I am guessing the reason you are confused is that there is no consensus about what "stud" means. Different people draw the line between stud/not stud in different places, and what side of the line you fall on depends on who you're talking to.
The reason why people curse is becasue they lack a word that actually explains how they feel! If you are intelligent, you will never have to remind people. It is ok for you at this point in your life not to know what is up. But God has made you for a purpose and that purpose is to glorify God. All of those titles or categoiries like "stud" and "pimps" and 'fems" are made up. Get knoweldge of God and self and He will define for you who you are.....
The reason why people curse is becasue they lack a word that actually explains how they feel! If you are intelligent, you will never have to remind people. It is ok for you at this point in your life not to know what is up. But God has made your for a purpose and that purpose is to glorify God. all of those titles or categoiries like "stud" and "pimps" and 'fems" are made up. Get knoweldge of God and self and He will define for you who you are.....
HAHA IM JUST LIKE U IMA FEMME WIT THE MENTALITY OF A STUD
ITS LIKE U ACT BOYISH AND U CAN SUM TIMES CUM OF AS A STUD TO PPL
THATS WHY SUM FEMMES DNT WANNA TALK TO ME CAUSE I CUM OFF AS A STUD..BUT I HATE DAT IMA DAMN FEMME I DONT DRESS LIKE A BOY I MEAN I TALK LIKE A STUD AND EVERYTHING BUT IM NOT SHIDD MENTALITY OR NOT ITS ME.....AND U
There are heternormative roles that SOME lesbians put on femmes and butches, such as femmes should be submissive and passive and completely co-dependent and all high maintainence and super girly, and butches should be the handymen and the ones who protect their partner and are the solid rock. The way that I feel is that both partners should share those responsibilities. Both can be dominant at one time and submissive another. Both can be a rock for the other.
See I get that too but... I feel like I am a girly or whatever but my friends say I have the mentality of a "stud". They say it isn't how I speak or the way I walk... nothing outside. They say it has everything to do with the way I think... It just confuses me. Eh. but hey you made great points in your vid. Loved the video.
Her books feature femmes and pretty studs. She inspires me in this writing thang I'm tryin' to do. Her books are My Secrets Your Lies and Stud Princess. I want the fam to know about this chick cause she raw with it.
people say da same things about me lol eveen tho im nota stud stem ora femm. im jus me , n i think they jus say dat cus yu be on da aggressive end n yur blunt n wateva else, but i cant be labeled cuz ia be all da shyt all da same time
let me know...hit me up the sickest Female MC, you are ever going to hear....the best STUD MC on this planet...ask your girl about me....i'm a problem....
i heard that before. i think its probably because ur aggressive and dominant. its an aggressive fem if u wanna put it in a box. u could dress feminine and look hella cute and then surprise ur stud or fem when u surprise them with ur dominant side.
I think a lot of labels come from gender roles and stereotypes of gender.
People allow one definition of a label to put them in a box. But the reality is that each person defines a label differently and therefore shouldn't expect the next person to have the same definition as they do.
We as human naturally need to categorize everything but everything is in grey and on a spectrum from one extreme to another. I say fuck it, make up your own label cuz you are the only you out there.
Girl if you call yoself a Fem Tomboy then go with that shit ;] if that's whatchu comfterble with ;]
I think there's a lot of ways to describe ones Mentality for femms and studs, I just think people shouldn't get so hooked up about it.. X] Go with whatchu feel you are, and if people ask or comment, you tellem' nicely what's up =]
@ENJAYALLDAY57 any person with a brain would know she doesn't have down syndrome by the way she's able to talk & carry on a long proper conversation or taping....that was a STUPID question. I guess you were trying to be funny but, made youself look like the one with down syndrome which in fact isn't something bad.
@ENJAYALLDAY57@ENJAYALLDAY57 any person with a brain would know she doesn't have down syndrome by the way she's able to talk & carry on a long proper conversation or taping....that was a STUPID question. I guess you were trying to be funny but, made youself look like the one with down syndrome which in fact isn't something bad.
hey baby girl just from watchin ur video u have an aggressive fem. which u say tom boi fem lol mentality. don't let ur friend upset u ur just aggressive nothing wrong w that frankly its attractive and that part to is like a stud but ur still a fem with it so do ur thing sexy
its a trip though im hella straight but i guess i carry myself different... yeah i guess you could say im a bit tomboy but not to the extreme becasue many many females have asked me if i was lesbian or if i was a stud ....or get crushes on me im not even exaggerating ......i wasnt even sure what the fuck a stud was until i looked into it...its a trip thought haha i feel youre video on a sort
I know what you mean about being straight but mistaken for lesbian or stud. I just found out bout the whole stud thing today.Its funny being wanted by females mostly coz of ones tomboyish behavior. are studs more desirable to lesbians? oh and this video is hilarious!
I do not understand the term stud at all. It makes no sense. What happened to bull dyke or diesel dyke? Those terms summed it up.
I think I have a better term for it. Here is my reasoning. If men who dress like women are called drag queens, why dont women who dress like men call themselves drag kings?
i dont think there should even be a classification. b/c like yu said you are aggressive but you dont consider yourself a stud. thatss thee same with mee. i dont consider myself a stud but many ppl lump mee in that category b/c thee way i tlk or the way i walk. so we shouldnt be categorized. i think itss dum as fuck to be labled. it is all bullshit!!!!
well most ppl look at me an think that I am a femme lesbian however once they get to knw me they realize that my personality is butch...just cause I dress femme dsnt mean I am a helpless female and that I am passive..to me to be butch or stud means you are confidant..you can take care of yourself and you arnt afraid to approach another female..your the lead so to speak..Im also usually the aggressor when it comes to sex. so to me Im a typical dyke
I think the mentality of a stud is more of a provider type in a relationship, a person who wants to treat her girlfriend, be a gentlewoman and all that, also a seducer. I think a hard stud is just more masculine than a soft stud? I dont even know though..
Okay please dont take anything I am about to say personally b/c I am trying understand b/c the other day a friend of mines with riding with me telling me this story about a "stud" tried to talk to her. So I was like wow, dude that bad in the street that u calling him a stud? I am straight chic so she bust out laughing for about a minute at me. And me being trying figure out what is so funny. She like naw b, a chic! Now I am lost as hell!.....
...So like I said please dont take it wrong. She tried to explain it, but all I could get was this... the chic is a tomboy who just want to do her thang, and that maybe hit and quit. Call u when she feel horny and do a freaky dicky drive-by. Now correct anyone if I maybe wrong. B/c I find being gay/lesiban interesting. Why u ask for two reasons
1. Your a woman who wants another woman, but dress, act and look like a dude.
..wait wait b4 some1 try to check me on the men, here is why I said that. I will see more well dress gay men, than I will see them dress up in women clothing. But a gay/lesiban sistas no! I see more dress like men. I mean looking straight gully! To the young lady in this video. I must be a lesbian stud myself b/c I think like that too. I go w/ how I feel, and I'm a freak. But if you can't put it in a pot on top of the stove, bake it in no oven, or burn it up in a microwave I can't eat it!!! LOL
Im like in dhat situation...i dress as a dude i got swag in all dhat shit but i dont like bein labeld as a fkn stud...das jus me nun against thoes who all dem selfs a stud but das not me i like pussy ...das me deal wit it feel me???? but IDK da "mentallity" shit.....its so many fuckn dif descriptions....fem aggressive stud AM MG butch futch stem all dat shit.....so shit wheb you get a SOLID fucken answer let me know
I feel you... i think they coulda just kept females that dont have feminine ways labeled as TOMBOYS no matter how they do it. I think that would have eliminated alot of these labels and disputes. What do you think?
to be honest i dnt think theres a definition to this shit cuz everyone has a diferent opinion on it. like i hate being called a fem....but im not a stud either. i cnt see myself in any of those categories
I must say I do not know anything about studs, fems, or being a lesbian. BUT what it sounds like to me is this it's like saying a girly girl or a tom boy. sounds like the term stud refers to a "tom boy" lesbian and a fem is a girly girl lesbian. I dont know just my opinion from what i am hearing
You difine yourself don't be payin attention to no one's views on you.. If you think your a stud your a stud of you a fem your a fem point is we all like pussy point blank period
1st off a mentality of a stud would be that yuh think like a stud and yuh real about what yuh say and yeaa we people try to play yuh say im not stuipd i got a mentality of a stud
soft stud is a girl that dresses like a dude but still looks like a girl knows she a girl and aint so into the whole "im a guy" thing...butch is liek da girls dat got fades n shit n the ace bandage there breasts down and they basically think they a nigga.... fems is straight feminine .....fem agress is ur rite, like u, ur agressive u most likely play the agressive part in a relationship u wud b the boy even tho u dress and are totally female...
man foreo im a stud but honestly i an into no labels i couldt really tell you the mentality of neone......lol plz dont make that transition.. but neway i just dont get down with the labelz... i love pussy i love my pussy ate lol but yea im wit you fuck labelz just be you
I just thought of this...u gonna be defined by another way once u grow in society. U will mold based on your surroundings, experiences, income stats...etc. I was a tomboi but mom whipped my ass into heels 4 church. With age, education, will and drive...im proud to rep my versatile Lesbo style while i make that 6 figure income. no matter, U'll be hearing your like a man in the workforce, 2 but smiling. start opening your views wide for choices, loves{Fem or stud} and travels.
ok i have to say! You've got the prettiest complexion! I love your voice to. and all these labels are confusing as hell. Can't I just be a female who likes other females, and wears what i want? ugh. the life of a "lesbian" lol
You're a stud? So since you want to portray yourself as a man, how about going and getting a job as a bricklayer or a construction worker? Think you could handle it, girl?
honestly i've neva eat pussii n if im not mistakin u said dat u wanted 2 try it ureself... i've had light experiences though n it wasnt bad.... let me stop rambling bout my own nonsense...... so juz hit me up n i guess dat we'll talk then cuz i think u'd answer a few of my questions that ppl r 2 shy 2 answer 4 me..l8r
Too much labels and confusion. I think we should chuck out all these labels out. I hate being called a "stud" myself although I do dress like a guy. This whole thing to me is a bunch of who-ha really
haha damn ur fkn fuunnyy!!! n fasho i agree with chu.. there aint shiit with the labels.. jst ur personality.. i got called the *soft stud* buh daing i dont even noe wat that means ma self! lol
ur right, ive been called a stud, soft stud, AG, and even a fem... just because the way i carry myself, different people have a different idea of wat a "stud" is, most people think if u dress, walk, and talk like a man then ur a stud. some say the way u talk or act... its really all just trying to label people to be a stereotype.. forget the bs, im me and i do me if someone wants to call me a stud ok, a soft stud ok, an AG ok, but im still just me so who cares? lol just do u chink
what i think is the mentaliy of a stud is the way they think or their out look on life because unlike a fem your not going to see a stud walking around with their nails and hair done in a "girlish" style a stud isn't going to talk like "hey girl" for instance say someone passed on a stud isn't going to break down boo who crying(but they will cry ))unlike a fem they do the whole nine a stud is more of a shoulder for that fem to break down on letting the fem know yo everything is ok
LOL! bite ya butt cheek!! shit is funny but yea, aint nothin wrong with you people probably cant handle your strong personality... excuse you for being a strong women...
stud, femme, it dont matter how you talk its about how u feel about urself n what kind of personality u got. if u like studs u might click better with a soft stud who likes agressive femmes or u may even like femmes. u prob shouldnt try n get in a relationship with someone until u figure urself out a lil better but any relationship will ba good learning experience either way. good luck girl
lmao, i like dis video...but yea, i def agree with u wholeheartedly on this subject. im an aggressive fem like u n i get tired of niggaz sayin to me dat im a stud or dat i walk n talk like a stud n shyt...i mean im a tomboy but thats about it...im just tired of all these damn labels n ppl tryin to put everybody in a box n when someone doesnt fit into a label den dey "confused"...whuteva man, daz straight ignorance... shyt aint always black n white, theres usually a grey area in most cases.
I don't do the whole label thing and never have, but I believe they say you have a stud mentality because of your swag (the way you carry yourself, the tone in your voice, the entire package). ppl say that I have a stud mentality as well. I think if you aren't soft-spoken, extra feminine and submissive when it comes to certain things people will tend to not view you as a fem. That's just my experience though.
I speak "properly" Anyway from a little asian soft stem stud in SF, Cali this video is hilarious! It sounds like that person who told you that "stud mentality" shit means that they want to act poorly which might resemble the bad parts of a male relationship. It's an excuse to be a jerk, I've used it before, just bein' real. Much Love
damn girl u got me confuse...i mean come on....does finding out the mentality of a stud that important to u...n beside its very simple...but not that easy to explain....yea i no...confusing uh???....
i don't think these sterotypes exist in every relationship, i think you can be dominant and submissive at difft times depending on the situation. these character stereotypes are for insecure ppl who are not comfortable being themselves! we are all individuals why do we need a check list on how to act! people would prob describe me as a tomboy, but im comfortable in myself to dress and act how i want so im not afraid to dress feminine. surely ppl dress in whats comfortable and flattering 2 them?!
i always thought that a stud was someone that has more of a masculine personality with female undertones and a fem is someone that had more feminine properties. ive noticed that alot of fems are really rough too so i guess theres no need for labels??
lmao. u funny but shit i dnt even know.. i mean..damn. i aint a stud..i guess im a tom boy fem...ppl say da same thing like i act like a stud..shit idk what dat shit is! im still tryna figure it out.. cuz im blunt? i like pussy? i wanna bite ya butt cheek? lmao. u sound like me n den i take over..just like me..lol. but i dnt even know what da mentality of a stud is...lol. it just got me speechless cuz i feel like u cuz imma be me...
I think it might be swagg that people are refering to I mean Im to young to know what i am you know im jus keepin open Ive had someone say I be a stud I dont feel there is such a thing as stud or fem or you know anything like that I have gay friends you know if you gay you're gay I mean the classification of gays is not needed you know
well i feel like the mentality of a stud is attitude plus swagga it ain't got nothin to do with talkin blunt and direct it's ur mannerisms how u are as a person all studs just tomboys really with some dude ways
hi, came across your video and was totally amazed by the way you speak. i say, that's me 30yrs ago. i'm nearing 50 and i'm still dealing with labels, sad to say and yes, i talked to God also, pretty much the same things you said, "I'm sorry God but I want..." Be very careful of what you ask for baby, he'll give it to you. I heard so much of me in your speech. You are not being judged just tested. Your spiritual side is speaking to you, listen to it. God bless you...
I hope you know that "CHINKY" is a derogatory term. Black people think it's attractive to say they have "chinky eyes", but call a Chinese person a "Chink" and I'm sure they won't take it as a compliment.
everybody says im a stud n all dat bullshit, i asked my bff what the hell is a studd and she couldn't answer it and she's been gay since she was 14 yrs old and now she's 26 so obviously, stud's n fem's, they're just bullshit labels people try to label you with, that have no meaning!
yeah your mad sexy as a femme but you would be off the chain as a stud and without knowing wat you are and looking at you i would think you were a stud jus by listening to you talk.
i can luk at u off rip n tell u dat its da way u tlk...studs carry themselfs like men by the way that they talk. like ya lips, make faces, all dat shit! its simple my baby. u got da mentality of a stud...POINT BLANK!
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I feel you 100 on that! ppl tell me tha same thing! i really dont understand that either! i need clearification on that too. idk if its cuz im blunt, open minded, speack the truth. idk..all these damn labels! fuck what you heard n fuck labals...im me..thats jus my personality.-Dana a.k.a DOONIE!
there iz no mentality uh im a tom boy bt im not a stud n da lil ghetto remark itz not how u tlk itz how u carry ur self 2 b ghetto cuz i waz raised in da ghetto n im ghetto all da way bt i aint tryin 2 get at u da wrong way bt there iz no mentality n if u not ghetto u dnt have 2 explain yoself 2 nobody
people tenddd to relate studdz to dudes more than to femss. people telll me datt i got the mindd of a dude. just cuz i say i get pussy or suntinn like datt. chicksss think that all studds wanna be dudesss and that they all about pussy pussyy pussyy, so they be likeee STUDDDZ THINK LIKEE DUDESS. really theree aint no mentalityy of a studdd cuz not all studdz is da same. andd being softt dont make youuu a femm
overall,,,, studs don't have a set mentality. it all depends on the person and how they carry themselves. it's jus stereotyping the lesbian category. in all reality, you shouldn't let others categorize or try to label you.
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RIMTV1 2 days ago
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bbyskittlez2009 1 month ago
Sweetheart it don't matter about labels.. be you. Don't put yourself in a box.. these labels are taking over our community. Much love..
zeewest21 4 months ago
I am guessing the reason you are confused is that there is no consensus about what "stud" means. Different people draw the line between stud/not stud in different places, and what side of the line you fall on depends on who you're talking to.
fileboy2002 4 months ago
DAM FAG!
TheNewJeru777 5 months ago
lol ur such a cornball ass nigga...go google a life @madnegro
chinkyeyez20 6 months ago
Why they call you chinkeye when you ugly ass got big ass eyes.
madnegro69 6 months ago
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TheShantel66 8 months ago
i'm not homo but your pretty
Jsmiiley 8 months ago
awe ur cute :)
Loyaltyfem327 8 months ago
The reason why people curse is becasue they lack a word that actually explains how they feel! If you are intelligent, you will never have to remind people. It is ok for you at this point in your life not to know what is up. But God has made you for a purpose and that purpose is to glorify God. All of those titles or categoiries like "stud" and "pimps" and 'fems" are made up. Get knoweldge of God and self and He will define for you who you are.....
blackhumanity103 9 months ago
@blackhumanity103 Agreed . Wow . I couldn't have said it better myself .
naturallyfefe93 7 months ago
The reason why people curse is becasue they lack a word that actually explains how they feel! If you are intelligent, you will never have to remind people. It is ok for you at this point in your life not to know what is up. But God has made your for a purpose and that purpose is to glorify God. all of those titles or categoiries like "stud" and "pimps" and 'fems" are made up. Get knoweldge of God and self and He will define for you who you are.....
blackhumanity103 9 months ago
Lmao, you're hella funny
Tyundra 10 months ago
IF ANYTHING I WOULD SAY YOU ARE AN AGRESSIVE FEM WHICH IS DOMINIATE BUT YOU LOOK LIKE YOU CAN BE A STEM
l0v3lyang3l1 11 months ago
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l0v3lyang3l1 11 months ago
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JiggaMisses 1 year ago
MENTALITY OF A STUD....
HAHA IM JUST LIKE U IMA FEMME WIT THE MENTALITY OF A STUD
ITS LIKE U ACT BOYISH AND U CAN SUM TIMES CUM OF AS A STUD TO PPL
THATS WHY SUM FEMMES DNT WANNA TALK TO ME CAUSE I CUM OFF AS A STUD..BUT I HATE DAT IMA DAMN FEMME I DONT DRESS LIKE A BOY I MEAN I TALK LIKE A STUD AND EVERYTHING BUT IM NOT SHIDD MENTALITY OR NOT ITS ME.....AND U
LBaby18Stud 1 year ago
There are heternormative roles that SOME lesbians put on femmes and butches, such as femmes should be submissive and passive and completely co-dependent and all high maintainence and super girly, and butches should be the handymen and the ones who protect their partner and are the solid rock. The way that I feel is that both partners should share those responsibilities. Both can be dominant at one time and submissive another. Both can be a rock for the other.
GottaLoveMel 1 year ago
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I say who cares!!
kaydoubleyou33 1 year ago
See I get that too but... I feel like I am a girly or whatever but my friends say I have the mentality of a "stud". They say it isn't how I speak or the way I walk... nothing outside. They say it has everything to do with the way I think... It just confuses me. Eh. but hey you made great points in your vid. Loved the video.
chekara 1 year ago
Speaking ghetto is cool, or whatever you wanna call it. So long as that person knows how to speak proper WHEN ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY.
danewson 1 year ago
Her books feature femmes and pretty studs. She inspires me in this writing thang I'm tryin' to do. Her books are My Secrets Your Lies and Stud Princess. I want the fam to know about this chick cause she raw with it.
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urbanwriter01 1 year ago
ur funny :-), i like u lol....n 4 the record u do have the mentality of a stud lol
vannip2k6 1 year ago
people say da same things about me lol eveen tho im nota stud stem ora femm. im jus me , n i think they jus say dat cus yu be on da aggressive end n yur blunt n wateva else, but i cant be labeled cuz ia be all da shyt all da same time
Queenhonesty03 1 year ago
lol 2 funny dayum @enjay it kinda look like it doe !!! lmao
neesha301 1 year ago
FUNNY LOOKIN =)
TRLOVE1618 1 year ago
Hardcore attiude stud ! thats exaly for you are girl !!!
hansiboss 1 year ago
let me know...hit me up the sickest Female MC, you are ever going to hear....the best STUD MC on this planet...ask your girl about me....i'm a problem....
hazedus 1 year ago
i heard that before. i think its probably because ur aggressive and dominant. its an aggressive fem if u wanna put it in a box. u could dress feminine and look hella cute and then surprise ur stud or fem when u surprise them with ur dominant side.
MikaakaPebbles 1 year ago
aww u so pretty with short hair:PP well ur pretty in genral:PP
Ohshegay 1 year ago
U sexy
ladyred1129 1 year ago
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silladislate 1 year ago
I think a lot of labels come from gender roles and stereotypes of gender.
People allow one definition of a label to put them in a box. But the reality is that each person defines a label differently and therefore shouldn't expect the next person to have the same definition as they do.
We as human naturally need to categorize everything but everything is in grey and on a spectrum from one extreme to another. I say fuck it, make up your own label cuz you are the only you out there.
shmoopsy650 1 year ago
lmao SEDUCTiON!!! OMG! i UNDERSTAND WAT YOU TALK'N BOUT...HAHAHA! EFF'N HiLARIOUSZ!
Mariah5193 1 year ago
yur rlly hot. . . .
2bcoolisme 1 year ago
you would be a fine ass stud and i mean that in a good way mama you have a nice face
ThisFivestargame 1 year ago
MORE THEN LIKELY ITS THE WAY U TALK
Gaytw33ty 1 year ago
i Love You'r Voicee(:
YhurNewObsession 1 year ago
u is funny is shit...... u keep it real i lke that,, lol
Joyciepooh8 1 year ago
lol yu should go stud. . .
tgiHOLIDAY 1 year ago
one of the pritties faces I've seen girl ;]
Girl if you call yoself a Fem Tomboy then go with that shit ;] if that's whatchu comfterble with ;]
I think there's a lot of ways to describe ones Mentality for femms and studs, I just think people shouldn't get so hooked up about it.. X] Go with whatchu feel you are, and if people ask or comment, you tellem' nicely what's up =]
EmEtt93 1 year ago
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do you have down syndrome>?
ENJAYALLDAY57 1 year ago
na ya mama
chinkyeyez20 1 year ago 9
@chinkyeyez20 nah ya mama? haha...typical.
ENJAYALLDAY57 1 year ago
@chinkyeyez20 LLS THT WAS FUNNY
smilezc1 1 year ago
@ENJAYALLDAY57 any person with a brain would know she doesn't have down syndrome by the way she's able to talk & carry on a long proper conversation or taping....that was a STUPID question. I guess you were trying to be funny but, made youself look like the one with down syndrome which in fact isn't something bad.
TheComewitme2 1 year ago
@ENJAYALLDAY57 @ENJAYALLDAY57 any person with a brain would know she doesn't have down syndrome by the way she's able to talk & carry on a long proper conversation or taping....that was a STUPID question. I guess you were trying to be funny but, made youself look like the one with down syndrome which in fact isn't something bad.
TheComewitme2 1 year ago 2
@ENJAYALLDAY57 Damn what's up with that?
danewson 1 year ago
@danewson whats up with what.."i speak proper" haha.."im sayin, i dont be in da streets" i aint ghetto...stupid niggers
ENJAYALLDAY57 1 year ago
@ENJAYALLDAY57 Yeah I speak proper also. But I can speak other languages as well. Hakujin no Akuma.
danewson 1 year ago
sooo jus wondering... are you attracted to studs or femms? or do u have a 'type'?
AmAzingATit21 1 year ago
i lyk you gurl you iz funny ass hell n yo grammar was on point...haha soft femme
FBG5ith 1 year ago
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EGOmariee 1 year ago
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EGOmariee 1 year ago
Imma tomboy femme too ! Lls .
PuertoRicanChica96 1 year ago
you a stupd bih...lol yo i lyk you broo
riplency15 1 year ago
lol ppl tll me dat shyt all da time
lilnero08 1 year ago
eat buffet and bounce lol thats funny....nothin wrong wit a tom boi fem ...be yourself..you don't need a label
MusicINnee 1 year ago
lol i love how you were so sweet in the beginning.. <3 this video lol
TheEvilKnievel 1 year ago
wow..i almost choked on my peanut butter while hysterically laughing to this video..my label: ME! i wear whatever whenever..however i feel
eddec87 1 year ago
to me stud in a nutshell means butch or manly
floydmichaelmoss 2 years ago
lol...the jeniffer hudson song in the background....
lezzbN 2 years ago
omg I swear I feel the same way ppl constantly tell me I act like a stud n Im like wat exactly does that mean 4real
Shontranay 2 years ago
hey baby girl just from watchin ur video u have an aggressive fem. which u say tom boi fem lol mentality. don't let ur friend upset u ur just aggressive nothing wrong w that frankly its attractive and that part to is like a stud but ur still a fem with it so do ur thing sexy
msmeache 2 years ago
I like your personality.
TashaG16 2 years ago
lmfaooooo hahah omfg i wanna eat the pum pum!!!
sexcci92 2 years ago
BAM!!! i want to bite your butt cheek......classic
llcoolsly 2 years ago 9
by the way youre beautiful you really do have a legit personality
88qball 2 years ago
its a trip though im hella straight but i guess i carry myself different... yeah i guess you could say im a bit tomboy but not to the extreme becasue many many females have asked me if i was lesbian or if i was a stud ....or get crushes on me im not even exaggerating ......i wasnt even sure what the fuck a stud was until i looked into it...its a trip thought haha i feel youre video on a sort
88qball 2 years ago
I know what you mean about being straight but mistaken for lesbian or stud. I just found out bout the whole stud thing today.Its funny being wanted by females mostly coz of ones tomboyish behavior. are studs more desirable to lesbians? oh and this video is hilarious!
limenoc 2 years ago
I do not understand the term stud at all. It makes no sense. What happened to bull dyke or diesel dyke? Those terms summed it up.
I think I have a better term for it. Here is my reasoning. If men who dress like women are called drag queens, why dont women who dress like men call themselves drag kings?
food for thought.
DS
TheRealDukeSkywalker 2 years ago
i dont think there should even be a classification. b/c like yu said you are aggressive but you dont consider yourself a stud. thatss thee same with mee. i dont consider myself a stud but many ppl lump mee in that category b/c thee way i tlk or the way i walk. so we shouldnt be categorized. i think itss dum as fuck to be labled. it is all bullshit!!!!
babynichelle 2 years ago
well most ppl look at me an think that I am a femme lesbian however once they get to knw me they realize that my personality is butch...just cause I dress femme dsnt mean I am a helpless female and that I am passive..to me to be butch or stud means you are confidant..you can take care of yourself and you arnt afraid to approach another female..your the lead so to speak..Im also usually the aggressor when it comes to sex. so to me Im a typical dyke
Jenniferwilcox26 2 years ago
you are cursing.... it is your actitud
chazazaza 2 years ago
go to 5:38 and watch the rest of the vid...its so funny lol x)
dezzy3522 2 years ago
I think the mentality of a stud is more of a provider type in a relationship, a person who wants to treat her girlfriend, be a gentlewoman and all that, also a seducer. I think a hard stud is just more masculine than a soft stud? I dont even know though..
nulezie 2 years ago
lol so funny how she was talkin bout how she wanna eat pussy!!!
snugglz1985 2 years ago 4
Okay please dont take anything I am about to say personally b/c I am trying understand b/c the other day a friend of mines with riding with me telling me this story about a "stud" tried to talk to her. So I was like wow, dude that bad in the street that u calling him a stud? I am straight chic so she bust out laughing for about a minute at me. And me being trying figure out what is so funny. She like naw b, a chic! Now I am lost as hell!.....
famousfuture 2 years ago
...So like I said please dont take it wrong. She tried to explain it, but all I could get was this... the chic is a tomboy who just want to do her thang, and that maybe hit and quit. Call u when she feel horny and do a freaky dicky drive-by. Now correct anyone if I maybe wrong. B/c I find being gay/lesiban interesting. Why u ask for two reasons
1. Your a woman who wants another woman, but dress, act and look like a dude.
2. Same with the men to a point....
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famousfuture 2 years ago
..wait wait b4 some1 try to check me on the men, here is why I said that. I will see more well dress gay men, than I will see them dress up in women clothing. But a gay/lesiban sistas no! I see more dress like men. I mean looking straight gully! To the young lady in this video. I must be a lesbian stud myself b/c I think like that too. I go w/ how I feel, and I'm a freak. But if you can't put it in a pot on top of the stove, bake it in no oven, or burn it up in a microwave I can't eat it!!! LOL
famousfuture 2 years ago
lol
hottiebabefallback 2 years ago
MAN3 YHU RIT3 ON. I GH3T YHU 100 %
retrify123 2 years ago
Im like in dhat situation...i dress as a dude i got swag in all dhat shit but i dont like bein labeld as a fkn stud...das jus me nun against thoes who all dem selfs a stud but das not me i like pussy ...das me deal wit it feel me???? but IDK da "mentallity" shit.....its so many fuckn dif descriptions....fem aggressive stud AM MG butch futch stem all dat shit.....so shit wheb you get a SOLID fucken answer let me know
kwaneeb 2 years ago
i love de way you talk ma =))
SMMFH 2 years ago
I feel you... i think they coulda just kept females that dont have feminine ways labeled as TOMBOYS no matter how they do it. I think that would have eliminated alot of these labels and disputes. What do you think?
TheDreamCouple 2 years ago
LMAOOO @ "because i say i wanna bite ya buttcheek?" HAHA . i am going to have to use that line one day !! at 5:41
nswygert224 2 years ago 2
omg me tooo everyone says that to me
iyanamonet 2 years ago
to be honest i dnt think theres a definition to this shit cuz everyone has a diferent opinion on it. like i hate being called a fem....but im not a stud either. i cnt see myself in any of those categories
alexmoreno 2 years ago
i love this video im working on a response asap
RepColors 2 years ago
I must say I do not know anything about studs, fems, or being a lesbian. BUT what it sounds like to me is this it's like saying a girly girl or a tom boy. sounds like the term stud refers to a "tom boy" lesbian and a fem is a girly girl lesbian. I dont know just my opinion from what i am hearing
shortycaroline 2 years ago
You difine yourself don't be payin attention to no one's views on you.. If you think your a stud your a stud of you a fem your a fem point is we all like pussy point blank period
alldatyouwant 2 years ago
1st off a mentality of a stud would be that yuh think like a stud and yuh real about what yuh say and yeaa we people try to play yuh say im not stuipd i got a mentality of a stud
lilfemmz09 2 years ago
lmao!!! if i like pussy...lol
nerdii08 2 years ago
& lol @ soft fem lollll
dhillis183 2 years ago
aiight ima break it down for you ready....
soft stud is a girl that dresses like a dude but still looks like a girl knows she a girl and aint so into the whole "im a guy" thing...butch is liek da girls dat got fades n shit n the ace bandage there breasts down and they basically think they a nigga.... fems is straight feminine .....fem agress is ur rite, like u, ur agressive u most likely play the agressive part in a relationship u wud b the boy even tho u dress and are totally female...
dhillis183 2 years ago
"All you can eat buffet and then leave after that..."
LMAO
dadevi 2 years ago
i kno wat u mean i'm stud ppl tell me i got a mentality of a femm..... how i'm a soft stud ughh i hate labels
bustitwydeopen365 2 years ago
man foreo im a stud but honestly i an into no labels i couldt really tell you the mentality of neone......lol plz dont make that transition.. but neway i just dont get down with the labelz... i love pussy i love my pussy ate lol but yea im wit you fuck labelz just be you
shaunl7 2 years ago
I just thought of this...u gonna be defined by another way once u grow in society. U will mold based on your surroundings, experiences, income stats...etc. I was a tomboi but mom whipped my ass into heels 4 church. With age, education, will and drive...im proud to rep my versatile Lesbo style while i make that 6 figure income. no matter, U'll be hearing your like a man in the workforce, 2 but smiling. start opening your views wide for choices, loves{Fem or stud} and travels.
ballershanelle 2 years ago
"BAM! I want to bite your butt-cheek." lmao you are so crazy
NefariousWTF 2 years ago
ok i have to say! You've got the prettiest complexion! I love your voice to. and all these labels are confusing as hell. Can't I just be a female who likes other females, and wears what i want? ugh. the life of a "lesbian" lol
SquishyFishie 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
your gay
sykesmarcus 2 years ago
i'm a stud.. and i would ever hurt my girl.. but damn girl you had me rollin.. you is funny as hell..
shsbulldogs37 2 years ago
you got chineze eyez and im a stud and you are sexi
grimesrochester 2 years ago 2
You're a stud? So since you want to portray yourself as a man, how about going and getting a job as a bricklayer or a construction worker? Think you could handle it, girl?
You so-called "studs" make me laugh my ass off.
morgoth195 2 years ago
LOL!! Fool... oh dear...
DLocked 2 years ago
honestly i've neva eat pussii n if im not mistakin u said dat u wanted 2 try it ureself... i've had light experiences though n it wasnt bad.... let me stop rambling bout my own nonsense...... so juz hit me up n i guess dat we'll talk then cuz i think u'd answer a few of my questions that ppl r 2 shy 2 answer 4 me..l8r
lovablelen 2 years ago
lmao! you are too funny!
"a soft fem. WHAT THE HELL!?"
haha
FLYCHICKGABBY 2 years ago
i think its cuz you come off real aggressive.
PrettyGirlsSmokeToo 2 years ago
Lol ur so funni but i feel ya!!
from 6:49-7:17 u sound just like me
MsMaRinE2010 2 years ago
lOl i wanna bite ya
butt cheek!
some ish i would
sayyyy!
chaic14 2 years ago
Damn.
I listened to what you're saying, I really did.
But omg, you are so friggin' gorgeous! <3
JackieCheerio 2 years ago
Too much labels and confusion. I think we should chuck out all these labels out. I hate being called a "stud" myself although I do dress like a guy. This whole thing to me is a bunch of who-ha really
ClenoJovanni 2 years ago
all that comes to mind is... trainreck..
truqueen3 2 years ago
Lmao Yo Boo Boo U Mad Goofy
YoungCali18 2 years ago
haha damn ur fkn fuunnyy!!! n fasho i agree with chu.. there aint shiit with the labels.. jst ur personality.. i got called the *soft stud* buh daing i dont even noe wat that means ma self! lol
seriasanjose 2 years ago
lol ur funni x'D
FalafellFo 2 years ago
ur not cute
luvinsumone1 2 years ago
ur right, ive been called a stud, soft stud, AG, and even a fem... just because the way i carry myself, different people have a different idea of wat a "stud" is, most people think if u dress, walk, and talk like a man then ur a stud. some say the way u talk or act... its really all just trying to label people to be a stereotype.. forget the bs, im me and i do me if someone wants to call me a stud ok, a soft stud ok, an AG ok, but im still just me so who cares? lol just do u chink
chuckkid3 2 years ago
You sexy as hell mama!
kottonkanddi 2 years ago
what i think is the mentaliy of a stud is the way they think or their out look on life because unlike a fem your not going to see a stud walking around with their nails and hair done in a "girlish" style a stud isn't going to talk like "hey girl" for instance say someone passed on a stud isn't going to break down boo who crying(but they will cry ))unlike a fem they do the whole nine a stud is more of a shoulder for that fem to break down on letting the fem know yo everything is ok
sexiash22 2 years ago
LOL! bite ya butt cheek!! shit is funny but yea, aint nothin wrong with you people probably cant handle your strong personality... excuse you for being a strong women...
SexiLexiXXX 2 years ago
Nothing wrong with ...SPEAKING STANDARD ENGLISH! I totally speak the same way! You'll find your way hun'...don't rush it ... : )
icemeltsinspring 2 years ago
yea u do have a stud ment.
bigstez1 2 years ago
dang guh,im so luvn ur swagga shyt,u is like sooo damn pretty nd funni dat it make me made dat idk u T ALL,OMG U IS LIKE SO COOL SHAWTY
U SHULD HOLLA @ UR GUH
coollilmsm 2 years ago
YOU R SO BOMB
kikakiya 2 years ago
damn i love the way u talk got swagg shawty i feel u tho bout every! puttin people n a box i feel like im homosexual thats it fade n all
Third12 2 years ago
stud, femme, it dont matter how you talk its about how u feel about urself n what kind of personality u got. if u like studs u might click better with a soft stud who likes agressive femmes or u may even like femmes. u prob shouldnt try n get in a relationship with someone until u figure urself out a lil better but any relationship will ba good learning experience either way. good luck girl
dashka18 2 years ago
AHHHHHHH! u fuckin silly
saraisaudacious 2 years ago
YUH.... HELLA GUD ViD! UR FUNNi BT i LiKE DiS ViD DOE...
jazzarea 2 years ago
lmao, i like dis video...but yea, i def agree with u wholeheartedly on this subject. im an aggressive fem like u n i get tired of niggaz sayin to me dat im a stud or dat i walk n talk like a stud n shyt...i mean im a tomboy but thats about it...im just tired of all these damn labels n ppl tryin to put everybody in a box n when someone doesnt fit into a label den dey "confused"...whuteva man, daz straight ignorance... shyt aint always black n white, theres usually a grey area in most cases.
rastagyal76 2 years ago
I don't do the whole label thing and never have, but I believe they say you have a stud mentality because of your swag (the way you carry yourself, the tone in your voice, the entire package). ppl say that I have a stud mentality as well. I think if you aren't soft-spoken, extra feminine and submissive when it comes to certain things people will tend to not view you as a fem. That's just my experience though.
LLMsChief 2 years ago
lmao
LetMeFreestyle 2 years ago
i love pum pum yo that was like madd priceless lolol sweet
reppin frm the ja..jamaica
cassei18 2 years ago
DaMm LMAO
juawanabitch 2 years ago
I speak "properly" Anyway from a little asian soft stem stud in SF, Cali this video is hilarious! It sounds like that person who told you that "stud mentality" shit means that they want to act poorly which might resemble the bad parts of a male relationship. It's an excuse to be a jerk, I've used it before, just bein' real. Much Love
Valerieannleeh 2 years ago
i agree whether man or woman stud or femme its about whether you are classy trashy or anything in between. FRICO LOVE BABY!! lmao
dashka18 2 years ago
so cute honey n funny
cristyrocksbxtch 2 years ago
lmao @ i want to bite ya butt cheek
Buttanife 2 years ago
damn girl u got me confuse...i mean come on....does finding out the mentality of a stud that important to u...n beside its very simple...but not that easy to explain....yea i no...confusing uh???....
sweetpimpclay 2 years ago
i don't think these sterotypes exist in every relationship, i think you can be dominant and submissive at difft times depending on the situation. these character stereotypes are for insecure ppl who are not comfortable being themselves! we are all individuals why do we need a check list on how to act! people would prob describe me as a tomboy, but im comfortable in myself to dress and act how i want so im not afraid to dress feminine. surely ppl dress in whats comfortable and flattering 2 them?!
sharifa8 2 years ago
i always thought that a stud was someone that has more of a masculine personality with female undertones and a fem is someone that had more feminine properties. ive noticed that alot of fems are really rough too so i guess theres no need for labels??
and btw nice hair.
nylonsweet 2 years ago
im was rollin' the ENTIRE time i was listening yo you...you have a way with words boo boo !! u do what you do!!
joohansolo 3 years ago
your awesome haha
RIVERPAPIN 3 years ago
It is ya answer there isn't ...4 real
garifuna19 3 years ago
OMG YOU ARE TOOO DAMN FUNNI!!!!!! I WAS DYING THE WHOLE TYME!!!! u shuld be a comedian
tarheelluvin695 3 years ago 2
LMAO she looks like a red pit bull...Grraaahhh
oladapo007 3 years ago 4
hell yea
DarkAnGeLl1993 3 years ago
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grimesrochester 3 years ago
no boo- u dont have no stud "mentality".. not even in your two fingers ...lolz
thatcrybaby 3 years ago
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rockyyz 3 years ago
uhh mentality of a stud is the same as mentality of a dude. cept withsecret feminine undertones.
natz420 3 years ago
lmao. u funny but shit i dnt even know.. i mean..damn. i aint a stud..i guess im a tom boy fem...ppl say da same thing like i act like a stud..shit idk what dat shit is! im still tryna figure it out.. cuz im blunt? i like pussy? i wanna bite ya butt cheek? lmao. u sound like me n den i take over..just like me..lol. but i dnt even know what da mentality of a stud is...lol. it just got me speechless cuz i feel like u cuz imma be me...
sexyyguh6 3 years ago
aye yo ,yu madd hott(nh) .diqq ?
ummadume15 3 years ago
who in the hell did your hair like that
jsu6517m 3 years ago
I think it might be swagg that people are refering to I mean Im to young to know what i am you know im jus keepin open Ive had someone say I be a stud I dont feel there is such a thing as stud or fem or you know anything like that I have gay friends you know if you gay you're gay I mean the classification of gays is not needed you know
LilMsJae 3 years ago
well i feel like the mentality of a stud is attitude plus swagga it ain't got nothin to do with talkin blunt and direct it's ur mannerisms how u are as a person all studs just tomboys really with some dude ways
dnice8284 3 years ago
hi, came across your video and was totally amazed by the way you speak. i say, that's me 30yrs ago. i'm nearing 50 and i'm still dealing with labels, sad to say and yes, i talked to God also, pretty much the same things you said, "I'm sorry God but I want..." Be very careful of what you ask for baby, he'll give it to you. I heard so much of me in your speech. You are not being judged just tested. Your spiritual side is speaking to you, listen to it. God bless you...
TDTQ1 3 years ago
I hope you know that "CHINKY" is a derogatory term. Black people think it's attractive to say they have "chinky eyes", but call a Chinese person a "Chink" and I'm sure they won't take it as a compliment.
BeCoily3Paula 3 years ago
lol ur funny mama.. well its all labels.. it maes no sense.. but yea.. i go along wit it..
fem = dresses feminine
stud=baggyish
femagress=fitted
it all depends on your swagga ma
labels are for lames tho
your either LESBIAN or BIsexual nada more to it
uniquencece 3 years ago
everybody says im a stud n all dat bullshit, i asked my bff what the hell is a studd and she couldn't answer it and she's been gay since she was 14 yrs old and now she's 26 so obviously, stud's n fem's, they're just bullshit labels people try to label you with, that have no meaning!
Ashleylover892 3 years ago 2
coming from a dude, i like your style.
moviemaker1865 3 years ago
yeah your mad sexy as a femme but you would be off the chain as a stud and without knowing wat you are and looking at you i would think you were a stud jus by listening to you talk.
ChaQuitta06 3 years ago 3
i agree with everything u just said, word for word. lol.
ghettogyrl305 3 years ago
i can luk at u off rip n tell u dat its da way u tlk...studs carry themselfs like men by the way that they talk. like ya lips, make faces, all dat shit! its simple my baby. u got da mentality of a stud...POINT BLANK!
IMA PUT IT TO U LIKE DIS...WITHIN THE NEXT WEEK IMA POST A VID REPLYING TO YA QUESTION AIGHT? I GOT U...LUK FOR DAT AT MIZZDANITRA1...COMIN SOON
mizzdanitra1 3 years ago
I feel you 100 on that! ppl tell me tha same thing! i really dont understand that either! i need clearification on that too. idk if its cuz im blunt, open minded, speack the truth. idk..all these damn labels! fuck what you heard n fuck labals...im me..thats jus my personality.-Dana a.k.a DOONIE!
DOONIE125 3 years ago
there iz no mentality uh im a tom boy bt im not a stud n da lil ghetto remark itz not how u tlk itz how u carry ur self 2 b ghetto cuz i waz raised in da ghetto n im ghetto all da way bt i aint tryin 2 get at u da wrong way bt there iz no mentality n if u not ghetto u dnt have 2 explain yoself 2 nobody
canabarb9908 3 years ago
yourrr really pretty
mustlovepink 3 years ago
people tenddd to relate studdz to dudes more than to femss. people telll me datt i got the mindd of a dude. just cuz i say i get pussy or suntinn like datt. chicksss think that all studds wanna be dudesss and that they all about pussy pussyy pussyy, so they be likeee STUDDDZ THINK LIKEE DUDESS. really theree aint no mentalityy of a studdd cuz not all studdz is da same. andd being softt dont make youuu a femm
HazezPrincesss13 3 years ago
overall,,,, studs don't have a set mentality. it all depends on the person and how they carry themselves. it's jus stereotyping the lesbian category. in all reality, you shouldn't let others categorize or try to label you.
EODdyme 3 years ago