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  • Fascinating- some very valid points made here. Go girls.

    (stop dating macho assholes- PLEASE do not support that in men. Make them take responsibility- or get the fuck out of the relationship.)

  • This woman is clearly ignorant about intelligent men, though she's got the cave-man type down.

  • i feel safe when a woman touches my cock

  • Dan is a closet gay!

  • @read1986 hardly a closet case, more an open and raging one

  • This is retarded

  • Gotta hand it to these ladies for their excellent understanding of male nature.

    But that man-deprecating weenie is a pussy. Do women really want to see dumbo men telling them that women are smarter because men are stupid?

  • D'aww. I love those little looks Dan gives Jenn.

  • I love it when a woman touches me. I'm fine with words but touching seems to communicate to me even more. I just hope that when a woman does, she has good intentions, instead of seducing me into doing something I'd greatly regret.

  • You mean to tell me an adult human being doesn't do any self introspection to the point where they can't say "I feel..."

    That's, very sad in a pathetic way.

    This video really makes men out to be a vicitim.

    I know that men are better than that and are more than capable of functioning like a complete human being.

  • good tip about touching, but such an over-generalization about men not having ability to speak about whats going on. we just don't want to.

  • if you want a man to listen - don't just touch him, give him a massage - and then get him a cold beer

  • ok, i'd do the blonde in the black shirt.  She looks sweet!!!!!!!!!

  • i think half the women commenting are dating tools... just saying...

  • wish that guy would stop poking her...

  • Men don't experience emotions the same way women do. It isn't that we don't know the words for our emotions, its just that we can understand the disconnect between our emotions and the physical world around us.

  • "A big one on the mind of women"....fking pervy gal!!!

  • How childishly annoying is that man! acting like a five year old, urgh!

  • @UpliftingSpirit I agree

  • Tell the silly bitch to take a hike and get over it, waaaaaaah, peace out.

  • it sounds like a case of adult and child scenario which is being described but don't most human's like to be touched??? people's behaviour can come down to a lot things including "Conditioning" and what someone percieves to be true that is not always true...maybe someone had anger issues that need addressing as well and never resort to the "Blame Game" that never works...

  • I must admit touching me would just over the line. I can not stand touching, serves no purpose at all.

  • lol, they think where dogs, anyways, i don't mind being petted :D

  • I can't believe they're giving advice on communication and listening to one another, and all the while that guy keeps prodding his partner in the arm while she's trying to talk. How disrespectful and childish!

  • @edkungfu I think that's the gag.

  • that wife in the viseo infact both these woman are stunning persoanlatiy wise

  • this is great you are wonderfall

  • Wrong. If you start pushing for us to express our feelings, we'll put up an even bigger wall. 'Struth.

  • GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!

  • she looks like phebe

  • 'just touch them on the head, it'll make them feel safer' haha its sounds like shes talking about a puppy or something :P

  • your vids are really helpfull:)

    lmfao.

  • True,but not all of us like beer.

  • Just get him a beer and stop being so ridiculous.

  • I have a boyfreind and he has NO trouble with words. He'll talk your ear off. He tells me how he feels and what's going on in his life all the time and is more open than I am about alot of things. Men are really not stupid silent lumps, women probably just need to listen more.

  • leave us alone, we are not your possesions to use however you want or manipulate, just leave as alone and we will come to you if we need to. otherwise we take care of ourselves, we arent babies

  • I have better solution: woman just shut up and let us figure out OUR problems. Then we'll come up to you OURSELVES when we NEED to. :)

  • Amen bro.

  • IS HE GAY????????????

  • feed him and fuck him and he will do whatever.

    Or talk to him topless, he will do anything you want.

  • lOL!!!! thats the sad true...

  • @zanyhands29 i think i just fell in love

  • asa

  • dan is so cute, and funny. ^-^

  • If a man is in love with a woman, he would say it and express it.

  • this melody lady is really cute...

    so sensitive.. kiss

  • Just touch his cock and he'll listen to your insensate woman yammering till he blows his load down your whore throats.

  • @stapirati your a fucking asshole. You should respect women and vagina, you came out of one. With that attitude you will never get laid, you 11 year old cyber bully. Fucking kike.

  • Jennifer looks a bit like Phoebe from Friends. And yay, she's even happy like her lol. :D

    Sorry about this being off-topic. x

  • Communication is the key to a relationship. Not sex, it's just a damn bonus.

  • Does anyone take the advice of these THREE WOMEN seriously?

  • @pello777 It sounds like it would work

  • why watch

  • the video content is so stupid and untrue

  • If a bf/husband is mad at you just put on something sexy and he forgets soon after... men are not hard to figure out.

  • I know right lol go to the bathroom and come out naked

  • I think this good but very irritating video (I wish they would actually listen to her and stop pissing about with each other) has made me realise something. Something I really don't want to be true. My partner does not have 'feeling vocabulary' . Yet I NEED to hear it from him. This makes me feel sad. I love him but... can I help him with this? I know it says something about my needs that people may think isn't healthy, but just as guys like touch women like words.

  • @spaghetti1977 its simply knowledge you have to practice over years a type of intelligence, so its like teaching calculus from scratch

  • When I'm angry, I don't want to be touched. But guys try to touch you then and all you want to do is hit them or get more angry. So they get confused, because that is what they would want when they are upset? But if I do touch them then they expect sex which makes me feel like I'm rewarding them, when I want their NON-sexual attention!

  • I have the same problem. But if they don't have sex on their mind and they're truly trying to make you happy then the whole "comfort through touch" is fine with me

  • @headalphafemale you realy must start to look at the positive side of things especially ion men.

    take the above advice but if you touch allot as if its natural to you then it wont be seen as purely sexual, but as the only time you do touch is when it is sexual this may be the reason he thinks you want to be sexual when you start to touch him. let go of the fact that there is any kind of difference between men and woman.. and then also accept that men and woman are different. :)

  • @headalphafemale Rewarding them? Their not dogs you don't train them. How derogatory are you? I grew up with 3 brothers, blokes are easy to sort out, leave them alone, and then wait for them to come to YOU that means their ready to talk. Easy.

    

  • @NoctisEreptor What if they never return to the bed?  I'm a former sex worker and great with men. In three marriages, the counselors advised me to end the relationships, it wasn't me, it was them. On two continents. All three became abusive and I had to pay the second one alimony. The third is just waiting for me to die to collect. He admits this! My two fiancés were nothing but pimps, sadly. I am a meal ticket.

  • @CuteCatFaith Bed? That is a sexual problem not a relationship problem. If sex is important to you and it is not happening in your relationship then you have to decide whether to stay with your partner " richer for poorer, sickness and in health " or do you want to start a fresh with another person. You decide. A bad counselor advises to clients they should merely use what you have told them to diagnose your cognition. If you youself admit you are a meal ticket stop being one.

  • @CuteCatFaith Hard to do, but if it means you are free of bullying and persuasive argument then you have been correct in your thinking. Men ARE hard work but that's only because we women see the issue from the female perspective, the male world is a silent lonely one, can you imagine a load of blokes having a coffee morning? Touching each other on the shoulder and listening intently on each other’s words? They are programmed from birth to solve problems on their own because

  • @CuteCatFaith their old man won’t be alive forever. Men embrace the fact that you can’t get out of death but to get as much done as you can before you drop down dead, women statistically are more likely to become more religious or superstitious in later life, men just get more depressed as they believe there is no afterlife the curtain call is all that’s left.

  • @CuteCatFaith This is why men are solitary, or more confined, who in their lives CAN help them? That is their train of thought they deduce no one can or IS willing to help them so they grow into a " I must help myself or no one will. time is running out" cognition so I can see their dilema. All my brothers are independent and rarely call me to check on me but why should they? Familiies of their own, FT jobs, Debted to their eyeballs My sex life is very low on their priority list

  • @CuteCatFaith With good reason too.

  • @CuteCatFaith I'm not sure how to advice you if that's what you were after but I do like your video and agree with most of what you said and who was the idiot who nearly ran you over on the Zebra crossing? Probably a Man driving!

  • @NoctisEreptor I'm glad you seem to have seen my polyandry video. That intersection is very dangerous. Lotsa death there. Being a pedestrian in France is scary. Statistically, the men are worse drivers here but I see women fiddling with their portable phones -- that is so illegal. You cannot even smoke while driving, in France. Both hands on the wheel at all times or you are BUSTED with points on your license. sigh

  • @NoctisEreptor You might like a video I did on polyandry.  I am a feminist writer and activist and am known for being incredibly supportive of men. If you type polyandry and Lisa Falour, my vid which comes to mind should pop up.

  • word

  • ABHAHAHHAHAHAHA ho shit tanks

  • this is true; we guys cannot express our true emotions for fear of coming off as weak; we're brought up in an environment where we'd be marked as being "wusses" if we say we're hurting;

    also, by "opening up", we risk exposing our weaknessess to our partners and thus might be used against us in the future when we get into arguments...

    it's a double edged sword.

  • the same goes for women.. do you think it's fun when you've acknowledged your fears and they get thrown at you during an argument?

    Being hurt is just normal..

  • It does feel that way, sometimes for girls too. But the main point to a relationship is to be able to trust each other

  • Dan can barely get a word in ..........

  • True. I cant STAND it when a woman I've commited to blames me for something that she felt. It may be my fault for the action, but your feelings are your own. Getting mad at me because of your feelings is a good way to start an argument.

  • Pet the man they will like it

  • Great stuff .. subscribed.

  • ahee that was the cutest video yet. Also, I lolergasmed every time he poked her. XD

    Good advice, too.

  • she makes men sound like cats

    that need to be petted and can't speak lol

    but there is some truth in what she is saying

  • "Men are from mars women are from venus"

    a book read it together men read "What women really want"

  • not all men are shallow when a girl talks to a guy from the south he isnt going to be shallow in the south we treat women with respect an we have manners if a guy wont talk to a girl becuase she is fat or ugly he isnt a real guy he should treat her with the same respect he treats all the other girls and im from the south where we have better family values then yall yanks

  • I can agree with that partially, i'm from kansas so i'm kind of in the middle, not southern, but not city folk either. I spent a lot of time working in the south and I noticed what most (not all) southern folk gained in the respect category, they made up for in the racism category, not bashing, just something i noticed while spending time there.

  • your from kansas but the south is where all the true me in america come from the blacks folks in the south get along preety good with white ones just dont think where all bad most of us get along but some dont women have always loved southern men and thats a fact

  • Nice generalization that doesn't prove anything...

    I suppose you just try to provocate.. otherwise you should learn to think about gathering evidence..and try to learn how to change your perspective from time to time...it really helps

    women have also loved scandinavians... regardless from where they come from.. just because they're nice.. women love nice, passionate men that are not too afraid of getting hurt.

  • fuck, that stupid bitch cant talk for men inless she is one , how would she know?

  • men are easy

  • There are no premium vodkas---there are just vodkas that suck less hard than other vodkas.

  • Premium vodka!?!? I agree, vodka is designed to get a fella fucked the hell up in a hurry, not supposed to taste good.

  • Heck, women don't need to know how to talk to men, just as long as the woman is good looking, the man will like her no matter what.

  • you don't have a girlfriend do you?

  • no shit, of course I don't, I am very picky, all the girls who express interest in me are nothing but fat ugly bitches.

  • well calling the ones you don't like fat, ugly bitches are not going to get you the skinny pretty girls now would it?

  • You're going to be very lonely in life. I can already tell.

  • when dan touches jennifer with his finger is funny :-p he is kind of childish sometimes

  • lol yea he just keeps doin it too. he looks kinda embarrassed that they are talking about men that way heheheh!

  • god dammit i hate dan...is he gay?

  • u hate gays?

  • @TheArtfulShow who doesn't hate fags?

  • this is so true listen up girls its nice to know ur partner can comfort u =]

  • hey im a gurl and i have a problem with feeling and my words...

  • lol he pokes alott =D

  • true but touching annoys guys too so dont do it TOO MUCH!

  • Has it ever occured to anyone else that Dan and Jenn either have a perfect relationship, or they just go home and beat the piss out of each other every night?

  • My conclusion:

    Im not a man, But I have a penis?

  • I'll admit, when my girlfriend touches me, rubs my arm or strokes my face, I'm alot more open to discussing things. They are right on.

  • that is true most of the time, well 4 me it is, the hole tuching thing.

  • These guys are right on the money. I don't know how other guys feel about this but if they are any thing like me touch is huge. Sometimes someone could simply give me a gentle squeeze on the shoulder and its like stress and tension melt of me. Maybe I interpret it as someone cares. It really is a power thing.

  • dan is extra annoying in this one

  • i agree with this video

  • we shouldnt have to spoon feeed guys

  • Slightly uncalled for, "Evolved"Human...

  • The HUGE assumption here is that men want, or need to communicate in the same way as women.

    The assumption that a womens way of communicating is "right" and the men's way is "wrong".

    Telling men that what comes naturally to them - the way want communicate is "wrong".

    Men communicate in a way that's very comfortable for them. Why should WE change ?

    In matters of emotional intelligence it's just assumed that everyone should be more feminine. I see no real basis for this assumption.

  • Jennifer was about to belt Dan if he poked her with his finger one more time! Ha Ha Ha!

  • We men are BIG CHILDS , we love to be touched !

  • I always wondered why women wanted feelings described in words when obviously that can't be done because feelings are what you feel, words are what you say. Now I know.

  • LMAO OMG that's too funny

  • the funny thing is, my boyfriend communicates better than i do.

    i am always the one to not want to talk about things

    haha

    he gets so fed up with it sometimes.

  • Coco,

    Learn to move on, love exists, your response makes it clear that you know that because you were clearly in love and hurt.

    move on and you'll find someone else who is better, that's the way love is.

  • Who? You?

  • I'm engaged, but that doesn't mean that I haven't been hurt in the past, and that doesn't mean I haven't hurt people in the past. And to answer your question, I have no idea if I'm better than your last boyfriend.

  • Let me respond on this video comment page for the LAST TIME. All other comments can be sent through a PM.

    Marriage has nothing to do with "love". "Love" is the last thing on the list if it even exists at all.

    If you want to know more send a PM.

  • lol dan is hilarious with all his funny faces good video!!

  • lol ill almost make a purring noise!!! that made me laugh soo hard lo

  • i understand where there coming from..but im not sure if i agree.... i am a man but i dont like when ppl touch me unless appropriate.

  • Actually this soo true. Im a guy and when a girl do hug me i do feel better/open I guess i should say. Not sure i do feel better.

  • When you do the same! Anal sex is for men. Women don't have the prostate like men do.

  • lol *poke* *poke*

  • Here's the number one rule of talking to men about serious stuff:

    Never tell them anything while you're naked

    Men cannot pay attention while you're naked, ladies.

  • wrong...

  • After being married for 10 years, I doubt they'll even notice that they're naked...

  • Then what's the point of getting married?

  • I ain't saying marriage is bad, I'm just saying that's what happens too often.

  • I know you didn't say it was bad. But I do wonder why people get married when marriage isn't really about love.

    Whether you get married or get divorced it's all about money and property. Either way you get it coming and going.

  • im sorry u and anybody who agrees with u, feels that way. but i respect ur opinion, marriage is fucked a lot of the times...

  • True, sometimes marriage isn't about love, but sometimes the love or the desire dies off and it happens...

  • Marriage is NEVER about love--it's about property and benefits.

    What's love got to do, got to do with it?

  • actually its all 3

  • Love doesn't exist though so it comes down to property and benefits.

  • I'm just curious about your definition of love... You say that love doesn't exist...

    What does love mean to you?

  • What happened to my comment?

  • Coco, all I can say is it seems to me like you've had bad experiences with it and now your anger or (insert appropriate emotion) is motivating you to try to convince others that love is an illusion and marriage is a lie.

    I can appreciate your point of view but you trying to force it down my throat like your opinion is fact is rude and patronising.

  • Forcing an opinion would be me saying you have to or better believe what I'm saying. What have I said that led you to believe that I was actually forcing my opinion on you?

    Did I make threatening remarks? No. Did I send you a personal message in all caps? No. Did I leap from my computer screen to yours through these series of tubes and grab you by your throat while foaming at the mouth and make you cry uncle? No.

    If that's forcing it down your throat then that is a personal problem.

  • You're still doing it.

  • Yet you're still answering me :)

  • Lul, I have no problem with answering you.

  • How about I do you and everyone else a favor and stop commenting here. Because somehow me voicing my own opinion is like forcing it down your throats. Well, according to your logic anyway, kaisergrendel.

    If anyone else wants to contact me just send me a PM.

    There. I'm being the 'bigger person' now, aren't I?

  • There's a thin line between voicing your opinion, which is encouraged, and being patronizing and over-assertive to those who don't agree with you. I'm saying you're doing the latter, but I don't mean you any offense. Good day, and I hope you learn to observe your own behavior with more astuteness.

  • actually i was with a girl last night. and me being a male i totally agree with you. but then i just took 2 steps back real quick and just focused on her. If the guy is sensitive and knows how to touch you in all of the right places then I say you let him. Like me last night I gave her massages, gently caressed her skin while we made out and among other things. It was all about her. Get wut im saying. I agree and disagree. Yes guys are baboons. lol. but some like me are gentle. lol.

  • Kudos to you then. You should offer classes and get paid for it! I'm dead serious.

  • lol. we'll see. i might start making some videos about it. but nahhh no one would pay me for that.

  • Depends on how hot you look.

  • very tru. I like the think. but sounds kinda whore like don't cha think. lol.

  • Since when were men not whore like? Seriously!

  • hmmm very tru good point.

  • obvisouly u meat the wrong men. Im not a whore at all.

  • LOL. Typical response.

    Had a guy said this about a woman he wouldn't get this statement. And the worst thing about this is that even WOMEN WOULD BELIEVE IT.

  • lol, i guess. Then maybey that's why there's more bi's now? But yeah U'll find it suprising on how i am in life. No joke. I do know what u mean tho. other girls said that to me when that happens...iguess it how it goes.

  • if the dude's gay i think he can unless he's to busy looking away, and damn your comments piss me off, if love doesn't exist, then explain to me what it's supposed to be if you are so sure it doesn't exist

  • LOL Dan's hilarious!!

  • why this movement to change what a man is where is the attempted change for women...why the perception that men are inadequate, when women are the ones complaining and hardly listen to logic

  • Dan i saw that hand slide under the table at the end of the video, lol i think someones been having too many martinis ;) x bleugh

  • dude either the stereo type persists far more often outside of major cities than I thought, or this chick is effing stupid. She's preaching to such an old fashioned gang.

  • Agreed that more men are in touch with their emotions these days, but trust me... It's not the majority...

  • I think most men are in touch with their feelings, I think the problem is if they reveal them then they are seriously taking a risk. I think from my own experience a lot of women don't necessarily want to know your feelings unless the relationship becomes very serious. If a man reveals his feelings too early/or simply at the wrong time then it can frighten the girl away.

  • jenn is a beauty,dan has got some luck finding such a princess, what a beauty she is really lol

  • *** blush *** ;-)

  • hes such a submissive.

  • You guys are great...like above said, ease it with your ladies touch of grace?can save a bita heart head ache.just havin a go.