I know that no one can help me. I have hated my self since I was 12( I'm 20 now) and I still hate myself. Cutting and punching myself helped so much, I would feel so good afterwards; it was like a boost for me after I could do anything and it wouldn't bother me. I haven't cut for a few months now because I'm going into the army, I can't wait I truly
back then i used to have low self esteem but though family death ,people picking on me ,getting hella lot of rejections,having my mom dispect me,girls and guys calling me names saying that i dont belong here blah blah blah etc i become stronger even tho these people act the same it dont effect me and even if girls dont like me in the future who care .And there is no such thing as everyone has somebody,cause i talk to old men and guys that never had girls its all luck. :D
I wish one day someone would make a video about low self esteem and not feeling good about the INSIDE. Because honestly, I know I'm pretty...... on the outside. I just don't like anything about my inside. And it seems like every time people talk about low self esteem they're always like, "It's not about how you look on the outside, it's about the inside!" Well not for me :/ ..Btw, great vid! :) Very good advice.
Thanks, Ditigal Soul! I am a damaged individual who has always suffered from anxiety/depression and low self-esteem. I am actually starting a 10-week workshop in my community next week. I want to change and be healthy.
I will remember what you said, too. If someone is spending their precious time knocking other people down, then they are the ones with the problem. I recognize that I have a problem, and now I'm ready to take responsibility to become the healthy person I know that I can be.
Hey, I was exactly like you when I was your age and you truely have no idea how much of your life you have left to live!! Being seventeen is ROUGH!, I won't lie to you but life after high school can honestly be great if you allow it to be. Any girl worth her medal will accept you for who YOU are instead of wanting you to be just another playboy. High school teens are often EXTREMELY shallow compared to adults in their 20's and 30's, so if you don't get friends and dates now.
you will later and probably ones that care more about you anyways. No matter how much you are hated in high school you still have a lot of life left to live. You are VERY YOUNG and Have a lot more time than you. The older you get the MORE appreciated you will be for being true to yourself and everthing will work itself out well enough.
I'm only a 23 year old man so this advice isn't coming from a really ''old guy'' ethier.
Thank you so much for posting this video! I really appreciate your wise advice on how I can overcome my low self-esteem. I've never openly talked about this issue as something that I've struggled with all my life except to a therapist but I like how bold and straight to the point you are about just "making it happen" instead of thinking and thinking "what if"s. It's a thinking pattern that is really hard to break and one last thing, I love the whole break out of the shell analogy too.
I have bad depression and self esteem issues. My family really doesn't want to hear it. Friends don't really want to hear it. I cant afford to see a professional, not that i think that would help anyway. I like your style man, but i have never been able to feel better by someone telling me things that i already know and think about every day. Anyway, Point! Lol, I have been thinking about putting a channel up talking about some of my experiences that led me to my thinking of today. ^Thoughts^
please people do not associate looks with self esteem because looks fade..to me self esteem is just how you feel about your surroundings.. i hope you understand where i am coming from so you can live your life..you must take control over your mind..self esteem is 100 percent mental..looks have nothing to do about your feelings..when i was in shape i had less courage and self esteem than i do know and i am a little big now...and still pretty handsome..please listen to what im saying and just live
You must learn to let things go and just move on..your mind must be strong..dont tell your self i want to do this to build my self esteem..nothing can build self esteem..you can only react differently to things that discourage you..instead of thinking i want to have high self esteem to ask out this girl you say whatever happens happens and i take chances ..you just cant worry about being judged..i am so happy with life not that i have control over my thoughts
i WILL not let anything bother me and i wont let nothing get to me...self esteem is how you let outside things affect you...if you dont let outside things affect you then how you look wont matter..the media has you tricked that self esteem has to do with how you think you look or if your worth something..that is true to an extent..I know im handsome but battled low or no self esteem for years until yesterday...i said whatever happens i wont get upset...if you want to improve your self esteem
OGM..i know the secret to improving self esteem...its a mindstate that i broke out of yesterday and had the time of my life...self esteem is the feeling that people are judging you..you HAVE to say to your self, im fed up and im tired of having low self esteem...you have to literaly get out and go somewhere..you have to be tired of being alone and insecure and just go for it..you have to be frustrated..self esteem is how you let things affect you in life..you MUST tell your self (Part 1)
Man you're so inspiring, never stop what your doing. I had a tonne of shit happen to me recently, this girl i liked sucked-off my two best friends, and it's really been screwing with me. It's tough and i've dropped so badly in confidence. It actually made me think "are there any decent people left out there?" But seeing this vid man, makes me KNOW it homie ;) peace x
that oldest addiction. pride. ego. self. self esteem issues will foster envy, desperation and lies, gossip. if you believe what THEY say will create high self esteem, your life just became a lie. confidence is not ego. "confidence" is just learning skills well enough to produce anything... ability. ( those people you look up to are just skilled at acting). love all of yourself, esp the real ugly stuff. try this first. we are all afraid and needy. esp rich successful types.
Today I bursted to tears crying due to the fact that I have such low self esteem. It was cleansing but still I hide it very deep. Sometimes I just think about stuff like. Do my friends really like me? Do they talk shit about me behind my back? It's harder for me though cause I'm 16 years old and I'm in high school. Until I get this problem off me I wont get my grades back up cause I'm always so sad. I'm not emo, I just have deep self esteem issues. And I envy those who act so cocky and douchey.
No matter what I do I can't become a self-confident guy. I know that i am not good-looking but I have a lot of good qualities, like good memory, maths skills, etc. And i am not a douche-bag, or one of those guys that only talk about themselves. But it doesn't give me any self-steam. I dont know why the hell i am shy, 'cause when i look at the mirror i dont see an ugly boy.
Seriously all of you low self esteem losers sulking around the internet should either be more usefull or if they cant because of being a pussy with no self confidence than they should just hurry up a bullet in their brain. They are just being wastes
@cheese2471 Hahahahaahhaha, seriously if your that big of a loser then please just do it and die! That way the non loser pussies who dont sulk around the internet can have more food, air, and space to improve this soon to be 3rd world country america. We shouldnt cater to losers its a waste of time, resources, thought, and money (all 4 of those things america is starting to run low on especially thought) So please do it and try to convince other losers to do it aswell.
I do have low self esteem not about the way I look, but the way I am my charecter is not easy one and sometimes it seems like people really dislike me, I do not think I am stupid, but I feel that way - even though I understand I am not - one mistake and I feel like crap, there is also a lot of things I can't do like singing - no matter how much I try it is just really bad, not my imigination - even my parent think I can' sing, and I don't know why it bothers me, it is just singing, but it does
@cheese2471 suicide is NOT the way to go man. So you may have ppl that don't treat u with respect I get that, but that's only because they r immature. Trust me there r ppl who love u, and will miss u when ur gone. It's not worth throwing your life away. Focus on the good relationships u do have and don't worry wat other ppl think
I agree. Looks don't really define who you are. They just are there for a first impression. And no matter what someone looks like on the outside, if they dont feel good on the inside it just doesn't matter.
Thank you so much for making this video! I don't have low self-esteem but am very shy and very sensitive and this video really helped me thank you so much :)
This is such a great vid,he basically says outloud what I've been thinking.I let other peoples opinion of me control me for yrs until one day I realised how weak I was to let these assholes make me feel bad about myself.I learned to be strong and to not let people like that have power over me in that way again.
It's true easier said than done, but its all about not worrying about what someone thinks of you. That's the difference between a leader and a follower or even worse a looser that everyone just steps on and uses as their pet. The reason I think I have a low self esteem is because of not reaching the height I wanted to be, and well my dad was killed when I was 6, so those are just a few things that make me who I am.
Hey man, I really love your vids. I haven't tried any yet because it's my 1st time seein' your videos. But tomorrow at school I think I'll be different... :)
for real man no bullshit this man is one of the realest mutherfuckers ive heard..i dont know him..but ive heard him and im not even jokin man this goofy sun of a bitch saved my life man im serious if we all thought like this man here wed be traveling through light years wed evolve into one being a unity an understanding a fellowship its a fucking shame we all dont see it this way i hope we do one day much love and respect to this man.. mutherfukin genious man no shit props to this nigga peace
hey man im not even joking here i was 2 seconds away from putting a bullet in my brain and for some strange twist of fate i came across your video i know its corny as all shit but for some reason listening to this ive decided to hold out alittle longer it kind of makes me laugh at what a meaningless piece of shit existence i have most people go on walk aboubts go to a church go fuck a hooker go on a vigilante mission me i surf on you tube before putting a bullet in my head wish i had u asafriend
Hi men this is Max from Costa Rica, i realy loved your videos... i have a question for you... I dont know why i feel incomploete wihtout a girl( even though i understand i shoud be happy by myself) but i am not good whit girl. Everytime i am dateing a girl somthing goes wrong and i end alon... (maxguerrero86@gmail.com) this is my e-mail you may want to answer me by mail, or a video or whatever. I realy need yor help
thank you so ever much!!!! i have low self esteem. i look at my self and say im am rlly ugly. i have been wanting to stop trashing myself for a while but i couldnt. you said to look in the mirror and say good things to your self. i am going to do tht now every day! i will start talk about what ever i want to who ever i want! thank so so much for this video :]
hey man, you're a phenomenal speaker, but i'm sure it's easier for people to tell others to break out of their shells and be more social, be more open, etc., if you're an outgoing, caring, people-person type guy such as yourself...
Man, you really do magic here. I think the greatest gift is to be able to improve the lives of people around you. It sounds like you're pretty set in life, as far as being happy. You've got a wife, kids, the whole nine yards. You don't need to help people with low self-esteem or who suffer from being alone, but you do. Do you know what a bodhisattva is? In Buddhism, it is a person who is elightened enough to enter nirvana, but instead chooses to stay behind and use his wisdom to help others.
I admire you. Bless your heart ! Your a very positive person and also attractive ! Im sorry to hear you was raped, my mother experienced the same thing. Theres some horrible people in this world and your not one of them. Your lovely !
The problem doesn't only lie in yourself. We live in a world that's over-obsessed with the winner vs. loser thing. You are only a loser if you don't care about being happy in your very own way, but even then, you might have a good reason for that.
Everyone who is reading this comment, please click on my username for my videos I made about the The Truth of the World. I have found out what the truth of life is, the truth of the world, and the truth of God. Please, I really want people to watch and listen what I have to say. No more living in false reality, no more living in illusions, no more thinking there is no way out......its time to lead your life into The Truth of the World!!!!!!!!!
i jerk off too much, i have a great body i work a lot my muscles no a bodybuilder but i think working it out makes my my self more confident with the chicks :( but im so afraid of being rejected, it doesnt matter how much i work out im afraif
i jerk off too much, i have a great body i work a lot my muscles no a bodybuilder but i think working it out makes my my self more confident with the chicks :( but im so afraid of being rejected, it doesnt matter how much i work out im afraif
i really dont give a fuck about how i dress, i wear jeans, converse, a skater or band t-shirt and a flannel or jacket everyday. this girl i liked was telling me that she judges guys on how they dress, and i said "wtf... what if they were a total douche or something like that?" she didnt say anything.... Lol
I dont get why people judge people on how they dress, I DRESS TO BE COMFORTABLE. who gives a flying FUCK!
I'm pretty short, but i'm really strong for my age i'm pretty good looking and I am athletic. at my school which is a high-school for only gifted children, and everybody (except for me) 's average is like 96%. my average isnt bad its 81% but they always call me stupid and shit like that. I really feel bad about it and i dont know what to do...
aw man, being in a school for gifted children at all is a good thing and as you say 81% isnt bad, whoevers saying this to you is obviously just a jerk, and people are always going to judge you no matter how good you are so try not to worry too much from it
i'm really good looking, and i feel like shit most of the time. Movements are clumpsy, words are stupid, etc. Being good looking matters shit. There's a certain flow you must get by being confident, and in every transition you'll feel akward and people around you will do too. But the transition from loser to winner is something to do ASAP if you want to die happy. Be as smart as you want, give as many fucks as you want, but BE HAPPY.
@moderjoker i get compliments on my looks alot. But somehow i still feel like shit ! I dont see what they all see. I rather look like someone else. Ive felt like this ever since i dated my ex, he made me feel really insecure.
2)Type down a negative thought that you have (I am nobody, I am nothing, I don't deserve a good relationship)
3) Set its font size down to 4
4) Type a positive self esteem that you want (I am valueable, I am always enough, I am confident)
5) Set its font size to 25
Do this for as long as you want, keep using copying and pasting the positive affirmation for as long you you want. It will quieten the negative version.
Nicely done. Wish you were my uncle telling me those things earlier. Guess we have to learn life's lessons eventually. As for me, I used to practice "snappy comebacks" for hecklers. It's a start....
to digitilsoul, oh, REALLY! u can look jacked up and still b cool, so a person lookin like hee haw, with teeth that looks like a fuckin broke piano that got the keys stickin all out from the piano. thats cool? bitch teeth so big, she brushes them with a toiletbowl brush.
Looks don't matter man, the people who believe so have their own opinion. In my opinion, I should have said above the beginning. Looks don't matter people just assume it does because all the "men" enjoy looking at models more than normal women. Thus, why the women of this world care about looks and spend so much on it.
who wanna go out with a ugly ho? and for the record, ugly hoes are mostly the ones who are stuck up. i aint a ugly ho especially to be a chocolate girl. and i aint stuck up. as the matter of fact, I HAVE LOOOW SELF ESTEEM. now whatcha got to say?
I know that no one can help me. I have hated my self since I was 12( I'm 20 now) and I still hate myself. Cutting and punching myself helped so much, I would feel so good afterwards; it was like a boost for me after I could do anything and it wouldn't bother me. I haven't cut for a few months now because I'm going into the army, I can't wait I truly
Hope I get killed.
bcount1 1 month ago
back then i used to have low self esteem but though family death ,people picking on me ,getting hella lot of rejections,having my mom dispect me,girls and guys calling me names saying that i dont belong here blah blah blah etc i become stronger even tho these people act the same it dont effect me and even if girls dont like me in the future who care .And there is no such thing as everyone has somebody,cause i talk to old men and guys that never had girls its all luck. :D
a084123 3 months ago
Woah, you're a tough, but caring guy. Thanks for the advice!
Annntonnni 3 months ago
I wish one day someone would make a video about low self esteem and not feeling good about the INSIDE. Because honestly, I know I'm pretty...... on the outside. I just don't like anything about my inside. And it seems like every time people talk about low self esteem they're always like, "It's not about how you look on the outside, it's about the inside!" Well not for me :/ ..Btw, great vid! :) Very good advice.
lalalalaura12345 3 months ago
here is my plan to get a girl it sucks hey your hot
LAID ( doesnt work )
ThePhyduck900 4 months ago
we need to grow up
delizvillanueva 4 months ago
Thank You
LadylcukC3AC3A 4 months ago in playlist LadylcukC3AC3A's favorites
i want to be like you when i grow up :)
Mitchhhful 5 months ago
Thanks, Ditigal Soul! I am a damaged individual who has always suffered from anxiety/depression and low self-esteem. I am actually starting a 10-week workshop in my community next week. I want to change and be healthy.
I will remember what you said, too. If someone is spending their precious time knocking other people down, then they are the ones with the problem. I recognize that I have a problem, and now I'm ready to take responsibility to become the healthy person I know that I can be.
Janellbird 5 months ago
Cool man.
Brainconvulsion 7 months ago
I hate myself and want to commit suicide. Good bye everyone.
stewielove101 7 months ago
@stewielove101 don't do it man you have a reason to live.
andrew19vato 5 months ago 2
@94dutchboy
Hey, I was exactly like you when I was your age and you truely have no idea how much of your life you have left to live!! Being seventeen is ROUGH!, I won't lie to you but life after high school can honestly be great if you allow it to be. Any girl worth her medal will accept you for who YOU are instead of wanting you to be just another playboy. High school teens are often EXTREMELY shallow compared to adults in their 20's and 30's, so if you don't get friends and dates now.
TheSecurityGuard02 7 months ago
you will later and probably ones that care more about you anyways. No matter how much you are hated in high school you still have a lot of life left to live. You are VERY YOUNG and Have a lot more time than you. The older you get the MORE appreciated you will be for being true to yourself and everthing will work itself out well enough.
I'm only a 23 year old man so this advice isn't coming from a really ''old guy'' ethier.
Wish you the best of luck my Friend.
TheSecurityGuard02 7 months ago
I am fifteen years old you give out great advise !
Pamela96ish 8 months ago
Thank you so much for posting this video! I really appreciate your wise advice on how I can overcome my low self-esteem. I've never openly talked about this issue as something that I've struggled with all my life except to a therapist but I like how bold and straight to the point you are about just "making it happen" instead of thinking and thinking "what if"s. It's a thinking pattern that is really hard to break and one last thing, I love the whole break out of the shell analogy too.
QuoGirl 8 months ago
I have bad depression and self esteem issues. My family really doesn't want to hear it. Friends don't really want to hear it. I cant afford to see a professional, not that i think that would help anyway. I like your style man, but i have never been able to feel better by someone telling me things that i already know and think about every day. Anyway, Point! Lol, I have been thinking about putting a channel up talking about some of my experiences that led me to my thinking of today. ^Thoughts^
unrested6669 8 months ago
great video
Relationshiprograms 9 months ago
please people do not associate looks with self esteem because looks fade..to me self esteem is just how you feel about your surroundings.. i hope you understand where i am coming from so you can live your life..you must take control over your mind..self esteem is 100 percent mental..looks have nothing to do about your feelings..when i was in shape i had less courage and self esteem than i do know and i am a little big now...and still pretty handsome..please listen to what im saying and just live
FLATFEET3 9 months ago
You must learn to let things go and just move on..your mind must be strong..dont tell your self i want to do this to build my self esteem..nothing can build self esteem..you can only react differently to things that discourage you..instead of thinking i want to have high self esteem to ask out this girl you say whatever happens happens and i take chances ..you just cant worry about being judged..i am so happy with life not that i have control over my thoughts
FLATFEET3 9 months ago
i WILL not let anything bother me and i wont let nothing get to me...self esteem is how you let outside things affect you...if you dont let outside things affect you then how you look wont matter..the media has you tricked that self esteem has to do with how you think you look or if your worth something..that is true to an extent..I know im handsome but battled low or no self esteem for years until yesterday...i said whatever happens i wont get upset...if you want to improve your self esteem
FLATFEET3 9 months ago
OGM..i know the secret to improving self esteem...its a mindstate that i broke out of yesterday and had the time of my life...self esteem is the feeling that people are judging you..you HAVE to say to your self, im fed up and im tired of having low self esteem...you have to literaly get out and go somewhere..you have to be tired of being alone and insecure and just go for it..you have to be frustrated..self esteem is how you let things affect you in life..you MUST tell your self (Part 1)
FLATFEET3 9 months ago
I usually have very high self esteem, but sometimes I'll think to myself that a lot of people are prettier than me.
On day I just walked into the bathroom and looked in the mirror and thought to myself "I AM beautiful."
animegirl929 9 months ago
You just made me really determined and reminded me not to judge from peoples appearance.
meow0meow7 10 months ago
you are the best man...
LiTtLeBiBiStAr 10 months ago
I like your video. I would hate to fight you in a bar unless you started it......lol
TheSeeker008 10 months ago
as i am watching this i am crying my eyes out :( i need a hug now
ilovelifewhimsical27 10 months ago 18
@ilovelifewhimsical27 *hugs so tightly* <3 i got low self asteem no one wants to talk to me they think i am awkward and ugly ...
sara69soso 3 months ago
Man you're so inspiring, never stop what your doing. I had a tonne of shit happen to me recently, this girl i liked sucked-off my two best friends, and it's really been screwing with me. It's tough and i've dropped so badly in confidence. It actually made me think "are there any decent people left out there?" But seeing this vid man, makes me KNOW it homie ;) peace x
0MrRib0 11 months ago
that oldest addiction. pride. ego. self. self esteem issues will foster envy, desperation and lies, gossip. if you believe what THEY say will create high self esteem, your life just became a lie. confidence is not ego. "confidence" is just learning skills well enough to produce anything... ability. ( those people you look up to are just skilled at acting). love all of yourself, esp the real ugly stuff. try this first. we are all afraid and needy. esp rich successful types.
lordchrisone1 11 months ago
Today I bursted to tears crying due to the fact that I have such low self esteem. It was cleansing but still I hide it very deep. Sometimes I just think about stuff like. Do my friends really like me? Do they talk shit about me behind my back? It's harder for me though cause I'm 16 years old and I'm in high school. Until I get this problem off me I wont get my grades back up cause I'm always so sad. I'm not emo, I just have deep self esteem issues. And I envy those who act so cocky and douchey.
TheL96A1Zombie 11 months ago
This guy just gave me so much confidence in myself.
KevinDFuller94 11 months ago
Bro what do I do if I can't find something I can do thats unique? Everything I do someone else does it ten times better
soccerpies 11 months ago
i watch this video everyday before i go to school to remind myself how to be more confident.
vanbumbumbum 11 months ago
Good video, man. Keep up the good work.
TH3FR4G1L3 1 year ago
this guy made me smile, i needed this, thank you
reneir0492 1 year ago
goddamn i needed this!
veronicachic 1 year ago
Thank you very much buddy! i kind of feel much better.
Snipinat0r22 1 year ago
No matter what I do I can't become a self-confident guy. I know that i am not good-looking but I have a lot of good qualities, like good memory, maths skills, etc. And i am not a douche-bag, or one of those guys that only talk about themselves. But it doesn't give me any self-steam. I dont know why the hell i am shy, 'cause when i look at the mirror i dont see an ugly boy.
viniciusvrd 1 year ago
@viniciusvrd im just like you man !!! except for the maths and all
deejayshan 11 months ago
Wow thanks for this video buddy, really enjoyed it, I feel better about myself already. All the best
Rubbersoulful 1 year ago
Usually when people are negative, it just shows they have the problem. Not u.
Gods0n1 1 year ago
your amazing!
Nellz25 1 year ago
Seriously all of you low self esteem losers sulking around the internet should either be more usefull or if they cant because of being a pussy with no self confidence than they should just hurry up a bullet in their brain. They are just being wastes
Wasavirgin112 1 year ago
@Wasavirgin112 And how are you making yourself useful?
VindictivePheasant 1 year ago
@cheese2471 Hahahahaahhaha, seriously if your that big of a loser then please just do it and die! That way the non loser pussies who dont sulk around the internet can have more food, air, and space to improve this soon to be 3rd world country america. We shouldnt cater to losers its a waste of time, resources, thought, and money (all 4 of those things america is starting to run low on especially thought) So please do it and try to convince other losers to do it aswell.
Wasavirgin112 1 year ago
I do have low self esteem not about the way I look, but the way I am my charecter is not easy one and sometimes it seems like people really dislike me, I do not think I am stupid, but I feel that way - even though I understand I am not - one mistake and I feel like crap, there is also a lot of things I can't do like singing - no matter how much I try it is just really bad, not my imigination - even my parent think I can' sing, and I don't know why it bothers me, it is just singing, but it does
FlypaperGirl 1 year ago
@FlypaperGirl im abit like that, the the 1st half of what u said :P
rimzo2006 1 year ago
@rimzo2006 probably most people are, wish I wasn't most, but well can do little about it
FlypaperGirl 1 year ago
@cheese2471 after a while man, you wont give a fuck about some stupid bitch. you can get over anything
meab12 1 year ago
You are really cool boy. I have watched so much professionals talking about this and you are by far better than them. Peace!!!!
vwentx 1 year ago
Great video. Self-respect, self-esteem can only come from the SELF
Ui2019 1 year ago
everyone tastes different! :D
asynonym85 1 year ago
this is actually really good advice
jonone1927 1 year ago 8
@cheese2471 suicide is NOT the way to go man. So you may have ppl that don't treat u with respect I get that, but that's only because they r immature. Trust me there r ppl who love u, and will miss u when ur gone. It's not worth throwing your life away. Focus on the good relationships u do have and don't worry wat other ppl think
melomanyac 1 year ago
I agree. Looks don't really define who you are. They just are there for a first impression. And no matter what someone looks like on the outside, if they dont feel good on the inside it just doesn't matter.
dimestarr91 1 year ago
i can turn my feet backwards
ArmoredNarwhal 1 year ago
@ArmoredNarwhal seriously????
andrew19vato 1 year ago
@andrew19vato yup :D
ArmoredNarwhal 1 year ago
OK this is good solid advice...Thanks
millions2nette 1 year ago
man you are amazing, thank you :))
ishan9496 1 year ago
Thank you so much for making this video! I don't have low self-esteem but am very shy and very sensitive and this video really helped me thank you so much :)
SailorMoon921 1 year ago
Im a troll but I like this :D
Product82 1 year ago
@Product82 lol. Amen.
katyc130890 1 year ago
awesome dude. can we talk a lil more about this?
Pinthumb 1 year ago
you just change my life? thank you
xXAnyriXx 1 year ago
This is such a great vid,he basically says outloud what I've been thinking.I let other peoples opinion of me control me for yrs until one day I realised how weak I was to let these assholes make me feel bad about myself.I learned to be strong and to not let people like that have power over me in that way again.
Joker16707 1 year ago
Hey mate.. just wanna say love you man. ;)
IamFlame2007 1 year ago
Damn it. I'm trying to go to sleep, but you're making better discoveries than Socrates and I just can't stop watching.
DumbAssNegative 1 year ago 2
@DumbAssNegative
heheeh its gon' be hard for me to get out of bed at the right time tomorrow :D
my eyes are glued to him.
veronicachic 1 year ago
you should write a book!
tjskaterkid1 1 year ago
This is one of the best videos I've seen.
OrthodoxVideos 1 year ago
You're the man. I wish you all the best.
razorsharp20 1 year ago
Great Video Really Helped Me Out!
BeTVGo 1 year ago
Quite true
baqarpak 1 year ago
only white people have lowselfesteem
lue513 1 year ago
@lue513 rascist fck
cheetahlikescheese 1 year ago
@cheetahlikescheese bitch go shoot up yo school and slit yo rist after
lue513 1 year ago
@lue513 its the internet lol wth is ur prob? im stickin up for others ur pickin on u dont serously thnk i take u serous from clear over here
cheetahlikescheese 1 year ago
respect
xxsappy 1 year ago
It's true easier said than done, but its all about not worrying about what someone thinks of you. That's the difference between a leader and a follower or even worse a looser that everyone just steps on and uses as their pet. The reason I think I have a low self esteem is because of not reaching the height I wanted to be, and well my dad was killed when I was 6, so those are just a few things that make me who I am.
lizardstyle101 1 year ago
Hey man, I really love your vids. I haven't tried any yet because it's my 1st time seein' your videos. But tomorrow at school I think I'll be different... :)
IncrediblyGenius 1 year ago
9 people!!!!!!! o_o
i fav this vid.
skysosoblue 1 year ago
amazing
tomboy149 1 year ago
I adore your soul....
ladiesunitedvoice 1 year ago
Go out get drunk and fuck..
DeadpoolLuv69 1 year ago
for real man no bullshit this man is one of the realest mutherfuckers ive heard..i dont know him..but ive heard him and im not even jokin man this goofy sun of a bitch saved my life man im serious if we all thought like this man here wed be traveling through light years wed evolve into one being a unity an understanding a fellowship its a fucking shame we all dont see it this way i hope we do one day much love and respect to this man.. mutherfukin genious man no shit props to this nigga peace
palinisacunt 1 year ago
hey man im not even joking here i was 2 seconds away from putting a bullet in my brain and for some strange twist of fate i came across your video i know its corny as all shit but for some reason listening to this ive decided to hold out alittle longer it kind of makes me laugh at what a meaningless piece of shit existence i have most people go on walk aboubts go to a church go fuck a hooker go on a vigilante mission me i surf on you tube before putting a bullet in my head wish i had u asafriend
palinisacunt 1 year ago
respect
NafizC 1 year ago
man your good
Theninja80291 1 year ago
thanks a lot ..i got some confidence after seeing ur video.
spvarapu 1 year ago
your voice is angelic!!!!!!! NO HOMO
iyareatibabare 1 year ago
This was very helpful thank you :)
GAINAX01 1 year ago
LEDGEND!!!!!
katieakakt 1 year ago 2
i wish i had a friend like you
MsGoregasm 1 year ago 74
@MsGoregasm same, he is cool, i like him
MrCassanova08 1 year ago
@MsGoregasm so.. you wish you had a butt buddy?
crustylion123 1 year ago
@MsGoregasm
Agreed.
ManhattanMusician 9 months ago
There's nothing special about me. I hear this from everybody, but it's bullshit.
Wolliom 1 year ago
yo this is good... very good bro
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djmaxguerrero 1 year ago
thank you so ever much!!!! i have low self esteem. i look at my self and say im am rlly ugly. i have been wanting to stop trashing myself for a while but i couldnt. you said to look in the mirror and say good things to your self. i am going to do tht now every day! i will start talk about what ever i want to who ever i want! thank so so much for this video :]
orange1elephant2 1 year ago
hey man, you're a phenomenal speaker, but i'm sure it's easier for people to tell others to break out of their shells and be more social, be more open, etc., if you're an outgoing, caring, people-person type guy such as yourself...
pimpsonparade 1 year ago
this makes me feel a lot better about myself
1metalhead238 1 year ago
This helped me so much.Thank you:)
-Ill try not to be scared of what people may say.
SimplyOpe 1 year ago
Some great vids. Subbed!
muskndusk 1 year ago
Man, you really do magic here. I think the greatest gift is to be able to improve the lives of people around you. It sounds like you're pretty set in life, as far as being happy. You've got a wife, kids, the whole nine yards. You don't need to help people with low self-esteem or who suffer from being alone, but you do. Do you know what a bodhisattva is? In Buddhism, it is a person who is elightened enough to enter nirvana, but instead chooses to stay behind and use his wisdom to help others.
kitsundesu 1 year ago 9
I admire you. Bless your heart ! Your a very positive person and also attractive ! Im sorry to hear you was raped, my mother experienced the same thing. Theres some horrible people in this world and your not one of them. Your lovely !
lippy170 1 year ago
The problem doesn't only lie in yourself. We live in a world that's over-obsessed with the winner vs. loser thing. You are only a loser if you don't care about being happy in your very own way, but even then, you might have a good reason for that.
jb1563700 1 year ago
if only it were this easy
FOOFlGHTERS 1 year ago
@FOOFlGHTERS
Hey man I hear what you are saying. But what do you think about this.
It is easy the only hard bit is convincing yourself it is.
ge1org1e 1 year ago
that special thing ur talking about i do not have.
ITsHardstyle 1 year ago
@ITsHardstyle Yes you do have something special and unique, I promise!
kitsundesu 1 year ago
i wanted this video to never end..
nanaonUtube 1 year ago
your AWSOME!!! I feel so much better now.... i have a self-esteem issue - wish i didn't but i'm going to try and take your advise........
good on you :) xxx
kerrieanne0408 1 year ago 2
r u single because you're hot you look tall too
xDiamondDoll702x 1 year ago
i have low self esteeemmm but this vid helped so thanks! xoxo
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theseeker2k5 1 year ago
great video, very positive.
dontlistentomeimmute 1 year ago
i jerk off too much, i have a great body i work a lot my muscles no a bodybuilder but i think working it out makes my my self more confident with the chicks :( but im so afraid of being rejected, it doesnt matter how much i work out im afraif
RitvarLegend 1 year ago
i jerk off too much, i have a great body i work a lot my muscles no a bodybuilder but i think working it out makes my my self more confident with the chicks :( but im so afraid of being rejected, it doesnt matter how much i work out im afraif
RitvarLegend 1 year ago
im a low self steem bastard.
RitvarLegend 1 year ago
That's what i'm talking about!
strikeout1991 1 year ago
i really dont give a fuck about how i dress, i wear jeans, converse, a skater or band t-shirt and a flannel or jacket everyday. this girl i liked was telling me that she judges guys on how they dress, and i said "wtf... what if they were a total douche or something like that?" she didnt say anything.... Lol
I dont get why people judge people on how they dress, I DRESS TO BE COMFORTABLE. who gives a flying FUCK!
CobainGears2FTW 1 year ago 17
@CobainGears2FTW She said that because most girls nowadays are shallow, image obsessed , selfish WHORES.
05M4N 1 year ago
@CobainGears2FTW i hear that
TrueDominguez 1 year ago
@CobainGears2FTW You shouldn't like her if she judges on what people wear. That's fucking retarded
soccermonster13 1 year ago
@soccermonster13
Oh dude, I fucking know.
Ive realized people like that are dumbfucks.
I chill with people now that are the outcasts, or punks in school, finally, people who dont give a shit about nonsense like that
CobainGears2FTW 1 year ago
@CobainGears2FTW you are a faggot, and I bet youre self conscious too cause ur a fag
crustylion123 1 year ago
I'm pretty short, but i'm really strong for my age i'm pretty good looking and I am athletic. at my school which is a high-school for only gifted children, and everybody (except for me) 's average is like 96%. my average isnt bad its 81% but they always call me stupid and shit like that. I really feel bad about it and i dont know what to do...
theformalities 2 years ago
aw man, being in a school for gifted children at all is a good thing and as you say 81% isnt bad, whoevers saying this to you is obviously just a jerk, and people are always going to judge you no matter how good you are so try not to worry too much from it
andrew19vato 2 years ago
@andrew19vato thanks man :P ill try not to
theformalities 2 years ago
good point
strikeout1991 2 years ago
get used to it...
strikeout1991 2 years ago
i'm really good looking, and i feel like shit most of the time. Movements are clumpsy, words are stupid, etc. Being good looking matters shit. There's a certain flow you must get by being confident, and in every transition you'll feel akward and people around you will do too. But the transition from loser to winner is something to do ASAP if you want to die happy. Be as smart as you want, give as many fucks as you want, but BE HAPPY.
moderjoker 2 years ago
@moderjoker i get compliments on my looks alot. But somehow i still feel like shit ! I dont see what they all see. I rather look like someone else. Ive felt like this ever since i dated my ex, he made me feel really insecure.
lippy170 1 year ago
lol really no offense dude
but are you really believing that shit you are talking in this vid?
strikeout1991 2 years ago
@strikeout1991 if he does, he does. Fuck you !
lippy170 1 year ago
@lippy170
lol yeah who the hell are you?
well uhm fuck you too i guess =)
strikeout1991 1 year ago
ditto
i feel you man
strikeout1991 2 years ago
type something good about yourself, "I am enough" for example. Keep on building.
Donal111 2 years ago
How to increase your self esteem:
1) Open microsfoft word:
2)Type down a negative thought that you have (I am nobody, I am nothing, I don't deserve a good relationship)
3) Set its font size down to 4
4) Type a positive self esteem that you want (I am valueable, I am always enough, I am confident)
5) Set its font size to 25
Do this for as long as you want, keep using copying and pasting the positive affirmation for as long you you want. It will quieten the negative version.
Donal111 2 years ago
I bet you believe in santa clause and god too huh?
idiot
strikeout1991 2 years ago
i farted
strikeout1991 2 years ago
you can talk to me too. ive ran groups to help in my school. i may be able to help
BolligCheryl 2 years ago
thx
lfatx 2 years ago
Really good pick me up video man. peace
MotivationMatterz 2 years ago
for shy peeps, constantly remind yourself other peoples thorts and opinions dont matter, it could work
ideasoner 2 years ago
u got good advice digital ur a good person
kinslayer037 2 years ago
@sweethottaco my self esteem is pretty low 2 i feel ya pain im here if u needed 2 talk
kinslayer037 2 years ago
Nicely done. Wish you were my uncle telling me those things earlier. Guess we have to learn life's lessons eventually. As for me, I used to practice "snappy comebacks" for hecklers. It's a start....
Bugsy98122 2 years ago
love your philosophy.
bballeng 2 years ago
dude u went from knifing ppl to a therapist lol
mytube599 2 years ago
nice video man, this is really cuul
asdfghjkl97143 2 years ago
i agree with what your trying to say to people man.
me, i simply never gave a fuck about what other people thought.
goodluck !
cujo9 2 years ago
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excuse me the title of ur video is wrong i hav very high self esteem
TuRdSandwitch18 2 years ago
to digitilsoul, oh, REALLY! u can look jacked up and still b cool, so a person lookin like hee haw, with teeth that looks like a fuckin broke piano that got the keys stickin all out from the piano. thats cool? bitch teeth so big, she brushes them with a toiletbowl brush.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
yes they can still be cool
crudstickles 2 years ago
uh oh, u must b one of the OOgly ones to make a comment like this.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
thanks,you are helping me
crazzygirl100 2 years ago
HAHA LOL " Its a bit long but it goes down easy" vid description
Linky001 2 years ago
Thanks for posting this video man
AquaLue1 2 years ago 2
This helped me so much Tommrow I'm going to walk out that door keep my head high and I wont care what people think at all.
(((Just started secondary)))
Your so amazing. I'm gunna give the vid 5 stars ***** and subscribe because your worth it.
wickeddude1 2 years ago
Act.. As If...........
rywilliams4379 2 years ago
So... ... ... Ive been spelling 'Esteem' wrong all my life xD
Esteme? Roflrofl now i feel clever... Not.
CapenhurstSamuel 2 years ago
this is one of the realest videos i have ever seen.
John4Trimmings 2 years ago 3
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and looks does matter cause folk spend lots of dollars on looks
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
Looks don't matter man, the people who believe so have their own opinion. In my opinion, I should have said above the beginning. Looks don't matter people just assume it does because all the "men" enjoy looking at models more than normal women. Thus, why the women of this world care about looks and spend so much on it.
AQuietManMike 2 years ago
well it should. hell, all them models aint drop dead georgous either.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
Looks should matter? So you'd date a stuck up bitch who looks great?
AQuietManMike 2 years ago 6
if i was born with a dick, hell yeah!
in other words, if i was a guy, YUP!
who wanna go out with a ugly ho? and for the record, ugly hoes are mostly the ones who are stuck up. i aint a ugly ho especially to be a chocolate girl. and i aint stuck up. as the matter of fact, I HAVE LOOOW SELF ESTEEM. now whatcha got to say?
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago