why only when you talk the first time? i think it's always important. i hate when the person on the other side of the line is not listening at all, no matter if its a man or a woman
this applies more to men then women if you ask me! They are the ones who have the tendency to put the woman on the back burner and tend to other things and never make her a priority!!!
hi there im a girl and when i went thru d comments and read wat u said, felt kinda guilty coz i did that a couple of times before. il b honest, i was giving attention to lots of males dat time and also, it meant dat i was uncomftabl wid d guy i was wid so i busied myslf wid my fone. Lil tip, u can try askng her to pay more attention to u. it works coz ur being straight to d point and it avoids u from sounding offensive. she owes u her attention anyway, coz d 2 of u are havng a date.
hi. if dis is d case, u can try playing wid him, if u can put it up though.lol if u cant, just tell him ul be somewhere else and that ul be back after, say, an hour. at least thru dis ur setting some limits and at the same time respecting the stuff he likes.
So, a woman multitasking on a telephon with a man is not good because it doesn't make him feel special and it's undelicate (which I absolutely agree), but a man stearing at other women on the first date it's ok, because it's natural...I see, fine self made psychology....
man, my girlfriend did taht to me on the phone once, she kept talking to her friend while i was talking to her and stuff and it was pissing me off sooo bad...
My first conversation was with a guy who was like "hold on..." and then he talked to his roomates for a long while.
There is something about that treatment that feels strange. When it happened to me, the only thing that I thought about was "ok, well...he could've told me that he wasn't ready to talk".
I remember when we were still friends I called my girlfriend during the day when she was at work and she slipped out of her office to talk to me (on her mobile) and I thought that was really special at the time. It certainly made enough of an impression on me that I still remember it, even though it happened last year.
I'm a guy. But I think this applies to both men and women alike. The same should apply for everyone you meet or call as well.
samweller96 1 year ago
guys too do that all the time even they r bad at multitasking.
midz500 1 year ago
this video spot on!! great!!
mavishill 1 year ago
why only when you talk the first time? i think it's always important. i hate when the person on the other side of the line is not listening at all, no matter if its a man or a woman
glumpf 2 years ago 2
this applies more to men then women if you ask me! They are the ones who have the tendency to put the woman on the back burner and tend to other things and never make her a priority!!!
TheMoosecatchick 2 years ago
It true that men do this not on purpose woman sould take it lightly
jea740 2 years ago
it's a big turn off I went out on a date with this girl and when we were walking the park, she just kept texting on her phone i was like :( ok...
samazn20 2 years ago 6
hi there im a girl and when i went thru d comments and read wat u said, felt kinda guilty coz i did that a couple of times before. il b honest, i was giving attention to lots of males dat time and also, it meant dat i was uncomftabl wid d guy i was wid so i busied myslf wid my fone. Lil tip, u can try askng her to pay more attention to u. it works coz ur being straight to d point and it avoids u from sounding offensive. she owes u her attention anyway, coz d 2 of u are havng a date.
Ylinets 2 years ago
yeah.. thanks for your feedback. :) yeah..she does owe me her attention..lol
samazn20 2 years ago
always welcome :)
Ylinets 2 years ago
I'm a girl and this has happened to me but the guy was playing video games and i was like wtf
DancersAreCool 2 years ago 2
hi. if dis is d case, u can try playing wid him, if u can put it up though.lol if u cant, just tell him ul be somewhere else and that ul be back after, say, an hour. at least thru dis ur setting some limits and at the same time respecting the stuff he likes.
Ylinets 2 years ago
i guess that applies to men too,not to multi task
carina81gr 3 years ago
You seem to be quite the catch - more men should be like you!
blrgrl 3 years ago 6
yeah. he's sensible.
Ylinets 2 years ago
So, a woman multitasking on a telephon with a man is not good because it doesn't make him feel special and it's undelicate (which I absolutely agree), but a man stearing at other women on the first date it's ok, because it's natural...I see, fine self made psychology....
biquettesauvage1 3 years ago
when did he say that cause it seems I missed it?
gimmemoremusic 3 years ago
Good tip. Thanks.
laurenbay 3 years ago
That's one of my pet peeves. Makes me not want to talk to the girl again.
wize1ne 3 years ago
you look a lot more handsome without facial hair.
kimmijo 3 years ago
so would you.
iloveghelyun 3 years ago 10
ROFL
TaelurJamez 3 years ago 2
lol i love witty comebacks
BeAsTm0aD 3 years ago
haha good one
asmukkar 3 years ago
man, my girlfriend did taht to me on the phone once, she kept talking to her friend while i was talking to her and stuff and it was pissing me off sooo bad...
Fewstanator 3 years ago
yea, that happened to me too. i was really angry b/c i was trying to do her a favor but she seems so unappreciative and preoccupied.
firelily 3 years ago
i know :P
Fewstanator 3 years ago
lol... i mean my friend who is a girl... i'm not gay...lol
firelily 3 years ago
Oh my gosh. This one is SO obvious! I can't believe people even do that!
LonerlovezL 3 years ago
fuck i hate it when chiks do that!
SurrenderOrDie65 3 years ago
guys too : )
My first conversation was with a guy who was like "hold on..." and then he talked to his roomates for a long while.
There is something about that treatment that feels strange. When it happened to me, the only thing that I thought about was "ok, well...he could've told me that he wasn't ready to talk".
pcirrus 3 years ago 12
true.
elwoodamie2007 3 years ago
i concur!! i think both sexes do that.
firelily 3 years ago
I hate when girls do that. It's so annoying.
SamTheMan55555 3 years ago
i have many friends that do this and it aggravates me. i hate repeating myself
larriale 3 years ago
exceptional advice!!
unni3063 3 years ago
Great advice.
Yae391 3 years ago
I remember when we were still friends I called my girlfriend during the day when she was at work and she slipped out of her office to talk to me (on her mobile) and I thought that was really special at the time. It certainly made enough of an impression on me that I still remember it, even though it happened last year.
This is really good advice.
BobfromSydney 3 years ago
true
sumsimdimgun 3 years ago 2
thnx a lot
VideoSoldaat 3 years ago 3
Arkady, I am so your #1 fan \^_^/
brooknight1 3 years ago 5
ahhhh, great insight into a known truism that men have all endured. Thank you and keep up the good work.
Niamichaelgeorge 3 years ago 5
You are so right on!
I appreciate your ability to notice subtle things that go unnoticed by most!
SkinnyGirl125 3 years ago 5
I feel the same :)
earthworm2000 3 years ago 5