I'm a SOLO mother and raise my child without help from Child Support or any other government agency. It has always been just me and my daughter. To me, single parents and solo parents are different! :)
Why did he leave you alone??? Don't take this the wrong way, but we all know there's 2 sides to a story. And in most cases the child will never accept the single mom's partner. Every case is different when it comes to single parenthood, but I would like to know, why did he leave.
I see she got her hair and nails did. Stop playing victim. I'm sure your probably lying about the father and any man that co-signes your gabage is not helping you. Keep your legs closed.
Before I make a comment about this I must tell you that I(a black man) take care of my children in my home. I know its hard being a single parent but STOP OVERPROTECTING YOUR SONS WHEN THEY DO THE WRONG THING!!! Excuse my language but you turn these young boy into little bitches who dont take responsibility for their actions. Ive been working with kids K-12 for about 15 years now. If a teacher, neighbor or anyone else comes to you about what your son did wrong, CHECK HIS ASS!!!
@tw1704 I notice the difference between the single mother who give their boys tough love and discipline VS a woman who makes excuses for their sons by attacking a teacher, neighbor or whoever else comes to you about your son. Ive seen too many example and worked with too many boys to know this for a fact. I know its not easy but stop doing this to our black boys and young men.
@tw1704 I understand that some fathers are bitch made and run from their responsibilities but dont turn your son into a little chump becuase of his absence. Single mothers dont get offended PLEASE try to understand where im coming from. Every year I see the same thing and its killing me because I love our community. Stop making babies with these punk bitches because they have a little money or swagger. Make sure he is a MAN(mentally) first.
@tw1704 Take some responsibility when it comes to who you decide to have children with. Stop being hypnotized by his game or how he looks and what he drives. Grow the fuck up sistas. PLEASE understand what I am saying and dont get offended. This is LOVE for yall speaking!!!!!!!!
i also have a son whos dad steped out on him i find myself saying well hes jus got other things goin on so i dont hurt my son by saying well he started a new family and didnt want u around ur a strong women these boys need moms like us to show them thay need to b there for there kids!
So glad you brought up the single male side of things! Im a single mum and worked when at school. Had my child at 18 iv worked since , been sacked 3 months ago, i paid my taxes and now im claiming but im back on the search! Certain comments piss me off!
Psalms 27:10 - When my father and my mother forsake me, Then the LORD will take care of me.
Ask God for wisdom to raise you children everyday, ask the Lord to bless their future, speak positive words of blessing on your children. Read in the bible the scripture on blessings and God's promises then stand on his word. Everything we need God has it and the answer. Be Blessed
I don't think it's an excuse maybe just maybe your right he may have issues that may be mentally killing him. There are always to sides of a story, nobody talks about deppression with black men because everybody goes through that, find out what he's going through you never know what you may find out.
I bet you've not had another "accidental pregnancy" since you see how your actions hurt your son. Your baby's daddy ran off because you tried to trap him, like 70% of the other black women. The 70% affected your brothers as well. I bet they are considering marrying white women now, huh? You sisters are so tired. We black men don't leave white women when we get them pregnant. Wonder why?
What has happened to the use of condoms and other birth control methods if you're gonna have sex to someone you are not married to? The point here is that today's society glamorizes promiscuity and people are taking full advantage of it . Also women are less likely to get married these days so a number of them are resorting to getting impregnated before their biological clock runs out . This has created a surge in single parenthood and unfortunately it becomes a cycle .
I don't consider that as 'making excuses' for the dead beat. Though, I have received the same feedback. I was engaged till I was 2 months pregnant, when her father decided this wasn't the life for him. My daughter is now a year and a half years old, I've seen him once in the past year. And I'm okay with that. Yes, I am upset, but I don't let that side of me show. He is who he is, and nothing I do or say will change that. I feel my daughter and I are truly better off without him.
if yall women got to know these men before you got pregnant or if you were married you wouldnt have this problem. STOP LAYING DOWN HAVING KIDS WITH MEN YOU'VE ONLY BEEN KNOWING FOR 1-2YRS and some of you dont even wait that long.
@Labialterror Disagree. The fact of the matter is that most women who have kids out of wedlock have a hard time financially and emotionally taking care of kids. It is a no brainer that if children are born into a 2 parent household things are on the whole better. Single mothers have too many problems with the raising of kids that society often times have to bear. (Not saying all because some do beat the odds). This has been proven and so I don't need to rehash research findings.
@Labialterror Marriage has nothing to do with child bearing. You can have children with someone and not be married. You can have children WITHOUT a partner and still raise a healthy, intelligent, emotionally stable child. Yeah in some situations having two parents can have benefits, but please do not generalize or put down single mothers, or single parents because you have no idea what everyone's reality is. It's easy to sit back and be judgemental
@Labialterror OK I will sit back and be judgemental, dont ever say that a child can be emotionally stable without a father figure in his life.What are you talking about?
"Hello my little munchkin, ok so I got pregnant with the local cool dude, I aint gonna marry him cos I dont know where he is, you dont need a father anyways, we can get by on our own,we just get money off the state, it means I cant buy you anything nice but at least I dont have to pay taxes.
@shabba1966 You absolutely DO NOT need a father figure for a child to be emotionally and mentally stable. I do not know why this is so difficult for people to understand. Emotional and mental stability/influence can be found in so many ways, not just by having a father. Having a father doesn't mean that child is going to be emotionally and mentally stable, not everyone is a good father. Single parent families CAN make it on their own, I am testament to that.
Your sons father has'nt been here? I can look at all that fake hair and tell you aint got your head on right. I just hate that kid got to suffer for it, because he's going to be worst off than the father that abandoned you both.
@tbursee why the fuck would she have a child out of wedlock anyway? she wants to talk about this dude and not point the finger at herself. what's wrong with getting married before you have kids?
nothing is wrong with getting married before you have kids. but unfortunenately , the human body does'tn release sperm and egg, based on the level of common sense and responsibility.
@tbursee black women always talk about the dude running off and not taking care of his responsibility. the sad fact is that these women get pregnant without being in a serious relationship or being married and expect some random dude to stick around? this is just crazy.
thats right. they usually have the missing daddy syndrome.most women who grew upwith two married parents and a father that loved them, may make their share of mistakes, but usually they dont allow men to use them as toilet stools to dump sperm in and hit the road.
why aren't you mad at yourself? Why don't you address the reasons why you have set your son up for failure., now your son is cute but in 20yrs will he be a burden on society. Maybe you should ask yourself if you are a burden on society. these are thing you probably don't think about. no child support who's paying for you son. I see you hair is done. Single Black Mothers why don't you understand?
@invisible2070 you make such an excellent point. Black women just do not need to have kids outside of wedlock and if they are very very young period.
Wow,what dumb comments. Anyway, I ran across this video and I always wonder as a single mother, who's biological father ran out on his responsibilities, how can you not be pissed? My wife and I are raising our 1 and 3 year old children and it is challenging doing this in a marriage with stable income. Now that I'm actually a parent and see's what goes into it, I would be pissed off. Hell, even child support is a joke. Money doesn't raise your kids. Kids need time with each parent.
So what are you saying, have an abortion? I guess you are the only one on the planet that hasn't had sex before marriage. No, I don't think it's the best situation to have kids out of wedlock but things happen. I applaud women who make the best out of a non-ideal situation. I detest men who run from their responsibilities. Women have to deal with it, men don't. Sad but true. Women do need to be careful of @ who they lay with. That decision can be life changing.
@carl2fine there is nothing with having sex before marriage. however, don't get pregnant by some dude you are not married to. End of story. Don't have a baby by a dude you are not married to. Why is that hard?
im in that situation right now, im 20 weeks pregnant with my daughter. and the father left the day he told HIS father im having his kid. His father, come to find out, is rasict. and my baby's father was afraid that his father would disown him. but with you saying how your dealing with it made me realize, getting angry is ok, but being angry all the time isnt. so looking at it differently will make it seem alittle calmer.
damn another one! At least YOU can't blame black men for this one- but, you'll let master off with a pass- if it was a black man you'd be making his life hell now!
Black men just sign over parental rights and be done with these chicks! THEY MARCHED FOR YEARS TO HAVE THE RIGHT TO ABORT BABIES AND BE SINGLE PARENTS AND NOW MEN ARE DEADBEATS BECAUSE THEY CHOSE TO BE SINGLE MOTHERS- You can't have it both ways.
Yes you have a RIGHT to be angry! Yet, forgive and move on. File that child support and wait for his social security check. That's what I'm doing with my ex-he refuses to work...so, move on...
OMG! she's a wonderful woman! I dont think U were makin excuses 4 him. U might b right about him havin issues. If she was bashing her son's father, then A LOT of people would b "well, U ASKED 4 it, blah blah blah. Yea tho, U cant win 4 losin.
Hey girl. I think your video and your additude are awsome. It takes a very strong person to "make excuses" because we ALL know what you really want to say and those things should NEVER be said to the child. What happens between you and the deadbeat is just that- between you and him- He will get caught eventually and be made to pay but until then have patience and keep doing what your doing.
I'm so glad, som1 besides me knows dat! Peopl b like"he'd b takin care of my baby, U a good 1, blah blah blah." The lifestyle dat BOTH my daughters fathers r livin, It WILL catch up wit em. It might not hit em da way It hit me, I might not b around wen it happens, (cuz I hav no contact wit them @ all) But it will get them. I feel like beggin them or paying them2 help out,like a lot of moms do,just aint worth it. Thank U 4 bn so positive & smart!
I think it's sometimes easier to "make excuses" than to just be angry all the time. I find myself making excuses for my son's father all the time. It's better than being mad constantly. I basically try to forget about him, except for that weekly child support payment. I am one of the lucky ones, my son's father holds down a job and doesn't just quit when DHHS catches up with him. So...I try not to be too angry.
If thats the way you deal with haveing a good attitude then its good. He didn't walk out on you, he walked out on his child but he'll get whats comeing to him. being angry won't change anything for you or your son. he's the one thats looseing out on haveing a relationship with a beautiful child. Stay positive and do what your doing now.i'm a single mom and my kids feel my love and also stay postive because before you know it they are grown but they will always remember what you've done for them.
I do not think that you are making excuses, I think that in order to move on, you need to forgive. In order to forgive you need to stop dwelling on the neg things he did. I think the first step is to totally forgive and then you may get the support you need. I know it sounds weird, but it works.
That's weak, get over your anger. If you say you SON is lovely, how can you be angry? Your not the first person to be angry, what's annoying are people that thing they have anger that can't be tamed! Its fine to be angry let it out, the guys a bum and the Most High is gonna deal with his butt! I hope he's supporting your son or it's gonna be double trouble. Shalom
I feel you I really have learned that even though he's just 4 almost 5 I talk 2 him I say mommy has to cook clean wash dishes etc mommy needs time 2 think and believe it or not he overstands it and he calms down :-) but i can see how that can easily happen b/c it gets overwhelming at times
Hi subject of Fearless2005 vid. I don't think it's wrong to move on mentally & emotionally & release any bitter or angry feelings towards an unsupportive partner, or anyone else for that matter. Certainly you should express those feelings healthily & not repress them, but it's equally, if not more important to continue growing towards peace so as not to allow negativity to adversely influence your son--your absolutely adorable son! Please keep your positive attitude!
I'm a SOLO mother and raise my child without help from Child Support or any other government agency. It has always been just me and my daughter. To me, single parents and solo parents are different! :)
justifiablyunique 4 months ago
Why did he leave you alone??? Don't take this the wrong way, but we all know there's 2 sides to a story. And in most cases the child will never accept the single mom's partner. Every case is different when it comes to single parenthood, but I would like to know, why did he leave.
mercury4metal 5 months ago
I see she got her hair and nails did. Stop playing victim. I'm sure your probably lying about the father and any man that co-signes your gabage is not helping you. Keep your legs closed.
gmann1695 6 months ago
Before I make a comment about this I must tell you that I(a black man) take care of my children in my home. I know its hard being a single parent but STOP OVERPROTECTING YOUR SONS WHEN THEY DO THE WRONG THING!!! Excuse my language but you turn these young boy into little bitches who dont take responsibility for their actions. Ive been working with kids K-12 for about 15 years now. If a teacher, neighbor or anyone else comes to you about what your son did wrong, CHECK HIS ASS!!!
tw1704 7 months ago
@tw1704 I notice the difference between the single mother who give their boys tough love and discipline VS a woman who makes excuses for their sons by attacking a teacher, neighbor or whoever else comes to you about your son. Ive seen too many example and worked with too many boys to know this for a fact. I know its not easy but stop doing this to our black boys and young men.
tw1704 7 months ago
@tw1704 I understand that some fathers are bitch made and run from their responsibilities but dont turn your son into a little chump becuase of his absence. Single mothers dont get offended PLEASE try to understand where im coming from. Every year I see the same thing and its killing me because I love our community. Stop making babies with these punk bitches because they have a little money or swagger. Make sure he is a MAN(mentally) first.
tw1704 7 months ago
@tw1704 Take some responsibility when it comes to who you decide to have children with. Stop being hypnotized by his game or how he looks and what he drives. Grow the fuck up sistas. PLEASE understand what I am saying and dont get offended. This is LOVE for yall speaking!!!!!!!!
tw1704 7 months ago
i also have a son whos dad steped out on him i find myself saying well hes jus got other things goin on so i dont hurt my son by saying well he started a new family and didnt want u around ur a strong women these boys need moms like us to show them thay need to b there for there kids!
TheHollyb1 7 months ago
So glad you brought up the single male side of things! Im a single mum and worked when at school. Had my child at 18 iv worked since , been sacked 3 months ago, i paid my taxes and now im claiming but im back on the search! Certain comments piss me off!
sarajanegarr 9 months ago
As long as I'm not paying for you Kid, all is well.
boomer8791 9 months ago
I bet U was into the so called thugs.
Thats what wemon get!
1976tech 10 months ago
i love black women....the only problem is....i dont exist....
TheBsheep 1 year ago
Psalms 27:10 - When my father and my mother forsake me, Then the LORD will take care of me.
Ask God for wisdom to raise you children everyday, ask the Lord to bless their future, speak positive words of blessing on your children. Read in the bible the scripture on blessings and God's promises then stand on his word. Everything we need God has it and the answer. Be Blessed
sprinkle888 1 year ago
I don't think it's an excuse maybe just maybe your right he may have issues that may be mentally killing him. There are always to sides of a story, nobody talks about deppression with black men because everybody goes through that, find out what he's going through you never know what you may find out.
blacknite76 1 year ago
GET MARRIED before you have kids its not rocket science
juseph29 1 year ago
I bet you've not had another "accidental pregnancy" since you see how your actions hurt your son. Your baby's daddy ran off because you tried to trap him, like 70% of the other black women. The 70% affected your brothers as well. I bet they are considering marrying white women now, huh? You sisters are so tired. We black men don't leave white women when we get them pregnant. Wonder why?
Nupeteam 1 year ago
What has happened to the use of condoms and other birth control methods if you're gonna have sex to someone you are not married to? The point here is that today's society glamorizes promiscuity and people are taking full advantage of it . Also women are less likely to get married these days so a number of them are resorting to getting impregnated before their biological clock runs out . This has created a surge in single parenthood and unfortunately it becomes a cycle .
ogamike 1 year ago
I don't consider that as 'making excuses' for the dead beat. Though, I have received the same feedback. I was engaged till I was 2 months pregnant, when her father decided this wasn't the life for him. My daughter is now a year and a half years old, I've seen him once in the past year. And I'm okay with that. Yes, I am upset, but I don't let that side of me show. He is who he is, and nothing I do or say will change that. I feel my daughter and I are truly better off without him.
rachaelhoward83 1 year ago
if yall women got to know these men before you got pregnant or if you were married you wouldnt have this problem. STOP LAYING DOWN HAVING KIDS WITH MEN YOU'VE ONLY BEEN KNOWING FOR 1-2YRS and some of you dont even wait that long.
ItsDimedFace 1 year ago
I am a black woman. Please do not have any more kids out of wedlock. Please get a husband and do not have another kid out of wedlock.
icecreamladydream 1 year ago 6
@icecreamladydream you don't need to be married to have kids, FYI.
Labialterror 1 year ago
@Labialterror Disagree. The fact of the matter is that most women who have kids out of wedlock have a hard time financially and emotionally taking care of kids. It is a no brainer that if children are born into a 2 parent household things are on the whole better. Single mothers have too many problems with the raising of kids that society often times have to bear. (Not saying all because some do beat the odds). This has been proven and so I don't need to rehash research findings.
icecreamladydream 1 year ago
@Labialterror Marriage has nothing to do with child bearing. You can have children with someone and not be married. You can have children WITHOUT a partner and still raise a healthy, intelligent, emotionally stable child. Yeah in some situations having two parents can have benefits, but please do not generalize or put down single mothers, or single parents because you have no idea what everyone's reality is. It's easy to sit back and be judgemental
Labialterror 1 year ago
@Labialterror OK I will sit back and be judgemental, dont ever say that a child can be emotionally stable without a father figure in his life.What are you talking about?
"Hello my little munchkin, ok so I got pregnant with the local cool dude, I aint gonna marry him cos I dont know where he is, you dont need a father anyways, we can get by on our own,we just get money off the state, it means I cant buy you anything nice but at least I dont have to pay taxes.
Yeah, your right it is easy.
shabba1966 1 year ago
@shabba1966 You absolutely DO NOT need a father figure for a child to be emotionally and mentally stable. I do not know why this is so difficult for people to understand. Emotional and mental stability/influence can be found in so many ways, not just by having a father. Having a father doesn't mean that child is going to be emotionally and mentally stable, not everyone is a good father. Single parent families CAN make it on their own, I am testament to that.
Labialterror 1 year ago
@Labialterror IA
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chocosistah 1 year ago
One person can not raise a child, neither can two.
You need everybody.
ThankYouAndHello 1 year ago 2
Your sons father has'nt been here? I can look at all that fake hair and tell you aint got your head on right. I just hate that kid got to suffer for it, because he's going to be worst off than the father that abandoned you both.
tbursee 2 years ago
@tbursee why the fuck would she have a child out of wedlock anyway? she wants to talk about this dude and not point the finger at herself. what's wrong with getting married before you have kids?
norcalnupe 2 years ago
nothing is wrong with getting married before you have kids. but unfortunenately , the human body does'tn release sperm and egg, based on the level of common sense and responsibility.
tbursee 2 years ago
@tbursee black women always talk about the dude running off and not taking care of his responsibility. the sad fact is that these women get pregnant without being in a serious relationship or being married and expect some random dude to stick around? this is just crazy.
norcalnupe 2 years ago 9
thats right. they usually have the missing daddy syndrome.most women who grew upwith two married parents and a father that loved them, may make their share of mistakes, but usually they dont allow men to use them as toilet stools to dump sperm in and hit the road.
tbursee 2 years ago
@norcalnupe Women talk trash to look good, it doesn't matter what color they are. They blame others to get the victim card and to be treated kindly.
MadeByEduNotLaziness 7 months ago
why aren't you mad at yourself? Why don't you address the reasons why you have set your son up for failure., now your son is cute but in 20yrs will he be a burden on society. Maybe you should ask yourself if you are a burden on society. these are thing you probably don't think about. no child support who's paying for you son. I see you hair is done. Single Black Mothers why don't you understand?
invisible2070 2 years ago 2
@invisible2070 you make such an excellent point. Black women just do not need to have kids outside of wedlock and if they are very very young period.
icecreamladydream 1 year ago
Wow,what dumb comments. Anyway, I ran across this video and I always wonder as a single mother, who's biological father ran out on his responsibilities, how can you not be pissed? My wife and I are raising our 1 and 3 year old children and it is challenging doing this in a marriage with stable income. Now that I'm actually a parent and see's what goes into it, I would be pissed off. Hell, even child support is a joke. Money doesn't raise your kids. Kids need time with each parent.
carl2fine 2 years ago
@carl2fine why have kids out of wedlock?
norcalnupe 2 years ago
So what are you saying, have an abortion? I guess you are the only one on the planet that hasn't had sex before marriage. No, I don't think it's the best situation to have kids out of wedlock but things happen. I applaud women who make the best out of a non-ideal situation. I detest men who run from their responsibilities. Women have to deal with it, men don't. Sad but true. Women do need to be careful of @ who they lay with. That decision can be life changing.
carl2fine 2 years ago
@carl2fine there is nothing with having sex before marriage. however, don't get pregnant by some dude you are not married to. End of story. Don't have a baby by a dude you are not married to. Why is that hard?
norcalnupe 2 years ago 2
geez, keep ya legs closed and respect yaselves...
damn roaches, good 4 popin out babies
UltraDOG17 2 years ago
im in that situation right now, im 20 weeks pregnant with my daughter. and the father left the day he told HIS father im having his kid. His father, come to find out, is rasict. and my baby's father was afraid that his father would disown him. but with you saying how your dealing with it made me realize, getting angry is ok, but being angry all the time isnt. so looking at it differently will make it seem alittle calmer.
MidgetBitch4eva 2 years ago
Just be strong and you will be ok. :)
Fearless2005 2 years ago
@MidgetBitch4eva suicide is the only option for mulatto cocksluts.
miitchwas 1 year ago
@MidgetBitch4eva lol
damn another one! At least YOU can't blame black men for this one- but, you'll let master off with a pass- if it was a black man you'd be making his life hell now!
Black men just sign over parental rights and be done with these chicks! THEY MARCHED FOR YEARS TO HAVE THE RIGHT TO ABORT BABIES AND BE SINGLE PARENTS AND NOW MEN ARE DEADBEATS BECAUSE THEY CHOSE TO BE SINGLE MOTHERS- You can't have it both ways.
215workhard 1 year ago
okay I crack myself up 1:48 I am shy people I really am!! lol
lovelykeke911 2 years ago
Yes you have a RIGHT to be angry! Yet, forgive and move on. File that child support and wait for his social security check. That's what I'm doing with my ex-he refuses to work...so, move on...
SPARKWISDOM 2 years ago
OMG! she's a wonderful woman! I dont think U were makin excuses 4 him. U might b right about him havin issues. If she was bashing her son's father, then A LOT of people would b "well, U ASKED 4 it, blah blah blah. Yea tho, U cant win 4 losin.
kievia04 2 years ago
Hey girl. I think your video and your additude are awsome. It takes a very strong person to "make excuses" because we ALL know what you really want to say and those things should NEVER be said to the child. What happens between you and the deadbeat is just that- between you and him- He will get caught eventually and be made to pay but until then have patience and keep doing what your doing.
supportskippers 3 years ago
I'm so glad, som1 besides me knows dat! Peopl b like"he'd b takin care of my baby, U a good 1, blah blah blah." The lifestyle dat BOTH my daughters fathers r livin, It WILL catch up wit em. It might not hit em da way It hit me, I might not b around wen it happens, (cuz I hav no contact wit them @ all) But it will get them. I feel like beggin them or paying them2 help out,like a lot of moms do,just aint worth it. Thank U 4 bn so positive & smart!
kievia04 2 years ago
:) thanx
lovelykeke911 2 years ago
I think it's sometimes easier to "make excuses" than to just be angry all the time. I find myself making excuses for my son's father all the time. It's better than being mad constantly. I basically try to forget about him, except for that weekly child support payment. I am one of the lucky ones, my son's father holds down a job and doesn't just quit when DHHS catches up with him. So...I try not to be too angry.
poprocks19 3 years ago
If thats the way you deal with haveing a good attitude then its good. He didn't walk out on you, he walked out on his child but he'll get whats comeing to him. being angry won't change anything for you or your son. he's the one thats looseing out on haveing a relationship with a beautiful child. Stay positive and do what your doing now.i'm a single mom and my kids feel my love and also stay postive because before you know it they are grown but they will always remember what you've done for them.
chinita41 3 years ago
I do not think that you are making excuses, I think that in order to move on, you need to forgive. In order to forgive you need to stop dwelling on the neg things he did. I think the first step is to totally forgive and then you may get the support you need. I know it sounds weird, but it works.
Seedcovers 3 years ago
That's weak, get over your anger. If you say you SON is lovely, how can you be angry? Your not the first person to be angry, what's annoying are people that thing they have anger that can't be tamed! Its fine to be angry let it out, the guys a bum and the Most High is gonna deal with his butt! I hope he's supporting your son or it's gonna be double trouble. Shalom
neotech888 3 years ago
u're good for doing that. Just don't subliminally put that stress on ur son/daughter (when REAL hard times hit). Good luck to u.
chicagodogrow 3 years ago
I feel you I really have learned that even though he's just 4 almost 5 I talk 2 him I say mommy has to cook clean wash dishes etc mommy needs time 2 think and believe it or not he overstands it and he calms down :-) but i can see how that can easily happen b/c it gets overwhelming at times
lovelykeke911 3 years ago
Hi subject of Fearless2005 vid. I don't think it's wrong to move on mentally & emotionally & release any bitter or angry feelings towards an unsupportive partner, or anyone else for that matter. Certainly you should express those feelings healthily & not repress them, but it's equally, if not more important to continue growing towards peace so as not to allow negativity to adversely influence your son--your absolutely adorable son! Please keep your positive attitude!
utbr01 3 years ago