Oh dear mel, it took me 3x and many tears to get thru this video. hearing you talk about zachary really touched my heart. I also experienced the loss of my baby in the 2nd trimester and could just feel your pain as I listed to you. I am so very sorry.xoxo
i dont know you, and i want pretend to know what you are going through, but you are so strong together and i rearly do feel for you and i am so sorry for your loss,
Thank you for your comment, your compassion and for reaching out. Just doing that, can really make the difference for the countless of families that have suffered this loss. I really do appreciate your comment and everything else! Ton of hugs Mel
Thank you for the wonderful comment and from the bottom of my heart it really meant a lot to me I am very lucky to have such a wonderful family but also to have people like you who care Ton of hugs ♥Mel
Aw thank you so much but honestly we gather our strength from friends like you, for your love and support we couldn't get through this without you guys Ton of hugs ♥Mel
Thank You so much and I completely agree I love the painting I'm also happy to report that it arrived at my parents house safe and sound Ton of hugs ♥Mel
I am so sorry for your lost. I hope the painting that the daligoddess created for you will bring your family love and comfort while you are in the beautiful duecthland so far away from your family.
Thank You so much for your kind words The painting that Dali did is beyond words for what I could of ever asked for Its amazing how much hope it has given us Tons of hugs ♥Mel
i am so very sorry your loss. your story is heartbreaking. i lost my baby at almost 20 wks in 2000. you never completely recover from the loss of a child, but time does help to soothe the pain. i wish you & your family a joyful future. i'll keep you & zachary in my prayers.
Hello I just wanted to say first I'm so deeply sorry for your loss and if you ever need anything please let me know Something I'm looking forward to when I return to the states is to finally be apart of organization to offer support for families like ours Its such a devastating loss Thank you for being there for us Tons of hugs ♥Mel
I can tell you how an incredible support system! It's very obvious that your husband loves you very much. Thank you for sharing such a personal tragedy with all of us! You are in my prayers and I am sure Zachary is up in heaven playing with all of the other children (including my own) just waiting for you guys to join him ::hugs::
I'm so deeply sorry for your loss and just know if you need to talk I am here for you as well Experiencing a death of your own child is one of the hardest thing anyone can ever endure Tons of hugs ♥Mel
A user found my video of my tribute to my son and told me about you...so thought that I would share my video with you xxxxxxxx I still have a son who is nearly 16, but there is a veyr big gap that will never be filled god bless you both xx
Thank you for sharing your beautiful tribute to your son. I'm so sorry for your loss, it is one of the hardest thing to ever endure sometimes the pain just lingers. You are in my thoughts. Tons of hugs from Mel!
Hi Melissa, I somehow missed this video when you first sent it to me. Thank you for sharing it. Perhaps the beautiful spirit of your unborn child was not ready to come in and is still swirling with God. I feel confident he is watching over you and your family and you will be together again. Big hugs to you and Jared, your special earthly angel. :) Peace and comfort to you , Pattipi
I posted two comments so far and they are not showing.. Trying again. Just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss. If you ever need anything please feel free to contact me anytime. Tons of hugs from Mel!
It was really hard but I think I needed to have expressed it some.. keeping it in felt like it was killing me inside. I miss him so much every day is a battle, and as each day passes towards Xmas and his due date its just a little harder. Tons of hugs from Mel!
Thank you Lou.. your comment means a lot. I'm trying to face each day with a new outlook, some days are harder then others. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
I'm sorry.. William and I are so honored that you are going to do a painting for Zachary. It means so much. Its funny how the video took a live of its own when we just wanted to Thank You. I guess holding things in for so long it just came out during it. So in many ways you gave us two gifts. Thank you soo much! Tons of hugs from Mel!
Hi sweetie. I am glad to have served as the catalyst. I believe as LouRyder, that talking about your loss is the first step toward the healing process. I realize there are some people who don't want to talk about it. However, you should talk about it whenever you feel the need and to whom ever will listen. It will help. Hugs and Love, Kim
Thanks .. I have a feeling that in Jan I will be really needing to talk.. that is when Zachary is due. I'm already having anxiety over it. Tons of hugs from Mel! PS did you get the picture?
Thank you.. It was hard to really make but I felt the need to really say it. We really appreciate all the thoughts and prayers. They are always needed. Tons of hugs from Mel!
Sadly they did do a autopsy on Zachary and they were unable to come up with a conclusion. The report shown that he was perfect, no abnormalities. Its a little frustration. I have to do more lab work to see if there is a problem with me. Tons of hugs from Mel!
I can't imagine what you've been through the past year. I hope your videos are helping you to heal, just as I'm sure they're helping others who've lost a child. I'm glad you and your husband have each other - you seem like a great couple. My best to you both.
I agree that talking about it helps some.. because you hold it in. They say the lost of a child is a silent pain. Not many people will talk about it. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
I'm sorry for your loss .. I have to tell you losing Zachary is still one of the hardest things I deal with every day. I am just honored that I was able to hold him even for a little bit. If you ever need to talk, just know that I am here. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
I love you tooo sweetie.. and thank you so much for the sweet comments you always leave here for me. As well for all the love and support you have always given me. You are amazing in my eyes. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
I am really blessed with my husband and my son Jared. I couldn't of gotten through this without them daily in my life. Thank you so much for the hug, the comment and the friendship! It means a lot! Tons of hugs from Mel!
This is an important video for anyone who has lost a child. It's really a taboo subject, I found in my own life. It's not until you lose a baby that others open up and tell you they lost one ,too. God bless you guys!
Thank you, it was really hard to really express verbally what happened. Also its just doesn't end after a loss of a child.. as you know. Thank you for always being there for me. Just know that I am always here for you! Tons of hugs from Mel!
Girl you made me cry & I had make-up on! Much love to the both of you & your family. I will pray for you & your family. I LOVE YOU. PLease don't cry sweetie. Tell your husband that he is a very supportive man, & he should be proud!
I'm sorry for making you cry and you looked beautiful in your makeup. Thank you for everything and I will be sure to give the message to William tonight! Tons of hugs from Mel!
No need to be sorry. I just give you a lot of credit for being able to go through something as sad as losing a child. I don't know if I would be able to do it. Much love to you sweetie.
To be perfectly honest, I don't know how I do it. Every night I speak to Zachary, its my only way to keep my sanity I guess. I still break down a lot, as you can tell on this video. Its a struggle every day. But it helps with the love and support from friends like you! Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
Hey sweetie, I kinda know what you mean by speaking to him. I had an ex-boyfriend who died violently (he got shot in the head), and when it first happened over 10 years ago, I would dream about him & we would have conversations after his death! I knew he was gone in my dreams, but it was like he came to me to help me with the loss. It doesn't compare to what happened to you, but know I understand about talking. Much love.
Oh dear mel, it took me 3x and many tears to get thru this video. hearing you talk about zachary really touched my heart. I also experienced the loss of my baby in the 2nd trimester and could just feel your pain as I listed to you. I am so very sorry.xoxo
MANICMAMASITA 11 months ago
I cried through this whole video, I am so sorry for your loss! xo
djbrec 11 months ago
i dont know you, and i want pretend to know what you are going through, but you are so strong together and i rearly do feel for you and i am so sorry for your loss,
babycham2006 3 years ago
Thank you for your comment, your compassion and for reaching out. Just doing that, can really make the difference for the countless of families that have suffered this loss. I really do appreciate your comment and everything else! Ton of hugs Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 3 years ago
I amso sorry for your loss Stay strong from mary xxx
mary3435 3 years ago
Thank you Mary your words mean a lot and really appreciate your comment Ton of hugs Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 3 years ago
Thank you for the wonderful comment and from the bottom of my heart it really meant a lot to me I am very lucky to have such a wonderful family but also to have people like you who care Ton of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
Aw thank you so much but honestly we gather our strength from friends like you, for your love and support we couldn't get through this without you guys Ton of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
Thank You so much and I completely agree I love the painting I'm also happy to report that it arrived at my parents house safe and sound Ton of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
I am so sorry for your lost. I hope the painting that the daligoddess created for you will bring your family love and comfort while you are in the beautiful duecthland so far away from your family.
woodlandpoet 4 years ago
Thank You so much for your kind words The painting that Dali did is beyond words for what I could of ever asked for Its amazing how much hope it has given us Tons of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
My condolences and hugs from me too.
clubsoda921 4 years ago
Thank you so much and also for the beautiful hugs You can never have to many of those
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
Forgot to add Tons of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
Tons of hugs! Peace and hope to you.
sketchmaiden 4 years ago
Thank You so much for the wonderful comment and the support It means the world Tons of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
i am so very sorry your loss. your story is heartbreaking. i lost my baby at almost 20 wks in 2000. you never completely recover from the loss of a child, but time does help to soothe the pain. i wish you & your family a joyful future. i'll keep you & zachary in my prayers.
weefrump 4 years ago
Hello I just wanted to say first I'm so deeply sorry for your loss and if you ever need anything please let me know Something I'm looking forward to when I return to the states is to finally be apart of organization to offer support for families like ours Its such a devastating loss Thank you for being there for us Tons of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 4 years ago
What is your family doing in Germany?
satinpetal 5 years ago
My husband is a soldier and currently we are stationed here until this tour ends Ton of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I can tell you how an incredible support system! It's very obvious that your husband loves you very much. Thank you for sharing such a personal tragedy with all of us! You are in my prayers and I am sure Zachary is up in heaven playing with all of the other children (including my own) just waiting for you guys to join him ::hugs::
promised1 5 years ago
I'm so deeply sorry for your loss and just know if you need to talk I am here for you as well Experiencing a death of your own child is one of the hardest thing anyone can ever endure Tons of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I'm so sorry for your loss...Stay strong...
Aquanetta 5 years ago
Thank you so much each day is a challenge but I am getting through it Thank you for the comment Tons of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
hi melissa...trying to post but cant
pi314too 5 years ago
Thanks for trying Tons of hugs ♥Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
A user found my video of my tribute to my son and told me about you...so thought that I would share my video with you xxxxxxxx I still have a son who is nearly 16, but there is a veyr big gap that will never be filled god bless you both xx
AllOfTheTime 5 years ago
Thank you for sharing your beautiful tribute to your son. I'm so sorry for your loss, it is one of the hardest thing to ever endure sometimes the pain just lingers. You are in my thoughts. Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
Hi Melissa, I somehow missed this video when you first sent it to me. Thank you for sharing it. Perhaps the beautiful spirit of your unborn child was not ready to come in and is still swirling with God. I feel confident he is watching over you and your family and you will be together again. Big hugs to you and Jared, your special earthly angel. :) Peace and comfort to you , Pattipi
pi314too 5 years ago
I posted two comments so far and they are not showing.. Trying again. Just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss. If you ever need anything please feel free to contact me anytime. Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
It was really hard but I think I needed to have expressed it some.. keeping it in felt like it was killing me inside. I miss him so much every day is a battle, and as each day passes towards Xmas and his due date its just a little harder. Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
great videos as always, keep up the good work! <3
airmen1632 5 years ago
Thanks .. this was really hard to do. Tons of hugs from Mel
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I think being able to talk about your loss is a very important step in the healing process, and this video shows that. Stay strong. Lou.
LouRyder 5 years ago
Thank you Lou.. your comment means a lot. I'm trying to face each day with a new outlook, some days are harder then others. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
Every time I try to comment on this vid, I break down. Mel, William, here are some BIG HUGS for you. OOOOOOOOO
daligoddess2006 5 years ago
I'm sorry.. William and I are so honored that you are going to do a painting for Zachary. It means so much. Its funny how the video took a live of its own when we just wanted to Thank You. I guess holding things in for so long it just came out during it. So in many ways you gave us two gifts. Thank you soo much! Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
Hi sweetie. I am glad to have served as the catalyst. I believe as LouRyder, that talking about your loss is the first step toward the healing process. I realize there are some people who don't want to talk about it. However, you should talk about it whenever you feel the need and to whom ever will listen. It will help. Hugs and Love, Kim
daligoddess2006 5 years ago
Thanks .. I have a feeling that in Jan I will be really needing to talk.. that is when Zachary is due. I'm already having anxiety over it. Tons of hugs from Mel! PS did you get the picture?
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
Thank you.. It was hard to really make but I felt the need to really say it. We really appreciate all the thoughts and prayers. They are always needed. Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
Sadly they did do a autopsy on Zachary and they were unable to come up with a conclusion. The report shown that he was perfect, no abnormalities. Its a little frustration. I have to do more lab work to see if there is a problem with me. Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I do agree .. I love CatchFlipSide he is amazing. Thank you as well for everything! Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I can't imagine what you've been through the past year. I hope your videos are helping you to heal, just as I'm sure they're helping others who've lost a child. I'm glad you and your husband have each other - you seem like a great couple. My best to you both.
jillyjilly 5 years ago
I agree that talking about it helps some.. because you hold it in. They say the lost of a child is a silent pain. Not many people will talk about it. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I'm sorry for your loss .. I have to tell you losing Zachary is still one of the hardest things I deal with every day. I am just honored that I was able to hold him even for a little bit. If you ever need to talk, just know that I am here. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I love you tooo sweetie.. and thank you so much for the sweet comments you always leave here for me. As well for all the love and support you have always given me. You are amazing in my eyes. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
love n hugs to ya, god bless you both
andyaddict66 5 years ago
Thank you!! We can always use hugs! Hoped you had a wonderful Thanksgiving! Sending you tons and extra hugs your way .. Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I am really blessed with my husband and my son Jared. I couldn't of gotten through this without them daily in my life. Thank you so much for the hug, the comment and the friendship! It means a lot! Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I held it together until you showed the urn.
This is an important video for anyone who has lost a child. It's really a taboo subject, I found in my own life. It's not until you lose a baby that others open up and tell you they lost one ,too. God bless you guys!
Elphyrafire 5 years ago
Thank you, it was really hard to really express verbally what happened. Also its just doesn't end after a loss of a child.. as you know. Thank you for always being there for me. Just know that I am always here for you! Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
I love you guys!! HANG IN THERE!!
Zipster08 5 years ago
We love you toooooo!!! Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
Girl you made me cry & I had make-up on! Much love to the both of you & your family. I will pray for you & your family. I LOVE YOU. PLease don't cry sweetie. Tell your husband that he is a very supportive man, & he should be proud!
sophiegirl1 5 years ago
I'm sorry for making you cry and you looked beautiful in your makeup. Thank you for everything and I will be sure to give the message to William tonight! Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
No need to be sorry. I just give you a lot of credit for being able to go through something as sad as losing a child. I don't know if I would be able to do it. Much love to you sweetie.
sophiegirl1 5 years ago
To be perfectly honest, I don't know how I do it. Every night I speak to Zachary, its my only way to keep my sanity I guess. I still break down a lot, as you can tell on this video. Its a struggle every day. But it helps with the love and support from friends like you! Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
Hey sweetie, I kinda know what you mean by speaking to him. I had an ex-boyfriend who died violently (he got shot in the head), and when it first happened over 10 years ago, I would dream about him & we would have conversations after his death! I knew he was gone in my dreams, but it was like he came to me to help me with the loss. It doesn't compare to what happened to you, but know I understand about talking. Much love.
sophiegirl1 5 years ago
Sorry for the late response. Just wanted to say that I'm so sorry that you lost someone you loved as well. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago
It's ok. I hope you had a good holiday. Much love to you! Jill <3
sophiegirl1 5 years ago
Very very touching video. And, while I know I haven't gone through anywhere near as much as you two, I can relate.
CatchFlipsidE 5 years ago
Thank you.. its still very hard to really talk about openingly. But sometimes its good to be able to release it out. Tons of hugs from Mel!
SSGLuceyGirl 5 years ago