Scorpio And Trust: The Vetting Process

[pattycrful]

I have Pluto and Mars in Scorpio in the 8th house. Pluto touches on every single one of my planets but Jupiter, which is in Aries.

I trust people enough to function in daily life, but generally, no, I don't trust them, on like an intimate level.

[AbsoluteMMA101]

Scorpios seem so sensative-negative...what I mean by that is, they look for any little flaws and start to dislike you....WTF?!

[musclemilk1100]

i date a scorpio and it took her a long time to open up to me.

[m1a2sg]

I think after more than three decades of traveling through this life I've learned to trust only one person.... And being a good Scorpio, I am unwilling to divulge such information as to who that could be :)

[SunnyWinters718]

as for the question of whether or not i trust anyone - starting today, NO i don't trust anyone or anything from now on - no need to

[SadDepressedClown]

@SunnyWinters718

Trust me its the best way : )

[sistanae1984]

I am a scorpio and I can truly say that I don't think its a matter of never trusting someone,I just believe that no one should know every little detail about me. I believe Im entitled to die with at least a few secrets. Besides, no one is perfect and every friend I have I know what type of secrets I'd be comfortable telling him/her. I have a very eclectic set of close friends and each individual is definitely a reflection of where i was/am or headed in my life.

[josefpl1]

I'm a Scorpio and I trust people that I know I can trust every one els is out of the picture.

[PaganGlade]

You are so right it's scary :O :) ~PaganGlade~

[capebee]

If you're sleeping with them you get PROBED that way. Indeed

[RossRose26]

some reason it made me want to have sex with her....Dirty scoundrals you Scorpio women!!!! 8)

[RossRose26]

I'm an Aquarius and my old g/f was Scorpio. It was obvious to me when I was being tested and I FUCKING HATED IT. That's why I'd fail out of spite. I like to be alone not much friends, no facebook. But anyways, we broke up and she desperately wanted me back but I wouldn't take her back. About a year later I looked at her facebook from the time we broke up and see all these fucking LIES about what a horrible person I was and how she broke up with me and hated me. I laughed to myself and for....

[thegreenaura]

PS It's really funny that mega-Scorpios flock to you... when I started watching your videos something about you attracted me, and it's funny that other Scorpios feel that way too! I wonder if it's because they can tell you are really a genuine person?

[thegreenaura]

Scorpio in sun, moon, Mercury and Pluto here. I usually stop probing after someone has proven him/herself to me. I only question my trust when I'm feeling depressed or insecure because getting hurt by a loved one when I'm already down would be really hard. But usually I trust the people who are close to me. It seems like the other Scorps on here are a lot more cynical... my outlook might just be my Pisces rising giving me a positive perspective on things!!!

[edusp20052011]

I had a Scorpio girlfriend for years and for years I was probed, tested...over and over...I passed all her childish tests, I showed her she could open up and be happy with me...but no, she wouldn't drop that sickening and scared mindset...funny how she'd look look up to people she barely knew...in the end I got lied to, so I guess I should have been the one doing the testing right? Life is not about hiding!!!

[wonderingheights]

interesting that you mention the heavy scorpionic influence in your chart and life. I've met other Pisces who have this as well, it's pretty interesting to encounter those who do not live up to the "soft" and "yielding" stereotype. To answer the question, I'm not a true Scorpio, I have a Libra moon in the 3rd so I have a compulsion to talk about my feelings....but only to those I feel a connection or trust with

[lovelatvian]

I believe what you say, but I do know that a weak scorpio does not beleive everything no matter how hard to try to show you have nothing to hide. I dated a very young scorpio male and all he could say to me was "you cant be that good, you have to have some secrets". It was funny in the begining but jeeeeeeeeeeeeez that got old, and I was gone.

[whiteenvelope1985]

If I trust you it means that I like you, not that I'll trust you 100%...That takes years and years and years, and many (very serious) trials. However, that first phase is my 'do I discard you or not phase'. And I'm aware of that...I'm waiting for you to pass the future tests. I'm always looking for an opportunity to see what's really going on...

[CatpurrRobertaBobbi]

Trust. I try really really hard not to. LOL. I let people THINK that they have earned it. I find its easier to get along in life that way. That stops alot of people from getting too close. They think they know it all. That they know me. HA!! Strange enough I am very open, honest and often I speak my mind. You either like me or not. Deal.

[WPAW8569]

Im a scorpio and it's hard for me to trust people because of the games they play and not knowing what to expect out of person. Im this way because I don't want to be hurt or disappointed and I don't like when people hurt or disappoint me. That's why it takes me alot of time to really get to know a person. Im actually a scorpio born in the ox years.

[WPAW8569]

Im a scorpio and it's hard for me to trust people because of the games they play and not knowing what to expect out of person. Im this way because I don't want to be hurt or disappointed and I don't like when people hurt or disappoint me. That's why it takes me alot of time to really get to know a person.

[hellokittystare]

I'm Scorpio nov 7. The only person I can honestly trust is... Myself. I have hard core reasons for that, sad to say :( I'm trying really hard to build trust in my cancer fiancé. He has proven himself well so far. I have the urge to test him once in a while but I catch myself.

[akacobes]

i am a scorpio and i feel i have a solid few and by few i mean less than 5 people i feel are solid in my life. that said any other scorpios that i have come across that claim that they can trust absolutely no one are those with coping issues who have been crossed before. the last thing a person of this sign especially needs is a coping issue as we are already closeted to begin with.

[Scorpiusgrl]

I am a Scorpio and the only people I trust are my parents and brother. A Virgo female cousin and a Libra female friend, I trust too. Everyone else, I probe and analyze in a sickening way. It might be sickening, but my intuition always ends up being right. therefore, I do the probing to prevent wasting my time and emotional energy with unworthy people. Simple as that! Hello, the society we leave on today is ridiculously superficial; no depth and good intentions!

[akacobes]

@Scorpiusgrl agreed.

[surffromdallas]

lol right before u asked the trust question i thought to myself... point? there is no point over here. haha sorry to laugh but trust is, in my opinion for the weak... spider senses are only temporary sweetheart, nothing lasts forever. shoot me a message somtime i would love to answer any other questions u might have. i love hearing people talk about scorpios. it makes me feel good. nov 13 male here :)

[perrin275]

i was with my ex-wife for 4 years. i never completely trusted her. not sure it thats just my scorpio nature, or if it we her...

[MrStrongmuscle]

I could Understand why some people don't trust anyone in a world which is built around deception. But thats the thing, it has gone to the point where they see themselves in a world of lies and masks, that they are fed up of trying to analyze everything. I think this is the problem that those type of scorpios have. I am a scorpio and I was once in that position, but I have evolved psychologically in that sense, and it has made me a better lie detector.

[giugnhgbvinierngvb89]

scorpio here myself. i trust nobody. i dont even trust myself.

[PaLeTiTaXxCherry]

I AGREE WITH CHUCK PHANTOM :/

[Krissy36860]

I have planets and stelliums in Scorpio, so hard core. I don't believe in guilty until proven innocent . Whenever I suspect that someone is lying I verify and verify to make sure that they really are lying, before I amputate or feel I have to protect myself (not a nice feeling). With some people I also like to find out why they are lying. I find out indirectly and my spider senses I very rarely question. There are some people however I decide never to trust, but never without good reasons.

[mrBambee09]

If I dont like someone they will know we love to hard we care to much to be betrayed,If I treat you with respect you should be able to do the same

[mrBambee09]

Im scorpio I got to the point when I didnt trust anyone we always keep our guard up

[smartn2sexy]

I definitely get to a point that I trust someone once they have proven themselves. I think that if you are the type that never trusts anyone no matter what, you might need to take a look at yourself and see whats going on internally.

[xSoul3z]

My trust is very limited and I'm friend with a few. However, I treasure the ones I have. But if my trust is broken, I cannot (to the point of never) forgive or even forget the event.

[katecpell]

Last one, I promise :P As for the north and south node, I've heard to avoid south node tendencies etc..but I also heard to think of the south node as the stomach, and the north node as the mouth. The south node is what we really want out of life, but the only way to get it is through the mouth. In this case, look at your north node placement, and find that sign anywhere in your chart you can, and strengthen them. Mute your south node until its ready to eat. :D nom nom nom

[katecpell]

@Toracheldied My soulmate, a hands-down Scorpio (sun, moon, venus, saturn, pluto, 3rd house, and (unfortunately) south node...he eventually showed me that I can trust him with my deepest, darkest secret. That my father was my first kiss, and much more on top of that. I can go on national television and talk about this now, as it has distanced me from the shame and humiliation I felt about this and nothing anyone can say about it will embarrass me. It happened, it wasn't my fault, life goes on!

[katecpell]

@Toracheldied I understand all of that, but chew on this. If you think you are hiding something and thus not effecting the world by keeping it to yourself, think again. I work in customer service, have done so for 5 years now, and whether you had a bad day or are by nature a brooding, bitter person, you pass that on. I get nasty, bitter and brooding, pass it on to coworkers, customers, my family, etc. Ever seen the episode of Futurama about Lila's talking boil on her bum? If not, do so please :]

[katecpell]

@AsphodeElysium EXACTLY. All of his friends which he lets in his home on a regular basis, and doesnt follow to the front door to show them out, are people he knows he can trust, as he has been their friends since grade school. :]

@chuckphantom damn honey, you mustve been fucking stabbed in the very soul way too many times and I feel for you. But someday maybe, if the universe sees fit, you will find someone to prove that there are decent human beings in this world. What's your North Node in?

[katecpell]

He never, ever questioned me until I gave him reason to question. He might have looked through my phone, emails, facebook, etc, but I understood that was just the inner detective coming to the surface and I let it be, because I had nothing to hide. Once I did, I started changing passwords, guilting him for doing it, etc, which I'm sure helped give me away. Pisces may be excellent actors, but nothing gets past these Scorpios.

[katecpell]

almost always have ulterior motives, such as getting in my pants. This is tried and true. Every single man, even the decent respectable ones, eventually make it clear that they are interested in more than my mind, my friendship. I trust my ability to say no at this point (thanks to me, and thanks to him). I grew up, grew strong, I'd say ten million times faster than I would have on my own thanks to him. He is literally my knight in shining armor. There is a beautiful gleaming layer of honesty!

[katecpell]

And that being said, he still gets sketchy about me spending too much energy helping other people, especially (well no, only) men. This is kind of hard for me to handle, as I am a Pisces, but I do know it's good for me only for the fact that I have my own life to put energy into, and I need it as well for caring for him (he is a type 1 diabetic) and it drains me to help people too much. Men seem to beg for my help on a constant basis, and he has helped me to see that this is because they

[katecpell]

well, I am with a scorpio man and am currently in the process of earning back the trust I once had. The shenanigans that went down go very subconsciously deep and we both understand what happened and are working our way through it, which makes me feel deeply loved (abuse as a child, on both our parts, albeit in different fields on abuse). I KNOW for a fact that if I were dishonest with him, he would know before I even opened my mouth. I knew that all along, and lying to him was no use. He knew.

[nulljaegerfox]

I have trust in peoples actions, words are meaningless to me.

[TOracheldied]

My personal views; If you don't want EVERYONE TO KNOW, including your mom and baby brother, don't tell it. I have my public information, and my private ones. I only told three people my private information. And I still have like six terrible secrets but those I am so never going to tell anyone because not only would i risk them getting out but why would i ever want anyone to nkow that about me? friends are friends but to that extent i ... just... secrets are meant for the beholder only.

[TOracheldied]

tells me recently that she doesn't trust me fully. after putting a facebook status saying these are the people i trust the most. WHAT A BITCH! I still don't believe she did that... and I went back to being friends with her. See, I cried over that. Friendship should end at a point like that. but no... im a true sagittarius moon sun libra friend and idc. i loved her.

[TOracheldied]

Of course there are Scorpios out there who don't trust any body. My sister a moon in scorpio who i've been really close with just told me she kissed a boy when she was young.. and my best friend at school j moon in scorp told me about his past.. told me hes done drugs.. told me his aspirations.. after that, i don't really know what else there is to tell, but im sure he has things hidden. my best friend (or thought to be one) who i've been hanging out with at school this entire year moon in scor

[CarmelsCurlyCandy]

Im a scorpio november 12 and oi am 28 years old! I truly believe loyalty and honesty comes from within! At This Currant Time I Trust No One and believe eveyone has a motive and untill i know what that motive is....I want nothing to do with you and my pesonal space! Alot of people have wasted my time!!! Time is Valuble!

[someasshole100]

i trust few but the ones i do trust i can read like a book

[SLIMGOODIES06]

I dont fully trust people. I check you out for a while before I allow you to get a little close, but Im watching your every move. I place people in different categories. I'm very skeptical about people and there motives and thoughts.

[uranusisnotfunny]

so funny! i have mercury and sun in scorpio 1st house, and automatically assume all are compulsive liars. i remember almost everything forever and all stories. so eventually when people contradict themselves, i'll catch it and have to figure if they are delusional, forgetful, or liars, not too hard. if i don't catch or suspect dishonesty, i let it go. if i do, but value the interaction, i'll just always watch for the indicators of when things aren't right, and will never really trust them.

[TOracheldied]

@uranusisnotfunny I wish I had this talent. I just have a terrible memory so be wary of my kind!

[babyalright]

I've never really thought about this. LMAO maybe this is why I have so few close friends, yet so many acquaintances who I still don't want to be close with.

[typicalgold]

Hi lady, I realy Love the way you are talking and honety.

I have a big history about scorpio and Trust , which is not possible to explain here , if there is any other possibelity to contact you ,please let me know , Maybe you can even make a Video of it , in the way I saw this person makes me so Sad realy and cnfuse about humanity.

Thanks again,Hope to hear from you soon.

[FunkMasterWilson]

Your vids are great. Love your honesty. I am a Scorpio-virgo rising. It takes me a year or maybe even two years until I can believe someone is a rock steady person I can put my trust in or know what they are capable of. I hate how analytical we are! I wish I could relax but that doesn't happen quickly or easily. Usually scare people off with the emotional probing and tests haha. With a Virgo now and he has proven to be honest and good hearted but digging into his emotions feels impossible.

[fatherjon908]

its not just scorpio's or any zodiac sign. Its just human nature and the way people are conditioned. I dont trust most people. I am a gemini but regardless of that, it was the experiences that I had in life that made me this way. When I was younger I never had this mentality. It was only as I grew up that I developed it.

[deroseg]

I can understand exactly what you are talking about. You are pretty solid. I can think of you more of a straight shooter than most of my friends. I have more cappy friends than anything 2 planets in scorp and cusp. I can play the nice game but dont bother with people like that, I need some REAL people around me, its not a point of trusting anyone totally but trusting some people for some things and trusting other people for other things. And being self sufficient.

[chuckphantom]

I TRUST that people will screw me over. I TRUST that I can't rely or depend on anyone. I TRUST that people will lie to me. Other than that, I don't think I have any trust issues.

[ENT84127]

@chuckphantom AMEN!!!

[mystikdreamzo0]

@chuckphantom LMAO! haha....

[norcotics]

we feel insecure towards the people we care, that's why we verify again and again. but a lot of people cant keep up with that; scorpio's are complex beings.

[SuperScorpio1108]

I feel like the more and more years go by the less I want to even bother with trusting people. I know myself, and I realize how long its gonna take, like the process. So id rather not even go there, takes too much energy. I have all i need, good friends, great family. I don't see a point in wasting my time. But if I feel a connection with someone a unique connection Ill keep them under my eye, not show that i like them but just like you said poke around.

[shresthaeric]

hey, you asked if there is a scorpio who doesn't trust anyone. well, i m one. also, i dont ask questions to people. I just can deduce their motive. if i feel there is some hidden agenda behind their eyes, I will just keep an eye out for them. but never ask them questions. in time, i will know about their true motives. it's a fun game.

[SunnyWinters718]

At this point it not even about trust -

[azcactusflower1]

I have a Scorpio Moon 12 degrees to Neptune, both in 3rd, with 7h Pisces Sun conj Jupiter and it's a double whammy that I look at the other person shoes. My moral conscious towards an intimate is very strong. Anyway... with my Scorpio Moon I tend NOT to like probing questions!  The last situation I revealed too much...they began to feel too comfortable and their bulliness came out. I had to let go completely after a few months. I am going back to my old ways, not answer questions...

[blakebymharris]

I AM DOUBLE SCORP, TRUST HAS TO BE EARNED WITH ME BUT I DONT ASSUME PEOPLE ARE LIARS AT ALL. I DO SIZE THEM UP INSTINCTLY THOUGH

[o0stellarwind0o]

i am aries and scorpios usually have a magnetic attraction on me... but destiny yet always prevented me from getting closer with one... i imagine it would be explosive yayyy ;)))

[ZELENAS1]

IM A SCORPIO BORN ON THE 31ST OF OCTOBER THERE IS PEOPLE THAT I TRUST BUT OCASSIONALY ASK QUESTIONS AND GATHER CLUES TO SEE IF ANYTHING HAS CHANGE OR TO SEE IF THERE IS A PARTICULAR REASON TO THEM ACTING THEY WAY THEY DO.

[luvbaba1]

Whoever tells their secrets to someone. Even a really close friend, is a DUMB Scorpio.

[SunnyWinters718]

@luvbaba1 that's true - why do us Dumb Scorpios have a habit of telling our secrets ?

[PierreSupastar]

Nope, I trust absolutely nobody! I don't give a damn wut they say or what they do. My trust is off limits. There's no accessing it

[mystikdreamzo0]

@PierreSupastar hehe...

[toxicrexdawg]

i know what u mean, and this is y scorpio men have problem with women. were 2 ahead of the game, it drives me crazy. i dont trust strangers and i have 2 talk to them for a lil while b4 anything happens, i open up 2 ppl with time but the best ppl i can trust are aries and scorpios. aries tell me what i wanna here and scorpios have each others back other than no other sign will know about my huge plans life long goals lol its shady buissness but my eye is leaning towards libra, can i trust her?

[Booogeym4n]

im a scrop,and i can tell u that i cant really trust any1 with my secrets or things,but i take a risk and give it a shot,but still doubt them

[420peacetheory]

I'm a scorpio and of course very proud. When I first meet people, its all a game. I find out as much about the person as I can from the dark place where they cant see my true form. Due to individualistic behaviour I sometimes have, there are things (often trivial) that will never be exposed to others, not by lack of trust, but because I prize them as something only I have. Simply once I can see a person trusts me, they will be trusted with all but the 1 or 2 things which are mine alone.

[stevenb19871]

I have to say this is a great topic on trust with scorpios. I love scorpios,= we alway get on great I'm a virgo with four planets in my natal chart in virgo... I also have trust issues when it comes to meeting people...if someone hurts me i shut off but i'll loyal friend if you are a loyal friend, if you hurt me i'll hurt you to. So this is maybe why i get on with scorps so much...you have outstanding qualities scorpios so be proud.

[TheGermanYohan]

One more thing I lost my virginity to her.

[TheGermanYohan]

Help me tell me why i broke up with my girlfriend. Born 1993 Nov 14 at 3:33 pm I said yes to everything she ever asked me. I would do anything in the world for her. I walked 30 miles to see her once. She was pieces her moods swings got to me but i didn't get made always stayed quiets and did her every want. even in bed when we had sex she said i was the best she ever had. please shine so light on my problem please.

[SpatialVortex]

If you have leaks,, use Stayfree!

[rebeccashanks]

Elsa, you ask really interesting questions. Thank you for these videos. I think you have a real knack for building a sense of community without having to resort to shop talk only to get people to knit together. I have seen your blog and now these (I wish I had found them sooner!) and I am impressed. You know what you're talking about, plus you get to the point rapidly. I love it! Please keep them coming.

[spoiltbrat33]

i'll admit, i do "probe" and look for leaks. my eyes are always peeled. but yes, once i've determined they are trustworthy, i trust them with everything i have. very passionate we are, and loyal too. however, as much as i hate to admit it, i was wrong in a few cases. they either had leaks i didnt see or developed holes somewhere along the line. my eyes are always watching though.. so of course i caught on and cut ties... hmm...

love your videos.

[kelseyXyeslek]

yes there are...sad but true, at least not yet...

[SuperZwezda]

I am a Capricorn female been dating Scorpio man for a year. I the beginning was all nice and balanced and after his start suspect me in affairs i never made, more when what i been loyal too him. And after 3rd time we broke up i find out what actually his been betraying me and i understood since when what if his telling me what i do something wrong it's mean what his ALREADY did it!!!

[SuperZwezda]

@SuperZwezda

I am very hurt as i been loyal to man who tells me his love me and slept with our woman and even his choice of woman surprised me a lot... This time i ended relationships with him and it's hard to forget him, but hard to get back trust!

His want to win me back again after all dirty things his did, saying his love me. I still feel for him, but don't want to be back to same situation becoming him.

[SuperZwezda]

First want to thank you Elsa as you seems so true about scorpio. When you tell things i feel like you talk of my story...

[Dimitrizador]

well... if you read this..

i do trust in my sences... but i put, even them, to a test...

i still question how strong it can be.. and if there is no leaks in my "first thoughts" about someone... so far.. it havn't been anny...

annyway.. yes.. im a scorpion too. and if i'm honest.. as far as i've been reading.. a preety "scorpion born" one....

[tradishsunfish]

nope, i can see the fake people in the 1st 5-8 minutes, i juss like playing with em, questions must be asked, might as well ask em, right?...-r- is that just a scorpion thing?.... "and if your in bed with em, you get probed that way."....lol

[johnnyabr132]

what sign are you?

[rozzanna1975]

Im a quad- scorpio:) it takes a long time to trust people, and its like they keep passing different levels of trust. but breaking my trust. i really never trust that person again.

[AllegedlySo]

Firstly, I thoroughly enjoy your videos!

My understanding of astrology as been self taught with the help of websites and books for about three years or so.

October 27, 1992 1:23am (last day of the Libra cusp I think)

Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Pluto fall under Scorpio. I know I'm young to begin with but when I was younger, I admit I had extreme trust issues. I would never allow others to get too close because I hated feeling vulnerable.

[arkariansgirl]

I can honestly say that I have never met anyone that I could fully trust. I have an instinctual sense when people are not trust worthy

[CelebsRStupid]

I hate my mother in law she is a sag. and I am a scorpio. She says I dont trust anyone. I dont trust her, she so freaking sneaky! she tries to claim that I am paranoid, but i think she gives me bad vibes.

[hayleyeljohnson]

think you might be aware of this from what you say but maybe your experience with scorpios has more to do with you than just their nature - you find them ok with you perhaps because you're open, they find you to be genuine and you are not afraid of that probing. you have nothing to fear in passing through that test and that willingness and fearlessness in itself gives you enough credit to win their trust?

[KLguy133]

Interesting how discussions on Scorpio always attract a lot of attention. I have had 2 serious relations with Scorpio women and I have to say that I feel they never trust anyone completely, there's always something being held back.

[Babydrochris]

as a scorpio i would love to trust others, i like to believe that everything requires balance and there can be peace of mind in this cold world, people hurt me alot so i tend to wander away from friends period, even though i attract alot of people theres very few i like

[KLguy133]

@Babydrochris ,

that's sad to hear. in my view, never give up on love, I think in the end that's all we got.

[aotearoa20]

i have to admite i tent to test people out to see iff they are rock or not

and i have to admite as well that i have a hard time trusting anyone

and that yes i only trust a couple of peples lets put ti about 5 peoples that i have full trust in

and to admite everything i have a hard time even trusting myserlf and i test my own self out to see iff im rock or not ...

[67woodgirl]

I'm a scorpio. At forty two I have finally figured out that some people can actually be trusted... sounds crazy I know. Now they better not f#ck it up!

[Oceanmachine27]

I wouldn't exactly call it trust. People for me tend to fall into two categories, genuine and not. If someone is genuine, then I am willing to give myself to them a little more. Then, even if they wind up hurting me, I know it's from an honest, real place.

Other than that, I never "trust" anyone to always act one way, good or bad. I know the human animal is always in flux, and anyone, at any time, can surprise you with something positive or hurt you with something negative.

[doginsideyourbody]

as a scorpio im ready for anything and can't be shocked haha. so i'll find out pretty quickly what i need to know about you, decide what i wanna do with that information and thats it. i trust a lot of people very much so.

[anarchy46]

funny... i am a scorpio 10-29-93 by trusting myself spiritually from what i have experienced i by far now tell when he or she is bullshitting because i have done much myself. Honesty and dishonesty are few of many aspects in life i have fully explored. Through many periods in life i have experienced never ending rebirth. I agree Elsa it is a bit surprising that a scorpio has the constant feeling of betrayal on ones heels... possibly this is because you have betrayed yourself.

[sharocarr]

I actually trust very easily - I know it's rather foolish of me. It's benefit of the doubt - innocent till proven guilty. I give people my trust right away, but if they do anything to break it, they'll never get it back.

[rawkninja]

I'm a scorpio, I trust people to an extent but in general I know that primal human nature is gunna be survival of the fittest (Mentally and physically) so I believe the main reason for the broad generalization of the 'secret scorpio' is because deep down inside, we all know that betrayal is always on our heels; whether others can see it or not...

[lilshenadawg]

Im a scorpio, and Ive already made up my mind not to trust anybody. I have rising sun mercury mars and pluto in scorpio.. When I first meet a person I feel them out, even with my close friend Ive known her for about a year and dont trust her at all still.

[mannychase1023]

Well Im Scorpio and I don't trust anyone. I don't Forgive and never forget. You hurt me I hurt you back.

You do a good deed I'll remember and repay. If you heel I heel back. And If you trust me I trust you. That is what a real Scoripo is like. Thats me

[capebee]

I am a Scorpio and I don't trust ANYONE! But sometimes you don't have a choice. We all need one another, but unfortunately sometimes the people you need the most are the ones you trust the least.

[jasonqueue]

Also I love your videos Elsa! Are you a water sign?

[jasonqueue]

I'm a Scorp with key planets in Libra, a stellium in my 5th house, and a Cancer asc... so I'm a lot more optimistic than other Scorps I know! I was pretty bad as a kid, and I'm also gay so that kind of secrecy especially hurt my relationships and trust issues as a teenager. But I have faith in my fellow Scorps, so long as we take time to consider how vulnerable everyone is. Realizing we're all in this life together has helped me come to terms with a lot of my baggage. We all have pain and joy.

[ashes4444]

Oh trust, what a loaded topic...I'm a Scorpio for sure, but not sure how MUCH of a Scorpio I am. Didn't know there were degrees until I saw your vid. To answer your question, personally of course, I have to first point out how quickly people can change. They're the same, but different in a month, sometimes in a matter of days. Because of this fact, I do find myself always questioning - never fully trusting. I see people before they show themselves, and see their changes before they do normally.

[jsthooligan86]

my ex girl friend i could not trust because she was the type of woman who liked to hang out at night clubs and bars on the week ends, she was a big flirt for and a libra. all tho she stop going to those places when we hooked up and she made some changes for me in her life style,i always had trouble trusting her when we would not be together. i always thought she was out on the mingle and also i was really jealous and possessive but its in my nature. she did a lot for me but i still could not.

[star74sd]

I have a really hard time trusting someone! I'm not a Scorpio but I have my Pluto rising, Saturn in Scorpio in first house, Pluto conjunct Saturn in first house, and I think this makes me a bit paranoid!!! I enjoy your videos Elsa! :)

[420plths]

i'm a scorpio and the more i get to know people whether, friends, family, or others the less i trust people,they lie all the time, i see it and keep it in mind even when the lie wasn't towards me. But i do probe everyone, didn't notice it before. Take car thx.

[Changeisgood12]

I have no Idea what type of Scorpio I am, Im not that knowledgeable about the subject, but, I can say, I don't have to ask people questions or probe as you call it. I can figure out people just on how the way they talk, move, judge other people, what interests they have...etc. People open themselves up too easily, it's quite easy to figure people out in my opinion. Very rarely do I come across someone that is shielded. The only people I fully trust are my family.

[mantizaazaz]

Yeah scopios probe me too but sometimes people can see through them too. When strong scorpios ask me questions, I know what they are really asking even if they are not fowardly asking it. And you know, we all have the right to our privacy.

[ericairwaterfire]

i liked what you had to say. i have sun/mercury/venus/pluto in scorpio all in the 8th house. i trust people.

[kisslena]

Hi Elsa! I'm a Scorpio with 4 planets and the ascendant in Sagittarius. I don't know enough about astrology to know the true implications. But I don't trust anyone. My spirituality helps me overcome feelings of doubt and insecurity. But you're right, we scan (probe) looking for cracks. At a vulnerable moment, someone close to me dishonored me. I continue to have them in my life, but they no longer have my complete trust.

[jdfodio]

Elsa P has a very Scorpio vibe to me. I think it's her bluntness, dark coloring (esp the eyes!), and her I don't give a crap what you think energy...

I have Moon and Uranus in Scorp and a stellium in 8th house...and I probe to see what type of character they have...and to check for inconsistencies (this is the biggest thing!). If there's inconsistency between actions and words..or new words and old words, then we have a problem.Some people I will never trust: those who gleefully lie with abandon

[AsphodelElysium]

I can only speak for myself (1st House Scorp Stellium-Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter) but yes, there are people I trust but I've been friends with them for a long, long, long time. It takes a good deal of time to earn the trust and I do watch for a long time but once they are in, they're in for good, and you're right the probing stops.

[ccanela666]

I have a Scorpio friend and she trusted cause she told me who she likes

[jmonie02]

Yea, I have a scorpio friend with 4 planets in her sign, with Rising Virgo. All she does is ask questions. It gets annoying at times and it's like what the hell!? She trusts me to the tee because I can sleep in her bed anytime I want. But I get annoyed with all the questions. Capricorns question alot to.

[SuperZwezda]

@jmonie02 we also not so stupid you know:)

[MonaalizMJiheartU]

well my Scorpio best EX FRIEND :( did trust me, we past that, however something happened to me personally and I disappeared in a way, for a long time, all of a sudden she started questioning me, that ruined our relationship, why not trust me, I never did anything to make her think that, they do have a trust issue and thats to bad, because I really get along with them