He "Has A Lot Going On." What Does That Mean?

[mskdavis]

I AGREE 1000%.....just move on- when/if he ever doesn't "have a lot goin on" then it'll be YOUR choice to rekindle things and not because your desperate and just waiting around to hell freezes over

[Lukefonfabre9]

this is terrible advice, in that context, yes he probably wasn't into her because he's awol(awol being gone for like 1 week to a month or more), but over all, if he doesn't call that day or answer your texts, it doesn't mean he's not into you, he just has other shit to do, helping out his family, working, maybe he is having trouble sleeping at night so he's not on during the day when you're on

[askforjoe]

You are totally off, all that you said was just rubbish. Life does sometimes pose problems or situations that force you to re prioritize. It doesn't mean you don't have passion for her a lot of stuff could be going on in your life you need to take care of.

[kaligula785]

Wow this bitch is completely wrong this is coming from a 25 year old black male Ive recently said something similar to a friend lately. Let me say it may be the truth I have a 11month old daughter an baby momma that is going through some things who im no longer with but steal have to have open communication with I have recently been laid off and now have 2 jobs 1 is my own massage business and I just don’t have the time to date right now.

[iambackfinally]

wow he went awol for her

[soleilangela]

lol sloppy ... haha

[sloppyjakekisses]

I have a lot going on right now!! Means I'm still married and I can't keep chatting with you online!

[Filipina84]

OMG... Why the hell doesn't he just say so? Are guys that friken scared to tell the truth so they can have the girl off his back? What a wimp.

[MyLaura999]

Thats so true. Remember your worth it, the right guy will come along.

[ChristopherMast]

...or he's really got a lot going on O_o

[Secksyx3]

Her eyelids are huge & her teeth are grey. D:

[kyeruu2]

i still miss matt and tamsem...

but this advice is correct.

[john123wayne]

this is the second video i have watched with this lady.

she is correct.

her advice is 'right on the money'

i like her advice more than the 'couple' that used to be on here.

[rowland2k8]

shes right :L it means he aint interested, im a man, this bitch is right

[C00ki3M0nsst3r]

haha true its a nicer (or not nicer, depending) way of saying got out of my life!

i know that and ima girl!

[4nything]

She's WRONG !! imo

[teporchuchis]

this lady needs a major makeover.

[meka4996]

Wow, what a clear cut! Great!

[dark7jedi]

Much Much better than Mat and Tamsen

[TALLMATE73]

does that apply to girls also

[superkagome]

I have a simaler situation,

They guy said he "liked" me. What the hell does that mean? And when I asked him what he ment by that, he just said I was beautiful and he enjoys talking to me. I'm not feeling the love :/

[coulie27]

he's just being coy

[MaicoMoon]

You have time for what you make time for.

[EuroInvicta]

very well said.

[SilentBat]

yup, completely right, this is.

[moolikeachicken]

tru dat. Srsly though, he should be making time for you just as you should make time for him!

[infiniteme0586]

My boyfriend has work, grad school and co-op. He rarely sleeps he is so busy and yet he somehow always finds time for us. If a partner does not make time for their sweet heart then they don't care and you should get out before you waste anymore time or energy.

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

bullshit, I've been into a lot of girls... I used to talk to girls on facebook all the time when I had nothing better to do. But I have my responsibilities... Just because a guy takes care of his business dosn't mean she's not a priority... It might be true in some cases but not all the time.

[sherribailey75]

if, let's say, you had serious money and career issues and the girl you really cared about lived far away and you found yourself really focusing on work like almost 24/7 just to pay bills and rent, would you be surprised if she thought you were fading on her? if she thought you didn't care?

I guess what i'm asking is, is it possible for a guy to care about someone, but find themselves growing distant just because life hassles get in the way?

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

I've had exactly these same problems for 2 years, there is no point in spending my time with her if I can't give her my full attention and my mind is off somewhere else can I ?... Thats not fair on either of us! when I'm with someone, I want to give them my %100 and have a handle on my own life first. But maybe thats just me... I've seen girls date guys who still live with their mother! it's weird! = S

[C00ki3M0nsst3r]

yeah thAT IS WEEIRD!

lol i would never do that..

[gamerfreak31]

She's like 60 I don't think she should be giving advice.

[ncfwhitetigress]

60 isn't quite senile.

[tjackson26]

gamrfreak31:

what? u rather get advice from 20 yr old?

O.G's have a lot of advice 2 give and have experienced a lot of things n life.

case and point, the older chick n the video

[C00ki3M0nsst3r]

haha you are so right,

i was kinda annoyed wen they put this lady here... but shez okey actually

[tjackson26]

yeah... she's cool. just rolling with your tango.

[javonpryce]

On point. Correcto!

[artsyfashion]

Good advice, I like how blunt you are. It's really helpful.