20 years ago when i looked, dressed and acted "femme", no man believed me when i said i was a lesbian. these days, i dress more "butch", not because i'm butch, but simply because it's more comfortable. the dynamics with black men are astounding. when i wore a weave, i couldn't keep them off me. now that my hair is closely cropped and natural, they avoid me like the plague. i'm lovin' it.
I'm always shocked when people are shocked with non butch lesbians - who do they think the butches are dating, other butches ?? ignorance is a sad thing.
20 years ago when i looked, dressed and acted "femme", no man believed me when i said i was a lesbian. these days, i dress more "butch", not because i'm butch, but simply because it's more comfortable. the dynamics with black men are astounding. when i wore a weave, i couldn't keep them off me. now that my hair is closely cropped and natural, they avoid me like the plague. i'm lovin' it.
lindadee1000 7 months ago
go ahead sista! judi gives me so much comfort evrytime i watch this video
marccusrefour 1 year ago
"It makes a man uncomfortable when you're confiedent in who you are"...wise words <3
OMGLadyC10 1 year ago 3
I'm always shocked when people are shocked with non butch lesbians - who do they think the butches are dating, other butches ?? ignorance is a sad thing.
lword1970 1 year ago 2
It's about time we see some lesbian femmes!!!
I'm one, and I cannot stand dudes still tryig to pick up on me once I NOT interested in them...I get that problem from black men, NOT white men....
FriGGinFOOtBalleR 4 years ago 10
SHUT THEM DOWN. I know what you mean. Y do people see lesbian ass a woman in mens clothing. That just show the ignorance in this society.
MOMO7582 4 years ago 9
..but always been able to SHUT EM DOWN!!!
freshbillionaire 4 years ago 8
: )
makeyourowndamnpie 4 years ago 5
You go girl
denise804 4 years ago 6
lol wat
llod206 4 years ago