I just want to request for you all to pray to God and to simply ask, "FATHER IN HEAVEN IF I AM WRONG IN CHOOSING THIS LIFESTYLE PLEASE LET ME KNOW THE ERROR OF MY WAYS, I BEG YOU. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN". Some Gays believe in God. If you do please say that quick prayer quote on quote. And mean it. PLEASE, I love you all. He will show you. He's always on time I promise you that. Even if you don't care to say it, say the prayer anyways... it can't hurt :) good day
Aaa... first of all, it's nice that u answer back sometimes :)
Second.... well, my husband is sleeping so i can say it- ur my husband fantasy ! :) Seriously, ur so handsome! With a little more muscles on ur arms u'd be .... (10+) :)
If i wereFORCED to be str8 i would miss being what makes me,me.I'm considered a very butch gay and my fiancee is an amazing man,the thing i would hat eif i were forced to stop being gay is being who I really am.theres nothiing like trying to supress someone for being open and honest about themselves.I came out to my mom 3yrs ago and she hated it,but now,i'm gnaged and she loves my fiancee,so the pure answer,what i love about gay,is the love i get love,simple.
i would miss the same things! the ability to love and appreciate men and love the people i love. mmm men :) btw Jay is gonna freak when he sees this lmao. are you sure he won't? :D
but thanks for this video, i really needed to see it today. <3
Cute:-) And i would miss having fantasies about Jake gyllenhaal..But if i was forced to be straight, i bet the fantasies would be more hot, cause they would be "Forbidden":-)
@Macke79 that's the only reason i kinda don't want gays to be always accepted, cuz it's part of its hotness. i like the forbidden part of it :D the romance of two guys sneaking around and kissing... but with a happy ending!
I'm not a man, but I am a lesbian. I would hate to be forced to be straight. Being a lesbian and coming out at school gained me a lot of my friends. I am IN LOVE with Mariska Hargitay and Halle Berry.
Oh, Ben Cohen. Both me AND my boyfriend LOVE Ben, and we regularly tease each other saying that we'd leave the other for Ben. Good pick for a Fantasy Husband (or husbear, as it may be) Bryan!
D: that question Bryan/Depfox asked was killer,lol i can't even comment without blushing XD but before i saw you guys,mainly Blair and Paul XD i fantasized with Ricky Martin,especially since he is also from Puerto Rico(where i live) and he was just so brave admitting he was Gay and now he has 2 adopted sons,he is also a great singer and a hottie,Go Ricky! :D
I see it everywhere. I'm a company truck driver now and a lot older. Its wall to wall cowboy midwest some if not most are gay. But in the closest like me. My co drive does not know about me. And he never will.
Your husband is a very lucky guy. My god, you're really good looking. Besides, I love your eyes and your smile. Now, feel special, I usually don't compliment anyone on the internet.
But, appart from that...
Now that I've seen this week's videos, I feel weird about loving beeing gay because of my hatred of straight stereotypes... At school, whenever one of my classmates (all of which were men) made some stupid mysoginistic or homophobic comment or joke, I'd just say "I love being gay" to myself.
Actuelly I would like to HELP my own people to ooppen their eyes and help POOR Gays! We all maybe forget that POOR Transexuals are living in a much worse situation than gays! gay is gay like u, who knows? but a POOR Tranny who is a Real girl inside and has feminine behaviours! they always are teased and cannt hide anything! I think we people should take care more about them and help them more than gays!.
Bryan: Where is your Ben Cohen tee shirt "Stand UP"? Great choice btw you have good taste - Ben is a solid grounded, bright and talented guy - hey much like you. Thanks for taking the time on both channels your life is full and i am glad you are improving ours.
I would loossseee Micheal my BF and my best friend.But why would my best friend leave me?(I lost my best friend because i was gay.)Will i now lose my best friend because i'm straight?
I love your other page, showing your loving family. But I like seeing this other side to you, too. We can be loving, caring dads, or super uncles, or great brothers / sons. -- Then there is that other side of us who are men that like men... Thanks for showing that does not die when we marry. I am 45 & have never been happier as a gay man. It just gets better & better. And I would miss most who I am, if I was not gay. I wouldn't trade who I am or who I've become for anything.
@hellophoenix only if you allow people to make you feel that way...are we talking about sex??? or being gay to me they are two different things...Do I look as great in my underwear as when I was in my 20's no but that doesnt define me as a gay man...I think you need relook at your life and find the things that are important and then maybe life will start being fun for you again as a gay man...Jay
@AGayCollab That seems very wise. I know quite a few guys who are older, and who are sexy as hell. It's not just that they're still physically attractive and remain quite fit, but they've also learned to be comfortable with who they are. I've found that the mind is the most important sexual organ.
@hellophoenix best advise I can give is just let it go and live your life..as for your age, your just as much 28 as you are 48 just dont be 48 if you dont like that number
@hellophoenix It's not being gay that's hard. It's being old that's hard. Being 48 is a bitch for everyone, hets or gays. Being 58 is even bitchier and so on.
I would miss fantasizing about any hairy guy that I happened to like, and yes Bryan that includes you (I mean the way the sunlight hit that fur! Hahah =D), btw I remember drooling over that guy when I saw him on another site.
I just googles Ben Cohen - AMAZING CHOICE! Not only is he beautiful and a rugby star but he actually retired early to advocate for gay rights etc. So great choice - Im definitely gonna pay more attention to him from now on
OMG OMG! i'm such a fan of Ben Cohen! ... he is the most beatiful men alive! ...he is straight, but nobody is perfect, right? and he is using his carisma to call a lot of attention for the bullying problem world-wide! I have him as well as Bryan and Jay as my Inspirational people.
If I suddenly had to become a lesbian there is one major thing I would miss and that is being able to see the soft, sweet side of men that is never even considered being shown in public. I think is the sexiest thing in the world when a guy finally lets down those walls of security and you finally get a glimpse of who he really is on the inside. Not saying that women don't have those walls to, it just seems like they're a lot more willing to let them down earlier in a relationship.
If i had to change sexuality i would miss my wife and kids the most! I'd miss my wife's amazing body (mostly her butt lol) but then again could date a queen
Holy crap...refute the stereotype...but let's load in the cookie-cutter men. Being gay is about SO many other things than clubbing and men! Personally, I'd like to have seen more on your family.
@furyianfyre than perhaps you would like to surf on over to my families other channel, Gay Family Values. This channel is for me a more creative outlet and place to have fun and show a different side of myself. I don't think that I in any way advocated clubbing or stereotypes...I just gave my opinion.
@AGayCollab no! I like being who I am, But If I like girls! then I wouldnt care about guys, my feelings would be towards females. just like now, I dont care about girls!
"Who would you miss fantasizing about if you were a different sexuality" depends which way I changed. If I went straight I would miss fantasizing about Eliza Dushku and if I went gay I would miss fantasizing about Zachary Quinto.
Who would I miss fantasizing about if I was forced to be straight? ALL OF YOU GUYS ON A GAY COLLAB of course! - Great video! (Yeah I'm like a couple days late on this one!) - Blessings always - David L.
Bryan + Jay, you guys are both so damn cute!!!! I gotta say, I would miss fantasizing about Jake Gyllenhaal, Ryan Reynolds, Ian Somerhalder & Ben Cohen. All totally different guys but all drool-worthy ...well least in my book anyway ; ) Bryan you have good taste!!!! Question....Jay who is your fantasy husband, other than Bryan of course? Anyway only recently found you guy's YouTube page, you have a beautiful family, keep the video's coming :o)
I received chills talking to him and he inspired me, like literally, no joke! Do you have tips on how to approach this HUGE DILEMMA I have??? Thanks! :D
@parkcardy I'm have to apologize but I'm not really seeing a dilemma. You can't find him on facebook but he DID give you his email...so drop him a line. From the way you described you encounter you have a good reason to reach out to him again and when you do ask him about the facebook thing. That said...maybe he was one of those people you come accross in life that was meant to inspire.(cont.)
@parkcardy Maybe he was there to encourage you to take your life in a particular direction...not start up a relationship. Don't lose that inspiration in the heat of a crush. Whether or not you ever connect with this guy again, take what you learned and do something good with it :)
And if he emails you back and by some cosmic coincidence you find out that he is gay...then by all means go for it.
@depfox Thanks for this tip. Yeah, I'll just shoot him an e-mail and see where that goes :). And luck is on my side I think; I finally found him on facebook! But you're right, this doesn't necessarily have to lead anywhere. He could just be an inspiration! Thanks again :)
@parkcardy ---Hey-I was reading your dilemma and I'm sorry to shatter your dream but I think you should put this down to a holiday romance thing.-----Maybe it's better to keep it as a dream as you might find he is a completely different person on his home turf.
@brecans Perhaps he is different, who knows. I'll take my chance and shoot him an e-mail. If he doesn't respond, what loss would I have? But thanks for the tip, guy! :) (I'm probably being too fantasy oriented here but eh - I'll take my chance.)
they were all knocked out. The guy and I ended up having a conversation for almost 3 hours maybe and I think I just developed a huge crush on him. He was literally the guy I had imagined I want to be with! Now he gave me his name and e-mail address so I can find him on facebook and let him know about the rest of my escapade in Europe but I can't find him on facebook. So here's the problem, I don't know if he's gay. I'm leaning towards the maybe side but I really honestly don't know.
So perhaps you can answer my question, or just a little advice: So i was at the airport in Madrid along with my friends waiting for our flight and we meet this one American boy. He was really cool, all smiling and laughing since my friends were a little bit tipsy. So we found out eventually that we were to go in the same terminal and we waited together. (we came at the airport at 12midnight and our flights were not until 6am and 5am). Since my friends were tipsy... continued--->>>
I luv that you're so honest. Both you and your partner. I have to say your videos helped in my coming out process. I wish both you and your partner a long and happy life. p.s. Ben Cohen is mine.
Wow, being and becoming a Gay Daddy, shirtless, the whole thing, and you're not in a porno? This is definately breaking new creative ground. Well done, Depfox.
@Marvinglz When ever guys tell me I have a hot husband/boyfriend I always laugh inside and thinkt hey dont know the half of it...There is nothing fake about Bryan he is a million times more special then his looks...He has saved me from myself and the world. Jay
@depfox wow, you've just answered something I've been thinking about (regarding to the last part). watching your channel can be fun because you're expressing yourself all the time, yet Bryan is a mystery. and it is funny when the two of you are "taunting" each other haha !!
Bryan is my fantasy husband of all times! That sweet smile, sexy goatee and hairy chest and legs....... and a lovely personality and a big heart.......mmmmmmmm
The first few times I was in a gay bar was a bit scary for me too. I think gay bars help people understand they are not alone. They can provide a sense of community.
I would miss fantasizing about someone very close to me... We actually dated awhile, but then he broke up with me. Though I'm working very hard to try to win him back.
I don't need him because he's hot. He's hot because I need him.
@TehJonneh The best way to win a guy back is to get on with your life start working hard on yourself and maybe he will see hot great you are and come begging for your hand back :O)
I got so excited when I found out you crushed on Ben Cohen too! Not only is he beyond hawt. But he's an amazing person too. He started a foundation for equality in sports/life for homosexuals :D.
OMG! I Love red heads to...omg....Both men and women but i'm not bi. Sorry if I sound obsessed but, I love the pale skin and the curls. If I ever get a boyfriend, I hope he has red hair! awe
im watching you and no its Sunday and i should of been sleeping hours ago lol Yeah i bet that was a scary thing/exciteing thing for you to be at that club. And haha oo your hubby will never watch this video any ways lol And enjoy seeing this let your hair down side of you over here on this channel. Hope you and your family have a awesome 4th of July!
I would totally miss my fantasy list which includes Channing Tatum, Chris Evans and then of course the love of my life Eric Dane. I don't know if some of my "personality traits" are "personality traits" or just "stereotypical gay"??? I would have to say if they are stereotype (don't really know if its just me) but I would miss how miticulous I am about everything my body, my house, my cars etc.
Ben Cohen is indeed a VERY hot man! He also seems to be one helluva class act to boot. I think that Bryan is the same. :)
As for redheads, I stay away from them for my own protection! After all, everybody knows that gingers are soulless!!! (just kidding, gotta love South Park)
But I wouldn't miss men if I was magically turned straight because I would be straight... lol. And yes, I want that footballers body actually. So I am going back to the gym. So I can have his body pressed close to mine lol
ben cohen is ..... mein lieber .... he was my ipod password for a year til someone found out who he was when i was in high school XD but ya great video and great choice in man not only is he hot but he stands up for gay rights :P ........ jesus i would cry if i was told no ben cohen thoughts ..... just wondering you were outside at the end ?? dog house when jay found out ?
I'd miss day dreaming about my lesbian wedding, and I'd miss day dreaming about my lesbian wedding with Amanda Seyfried! Ahah :D She's breathtaking and incredibly hot because she looks so genuine and pure and sweet and... aaaaah, I'm in love :D
I love Ben Cohen too! And in a desperate attempt to make you jealous Bryan I'd like to mention that I saw him on the main stage at London Pride today :-D
I also will say that red heads are aphrodisiacs...also fur is a major turn on for me, but it's not a requirement...the bf is as smooth as they come and it has its perks...Another thing I like about being gay is that once you're secure in yourself you can appreciate all forms of gender expression. I love the feather boas and the leather daddies...I don't see one as better than the other as a form of gender expression, I just see it as different
Boy George: A lot of people say homosexuals only have sex and heterosexuals fall in love, that is not true everyone wants to be loved. I always wanted love, and I didn't think it was possible--for me. However, I've come to know that love often finds you. If I were straight, I know for a fact that I wouldn't be the same person if I were straight. I also like the fact we are just amazing! If I were forced to be straight I'd miss the fantasies about my boyfriend
I'd miss fantasizing about Ben Cohen and Chris Evans. I like my men hot, stacked, and furry, which women aren't. Then again, it would give me an excuse to say, 'i'd so go gay for that dude'. :D
I love being gay too. If i had never been gay, i would never have so many supports from my friend and I would not know who are good-weather friends and who are the true friends. I am so glad that I have so many true friendships right now and those make me stronger to go on with my life. And more importantly, since i came out to my sis, she is even more supportive than i thought. She gives me strength to go on. If i had not been gay, i wouldn't share so much with my sis.
I looooove being gay. There is so much I would miss because I don't see it that this isn't natural. Being gay/lesbian is throughout nature and every animal that has gays/lesbians lets us humans know that there is something more to us than what phobias or superstitions says. It's mother nature that makes me proud to be gay. Just remember phobic and superstitious men have been destroying nature for a long time, this is why gays are included.
@MrDAG1991 Amen! My three high school crushes were Australian. And don’t forget, they’re all born with big, beefy, beautiful thighs and calves -to a man, they’re all built with just gorgeous legs! Must be all that rugby and footy they all play.
I'm Bi and often wonder what it would be like to be straight or gay. My ideal husband would be Brian Molko from Placebo, he's drop dead gorgeous, witty and his Anglo American accent is hawt. ;)
#1 Backroom Bar in Madeira Beach ,Florida & years ago first time ever in a Gay bar.
(Thank You, Bradley)And Mikay (bartender ) for baby setting A 40 `s something newbie.Your The Best! #2 DJ Disney at The Flamingo ,He is A Grest Looking wonderful Kind Gentle man ( but partnered) :-( #3 Red`s or Gingers Bears ,I say it like Brian does ,so Man Up and Just let us appreciate some of the best handy work God ever did. Brian good job :-)
I was stunned to hear that there is a redhead stigma in the UK, and this foolishness on South Park, just crazy.
Where I live, the majority of people have Irish or Scottish ancestors- redheads are considered attractive. Now I'm sure they are picked on when they are young, but there's definitely no hate-on for redheads here. Okay, rant over!
Great job on the video- very cool editing. Nice to hear you talk more Mister Bryan!
I'm ginger (a daywalker) and I love the South Park ginger kids sketch. It's not a strong stigma in the UK about red heads it's more of a piss take and it's done tongue in cheek My best buddy will often call me up saying ''Do you wanna come round for some beers you ginger cunt'' and I see it as a sign of affection. :D
@Zed1967 Well I'm glad to hear that it's not a strong stigma. I've heard it as the punchline to so many jokes from UK TV shows and comedians, it sounds really mean when they say ginger. The only thing I don't like about the South Park sketch is that redheads have become a punchline in North America because of its popularity. A joke among friends is one thing but a lot of the new jokes I'm hearing it's like jerks have suddenly found a new minority to pick on. There's always one jerk I guess.
I just want to request for you all to pray to God and to simply ask, "FATHER IN HEAVEN IF I AM WRONG IN CHOOSING THIS LIFESTYLE PLEASE LET ME KNOW THE ERROR OF MY WAYS, I BEG YOU. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN". Some Gays believe in God. If you do please say that quick prayer quote on quote. And mean it. PLEASE, I love you all. He will show you. He's always on time I promise you that. Even if you don't care to say it, say the prayer anyways... it can't hurt :) good day
MonayIsMe 10 hours ago
Aaa... first of all, it's nice that u answer back sometimes :)
Second.... well, my husband is sleeping so i can say it- ur my husband fantasy ! :) Seriously, ur so handsome! With a little more muscles on ur arms u'd be .... (10+) :)
TheKenthope 2 weeks ago
I love this guy!!
lukosius1221 3 weeks ago
Interesting that Bryan like s quite a bit like his crush Ben Cohen (both quite attractive).
DorEnErnil 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
so true...@2:34
I could not see myself straight.
chitosworld010 1 month ago
If i wereFORCED to be str8 i would miss being what makes me,me.I'm considered a very butch gay and my fiancee is an amazing man,the thing i would hat eif i were forced to stop being gay is being who I really am.theres nothiing like trying to supress someone for being open and honest about themselves.I came out to my mom 3yrs ago and she hated it,but now,i'm gnaged and she loves my fiancee,so the pure answer,what i love about gay,is the love i get love,simple.
Redraid24 1 month ago
If I were straight (thankfully I am not) I would still have fantasies with Ryan Reynolds.
PRtrainman 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Actually, I'm not out yet so my favorite thing is my secret relationship from my parents.
My biggest loss would be, well, my girlfriend right now
TheBeautyOfFear 1 month ago
i would miss the same things! the ability to love and appreciate men and love the people i love. mmm men :) btw Jay is gonna freak when he sees this lmao. are you sure he won't? :D
but thanks for this video, i really needed to see it today. <3
buttersyrupnpancakes 2 months ago
being humN A ITS AN HONOR BEING GAY ITS NATURAL THING
adil3249 2 months ago
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GuessWhoIsRobin 2 months ago
Ricky martin is my dream guy... I get all tingly just hearing his name :) -3 xxx
S0MEONESTRANGE 2 months ago
I would miss fantasizing about my girlfriend~
pleezstopdancin2 2 months ago in playlist More videos from AGayCollab
Firstly, Ben's mine keep your dream hands off. Secondly, good video, i want a life like yours.
16tallguy 2 months ago
Cute:-) And i would miss having fantasies about Jake gyllenhaal..But if i was forced to be straight, i bet the fantasies would be more hot, cause they would be "Forbidden":-)
Macke79 3 months ago
@Macke79 that's the only reason i kinda don't want gays to be always accepted, cuz it's part of its hotness. i like the forbidden part of it :D the romance of two guys sneaking around and kissing... but with a happy ending!
buttersyrupnpancakes 2 months ago
@buttersyrupnpancakes i hated Brokeback Mountain.
buttersyrupnpancakes 2 months ago
So your kids are ganna go to school and get picked on for having a guy dad
CyberD3ath 3 months ago
@CyberD3ath Are kids are in 1st and 5th grade and their friends dig that they have gay dads...Im sorry you live in a place where people suck.
AGayCollab 3 months ago 18
@CyberD3ath Most dads are guys....
superkickerr 2 months ago
@CyberD3ath Most dads are guys...
OMGxITSxJOVAN 1 month ago
I'm not a man, but I am a lesbian. I would hate to be forced to be straight. Being a lesbian and coming out at school gained me a lot of my friends. I am IN LOVE with Mariska Hargitay and Halle Berry.
PeZgIrLbOoM1 3 months ago
im bi so i wouldnt miss anything
xxbrokexxable 3 months ago
You make me smile on the inside :D
093darkknight 3 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
why can't this be shared on facebook for playing on facebook...it's a bloody shame cause I don't share things that can't be played on facebook :(
stephendeannz 3 months ago
I love red heads, specially those the big lumber jack looking ones that wear plad shirts and suede boots. Totally gets me HOT!!!
twinkie13st 4 months ago
eeew...red haired men..yuk...who wants a fire crotch?....
onedominicanfellow 4 months ago
I would miss fantasizing about Hough Jackman as Wolverine (I'm a geek!) and btw I'm a red head ;-)
xXxzig02xXx 4 months ago
Oh, Ben Cohen. Both me AND my boyfriend LOVE Ben, and we regularly tease each other saying that we'd leave the other for Ben. Good pick for a Fantasy Husband (or husbear, as it may be) Bryan!
youngpup08 5 months ago
hairy chest and hairy legs - yuuuummmmm
sinfonia30 5 months ago
D: that question Bryan/Depfox asked was killer,lol i can't even comment without blushing XD but before i saw you guys,mainly Blair and Paul XD i fantasized with Ricky Martin,especially since he is also from Puerto Rico(where i live) and he was just so brave admitting he was Gay and now he has 2 adopted sons,he is also a great singer and a hottie,Go Ricky! :D
Shotgunryugan 5 months ago
I see it everywhere. I'm a company truck driver now and a lot older. Its wall to wall cowboy midwest some if not most are gay. But in the closest like me. My co drive does not know about me. And he never will.
akaozz 5 months ago
Try being black gay and catholic with a hint of cowboy. That's a bitch. Sorry str8t outside yet gay inside. Yes hard to do.
akaozz 5 months ago
@akaozz LOL that sounds hot and a good problem to have :O)
AGayCollab 5 months ago 6
@akaozz Try being gay and having a strict muslim family.
093darkknight 3 months ago
what you say at 3:57 is just soooo true... amen to that! ;) and that face you make after saying that must be the cutest thing I've ever witnessed ^^
Regarding your question... I'd most likely miss Chris Evans :) yummy! XD
nunocantao 5 months ago
Your husband is a very lucky guy. My god, you're really good looking. Besides, I love your eyes and your smile. Now, feel special, I usually don't compliment anyone on the internet.
But, appart from that...
Now that I've seen this week's videos, I feel weird about loving beeing gay because of my hatred of straight stereotypes... At school, whenever one of my classmates (all of which were men) made some stupid mysoginistic or homophobic comment or joke, I'd just say "I love being gay" to myself.
joseaaf2005 5 months ago
Ima red head
mileso1999 5 months ago
bryan sorry i tell that to jay and he had one also...
raymondfresnoza 6 months ago
i m gonna tell jay hhhhhhhhhh
totozozo1 6 months ago
haha, you are one cute and adorable man :) i envy your partner!
leptismagna10 6 months ago
Actuelly I would like to HELP my own people to ooppen their eyes and help POOR Gays! We all maybe forget that POOR Transexuals are living in a much worse situation than gays! gay is gay like u, who knows? but a POOR Tranny who is a Real girl inside and has feminine behaviours! they always are teased and cannt hide anything! I think we people should take care more about them and help them more than gays!.
xOxKurdParstxOx 6 months ago
U r HOT my god this Beard has SUITED you! White Skin with Beard JUST WOW and ur little nose and wide face. U really r HOT.
xOxKurdParstxOx 6 months ago
Bryan: Where is your Ben Cohen tee shirt "Stand UP"? Great choice btw you have good taste - Ben is a solid grounded, bright and talented guy - hey much like you. Thanks for taking the time on both channels your life is full and i am glad you are improving ours.
b4804514 6 months ago
ZACHARY LEVI !!!!! OR MILO VENTIMIGLIA !
TheMrheartless 7 months ago
I would loossseee Micheal my BF and my best friend.But why would my best friend leave me?(I lost my best friend because i was gay.)Will i now lose my best friend because i'm straight?
mathiasmorqubus 7 months ago
I would miss my Calculus teacher... Yea. IDK why but I love older man.
ServerMale 7 months ago
Jake Gyllenhaal NOM NOM NOM
brettteslaa 7 months ago
I love your other page, showing your loving family. But I like seeing this other side to you, too. We can be loving, caring dads, or super uncles, or great brothers / sons. -- Then there is that other side of us who are men that like men... Thanks for showing that does not die when we marry. I am 45 & have never been happier as a gay man. It just gets better & better. And I would miss most who I am, if I was not gay. I wouldn't trade who I am or who I've become for anything.
jjoeyo 7 months ago
@jjoeyo Thats why I talked Bryan into being on this collab there is a lot that people dont get to see...
Jay
depfox 7 months ago
The picture at 2:38 made my heart stop lol
MrIIDannyII 7 months ago
I loved being gay 20 years ago but now I hate it. It's the most difficult thing to be gay when you are 48
hellophoenix 7 months ago
@hellophoenix Why??? jay
AGayCollab 7 months ago
@AGayCollab ,,,Jay because gay men are so obsessed with youth and beauty, and it feels like you are invisible when you get into your 40s
hellophoenix 7 months ago
@hellophoenix only if you allow people to make you feel that way...are we talking about sex??? or being gay to me they are two different things...Do I look as great in my underwear as when I was in my 20's no but that doesnt define me as a gay man...I think you need relook at your life and find the things that are important and then maybe life will start being fun for you again as a gay man...Jay
AGayCollab 7 months ago 3
@AGayCollab That seems very wise. I know quite a few guys who are older, and who are sexy as hell. It's not just that they're still physically attractive and remain quite fit, but they've also learned to be comfortable with who they are. I've found that the mind is the most important sexual organ.
TheSecretOfTheRose 6 months ago
@hellophoenix best advise I can give is just let it go and live your life..as for your age, your just as much 28 as you are 48 just dont be 48 if you dont like that number
kyolym 6 months ago
@hellophoenix It's not being gay that's hard. It's being old that's hard. Being 48 is a bitch for everyone, hets or gays. Being 58 is even bitchier and so on.
trent8002003 4 months ago
I would miss fantasizing about any hairy guy that I happened to like, and yes Bryan that includes you (I mean the way the sunlight hit that fur! Hahah =D), btw I remember drooling over that guy when I saw him on another site.
SharinByakuGan 7 months ago
I just googles Ben Cohen - AMAZING CHOICE! Not only is he beautiful and a rugby star but he actually retired early to advocate for gay rights etc. So great choice - Im definitely gonna pay more attention to him from now on
dothedeed 7 months ago
OMG OMG! i'm such a fan of Ben Cohen! ... he is the most beatiful men alive! ...he is straight, but nobody is perfect, right? and he is using his carisma to call a lot of attention for the bullying problem world-wide! I have him as well as Bryan and Jay as my Inspirational people.
yuyhyh 7 months ago
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dothedeed 7 months ago
Had to watch it again, Thanks for posting this, it is wonderfully done and simply honest. Couldn't agree more!
sunflyer40 7 months ago
You are so handsome and adorable. I just discovered your channel and this video, both are great. You ROCK!
NaClH20buff 7 months ago
Are you kidding... be str8 and don't enjoy Treasure Island Media pictures?!?!?!?! no way!
SpiderrXtasis 7 months ago
If I suddenly had to become a lesbian there is one major thing I would miss and that is being able to see the soft, sweet side of men that is never even considered being shown in public. I think is the sexiest thing in the world when a guy finally lets down those walls of security and you finally get a glimpse of who he really is on the inside. Not saying that women don't have those walls to, it just seems like they're a lot more willing to let them down earlier in a relationship.
silverheart95 7 months ago
It's fun to see the sexier side of you!
shallowmic 7 months ago
Jajajajaja!!! Couldnt have said better the 'red heads' part! That face expressed more than a thousand words. ^^
cardoman87 7 months ago
.. If I were forced to change my sexuality it would be the same right because I'm bi
moyisbick 7 months ago
Very few guys are 100% straight but, it doesn't matter if your gay you love men and not just for sex. Thanks for posting this.
sunflyer40 7 months ago
If i had to change sexuality i would miss my wife and kids the most! I'd miss my wife's amazing body (mostly her butt lol) but then again could date a queen
SleazeThrobb12345 7 months ago
lol so funny about the red heads...
Egypt7788 7 months ago
Fantasy husband? I'd have to say Pitbull! Ay Chico!! If I was forced to go straight, I'd still do him given the chance. LOL
stevenm73 7 months ago
Redheads... I kinda hate that lol... No offemce to the redheads here, but I'll take a dark brown haired guy, thank you very much :P.
sanlontos 7 months ago
hahahaah! i love it, its cute n adorable video... wish to watch more n learn more. :))
003sanju 7 months ago
Holy crap...refute the stereotype...but let's load in the cookie-cutter men. Being gay is about SO many other things than clubbing and men! Personally, I'd like to have seen more on your family.
furyianfyre 7 months ago
@furyianfyre than perhaps you would like to surf on over to my families other channel, Gay Family Values. This channel is for me a more creative outlet and place to have fun and show a different side of myself. I don't think that I in any way advocated clubbing or stereotypes...I just gave my opinion.
Bryan
AGayCollab 7 months ago 3
@AGayCollab - thank you for the clarification.
furyianfyre 7 months ago
I wouldnt miss anything because I would be thinking about beyonce or kim kardishian! I wouldnt care about men! lol
DANCER720ful 7 months ago
@DANCER720ful Oh the horror.....
AGayCollab 7 months ago 5
@AGayCollab no! I like being who I am, But If I like girls! then I wouldnt care about guys, my feelings would be towards females. just like now, I dont care about girls!
DANCER720ful 7 months ago
"Who would you miss fantasizing about if you were a different sexuality" depends which way I changed. If I went straight I would miss fantasizing about Eliza Dushku and if I went gay I would miss fantasizing about Zachary Quinto.
Claramata 7 months ago
I would miss the current girl i have a crush on :]
DellariaB 7 months ago
Which State is he from?
geesthacht82 7 months ago
@geesthacht82 Bryan is from CA and Ben Cohen is from England???
AGayCollab 7 months ago
Wow I went to a gay bar that looks almost exactly like the one you standing in front of!
redneon06 7 months ago
Bryan Leffew I challenge you to a duel of Fates for Ben when we r on the trip!!!!
Modalsh1ft 7 months ago
I've only been asked out my redheads
Not really my thing -_-
Beeevaaa 7 months ago
Who would I miss fantasizing about if I was forced to be straight? ALL OF YOU GUYS ON A GAY COLLAB of course! - Great video! (Yeah I'm like a couple days late on this one!) - Blessings always - David L.
TYEDYEGYE1 7 months ago
Amazing vid!
bls622 7 months ago
Bryan + Jay, you guys are both so damn cute!!!! I gotta say, I would miss fantasizing about Jake Gyllenhaal, Ryan Reynolds, Ian Somerhalder & Ben Cohen. All totally different guys but all drool-worthy ...well least in my book anyway ; ) Bryan you have good taste!!!! Question....Jay who is your fantasy husband, other than Bryan of course? Anyway only recently found you guy's YouTube page, you have a beautiful family, keep the video's coming :o)
TheDonnieDarkoKid 7 months ago
@TheDonnieDarkoKid Ryan Philipe SWOOOON
Jay
depfox 7 months ago
my dream guy is in a gay collab but i'm not going to say who :)
jc500500 7 months ago
I received chills talking to him and he inspired me, like literally, no joke! Do you have tips on how to approach this HUGE DILEMMA I have??? Thanks! :D
parkcardy 7 months ago
@parkcardy I'm have to apologize but I'm not really seeing a dilemma. You can't find him on facebook but he DID give you his email...so drop him a line. From the way you described you encounter you have a good reason to reach out to him again and when you do ask him about the facebook thing. That said...maybe he was one of those people you come accross in life that was meant to inspire.(cont.)
depfox 7 months ago
@parkcardy Maybe he was there to encourage you to take your life in a particular direction...not start up a relationship. Don't lose that inspiration in the heat of a crush. Whether or not you ever connect with this guy again, take what you learned and do something good with it :)
And if he emails you back and by some cosmic coincidence you find out that he is gay...then by all means go for it.
Bry
depfox 7 months ago
@depfox Thanks for this tip. Yeah, I'll just shoot him an e-mail and see where that goes :). And luck is on my side I think; I finally found him on facebook! But you're right, this doesn't necessarily have to lead anywhere. He could just be an inspiration! Thanks again :)
parkcardy 7 months ago
@parkcardy ---Hey-I was reading your dilemma and I'm sorry to shatter your dream but I think you should put this down to a holiday romance thing.-----Maybe it's better to keep it as a dream as you might find he is a completely different person on his home turf.
brecans 7 months ago
@brecans Perhaps he is different, who knows. I'll take my chance and shoot him an e-mail. If he doesn't respond, what loss would I have? But thanks for the tip, guy! :) (I'm probably being too fantasy oriented here but eh - I'll take my chance.)
parkcardy 7 months ago
they were all knocked out. The guy and I ended up having a conversation for almost 3 hours maybe and I think I just developed a huge crush on him. He was literally the guy I had imagined I want to be with! Now he gave me his name and e-mail address so I can find him on facebook and let him know about the rest of my escapade in Europe but I can't find him on facebook. So here's the problem, I don't know if he's gay. I'm leaning towards the maybe side but I really honestly don't know.
parkcardy 7 months ago
So perhaps you can answer my question, or just a little advice: So i was at the airport in Madrid along with my friends waiting for our flight and we meet this one American boy. He was really cool, all smiling and laughing since my friends were a little bit tipsy. So we found out eventually that we were to go in the same terminal and we waited together. (we came at the airport at 12midnight and our flights were not until 6am and 5am). Since my friends were tipsy... continued--->>>
parkcardy 7 months ago
that line of fur that heads down to you know where :P
jc500500 7 months ago
First time seeing Bryan expressing himself, something new. I guess one person will be jealoused. who's the cryer now.
rollingdownfalling 7 months ago
Haha Ben Cohen. No surprises there! :P
UKClosetGuy 7 months ago
josh duhamel..oh i would miss his if i had to change my sexuality he is so fine..and pluz i would miss all u guys =)
Whtevrichooz98 7 months ago
I luv that you're so honest. Both you and your partner. I have to say your videos helped in my coming out process. I wish both you and your partner a long and happy life. p.s. Ben Cohen is mine.
olnbgy4444 7 months ago
@olnbgy4444 BIG HUGGS
depfox 7 months ago
Wow, being and becoming a Gay Daddy, shirtless, the whole thing, and you're not in a porno? This is definately breaking new creative ground. Well done, Depfox.
kern0099 7 months ago
LOL....this side of bryan makes me laugh...LOVE it!!!
76gottaloveme 7 months ago
HA HA HA I would totally go straight for a red haired chick...
ExplorationB 7 months ago
@ExplorationB Really??? Are you sure you don't want to be a Red Haired chick ????
depfox 7 months ago
Jay, I think Bryan's giving you a hint to start growing out that furr.
You better get started because that gorilla of a dream-husband Bryan's got is covered with it!
imjere 7 months ago
@imjere Oh Jays got enough fur to make me a happy guy :D
depfox 7 months ago
Taylor Launter.....God it's just everywhere
hernajc771 7 months ago
I also love red-heads~
FatalMindedMe 7 months ago
Tom Hardy.........sorry I had a moment he is my dream husband...sigh lol
danx4567 7 months ago
@danx4567 Tom Hardy Who???? :O) Jay
depfox 7 months ago
@depfox look him up he is so gorgeous
danx4567 7 months ago
@danx4567 I've loved him since I saw him in Rock n Rolla :D
ThatStereotype18 7 months ago
Love Bryan! He is beautiful from the inside out!
Marvinglz 7 months ago
@Marvinglz When ever guys tell me I have a hot husband/boyfriend I always laugh inside and thinkt hey dont know the half of it...There is nothing fake about Bryan he is a million times more special then his looks...He has saved me from myself and the world. Jay
depfox 7 months ago
@depfox wow, you've just answered something I've been thinking about (regarding to the last part). watching your channel can be fun because you're expressing yourself all the time, yet Bryan is a mystery. and it is funny when the two of you are "taunting" each other haha !!
rollingdownfalling 7 months ago
@depfox Awwww!!! Thats beautiful! You both are great guys! I'm glad u found each other! :) Making the world a better place!
Marvinglz 7 months ago
Ya'll make me laugh. I love you guys. XD ♥
xAnimeNIACZx 7 months ago
Bryan is my fantasy husband of all times! That sweet smile, sexy goatee and hairy chest and legs....... and a lovely personality and a big heart.......mmmmmmmm
balatac73 7 months ago
@balatac73 Great fantasy husband...He will never let you down :O) Jay
depfox 7 months ago
you are so my type lol
lesgaybitrans 7 months ago
Always had a thing for George Cluney. BTW, you are a very cute guy yourself!
dmajorhiphopproducer 7 months ago
The first few times I was in a gay bar was a bit scary for me too. I think gay bars help people understand they are not alone. They can provide a sense of community.
garysdeskcom 7 months ago
I would miss fantasizing about someone very close to me... We actually dated awhile, but then he broke up with me. Though I'm working very hard to try to win him back.
I don't need him because he's hot. He's hot because I need him.
TehJonneh 7 months ago
@TehJonneh The best way to win a guy back is to get on with your life start working hard on yourself and maybe he will see hot great you are and come begging for your hand back :O)
depfox 7 months ago
I love being gay too
AntmILoveYou 7 months ago
Gerard Butler <3
hemeanseverything2me 7 months ago
I got so excited when I found out you crushed on Ben Cohen too! Not only is he beyond hawt. But he's an amazing person too. He started a foundation for equality in sports/life for homosexuals :D.
TomAllenSmith 7 months ago 2
OMG! I Love red heads to...omg....Both men and women but i'm not bi. Sorry if I sound obsessed but, I love the pale skin and the curls. If I ever get a boyfriend, I hope he has red hair! awe
SeeMeYeaILikeIt 7 months ago
im watching you and no its Sunday and i should of been sleeping hours ago lol Yeah i bet that was a scary thing/exciteing thing for you to be at that club. And haha oo your hubby will never watch this video any ways lol And enjoy seeing this let your hair down side of you over here on this channel. Hope you and your family have a awesome 4th of July!
christopherinsc1981 7 months ago
I would totally miss my fantasy list which includes Channing Tatum, Chris Evans and then of course the love of my life Eric Dane. I don't know if some of my "personality traits" are "personality traits" or just "stereotypical gay"??? I would have to say if they are stereotype (don't really know if its just me) but I would miss how miticulous I am about everything my body, my house, my cars etc.
jamesnnc1 7 months ago
I would sooo miss Hugh Jackman
hamy525 7 months ago
Ben Cohen is indeed a VERY hot man! He also seems to be one helluva class act to boot. I think that Bryan is the same. :)
As for redheads, I stay away from them for my own protection! After all, everybody knows that gingers are soulless!!! (just kidding, gotta love South Park)
avgayjoe 7 months ago 2
But I wouldn't miss men if I was magically turned straight because I would be straight... lol. And yes, I want that footballers body actually. So I am going back to the gym. So I can have his body pressed close to mine lol
ExplorationB 7 months ago 11
ben cohen is ..... mein lieber .... he was my ipod password for a year til someone found out who he was when i was in high school XD but ya great video and great choice in man not only is he hot but he stands up for gay rights :P ........ jesus i would cry if i was told no ben cohen thoughts ..... just wondering you were outside at the end ?? dog house when jay found out ?
mattknightassassin 7 months ago
Great video Bryan! I think Jay might have an idea about your fantasy husband though. lol
JoshRimer 7 months ago
As a redhead myself, I have to say I find men with dark brown/black hair extremely attractive. Especially when they look like Bryan! Hehe :D
Insouciantly 7 months ago
I'd miss day dreaming about my lesbian wedding, and I'd miss day dreaming about my lesbian wedding with Amanda Seyfried! Ahah :D She's breathtaking and incredibly hot because she looks so genuine and pure and sweet and... aaaaah, I'm in love :D
DelightfulDelirium 7 months ago
I love Ben Cohen too! And in a desperate attempt to make you jealous Bryan I'd like to mention that I saw him on the main stage at London Pride today :-D
viviorunitia14 7 months ago
I also will say that red heads are aphrodisiacs...also fur is a major turn on for me, but it's not a requirement...the bf is as smooth as they come and it has its perks...Another thing I like about being gay is that once you're secure in yourself you can appreciate all forms of gender expression. I love the feather boas and the leather daddies...I don't see one as better than the other as a form of gender expression, I just see it as different
vidhead85 7 months ago
Boy George: A lot of people say homosexuals only have sex and heterosexuals fall in love, that is not true everyone wants to be loved. I always wanted love, and I didn't think it was possible--for me. However, I've come to know that love often finds you. If I were straight, I know for a fact that I wouldn't be the same person if I were straight. I also like the fact we are just amazing! If I were forced to be straight I'd miss the fantasies about my boyfriend
vidhead85 7 months ago
PS Redheads are pretty fuckin' hot.
IshootURface 7 months ago
I'd miss fantasizing about Ben Cohen and Chris Evans. I like my men hot, stacked, and furry, which women aren't. Then again, it would give me an excuse to say, 'i'd so go gay for that dude'. :D
IshootURface 7 months ago
I love being gay too. If i had never been gay, i would never have so many supports from my friend and I would not know who are good-weather friends and who are the true friends. I am so glad that I have so many true friendships right now and those make me stronger to go on with my life. And more importantly, since i came out to my sis, she is even more supportive than i thought. She gives me strength to go on. If i had not been gay, i wouldn't share so much with my sis.
myzackfair02 7 months ago
To Jay : everyone is saying bryan is everyone's dream husband, and maybe i should say SO ARE U hahaha can i marry both of u?
myzackfair02 7 months ago
@myzackfair02 That wuld cause major problems...I am not sure I could handle two husbands...But thanks for the sweet comment ;O) Jay
AGayCollab 7 months ago
@AGayCollab Jay and Bryan are both MY dream husbands LOL!!!!!
mindya12 7 months ago
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myzackfair02 7 months ago
I looooove being gay. There is so much I would miss because I don't see it that this isn't natural. Being gay/lesbian is throughout nature and every animal that has gays/lesbians lets us humans know that there is something more to us than what phobias or superstitions says. It's mother nature that makes me proud to be gay. Just remember phobic and superstitious men have been destroying nature for a long time, this is why gays are included.
candyazz28 7 months ago
You're so adorbz :) I would miss my husband Jake Gyllenhaal.....I'm a Gyllenhaalic ;)
PersonaBreak 7 months ago
@PersonaBreak Hahaha...I love him too but that sounds like the beginning of a twelve step meeting...."Hi. My name is Bryan and I'm a Gyllenholic..."
depfox 7 months ago
@depfox LOL but "sometimes when I look at my screensaver i know he's thinking about me too" :)
PersonaBreak 7 months ago
I live in the UK and im just astounded that in this day and age the biggest and most powerful nation in the world is still so backward.
allrightmike 7 months ago
Most of Australian men!! I'm sorry but a good aussie man in his thongs, footy shorts and a nice bonds singlet.... HEAVEN!!!!! :D
MrDAG1991 7 months ago
@MrDAG1991 Amen! My three high school crushes were Australian. And don’t forget, they’re all born with big, beefy, beautiful thighs and calves -to a man, they’re all built with just gorgeous legs! Must be all that rugby and footy they all play.
avesraggiana 7 months ago
I would miss my husband Ricky Martin <3 I LOVE BEING GAY! :D
MarcusHBP7 7 months ago
I'm Bi and often wonder what it would be like to be straight or gay. My ideal husband would be Brian Molko from Placebo, he's drop dead gorgeous, witty and his Anglo American accent is hawt. ;)
Zed1967 7 months ago
Thumbs up for being gay, being gay is awesome!
videoguy604 7 months ago 18
#1 Backroom Bar in Madeira Beach ,Florida & years ago first time ever in a Gay bar.
(Thank You, Bradley)And Mikay (bartender ) for baby setting A 40 `s something newbie.Your The Best! #2 DJ Disney at The Flamingo ,He is A Grest Looking wonderful Kind Gentle man ( but partnered) :-( #3 Red`s or Gingers Bears ,I say it like Brian does ,so Man Up and Just let us appreciate some of the best handy work God ever did. Brian good job :-)
OKflaMAN 7 months ago
I agree about redheads! WOOF!
I was stunned to hear that there is a redhead stigma in the UK, and this foolishness on South Park, just crazy.
Where I live, the majority of people have Irish or Scottish ancestors- redheads are considered attractive. Now I'm sure they are picked on when they are young, but there's definitely no hate-on for redheads here. Okay, rant over!
Great job on the video- very cool editing. Nice to hear you talk more Mister Bryan!
warmgulfwind 7 months ago
@warmgulfwind
I'm ginger (a daywalker) and I love the South Park ginger kids sketch. It's not a strong stigma in the UK about red heads it's more of a piss take and it's done tongue in cheek My best buddy will often call me up saying ''Do you wanna come round for some beers you ginger cunt'' and I see it as a sign of affection. :D
Zed1967 7 months ago
@Zed1967 Well I'm glad to hear that it's not a strong stigma. I've heard it as the punchline to so many jokes from UK TV shows and comedians, it sounds really mean when they say ginger. The only thing I don't like about the South Park sketch is that redheads have become a punchline in North America because of its popularity. A joke among friends is one thing but a lot of the new jokes I'm hearing it's like jerks have suddenly found a new minority to pick on. There's always one jerk I guess.
warmgulfwind 7 months ago
I would really miss my roomy and all the fantasies I have about him :)
inquiry10 7 months ago
@inquiry10 Oh MY does he know? Jay
depfox 7 months ago
@depfox
He knows...but he is straight and totally cool with it....We have been friends for many years.
inquiry10 7 months ago