This video helped me more than you know. Knowing someone else went through it to an is fine now. I was a crazy ex too I kept txting him saying i love u why did u do this why did u treat me so bad. & i deleted him on Facebook only to add him bk 1 hr later . He emotionally abused me he hurt me so much but after a well I saw that I did soapy things to hurt him to and he wasn't yelling at me for it. To hear u thought ud never get over it then did gives me soo much hope thank you!
wow i did the exact same thing. deleting the guy off of facebook because i knew stalking him was horrible..and then i added him back couple months later. we never really talked it out but now i realize that talking does a lot of good for both. i love this video! proud :)
@lilz0r12 WOW this video is great your such a strong women :). I am a guy and with my break up I was so hurt and i have only been in like 2 relationships my first she only lasted for a week then she dumped me for her ex who treated her like crap then my 2nd was 5 months and that one we are still great friends . with me i feel lonely sometimes cuz i am on the Big side i am one of the sweetest guyz but girls seem to always go for the assholes :(. I wish i was as strong as u .Much respect babe :*
@lilz0r12 its really hard though becuz not until recently did we stop talking altogether. when we broke up it felt like just a long break. becuz we still talked and the feelings were still there. until recently that hes found someone else it broke me becuz he kinda got my hopes up that there could be something more and now this happens and well i couldnt let myself become just a second option to him. im worth more then that. im really emotional i even deactivated my fb dont wanna deal w/ society
i was with my ex for 3yrs throughout my whole entire high school yrs. it was always such an emotional rollercoaster becuz of both our maturity levels i was always a step ahead & he had always tried to be more mature but somehow fail in the process i dnt think until i watched your video did i realize that maybe i was expecting to much.. i loved him more then anything my heart belongs to him still 6mths after i just wanted it to work out you just never forget ur 1st love he was my 1st everything.
@LoveIsWhatWeLookFor you're right, your first love is someone that you'll never forget. but there are plenty of guys out there who can potentially make you happier :)
Your so right, I'm also in the same kinda stage I geuss, looking at all the good things about it rather then the horrible stuff. (even tho there was a lot) thinking bout how we helped eachother grow. the dumb shit i did and thinking what the hell i cant believe i did that! I less want to beat the shit out him, and now just think.......whatever.I am so, so much stronger because of this, I don't need you no more, I used to say he was more then this world had to offer, now I'm just like this world
@alyssareena i love you so much alyssa. just like my friendship with soph, i literally have no idea where i'd be without you. you mean the absolute world to me. thanks for sticking by me through some of the roughest few years of my life. <3
Thank you so much for this video. Me and my boyfriend just broke up and i saved this video on a playlist just in case and it makes me feel so much better about the whole situation. I haven't grieved at all yet and im scared that im just going to break down soon. But this video gives me hope that ill get over it completely in time so thank you:)<3
I think this video is so amazing - very honest and from the hip! You literally walked through fire and came out the other side and it warms my heart to see how great you are doing now, how much you have learned and how many amazing people you have in your life now :)) OXOXOX
hey lil i just want to say this video was amazing..you are so brave and inspiring and trust me when i say you have def grown from this..you know i too lost my bf/ and best friend of two yrs around the same time as you and after all this time i can say you are absolutely right it something you have to experience and learn from and we are both better for it =) Congrats babe and hope you continue to be as happy if not happier love you
I wish I could talk to you on a personal level about my relationship, or whatever the fuck it is nowadays, because it's a long story... and I'm tired of keeping everything in.
God I can totally relate to what you're saying. I've been with the same guy for almost 4 years and it always takes him leaving me for me to step back and be like "wow. I'm fucking up too." and realizing that he isn't the only ass hole in the relationship. Thankfully, he and I are working on things. But I am so happy to hear from another female that I'm not the only one who really needed to be totally alone and depressed to see my own wrongdoings. So thank you.
@caitliniscoolnstuff thank you so much :) hahah i don't think so...i know he subscribed to me back when we were dating but i don't think he's very active on youtube...
i loved seeing this because its true, youre not alone. that was me a year ago. i spent countless nights crying and grieving over the breakup because it hurt so much but im happy i took the time to grieve. the number of days and nights you spend grieving dwindle down at some point and you take the entire situation into retrospect and grow from it. its been a year and 2 months and ive never felt stronger. its the most freeing thing.
reading all these comments and watching this video made me realize im not alone. ive been on and off.. and officially DONE with one guy for the past 3 years. i loved him... and i honestly i still do kinda get upset when i think about him. watching this has made me stronger in getting over it. thank you so muchh <3
@Lalaloveits you have no idea how happy that makes me. knowing that my breakup is helping someone else is the most amazing feeling in the world. you're never alone!
THANK YOU for this. It's really an amazing feeling to know that I'm not alone. I'm going through this right now. I can't wait to get to the part where I can actually meet another guy who I can like as much as my ex. It's honestly a very difficult thing. He kind of gets into my mind and I don't know what to do when I'm thinking about him so much. So I guess I could ask what to do when you start reminiscing on your ex? Like what do you do when you still get upset with it?
OMG I seriously feel like I just watched a summary of what I went through ha. My boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up Oct. 2010 and it was the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I did the same stuff. FB creeped, deleted him, randomly messaged him and said "I miss you" once and felt like a psycho ha. Except I was the one to jump into a relationship 1 MONTH after we broke up. I didnt even like him I did it to move on.. Thats probably what your ex did to move on too. Awesome video :)
wow i totally understand what your saying through all this! i went through the exact same issues with my ex, though it took 4 1/2 years and a break up to realize what i was doing wrong to mess up my relationship with him. my break up is recent though, so im still in the grieving process. you seem like a really strong person with a good head on your shoulders. your story was really good to hear knowing that this hurt isnt forever:)
had another relationship, the boy cheated on me... I hate him. but I made sure to delete him out of my life, and move on. But what also just happened is my parents broke my heart by divorcing after my 18 years of life with them... It's hard and I struggle every day but I know time will make it better, since it has before. Vent about it when you feel like it, and move forward.. every experience is for learning what to do & what not to do, there's someone out there for you. :]
I agree with what you said. I was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years and the breakup was horrible for me.. Eyes would water in class, cry myself to sleep screaming, my heart physically hurt. But time does heal all. There is a man/boy out there that will heal it as well. Just be very careful who you trust now a days, take it slow. If you're mourning/sad, treat yourself, do things that make you happy, be with friends. Things get better. - I met a boy who was the SWEETEST i ever met in my life, and
My boyfriends mom thinks we spend too much time together but we only see each other at school and youth group... And I feel that she doesnt like me very much... Any advice you can give? I see him tonight and ill be seeing his mom too...
My breakup was 6 months ago and I'm still heartbroken. He had been cheating on me since day 1 with his best friend and 7 other girls. And I found all this out the day after he left me. We hate each other and all his friends who I thought were my friends hate me and have threatened me. Everyone knew he was a cheater before I had gotten with him and no one had the guts to tell me about it. I hate myself for getting into that situation. Can you please help or give me some advice?
High school is long gone for me but I am going through my first heart break right now. He was also my best friend. Your words were really nice to hear. Thank You!
Do you still talk to Ben? Also my bestfriend dated this guy for 8 months. He broke up with her bc he said he didn't love her anymore and got together with one of her good friends a week later. It's been 5 months and he wanted to get back together with my best friend. He broke up with his other girlfriend. My best friend was gonna give him another chance but a day before they were supposed to talk he got back together with his girlfriend. Now he keeps saying how much he loves my bestfriend and h
This video helped me more than you know. Knowing someone else went through it to an is fine now. I was a crazy ex too I kept txting him saying i love u why did u do this why did u treat me so bad. & i deleted him on Facebook only to add him bk 1 hr later . He emotionally abused me he hurt me so much but after a well I saw that I did soapy things to hurt him to and he wasn't yelling at me for it. To hear u thought ud never get over it then did gives me soo much hope thank you!
loveisgold8 2 months ago
wow i did the exact same thing. deleting the guy off of facebook because i knew stalking him was horrible..and then i added him back couple months later. we never really talked it out but now i realize that talking does a lot of good for both. i love this video! proud :)
himick0 2 months ago
@lilz0r12 WOW this video is great your such a strong women :). I am a guy and with my break up I was so hurt and i have only been in like 2 relationships my first she only lasted for a week then she dumped me for her ex who treated her like crap then my 2nd was 5 months and that one we are still great friends . with me i feel lonely sometimes cuz i am on the Big side i am one of the sweetest guyz but girls seem to always go for the assholes :(. I wish i was as strong as u .Much respect babe :*
acb723 2 months ago
@lilz0r12 its really hard though becuz not until recently did we stop talking altogether. when we broke up it felt like just a long break. becuz we still talked and the feelings were still there. until recently that hes found someone else it broke me becuz he kinda got my hopes up that there could be something more and now this happens and well i couldnt let myself become just a second option to him. im worth more then that. im really emotional i even deactivated my fb dont wanna deal w/ society
LoveIsWhatWeLookFor 3 months ago
i was with my ex for 3yrs throughout my whole entire high school yrs. it was always such an emotional rollercoaster becuz of both our maturity levels i was always a step ahead & he had always tried to be more mature but somehow fail in the process i dnt think until i watched your video did i realize that maybe i was expecting to much.. i loved him more then anything my heart belongs to him still 6mths after i just wanted it to work out you just never forget ur 1st love he was my 1st everything.
LoveIsWhatWeLookFor 3 months ago
@LoveIsWhatWeLookFor you're right, your first love is someone that you'll never forget. but there are plenty of guys out there who can potentially make you happier :)
lilz0r12 3 months ago
Has way more to offer then you :)
Existing95 3 months ago
Your so right, I'm also in the same kinda stage I geuss, looking at all the good things about it rather then the horrible stuff. (even tho there was a lot) thinking bout how we helped eachother grow. the dumb shit i did and thinking what the hell i cant believe i did that! I less want to beat the shit out him, and now just think.......whatever.I am so, so much stronger because of this, I don't need you no more, I used to say he was more then this world had to offer, now I'm just like this world
Existing95 3 months ago
I can't even explain how happy and proud I am of you :) I love you so much Lily, you're amazing.
alyssareena 3 months ago
@alyssareena i love you so much alyssa. just like my friendship with soph, i literally have no idea where i'd be without you. you mean the absolute world to me. thanks for sticking by me through some of the roughest few years of my life. <3
lilz0r12 3 months ago
Thank you so much for this video. Me and my boyfriend just broke up and i saved this video on a playlist just in case and it makes me feel so much better about the whole situation. I haven't grieved at all yet and im scared that im just going to break down soon. But this video gives me hope that ill get over it completely in time so thank you:)<3
yourfacelsl 3 months ago
I think this video is so amazing - very honest and from the hip! You literally walked through fire and came out the other side and it warms my heart to see how great you are doing now, how much you have learned and how many amazing people you have in your life now :)) OXOXOX
nacholoversd 3 months ago
hey lil i just want to say this video was amazing..you are so brave and inspiring and trust me when i say you have def grown from this..you know i too lost my bf/ and best friend of two yrs around the same time as you and after all this time i can say you are absolutely right it something you have to experience and learn from and we are both better for it =) Congrats babe and hope you continue to be as happy if not happier love you
lianaroa 3 months ago
I wish I could talk to you on a personal level about my relationship, or whatever the fuck it is nowadays, because it's a long story... and I'm tired of keeping everything in.
10101binary010101 3 months ago
I'm the same way when it comes to Facebook. I hate it sometimes because it makes me feel so weak when I'm trying to get over somebody.
JasmineWithBeauty 3 months ago
I <3 ya girl. Thanks for sharing this.
DMCxxo 3 months ago
God I can totally relate to what you're saying. I've been with the same guy for almost 4 years and it always takes him leaving me for me to step back and be like "wow. I'm fucking up too." and realizing that he isn't the only ass hole in the relationship. Thankfully, he and I are working on things. But I am so happy to hear from another female that I'm not the only one who really needed to be totally alone and depressed to see my own wrongdoings. So thank you.
925leanna 3 months ago
I respect you so much for this, you're an amazing person. I haveee to ask, though, does he watch these videos? ha (:
caitliniscoolnstuff 3 months ago
@caitliniscoolnstuff thank you so much :) hahah i don't think so...i know he subscribed to me back when we were dating but i don't think he's very active on youtube...
lilz0r12 3 months ago
@caitliniscoolnstuff aaaand even if he does, so what? hahah i'm just being honest. not hurtful.
lilz0r12 3 months ago
@lilz0r12 Hahaha, I was just wondering! My brother's ex used to make youtube videos and he creeped on her youtube after she broke up with him. :}
caitliniscoolnstuff 3 months ago
@caitliniscoolnstuff hahahah oh lordy that would be so weird if he watched these!
lilz0r12 3 months ago
i loved seeing this because its true, youre not alone. that was me a year ago. i spent countless nights crying and grieving over the breakup because it hurt so much but im happy i took the time to grieve. the number of days and nights you spend grieving dwindle down at some point and you take the entire situation into retrospect and grow from it. its been a year and 2 months and ive never felt stronger. its the most freeing thing.
xoxokatieboo 3 months ago
@xoxokatieboo exactly. couldn't have said it better myself. <3
lilz0r12 3 months ago
reading all these comments and watching this video made me realize im not alone. ive been on and off.. and officially DONE with one guy for the past 3 years. i loved him... and i honestly i still do kinda get upset when i think about him. watching this has made me stronger in getting over it. thank you so muchh <3
Lalaloveits 3 months ago
@Lalaloveits you have no idea how happy that makes me. knowing that my breakup is helping someone else is the most amazing feeling in the world. you're never alone!
lilz0r12 3 months ago
THANK YOU for this. It's really an amazing feeling to know that I'm not alone. I'm going through this right now. I can't wait to get to the part where I can actually meet another guy who I can like as much as my ex. It's honestly a very difficult thing. He kind of gets into my mind and I don't know what to do when I'm thinking about him so much. So I guess I could ask what to do when you start reminiscing on your ex? Like what do you do when you still get upset with it?
lovingeveryxsecond 3 months ago
Thank you for sharing this(: you're very beautiful and kind
lanaloveish 3 months ago
@lanaloveish <333
lilz0r12 3 months ago
OMG I seriously feel like I just watched a summary of what I went through ha. My boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up Oct. 2010 and it was the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I did the same stuff. FB creeped, deleted him, randomly messaged him and said "I miss you" once and felt like a psycho ha. Except I was the one to jump into a relationship 1 MONTH after we broke up. I didnt even like him I did it to move on.. Thats probably what your ex did to move on too. Awesome video :)
ambermarie221 3 months ago
@ambermarie221 glad to know i'm not alone :)
lilz0r12 3 months ago
wow i totally understand what your saying through all this! i went through the exact same issues with my ex, though it took 4 1/2 years and a break up to realize what i was doing wrong to mess up my relationship with him. my break up is recent though, so im still in the grieving process. you seem like a really strong person with a good head on your shoulders. your story was really good to hear knowing that this hurt isnt forever:)
loribbymhmm 3 months ago
@loribbymhmm glad to have helped<3 i promise you'll be okay! time heals all.
lilz0r12 3 months ago
had another relationship, the boy cheated on me... I hate him. but I made sure to delete him out of my life, and move on. But what also just happened is my parents broke my heart by divorcing after my 18 years of life with them... It's hard and I struggle every day but I know time will make it better, since it has before. Vent about it when you feel like it, and move forward.. every experience is for learning what to do & what not to do, there's someone out there for you. :]
babyygurlx0x0 3 months ago 5
I agree with what you said. I was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years and the breakup was horrible for me.. Eyes would water in class, cry myself to sleep screaming, my heart physically hurt. But time does heal all. There is a man/boy out there that will heal it as well. Just be very careful who you trust now a days, take it slow. If you're mourning/sad, treat yourself, do things that make you happy, be with friends. Things get better. - I met a boy who was the SWEETEST i ever met in my life, and
babyygurlx0x0 3 months ago 4
@babyygurlx0x0 exactly. <3
lilz0r12 3 months ago
My boyfriends mom thinks we spend too much time together but we only see each other at school and youth group... And I feel that she doesnt like me very much... Any advice you can give? I see him tonight and ill be seeing his mom too...
TheHappyBl0wfish 3 months ago
My breakup was 6 months ago and I'm still heartbroken. He had been cheating on me since day 1 with his best friend and 7 other girls. And I found all this out the day after he left me. We hate each other and all his friends who I thought were my friends hate me and have threatened me. Everyone knew he was a cheater before I had gotten with him and no one had the guts to tell me about it. I hate myself for getting into that situation. Can you please help or give me some advice?
BrianaRosexoxo 3 months ago
@BrianaRosexoxo girl you need to move on. clearly, this guy isn't worth an OUNCE of your time. you are SO much better without him. trust me.
lilz0r12 3 months ago
do you think its weird to be engaged at 17?
13R4NDi 3 months ago
@13R4NDi personally, yes.
lilz0r12 3 months ago
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13R4NDi 3 months ago
such a good video.. thank you x
Caithlins 3 months ago
@Caithlins xoxo
lilz0r12 3 months ago
dude your amazing!
mysmilesxo 3 months ago 2
@mysmilesxo <33
lilz0r12 3 months ago
High school is long gone for me but I am going through my first heart break right now. He was also my best friend. Your words were really nice to hear. Thank You!
forbiddenlyrics 3 months ago
@forbiddenlyrics glad to help <3
lilz0r12 3 months ago
I can relate to this soo much! Thank you for making this video, so helpful (: x
JVUx0 3 months ago
@JVUx0 xoxo anytime!
lilz0r12 3 months ago
Do you still talk to Ben? Also my bestfriend dated this guy for 8 months. He broke up with her bc he said he didn't love her anymore and got together with one of her good friends a week later. It's been 5 months and he wanted to get back together with my best friend. He broke up with his other girlfriend. My best friend was gonna give him another chance but a day before they were supposed to talk he got back together with his girlfriend. Now he keeps saying how much he loves my bestfriend and h
beautyrush245 3 months ago
@beautyrush245 of course, he's my best friend! wow that guy sounds like an idiot.
lilz0r12 3 months ago
<3
giveacidlollipops 3 months ago