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  • THERE IS NO ESCAPE AND THE SOONER YOU MOVE AND REALIZE THIS THE BETTER THA HEALING PROCESS WILL BE,

  • My advice Be more sexual. And dont se this kind of idiot videos

  • This couple is super cute. I covered the Friend Zone topic as well in my first YouTube vid. Check it out if you still need advice :)

  • This was more of a Captain Hindsight video

    It can be done, this video was no help, sorry

  • okey, i'll ask again; how?

  • Am I the only one who keeps thinking they're about to get it on?

  • wait....don't molest her?!?! shit....

  • well thank you very much on explaining how to get out!

  • ok, this MAY solve the problem in the uncommon situation that your not already friends with them. however, this doesn't help you get OUT of it, which Is what the question was, which you did not actually answer. a lot of us become attracted to a girl AFTER we've been friends with them for some time already, by which time they have placed us in the friend zone and then sealed us in with reinforced concrete walls. the question was asking how we break these walls and put ourselves in her heart. kk

  • Chicks thinks you're gay if you are a not a douche

  • I didn't walk in the door because I liked her only as a friend. However, years later I figure out I really like her... And now I'm stuck :(

  • you are retards. seriously. it's not so black and white.

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  • YOUR ADVICE SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've bee friendzoned for 8 yearz!

  • @TheDufase19089 You must have THAT face.

  • if she doesnt want to be anything other than friends, is there any way to get her in the sack without messing up the friendship. fuck it. i am going for it anyway because nobody really knows my particular situation. besides she knows how i feel and still gotten closer too me which to me, is a sign that she wasnt turned off by my attraction to her in the first place. lord i hope i know what i am doing.

  • should i make a move on my best friend seeing as how she really didnt become a friend until i confessed my attraction to her, i believe she is attracted to me by the flirting here and there and the sexual enuendos but nothing definative has made me feel like she would or wouldnt go for it. can someone[preferably a woman] please give me some helpful advice? if not, then i will try to do what i always wanted to do and bang her brains out cause after all who doesnt want to have sex?

  • i am in the friend zone with a married woman(common law, and i dont beleive she is happy with him because he got caught cheating on her and i know her enough to know that she probably resents him for it)but anyway it is killing me and i'm at the piont to where i am ready to make my move. i have made her aware of my attraction to her early on but never acted on it,mostly because of her marriage but even more so she has become my best friend and the last thing i want is to screw up our friendship

  • This is very good advice. The only thing I would add is that any unattached woman is likely being persued by multiple guys at the same time. You cannot afford a "just friends" period if you really like her. If you take it too slow, you're going to get knocked aside by another guy who is more aggressive.

  • they're simply saying avoid it in the first place, the asker asked how to GET OUT of it once you're inside it.

  • How do I get INTO the friend zone? I’m trying to get this girl from “acquaintance” to “friend”.

  • Stop hanging with the 'just friends' and hook up with another girl(s)

    this will give you better chance in hooking up, elsewhere! Why sell

    your self short?

  • 666 videos?!?!?!

  • I guess I need to pay better attention. I need a chick and I always end up getting in the friends zone.

  • dude thats how girls are at first they see you as a friend until they have feelings dont get me wrong some girls will only want to be friends though others may like you with out you knowing if they blush around you after makingg a mistake and tend not to look at you after then they might like u

  • I have known this girl in school for like 5 years, and were friends, I can't get out of that friend zone.

  • @4est242 i feel ur pain mate im stuck in a situtaion to something like that

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  • no, molesting would work

  • You cannot escape 'the friend zone' at all. Once a woman sees you only as a friend, thats it, your just a mate to her.

    if you fancy a woman, tell her from the get go - dont get into 'the friend zone' because your doomed.

  • u r dumb

  • ...anyone know how to keep guys IN the friend zone, like locked up with a key? They just get sooooooooooo clingy and ask to hang out EVERY day, like I dont have other things to do or something, it's so creepy, yet sad, I feel so sorry for them... :/

  • This woman told me that were only friends, i still talk to her. But should i move on from her, or should i tell her how i feel. I know i may be stuck in the friendzone, how should i act around her.

  • @SuperPatriot4life If she said she only wants to be friends, then you should just not talk to her or see her anymore because that's a rejection, and you need to move on. If a conversation she had came up with someone else that led her to say "I'm only friends with him," then it's a completely different situation. She may have said it because she wants to be more than friends, because she DOESN'T want to be more than friends, or because she's just flirty and is leading you on.

  • Dan looks like the typical friend zoned pussy type.

  • how do I read body language signals anyway? can't be too nice or I'll be stuck in the friend zone, but i can't rape either that's illegal.

  • I have a gf but we don't get intimate, we don't kiss and hug as often as I would like to. When I'm at her house all we do is watch TV, and occasionally I buy her stuff and I feel she doesn't appreciate me enough. I feel like breaking up with her if we don't start getting more intimate. All I know is i'm sick and tired of living the life I've been leading. Most people my age have already married and have children and I'm struggling, Life is not fair.

  • "walk on in" = rape.

  • @procinctu87 hhahahhahahahahahahahahahahaha­hahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha

  • ok. if your looking this kind of stuff up on youtube, that's pretty sad

  • @2Popcorn9000 like you?

  • @flybeetle27 no, i wound up here by watching i think scrubs clips, saw this, and thought it was pretty sad. and, besides, why would i want to "get the girl" as i am a girl?

  • Oh sorry, I couldn't tell that 2Popcorn9000 wasn't a male name.

  • Answer: Alcohol

  • @yay78900 Right on!!

  • I think he's gay. WTF side burns! i'm not watching the rest of this. I'll, take advice of the top rated comment!

  • That really really sounds like porn music...

  • You may not be saying to molest her... but I am.

  • This is the absolute worst advice for dating I've ever heard, worse than first year psych students... there's no substance, no strategy, no pertinence to the actual question... let alone relevance to the masses of people who don't wanna screw someone the instant they see them, who actually want to get to know someone FIRST before actually diving into melodrama and all the risks--pregnancy, STDs, emotional strain, financial wear and tear, family stuff--that go with a sex-inclusive relationship.

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  • I don't take advice from a dude who drinks appletinis...sorry

  • @LeeCDylan J.D. is giving out advice.

  • these are so stupid ideas! jennifer why dont you just open those skinny white legs for guys who cant find girl friends!!?

  • i have a girl i like and she my friend but i get boner some times but she have a bf i thing

  • i have a girl i like and she my friend but i get boner some times

  • What was this bs all about? All they did was go off on a tangent that didn't pertain to topic at hand, only to end the video basically saying "you're fucked, buddy! *insert lame ass, bubbly smiles here*. Very enlightening (sarcasm).

  • friend zone: boner kill 

  • This is totally me. I have lots of female friends but can't get a GF. I know its about attitude and mentality and how I approach it. So I'm aware of that and there's so much I can do. But it does suck. I guess I don't get "aggressive" to scare them off, but apparently it doesn't make a difference. While I agree with them, but what about not interested in her but after awhile you start to have feelings, but by then you're in the zone.

  • @rowsdower12 this is why this video sucks for 99% of ppl.Face it, most girls have to warm up to guys... despite many men acting like they are "the shit" and gorgeous to all that see them, very few will win a female's attraction based on his looks/ "charm." Most guys frankly just don't have that mythical quality, and the ones that other guys think DO have it are arrogant and insecure to smart-enough-to-date-date (not just have sex w/) women!what works=be absent for a while:make her miss you!

  • @122172639 Thanks! I'm trying to continually learn about stuff. Of course keep confidence, but its hard when you've never had positive feedback. I agree with you, its bogus, but I'm learning to to believe everything they say and watch out for games. Also I'm trying not to be as naive' about the whole thing. Its a process. Takes time.

  • @tknight19 No actualy it probably means you're rushing it, or that she's new to sex...

  • this is stupid!!! it did not answe the question they just repeated what we already knew fuck off you stupid worthless pieces of shit, you should not even have this show!!!!

    if you want to come out of the friend zone evertime you are laughing with her or him or are having a great time look them in the eyes and if the satre back with out saying a word the feel the same way if they dont even notice you keep looking a him or her they dont like you like that :/ ..

  • @tknight19 ur a fucking incest piece of shit ey?

  • There is no possible way to escape the Friend Zone its like Alcatraz....only 2 people got out but they had to go through freezing water and go under the Golden Gate Bridge in the middle of the night. Once your in....your in

  • @tknight19 lolwut?

  • What if she tells me that am a close friend to her do I still have a chance to date her?

  • Oh..I want to molest her alright!!

  • just because you stand next to a woman and have 2 coctail glasses in front of you and 2 candels, that doesn't make youre crappy advices better...

  • ironically this guy seems a bit gay. 

  • i have bunch of friends that are girls and the only reosan they are friends with me is because i dated them all before

  • lol wow as soon as you meet a girl just say "hi id like to fuck you"

  • @manonfire215 12 y/o should shut the fuck up okay?

  • if you are already in the friend zone, your advice will just make it awkward and not work at all

  • Escalate kino.

  • This advice is crap

  • This is stupid.. it's okay to be friends with a girl and then ask her out.. actually it's better this way.. I've been friends with my boyfriend for a few years before he asked me to be with him ..lol.. the point is you should know more about her before you ask her out.. getting to know her well will only help you in making her your girlfriend... unless of course she never wanted to be that.

  • Just be straight forward..."Yo girl you tryin' to hump?"

  • Y r they dissing Friendship, Friends r forever girls are not(usually)

  • This video is as stupid as the comments... They basically took popular advice about how to attract a girl in the FIRST PLACE and then just added it here...

    The comments are POSSIBLY worse...

    But anyway, next time your girl "friend" comes over, have a stupid ridiculous porn movie at the ready, put it on so you can "make fun of it" with her. Nothing disgusting... Or any porn movie with bad acting to "laugh at"... Either way by talking and viewing sex together, you connect on that level...

  • @SpyWhoLovedHimself

    You need to suggest it because it's "funny" though, because as a "just friend" she doesn't see you in that way, so just straight up suggesting it might seem weird/creepy to her.

    She will probably be a bit like, uhm, uncomfortable at first but she will relax really quickly, that's when you can begin to connect with her in that way, you can keep putting them on and it will turn her on after a while...

    But bear in mind girls get hornier over emotional sex scenes not WAM BAM!

  • @SpyWhoLovedHimself

    When she's totally comfortable watching it with you, you can start to talk about her sexuality, but it has to be playful because, yeah, as a "just friend" it might seem a bit strange, so the humour makes it seem natural and non-creepy, or you can just be very subtle... Use something in the video perhaps to say something about and then you can include her in some way... Up to you how you do it...

    Dunno where everyone is getting their "advice" but I do that all the time :)

  • @SpyWhoLovedHimself

    Read it from my first comment up, at least that's how it's laid out on my screen :s

  • this guy is a real pussy

  • Ha, I'll tell you how escape the friendzone.

    1. Watch the first few scenes of the film "Just Friends"

    2.Take influence on what Ryan Reynold's character did with his life after his "just friend"....other than him going back to her.

    3. Focus on yourself and your future.

    4 Learn that there is enough women and men in the world to love.

    5. They come and they go.

    6. The pussy and the dick isn't going nowhere lol

  • @igotthejuicereturns lmao @ #6

  • those two are so awkward together

  • whats in ur glass ??? i want some

  • @23dacapo apple martiny xD

  • i tried this on several girls and they all said i look like a mouse and walked away...

  • 1:49

    Okwerd moment..

  • thanks guys this explains alot for me

  • these two fucked DIRECTLY after this. they were just eyeing each other during the entire thing

  • they probaly both fcked after the show

  • Wait... You said NOT to molest her? o.O OH, SHIT!

  • @wassup986 lol weeaakk

  • how to get out of the friend zone you ask? well alls it takes is one pick up line. "does this smell like chlorophourm?"

  • Horrible advice.

    Even after you give intention and they still say "friends"

    then what...

  • @HandyMan101 they jusst arent interested

  • @HandyMan101 well then youre fucked move on and DITCH the BITCH

  • @HandyMan101 then you slap her in the face

  • @HandyMan101 better luck next time, buddy.

  • @HandyMan101 they dont like you!!

  • @HandyMan101 quick advice bro i been in that position a few times before i didnt know what to do about it, but really man bessst thing to do you gotta change your whole attitude towards it man when your hanging out with her, she is there for you you are the center of attention bro, you gota be kind of a dick cause she see a more confident side of you that you probably didnt show "hince the friend zone situation" then after she sees this a few times then make your intentions clearer. good luck!

  • @HandyMan101

    Then you never had a chance in the first place.

  • If you "need" to tell someone you are interested in them sexually and not as "just friends," I'm afraid it's all over before you even get to first base! So, basically, you tell them you want to f them through your eyes. Yep, it's that easy! If you look obviously at their boobs (or crotch) every now and again and make sure you stare deeply into their mouth and tongue and swim in the pools of their eyes and stroke their neck and ear lobes with the batting of your eyes you need not say anything.

  • GOOD

  • I say you have too be best freinds with a girl with little friends then it will get better make sure the looner is ugly but too much or peaple will think your desprite

  • FUCK THE GIRL ! MOVE ON !

    TREAT HER LIKE A PIECE OF MEAT !

  • If you ask me to bungee jump off the Eiffel tower, that's fine.

    Ask me to run 3 miles in my underwear in public places, that's fine too.

    But if you ask me to tell a girl how I really feel about her, I collapse. It has happened before. You are risking multiple years of friendship for feelings and it is a total pain in the ass. After being rejected twice I will NEVER do it again

  • @foreverguga Ohmg ikr bro... :x we shud talk bout this shit bro sounds like me.

  • let me tell you 3 steps how to get out of the friend zone

    1. one punch her dead in the face

    2. call her a skank

    3. ask her out right after you spit a loogie on her

  • I can tell between my gay guy friends and my not gay guy friends I think it is rude to say just because a guys is nice means he is in the gay guy friend zone. I think these two dont have a clue what they are talking about sometimes. Every one is different and I know people that have really Awesome relationships because they went for there guy friend. I have had guy friend tell me how he felt and it hasnt changed anything between us. I had no idea he felt that way and it got me to think. :)

  • Read body language?

    Here's a question: What if you have tremendous trouble with body language and non-verbal social cues? I was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome in first grade and have always had trouble reading people. I've gotten better over the years, but I still don't understand a lot of stuff.

  • @Macgyvercas Oh God, I'm exactly the same, Asperger's and all. This friend zone REALLY bites!

  • what are the signals?

  • such a pair of wankers!

  • 1:49 soooo awkwardd

  • save it bitch u can jump on shadys dick

  • @LALAKERS8 lol i was thinkin of that you read my mind

  • Good points but geeze what an awkward point during this video :/

  • For what age group are these to people addressing? When the girl opens the door to her "lady parts" you'd better walk in? What?

  • bullshit...

  • yea but weve been friends since we were little kids

  • THAT SUCKS.

  • no help whatsoever....

  • im stuck in the friend zone with this realy hot chick it freikin sux

  • "I just want a nice caring guy" = bullshit. "why can't I find a guy who will make me feel care for/loved" = female observation fail, ladies we "nice guys" are all around you. we are the "friend" the "nice guy" at work. the guy who holds doors open for you, swears around his friends, but watches his language around you, the guy who actually respects you and your ideas. the neighbor guy who helps out around the house or fixes your car for nothing. know that guy? yeah, your nice guy, walking away.

  • @CPenha It's not -that- simple. This is why you haven't figured it out yet.

    Girls want a nice chase. YES, they want a caring guy but they want a fun, flirty one too. If you're always friendly and cheesy and give her everything she wants right off the bat, then you're a doormat. You're boring. A brother.

    You have to tease her a bit and make her 'work' for you. Yes, it's a lame game to play but there's no true fun in getting a great prize with ease.

  • @georgebarns Hmmm, I like the cut of your jibe. Could work.

  • The Friend Zone is like a fukin tornado: Its big, it sucks and it destroys people's lives.

  • how to escape friend zone =

    murder her family , rape her , move on

  • i know im liike 2 years too late but im 14 and not really in the sexual way like intercource but i really like this girl and i think most of the girls i have liked or like have found me too much of a freind and they say im going to be gay :\

  • rape her?

  • @casanoval33t  LOL

  • FEMALE FRIENDS ARE EASY TO CONVERT INTO GIRLFRIENDS. LOVE THE FRIEND ZONE. BUT THEN AGAIN I AM A GOOD LOOKING GUY WITH CHARISMA. PERHAPS THE ONLY REASON YOU CANNOT GET OUT OF THIS "FRIEND ZONE" IS BECAUSE YOU LACK CHEMISTRY AND SELF BELIEF. NO ONE SHOULD BE AFRAID OF BEING FRIENDS WITH A PROSPECT FUTURE GIRLFRIEND. FRANKLY IT CAN GIVE YOU THE EDGE JUST DON'T BE A COMPLETE PUSSY AROUND HER. ..I FEEL I HAVE NEED TO EDUCATE SO MANY ILL INFORMED PEOPLE ABOUT THIS SUBJECT.

  • @DRFrank82 Amen! I agree 100% The friend zone is a blessing in disguise...if you now what you are doing. To bad most guys don't.

  • @DRFrank82 You don't understand what your talking about as soon as a girl thinks of you as her guy friend its over. You just saying some bullshit because you fucked a few whores from you looks. Most average or a little above average looking guys get stuck in the friend zone for life. I just think girls are too hard to understand you can't be too nice but you can't be to mean. I'm 20 right now but if I don't get a girlfriend by the time I'm 30 I'm raping a hot bitch.

  • I'm stuck in that zone right now. I don't want to say we shouldn't be friends. Just in case things go wrong. I'm lost at this point.

  • 17, never had gf.

  • @johann12345johann

    18, never kissed a girl. However, I just got into college... I'm going to go crazy and get as many chicks as possible.

  • @Drymarro dude i hAVE a gf now :))))

  • has anyone else realized they always have colorful drinks?

  • And when they think your gay... They feel comfortable around you, then BANG pregnant, BANG pregnant, BANG pregnant....a new generation!

  • Get out of the friend zone by taking her to the bone zone.

  • @DWillyification Yeah, well said. Although I have no personal interest in doing so, a guy still has to make that clear what he wants. The friend zone, the intimate zone, or the bone zone. It saves a lot of hassle and complications.

  • @DWillyification YAY YAY!

  • @DWillyification Haha..you got it right buddy.

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  • OMG...I hope you guys are proud of yourselves...

  • ok what i you were freinds for three years but when u frist met she was wantin to be more than friends but u didnt know tht u are freinds you are starting to realize you want to be more then friends how do u fix tht ???

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  • How about how to get back with her if you were once dating/ or interested in dating her but then you fell into the friend zone and you want to get out of the friend zone to date her again?

    I had a girl who was really interested in me and I was inexperienced on having a relationship and i ended up making mistakes like complimenting her too much, she then said it was best that we be friends, and i stupidly accepted, How do I get her interested in me again?

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  • Is he gay ?

  • yes very smart move do not malest her good advice

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  • I AGREE, just whip it out and let her see it, when she sees it just put it back in and say, oops sorry my fly was undone, and wink