"Our" 10 Rules - Relationships and Marriage

[danilovestrong]

You two are such a great couple! Love that you two are sharing the secrets to your success with others who desire to have the same thing that you two share. LOVE IT! I am doing the same thing just in regards to loving authentically. I will check out more of your videos. This is the first that I have seen and I REALLY enjoyed it! :)

[keniaty]

couple is cute, I love your hair very natural

[OutspokenShy]

Go 'head Mrs. James!!! Hubby is a handsome man. You guys make a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE.

[mcbrideinc]

TWO GROWN PEOPLE IN A GROWN ASS RELATIONSHIP!!!

[winiver77]

hahaha 'out scream their partner' haha!!! so funny!! and 'eye contact' .... very true though!

[StrecthMark160]

LOVE THE BLOOPERS :)

[MissDundada93]

Awww

[MyDimpledSmile]

Love! Love! Love!

[MariposaMorena1908]

Awww, I love you guys! I have been married for 11 years and still found some great nuggets in this video that I can use. I smiled all up and through the video just watching you guys interact with each other. :-) I pray to the Lord that you will have an even more successful and loving marriage! Thanks!

[TheYogina]

Thanks for the advice and keeping it real with your relationship. Me and my husband need to try some of this.

[la9777]

I like what you said to me, you had me in tears, love it, thank you.

[EbunnyEthereal]

yall are too cute!!! :)

i was kinda coveting your husband a bit, not even gonna lie, lol. he looks like a model--but with a love for cookies that cannot be denied. (still a compliment, lol)

[aliciajamesmusic]

@EbunnyEthereal LOL!!! HA HAAAA! That's my baby! Yes, he has actually lost over 20lbs now, and has a channel with his weight loss journey!:)

[EbonyEthereal]

@aliciajamesmusic (now tht i'm done making a new account thnx to GOOGLE... >:/ ahem)

i saw, i saw! *claps* but don't let that one get too cut, now. he'll be hurting ppl's feelings lookin like that. ^_^ i would say that u're a lucky woman, but u're equally beautiful so i guess luck didn't have much to do with it.

i wish u many more blessings to come, & here's hoping i can be just as fortunate when i get married one day<3

[aliciajamesmusic]

@EbonyEthereal LOL!!!!! I knooooooow, he's already getting out of hand!!! Thank you sooooo much! :)

[Brynne87]

@EbunnyEthereal I, too, was thinking to myself, "Where can I find a man with a smile like that?" LOL. Very nice-looking couple :-)

[Larjo15]

I really like this "couple's concept" on marriage and relationships. The two of you seem to mesh well together as a great example for this format.... keep it going and thanks for sharing your 10 Rules. Although, it doesn't apply to me (I was married 16 yrs and divorced 14 years, then re-acquainted with my ex-husband the last 2 1/2 years of his life--- I cared for him along with our kids before he died). So, know that your suggestions will help to keep a relationship going.

[BUandWonderful]

you are so pretty i love your hair !!!!!

[BUandWonderful]

you are so pretty i love your hair !!!!!!!

[maximuslyricus]

I'm so impressed with how much forethought and discipline u two seem to apply in your relationship! Wow!

[jessyboo133]

What do you guys think about young relationships??? You have a few young viewers. We want to know:) lol

[georgewillis19]

@jessyboo133 i agree

[Soul4eva1]

opps i forgot to add my facebook page: Nusaiba Yassin Abbas

[aliciajamesmusic]

@Soul4eva1 Yes!!! Check out meetup group Nappy Love Houston! :)

[Soul4eva1]

well am in Houston as well! (Katy, TX)...so hopefully, i get to meet some other naturals around the city. do you know any natural-social group i can connect with in Houston? thanks...and you can find me on Facebook as well...I am an advocate for universal human rights, including my people of Darfur, Sudan.

[LaVida1977]

You 2 are adorable! lol

[Kinkycurlycoil]

OMg my subbies want my husband to do this....:) and since u guys did it I thinks it's a great idea!! Those are the tools that "we" try to use LOL!! oh and tell the hubby it's ok I'll sub lol

[Soul4eva1]

Great music....! love your hair! r u in Houston, TX? and where can someone purchase your music? you got my support sista....from me, and the rest of my community!

[aliciajamesmusic]

@Soul4eva1 Thank You! Yes, I am in Houston! You can find my music at my site, it's in the description box! Thanks again! :)

[TABULOUS1]

The husband seems very detail-oriented/genuinely communicative/relationship wise.

[lizzard9233]

I'm 20, and yet to be in a real serious relationship. But these are great tips to keep in mind.

[dee281109]

I absolutely love the sincerity in these videos, you guys don't know what a great thing this is that you are doing! Thank you! Keep um coming!

[gt7923a]

Y'all are so smart and cute, lol. Plus it looks like y'all have a lot of fun together.

[MsMissrere]

The five love languages is a great book to read. We had to read it for our pre-marital class. It was very informative and we learned a lot about each other and how to better communicate. :)

[dayshaewc1]

I really appreciate the don't ask do don't tell I have a tendacy to TELL my fiancee what I want him to do so I will try this..pls keep this going b/c I am 22 and engaged the advice y'all a giving I try to prct it, the shouting war that's me all day

[1babytee1]

I loooooovvvveee u guys!!!!!

[nicholepat71]

You guys are so cute together. Love is work and you all take it seriously. I'm liking the don't tell ask, but there are some things that are just mandatory. For example, if your partner does something serious that could jeopardize the relationship (i.e. falls into a bad habit like drinking too much). You could ask him or her to get help but really they have no choice for you to stay. I look forward to future videos. It's nice to get a man's opinion too, so yeah Alicia for recruiting Kelly.

[jareya]

All I can say is thank you so much for sharing!! I'm learning a lot from you both. You are beautiful, large-hearted, giving people. God bless.

[jerzgirl79]

Ooh girl ur right about bringing out those juicy bits! LmBo! But awesome tips guys...thanks :)

[atruesoutherngal]

I love these vids. Keep 'em coming :-)

[bpwarren128]

Beautiful, you guys are a great match. God Bless.

[belinda2921]

Love it!

[MegaGemini89]

ur hair is so beautiful! aaah! n i love ur voice.

[KandieeCurls]

I ASKED my partner to watch this with me (of course after I watched it by myself) and we really like the tip about looking each other in the eye and holding hands while arguing. I believe that can be helpful in diffusing a situation. We are definitely going to use that technique in the future. Thanks so much. You guys are adorable and teaching people so much!

[onyxbeauty1988]

Great video and I just bought your album! Love it :))

[aliciajamesmusic]

@onyxbeauty1988 Thank Yoooouuu! :)

[MrTweety713]

Ask don't tell is a great one! I love you guys :)

[lavie212]

you guys are awesome

[crazydivaliciouschic]

He said 'Tyrone' again looooooooooool

[aliciajamesmusic]

@crazydivaliciouschic riiiight! I told him. LOL!

[xiuemiko]

Great tips

[braun3treasures]

Wow..nice "rules", will borrow some of those, thanks for sharing and looking forward to part2..!.

[MsPoundDropper]

I need the other five NOW!!!!! Good video! I use the "How do you feel about this or that" tactic it WORKS!

[ladytzcd]

Wonderful couple keep God in your marriage. Married 23 years. You guys are on the right track love it.

[NaturalMzHazelIz]

Great information!! I am not married but I have been in relationships that I have done ALL OF THE OP OPPOSITES of what y'all are saying. Y'all seem so happy so maybe your rules are worth giving a shot. Good video!

[prettycarmencurls]

You guys are such a beautiful couple,

Thanks so much for sharing