming out of the club. I can only imagine how bad it is for a student in schools today.
mymoosejaw 4 years ago
I am sad to learn you had those experiences. :-(
garysdeskcom 4 years ago
although annoying, i learn to deal. it could be far far worse.
xypowerpop 3 years ago
although annoying, i learn to deal. it could be far far worse.
xypowerpop 3 years ago
I cannot imagine what it would be like to be out as a school student. High school can be difficult without having being out to deal with too. I appreciate your bravery and courage.
garysdeskcom 3 years ago