I can respect this video and I think it's really valuable for young ladies who get into the Sugar daddy/baby lifestyle looking for "love". It's understood from the start that he's expected to pay for certain aspects of my life and I share my body/time spent with him. Its simple he has something I want and I have something he wants. Im self assured and I have self worth. This is just how I choose to date. Some women date for free but I don't.
Who dat coughing in the background?lol I know so many guys and women who have this relationship and they accept it for what it is. They are OK with it..because they both want the intimacy and really the women who accept this relationship,they want the intimacy and the financial support as well. They do not want to get married so this is the relationship they want. Younger women telling me that they are tired of the young wannbe thugs, it's stability, romance & support is what they want.
So basically she's telling women who date men for the sole purpose of getting money to just be real? I agree it is what it is if your doing that then your selling yourself plain and simple
I wanted to clarify it so noone git it twisted. I was not calling you dumb. Actually you seemed rather intelligent. I just don't agree with some of your premise. No one condoned rape but if you taking money from someone thier is always strings.
Helping is one thing. Sugardaddy is different. You help by loaning money but then you expect to be repaid. Sugarbaby is a job were sex is a part of the requirements. Secretary is expected to type. I'm not expanding this to cover all situations. Women know when a man wants more than just to help. If your are not planning on giving money back don't take it.
Shay its like you're talkin to me directly. Im 29 yo and there is this man he's 55.. HE BEGGED ME TO ACCEPT HIS HELP AND HIS MONEY. I finally accpeted. i thought he wanted to help me and he needed company cause he has no wife no kids. Til last friday i had pity for him i told him we will go eat but i cancelled. he got EXTREMELY mad and ORDERED me that i had to go eat with him the day after. i told him no got plans. he talked to me as if i had no choice to obey him. i told him bye.
Divine what do you believe the role and duties of a sugarbaby are? A man is not gonna just give a woman anything without expecting something in return. And what do men want mire than anything. Sex. Have you ever seen any ugly sugarbabies? No. You have to be lying or dumb to believe men are just will to give up there hard earn money cause he like your company.
It is tricking even if you got it.
Not intent as a shot a divine. You present an intelligent argument. I half agree with you
@brently1437 Like I said his expectations are his responsibility not hers. Sugar daddy is a name for men who are legal pimps take your pimping ass on the street where you belong and find women who chose to prostitute.
Since when does helping another human being equal someone having expectations of sex. GTFO with that. These men are preying on vulnerable women who need help, in most cases. You don't have to go over board helping someone we are all human and need help sometime.
Respond to this video...By the way I peeped you calling me dumb and a liar then saying I present an intelligent argument and your not taking shots at me...*side eye*
Devine is missing it. Even rapist don't condone rape. Sugar daddy gets sex or any action from the girl when he wants. That's how it works. He who pays rules. Or she gets kicked to the curb
@brently1437 I have no clue where your going with the statement "rapist don't condone rape" makes absolutely no sense
I WILL SAY IT AGAIN NO MAN HAS ANY RIGHT TO EXPECT ANYTHING FROM A WOMAN...indirectly condoning this behavior is telling men this is acceptable we have to be careful of the messages we send
I will not condone mistreatment, violence, or evil against another human being...I don't care how much the world has changed we all know right from wrong.
We really have to dump all these rules and use our good darn common sense. sheesh I have never heard of anything so crazy in my life..
We have enough pedophiles, rapists etc without you openly broadcasting that a woman who takes a man's gifts should expect that he is expecting something you are condoning RAPE and women being pressured into sex as if accepting gifts is taboo...
@Devine5188 but the sad fact is that the world has changed from what it used to be years ago and ofcourse it doesnt go for most but the majority nowadays doesnt give anything without expecting something in return. She is just telling girls to be careful cuz not everybody grew up in a good family environment and got this basic common sense passes over to them from parents or siblings. its sad but true.
Wait how is a woman supposed to know what "he expects"? Nobody should expect anything from anybody he should be honest upfront and tell her what he expects so she can stay or move on...This is why so many rapes and sexual abuse occur in society because people openly support this mess.
NO MAN HAS ANY RIGHT TO EXPECT ANYTHING I DON'T CARE IF HE SPENDS 10,000 A NIGHT ON A WOMAN HIS EXPECTATIONS ARE HIS NOT HERS and he needs to take responsibility for them if he got played.
@Devine5188 this is true but not reality. a bank doesnt expect to be robbed and yet they need to get security because it is a possibility. thats just what she is saying. be careful
@ElegantlyBrown There are a lot of naive women out there. I was one of them very sheltered going from mom's house to a husband and when I divorced the husband I eventually started dating...
These men would pay for every date and then get mad when I did not put out...I would genuinely try to get to know these guys thinking they were nice they were NOT...
There is no difference between a man who rapes a woman and a man who expects sex from a woman.
@Devine5188 Girl you are right ...and i do agree with u fully but its always better to be safe than sorry so that you can prevent hurt than feel sorry after, its stupid that men have to be that way but nowadays people are acting in all kinds of crazy ways. Indeed a man has no right to expect anything and yet it doesnt stop him from doing so.
I know someone who was with a guy for his money for 17yrs. She paid for it with her time. He nevered married her and when he passed away she got nothing. She said the money was good but at the end of the day it wasn't worth it.
I can respect this video and I think it's really valuable for young ladies who get into the Sugar daddy/baby lifestyle looking for "love". It's understood from the start that he's expected to pay for certain aspects of my life and I share my body/time spent with him. Its simple he has something I want and I have something he wants. Im self assured and I have self worth. This is just how I choose to date. Some women date for free but I don't.
Beauticrush1 2 months ago
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i just watched hell's kitchen season 3 and is julia your sister? she has same features as you and williams name. omg u girls have passion u share!
julijakeit 3 months ago
i just watched hell's kitchen season 3 and is julia your sister? she has save features and williams name. omg u girls have passion u share!
julijakeit 3 months ago
you look real prety with your hair like that. nice video
thelivingpoet 3 months ago
If a bytch is gonna be with a guy just for money, she's just a Ho ...pure and simple ...one small step up from a common street walkin Ho. Sorry~
brgzz 3 months ago
Nice lips
MrBmt84 3 months ago
Who dat coughing in the background?lol I know so many guys and women who have this relationship and they accept it for what it is. They are OK with it..because they both want the intimacy and really the women who accept this relationship,they want the intimacy and the financial support as well. They do not want to get married so this is the relationship they want. Younger women telling me that they are tired of the young wannbe thugs, it's stability, romance & support is what they want.
Superfoot 3 months ago
So basically she's telling women who date men for the sole purpose of getting money to just be real? I agree it is what it is if your doing that then your selling yourself plain and simple
morriscode44 3 months ago
I wanted to clarify it so noone git it twisted. I was not calling you dumb. Actually you seemed rather intelligent. I just don't agree with some of your premise. No one condoned rape but if you taking money from someone thier is always strings.
brently1437 3 months ago
Helping is one thing. Sugardaddy is different. You help by loaning money but then you expect to be repaid. Sugarbaby is a job were sex is a part of the requirements. Secretary is expected to type. I'm not expanding this to cover all situations. Women know when a man wants more than just to help. If your are not planning on giving money back don't take it.
brently1437 3 months ago
Lets see what shay is up to... Oh look she straightened her hair! Hi shay!
cfG21 3 months ago
Shay its like you're talkin to me directly. Im 29 yo and there is this man he's 55.. HE BEGGED ME TO ACCEPT HIS HELP AND HIS MONEY. I finally accpeted. i thought he wanted to help me and he needed company cause he has no wife no kids. Til last friday i had pity for him i told him we will go eat but i cancelled. he got EXTREMELY mad and ORDERED me that i had to go eat with him the day after. i told him no got plans. he talked to me as if i had no choice to obey him. i told him bye.
SweeetPrincessa 3 months ago
Divine what do you believe the role and duties of a sugarbaby are? A man is not gonna just give a woman anything without expecting something in return. And what do men want mire than anything. Sex. Have you ever seen any ugly sugarbabies? No. You have to be lying or dumb to believe men are just will to give up there hard earn money cause he like your company.
It is tricking even if you got it.
Not intent as a shot a divine. You present an intelligent argument. I half agree with you
brently1437 3 months ago
@brently1437 Like I said his expectations are his responsibility not hers. Sugar daddy is a name for men who are legal pimps take your pimping ass on the street where you belong and find women who chose to prostitute.
Since when does helping another human being equal someone having expectations of sex. GTFO with that. These men are preying on vulnerable women who need help, in most cases. You don't have to go over board helping someone we are all human and need help sometime.
Devine5188 3 months ago
Respond to this video...By the way I peeped you calling me dumb and a liar then saying I present an intelligent argument and your not taking shots at me...*side eye*
Devine5188 3 months ago
We are living in a society where people are condoning the most ludicrous things because it is becoming the norm
I will never codone evil, violence, or mistreatment against another human being I don't want that karma on my soul
Devine5188 3 months ago
Devine is missing it. Even rapist don't condone rape. Sugar daddy gets sex or any action from the girl when he wants. That's how it works. He who pays rules. Or she gets kicked to the curb
brently1437 3 months ago
@brently1437 I have no clue where your going with the statement "rapist don't condone rape" makes absolutely no sense
I WILL SAY IT AGAIN NO MAN HAS ANY RIGHT TO EXPECT ANYTHING FROM A WOMAN...indirectly condoning this behavior is telling men this is acceptable we have to be careful of the messages we send
I will not condone mistreatment, violence, or evil against another human being...I don't care how much the world has changed we all know right from wrong.
Devine5188 3 months ago
i agree with you but i also agree with Devine5188.
cherubicnerd 3 months ago
Tell it Shay.☺
happydimples39 3 months ago
We really have to dump all these rules and use our good darn common sense. sheesh I have never heard of anything so crazy in my life..
We have enough pedophiles, rapists etc without you openly broadcasting that a woman who takes a man's gifts should expect that he is expecting something you are condoning RAPE and women being pressured into sex as if accepting gifts is taboo...
Devine5188 3 months ago 2
@Devine5188 but the sad fact is that the world has changed from what it used to be years ago and ofcourse it doesnt go for most but the majority nowadays doesnt give anything without expecting something in return. She is just telling girls to be careful cuz not everybody grew up in a good family environment and got this basic common sense passes over to them from parents or siblings. its sad but true.
ElegantlyBrown 3 months ago
Wait how is a woman supposed to know what "he expects"? Nobody should expect anything from anybody he should be honest upfront and tell her what he expects so she can stay or move on...This is why so many rapes and sexual abuse occur in society because people openly support this mess.
NO MAN HAS ANY RIGHT TO EXPECT ANYTHING I DON'T CARE IF HE SPENDS 10,000 A NIGHT ON A WOMAN HIS EXPECTATIONS ARE HIS NOT HERS and he needs to take responsibility for them if he got played.
Devine5188 3 months ago
@Devine5188 this is true but not reality. a bank doesnt expect to be robbed and yet they need to get security because it is a possibility. thats just what she is saying. be careful
ElegantlyBrown 3 months ago
@ElegantlyBrown There are a lot of naive women out there. I was one of them very sheltered going from mom's house to a husband and when I divorced the husband I eventually started dating...
These men would pay for every date and then get mad when I did not put out...I would genuinely try to get to know these guys thinking they were nice they were NOT...
There is no difference between a man who rapes a woman and a man who expects sex from a woman.
A man has NO RIGHT to expect anything
Devine5188 3 months ago
@Devine5188 Girl you are right ...and i do agree with u fully but its always better to be safe than sorry so that you can prevent hurt than feel sorry after, its stupid that men have to be that way but nowadays people are acting in all kinds of crazy ways. Indeed a man has no right to expect anything and yet it doesnt stop him from doing so.
ElegantlyBrown 3 months ago
@ElegantlyBrown Which is why people need to stand up and stop this mess as opposed to indirectly condoning it.
Devine5188 3 months ago
I love your features, your a beautiful woman and I love what your saying.
FredSolomon 3 months ago
I know someone who was with a guy for his money for 17yrs. She paid for it with her time. He nevered married her and when he passed away she got nothing. She said the money was good but at the end of the day it wasn't worth it.
MultiFreebutterfly 3 months ago
love your videos and you , u help us all "Divas" learn and grow, thanks so much ..truly adore ur advise ;)
prettypink2100 3 months ago
This falls under two categories:
1. The guys going to buy you a few thing, because you’re easy to hit. He’ll keep buying you stuff until he gets bored with you.
2. This guy is trying to buy your love, and could after while become obsessive, and a stalker if you’re playing with his emotions.
Also missed you shay, glad to see you're back
Mrbaltimore2001 3 months ago