having another member to a family is great in itself although a lot of considerations does have to be made. i agree with jay the financial aspect is definitely a big thing to consider. plus the fact that you you wouldnt how the new additions would react to such an unconventional family situation as yours but i know that you would do the right thing no matter what love you guys!!!!
Man, I love this family! You're such great people and you just know those two gorgeous kids of yours are going to grow up to be sweet, loving, responsible adults. Whatever decision you make re your niece's kids will be the right one - your instincts seem right on.
As far as the house stuff...it's always something, isn't it. Just when one project ends another begins. Sending all good thoughts!!
The same thing happened to my mother with our cousins, it is a huge financial burden. It worked somewhat for us when I was younger because some of us were old enough to work part time jobs, but these children are very young.
Bryan sounds like my father, "We'll take all three!" Without thinking about it. A heart of gold knows no bounds.
When the decision is made, I hope it works out for the best regardless of the choice made. Good luck and cheers
I just want to say that I have recently discovered your channel and have been watching your postings for the past few days. Thank you! You've been a comfort and inspiration. You guys are awesome and your beautiful family is in every sense what a solid and loving family should be. I wish you the very best.
i think that you two are such a great model of a great Gay Family!!!!! Your story touches me and my partner which cannot adopt due to health reasons, we love watching your family progress like normal so everyone can see we are all the same!
You two are so amazing. You have raised Daniel and Selena to be so compassionate and caring. Whatever happens with your niece and nephews I wish you all the best.
It is amazing to see how much you're doing for your niece. With all of your problems, it is great that you're taking care of your family like this. Brian, I hope our finger gets problem. Remember to always leave times for yourselves =D.
It's great Selena is getting more comfortable in front of the camera, too.
Do well, and stay strong. You've inspired me for my future =D.
you are all going to be great, from what I see of your family you guys are so loving and can definitely get through this. I'll be thinking of you and the kids and I'm sure no matter what happens, the love in your household will continue to thrive : )
I think it is going to be a challenge for you and Bryan and the kids to do it. You are a great family all ready I know you can do this and take on what ever comes your family way . My heart goes out to you and your family.
Sadly no there is no one in my family that can qualify to be caregivers ;O( looks like its going to be me and bryan with 5 kids for at least a couple months.
I don't know how it works in the USA, but over here, if you take on a foster child you get a stipend for them. For the cost of housing, clothing and feeding them etc.
I hope that's the case, so you've less to worry about money for helping them grow up.
He guys, you've been talking about a kid, Sel wanted a girl and Dan a boy, this way you can have both! ;-)
If Bryan can't get outside work, maybe he can run a nursery? Made this suggestion on the blog, didn't come through...
Is financial assistance available to help a relative care for a child?
A relative who is caring for a child who is eligible for federal foster care receives a foster care payment each month. This is currently about $425 to $597 p.m., depending on age.
A relative [] who is not eligible for federal foster care receives a welfare payment for the child. This payment is max $387 per month per child and adjusted based on numerous factors.
Well, you will have more access to information, like social workers and such. Please remember that i'm just a youtuber, not even american. To fit the info into a commentbox i cut and paste a bit. One of the words i cut was dependent. Well, yes all children are dependent aren't they? Apperantly it's a legal term... If you could raise 5 kids without the money it would be best, the governator seems to budgetcut left and right. I hope that there is a solution, like dear niece stopping drugs. Meh.
yes that is how it works here for foster kids but here when they are relatives then they are considered family placements. so you dont receive any funds.
Follow your heart and pray about it. It will all work out the way it's supposed to. It might be tight and tough, but I know you guys will work it out. You are incredible. <3
MY friend and her husband did the same thing for his nieces! IT was hard on the whole family because they had no financial help either, but everything worked out great!! God Bless!!
Just a thought from Jim. After knowing you for all these months now I know that you would would let the entire world come and live with you if they were in harm's way..you have proven this many times over...what a tough decision..especially because it is Jay's niece and these are little kids.
I just hope it does not disturb your close knit family. Your kids...and I mean YOUR kids are so ahead of the game..thanks to you guys and your love.
i think no matter how heavy it is for your budget ,i believe that you guys will do awesome job with them :) and they will grown up smart and self secure kids,like your own kids Selina and Daniel :)
That's incredibly brave of you to consider taking in ALL 3 kids. Although, i can't think of a better couple to do so. Whatever happens, best of luck and i'm sure it will work out for the best.
That sounds like a mighty surprise that was thrown into your lap, and I could imagine that this would feel very stressful. If there's a family that can handle it, it's definitely yours, but still, you need to make the right decision that makes sense for everyone. I'll be sending prayers and thoughts your way that you will be looked after no matter what road you will take. Hugs, Sean
PS - I'll give a call when I (finally) get my replacement phone.
Wow. Such responsibility. You guys are awesome for doing this. I am worried that you might take on too much though. That's a lot of kids! But what's best is best I'm sure you guys will do all you can do. Stay strong and I hope things get better!
You guys are strong changes always happens to many families but i am always wishing and hoping the best for them including yours depfox.
Right now i am wishing i have you both as my father and those children you have as my brother and sister. You guys are so awesome even though you face problems i would never mind facing them with you.
I wished that would be the case but i am 23 years old my childhood pass along time ago.
You guys are the best my best wishes to the entire family. Love ya ♥
It is understandable your concerns Jay, I truly hope all works out in this situation for your family, and I hope your family member regains her footing in society and does what she needs to, to stay clean and sober. My best wishes to your family Jay and Bryan, may your lives be filled with love and happiness and your home be strong and safe for those you care for.
Great to see you all and in one piece! I have been missing you all so much, with less videos but I understand how life can put you on one road then give an opposite one the next day.
I think u should take them all 4 their sake. To keep them 2gether & if its not permanent then thats kind of sad 4 u guys cause any children at all will be hard to give up :-( after growing attached. Also say u do get the children & u have them for an extended period of time & cant show them on cam to your followers how awkward would that be 4 u or 4 them? Like "Hey little darlings us 4 need to go do our thing and you're not invited" I mean that's obviously not wat u'll say but its what ull imply
You guys are the best! I don't envy you the decisions ahead but I know it will be the right one.
I wish I lived closer and could lend a hand. A teacher in our district just took in four sibling fosters in an emergency situation. A bunch of us got together to help out with life's little inconveniences (like laundry, grocery shopping, errand running) to help make these kids' transition go as smoothly as possible.
I will and must say this...do NOT count on a drug addict EVER being able to parent these children. Make your decision based on that please. She may - but she MAY not. Like lending money - don't lend it unless you can live without ever having it paid back. All the best! It's incredibly wonderful that you are even considering doing this. Bravo!
I think the "unknown" is the hardest part in making decisions. I have a new home with plenty of room ( since I am alone) I am home all day and have been giving serious thought to being a Foster parent or even adopting a child. The ONLY thing holding me back is my age. I have no clue that I am old but my birth certificate says I have a lot more behind me than ahead of me. I often wonder if my desire for a child is selfish because of that. I have a lot to give and it seems so right sometimes.
You both look exhausted, please take care of yourselves, you are key to everything and everybody. You have the biggest hearts of anyone I have ever known.
God doesn't give us more than we can handle, but, this is huge. Sending you good thoughts, prayers and best wishes.
Whenever you can blog or make a video, don't worry, we will all be here, just take the time you need to take care of all you need to handle right now.
I feel so bad for the true innocents in your niece's household, who now are going to be in termoil due to the actions of your niece. I know that either decision will be full of issues, but I know you will be guided right. God bless you all.
Brian and Jay, you guys never stop to amaze me through all that you do. So much is going on and has gone on with you two and your family, and yet you still continue to take on everything and everybody else's concerns. I am proud that you are able to find strength in each other to get through it all. Know that you guys are a pillar of strength for alot of us out there. Thank you and take care. -Jay
I hope everything turns out well guys. Just the fact that you are willing to take the kids into your home really says a lot about what awesome giving people you and Bryan are. You continue to amaze me!
You are men of great heart, I'd expect your response to be just what you're discussing. Please get as much good counsel as you can and I'm sure you'll make the best decisions for everyone.
You're in my prayers for wisdom, insight and your needs to be provided.
(continueing my last comment) I have been watching you guys for a while and you come off as good parents. My parents told me it was a challenge enough only taking in one child, so I can imagin 3 would be very challenging, but you can overcome it I'm sure. Whatever you decide I wish you all the best. If you want to know more about what happened in my family just message me. I would be glad to share more since you seem to be in a similar circumstance as my family was.
I spent 2k last year with running all new potable water lines.
Sorry about the niece, she's an adult and she will figure it out, don't be pushed into something you can't handle.
You guys have such beautiful hearts & spirits, I hope that you can take all 3 kids. But sometimes you have to set your emotions aside and consider the expenses and original family before taking more kids in.
I have a similar story in my family. One of my sisters is adopted, she was my cousin but the state took her away because my aunt was abusing her. I always admired my parents for taking her in and she grew up to be a good person. I do understand if you can't take all 3, but I think it would be good for them to stay within the family. Is there other family that would take in your nephews if you can't?
Your family is the cutest thing I have ever seen! Even if you only get the baby, you'll be helping out so much and making such a positive impact. good luck : )
I don´t know what to say Guys, I just hope eveything turns out okay, Dissapear if you want, just return every once in a while just to say everything is okay...okay?
hard to say what i would advise on this(im no parent so please ignore if i seem stupid) . I think that helping out your family member is very noble but 5 kids might be a bit much,even for parents as great as you two.
It's going to be crazy hard if u take it on but I think u know this already. I feel so bad because I'm sure this is going to cause such insecurities for these children, especially if separated. When I was young my dad passed away and then a drunk driver put my mom in the hospital for months and my brothers and sister were faced with very similar events. My 18 year old brother and 17 year old sister held us together, thank God.
While I'm so sad to hear about these kids going through a hard time right now, it's gratifying to see that you guys can be seen as a safe pair of hands to potentially put them into.
I can understand both not wanting to take on more than you can manage and the instinct to take in all of these children. I'm sure you'll come to the right decisions about what's best for these three and of course for Daniel and Selena. Will be thinking of you guys while you work through this.
Ouch sorry to hear about Bryan's fingers :( Get better soon!
I'm sorry to hear about your niece Jay.
Both of your kindness, love and acceptance never cease to amaze me. All of the Leffews are model human beings and should be treated as such :). Bryan in particular is such a sweetheart...:D *Jay cracks knuckles*
HI
I just saw this do you still have the three children? You two are GREAT!!!!!!!!!
kentwesterly 11 months ago
F*****s!!! Take a kid for the love of god! If you really wanna help then that's what you should do. (Daniel is my favorite, by the way).
MultiEmmarocks 1 year ago
bryan looks tired.
tatararabuga 1 year ago
Best of luck and hang in there~
SharinByakuGan 1 year ago
I have just checked if I could see this video as it was one of the videos that was not viewable here in Germany.
I can now see it - I have no idea why - but Youtube has decided that I can see this.
The mystery which is Youtube strikes again.
johncrwarner 2 years ago
All I can say is that if you do decide take in the children, they will be going into an awesome and loving environment.
CerealKillahNZ 2 years ago 5
HEHE watch our newest video we are taking all 3 of them ;O)
depfox 2 years ago
sorry for the grammatical errors i wasnt looking at the screen as i typed lol
vartimor 2 years ago
having another member to a family is great in itself although a lot of considerations does have to be made. i agree with jay the financial aspect is definitely a big thing to consider. plus the fact that you you wouldnt how the new additions would react to such an unconventional family situation as yours but i know that you would do the right thing no matter what love you guys!!!!
vartimor 2 years ago
Man, I love this family! You're such great people and you just know those two gorgeous kids of yours are going to grow up to be sweet, loving, responsible adults. Whatever decision you make re your niece's kids will be the right one - your instincts seem right on.
As far as the house stuff...it's always something, isn't it. Just when one project ends another begins. Sending all good thoughts!!
mattvbernstein 2 years ago
The same thing happened to my mother with our cousins, it is a huge financial burden. It worked somewhat for us when I was younger because some of us were old enough to work part time jobs, but these children are very young.
Bryan sounds like my father, "We'll take all three!" Without thinking about it. A heart of gold knows no bounds.
When the decision is made, I hope it works out for the best regardless of the choice made. Good luck and cheers
questionsamson 2 years ago 2
I just want to say that I have recently discovered your channel and have been watching your postings for the past few days. Thank you! You've been a comfort and inspiration. You guys are awesome and your beautiful family is in every sense what a solid and loving family should be. I wish you the very best.
ginkostinko 2 years ago 2
You guys are SO awesome! Thank you for sharing. I continue to receive inspiration from your posts...
martingaliano1 2 years ago
You guys would love having a little baby girl in your home for awhile. Follow your hearts..
brentwithani 2 years ago 2
Have room for one more? This one's 22 and shouldn't require as much care.
navdizzle 2 years ago 9
Good luck guys, I'll pray for you.
Stephanreyu 2 years ago 2
i think that you two are such a great model of a great Gay Family!!!!! Your story touches me and my partner which cannot adopt due to health reasons, we love watching your family progress like normal so everyone can see we are all the same!
LivingOutinOKC 2 years ago 3
You two are so amazing. You have raised Daniel and Selena to be so compassionate and caring. Whatever happens with your niece and nephews I wish you all the best.
codycouture1 2 years ago 3
Good luck, gents! I wish you all the best :)
blueorbeyes 2 years ago 3
Selena is such a sweet generous litle girl!! You are doing such a great job with her you should be proud!
comtngrl 2 years ago 3
best wish towards your near future!
anonymous6E6R6 2 years ago 2
Your niece's kids are your nieces and nephews?
It is amazing to see how much you're doing for your niece. With all of your problems, it is great that you're taking care of your family like this. Brian, I hope our finger gets problem. Remember to always leave times for yourselves =D.
It's great Selena is getting more comfortable in front of the camera, too.
Do well, and stay strong. You've inspired me for my future =D.
SoulxRebirth 2 years ago 4
Well I think they are considered great Nieces and Nephews. But I have a problem calling any one great :O)
Yea selena is really starting to like the camera and Danile is bored with it ;O)
depfox 2 years ago
Wow, good for you guys for caring so much. A lot of people could learn from these examples of compassion.
Dylan from GotSpot.
TheRealDylanScott 2 years ago 3
wow you guys are amazing <3
dtsfangirl 2 years ago 2
you are doing a great job! thanx
MadamTechy 2 years ago 2
you are doing a great job! thanx
MadamTechy 2 years ago
you are doing a great job! thanx
MadamTechy 2 years ago
WOW!! It's such a big step to take an extra three children under your wing. Will be thinking of you all.
Your Irish pal,
Paul.
BearGuyPaul 2 years ago
you are all going to be great, from what I see of your family you guys are so loving and can definitely get through this. I'll be thinking of you and the kids and I'm sure no matter what happens, the love in your household will continue to thrive : )
SkyeAlta 2 years ago
You both have good points that is the trouble isn't it.
Nothing is ever easy is it?
orangegoblin82 2 years ago 2
You're turning into a Mia Farrow or an Angelina Jolie!...
The three kids would be blessed to grow up in your household.
It won't be easy to provide for and to take care of three more kids. But if any one can do it, it's you guys.
P.S.
How did Bryan almost cut off his fingers?
EvenEvenOdd 2 years ago
LOL well I hope it wont turn into a long stay with us. Looks like we will be taking all three kids. :O(
depfox 2 years ago
i hope things works out for you guys. Just don't take on too much of what you cannot handle.
timtheloner 2 years ago
I hope it all works out for the Leffew family. Take care guys.
tommy2tone 2 years ago
Wow yer really gonna have yer hands full but I'm glad that yer thinking about doing this! Yer good daddies!
Poeboi 2 years ago
Sounds like you guys have quite a lot on your plate right now. I hope everything works out for the best.
matthewwh13 2 years ago
I think it is going to be a challenge for you and Bryan and the kids to do it. You are a great family all ready I know you can do this and take on what ever comes your family way . My heart goes out to you and your family.
your friend!
JOJO!
jojo20to1 2 years ago
Wow, sounds like you have an awful lot going on!
Five young kids would be a lot to handle, especially if they are coming to you suddenly.
Jay, are there any other members of your family who would consider taking on one or more of these kids to keep them out of the foster system?
mazajaria 2 years ago 2
Sadly no there is no one in my family that can qualify to be caregivers ;O( looks like its going to be me and bryan with 5 kids for at least a couple months.
depfox 2 years ago
You really are amazing! I wish you all the best, especially in this situation.
consideritt 2 years ago
I don't know how it works in the USA, but over here, if you take on a foster child you get a stipend for them. For the cost of housing, clothing and feeding them etc.
I hope that's the case, so you've less to worry about money for helping them grow up.
He guys, you've been talking about a kid, Sel wanted a girl and Dan a boy, this way you can have both! ;-)
If Bryan can't get outside work, maybe he can run a nursery? Made this suggestion on the blog, didn't come through...
LeafHuntress 2 years ago
Seek and ye shall find;
Is financial assistance available to help a relative care for a child?
A relative who is caring for a child who is eligible for federal foster care receives a foster care payment each month. This is currently about $425 to $597 p.m., depending on age.
A relative [] who is not eligible for federal foster care receives a welfare payment for the child. This payment is max $387 per month per child and adjusted based on numerous factors.
childsworld(dot)ca(dot)gov
LeafHuntress 2 years ago
OH wow ill have to check into that I wasnt aware of that.
depfox 2 years ago
Well, you will have more access to information, like social workers and such. Please remember that i'm just a youtuber, not even american. To fit the info into a commentbox i cut and paste a bit. One of the words i cut was dependent. Well, yes all children are dependent aren't they? Apperantly it's a legal term... If you could raise 5 kids without the money it would be best, the governator seems to budgetcut left and right. I hope that there is a solution, like dear niece stopping drugs. Meh.
LeafHuntress 2 years ago 2
yes that is how it works here for foster kids but here when they are relatives then they are considered family placements. so you dont receive any funds.
depfox 2 years ago
Wishing you the very best no matter what happens. It's very kind of you to consider taking in any of these kids.
chriswcalif 2 years ago
I hope everything will work out well. It's very kind of you to want to lend a hand to them. Stay strong~ <3
MysteryGreenTea 2 years ago
You guys are so sweet.
amb0 2 years ago
Follow your heart and pray about it. It will all work out the way it's supposed to. It might be tight and tough, but I know you guys will work it out. You are incredible. <3
pcsassy03 2 years ago
hmmm that sounds like a huge challenge... however.... i agree with Bryan...
scottneumann82 2 years ago
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥...wow I am speechless
KENNYGARDNER1963 2 years ago
that is nice that you will help them out like that hope everything is good with it i love what you are doing
18loverof2 2 years ago
Good luck Lefew family!! They would be lucky to have parents like you and Bryan Jay.
The money problem, perhaps take up a tripple shift at work!!
korisx 2 years ago
i mean is take them all.
and have a big happy family.
pinoylover81 2 years ago
take all of them a nice big family.
pinoylover81 2 years ago
i hope everything goes well, keeping ya'll in my prayers...xoxo give your kids a squatch for me
xxlipzxx 2 years ago
MY friend and her husband did the same thing for his nieces! IT was hard on the whole family because they had no financial help either, but everything worked out great!! God Bless!!
comtngrl 2 years ago
Just a thought from Jim. After knowing you for all these months now I know that you would would let the entire world come and live with you if they were in harm's way..you have proven this many times over...what a tough decision..especially because it is Jay's niece and these are little kids.
I just hope it does not disturb your close knit family. Your kids...and I mean YOUR kids are so ahead of the game..thanks to you guys and your love.
Good luck in whatever you decide...
stoner829 2 years ago 2
Oh My - you should see the "related videos" by youtube - satanism, mind-control, Drugs, MK Ultra (whatever that is)... Wow - how are these related!
starion9814 2 years ago
Jay and Bryan, don't let anyone guilt-trip you into taking on more than you can handle.
MMA 2 years ago 2
i think no matter how heavy it is for your budget ,i believe that you guys will do awesome job with them :) and they will grown up smart and self secure kids,like your own kids Selina and Daniel :)
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
lailaagrado 2 years ago
That's incredibly brave of you to consider taking in ALL 3 kids. Although, i can't think of a better couple to do so. Whatever happens, best of luck and i'm sure it will work out for the best.
Gary4Gary4 2 years ago
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That sounds like a mighty surprise that was thrown into your lap, and I could imagine that this would feel very stressful. If there's a family that can handle it, it's definitely yours, but still, you need to make the right decision that makes sense for everyone. I'll be sending prayers and thoughts your way that you will be looked after no matter what road you will take. Hugs, Sean
PS - I'll give a call when I (finally) get my replacement phone.
SeanChapin1 2 years ago
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SeanChapin1 2 years ago
good luck. love you guys.
JCWATL 2 years ago
Sending all my best that things go well and best wishes to your family member to recover!
wawa2 2 years ago
Wow. Such responsibility. You guys are awesome for doing this. I am worried that you might take on too much though. That's a lot of kids! But what's best is best I'm sure you guys will do all you can do. Stay strong and I hope things get better!
kwertie 2 years ago
You guys are strong changes always happens to many families but i am always wishing and hoping the best for them including yours depfox.
Right now i am wishing i have you both as my father and those children you have as my brother and sister. You guys are so awesome even though you face problems i would never mind facing them with you.
I wished that would be the case but i am 23 years old my childhood pass along time ago.
You guys are the best my best wishes to the entire family. Love ya ♥
AlvaroAndfriends 2 years ago
Best of luck guys! Five kids in the house, hopefully you'll keep your sanity.
kd1s 2 years ago
such a nice example of a happy marriage
dragonter 2 years ago
It is understandable your concerns Jay, I truly hope all works out in this situation for your family, and I hope your family member regains her footing in society and does what she needs to, to stay clean and sober. My best wishes to your family Jay and Bryan, may your lives be filled with love and happiness and your home be strong and safe for those you care for.
Blessed be
Alenmore 2 years ago
You guys are amazing. I wish you all the best!
<3
NotBadConrad 2 years ago
Great to see you all and in one piece! I have been missing you all so much, with less videos but I understand how life can put you on one road then give an opposite one the next day.
Wishing you all the best!
Take care and stay safe, Lathan
LathanJV36 2 years ago
go for it, you guys will do great, Brian you can do it, i have faith in you, good luck in whatever decision you guys make, love you guys
brendainny 2 years ago
LOL Bryan says AHHH Thanks :O)
depfox 2 years ago
Wow, good luck w/ all this.
woodsofodin 2 years ago
good luck! Selena reminds me of my little brother when he was younger. I definately want to be a dad someday!
=)
StraightActingGayGuy 2 years ago
Changes happen always ,and it means more challenges is coming up ..I think you two can hand it very well actually.
chenjirong 2 years ago 2
very cool video i think you guys will be great with more kids
SOUTHWESTCUB 2 years ago
I think u should take them all 4 their sake. To keep them 2gether & if its not permanent then thats kind of sad 4 u guys cause any children at all will be hard to give up :-( after growing attached. Also say u do get the children & u have them for an extended period of time & cant show them on cam to your followers how awkward would that be 4 u or 4 them? Like "Hey little darlings us 4 need to go do our thing and you're not invited" I mean that's obviously not wat u'll say but its what ull imply
bradleyvoorheesjams 2 years ago
Good luck. I hope you can take them in and that it will work. Family is always best, as is keeping them together.
I also hope the best for your neice. I hope she can get straightened out and reclaim her children.
VlogasaurusFlex 2 years ago
You guys are the best! I don't envy you the decisions ahead but I know it will be the right one.
I wish I lived closer and could lend a hand. A teacher in our district just took in four sibling fosters in an emergency situation. A bunch of us got together to help out with life's little inconveniences (like laundry, grocery shopping, errand running) to help make these kids' transition go as smoothly as possible.
I truly believe it takes a village....
debbieomi 2 years ago
I will and must say this...do NOT count on a drug addict EVER being able to parent these children. Make your decision based on that please. She may - but she MAY not. Like lending money - don't lend it unless you can live without ever having it paid back. All the best! It's incredibly wonderful that you are even considering doing this. Bravo!
ccm800 2 years ago 5
whooo! Good luck with all that!
ccm800 2 years ago 2
o_o
GlobberThree000 2 years ago
I think the "unknown" is the hardest part in making decisions. I have a new home with plenty of room ( since I am alone) I am home all day and have been giving serious thought to being a Foster parent or even adopting a child. The ONLY thing holding me back is my age. I have no clue that I am old but my birth certificate says I have a lot more behind me than ahead of me. I often wonder if my desire for a child is selfish because of that. I have a lot to give and it seems so right sometimes.
yescandles 2 years ago
Jay and Bryan:
You both look exhausted, please take care of yourselves, you are key to everything and everybody. You have the biggest hearts of anyone I have ever known.
God doesn't give us more than we can handle, but, this is huge. Sending you good thoughts, prayers and best wishes.
Whenever you can blog or make a video, don't worry, we will all be here, just take the time you need to take care of all you need to handle right now.
God Bless you both and Daniel and Selena.
oldgreymare1 2 years ago 3
I hope everything works out well.
TubaChick123 2 years ago 2
I feel so bad for the true innocents in your niece's household, who now are going to be in termoil due to the actions of your niece. I know that either decision will be full of issues, but I know you will be guided right. God bless you all.
Comixbear1 2 years ago
you really need to change the elevator music theme
jaren134 2 years ago
Wow, that's tough. Whatever you do, I am sure that it will be the right decision for your family.
cynterslave 2 years ago
I hope it all works out for the best.
orkoni1 2 years ago 2
Oh you guys are too good, my partner and I have two,,and thats all she wrote on that,,,we call ours Grand and Final,,,as a joke....
Clemburke1111 2 years ago
Brian and Jay, you guys never stop to amaze me through all that you do. So much is going on and has gone on with you two and your family, and yet you still continue to take on everything and everybody else's concerns. I am proud that you are able to find strength in each other to get through it all. Know that you guys are a pillar of strength for alot of us out there. Thank you and take care. -Jay
BlindedLantern 2 years ago
hmm, i noticed that Daniel doesn't look too excited in the video. Selena seems excited about having a new addition to the family.
I guess you would really have to talk to the kids about it, and i'm sure you've already have and will continue to do so.
roothie 2 years ago 2
I hope everything turns out well guys. Just the fact that you are willing to take the kids into your home really says a lot about what awesome giving people you and Bryan are. You continue to amaze me!
Fightdog 2 years ago 2
Ouchie bryan, thats scary. I remember when my bro almost cut off his pinky.
i wish you guys the best of luck during this time, it's gonna be hectic O_O
NItemareFrog 2 years ago
Good luck with everything.
Jimb0can 2 years ago
You are men of great heart, I'd expect your response to be just what you're discussing. Please get as much good counsel as you can and I'm sure you'll make the best decisions for everyone.
You're in my prayers for wisdom, insight and your needs to be provided.
bilcal 2 years ago
(continueing my last comment) I have been watching you guys for a while and you come off as good parents. My parents told me it was a challenge enough only taking in one child, so I can imagin 3 would be very challenging, but you can overcome it I'm sure. Whatever you decide I wish you all the best. If you want to know more about what happened in my family just message me. I would be glad to share more since you seem to be in a similar circumstance as my family was.
thatoneshyguy20 2 years ago
I spent 2k last year with running all new potable water lines.
Sorry about the niece, she's an adult and she will figure it out, don't be pushed into something you can't handle.
You guys have such beautiful hearts & spirits, I hope that you can take all 3 kids. But sometimes you have to set your emotions aside and consider the expenses and original family before taking more kids in.
ristin59 2 years ago
Wow. I am constantly amazed at both of yours generous heart. If anyone was asked to take them in, I am sure you are the best choice!
I know everything will work out.
Like iamdanielle said, you are the most beautiful family! Best Wishes!
<3 from Canada :D
colinlikeschapstick 2 years ago 2
I wish you the best. Love you guys.
sensoriussupremus 2 years ago 2
I have a similar story in my family. One of my sisters is adopted, she was my cousin but the state took her away because my aunt was abusing her. I always admired my parents for taking her in and she grew up to be a good person. I do understand if you can't take all 3, but I think it would be good for them to stay within the family. Is there other family that would take in your nephews if you can't?
thatoneshyguy20 2 years ago
You guys have such big hearts. I hope you will open your home to the three kids. They would benefit greatly from having loving parents like you.
Best of luck to you all, my prayers are with you. x0x0x
TahrahStar 2 years ago 5
Wow! Good luck with everything!!!
talentguynyc 2 years ago 2
Your family is the cutest thing I have ever seen! Even if you only get the baby, you'll be helping out so much and making such a positive impact. good luck : )
PeaceLoveTeenHippie 2 years ago
Will be praying for you guys!!!!
God will never give you more than you can't handle!
Good luck!
dallasjjguate 2 years ago
I´m so sorry about your nieces Jay.
I don´t know what to say Guys, I just hope eveything turns out okay, Dissapear if you want, just return every once in a while just to say everything is okay...okay?
Lots of love guys, from the bottom of my heart
swampex 2 years ago
Daniel "It will be loud" LOL, classic answer :)
I do hope all goes well with everything.
tattooskin72 2 years ago 2
Sorry about your plumbing in your house and Jay's fingers incident. Glad they're safe and healing well.
With all you do for your kids, the community, and now Jay's niece's kids...Your hearts are amazing with all you do.
schmumpkin 2 years ago
hard to say what i would advise on this(im no parent so please ignore if i seem stupid) . I think that helping out your family member is very noble but 5 kids might be a bit much,even for parents as great as you two.
darthslain 2 years ago
Yes I agree. Our first priority is my two kids. I think we can take my niece or maybe my two nephews not sure all three is the smart choice.
depfox 2 years ago
It's going to be crazy hard if u take it on but I think u know this already. I feel so bad because I'm sure this is going to cause such insecurities for these children, especially if separated. When I was young my dad passed away and then a drunk driver put my mom in the hospital for months and my brothers and sister were faced with very similar events. My 18 year old brother and 17 year old sister held us together, thank God.
RickOnEarth 2 years ago
I wish you all the best of luck with whatever happens.
gaarafangirl1993 2 years ago 3
Hope everything works out.
JerbyVids 2 years ago 3
While I'm so sad to hear about these kids going through a hard time right now, it's gratifying to see that you guys can be seen as a safe pair of hands to potentially put them into.
I can understand both not wanting to take on more than you can manage and the instinct to take in all of these children. I'm sure you'll come to the right decisions about what's best for these three and of course for Daniel and Selena. Will be thinking of you guys while you work through this.
Ali68C 2 years ago
woohoo my coment is one of the firsts ;d
I think the same as Jay about taking those kids
MrRomulus456 2 years ago
Ouch sorry to hear about Bryan's fingers :( Get better soon!
I'm sorry to hear about your niece Jay.
Both of your kindness, love and acceptance never cease to amaze me. All of the Leffews are model human beings and should be treated as such :). Bryan in particular is such a sweetheart...:D *Jay cracks knuckles*
*phantomsluva scuttles into the corner*
phantomsluva 2 years ago
WOW I hope bryans fingers are still attached
revemupman 2 years ago
You are the most beautiful family. Your children are so well-spoken and outgoing. Congratulations on everything.
iamdanielle 2 years ago 2