State of Black Relationships - Interesting Dialogue

[KharismaBrown]

@427skies. I agree with you wholeheartedly. Good Black women should not waste their time listening to irrelevant stuff that does not apply to them. I'm going to keep doing my thing and hopefully I will meet a Black man who appreciates a woman like myself.

[KharismaBrown]

@Vincent15641. It is beating her down because the men in this video and others often have negative ish to say about Black women instead of positive. Just like Black men get tired of it, we are getting tired of it. It would be considered constructive criticism if both sides of the issue were discussed. In order to "get our Black community together" we have to support one another & find the beauty in one another instead of pre-judging/mis-judging. It's not fair to judge all Black women by a few.

[KharismaBrown]

When will Black men stand up for Black women instead of beating us down?

[vincent15641]

@KharismaBrown If a black man tells a black woman what she is doing wrong, how is that beating her down or hating her? If I saw you were unknowingly about to step into a trap, If I hated you I would not say anything.

The problem with black women is they do not respect what black men have to say and assume we are beating them down instead of offering constructive criticism so we can get our black community together.

[427skies]

@KharismaBrown I don't know, but whatever. I don't even stress over Black men. That's their problem, not mine. I'm not waiting for the "perfect Black man", nope. I'm moving forward and keepin my options open.

[KharismaBrown]

Black soccer moms really????? Black woman is too busy working 2 jobs to support her family to be a damn soccer mom. That dude sounded stupid! Love the video though! :-)

[Twoodssax1234567]

Why do black women have babies with these sorry ass no good low life unemployed bombs??? Please feel free to explain.

[musclesfromsomalia]

@Twoodssax1234567 because u cant choose who u gonna hve babies with its fate ,,,or u dont believe that?

[SoSeductive1981]

@Twoodssax1234567 From a woman's perspective, some women (not all) have such low self-esteem or they've become so desperate that they will settle just for any man just for the sake to show the world that they have a man. Alot of women have fallen for this lie that having a man in their lives makes them complete. Then when women start dating that man, some women fail to look at the red flags (paying attention to their movements, behaviors, etc) that show that the person is not a good man.

[SoSeductive1981]

Another thing is looking at some females that I've known and worked with, a lot of people stupidly still have unprotected sex with their partners and that could end up as a result of unplanned pregnancy.

[SoSeductive1981]

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[middleofmars]

70% of BW 25 to 35 with their own houses??????? Where the hell she get that number??? Good point to the one guy, about being ready to be married to a person rather than a check off of your to do list. Degree, house, car, kids, tummy tuck, husband respectively. After you've placed all these things ahead of uniting with the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with, he's not there waiting. Its all about decisions. Don't blame men for not waiting around for your life's decisions.

[gierk27]

It's amazing how that guy was saying that black women need to take a leaf out of a white woman's book and be a "soccer mum". He has to realise that any woman can be a soccer mum as long as the man can fully take care of her and the children without having to rely on welfare. Seriously, what successful woman of any race would be prepared to give up her home and independence and be with a man who cannot actually provide for her better than she can provide for herself.

[BiGsImY]

Wow, this is awesome man.

[FitnessGuru1988]

The womans body language from 1:06 - 1:27 is off the charts. You tell she's very combative. For the record to any woman like her it's not necessary to smack or pat your hand for each syllable of a word you say, doesn't make your argument anymore valid.....

[peasah2005]

It's up to us to make our relationship amongst each other, stronger, healther, wiser etc.

[chrisinft]

good video

[jamjr1972]

Cocoaian- a people of one tounge with a skin tone from very light to very dark (brown skin) i see a change in our women! she is seeing her self worth. the Cocoaian woman doesn't need make-up to feel actractive nor her hair straightened! she love just how she's made! she brings honor to herself in ways the Cocaian male will honor her! as a Cocoaian male i am thankful to God that he is changing the minds of my people! us males need to love, honor, and repect ourselves, so oue women will too!

[jamjr1972]

this is what has to happen, call not yourselves african american or a color( black)! why not african american? people who came from africa and got legal rights or the children born american, but are africans can use this term! why not black? black only is one color our race has many colors! we have to accept the fact this is now home and put the slave mind in the grave! i look at my skin it is brown, i look at others it either lighter or darker! i choose to use Cocoaian because we are different!

[Jayjen35]

Man, "White soccer moms know their role and don't give their husbands grief" ????

Just then thousands of white guys huddled in their man caves hoping to have at least an hour before they have to take care of the kids, do the dishes or vacuum the house in order to help their wives or hear about it for the next few days, just sat and yelled "are you *ucking kidding me???"

Seriously, where do black men get these flights of fancy about submissive white women. I've never seen one myself

[harkying99]

From the same place white people get the idea that we black men are all criminals or failures and dead beats.The Media.

[caramelprincessxxx41]

@Jayjen35 its true and what is even more interesting is the following: Marital stability studies published on the Education Resources Information Center found that White female-Black male unions are more prone to result in a divorce than White-White marriages are, while Black female-White male marriages show substantially lower rates of divorce than White-White marriages. SO, if white women know their ROLES why do they have high divorce rates with both men?

[ouch2112]

Haha, that's funny to me what this guy thinks about white women. Soccer moms are not always happy and definitely don't always "know their place"

[izzyice123]

It is important to focus on our issues and NOT compare white woman to black women because it takes away from finding the solution to OUR issues as a black nation.