Your vid made me cry...most bpd vids do....I hate it because even when you explain it to people they still don't really get it...it is nice to know I am not alone out there
i got diagnosed with BPD last week also. i hate having it. just hang in there. im trying to stay alive because of this disorder. living another day is like living in hell another day. my BPD is severe. ): just hang in there.
Add:lack of empathy. If somehting happens they rarely, rarely can see how they have hurt others, how they have treated others and how unfair that was. I think this also shows that when someone is away, they have difficulty to remeber that person or to feel the presence of that person even if he or she is not there. I don't know if you can learn this, but it seems BPD can recover. Good luck, I do not envy you of course. It is pretty sad and this at least as true for your familly...
@Serenoj69 I dont think its so much they cant see but they choose not too c it hurts so much to hurt other we numb that just like everything else or try not to think bout it cuz we dont wanna hurt that much, I can think back to something when I was a kid n could end up bawling but I choose not to think bout it...if u say sorry than u have to admit not only to that person but yourself you hurt someone and did something wrong..
Lol yes I'm sure been dxed for 12 yrs by numerous docs not e eryone has the same symptoms some people have them all sum people have a few but I believe u need 7 symptoms to b dxed bpd,you usually tend to devolpe bpd if you have had bad shit happen to you,sum of my mi probs I was born wit others from my life!
You should use a split/splice technique in life, its how I defeated depression. Put simply, it's a method where you stand back and ask yourself "Am I making this decision cos I am me or cos I have a mental issue, which is talking me or the issue!" That's the split part, taking it into two parts, then splicing them together once you realise which decision is more you and not the issue.
Your vid made me cry...most bpd vids do....I hate it because even when you explain it to people they still don't really get it...it is nice to know I am not alone out there
misslilyanne23 2 months ago
i am 31 and i have BPD i know what it feels like and i love your video. it helps knowing someone really understands
bellaiam1 3 months ago
i got diagnosed with BPD last week also. i hate having it. just hang in there. im trying to stay alive because of this disorder. living another day is like living in hell another day. my BPD is severe. ): just hang in there.
lovetodrinkink 5 months ago
I'm not diagnosed or anything, but I've said almost everything I just read in this video.
twistedwikked 5 months ago
Add:lack of empathy. If somehting happens they rarely, rarely can see how they have hurt others, how they have treated others and how unfair that was. I think this also shows that when someone is away, they have difficulty to remeber that person or to feel the presence of that person even if he or she is not there. I don't know if you can learn this, but it seems BPD can recover. Good luck, I do not envy you of course. It is pretty sad and this at least as true for your familly...
Serenoj69 5 months ago
@Serenoj69 I dont think its so much they cant see but they choose not too c it hurts so much to hurt other we numb that just like everything else or try not to think bout it cuz we dont wanna hurt that much, I can think back to something when I was a kid n could end up bawling but I choose not to think bout it...if u say sorry than u have to admit not only to that person but yourself you hurt someone and did something wrong..
slushpuppy777 1 month ago
I just got diagnosed with a personality disorder last week.
cheetahcupcakez 6 months ago
such sick beauty that keeps us barely holding to breath. only but that someone would catch my tears should i remain, oft caring not even for my seed.
MegaRomeg 9 months ago
Lol yes I'm sure been dxed for 12 yrs by numerous docs not e eryone has the same symptoms some people have them all sum people have a few but I believe u need 7 symptoms to b dxed bpd,you usually tend to devolpe bpd if you have had bad shit happen to you,sum of my mi probs I was born wit others from my life!
slushpuppy777 1 year ago
:o there were some things that i read that i feel but not all of them how can u be sure u have bpd? and how can u get it?
muffinheads4life 1 year ago
good video hun.. im going through the same thing. and just hope ur getting better Xxx..
TSBNT 1 year ago
really well put together vid! i commend your bravery/courage in expressing yourself to reach out to others...that's a very rare but great quality :)
parryotter9 1 year ago
You should use a split/splice technique in life, its how I defeated depression. Put simply, it's a method where you stand back and ask yourself "Am I making this decision cos I am me or cos I have a mental issue, which is talking me or the issue!" That's the split part, taking it into two parts, then splicing them together once you realise which decision is more you and not the issue.
VisionGhostPoet 1 year ago
Scarily....i can relate to this, self harm, black n white thinking....
good video tho!!!
justlotte82 1 year ago