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  • Yeah, you give me hope that some football players (american football) aren't straight. Love the story :)

    Also, i despise being a youtube hoe but to others, watch my video please, its my first about my coming out :D

    youtube.com/watch?v=tb50519smU­E

  • I have that same photo in the background! :D

  • coming out 2nite to my best friend. Thought i would be scared but not really :)

  • @mikeohohoh7 congrats...its a cool feeling having someone know :)

    only my best friend knows now...good luck!

  • urrrrrrrr sooooooo hottttttttttttttt

  • i just came out......

  • nice coming out story

  • a guy got paid 2$ to ask me out...FML. thank god i said "i don't trust you"

  • It really isn't that big of thing. Nick, you are a testament to those who are afraid to tell there closest friends who they really are. Coming from the other side (straight), we all want to be validated and recognized for who we really are. No matter what, I'm proud that you did this. This isn't the 1970s... GAY PEOPLE HAVE CAME ALONG WAY!

  • Hey Nick I love your coming out video, it's actually my second time watching it lol I hope you make some other videos. Thanks for the video and my parents reacted almost the same :p

  • I already watched this coming out video but I watched it again just because you are so friggen cute

  • Horror struck. Army truck. I'm gay. xD

  • i made my coming out video & im 12 almost 13 & it was so hard my parents dont know but im watching a lot of coming out videos!

  • you're so hot

  • This video has been very reassuring. Thank you so much for posting this.

  • Nick,

    Thanks for sharing your story with YouTube. I'm glad that in time everything turned out well for you and your family. Hopefully everything is still going well for you at college. :)

  • Read Isaiah 45:7 from the „Holy“ Bible

    That is all that I would like to say >;D

  • @JyonasanVolkov I agree homosexuality is a sin according to the bible (not a parody) I made a video on this

  • why does the audio cut off :(

  • Congratulations on the family support, but, wow, you are really surrounded by people who can't keep their mouth's shut!

  • wow you're really cute. Too bad you live half a continent away v.v

    Great video though ^.^

  • ur face is turning me gay

  • omg ur gourgeous

  • Nick, you are very handsome. :)

  • oh my you're hot

  • wow, good story?

    

  • i'm confused about my sexuality... idk if i'm straight or bisexual

  • Thanks for shairing your coming out story! :) So happy things worked out great for you in the end. Much love.

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  • great story <3

    -Melissa (lesbianheart)

  • thats really cool!!!

    @_@ !!!!

    what if my parent know about me ... !!! that would be a disaster

  • That is cool

  • @CocoaCocoaPuffs

    Yeah seriously, those people are a complete waste of time and are pathetic. Who cares who somebody else is attracted to?

  • Personally, I am very conflicted about my sexuality right now. I remember when I was younger I was often more attracted to girls or women like in High School whenever I saw this girl I really liked I always got all nervous and started smiling for no reason and feeling strange, but lately I've been feeling that way about MEN and I have no idea why. And now I feel less and less attracted to women. Does anyone know if it's just a phase or I was once straight and am now gay or bisexual?

  • @gatheringleaves you have no control over your sexual orientation. your born who you are. you can't turn gay or decide to be gay it is not a choice. i would suggest that you take time to figure out which sex you feel more attracted to b4 coming to any conclusions about yourself. its a long process but just know that many other people are asking themselves the same questions and you are not alone.

  • @gatheringleaves Hey Gathering, there is nothing to be ashamed about. You can't pick who you're attracted to. You sound like you're bi or pan. If you're ever confused, just ride through your feelings. Feel them out. Private message me if you ever need to talk. :)

  • @gatheringleaves I once had very strong feelings for girls and girls only. I even used to feel like some sort of a "playboy" . Hehehe. I was actually two-timing my girlfriend in high school with another girl. I always wonder what happened to me coz today I'm in college and I have no attraction to women. I feel like it happened to me overnight and sometimes I wish I could go back to how things were coz this guys attraction thing is so hard for me. I've never told anyone I know.

  • Good for you for coming out. I am straight and before I started dating my boyfriend I made sure that he wasn't a homophobic, he wasn't. So not all straight people hate the gay lifestyles. People in my family and some of my friends are gay. So good for you and don't listen stupid people on here who they are cool by writing that horrible things about gay people.:)

  • you fat horribal cock sucking cunt,i hopre you get cut you fucking dirty bastard

  • kool video very cool plus your cute:) i decided to subscribe

  • @hellobitch100 retarded piece of shit,why r u even searching youtube for gay vids? u like guys? get a life idiot

  • @miloootic Im sorry, are you offended? Your probably gay.... Now fuck off :P

  • @hellobitch100 seems u like men too :D since ur searching yt vids of gay people enjoy

  • @hellobitch100 Really don't know why you watched this video if you have a problem with gay people and their lifestyle. It's actually kind of sick that you clicked to watch this given your homophobic views. It takes a pretty insecure person to try to bring someone else down just for the sake of being an asshole. Seems to me that you're the one who's fucked up here... just saying.

  • Haha I have the same story as this guy <3

  • kudos to you and your family....

  • I think straight people just assume that everyone is straight. I think it's pretty obvious that I'm gay, but when I meet people they talk to me as if I'm straight, even making homophobic comments, and then I tell them I'm gay and they apologize. I hate "coming out" over and over.

  • @ThePrinceOfWaves i love it when people assume im straight and then make homophobic comments, just gives me a reason to either make them feel really bad about them selves by coming out in the saddest possible way, or by spreading terrible rumors about them. LMAO but i do hate having to come out to people everyday, the first few times its terrifying, the it just becomes a chore. the first guy i came out to actually forgot i did and when i talked about it tommorrow had a 2nd mental breakdown WTF!

  • @arraneeno Exactly! It's just become such a chore and it's tiring. At work and school I started wearing a woven rainbow bracelet thing, though I don't even like rainbow anything, just so people will know before they talk to me and if they don't like it, they can just leave me alone. I got so used to it that I hate forgetting to put it on.

  • @TheAhajjam, I think you mean envious not jealous, and I am neither. You may be (and that's OK) but, I'm not. I don't make it a habit of being envious of people I don't know. And, besides...I was simple joking...no need for an over reaction. I think he's cute too and so are you. Happy now?

  • I LIKE YOU VERY MUCH , YOU R SOOOOO HOT ..

    thank god you ARE gay!

  • Watching it on mute and Helen Keller would be able to guess you were gay. Sorry, "Nick", you're just another delusional homo that THINKS they had everyone fooled.

  • @alexs26505 NO WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY , he does NOT look like he's gay AT ALL!

    you R just jealous !

    grow up!

  • Bit of "upspeak" tips off that youre a gay boy ...anyone with reasonably good gaydar would know ....

  • I appreciate you sharing your story.

  • flamer!

  • Not as straight acting as you think....

  • Nicely done. Congrats!

  • Make some more videos please! You're so hot. Like if you agree!! <3

  • wow, I could fall in love with you easily... you´re hot, cute and smart, congratulations for being brave enough to be yourself...

    congratulations from Brazil

  • can we date your gorgeous...like your so very gorgeous?

  • I'm GAY and don't care who knows. This is the way we are. What is it, us being gay we have to tell who we are. What goes on beyond our door is our business. I don't see why we have to catalog ourselves for being who we are. I'm damn proud of who I am. Let's leave it at that. BTW nothing wrong with your video and proud of what you did. I'm just saying.

  • Thank you for sharing! You seem very, very dateable. :)

  • I'm melting listening to you talk :3

  • Whats up with the first 3 comments, go cry in a corner idiots... -.-, nice video btw ;p!

  • omgggg ur so F-INGGGGG CUTE godddd ur parents make good children

  • YOUR gay?....nice!

  • cool story bro

  • Nick is fffffffffffiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnn­nnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeee

  • your cute

  • SO WHAT,IM A LITTLE BUTTHOLE SKANK ??

  • @trapapapapapapa He was my boyfriend slut !! All though when hed make love to me hed talk really dirty saying " oh yea u love dat fat black right up da crack o yo ass dont u ? u liitle buttfucked skank !! so what im a little butthole whore,it happens..

  • @trapapapapapapa I WAS OUTED !! MY POPS CAUGHT ME SMOKIN ON A SHORT YET BEEFY ASS COCK IN MY GARAGE !!

  • good job=)

  • When your phone went off i spent like 5 minutes looking for my phone thinking it was mine. -.-

  • I liked your story. Oh and your really cute =)

  • Good for you man!!!

  • the audio is LITTLE bit UN sync

  • My story is almost the exact same as yours.

  • Lucky you, my father suspects about my homosexuality and he tells me he would hit me if i were gay... i want to get the hell out of my so non-gay life but guess what, i don't have any friend's house to go to nor even a auntie or something like that... i want to yell

  • @DanielCMM

    How old are you? There's most likely organizations that can help you with housing (in fact there are... depending on where you live and your age).

    Definitely look into that... and in the mean time I'm sorry that you have the parents you have. You'll just have to keep it "in the closet" for now.

    ON the other hand I'd absolutely call the cops on ur dick face father if he hits you... maybe you can get into foster care (if that's better than home).. Good luck. :O(

  • damn you fine....

  • WHY must all the sexy boys be gay?? NOT FAIR

  • @sterlingstar93x To gays it is not.

    :)

  • you're so cute:))))

  • You are incredibly handsome and I'm glad your family supports you!

  • CUTE CUTE CUTE. IF I WERE IN AMERICA, U WOULD BE GOING OUT WITH ME, TRUST ME.

  • haha i like how you talk with your hands too

  • Dayum…you fine!

  • i love this kind of guy so cute

  • Heh I just came out this year, it was rocky to say the least.

  • You're HOT!

  • god you're cute

  • Kudos for coming out!

  • Wow, lucky you! Nice positive experience. Don't change for anything, you've got it all.

  • ur so hot!

  • KUDOS BRO. 

  • @lamonlychasingchange

    Ciao Bello!

    Nick "Amico Mio" it's your friend "Blaine", Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend here, just wanting to share with you and your visitors that I saw Bobbys' Mother Mary Griffith, her husband Bob, and the rest of the Griffith Clan last week, for the first time since the mid 1990s! We all had quite a time discussing a new generation of confident, affirming and fully committed young "Gay" folks like you and yours! We're so proud of you!

    Blaine

  • your family sounds alot like mine and your story too, but i was wondering, i know you said your family was really republican, but what were they religiously? because im terrified to tell my parents who are really religious (p.s. im a really faithful christian as well) and against homosexuality

  • whyyyyyy im a girl your hot and messd up!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Wish I could do the same. I thought about coming out once but the thought of it disgusted me so much that I made a deal with the lord. I told the lord that if I do anything sexual with a man, that I should be sent to hell no questions asked. I feel like my life will be forever miserable as I try to seek a "normal" life because of my binding deal.

  • @TemperatureVariation ummm....O_O

    if you know who you are dont try to be somethings your not, if you are not ready to come out to people then dont. because trust me, i tried to be "normal" too before i realized that "nomal" to me was just another word for miserable. do some soul searching, find out who you are and what it will take to be happy. good luck

  • @pickle738 Ok. The way I see it is, I could be happy in life and spend an eternity in hell. Or, I could be miserable in life and spend an eternity in heaven. But I don't know if I can hide my sexuality any longer. Ive been hiding it for 6 years already.

  • @TemperatureVariation i wrote out this big message to you, then i deleted it. you are not me and your life is not mine to judge. the only thing i suggest is to talk to someone, a therapist or councilor, about your story.

  • @Phaerocity is slang for a cigarette if your in the UK

  • @GreatPlansVoices tell me now, what kind of god hates his own creations? The God I worship is one who LOVES everyone. God is LOVE and obviously there are misconceptions with the bible, or I'd be beating my (if I were straight) wife for defying me.

  • nick!

    i really want to sit on your face!

  • @bentaylor1987 omg omg hahaha u selfish slut! share him!

  • @bentaylor1987 That's mean

  • I just came across your vid today. Kudos to you :)

  • I'm glad im gay when theres hot guys like you about! should move to England ;)

  • Soooooooo Cute!!!!!!!

  • I love you for being GAY!!! You are not the "stereotypical" gay guy and I love you for that!! You can show sooo many ppl that being gay doesn't mean you want to be a female, you just like guys :)

  • @IAmSamFansOriginal  He is the stereotypical homosexual, not the stereotypical gay.

  • @viastesal homosexual and gay are the same thing, straight people forget that because they use it for everything negative, and say it every 2.5 seconds :]

  • @viastesal Ummm, I'm not sure what you mean by this...

  • @michiman75 bitch under 1500 species of animals are "homosexual" from monkeys to bacterias so stfu asshole you're just talking from hate, educate yourself and then you speak bitch. And please, like if you could get pussy anyways.

  • I glad everything turned out good for you. Btw you're hot.

  • Unfortunately, as much as it seems, not all hot guys are gay, believe me, if they were, I wouldn't be single.

  • ur awesome

  • I say that 'cos I live in a small vllage where being gay is seen as a thing to avoid... even if I told to some of my friends and they accepted me for who I am and i'm really happy for it but I can't be exactly who I want to be.

    lUKE =)

  • I really like your video. Anyway Come out to parents is a big step during the life of each gay/lesbian or bi people in the world. I havent' told to my parents for now. But i guess that they know it, but they dont say anything... Maybe a day I'll tell them the tru wei'll see. For now I want to finish the school and begin the University ( that is located far from where I live and maybe there i could be really who I am).

  • All these stories of people just being okay with it make me even more hesitant to come out...I just don't think my story will be like this at all...

  • That story is almost as beautiful as you are ;)

  • Who got all the adorable genes? Nick did!

  • I'm kinda wondering whether your mom and my mom are the same person! "Don't tell your grandparents, it'll kill them", I also got "Don't tell your friends, because they'll tell their brothers and sisters, and then your little brother will get teased at school". How's that for a little emotional blackmail!

  • look who's hot... nick!

  • you are way cute and i have a simular story hehe<3

  • Heterosexual males do NOT have some kind of monopoly on masculinity. Where do people get these idiotic notions?! Of course, lots of us gay men are very masculine. Damn!

  • New video up!!!!

    Check it!

  • @Iamonlychasingchange Just wanted say your really cute & it sucks that your Gay xD Theres to many out there that all straight ones arent good enough Lol. But Im happy to hear your life is good even tho it was hard coming out

  • it is sooo annoying when people say stuff like "your to hot to be gay" what do gay people look like?!

  • If you ever wanna go straight give me a call(;

  • Your lucky! My family's ganna kill me!

  • o cute

  • you're so Buff! 

  • being yoursel = the best being a hot gay = awesome you = super awesome!

  • I am very straight I repeat I am very very straight, but I cannot fathom why you would come out an expose yourself to judgment, and how your dad didn’t beat you up for it is beyond me.

    Every guy checks out other guys but that DOES NOT make them gay.

  • @vsboy25 your an idiot.

  • @crossi1016

    And why is that, because I am very smart I attended a very expensive Christian boy’s school so I am very well educated.

    I don’t understand this whole concept on coming out as a mans primary job on this planet no matter what country there from is to make babies and when your gay that is not physically possible.

    People should never come out as all gay activity should be on the down low in my view.

  • @crossi1016 I do not think it is a man's primary job to come out of the closet. I do not think it is a man's primary job to make babies. I also attended very expensive Christian schools my whole life. I do not believe that coming out of the closet should be treated as a big ordeal, but I believe that videos like this one serve a purpose to help people that are struggling with their sexuality to realize that they are not alone and there are normal people out there that they can relate to. Peace.

  • Good for you. Hope you meet Mr. Right and live a long and happy life.

  • Respect the Rainbow!

  • I love he is hot and gay... just to young

  • Ok, your dad giving you hooters calendars is too funny.

  • @dfan especially since they apparently came "by the hundreds"

  • Hey Let me ask you the hard thing. What do you do when you try one last time to see if you like girls. And that one girl your with is absolutely in love with you. How do you get out of that. especially telling her about being in love with a gay guy?!!! Im lost.

  • - my coming out story is actually the same as yours :D

  • I find it brave, that you share your story with everyone! you should be on my "People who inspire you"- thing on facebook! 'cause you have just inspired me! :D

  • You're sooo brave to post this! <3

  • @guitarballs1 you do know nobody really cares about what u think about us gays right

  • @guitarballs1 TROLL! //trollface

  • @guitarballs1

    Cool! What did you gain from this comment?

    NOTHING

    *stamps the words FAILURE on your head*

  • so fucking cute