16yr old thinking about marriage

[LYRICALLYCORRECT]

idk why but this video is not playin for me..aw well blame youtube...but im sure it was another good video

[shanealatrice]

PLEASE DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Marriage is not something that you can just go into because of LOVE. Marriage is much more than love... MUCH MUCH MORE.

Please pray about it ALOT and listen to his answer...

[presuchz21]

ok, where's her parents in this?

[Lexiheartssk8tr]

Why would he like to come here?(puerto rico),this place sucks...p.s.i live here so yeah :P

[1VEVE]

I think they are both way too young. Still in school, still in the care of parents. Jus becuz he said he wants 2 marry u dont mean anything. Some ppl dont value marriage anyway. It is obviously neither 1 of them dont know what it takes to have a marriage. When they do get married that mean they might want to have sex. sex is a chance of having babies & at the age its too young. How well you guys support eachother living N parents home. Some ppl make it,but way go through a struggle?wait i am @22

[Zeeroyuy]

I not against 16 year olds getting married but in this day and age I'd tell her to wait.

[NikiD40]

Great advice and thanks for sharing.

Blessings.

[Manniemanolo]

I'll say if you have something on your mind don't hide it, be honest. Communication is important.

[PearlfectJourney]

I agree. True love waits, and true love never fails.

[deandrakixx1]

they should definately enjoy their youth.

[Teee100]

Enjoy this time my young friend and educate yourself so when the time comes for you take a partner you will have something to bring to the table to support yourself as well as your family. Marriage can be a beautiful thing...just take your time.

[CYRINTHIA212]

you gave wonderful advice. i have a 17yr old daughter who will be 18yrs old in 5months and my daughter and her boyfriend is talking about marring her. he is a wonderful young man. i told my daughter she should wait intil she finish college but hey it's her life and i support her no matter what

[butterfli78]

i feel 16 is a too young to get married. she should take her time and finish school. if he really loves her he will wait. how are they gonna survive??? life is so rough, she should enjoy being a teen. you are a teen only once in your life but have a lifetime to be an adult.

[brnize1969]

I think you gave her great advice. Like you said, marriage should be for life. Be sure this is what you want to do before you take that leap. Marriage is easy to get into but hard to come out of.

[dbrunsonsr]

U have a good point, but each person is unique. Some mature quickly, are ready to settle early, and r successful at it.

Some take a while longer.

[dbrunsonsr]

Check your PM concerning my answer.

[TheMFDGrind]

Great advice ....

[HrdAsRocsLiteAsButtr]

this is to the 16 year old

im 15 almost 16 and i have been with a guy for a 1 year 1/2 and to tell you the truth he asked me to marry him many tiimes but i taell you like this your young and you have your whole life ahead of you if you dn't want to marry him speak up and out loud and clear and make sure you do it in away tht is not degrading. love is crazy dn't loose your self in lit

[dbrunsonsr]

@HrdAsRocsLiteAsButtr

Very wise way of looking at it.

[solidice242]

i don't think anyone should get married before 25 8months isn't a long time to be in a relationship. its good that he doesn't pressure her for sex though but there is no rush to get married they definitely should wait.

[KnoxieTy201]

@solidice242

25??

well everyone has their own opinion. but I married at 19, and Im 21 now. I feel like as long as your grown, and mentally mature, then its cool to marry young. but At age 16... no, I think she should finish school, and and see where you want to be in life...

[dbrunsonsr]

@KnoxieTy201

That makes plenty of sense.

[solidice242]

@ KnoxieTy201

yea i say 25 because i feel like you should experience life and get to know yourself before you commit to another person. i am 26 now and my bf and i have been together 4 years now and how i felt about him when i was 22 isnt how i feel about him now. i still love him only in a different way... i feel when you're in your teens and early 20s you sometimes have this fairytale idea of life and love. but i agree with you too that it depends on the persons and their maturity level...

[Matchez93]

Well, I'm 16 and i told my boyfriend that i wasn't comfortable talking about marriage and kids, since, i AM still a kid, myself. But as soon as i told him, he thought i was breaking up with him. Now he's my exboyfriend and we dont talk anymore. I miss him, alot though. ):

[dbrunsonsr]

@Matchez93 That's okay honey. U were honest and used common sense. It seems u were more of an adult than he was.

[Matchez93]

Yea, i suppose i was. :)

Even though he's 5 years older than me.

[dbrunsonsr]

U probably already know this but females mature at a faster rate than males. Usually about 4-5 yrs ahead, (if u r the same age).

That's just the avg. Some boys take a real long time to "grow up".

I have confidence in u that u will make some really healthy decisions in your lifetime. I wish the best 4 u.

[dlovely138]

I agree about the waiting until ur 18 and a high school graduate. I actually agree with everything you said.

[BioKitten1391]

Im am 18 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and marriage has still not come up in my mind because of collage, work etc. 16 is too young. stay in school and study thats all you need to do right now.

[MrsLilBearLove]

the fact that this 16 yr old is coming to someone on the internet about this and not her parents shows that she is not mature enough to get married bcuz secretly she knows what her parents will say this is something she needs to be speaking with her parents about

[dbrunsonsr]

@MrsLilBearLove

Sometimes, ppl r in situations where talking w/parents is impossible. When I was young, I needed an outlet like this and had none. I was messed up for years.

[MrsLilBearLove]

well she cannot get married without her parents permission and her parents would be the only ones honestly that would know whether she is mature enough to be married .... beside the fact that marriage isn't like hiding a boyfriend or getting a piercing it is a union bonding to people together its much bigger than anything else this should be the situation where u have to make the impossible happen u can't consult online about marriage esp. at 16 when u take everyones word and run with it

[dbrunsonsr]

What u said is true, especially the part about taking someone's word.

In cases like this, there may be ppl that give less-than-correct advice, and then there r those like u, (and many others), who will tell this child something healthy.

Thank u.

[HrdAsRocsLiteAsButtr]

good point

[litlkutie]

very true. me and my bf been together since we were 17. we never broke up and now we are 21. would i like to marry him? yes. but like you said no need to rush. point being, she should definately wait because they could be in a phase right now. i was in that phase as well. my bf proposed to me like 2 years ago. but we both decided to just wait.

[4LOSTSOULSONLY]

This is my advice for the 16 year old girl:Do not do anything sexual at all period and wait until both of you graduate from high school and college and then if he is still a real gentleman and has a job,business,or career started then get married.

[ghostwritercha]

Don't do it!! No disrespect to the young lady, but young love is just that. Young!

Everyone has the responsibility to explore their likes and dislikes. He might be gold now, but how will things look in 5 years?

I'm not saying don't believe in his love, but don't rush. If it's genuine, he'll wait.

[tbyrd1990]

That wonderful advice i had the same situation and im 19 and we are getting married this coming friday, but we had to mature and experience the world. We had a slightly different situation though , but you have to tak ethings slow.

[lovelyti2002]

Congrats!!

[laylaWilliams22]

@lovelyti2002 girl bulshyt. wat world have u exprieneced??/ girl when yal turn 24 all that is gona change. 19 is 2 young 4 such an Adult move.

[Jamaican1980sVideos]

Good advice.