How to ask her to be your girlfriend

[StalkingAlucard]

A guy did this to me, and it was very sweet. But at the same time I didnt know what to say in response because I tend to be rather shy and I wasnt sure if he was really being serious... So strangely I kinda wish he'd asked me outright instead.

[mle011]

I think this is good advice! Like he said in the beginning, its all about the timing. Later is better, way better than too early. Like if its just 3 dates, you wouldn't introduce her as a girlfriend...but if its been a month or two of exclusive, regular, great dates...then why not go for it? It shows confidence which is extremely sexy.

[bmxt12]

ive known this girl for 7 years and shes always pushing me and talking to me about her probloms and one time she was sad and she came up behind me and huged me what should i do ask her out or let her make the move

[supersoniclink1]

@bmxt12 dude go for it im 90% SURE that it will work

[BryanTheDoomBringer]

first time i asked a girl "do you want to be my girlfriend?" she was quiet for 5 seconds...

then said no...and that is when i learned to move on!

[MEFizzle17]

if a guy just introduced me as his girlfriend before he asked me I would think that he was a self absorbed bastard, and he was assuming that I would want to go out with him

[donyahya]

dear arkady39

i've been watching your videos for the past couple of months while pursuing a girl. your videos have been super helpful n encouraging, especially the "don't give up too soon" one. i feel like i'm getting to know her better and closer to her every day and i think i'm gonna ask her to be my girlfriend next month.

[SuperCakeGuy]

@donyahya Go for it, Mate :)

[sabevabg]

cool .. and the manner in which u present it is cool , too !

[prettyb0y1992]

Tbh I'd rather play it safe. It's a 50/50. Your method could backfire horribly

[TineTrendeline]

Well I don't think this one would work if the guy doesn't know whether or not the girl wants to be his girlfriend... personally with me and my boyfriend it just came naturally.. and boom we were a couple... we didn't even discuss it that much.. we just both knew.. :/

[zaninmattis]

honestly dude, i think you give great advice in general but this one would not fly with me!! i'd feel really uncomfortable, like the guy just made the decision that we were a couple without even asking me first. I'd be annoyed and prob be turned of no matter how much i was feeling the guy prior to the situation

[brucelee456]

this is a terrible fucking idea

[MikeMailhos]

"You freak me out a little bit."

[YHCD]

This guy is absolute amazing, Like Wiki-Dating. :D

[frost310]

This guy knows his craft.

[TheMparmpagiannis]

body language*

[TheMparmpagiannis]

make compliments to her and when the time comes tell that you like a girl that has everything that someone whould like...tell her that she has the same things that you complimented her and put some extra stuff in,after that look her directly in the eyes and use a little bit of bodu language,if she looks comfused smile some more and keep looking her in the eyes,if she ask you who it is then say it is her but it is very rare for anyone not to understand...sorry for my english :) good luck!

[RBFalcon24]

"hey this is my girlfriend" **slaps** " no the fuck i am not .. yea that obviously wont work...

[Nintenslayer]

2nd one for me is too risky ._.

[genghong]

Thank dude

[SaltwaterAir1]

Ok, i will not be surprised if he does this to me then :P

[iAREanthonyyy]

I can totally see this NOT working.

"Hey this is my girlfriend"

"Uh wait what?" *awkward, confused look*

*Nervous laughs* "Haha, I'm not his girlfriend"

And now EVERYONE involved looks retarded.

[datdude1108]

Dude That Is Ballzy As Hell

[SilentSputnik]

This shit is awkward as fuck.

[TheHighfly58]

This shits better work or Im going to kidnapy that girl. she keep avoid me all the time.

[slick0567]

thanks for advice!

[dafuksup]

i dont necessarily agree with what this guy said. you dont just go around introducing her to people as your girlfriend if you havent even discussed it first. it could be really awkward for her or awkward for you if she says in front of the person your introducing her to "uhhhh ....im not ur girlfriend we're just friends..." :|

[wassup986]

@dafuksup That's what he said. If she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, she'll tell you. If she does want to be your girlfriend, she'll be thrilled/

[dafuksup]

@wassup986 thats my point. theres no reason to put her on the spot in a potentially awkward situation when its easier to just be a man and ask her straight up if she wants to be your girlfriend or not.

[silverdark43]

hey arkady first thanks for all your kind advises you give everything free without expecting anything in reply i understand you

but despite all these advises can you make a video or demonstrate how the first date is with some of your friends or in any other way

your advises are very concise and concrete but making a video on actual first date will clear more things like your body language, punches etc.

so please try to make a video of actual first date as you will get a chance

forgive my english

[KyleABaker12]

is 13 to early to be takeing this advice

[Spikanor123]

@KyleABaker12 well i dont know, im 13 and watching this

[MFormation]

@KyleABaker12 Not a problem. It's great to know about this stuff when your about that age, so that when the time comes, you're ready. I'd suggest that you wait to go out with girls later. 13 is an awkward age because people change quickly.

[ballisticdjwest]

VHY CANT I SHIT ON HER FACE AND SEE IF SHE LIKE THE SMELL?

[placebo4yo]

I FUCKING HATE THIS!

[11assaf]

118 failed to ask their girlfriends if they want to be together

[AGamersAdvantage]

@11assaf they need to get 118 118 to fix it! :D

[TheSpaceShot]

I failed on the first step before watching this ... what do i do ??

[gobsiter]

just get some cable ties and roofies

[TWhite2345]

I like the idea of saying she is in front of a friend

[17hitpk]

LOLL

"you should ask her a little later than a little to early"

[blackberries69]

@17hitpk lmfao

[DeejayLarz2006]

@17hitpk So that means if I meet her in the morning, by 10 pm that night I could ask her, that's late enough! Or maybe even drunk dial her at 3 am lol

[legendnemesis]

what if she tells u in front of ur friend?

[saberman41]

@legendnemesis ask him or her for some privacy

[legendnemesis]

@saberman41 yea but then this smart guy's move isn't viable

[saberman41]

@legendnemesis what do you mean what she tells you anyway?

[legendnemesis]

@saberman41 watch the video and you'll understand my point

[saberman41]

@legendnemesis tells you shes not your girlfriend, well i you can say is im sorry i was just under the impression yeah it will be weird but personally i dont think this is even a good way to go about this anyway

[Akalyptos95]

225259 people doesnt know how to say to a girl to be your gf ?!

[BL4CKNi6HTM4R3]

my problim is that we dont talk so much

and i cant see her alone

[thebread9]

Haha I watched the whole thing and after he said HERE ARE TWO TIPS i was like, what the hell are the tips?

[YourTypeOfThing]

WOW The Most Risky & Inconvenient Way To Ask A Girl!

[tsakaful]

i tried this end when she heardabout it she started to shout and she left from the bar we where

[hershy12345]

i did this and i got punched so....

[cpartyReborn]

yes thanks, you blew out my confidence ....:)

[TehStutter]

dude i have no problems with asking girls out its that its the same girl,

so its kinda weird saying the same old "do you wanna be my girlfriend?"

Thanks ill try this but if it fails which i know for a FACT it wont because this girl would get a penis to date me again.

But anyways if its akward im unsubbing.

ok pumpkin?

[Shanetim]

@TehStutter Odd fellow...

[TehStutter]

@Shanetim Lol yeah i kinda am

[fvBarcaFanXD]

Yooo! Thats some good advice

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[WTFWatchThisFilmWTF]

erasing this from my history xP no one will ever kno.... ok goin on chat roullette.

[dab45de]

i hate ur accent!!

[YEAHMOTHAFUCKER]

@dab45de I LOVE IT :D :D :D

[garmin65]

but justin beiber don't need to watch this,, cuz every day he date more then 10 girls :PPP

[FidelCastro128]

'''So here are two tits, if you want a girl to be your girlfriend'



[mostlyghostly69]

@firebird4193. That's what I did

[mostlyghostly69]

@firebird4193

[zenkicookies]

"hey man this is my girlfriend, we have sex all the time, pretty hot huh?" XD

[MRbabySNIPER360]

some one is lonley



[DJxSGGxNeo]

She left me for the friend I showed her off to.... lol just jk.... This works :)

[alimzarrabi]

yeah, that sounds like a horrible idea -.-

[BLUEBOY01021]

thx i like some one ill try it

[THabAdASSmasTeR]

"each udder"

[firebird4193]

wut do u say to ask her? do u jsut say like "do u wanna go out sometime?" or wut, ive come across this a few times and ive been like fuck.. idk wut to say

[oziel8738]

what i want to do is do something so wonderul for her that she would love me so much that she will never say no to me do you think thats a good idea?

[fgdfhtrhg]

i got an advice once, it was to ask before someone else does, and i left it too late but ive only known her a week or 2

[MrBeaner152]

god i feel like a bitch

[ItsSandevi]

How to tell people your gay: press 4 repeatly

[SuperAngryHippo]

i find it so immature when guys ask girls stupid questions like "would you like to go out with me?" or "would you like to be my girlfriend" and it annoys me even more when girls expect that sort of thing in order to make it an "official relationship". im single since yesterday and my plan is that if a girl expects that from me in the future, shes out the door. its meant to come naturally. it can be a conversation, talking about being exclusive to each other and where you stand with her. IMO

[TheInsertanamehere]

1:11 im in highschool akwardness is just parta da game

[MyMsunique]

ill rather a guy ask me to be his girlfriend than him just introducing me as his girlfriend. even if i was looking forward to it or not it'll be creepy nd weird

[peymin]

title should be " how to creep her out "

[dddmeee26]

This is stupid, your stupid,and your site is stupid.

[MsNelo85]

I'm a girl... And I like this advice. :)

[pspslimhacks]

111 people got rejected

[JOJO619BOY]

@pspslimhacks lol

[FLATblacktical]

lol this is the worst advice ever. That's so surreptitious and unfair. Basically giving her an ultimatum:

1) accept that I just decided you are now my girlfriend

OR

2) take a stand against it and make the whole thing akward

[Iwrekurlife999]

Getting to know a girl is like playing football, it's all about comumication, if you don't comunicatw your team loses. And always be in control of the ball ;)

[ThatAmazingCoversGuy]

"hey I enjoy being with you and I was just wondering if we could make this thing official"

[FLATblacktical]

@ThatAmazingCoversGuy LOL "this thing"

[ThatAmazingCoversGuy]

Another way you could ask is "hey

[ThatAmazingCoversGuy]

@musiqchild007 you are so right! SOOO RIGHT!

[streetkingz14]

will you go......wah? wait, shouldnt you be in the kitchen? >:(

[musiqchild007]

Um...what? LOL...you do this to a black girl and she will EMBARRASS YOU THERE AND THEN...she won't wait until after...you can believe that homeboi.

[licialicous]

@PorkChop16x23 P*ssy :)

[SuperEllie87]

not a good idea

[IronWolvesBand]

will this video help 11 year olds ? :)

[XHugzNKissX]

@IronWolvesBand i am ten and i will tell you how :3

make sure its not just a " will you go out with me" give her a rose or somehting :P and do it in a secret romantic place and make sure to give her space :) GoodLuck~

[ConstellationMovies]

Step 3: get rid of that extremely annoying voice.

[nuking20]

Horrible advice I said no to all the girls in my class and they r hot as hell

[zuzanarox]

terrible advice

[ArnoldLayne87]

Haha, ask them to be your gf online before you even talk on the phone or meet in person....that's the best way imo...jk lol.

[SuperGwanny]

Bull Shit



[junkillectrix]

i'm reaction nr 1000 YUY!!!

[hpahmed100]

i can't wait one more min.. to tell her i wnat u be my girl friend

[alexanderpoulakhs]

im trying to say to a girl that i love her, i cant... when im trying to say that my legs are shaking and my mouth cant open to say anything,... 4 example today i tryed but i fail to get my mouth open so i run away...i think that im to shy for this...i think that she likes me too...but i cant tell that...ANY HELP GUYS???HOW CAN I TELL THAT???? OR WHAT SOULD I DO???? OMG I NEED HELP... :(

[heyhohow1]

I do not agree with that, the guy does not have the right (yet) to introduce the girl as his girlfried without she agrees to be recognised as one, sorry I just think this is improper.

[mariah2304]

bullshit

[parksman2112]

your wards ( words ) jkjk

[CrazyFunnyFricke]

I did this before but instead of firmly making a statement that, "This is my girl friend____." I looked at her and said it as more of a question. "This is my (looked at her) girlfriend?_____." It went over fine.

[225ripcurl]

This dude sounds like kermit the frog, and the advice is crap. You sound like u never had a girlfriend! hahahaha

[chewbaccarules]

@225ripcurl hi troll

[kieradressler]

look, im a woman, and my advice-DONT DO THIS!! it makes the girl uncomfortable and confused on your relationship!

[McFrealy]

@kieradressler

and how should i do?

[BigAgitator]

when is this safe? after how many dates? prob'ly at least 5-15 dates

[wwfls4]

how can u tell if she waiting for u to ask n u expect her to ask

[TheRayBeverly]

@PorkChop16x23 LOL Hilarious!

[LAJ123BOY]

You probably dont have a girl friend. B*tch

[jerk151810]

haha lol nice vid bro . =]]

[zhaoyun618]

dude, THANK GOD YOU HAVE BEEN BORN! YOU JUST

THANKYOU!

[Oreocookie25]

Should i buy she Flower and Some Cindy on the First date??? Just asking.. can someone help me out please and Thank you :)

[WHOAMIdude342]

i feel like a loser for watching this -_-

[MusicMan53100]

@WHOAMIdude342 You should feel like a guy who is learning how to treat a lady! I think women would rather you watch this and learn while feeling like a loser than not watching and being a duehe... 

[alizey09]

@WHOAMIdude342 If you feel you need some improvement, then seeking out a helpful video like this isn't loserish. Self-improvement is never negative. The only thing negative is your current mindset that made you say that. :)

[galelo11]

@WHOAMIdude342 why is that?

[20kevron]

@WHOAMIdude342 don't be man, for every video like this, there's a girl watching one like this

[WHOAMIdude342]

@20kevron ty u for the info

[SneaKinGHunTeR75]

@WHOAMIdude342 you shouldnt. women are confusing to men , and so are we to them. its okay to try and understand better, instead of rushing into failure. plus you shouldnt be ashamed of your curiosity.

[kingkingf]

@WHOAMIdude342

don't feel bad for beeing one, everyone who whatchs this is one^^

[2008revboy]

@WHOAMIdude342 AWH be confident lmfao wtf am i talking about im the one watching th evideo!! xDDDDD

[BL4CKNi6HTM4R3]

@WHOAMIdude342 looooooooooooooooooooooooooool

[jerk151810]

Step 3: Dont tell her you watched this video.

[Oreocookie25]

@jerk151810 haha that's soo funny lo lol lol lol

[seriousman99]

@jerk151810 LOL!

[thekrakenism]

you are like a brother to me

PWNED!

[deadfrik]

Hallo,

the first tip is ok, but sorry man, the second one is very bad.

I´ve seen a lot of your videos and most of the time I agree with you but not on this one.

Most of the girls I spent time with would be very angry if I did this.

I also gotta say that I really appreciate your work, thank you for the time you invest.

Greetings from Germany

[EmilioThePrince]

You don't ask someone to be your bf/gf, it will naturally happen..

[DJKENmusicremix]

omg just be yourself guys

[SoHazee]

Simply incorrect Each girl has a Different way That they wanna Be ask. and Tbh i dont think Many of them Care how you ask so Just be yourself and Just simply Pop the Question P.S Please dont Say He this is my Gf Thats insane and Embarrasing.

[potpolima]

@SoHazee the way you speak,it seems you treat asking girls as a matter of life and death.you lack confidence ..what if she says no?"he's not my bf,he's lying"!!this is your opportunity to be funny...this strategy needs a lot of confidence...just don't do it if you feel your not confident enough because you will be embarassed...again it doesn't matter what you say.. its how you say

[SoHazee]

@potpolima "He's Not my bf;he's Lying" How can u be Funny from Being Rejected.

[potpolima]

@SoHazee i can crack a joke even if i'm rejected(cuz i get rejected sometimes)...English is my 3rd language..i don't know english that much...this doesn't work all the time because girls are different individuals...BEING REJECTED IS NATURAL AND NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, the people around you will appreciate the fact that you have balls trying to get a girl...you're still the man!

[ryguy2598]

@PorkChop16x23

Yeah supposedly telling is better than asking.....but how would you tell her? "Hey, you're now my girlfriend"......."You're going to be my girlfriend" lol that doesn't seem right....you're not even getting her consent and it sounds weird.

[bionicsheepguy]

Thanks this should really help

[ifail47at5failing]

Your a beast.

[3xtr3m3r4ng3er]

why the hell would i do that wtf wtf wtf!  1:40

[17zambre]

you know how you said, “this is Lily”? well the girl I like, her name is Liddy. I just thought that was kind of weird.

[Dudeguy785]

Wow, that sounds like a good way to drive a woman off really fast.

[david292978]

oh man this guy makes me grin like a real mutherfucker. cant wait to execute all this shit into real 1 on 1 life situations.

[david292978]

i believe this guy is some kind of women guru. how many women have yu been with dude? you sound like you having sex with girls for 16 generations

[TheBennysoldier]

@6191440 LMFAO........ That`s a bad one

[maoriboy3214]

read the on below first:

think of what her answer would be

do rush it just take it easy and calm.

and then pop the question like this

i like you alot and im pretty shore you like me

(make sure you know she likes you.!)

and i would love to be your boyfriend its better

than asking her to be your girlfriend trust me its less

orkwid for her ...well good luck f you use this. :D

[maoriboy3214]

much like my self im in this situation but i know

how to deal with it.

ask her out on a simple date to the movies for example

you know its a public area so she fells comfteble so you watch

for a while then when its a quiet seen you stay..

rachael for example: iv have known for the first monment

that this moment would happen but i didny know weather the answer

would be yes

*that would slowly get her thinking about what your talking about*

she then will expect it and have time to

[Guny5239]

its so hard to wait but

[Theboxer500]

@PorkChop16x23 That is the best way to do it too. You always wanna tell the girl, never ever ask. Asking is a weakness and it's unattractive.

[elrubberbando0333]

U said like borat

[nightfire4107]

i just never ask and eventually she just assumes we are actually are.... works everytime!!!

[Cointwo]

@nightfire4107 yes yes, thats true. i think i never asked a girl to be my girlfriend and they also did not, but that doesnt mean we were not lovers. I agree with you

[swaggerdog72]

I like this girl and ive known her for more than a year she is really cute and while at the park she gave me a small touch on the face with her hand but looked away. We hang out alot and i may be stupid but does she LIKE me? Im only 13

[rndmprsn123]

this isnt as good as your other advice (im a girl) yes, the "will you be my girlfriend" is quite straightforward but it works better than the introducing thing...thats cornering her and also it takes away the excitement in being able to say yes and be asked and that embarassing when she says "im not your girlfriend" in front of your friend

[cameron2222222]

fuck asking her that shit, just stick your D in her instead

[cameron2222222]

fuck telling asking her that shit, just stick your D in her instead

[awesomebeto75]

@cameron2222222 aww man dude she doesnt want to be yours ...sorry trust me it happened to me </3