Divorce

[obandutra1]

follow me on twitter @wehaveasay it's new, but it talks about divorce and effect on teens. i really want to help people overcome these feelings of divorce in all aspects whether u care or not while people also help me

[emocoreXsunshine]

My parents divorces before I could talk. My mom remarried four times.. And finalized her fourth divorce as of tonight. My dad remarried once. I'm 14 now... Is it wrong i don't feel so affected as I should be?

[1407puppylove]

My mom and dad are getting a divorce.....my dad cheated on my mom :(

[superstarzxoxo]

My parents got divorced when I was 8. It has increased my depression and anxiety. My dad is already married and my mom got married 3 weeks ago to someone I can't trust. But the worst part is she told us yesterday.

[MiuMiuStormiGirl]

Honestly, its one sided argument. Yes, people divorce for silly reasons and everyone and everythingis effected. But there are ways to cope and move on

[MiuMiuStormiGirl]

Don't stay in an abusive relationship though....

[StefanieBorgs2]

Well I wouldn't say that it's all that negative...

my parents got divorced a long time ago and now I'm really happy, that they did because my life is much happier now...

sure, it's a horrible thing for a kid but it's not the end of the life...

thanks for sharing!

[joimko2]

This is a bit too much. First I would like to make sure that divorce is the cause of all these things. It could well be that divorce is a consequences of people characters Divorce per se may just be a confounding variable. Second, I have at least two examples of teens who were happy about the divorce as it did put an end to fights, screams... This definitely would put the child if front of violence possibly induce depression. Better alone than badly accompanied!

[lemondale11]

I don't believe this... my parents divorced when i was young and I have increased my depression and anger, and my brother has developed a series of mental issues. Maybe this is a reason why...

[maltasea]

say no divorce to malta

[Misstyfoot]

My parents are divored. It's hard but but you gotta keep going. My parents have joint-cusody of me though, I live with my dad most of the time

[kyolilisibijr]

This is exactly what happened to me, but i still have parents who still have done nothing yet and i don't want to go through divorce. i want a normal life :'(

[CMAshlyn]

My friend's parents got a divorce and I would have never imagined it would happen. Her parents were so good together but now both of them are remarried and they only got divorced a year ago. o_o

[davidls11]

If parachutes had the same failure rate as marriage nobody would go skydiving.

[toriesinger]

my parents are getting a divorce on christmas day. this really made me all depressed cuz most of it is true.

[ictspy]

I agree with this video. Although my parents argued a lot I preferred they stayed together. You got no idea how it hurts when you are young but old enough to understand.

Offcourse this depends on each situation.

[OneAgainstMarriage]

Divorce isnt exactly the problem. Its more of a solution than a problem. Wake up to the fact that marriage is a dirty con job and has NOTHING to do with your bible, religion, god, love, harmony, peace, hearts and flowers and birds and butterflies. Parents who break up or neglect or abuse the kids they shouldnt have brought into this world in the first place arent going to STOP doing it just because they're married. Marriage doesnt "protect" the kids. Marriage protects the abuser.

[babeeshopiez123]

My parents got divorced when i was 6. my dad now lives in denmark, still talks to me, but with his girlfriend and two kids on the side too

I cant remember the last time i said "i love you" to him. it makes me sick.

[Dmacho78]

Don't get married, and you won't get divorced.

[fate11twister]

Divorce has creeped to my family now my lifes ruined

[yomama111336]

The divorce of my parents didn't change a damn thing

[pizzelle4u]

it is so sad to read these posts although very true they are. No thanks to the 60's that brought on legalized abortion killing, drugs, women steralization, feminization (of the wrong kind). people though all this brought "freedom", but as a teen growing up in the 60's i can tell you that is when all hell broke loose. Divorce, homosexuality, killing unborn children, divorce etc. No, it wasn't greener on the other side, it was true EVIL and remains evil to this day. Families, STAY TOGETHER!

[LadyBritonWhite]

fucking disgusting. divorce has ruined my family and has ruined my life because all my parents did was fight and they never took incentive to solve anything. i was 11 and i had at least a bit of mental capacity to figure that out. now i cant see my dad for 3 years until i graduate, and my mom is in a lesbian relationship.

if there is violence or abuse in a relationship, get out. if you are fighting over trivials things, WORK IT THE %^$# OUT. afterall wouldnt you do anything for you kids?

[ralpheboy94]

the divorce rate will get worst as the economy goes down hill in america the days of innovation and the american dream and marriage and owning that big house and having kids and that great job in corporate america are over and the courts will allways be the winners and marrige is for losers and suckers in the 21 century

[jamminjh37]

I understand that people do want to do the "noble" thing and stay together for the kids, but if the interest of your child is the top of your list, then how can you show them hope in relationships later in life if yours is and has been a complete disaster. You can't teach if you can't learn.

[Macsy08]

I totally agree with this video. I think many children of divorce feel this way. But I just wish that people who are getting a divorce that have children don't realize that it doesn't have to be ugly, it can just be a new chapter in their life. "A family doesn't have to end just because a marriage does" Julie Rappaport, Tasha Liberman, Lee Liberman.

[khacho95]

divorce has affected me to i still wish my parents were togethor i hate going through that struggle i loved my life when my parents were together

[lokimili]

the video is good but the content... it's always better to have kind of a good childhood with only one parent than having a bad childhood within a family with fighting parents who just pretend to be happy.

[shinyday1987]

it has been almost 3 years since my parents divorse. and i fell half of me is missing cause i live with my mom. and the worst thing that i hate in my life that when i remember that my dad have a nwe wife and a baby. but i always love my father whenever what......i live you dady.......

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[gnrlusr8]

It's true that divorce greatly affects the kids. But staying together "for the sake of the kids" can sometimes be worse. Children aren't blind. They can see when their parents hate each other.

[lokimili]

right. you're so right!

[tmcrown]

Anyone who comments on the children not being affected by divorce is completely blind and selfish and unwilling to admit that thier selfish act will have lasting effects on thier children. I have been through it and I know. Yes kids are resilient, but they also keep a lot inside. And for that person who thinks Cobain was not affected by divorce, well maybe he would have handled fame better and never got into drugs had it not been for the divorce.

[jamminjh37]

watch sling blade and tell us that divorce is still wrong. You really have no idea what you are talking about. Granted, some people just divorce on a whim, but in all the cases I have personal experience with, including my own and my parents, it's often the better decision. By the way, Curt killed himself because of how much he hated fame as well as his heroin habit. Divorce wasn't a major factor there.

[dkcre8design]

Once again this was a piece that was assigned to me... it is in no way representing my actual thoughts or beliefs. I am glad that it does move you in some way and that you respond with a strong amount of feeling. thank you

[NailAndHair101]

my parents divorced when i was 7 and not im 13 ,and over the years i have been in and out of the hospital 3 times for depression and anxiety .i told all my friends to go screw their self and i stayed home for all of my 7th grade life ,hiding .but worst of all i tryed to kill my self .yeah it sounds like i just hate my self but thats the truth ,i thought i was the whole cause of it .ok still thinking thats is not why i had anxiety and depressing ?i travled out of country to a PRO to see why!

[diydude]

I really like this video. My parents became different people when they divorced and it was as if both my parents died. It may not be that way for everyone but divorce is not something two people should do without serious planning and thought.

[boysie30]

Good video very well done.

[lb6282003]

Amazing? Yeah, amazing that people actually believe this right-wing bullshit!

[dkcre8design]

Once again I appreciate your passion and views on this matter... but please express things in a respectful manner such as the comment below...

[sarabaack]

children are also affected by constant fighting, unhappiness and stress in the home. Divorce isn't always bad for them. They can spend happy time with mommy and happy time with daddy, not screaming, miserable time with both!! So don't act like ALL parents considering divorce are selfish. Many, probably MOST agonize over hurting the kids!

[dkcre8design]

This was a project assigned to me... this piece in no way expresses my actual views... but very good point thank you for the insight

[sarabaack]

thank you....i'm personally going through this situation, so it hit home for me. Very well done though!

[dkcre8design]

I'm sorry to hear that... I wish the best for you... happiness is the most important thing... and thank you

[ArmaniSoledad]

Amazing