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  • I assume that these two have both done an extensive study on internet relationships,or they have psychology degrees... Because if not, then they are just people that are being paid to ramble out their opinions.

    But wait!.. what would researchers and psychologist be doing on Youtube?!?! ..... ..... yeah, they probably are cashiers at the local Walmart.

    Shows what you two know. lol

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  • dear dan and jen how do u work on a webcam

  • this is very very lame... yes you can fill in the gaps of what you think they are but... people really!!! its ok, if you know who they are... see then via web cam... all that matter is that you care...

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  • im in a online relationship. we've known eachother for over 5 years. we love eachother deeply. we plan on meeting very soon, and we talk to eachother through phone/computer. my parents know about him, as do his. were both happy. and we 've been together for almost 6 months, and i can truly say, i 'm inlove. i know his problems, and he knows mine. we know eachother so well. and i feel bonded. i 'm 100% happy. and things are only getting better. i disagree with this video. <3

  • hey did it work?

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  • OMG I can't believe you say you have to make a lot of effort when being with someone else "you have to listen, pay attention and watch your body language"... ARE YOU SERIOUS??? You sound like a self centered, lazy, ignorant bitch who hasn't ever done anything truly hard in her life. Some people who've met online marry. It just needs two mature, commited and honest people that know what they want for it to work.

  • Calm down, oh my god.

  • Pretty interesting video. Thumbs up and subscribed to it.

    well.. there's this girl whom i have never really met but can click on pretty well is going to meet up with me soon next month when i graduate, we already plan for holiday trips when she fly over..

    I dunno how things will go.. but i admit it does feel scary if there're expectation and it isn't met. Wwe're in a close friendship sort.

    Ps: i hvae some personal question too.. but let me know how u feel about this

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  • Thanks for the great comments.

    I just wanted to say the we think using the internet to meet people is a great idea. It opens up so many possibilities that were never there before, making it even easier to meet someone that you really click with - friend or lover.

    You can get to know that person a little bit, find out if you have anything in common, before deciding to go on an in person date.

    Just make sure that you get off line and meet in person as soon as possible when in clicks.

  • Yes for sure but I am lazy right now and trying to meet the lady who wants to meet me, I try to meet people who do have a webcam so I can interact then just a photo.. I don't go over the top romantic, just talk knowing face to face is real, to fill in the blanks is what the mind is good at, even when driving your car, I will use this video in my dating education site and anti-scam group thanks.

  • thank u for this video i have thesama problem

  • How is a webcam relationship anymore "dangerous" than a personals relationship? If anything, seeing someone on webcam is better than simply exchanging e-mails over a dating service. How do you know if the person is REALLY who they say he/she is? A webcam is more truthful than any online profile.

    There are millions of ways the relationship could fail or succeed, just like any other relationship, but the medium has little (if anything) to do with it.

  • It's not dangerous per say... All we're saying is that it's not really possible to have a true romantic love relationship without ever meeting someone. Having said that, there are alway exceptions, but they are the exceptions rather than the norm.

    Meeting someone online is a great idea - but at some point you need to meet the REAL person. Until we meet someone in person, our mind tends to fill in the blanks with how we want the person to be rather than how they truly are...

  • I agree. I'm now in a relationship with someone I met online. We're planning on meeting in a few months and we both want to do it so we can see if we can really get along in person. And it's true, your mind does tend to fill in blanks on how we WANT the person to be, which is something I did with my last boyfreind. And when I did finally meet him, I was disappointed. But me and my current boyfriend are definitely meeting for the sake of seeing how our relationship will go from there...

  • Do you think talking online can help build confidence? My friend who is really shy met a girl online that likes games and is really shy like him yet he got to the point where they're dating and he even bought a cell phone to talk with her. Unfortunately he lives in Oklahoma, she lives in Tennessee. But he said he's going to save money to see her.

  • I wouldn't count on that relationship working, but it SHOULD be considered a confidence booster even if it fails. If your friend can connect with someone that far away (and is probably less compatible with him than he may think), what's stopping him from connecting with women closer to home who are probably better suited for him? :)

  • I definitely think that talking online can help you build confidence when you meet someone new.

    Just be careful and understand that our online personality is different from our face to face personlity. The other person may say things or behave in ways that they would not in face to face communications - especially if they're a little shy.

    So even if you fall in love with the 'online' person, make sure to meet them in real life before making any commitments.

  • I ran into that issue to. 3 months with a girl who ended up thinking I was someone completely someone different then I was. You can meet people online, if your shy and you need that space to break the ice. But I find you shouldnt get into a relationship persay until you meet and know each other.

  • Totally agree - this is a perfect example of her mind filling in the blanks with what she wanted rather than who you really are. It's not good or bad, it just is... That's why it's so critical to meet the real person as soon as possible.

  • You NEVER drink :(

    Come on, take a zip ;)

    Or maybe they are fake? Just plastic?

  • LOL - we drink between shots ;-). They're real, raspberry martinis, though maybe a little weak. The first couple of times we had them, we over did a bit, so now we try to pace ourselves... :-)

  • You really nailed this one (as per your usual) I made the horrible mistake of getting into a long distance online relationship. Simply awful, without human contact trust is hard to find and like J and D said, it is all based on fantasy, not reality. NEVER AGAIN! And yes I feel very stupid about doing it, I was on the rebound from a very hurtful real relationship. Just say NO to online relationships! Make it real, or just move on. Thanks again Jenn and Dan for a great video!

  • Good advice. I DO think that you can meet someone you click with online, but just like you said, go meet him IRL! A webcam should not be the only interaction she has with him.

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