Should You Tell Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Your Past Secrets

[619Terbz]

It may be best to inform your partner of you past, especially since this would build trust an honesty within the relationship. Also, it's mainly best when they hear it from you than an outside source.

This particular thing has happened in my relationship, where I did not tell my gf some things about me, and someone else beat me to it. Although things are better now, I've mainly regretted not being open as I should have from the start ~ could have saved both of us alotta stress!

[that2001boy]

Again. There is just stuff in your videos I don't like. Maybe its because you have too much truth in it. Maybe its because you let by the spirit. I don't know. But God is telling me you know what u sayin and sam is messed up

[onedadou1984]

Good video! I personally want to know my partner's past & I want to reveal mine to him. I believe that it's important to "put everything on the table", not too early in the relationship & not too late (years later)....

[lingen13]

Love your videos!

You should put a link from your description to your website :)

[PrincesseSj27]

I agree with you on most points as well! But I would like to know about my partners past, simply because your past made you who you are and is a good predictor of the future (not to say people don't transition and mature, they do) No one comes into a relationship with a blank slate, they are going to be putting their best foot forward anyways so appropriate disclosure for me is necessary. I want to know the exes,sexual past if they have had a homosexual experience.You can't know everything but..

[zheahra]

I agree. However, the no. of ppl you've been with might have an effect on a relationship if there is a chance you could have a disease. Well, it would depend on how long it's been since you'd participated in a "looser" lifestyle and the last time you've been tested for any sexually transmitted diseases. Yes, ppl change all of the time. But, that question will come up and you potential husband or wife will need to know for health reasons.