" A man of true science... uses but few hard words, and those only when none other will answer his purpose; whereas the smatterer in science... thinks, that by mouthing hard words, he proves that he understands hard things ". Herman Melville
There is a great thread at the Social Anxiety Support . com forum that gives priceless info about toxic shame and how to heal it. When you get to the forum, do a search there for the thread titled "The Toxic Shame Thread". I know it is a SA forum, but that thread can help EVERYONE with toxic shame, even if you don't have SA.
It is one thing understanding this on an intellectual level but to emotionally heal the shame that binds is horendous yet the most rewarding thing i have ever had the courage to embark on. The journey continues
At around age 6 I decided that my parents were miserable beings because I was born. 5th of 7. My acceptance of that decision has yet to leave. At 54 I'm watching your video. I've known of you for a long time. The freaking hole is so incredibly deep.
I've known of a lot of things for a long time. The hole can be so incredibly deep. The head might know that "I shouldn't even be, I am wrong for being, all my being is wrong!" is bad conditioning. Until I am not this conditioning... I am.
Mr.Bradshaw.In the name of many thousands people you helped with your understanding and for the ability to pass this knowledge on us-my biggest,most sincere :THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
Shoot! this guy never knew my mother. She lived by what others thought and said about her. and believe we all heard about out when somebody said something to or about her. On top of that she liked to insist to us not to do or say something because of what others might think or say. Read "Toxic Parents" by Dr. Donna Forward and "The Birth Order Book" by Leman
I used to use Bradshaw's videos while doing group therapy sessions at a mental hospital I used to work for. The patients didn't always buy into his ideas but it got them talking about these kind of issues.
I recommend
korglegend 3 weeks ago
" A man of true science... uses but few hard words, and those only when none other will answer his purpose; whereas the smatterer in science... thinks, that by mouthing hard words, he proves that he understands hard things ". Herman Melville
korglegend 3 weeks ago
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There is a great thread at the Social Anxiety Support . com forum that gives priceless info about toxic shame and how to heal it. When you get to the forum, do a search there for the thread titled "The Toxic Shame Thread". I know it is a SA forum, but that thread can help EVERYONE with toxic shame, even if you don't have SA.
boxcar25 3 months ago
It is one thing understanding this on an intellectual level but to emotionally heal the shame that binds is horendous yet the most rewarding thing i have ever had the courage to embark on. The journey continues
kevphillips02 5 months ago 2
At around age 6 I decided that my parents were miserable beings because I was born. 5th of 7. My acceptance of that decision has yet to leave. At 54 I'm watching your video. I've known of you for a long time. The freaking hole is so incredibly deep.
I've known of a lot of things for a long time. The hole can be so incredibly deep. The head might know that "I shouldn't even be, I am wrong for being, all my being is wrong!" is bad conditioning. Until I am not this conditioning... I am.
un42n8karma 5 months ago
@un42n8karma That razor edge.
That worthless thing humans call god can kiss my ass.
Won't make that razor cut.
un42n8karma 5 months ago
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@un42n8karma That razor edge.
That worthless thing humans call god can kiss my ass.
Won't make that razor cut.
un42n8karma 5 months ago
@un42n8karma Ouch!
Really!
If the big damn godthing makes a razor cut.
Shit! ouch!
"The lord works in mysterious ways"
is no bullshit.
Not what I want.
Shit! ouch!
What happens!
un42n8karma 5 months ago
Mr.Bradshaw.In the name of many thousands people you helped with your understanding and for the ability to pass this knowledge on us-my biggest,most sincere :THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
Jerzy Ulicki-Rek
Bieszczady73 6 months ago
Shoot! this guy never knew my mother. She lived by what others thought and said about her. and believe we all heard about out when somebody said something to or about her. On top of that she liked to insist to us not to do or say something because of what others might think or say. Read "Toxic Parents" by Dr. Donna Forward and "The Birth Order Book" by Leman
MrOphachew 6 months ago
I used to use Bradshaw's videos while doing group therapy sessions at a mental hospital I used to work for. The patients didn't always buy into his ideas but it got them talking about these kind of issues.
coldnprickly 6 months ago
Great speaker quite intriguin.
timleecarp 7 months ago
Very well, Outstanding speaker and solid material, I agree with him in most of it.
menonfire12 10 months ago
Excellent, thanks for posting, I just finished all 6 videos.
drevenkaine 1 year ago
This is gold!!
Schlingsi 1 year ago
Thanks John. Hi Goose. :D
Riveted face at 6:08
fluffythecat2 1 year ago
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