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  • i understand what ur saying.. ive been dating with this 20 year old guy who i love sooo much.. and we've been through so many situations with every kind of stuff.. our parents, families, friends, his college , my school... and im 16. We have thought of getting married.. he's so sure about the fact we're going to marry once i go to the usa with him, but listening to everything people say, the things ive seen lately about marriage i really prefer waiting a little bit, maybe like when im 22 to 24

  • Haha but they just turned

  • Its soo stupid about half the people in my school are engadged, sure most are 18 butthey just got

  • pathetic fat faggot

  • Enough with the sxephil tags... -,--

  • If you and your Partner are meant to be, then surely that will happen whether you are married or not. So why not wait it out so you can be certain and then commit so you don't make any mistakes. Also you are so right about people being different once they leave school and get a job.

  • hey just a note your white as a sheet... lose the flat brim hat

  • yeah my friends have been dating about 2 years theyre 16 and theyre engaged but its more like a promise than a legit engagement

  • thank you! my friends got married and there freakin 15! and they dated 2 weeks!

  • thank you! i have been saying the same shit to some of my friends and they don't listen to me and all i am saying is what the fuck? why would my friends asking this shit if they don't listen to me? so thank you for your video

  • My parents have been married for 30 years. married at the ages of 18 and 20 and they dated for only 6 months. I see no problems with this as long as it was thought through well and hard.

  • My parents have been married for 30 years.

  • I think you have good Ides and opinions

    you are absolutely right! thumbs up

  • Did you know that at the beginning of a relationship at teenage, there's a passion hormone that is being created in the front part of your brain for only almost 3 months that's why most teenage relationship end up soon

  • I think it's very strange, young marriage, and I personally wouldn't say yes to someone at that age or if I'd only been going out with them a couple months. What is up with that?

  • i live in georgia and it happens a lot. im like damn get to know each other first. the people that get engaged in a matter of months is crazy to me but hey thats their life let them deal with it.

  • rant over mate? gosh.:L

  • who tf cares

  • why the fuck should we listen to this WoW faggot? He probably hasn't even seen the sunlight for years, and hasn't ever seen a woman creature naked besides his mother and his sister..

  • nooo

  • Follow the 4 words life rule ...

    DON'T EVER GET MARRIED

    (:

  • so true, i got engaged when i was 19 she was 17 n a year later she broke it off n went off with some prick, totally not worth the heart ache!

  • That is totally the opposite of the trend.

    "In fact in the last 20 years, both men and women show a considerable increase in age at marriage. Men are now on average two years older when they marry than the mean age of marriage for men in 1980. Women are three years older on average now, than the mean marriage age in the 1980."

    From WiseGeek dot com.

  • This is fucking stupidd, and if you don't like or live in Kentucky don't talk about it!!! Fucking jerk

  • NO MR. ShoTz YU AR STOOPIID

  • you are the gayest fucking homo on the internet. ever. stop making videos or i will rape your mom and grandmother

  • I think it's stupied

  • my perants only met for a month and then after the month they got married and now they r married for years

  • People change drastically in between 16 -25. Thats why a lot of teen marriages fail.

  • marriage in your 20's is dumb 20's is the decade to get fit, and club and have as much pointless sex as you can possibly have then find a nice girl and marry her in your 30's and have kids

  • So, i had a boyfriend and i think i started dating him when i was like... 12 or 13. we dated for like... a yer and 9 months or something, and then we got "engaged" well it was like a pre-engagement thinggyy. like we were gunna wait a long while but still be engaged... then he tried to cheat on me with my cousin.... lol.... so that was over... but your right. like.. maybe get engaged in college?? but wait til like.. 25 or later to get married

  • What i hate is people that get married because of a baby.

  • Question: Why does the guy kneel when he asks the question while presenting the ring? Is this a form of begging?

  • @Friday032610 lol its why im never getting married sex is easy enuff

  • @60s70s80s90smusic I know what you're sayin', but it would be much easier if you understand how a marriage works and what your particular woman's needs are...then the chances of divorce will drop

  • I would take it further - I don't think anybody should be engaged until after they are out of college and if you don't go to college until after you have moved in and lived with the person for at least 2-3 years. Otherwise you just don't know how you'll interact in the same environment for the rest of your life (or however long you plan the marriage to last.)

  • This is seriously genius. I agree with you 100 percent. There is no rush to get married! People need to really experience life before they settle down with someone, otherwise they will never be happy.

  • 6 year old, or a dog or... something cuz then your going to jail or your just fucked up...

    lol

  • i think you need more faith in humanity. (it's okay. i've lost a lot of faith too.)

  • I both agree and disagree with this. I'm almost 20 and I've been engaged for a year to the girl I have been with for 5 years. We currently have a long distance relationship, she's over seas so yea it's difficult but we do well. We don't plan on getting married until we are at least 27 and kids at like age 30. We want to be finished with school. We have both been on our own 2 feet for a couple years now so its not like life has been easy for either of us, especially not now. Go Steelers!!!!

  • Hey Im from Kentucky.... and i think you got it wrong. The state you were thinking of was Arkansas lol

  • I wouldn't say people are getting married younger... I mean, my grandma got married when she was 15 and my grandpa was 17! My other grandparents were 19 and 18! Not only that, but there's a huge trend of people who simply don't want to get married at all.

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  • I totally agree with you on young marriages. When you are that young you really don't know if you are just lusting over someone or if you are actually in love with the. I think you should be together for at least a couple years after high school before you get married. Everything and everyone changes after high school.

  • I LOVE YOU

  • Ummm. I can see your opinion on this...but I feel it is a little ...harsh? The stats about 14 year olds getting engaged? Really?

    Young marriages can be risky, but so can a marriage in your 30s. It is just different types of risks. It depends on the situation, the people and love they share.

  • um hey, i love you, wanna get married?  jk, i do love you tho

  • no

  • Dude, you are awesome!

  • where do you live?! i have never heard of anyone getting engaged at 16-19 at all where i live :S

  • HEY I LIVED IN KENTUCKY!!! AND EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS SOOOO. . . SO.... True. Thats why i got the fuck out of Kentucky.

  • i dont think you should wear a hat. jus sayin

  • I was only in a relationship for two months, and after that I became engaged. We have almost been engaged for our third year this Feb. I will only 17 when I am married . I graduate this year at 16 years of age from high school . Partying doesn't even come to my mind , seeing as I need to be in Uni for the next 12 years of my life.

    Not everyone is the same , and some marriages do last , so don't be totally against them at a young age.

  • my grandparents got married at 17, 61 years later.....still kickn lol

  • lame

  • I definitely agree. My brother is 24 and his gf is 20. They've been together for just a little over a year now and already planning a wedding. The crazy thing is that he hasn't even proposed yet! lol What's the craziest to me is that they got joint bank acounts before even moving in together. And she's not even working. Wtf. No rush people. Get to know the person...a year isn't a long time when it comes to a relationship that you think will last forever.

  • Yeps that's why I said no when an ex tried to give me a ring after three weeks. We were over after 1 month and a week I think. People say no, make up an excuse if he or she gives you a ring, even tries to. That's what I did, kinda. I just don't like getting things for no reason I guess...... you speak wisely. Still single but within the time we've been apart he's already been with three girls - me:0 guys and I broke up with him....

  • Type PRIZE before youtube and hit enter

  • @hansh0t  that makes no sense...

  • I'm not sure how I feel about marriage as a whole, but then again I'm Quebecoise ^^

  • some people dont want the ''party life'' some younge people are smart and mature and would like to settle early.

  • stop playing WoW and you will meet a girl to marry

    jk jk but quit wow

  • @Ljokerz i tried wow once after 30mins i was bored outta my mind...

  • @ShoTzVlogz Yeah. I got the 8 day trial for WoW, played it for about 30 minutes, put it down, and never picked it up again.

  • @ShoTzVlogz LEARN TO PLAY FUCKTARD

  • @ShoTzVlogz hhuu then i need to stop playing xD

  • A girl in my grade (8th) got engaged to a guy on facebook who she never met. But then she stole her grandma's car and idk what happened after that...

  • Yup, my uncle got married after dating for about 3-4 years I think it was... they were 21 and 22 and the marriage lasted about 4 years and then the wife just took the kids, money and left... yeah then he went crazy! Ran away to Las Vegas (from Maryland) started doing hardcore narcotics, got arrested, sent back to MD started selling drugs and dating a prostitute and is now currently in jail. He used to have 2 kids, a nice house, in a quite area, drove a Mercedes and worked for a big company. GONE

  • No, seriously same as ass-to- mouth (nice one by the way) some people still do it, and some people find satisfaction in early engadement( which is no doubt pussy, or love if you are a woman). Still.. we all do crazy shit do not deny that.

  • hey! ive gone ass to mouth lol its not that bad....why did i just say that? (o_O)

  • i totally agree with wat u said. I definately wud likely to marry round 25  to 28 ^_^ too instead of messing with my the young years i have in my life. hehe. =] awesome video.! Great points x

  • My sister is 17 and shes pregnant by a jackass who is disrespectful (hes also 20 YEAH I KNOW HES A SICK MAN) shes getting married with him x( its a shame because i bet in two more years they would be divorce with a one year old and the guy who got her pregnant is such a skinny kid with no muscles his arms are like toothpicks  I'm a girl and i have more balls then him

  • why are you yelling <3

  • i bet you know about ass to mouth, ...

  • my hero

  • @dmaroo I have an idea...MAYBE THEY WOULDNT BE PREGNANT IF THAY HADNT HAD SEX BEFORE 18. Am I heatless? No, I have common sense and have no sympathy for idiots.

  • @imapieface but it FEELS SO DAMN GOOD

  • @aaronzack14 F**kin idiots.

  • Francis! Boomer behind you!!

  • in case you didn't know; you're fat.

  • @ipwnn00bs117 irrelevant, and not funny. regardless of how hard you're trying to be.

  • you never go ass to mouth.

  • haters gonna hate

  • @negativecreepx oh come on, just because you read one sentence I wrote you think you completely know me.. thats really judgemental:( you negative creep! ...pff nah, I'm just really bored and was looking for people that I can piss off so they react in a funny way or something.. so you made me feel a bit better :) thank you

  • I think the problem with people getting engaged at a young age is they just see it as the next step in a relationship. "We've been together for this long and we're fine so I guess it's time to get married." Then going into marriage without realizing that there are going to be times that aren't going to amazing.

    .

    You get a FIVE star thumbs up for wearing collared shirts.

  • ur fat

  • but you're fat and sound fat so this whole vid and all of your arguments are invalid... sorry dude.. ps screw the new youtube ..

  • hey new YouTube home page layout/design"

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    nuff said.

  • I'm 18 and my bf (19 yrs old) of 5 mths proposed to me.. I accepted but we planned that we wont get married till we're like in our 20's or summink.. that's cool right?

  • One of my brothers friends got married right out of high school. He's now nineteen and has been divorced three times already... Early marriage is stupid.

  • what do you think about young marriages at like 16, 17 because the girl is preg?

  • @dmaroo marriage forced by pregnancy is worse.

  • you look good in green:) lol

  • Ur sexy in ur own special way....just sayin

  • I was engaged at 16 and with advice from my mom, I waited to go through with the marriage. At 18 we were split up, never married. Best thing that happened to me! Engagement at a young age is a big deal... think about it kids! My second engagement happened when I was 20 and we carried the engagement for 3 years before getting married. This year will be our 5 year wedding anniversary! It is very wise to wait unless you like punishment and torture! lol

  • 4 people got married young.

  • you look like a Tom...

  • I'm the 200th thumbs up!

  • This video reminds me of my mom..

    She was dating someone for 2 weeks, and they wanted to get married.

    10 days before the wedding, she realised it was the wrong thing.

    My mom is 44. & The guy she wanted to marry was like.. 39..?

  • To be honest AJ, I'd take deviant pornography and masturbating with my face over marriage any day.

  • Me and my gf got engaged when I was 21 and she was 19 after being together for 2 years. We are still together 5 years later and haven't gotten married yet. We are in no rush to get married but enjoy the fact that we are engaged.

  • marriage is overrated

  • Revolves around the whole HAVING SEX AT YOUNG AGES THING. EVEN WITH A CONDOM. UGH! JUST WAIT ALREADY.

  • Well, I think its ok to get married at 16-17, but ONLY if the girl is pregnant. Other than that, a good age to marry would be 23-28

  • yea young marriages are dumb unless you've been dating for at least like 2 years or so that way you hopefully actually know the person and trust them and living with parents and being married would suck so get a job and apartment kiddies hahaha

  • young marriages are seriously stupid and are almost as bad as teenage pregnancies

  • i just want to get laid before 2012(when the world will be fucked up)=D

    i don't care about the marriage fuck!

  • lol, remember that it was WAY normal back in time.... so why not now? :| think about it.

  • @dinudinu400 Yeah, but back then people also didn't live as long as they do nowadays

  • Kids get engaged in high school and junior high now? Why am I not surprised? Anyways, when I was in high school, i was in no way shape or form relationship material. I didn't care then. Now I am still not relationship material but I do care. Fact is that marriage is a big deal. You need to have your life together before you enter someone else's. And for those 1st year med students marrying 19 yr olds, ssssSTOP IT! You're ruining the balance for the rest of us. Who am I supposed to marry huh?

  • 3:10 Dude. Did you just do funny there?

  • "look a dis!"

    lol xD

    very nice vid bruuuh

  • I agree Bro !

  • I know a girl who's 12 and she wants to get married already to this guys who's 11 and they have been dating for about a week and a half.

  • @BlackVeilBrideMaggie They should not be allowed to breed!

  • @kpslover exactly what i told them but they didnt listen to me at all.

    they broke up afew days ago tho cuz they had a fight she thought that he was cheeting on her and he wasnt but she didnt listen then she like cryed about it for days until just last night But Alysia sorta ove rreacted i mean to get so worked up ovr a week long relationship pretty much which i think was stupid because it was only about a week or so nd how close of a connection to him can ya get?

    the guys alredy with a dif gal

  • I was engaged when I was 16, had baby #1 when I was 17, got married when I was 18 and had baby #2 when I was 19 I dont feel like I wasted my life, we own our house, cars, and my husband has a great job.

  • lol nice man!!!!! sub'd

  • agreed 100%, my dumb friend got engaged after dating for 4 months... 2 months later divorced...FAIL. i love my friends, but that one is stupid, i told him that to his face. he didnt listen...

  • Straight outta highschool? There are 2 couples in my school that are getting married..

  • I think that some couples around 18 or 19 year olds might actually have known each other for many years and might have been together for a few years and yeah like thats good and i think it would be good if they got engaged but maybe they're not ready to spend the rest of their life with that person a few years down the track. But i remember in primary school my friends with boyfriends would pretend to get married and have a stupid ceremony for it at lunch time, and they were dating like a week.

  • a ton of people in my senior class are deciding to get engaged, its stupid, why due that when you are just leaving high school. what happens when you want to go to different colleges or some crap like that it ruins your plan, plus people need to slow down on the relationship stuff,........ not saying im any good at it though

  • My sister just got engaged at age 21 which I still don't support. Then again she's marrying an 87 year old Ethiopian guy

  • The internet is my wife...And I love this cheating dirty whore so much!

  • personally i think getting engaged is no big deal, because you can be engaged for however long you want. if you want to get engaged at 17, yeah, youre kind of dumb and you probably have no idea how to survive on your own (as you said) but hey, your life. its entirely another thing to get married. if you want to get engaged and you guys can survive past college and THEN get married, fucking props to you! if not, hey, no harm no foul. ya know, until she shoots you for breaking up with her.

  • You gave me the black one I think, but then I left it somewhere in your messy ass room.

  • YOU'RE WEARING YOUR BRO POLO! HELL YES!

  • honestly~~get marry is a verrrrryy bad idea

  • I'm 17, my mother reminds me all the time how much marriage sucks lol. I'm good i think lol

  • @8259876 lol Cali is just as full of dumb kids as any other state xD <3

  • When i hear high school kids are getting engaged after a couple of weeks....it makes me want to slap them.

    Marriage is only for mature, level headed people who can stay with someone for a long time with a minimal amount of drama.

    I dated a guy for 1 1/2 years..then we got engaged and stayed engaged for 2 years and it was awesome but we decided we'd break it off and see the world before we made any commitment. He's my best fried now..so i dunno how exactly that works out but whatever xD <3

  • ok 1 im subing to you 2 you totally right i learned back then then being engaged at a certian age b4 your in your 20's is dumb

  • I was just thinking what it would be like to get married fresh out of college. Then I saw your video and the comments and it doesn't seem like such a good idea after all.

  • i been with my gf for 2 years now we are moving together after i get out of hi school and she will be at colledge and ill work at fast food till she get a stable job and stuff we already do stuff and i known her for about 8 years i love her so dearly i want ur opion plz respond

  • @SirDeathkit No! It may seem like a good idea now, but the fact that she'll be in university dating a blue-collar worker would reflect back negatively on her image. It'll create peer pressure and other complications. You are way too young to be moving in together. First thing, you should graduate from high school and get degree from a state college. Then figure things out when you're at least 3 years older.

  • @RTX94 good points but the thing is she be at college for 3 months top and after that ill go in and become a software engieer after she gets a stable job and if it dont work out ill sell my stuff and get a harley so i understand ur thinking but i know she wont leave me cuse some fucker hate that im working *blue collar* just i no

  • @SirDeathkit College for 3 months tops? Buying a Harley? Becoming a software engineer just like that? Kid, you need to get your head straight. Don't throw your life away for some girl. Listen to the points made in the video. It may seem like a good idea now, but you'll realise its triviality when you're older. Oh and I saw your page; don't be emo, it never works out.

    Peace, wish you all the best.

  • yeah.. i know a girl who's 14 and shes engaged to her bf who's 17 or 18. ... aaannddd her parents ad ok with it. -.- somethings wrong here

  • I was dating my husband for 2 years before we got married. We met when he was 18. He'll be 23 this year and we are still very much in love. Getting to know your partner is keen. Invest the time before you invest in a ring. :)

  • I can say that I don't want to get married right out of high school or anything. I can say than I'm happily in love with my partner but I think that I'll wait till I get out of college or after doing my 4 years in Marine Corps before marriage. o. o

  • Stupid as shit. My sister is 20 an she is already fucking her boyfriend.

    I hear noises coming from her room a lot.

  • @Tabby266 20 is late for loosing your virginity...

  • @Tabby266 Thats Normal :P

  • Whoa, you own 3 shirts. That's amazing O.O I wouldn't survive like that!

  • Younger marriages are on the rise, divorces are going up... coincidence?

    I THINK NOT!!!

  • Arranged marriages are different people. The people are being told who to marry. They can't help it. He is talking about people who have a complete choice to marry.

  • There are 3 couples that aare engaged in my highschool its like the new trend the worst park is that this kid that is a senior is going out with a sophmore less then a month and they got engaged

  • what if two people have a baby and say we need to get married for the baby? im talking like 17 at the youngest to 20 at the oldest

  • In some countries, people get engaged between birth and 19 and 20+ because of arrange marriages made by their families.

  • It depends on the people. Young marriage success is seldom, but I believe it can work.

  • wtf, this shizle doesn't happen in canada

  • MY friend is planning on getting married at 19.

    I want to kick her in the vagina...

    Why would you ever want to go through university with a husband?

  • i know a 11 year old girl who wanted to marry a 17 year old that she was dating for about 2 months .

  • @Melmariee either way thats fucked up.....

  • @ShoTzVlogz very true

  • @ShoTzVlogz You want f'ed up? Don't talk about those, talk about the child arranged marriages. 12 year old boy marrying a 10 year old girl, and she's pregnant the next year. That's messed up.

  • @Melmariee holy fuck...

  • @Melmariee wow thats fuckin nuts

  • @Melmariee ew 11 year old? lol 17 year old guy must not be able to get girls his own age!

  • @Melmariee eww thats wronge

  • i know a girl right now, whos 19, and engaged to this guy who has 2 kids already and she on fb calling them her stepkids...and know the guy like 6 months....man i cant wait for the status switch from "engaged to single" and the post of "men aint shit post" LOL this is goin to crash and BURN!!

  • ive been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. ya we talk about marriage. but im 16 and hes 17 and we are gonna wait till im out of high school at least cuz its WAAY too early for it.

  • i think you should at least spend a year of holidays with that person to really get to know em

  • young marriage i think all marriage is stupid

  • @TmakesV true

  • i know 2 college kids who got married and three months later got a divorce due to the fact that the guy spent all his time on youtube and facebook instead of with her. i actually think he's subscribed to u. he may be reading this right now.

    HEY KEVIN! U SEE WHERE THE INTERNET GOT U YET???!!!!

  • @Hobinator17 lol

  • @Hobinator17 thats hilarious lmfaoo