@jayjayjay000027 man your just a fucking little kid whos mad when he gets turned down by black girls lol "iv tired to date them" what do you expect them to do? i love girls who stand their group they ant robots you messed around with them they let you know not to fuck around, whats wrong with that? it take two to be in relationship
I'm black and I some what agree w/you.. I dont have that "attitude" thing going on but.. I have black female friends that are always mad about something ughh it gets old real fast.. So I kinda get it.. lol..
racist? pls have a seat...and all the women you describe such as halle berry do not have Negro features..they have european features ...and i find some of your comments to come off a bit racist..
@PrinceDreLance LOL for real. that is why i dont really value white opinions on this topic because they will never understand. he named those women who are all light skinned and all have mixed heritage. bleh!
All the "black women " you named are all mixed meaning bi racial. Mariah Carey mixed with curly to hair, Beyonce is Creole with curly hair. Halle Berry's mother is white Rihanna is light skinned with Hazel eyes. Which basically proved Jay's point these are black women with Caucasian feautures. He's not saying that black women are unattractive he's saying black women who are considered attractive usually have to fit America's standard of beauty which is European features.
@jayjayjay000027 lol you said attitude.not all black women have an attitude probably.every woman on my dad side very quiet and timid softies and to themself like me.and my mom side is boistrous and kind of attitudish.so not all black women are the same.like white women ive met some rowdy whit women but i met some calm and cool ones too.so every women is different.so try not to base off of one black girl you dated or the ones youve been around.
I stopped watching this BS when he said bw act like they're full of themselves. It's FACT that ww are the WORST when it comes to being conceited and operating w/a sense of entitlement. White ppl in general are extremely cocky, but ww are just crazy with it when it comes to thinking they are the sh*t.
You couldn't be far from the truth, man. I'm white and I've dated many white girls with bad attitudes...but I can see it on an individual level and not a race level. I think you're feeding into the stereotype. Most white girls are bitchy for NO reason but I've noticed people look past it? Thats an attitude problem, dude. If a black woman gets mad 99 percent of the time she deserves to. Most black women I've met were actually some of the sweetest women ever. Get out more. Turn off the tv.
I believe you should judge women of all color according to there environment that usually determines there personalities I just soo happen to be a black women with one of the kindest hearts ever and the sweetest personalities; the way you addressed this topic can be a little hurtful to some black women not saying your a bad person but rewording some things you said would be a little more respectable. your a very attractive man im sure many nice respectable black women would agree :)
lol Mariah Carey, Halle Berry i think you have said all we need to know, both of these women are mixed race not black but i guess as i white person you just see them as black. So the features you find attractive are diluted and it's clear that white people have problem appreciating beauty that is not white. I am black and can appreciate all the different types of beauty that exist in people of other races whites have serious problem and can not do that very well.
ITS HIS PREFERENCE OKAY HE IS NOT THE ONLY WHITE GUY IN THE WORLD AND SO GET OVER IT AND IF YOU LET THIS GUY OPINION GET TO YOU AS A BLACK WOMAN YOU HAVE SELF HATING ISSUES AND YOU HAVE VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM...GOODNIGHT
Black women have alot of issues. Many of us dont grow up with our fathers and are told that we are undesirable. The standard of beauty that all of us have to live up to is a white woman thats a size 2. Black women will never be white and most of us are not a size 2. And sad to say the more educated a black woman gets the harder of a time she has to find a black mate. They do have some but they want to be with a non-black woman, so that's what alot of the attitude comes from.
Alot of times when white men say they are attracted to black women they always name these people, but that's ok if that's what he likes. Having a preference is not being racist. As far as that most black women have attitudes comment, unfortunately I do agree. I grew up in predominately white enviroments. I did notice the difference in attitude. I also noticed that white people were more financially stable, didnt come from broken homes, and had to deal with all kinds of crap like black women do.
You are freakin hot! My goodness. But I agree, I agree big time. Most black women have really bad attitude. This vid isn't racist don't worry. Thumbed this vid up and sending u a friend request.
i find it really irritating that on TV they mostly show half light skinned long haired black women people for ex:music videos(always light skinned girls,no dark skinned girl in sight),reality TV shows,magazines.
I mean every time i turn on the TV!!!!!its never all African American,its always half this half that I'm so sick of it,i wish they would show more dark skinned girls on TV,i mean come on now you cant lie majority of people on TV are WHITE and if its a black women their all half
Many people are angry at your video but I sorta agree with you. There are a lot of black women who have bad attitudes. This is coming from a black woman. It is not easy to fully describe, but it is uncomfortable to be around. BUT I also must add that there are others, like me, who don't have the bad attitude problem.
When it comes to interracial dating there are a lot of black men who date outside their race because of skin color. BUT there are a lot of them who do it for preference too.
I have to say that every woman you mentioned in the video are either mixed or have had a nose job. As far as the attitude goes maybe that stems from the fact that we are not seen on every magazine, news paper, tv show, video, etc. Go to your local Walmart and show me a little black doll with black hair. What do you think that's like? I think your opening statement was very correct and that you really "don't think" or haven't actually thought about what he was saying AT ALL!
i complitely disagree withou jay , you are cute by the way but, the blacks you mentioned were all light skin you need to spice it up, and second of all ,please wome HAVE atitude , no matter what the race, so dont gang up on black women and get soft at whie women, besided ,girls gone wild is full of white girls so what are you talking about? and bad girls club,we all have our ups and downs, the world is not full of roses so dont say what you just said.
Mariah and Halle are Mulatto. Rihanna and Beyonce may have white in them but they arent half, they are more black than anything so that makes them black and halle identifies as black. I doubt angelina is 100percent white yet no one says shes not white she must be part native or somethin else to have her features. People just refuse to give credit to black beauty which is why they point out other blood in beautiful black women even when they are more black than anything.
uhhh. rihanna, beyonce,halle berry what do these girls have in common......light skin, silky straight hair,and white features .... and btw Mariah Carey??? she is the whitest black person ive ever seen as well as Halle berry who is half black,but ur right these are beautiful black women.but y is the dark skin woman (alot of times) looked at as unnattractive or not as beautiful as a lighter toned woman. i think all skin tones are beautiful i just wish everyone else would.
Why do people always say Rihanna has white features? She has one of the widest noses of any famous black female, high cheekbones and bigger forehead which are all african features. Yes green eyes but thats about all thats "white". I find it odd that every light skin black person people say have white features even when they have full negroid features but darker black women can have so called "euro" features but no one says they look white.
@middy444 THIS half breed middy444 acts as if she looks more white then the average bi-racial she looks no better then rihanna n they both have just about the same features middy444 acts as if shes sum how better becuz her father is white she really wants to be a white girl n always defends white people n they dnt give a FUCK ABOUT HER she acts as if she has white features her n rihanna features r just about the same so she really needs to gro up n get of the house negro ban wagon shes no better
Sorry but you dont know what your talking about. You touch on some things but thats it........... you touched on them. And I like how you mention a few light skin females lol "that you find attractive" not all black women have attitudes and if they do its becuase of personal issues not their race. Americana loves to lump people in groups and pass it off as " its there race" I live in a state that only 3% of the state is black or non white and I see the same attitudes here.
All the women you mentioned, while they are considered black, are light-skinned, mixed-raced women with more European features. Name a darker-skinned black woman who is considered "universally attractive." Also, have you ever stopped and wondered why you never see any dark, black women as love interests on t..v.? Secondly, there are a lot of white and lighter-skinned Latinas who have the same "attitude." It's just considered "fiery" and part of their culture.
first and for most i dont think either of them are racist..jaylove or jayjayjay...
secondly i have to agree with jayjayjay that it might be the attitude that some black females give off..and its giving the rest of us a bad name...BUT as a dark skinned female... i do feel like alot of men would take the ugly light skin girl over mee...and im not uglyy lol check the pic and i carry myself respectably..im just sayin that jaylove does have a valid point aswell..
JayLove is a moron who thinks like a woman. If you listen to what he says, he's basically repeated a lot of the emotional rants that black women have. There is very little logic in his arguments. I suspect he is somewhat racist.
Btw, like others just mentioned, the black women you mentioned are mixed or don't look so black, in my opinion. Mariah Carey looks white anyway. You should have mentioned women like Gabrielle Union, Taral Hicks, Kimberly Elise, Anika Noni Rose, etc.
And it was hurtful, when you said our attitudes is why black guys are going to white women. It might be true for some. In my opinion, the ones I hear and know, go with them, b/c they think "lighter is better" =/
I see what you're saying but I wouldn't say that I agree with you. You say that you that many black women ( from your experience) have a bad attitude, but it's the opposite for me. I've met more friendlier ones than mean ones. I guess it just depends on where you're from and who you're around. But you just can't single out Black women for having bad attitudes. I've met plenty of white females like this too.
Maybe some of the LOUDEST ones do, but louder although it sounds like more isn't always the majority.
Ever think you were trying to date the wrong girls?
Talk to the shy girl, or the girl who seems shy compared to the girl with the bad attitude, read body language. And approach her correctly. If you walk up to a girl trying to date her/pick her up and you ALREADY have this idea of what she's most likely going to be like, don't think people don't pick up on those sort of things.
OMG people calm the fuck down. I'm black and I get what the fuck he's trying to say. Let people express their opinions without being criticized for the shit. And don't get me wrong I see where everyone else is coming from with feeling that it's racist, but let this person speak their mind. There are other videos we could be getting pissed off at. :)
The Black women you just named are all light skinned with some european features, unfortunately; that's how most White American and American society can only see Black women as beautiful. The attitude stereotype is getting old and unfair. Most Black women are the most caring, embracing, loyal individuals on this earth when u get to know them. Plus, if you knew the history of Black Women in America you probably would have some attitude too. LOL.
@lakeside321 White supremecy? Really? Please tell me your joking? Every person controls their own life. Light skinned blacks? Are you saying they aren't the same as 'normal' blacks? Isn't that a little racist? Hmm..just pointing out that apparently if you aren't dark you are not the same? Doesn't sound right to me. I'm sick of people whining about their lives. Don't like it? Fix it! To steal a quote from Aida: "You are the master of your own fate there are no shackels on you."
@MichiHough Do you jnow what white supremecy is? I don't think you do,and as far as everyone controlls there own life ?Your foolish to a degree,we have control to an extent.tell that crap to the people of iraq who were IVADED that they controll there own lives! SHUT UP!
HEY I AM A BLACK WOMAN MAY I ADD FINE TOOOOOOOOOOOOO.........AND I THINK THAT U ANSWER OR RESPOND TO THAT OTHER VIDEO VERY WELL TO THE BEST OF UR KNOWLEDGE........MAY I ADD UR NOT THAT BAD LOOKIN UR KIND OF CUTE..............BUT I MUST SAY THAT NOWADAYS MOST PEOPLE HAVE BAD ATTITUDE NO MATTER WUT COLOR.........THIS RECESSION IS A BIT!@#$%LMFAO
and also im not steryotipcal like you but just an example why is it fine when lets say a girl who is blond acts obnoxious and stuck on their self and is loud, and those girls are found annoying but still dateable and cute and stuff. but if its lets say a black girl who acts that way she is seen as moody and loud and gross and ghetto and obnoxious. honestly people act the way they are brought up or from what town they come from not from their skin color. thats the point i wanted to get across:P
well im peruvian, puerto rican, dominican (which is part black), hawaiian, and italian and my dad is dark skinned from oxford london my mum how ever is blond i came out mexican/black/fillopino looking and i HATE when guys say "your white washed" cause i dont act ghetto like they may expect based on my race. people usually act like people they are surrounded by not cause their skin tone im from a beach town in cali so i act more cali like
Both Mariah Carey and Halle Berry are HALF WHITE. If you saw Beyonce with her ACTUAL HAIR, that grew out of her SCALP, you wouldn't like her- so please.
I don't think Jaylove said that black features are ugly, he posed the question why are black features (wide nose, thick lips, curves and butt) considered unattractive. I think you should visit a few black women blogs. Issues like this are being discussed. If you have West African features, you're considered ugly and non-human. Case in point, Arocrombie and Fitch either didn't hire or put black workers in the back because they did not fit their image...c'mon now.
Mariah carey, Halle berry, Beyonce, You've picked out all the typical Attractive "Black" Women when people describe attractiveness. European nose, light skin, man Mariah she's more white than black pick somebody proper African...
jayjay- you made an idiotic statement. you said that black women basically have a bad attitudes. GTFO! first off how many black women have you meet? you see when you generalize a whole population based on only a few individuals that youv encountered it doesnt accurately potray that entire poupulation. for example. ill estimate you only truly know 3 black women. who are you to judge millions of people based on three people? its idiotic.
@illyas1 You are idiotic to judge me by saying I know or have came across 3 black women! I'll have you know, that I went to a school that was 80% black. I worked at a theme park that was predominately black. Idiotic? No, just an opinion. After all.. there is no separate heaven, right?
@jayjayjay000027 ok so you meet a few black people. you certainly havent meet the majority as this is immposible. have you been to africa? the islands? my point is that you should start judging people individually instead of catogorizing an entire color. besides women in general are bitches. and wats this about heaven
@jayjayjay000027 I see what you mean but don't put everything on the attitude. Don't close your eyes on discrimination problems. For a long time, black women have been facing double discrimination in western societies, not only because they are black but also because they are women. I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with their features, unfortunately many have been rejected after many castings, not because of their features but surely because of their ethnic background.
@jayjayjay000027 Anyway it is your view, it might not be wrong, you might be partally right but I think you have to extend it a bit more, and don't you think that the white elite also shoul change their attitude?
I like your video man. You are so right about black girls. Their attitude is just terrible. And it's so unwarranted considering most of them are don't even look good. They wonder why no one wants them. Black men don't even like black women!
I seen the video you was speaking of and you got the message wrong. He did not say that he found black women unattractive. He said that when other racist have features such as wider hips, fuller lips, big butt are consider attractive, but when a bw have these features these features are not. Im so tire of people saying that bw have have such bad attitude when there are so many other racist of women can act like a total bitch.
@lovelylana19 That's an excuse blk women are survivors and most blk men date blk women.Most blk men you see dating white women are doing so for survival reasons ,white or nonblk women will pay for the penis,but these women make them weak.i know blk dudes who dated nonblacks most of them used them,and as far as athletes many of them get more money to do so.Whenever i see most blk men with white women they either let go of their hand infront of me or put their head down.Two different spirits.
However, JayJay Rhianna is the only woman you listed with black features and are fully black, even though Mariah and Halle Berry are black they are biracial and don't have the "African black" features Jaylove47 was explaining. Women like Sanaa Lathan, Meagan Good, Jada Pinkett Smith and Gabrielle Union are Black Beauty with African black features.
I agree with you, I believe white men are intimidated by Black women it's not that they consider them unattractive because of our African facial features like wide noses and thick lips. Black women are stereotyped as having really bad attitudes and unfriendly.
You are wrong. Maria, Rhianna and Halle are very fair-skinned women. You have proved his point. part of a racist /value system is the standard of beauty. Asian,Indian and African women spend millions on Bleaching creams as a result of a colonized value system. In Latin America darker skinned people are discriminated against. even in modeling. 500,000 mulatto slaves at the end of Civil War proves white men wanted Black women but not on a pedestal.
I find it hilarious that u think that by saying "most" black women instead of all black women somehow excludes you from being racist. Having negative feelings about the majority of a group of people is the very fabric of racism. I find it hilarious that you consider Mariah Carey and Halle Berry black when they are actually HALF WHITE meaning they don't have the typical black features. Beyonce and Rihanna don't have the typical black features either, which is probably why u find them attractive.
@middy444 Ok captain irrelevent I dont see how this relates to my comment, but i'll respond anyway. The term 'the white man' or 'the man' refers to someone in a position of power (who happens to be white) its not referring to ALL white ppl just the handful who happen to hold all the power in this world. Talking shit about someone in a position of power is something all races do not just black ppl. I dont even know what your going on about, judging from ur channel u look part black yourself...
Part of the reasons that many black women have this 'attitude' has to do with discrimination & socioeconomic marginalization. this 'attitude' issue can be seen in very poor white women & Hispanic women as well; not to forget the self-destructive behaviours of marginalized men: hillbilly heroin, crack, alcohol, violence & criminality. Middle class educated women of all races are seldom aggressive & hostile. The cycle of poverty & exclusion causes 'attitude' problems across 'racial' lines.
You really feel that way ..we as black women have terrible attitudes try going to an institution where there are many all of black women we all dont have bad attitudes you been around the wrong black girls :P i know alot of nice black girls i wish society wud give us a chance to really prove that we can be nice and humble aswell ..but media advertise only black women with terrible attitudes ...XD
um...wow.i found this video to be really interesting.i understand that u are giving ur opinion but i still dont think that it is fair for u to say that most black women have a bad attitude.i could understand if u said some...also i really don think that u really understand Jay's video...no offense but i dont think u ever really could understand this issue bcuz u are on the outside looking in...
um...wow.i found this video to be really interesting.i understand that u are giving ur opinion but i still dont think that it is fair for u to say that most black women have a bad attitude.i could understand if u said some...also i really don think that u really understand Jay's video...no offense but i dont think u ever really could understand this issue bcuz u are on the outside looking in...
See he didnt mention that you said rihanna as well in the response video. So his arguement is kind of flawed. Sorry you had black luck with black women. :-) My attitude is lovely LOL
I completely agree with you. I think black women are very attractive but the attitude is too much for me. I wonder if black women outside the united states have the bad attitude?
@Chani14922 You are yet to go where I am. Successful black men do not want you. I am married and crossed six figures some time ago. 70% of you are single for good reason.
@enyawix Who cares where you are?I am younger than you,the sky is the limit for me.I WILL be better than you,thats a known fact.Also since when are you the spokes person for black men?How do you know my capabilities,my personality,who is attracted to me and who is not?You are one black man out of millions.I dont care if you are married and crossed six figures.Anyone can say anything on youtube,this is the internet people can be who they wish to be and cover up who they really are.
@enyawix Also I choose to date within my ethnicity,not at it.You black american men and women can eat each other alive,with this white women preference crap,and bashing on your own beautiful black men and women.Within My ethnicity (I am west indian) most of us are married,so I really could care less.Im not trying to separate myself but at the end of the day I wont be a part of that statistic,so you can keep talking sir.
@enyawix I know a lot of bitchy white women . Yes, means white women with BAD attitudes. And many white women exhibit a lot of passive agressive behavior. Thats even worse.
Alot of blk wm that seem/are high strung is bcuz of this struggle. U have 2 b in our shoes. I mean if u see the role reversal of head of household; Ur women get 2 b princesses & sit on that ass. We r Mom, Dad, psychologist etc... 4 ungrateful men. & when we r submissive 2 our men that just screams come shit on me as alot of them don't really know their roles. If we know our place & act as such were just setting ourselves up 4 the bullshit. So we wear the mask. reach out you'll b surprised.
Yes I feel Black Women have to be strong. I read some of these and I like y'all so far the most, you can't make someone truly understand. so thumbs ups
Also, not a good call, kid. In today's society, any white person who critics a non-white issue is automatically labeled a racist, hate-monger, KKK by the mass media and people alike.
I know it's stupid, but the funny thing whites are the minority and our race will be extinct due to race mixing and low birth rates.
Are you speaking about black african american women or black women in general, a statment like 'most of them do' is pretty loaded. Have you traveled to Europe or Africa to observe the attitude of these black women? I dont disagree with what you are saying you just have not quantified what has been said
I think the message in Jaylove's video is this "TV-Media" crazed frenzy about european beauty and how european beauty is defined. Also, for the record, Mariah Carey and Halle Berry are biracial, (one black parent/ one white parent).
I can also tell you this, I work side by side with some of the nasty-est caucasian women on the planet. Most of whom have biracial kids with black men, maybe their upset about being a single parent, who knows, but I can certainly see why the men left them.
i agree with you. that guy is COMPLETELY ignorant. a lot of black women do have insecurity issues. they always complain about how all the "white girls are taking their men" and random crap. i think hat guy JAYLOVE47 is racist too. my famiy is just like that, always complaining about being black, and i think they need to get over it
You have no idea how wrong you are, I am a black woman and I try to date white men and it has not been easy at all, I remember this one time I was sitting down relaxing at the time I was at the city and this white guy said where is all the good looking girls, that sort of hurt. What I am trying to say is white men perfer to date black women with exoctic features like Halle Berry, or Beyounce' and these women so happen to be mixed with an other race.
@queen6852 Looking to date anyone based on race is just silly. It is a tricky thing. Btw Beyonce is just light, not multiracial. Don't let those comments hurt you, because honey, thats just men. While not limiting yourself is beautiful, specifically hunting for a white guy or asian guy and so on...is even more absurd. Just be beautiful and that man will come regardless of his race.
Attitude? Stuck on ourselves? White females aren't?
I went to a school that's predominately white (in the suburbs mind you) and a lot of them had bad attitudes from the girls taking the bus from their trailer park to the girls riding in the new car their daddy gave them from whatever nonsense occasion they can think of and most mind you MOST acted the same way. They looked down on people they didnt have what they have not the high rates of suicide WITHIN the white community compared to any other
-continued- because of things like bullying and being put down. Yet you can sit here and indirectly tell me that they have better attitudes than black women somehow. We may not be as submissive as a lot of men would hope but a lot of black women won't put any one down for being a certain way, where they came from, or anything materialistic like that. I'm just curious entirely on what specific attitude characteristic you're talking about that make black women so bad from say any other ethnicity
@ohsofargone I know plenty of others who are stuck on themselves too. Asian women can have high and mighty attitudes but are protrayed as submissive and humble...bull. White women definately can be that way and Latin(especially black people faking latin) can be completely absurd in how they view themselves. The fact that someone can sit here and say black women have attitudes and everyone else acts better..is more than proof.
@sang133 BET is an awful network that only shows stereotypes of blacks. It has become worse since it was sold and is now white owned. I guess they think its what we want to see. I would rather just see a wider variety of races in all television, not in a segregated networking system like what is out there now. Blackbuster movies and The Game? Entertainment? Please...
Mariah Carey is mostly white and Halle Berry is part white even though she does look more black.
Anyway you can't generalize the majority or as you said 'most' of black women based on your experience. If I spoke about my experiences with white men or white people as a whole it wouldn't be positive at all but I think outside of my own experiences and realize that white people come from all over the world.
with that being said black woman having the worst attitudes is the BIGGEST LIE TOLD IN society to say that majority is a BIG LIE whenever you see a black woman with bad behavior you will completely ignore the other hard worker humble ones in society it like they are invisible where as when a white woman has bad behavior she ignored or its understood she going through a bad girl phase which is complete bullsh!t.
Black Woman attitude to me are not worst society has perceived them to have bad attitudes so I notice that people who believe this garbage approach black woman in a way that would make any person upset, a person body language says a lot so if you feel a certain way about a group a people your vibe aura whatever reads that just as white people can tell a mile a way when they are dealing with a black person who are not receptive to them it shows.
"that's why most black men are dating white women because they have better atittudes." this is a very very hurtfull comment, especially comming from you. I think you are throwing salt in our wounds. You can not understand the problems we face in society everyday. This is such a touchy subject, I think you need to do some soul searching before you start pointing the finger at us.
that these are to different races of people. Things will effect them differently. You have to stand back and look at the whole picture, and ask yourself, why are these two groups of women so different? Do they come from different envirements, does one have it more easier than the other? Am I judging these women fairly? I honestly don't think that you are being fair.
Ok son let me break this down for you. Some of the comments you made in this video are just plain harsh! I have met more stuck up, mean raciest white women and men than all black women combined. Before you go around saying that black women have atittudes and white women don't, you have to understand ,,,,,
we don't all have attitudes but I have one now with you saying that I have dated white men in the past and many men like me and I am nice I get tired of hearing that shit
No one seems to pay attention to the "attitudes" of other races. White women, asian and especially latin women can and are just as bitchy as black women are made to be. I really wish there were more positive images of us in television. BET is the worst network for it. I'm biracial so its hard catching Hell from both sides.
@Khaostenshi Thank you.. I respect that comment..... I was just stating what I though.. But thank you though.. Im not being a smart ass either... i mean it.
@jayjayjay000027 Failure to focus on your own lackof knowledge causes to come up with these generalizations. Because most serialkillers are white men does not make all white men psycho.
@VirgoAtHeartDenara I have never been given a pass due to lighter skin and "Good Hair". Thats ridiculous. Infact I get negativity from both sides from ignorant assumptions on how I carry myself. People think I have the idea that I am better just because I have lighter skin. These things are ridiculous and show true racism and it comes from every racial community, not just blacks or whites. Where the devil are people getting these stupid notions?
Why can't ppl grow up! I'm a women and I'm mixed with black and white and I can tell u all woman can be bitchy sometimes!
connie8893 2 days ago
the women you named are alllllllllllll lighter skinned women..close to the color you are...interesting.
deejea08 1 month ago
@jayjayjay000027 man your just a fucking little kid whos mad when he gets turned down by black girls lol "iv tired to date them" what do you expect them to do? i love girls who stand their group they ant robots you messed around with them they let you know not to fuck around, whats wrong with that? it take two to be in relationship
abdi1983 2 months ago
OMG WHY DID HE MAKE THIS? URGH URGH URGH
MariamTalks 3 months ago
I'm black and I some what agree w/you.. I dont have that "attitude" thing going on but.. I have black female friends that are always mad about something ughh it gets old real fast.. So I kinda get it.. lol..
TheKEMeleon 3 months ago
@jayjayjay000027 I'd date you :) You're a cutie!
bloopmooples 4 months ago
racist? pls have a seat...and all the women you describe such as halle berry do not have Negro features..they have european features ...and i find some of your comments to come off a bit racist..
brwright06 4 months ago
@brwright06 i agreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
deejea08 1 month ago
lol he named all light skin females
PrinceDreLance 6 months ago 2
@PrinceDreLance LOL for real. that is why i dont really value white opinions on this topic because they will never understand. he named those women who are all light skinned and all have mixed heritage. bleh!
Xaymaicana 4 months ago
@Xaymaicana dang i didn't even remember i did a comment on this video idk wht ya talkin about lol but yea those female all are biracials
PrinceDreLance 4 months ago
Mariah Carey is black?
xxxhendrixjoe555xxx 6 months ago
This is a stupid video. Why is a feminine white man thinking about black women? *facepalm*
AirForceGirl05 6 months ago
Wow..really? You fail for racism and stereotyping.
KatarraParson 6 months ago
All the "black women " you named are all mixed meaning bi racial. Mariah Carey mixed with curly to hair, Beyonce is Creole with curly hair. Halle Berry's mother is white Rihanna is light skinned with Hazel eyes. Which basically proved Jay's point these are black women with Caucasian feautures. He's not saying that black women are unattractive he's saying black women who are considered attractive usually have to fit America's standard of beauty which is European features.
calibeauty1222 6 months ago 3
@calibeauty1222 TOTALLY AGREE he would never name a dark skinned pure african women becuz he kno's PURE AFRICANS R UGLY
115manutd 3 weeks ago
@jayjayjay000027 lol you said attitude.not all black women have an attitude probably.every woman on my dad side very quiet and timid softies and to themself like me.and my mom side is boistrous and kind of attitudish.so not all black women are the same.like white women ive met some rowdy whit women but i met some calm and cool ones too.so every women is different.so try not to base off of one black girl you dated or the ones youve been around.
br33anoia4321 7 months ago
I stopped watching this BS when he said bw act like they're full of themselves. It's FACT that ww are the WORST when it comes to being conceited and operating w/a sense of entitlement. White ppl in general are extremely cocky, but ww are just crazy with it when it comes to thinking they are the sh*t.
plprz 7 months ago
Im black and i can actually get a black dude because i have no attitude
Pretttgirl2 8 months ago
I LIKE U BRO AND UR CORRECT!
togair9 8 months ago
@VisionimagifyTV he's very cool....he has a black girlfriend
shandiraprice 8 months ago
@VisionimagifyTV he's very cool....he has a black girlfriend
shandiraprice 8 months ago
lol I THOUGHT THIS WAS FUNNY.
subway108 8 months ago
You couldn't be far from the truth, man. I'm white and I've dated many white girls with bad attitudes...but I can see it on an individual level and not a race level. I think you're feeding into the stereotype. Most white girls are bitchy for NO reason but I've noticed people look past it? Thats an attitude problem, dude. If a black woman gets mad 99 percent of the time she deserves to. Most black women I've met were actually some of the sweetest women ever. Get out more. Turn off the tv.
runxz1 8 months ago 8
mariah carey is not even black lol
SkaterPunkie 9 months ago
I believe you should judge women of all color according to there environment that usually determines there personalities I just soo happen to be a black women with one of the kindest hearts ever and the sweetest personalities; the way you addressed this topic can be a little hurtful to some black women not saying your a bad person but rewording some things you said would be a little more respectable. your a very attractive man im sure many nice respectable black women would agree :)
SHAD0W3NDiNGx3 9 months ago
@jayjayjay000027 is she ACTUALLY fully black or mixed race like all the women you mentioned?
dlfunky1 9 months ago
This is soooo funny ! All the ladies he named have a mixed heritage, Mariah Carey???! LOL
proppanuts 9 months ago
lol Mariah Carey, Halle Berry i think you have said all we need to know, both of these women are mixed race not black but i guess as i white person you just see them as black. So the features you find attractive are diluted and it's clear that white people have problem appreciating beauty that is not white. I am black and can appreciate all the different types of beauty that exist in people of other races whites have serious problem and can not do that very well.
Ms123Jen 9 months ago
You're cute, by the way ;)
middy444 9 months ago
@HappyHookerTV racist prick.
middy444 9 months ago
ITS HIS PREFERENCE OKAY HE IS NOT THE ONLY WHITE GUY IN THE WORLD AND SO GET OVER IT AND IF YOU LET THIS GUY OPINION GET TO YOU AS A BLACK WOMAN YOU HAVE SELF HATING ISSUES AND YOU HAVE VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM...GOODNIGHT
yummytv101 10 months ago
This video is still up? I thought by now it would of been taken down.
dontsugarcoatit4me 11 months ago
Black women have alot of issues. Many of us dont grow up with our fathers and are told that we are undesirable. The standard of beauty that all of us have to live up to is a white woman thats a size 2. Black women will never be white and most of us are not a size 2. And sad to say the more educated a black woman gets the harder of a time she has to find a black mate. They do have some but they want to be with a non-black woman, so that's what alot of the attitude comes from.
misstoxicshock 11 months ago
Alot of times when white men say they are attracted to black women they always name these people, but that's ok if that's what he likes. Having a preference is not being racist. As far as that most black women have attitudes comment, unfortunately I do agree. I grew up in predominately white enviroments. I did notice the difference in attitude. I also noticed that white people were more financially stable, didnt come from broken homes, and had to deal with all kinds of crap like black women do.
misstoxicshock 11 months ago
oh and this is coming from a black woman by the way.
GhanianDoll 11 months ago
You are freakin hot! My goodness. But I agree, I agree big time. Most black women have really bad attitude. This vid isn't racist don't worry. Thumbed this vid up and sending u a friend request.
GhanianDoll 11 months ago 3
Halle berry is not fully black and her feautures are more white features so your confused lol
rachie1able 11 months ago
is maryah carey black? she looks white to me..
seledne 1 year ago
when you was like you probably not that good looking anyway i was like no you sexy lol u r
weirdbookwrom 1 year ago
@jayjayjay000027 jay, having an AA girlfriend does not mean you cannot be a racist.
zelda75231 1 year ago 3
i find it really irritating that on TV they mostly show half light skinned long haired black women people for ex:music videos(always light skinned girls,no dark skinned girl in sight),reality TV shows,magazines.
I mean every time i turn on the TV!!!!!its never all African American,its always half this half that I'm so sick of it,i wish they would show more dark skinned girls on TV,i mean come on now you cant lie majority of people on TV are WHITE and if its a black women their all half
princess8967 1 year ago
Many people are angry at your video but I sorta agree with you. There are a lot of black women who have bad attitudes. This is coming from a black woman. It is not easy to fully describe, but it is uncomfortable to be around. BUT I also must add that there are others, like me, who don't have the bad attitude problem.
When it comes to interracial dating there are a lot of black men who date outside their race because of skin color. BUT there are a lot of them who do it for preference too.
jujay91 1 year ago
I have to say that every woman you mentioned in the video are either mixed or have had a nose job. As far as the attitude goes maybe that stems from the fact that we are not seen on every magazine, news paper, tv show, video, etc. Go to your local Walmart and show me a little black doll with black hair. What do you think that's like? I think your opening statement was very correct and that you really "don't think" or haven't actually thought about what he was saying AT ALL!
Fantabalous25 1 year ago
checkout dark skin beauties on youtube
nyadanielle10 1 year ago
i complitely disagree withou jay , you are cute by the way but, the blacks you mentioned were all light skin you need to spice it up, and second of all ,please wome HAVE atitude , no matter what the race, so dont gang up on black women and get soft at whie women, besided ,girls gone wild is full of white girls so what are you talking about? and bad girls club,we all have our ups and downs, the world is not full of roses so dont say what you just said.
TheRoyaldiamond 1 year ago
None of those women you named are black....They're mixed....They're part of the Mulatto race.
cleberinthearea 1 year ago
@cleberinthearea
Mariah and Halle are Mulatto. Rihanna and Beyonce may have white in them but they arent half, they are more black than anything so that makes them black and halle identifies as black. I doubt angelina is 100percent white yet no one says shes not white she must be part native or somethin else to have her features. People just refuse to give credit to black beauty which is why they point out other blood in beautiful black women even when they are more black than anything.
Jem6879 1 year ago
uhhh. rihanna, beyonce,halle berry what do these girls have in common......light skin, silky straight hair,and white features .... and btw Mariah Carey??? she is the whitest black person ive ever seen as well as Halle berry who is half black,but ur right these are beautiful black women.but y is the dark skin woman (alot of times) looked at as unnattractive or not as beautiful as a lighter toned woman. i think all skin tones are beautiful i just wish everyone else would.
Tahreya 1 year ago 2
@Tahreya i totally agree!!
princess8967 1 year ago
@Tahreya
Why do people always say Rihanna has white features? She has one of the widest noses of any famous black female, high cheekbones and bigger forehead which are all african features. Yes green eyes but thats about all thats "white". I find it odd that every light skin black person people say have white features even when they have full negroid features but darker black women can have so called "euro" features but no one says they look white.
Jem6879 1 year ago
@Tahreya Rihanna, white features? Have you seen her nose and lips?
middy444 9 months ago
@middy444 THIS half breed middy444 acts as if she looks more white then the average bi-racial she looks no better then rihanna n they both have just about the same features middy444 acts as if shes sum how better becuz her father is white she really wants to be a white girl n always defends white people n they dnt give a FUCK ABOUT HER she acts as if she has white features her n rihanna features r just about the same so she really needs to gro up n get of the house negro ban wagon shes no better
115manutd 3 weeks ago
ur 2 cute
TheLucius1080 1 year ago
Sorry but you dont know what your talking about. You touch on some things but thats it........... you touched on them. And I like how you mention a few light skin females lol "that you find attractive" not all black women have attitudes and if they do its becuase of personal issues not their race. Americana loves to lump people in groups and pass it off as " its there race" I live in a state that only 3% of the state is black or non white and I see the same attitudes here.
ikickknowledge 1 year ago
All the women you mentioned, while they are considered black, are light-skinned, mixed-raced women with more European features. Name a darker-skinned black woman who is considered "universally attractive." Also, have you ever stopped and wondered why you never see any dark, black women as love interests on t..v.? Secondly, there are a lot of white and lighter-skinned Latinas who have the same "attitude." It's just considered "fiery" and part of their culture.
blktrekie29 1 year ago 2
hmmm...i dont know where to start
first and for most i dont think either of them are racist..jaylove or jayjayjay...
secondly i have to agree with jayjayjay that it might be the attitude that some black females give off..and its giving the rest of us a bad name...BUT as a dark skinned female... i do feel like alot of men would take the ugly light skin girl over mee...and im not uglyy lol check the pic and i carry myself respectably..im just sayin that jaylove does have a valid point aswell..
breazybaby 1 year ago 3
JayLove is a moron who thinks like a woman. If you listen to what he says, he's basically repeated a lot of the emotional rants that black women have. There is very little logic in his arguments. I suspect he is somewhat racist.
MrShaneVicious 1 year ago
Btw, like others just mentioned, the black women you mentioned are mixed or don't look so black, in my opinion. Mariah Carey looks white anyway. You should have mentioned women like Gabrielle Union, Taral Hicks, Kimberly Elise, Anika Noni Rose, etc.
And it was hurtful, when you said our attitudes is why black guys are going to white women. It might be true for some. In my opinion, the ones I hear and know, go with them, b/c they think "lighter is better" =/
loveshinae 1 year ago 5
I see what you're saying but I wouldn't say that I agree with you. You say that you that many black women ( from your experience) have a bad attitude, but it's the opposite for me. I've met more friendlier ones than mean ones. I guess it just depends on where you're from and who you're around. But you just can't single out Black women for having bad attitudes. I've met plenty of white females like this too.
loveshinae 1 year ago
Bull.
Maybe some of the LOUDEST ones do, but louder although it sounds like more isn't always the majority.
Ever think you were trying to date the wrong girls?
Talk to the shy girl, or the girl who seems shy compared to the girl with the bad attitude, read body language. And approach her correctly. If you walk up to a girl trying to date her/pick her up and you ALREADY have this idea of what she's most likely going to be like, don't think people don't pick up on those sort of things.
minisweetie5 1 year ago
@ jayjayjay000027 "Only a fool tests the depth of the water with both feet.”
~ African Proverb quote
Altovise0214 1 year ago
OMG people calm the fuck down. I'm black and I get what the fuck he's trying to say. Let people express their opinions without being criticized for the shit. And don't get me wrong I see where everyone else is coming from with feeling that it's racist, but let this person speak their mind. There are other videos we could be getting pissed off at. :)
chefboyrunner7 1 year ago
The Black women you just named are all light skinned with some european features, unfortunately; that's how most White American and American society can only see Black women as beautiful. The attitude stereotype is getting old and unfair. Most Black women are the most caring, embracing, loyal individuals on this earth when u get to know them. Plus, if you knew the history of Black Women in America you probably would have some attitude too. LOL.
Altovise0214 1 year ago 20
@Altovise0214 SHADAP YOU LIAR!
toyu17 7 months ago
@lakeside321 White supremecy? Really? Please tell me your joking? Every person controls their own life. Light skinned blacks? Are you saying they aren't the same as 'normal' blacks? Isn't that a little racist? Hmm..just pointing out that apparently if you aren't dark you are not the same? Doesn't sound right to me. I'm sick of people whining about their lives. Don't like it? Fix it! To steal a quote from Aida: "You are the master of your own fate there are no shackels on you."
MichiHough 1 year ago
@MichiHough Do you jnow what white supremecy is? I don't think you do,and as far as everyone controlls there own life ?Your foolish to a degree,we have control to an extent.tell that crap to the people of iraq who were IVADED that they controll there own lives! SHUT UP!
lakeside321 1 year ago
HEY I AM A BLACK WOMAN MAY I ADD FINE TOOOOOOOOOOOOO.........AND I THINK THAT U ANSWER OR RESPOND TO THAT OTHER VIDEO VERY WELL TO THE BEST OF UR KNOWLEDGE........MAY I ADD UR NOT THAT BAD LOOKIN UR KIND OF CUTE..............BUT I MUST SAY THAT NOWADAYS MOST PEOPLE HAVE BAD ATTITUDE NO MATTER WUT COLOR.........THIS RECESSION IS A BIT!@#$%LMFAO
anitafrmn 1 year ago
@anitafrmn I agree with you 100%
lakeside321 1 year ago
and also im not steryotipcal like you but just an example why is it fine when lets say a girl who is blond acts obnoxious and stuck on their self and is loud, and those girls are found annoying but still dateable and cute and stuff. but if its lets say a black girl who acts that way she is seen as moody and loud and gross and ghetto and obnoxious. honestly people act the way they are brought up or from what town they come from not from their skin color. thats the point i wanted to get across:P
californiarawrstarr 1 year ago
well im peruvian, puerto rican, dominican (which is part black), hawaiian, and italian and my dad is dark skinned from oxford london my mum how ever is blond i came out mexican/black/fillopino looking and i HATE when guys say "your white washed" cause i dont act ghetto like they may expect based on my race. people usually act like people they are surrounded by not cause their skin tone im from a beach town in cali so i act more cali like
californiarawrstarr 1 year ago
Both Mariah Carey and Halle Berry are HALF WHITE. If you saw Beyonce with her ACTUAL HAIR, that grew out of her SCALP, you wouldn't like her- so please.
ashleyhasOJD 1 year ago
im a blk girl and i agree with you...its difficult lmao jus sayin
neptunecv 1 year ago
I don't think Jaylove said that black features are ugly, he posed the question why are black features (wide nose, thick lips, curves and butt) considered unattractive. I think you should visit a few black women blogs. Issues like this are being discussed. If you have West African features, you're considered ugly and non-human. Case in point, Arocrombie and Fitch either didn't hire or put black workers in the back because they did not fit their image...c'mon now.
Malacyne 1 year ago
@carveasy Sexual and atheistic preferance does not make you a racist, moron.
bojoben 1 year ago
Mariah carey, Halle berry, Beyonce, You've picked out all the typical Attractive "Black" Women when people describe attractiveness. European nose, light skin, man Mariah she's more white than black pick somebody proper African...
xXflava01Xx 1 year ago 5
your retarded!!!
mutantz 1 year ago
u look like a skateboarder
OldaurGold 1 year ago
*insert michael jackson eating popcorn gif *
evileyez504 1 year ago
Oh please. Like I said on Jay's video, it's ENVY & RACISM. Plain and simple.
4105lalala 1 year ago
jayjay- you made an idiotic statement. you said that black women basically have a bad attitudes. GTFO! first off how many black women have you meet? you see when you generalize a whole population based on only a few individuals that youv encountered it doesnt accurately potray that entire poupulation. for example. ill estimate you only truly know 3 black women. who are you to judge millions of people based on three people? its idiotic.
illyas1 1 year ago 6
@illyas1 You are idiotic to judge me by saying I know or have came across 3 black women! I'll have you know, that I went to a school that was 80% black. I worked at a theme park that was predominately black. Idiotic? No, just an opinion. After all.. there is no separate heaven, right?
jayjayjay000027 1 year ago
@jayjayjay000027 ok so you meet a few black people. you certainly havent meet the majority as this is immposible. have you been to africa? the islands? my point is that you should start judging people individually instead of catogorizing an entire color. besides women in general are bitches. and wats this about heaven
illyas1 1 year ago 2
@jayjayjay000027 I see what you mean but don't put everything on the attitude. Don't close your eyes on discrimination problems. For a long time, black women have been facing double discrimination in western societies, not only because they are black but also because they are women. I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with their features, unfortunately many have been rejected after many castings, not because of their features but surely because of their ethnic background.
LaSulamite1 1 year ago 3
@jayjayjay000027 Anyway it is your view, it might not be wrong, you might be partally right but I think you have to extend it a bit more, and don't you think that the white elite also shoul change their attitude?
LaSulamite1 1 year ago
it is attitude/ stereotypes
xmissbonita 1 year ago
I like your video man. You are so right about black girls. Their attitude is just terrible. And it's so unwarranted considering most of them are don't even look good. They wonder why no one wants them. Black men don't even like black women!
MyCarerra911 1 year ago
How would you know what type of attitude a black woman has? I need to know what you are drawing from.
chocol8doll 1 year ago
I seen the video you was speaking of and you got the message wrong. He did not say that he found black women unattractive. He said that when other racist have features such as wider hips, fuller lips, big butt are consider attractive, but when a bw have these features these features are not. Im so tire of people saying that bw have have such bad attitude when there are so many other racist of women can act like a total bitch.
lovelylana19 1 year ago
@lovelylana19 That's an excuse blk women are survivors and most blk men date blk women.Most blk men you see dating white women are doing so for survival reasons ,white or nonblk women will pay for the penis,but these women make them weak.i know blk dudes who dated nonblacks most of them used them,and as far as athletes many of them get more money to do so.Whenever i see most blk men with white women they either let go of their hand infront of me or put their head down.Two different spirits.
lakeside321 1 year ago
Do you not see that the blackwomen you just named are light, bright or half white, which reenforces JAYLOVE47's point?
TheMahoganykiss 1 year ago
Do you not see that the blackwomen you just named are light, bright or half white, which reenforces JAYLOVE47's point?
TheMahoganykiss 1 year ago
However, JayJay Rhianna is the only woman you listed with black features and are fully black, even though Mariah and Halle Berry are black they are biracial and don't have the "African black" features Jaylove47 was explaining. Women like Sanaa Lathan, Meagan Good, Jada Pinkett Smith and Gabrielle Union are Black Beauty with African black features.
resistIT 1 year ago
I agree with you, I believe white men are intimidated by Black women it's not that they consider them unattractive because of our African facial features like wide noses and thick lips. Black women are stereotyped as having really bad attitudes and unfriendly.
resistIT 1 year ago
Mariah Carey is a goodlooking black woman? ha ha. Mariah looks white. her features are white..mixed or not. Americans can be soooo...grrrr
sandsofthedepth 1 year ago 3
WRONG! WRONG! WRONG! WRONG! you don't know how wrong you are.
seabreezeful 1 year ago
you are a real racist arnt you
flowetry1 1 year ago 3
You are wrong. Maria, Rhianna and Halle are very fair-skinned women. You have proved his point. part of a racist /value system is the standard of beauty. Asian,Indian and African women spend millions on Bleaching creams as a result of a colonized value system. In Latin America darker skinned people are discriminated against. even in modeling. 500,000 mulatto slaves at the end of Civil War proves white men wanted Black women but not on a pedestal.
jb6591 1 year ago
I find it hilarious that u think that by saying "most" black women instead of all black women somehow excludes you from being racist. Having negative feelings about the majority of a group of people is the very fabric of racism. I find it hilarious that you consider Mariah Carey and Halle Berry black when they are actually HALF WHITE meaning they don't have the typical black features. Beyonce and Rihanna don't have the typical black features either, which is probably why u find them attractive.
GingerSnap02 1 year ago 19
@GingerSnap02 thta's exactly what I was thinking!! :)
alwayzdayoung1 1 year ago
@GingerSnap02 Rhianna does have the typical black features. Have you seen her wide nose and thick lips? That's a Black Beauty to the high power.
resistIT 1 year ago
@GingerSnap02 and it's funny how a lot of black people talk all kinda shit about 'the white man' and it's not considered racist?
middy444 9 months ago
@middy444 Ok captain irrelevent I dont see how this relates to my comment, but i'll respond anyway. The term 'the white man' or 'the man' refers to someone in a position of power (who happens to be white) its not referring to ALL white ppl just the handful who happen to hold all the power in this world. Talking shit about someone in a position of power is something all races do not just black ppl. I dont even know what your going on about, judging from ur channel u look part black yourself...
GingerSnap02 9 months ago
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GingerSnap02 1 year ago
Part of the reasons that many black women have this 'attitude' has to do with discrimination & socioeconomic marginalization. this 'attitude' issue can be seen in very poor white women & Hispanic women as well; not to forget the self-destructive behaviours of marginalized men: hillbilly heroin, crack, alcohol, violence & criminality. Middle class educated women of all races are seldom aggressive & hostile. The cycle of poverty & exclusion causes 'attitude' problems across 'racial' lines.
8722974 1 year ago 2
You really feel that way ..we as black women have terrible attitudes try going to an institution where there are many all of black women we all dont have bad attitudes you been around the wrong black girls :P i know alot of nice black girls i wish society wud give us a chance to really prove that we can be nice and humble aswell ..but media advertise only black women with terrible attitudes ...XD
CuttClean 1 year ago 3
and its funny how the beatuiful "black women" that u pointed out are mixed...like mariah carey and halle berry..
angeljx33 1 year ago 6
@angeljx33 exactly, i have soo many problems with this video, this is such a prejudice and WRONG thing to say to anyone, are you serious!
Marieeazy 1 year ago
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um...wow.i found this video to be really interesting.i understand that u are giving ur opinion but i still dont think that it is fair for u to say that most black women have a bad attitude.i could understand if u said some...also i really don think that u really understand Jay's video...no offense but i dont think u ever really could understand this issue bcuz u are on the outside looking in...
angeljx33 1 year ago
um...wow.i found this video to be really interesting.i understand that u are giving ur opinion but i still dont think that it is fair for u to say that most black women have a bad attitude.i could understand if u said some...also i really don think that u really understand Jay's video...no offense but i dont think u ever really could understand this issue bcuz u are on the outside looking in...
angeljx33 1 year ago
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angeljx33 1 year ago
See he didnt mention that you said rihanna as well in the response video. So his arguement is kind of flawed. Sorry you had black luck with black women. :-) My attitude is lovely LOL
prettyroyelle 1 year ago
very true
haloskater24 1 year ago
I completely agree with you. I think black women are very attractive but the attitude is too much for me. I wonder if black women outside the united states have the bad attitude?
enyawix 1 year ago
@enyawix be quiet.We dont want you goodbye
Chani14922 1 year ago
@Chani14922 You are yet to go where I am. Successful black men do not want you. I am married and crossed six figures some time ago. 70% of you are single for good reason.
enyawix 1 year ago
@enyawix Who cares where you are?I am younger than you,the sky is the limit for me.I WILL be better than you,thats a known fact.Also since when are you the spokes person for black men?How do you know my capabilities,my personality,who is attracted to me and who is not?You are one black man out of millions.I dont care if you are married and crossed six figures.Anyone can say anything on youtube,this is the internet people can be who they wish to be and cover up who they really are.
Chani14922 1 year ago
@enyawix Also I choose to date within my ethnicity,not at it.You black american men and women can eat each other alive,with this white women preference crap,and bashing on your own beautiful black men and women.Within My ethnicity (I am west indian) most of us are married,so I really could care less.Im not trying to separate myself but at the end of the day I wont be a part of that statistic,so you can keep talking sir.
Chani14922 1 year ago
@enyawix I know a lot of bitchy white women . Yes, means white women with BAD attitudes. And many white women exhibit a lot of passive agressive behavior. Thats even worse.
runxz1 8 months ago
Alot of blk wm that seem/are high strung is bcuz of this struggle. U have 2 b in our shoes. I mean if u see the role reversal of head of household; Ur women get 2 b princesses & sit on that ass. We r Mom, Dad, psychologist etc... 4 ungrateful men. & when we r submissive 2 our men that just screams come shit on me as alot of them don't really know their roles. If we know our place & act as such were just setting ourselves up 4 the bullshit. So we wear the mask. reach out you'll b surprised.
9keykey 1 year ago 4
@9keykey @princess120383
Yes I feel Black Women have to be strong. I read some of these and I like y'all so far the most, you can't make someone truly understand. so thumbs ups
MsSweetheartchick 1 year ago
I totally disagree with you!
MosaicMaiden 1 year ago 27
Also, not a good call, kid. In today's society, any white person who critics a non-white issue is automatically labeled a racist, hate-monger, KKK by the mass media and people alike.
I know it's stupid, but the funny thing whites are the minority and our race will be extinct due to race mixing and low birth rates.
proudeuropeanguy 1 year ago
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Dude, You got 14 dislikes by the Black community.
Don't worry though, you're absolutely right.
proudeuropeanguy 1 year ago
Are you speaking about black african american women or black women in general, a statment like 'most of them do' is pretty loaded. Have you traveled to Europe or Africa to observe the attitude of these black women? I dont disagree with what you are saying you just have not quantified what has been said
hummingbird975 1 year ago
@hummingbird975 Thumbs up!
MosaicMaiden 1 year ago
"white women have better attitudes" is ignorance bliss?
shaysings 1 year ago 6
I think the message in Jaylove's video is this "TV-Media" crazed frenzy about european beauty and how european beauty is defined. Also, for the record, Mariah Carey and Halle Berry are biracial, (one black parent/ one white parent).
I can also tell you this, I work side by side with some of the nasty-est caucasian women on the planet. Most of whom have biracial kids with black men, maybe their upset about being a single parent, who knows, but I can certainly see why the men left them.
Creditgirl2020 1 year ago
OMG JAY JAY YOUR LIKE NAMING ALL THE BLACK WOMEN THAT ARE LIGHT SKIN WITH WHITE FEATURES... SO YOUR RESPONSE TO HIS VIDEO IS STUPID...
UR NOT GETTING THE POINT
iEmoBarbie 1 year ago 5
Wtf is this "many" shit u dont know "many" black women u nitwit. Jaylove is a fool and your a fool as well.
getuga22 1 year ago 2
@dshernic If they are from caucasia...sure
Khaostenshi 1 year ago
i agree with you. that guy is COMPLETELY ignorant. a lot of black women do have insecurity issues. they always complain about how all the "white girls are taking their men" and random crap. i think hat guy JAYLOVE47 is racist too. my famiy is just like that, always complaining about being black, and i think they need to get over it
ItsLehcar 1 year ago
You have no idea how wrong you are, I am a black woman and I try to date white men and it has not been easy at all, I remember this one time I was sitting down relaxing at the time I was at the city and this white guy said where is all the good looking girls, that sort of hurt. What I am trying to say is white men perfer to date black women with exoctic features like Halle Berry, or Beyounce' and these women so happen to be mixed with an other race.
queen6852 1 year ago
@queen6852 Looking to date anyone based on race is just silly. It is a tricky thing. Btw Beyonce is just light, not multiracial. Don't let those comments hurt you, because honey, thats just men. While not limiting yourself is beautiful, specifically hunting for a white guy or asian guy and so on...is even more absurd. Just be beautiful and that man will come regardless of his race.
Khaostenshi 1 year ago
wamp wamp...get a life!!
bb009 1 year ago
ok those r the light skinned wm, what about the darker ones like the brown skinned???
acts238111 1 year ago
Thats true cause Asian women dont have white features and guys Luv Asian women.
Costoffplus 1 year ago
Attitude? Stuck on ourselves? White females aren't?
I went to a school that's predominately white (in the suburbs mind you) and a lot of them had bad attitudes from the girls taking the bus from their trailer park to the girls riding in the new car their daddy gave them from whatever nonsense occasion they can think of and most mind you MOST acted the same way. They looked down on people they didnt have what they have not the high rates of suicide WITHIN the white community compared to any other
ohsofargone 1 year ago
-continued- because of things like bullying and being put down. Yet you can sit here and indirectly tell me that they have better attitudes than black women somehow. We may not be as submissive as a lot of men would hope but a lot of black women won't put any one down for being a certain way, where they came from, or anything materialistic like that. I'm just curious entirely on what specific attitude characteristic you're talking about that make black women so bad from say any other ethnicity
ohsofargone 1 year ago
@ohsofargone I know plenty of others who are stuck on themselves too. Asian women can have high and mighty attitudes but are protrayed as submissive and humble...bull. White women definately can be that way and Latin(especially black people faking latin) can be completely absurd in how they view themselves. The fact that someone can sit here and say black women have attitudes and everyone else acts better..is more than proof.
Khaostenshi 1 year ago
I blame BET :p
sang133 1 year ago
@sang133 BET is an awful network that only shows stereotypes of blacks. It has become worse since it was sold and is now white owned. I guess they think its what we want to see. I would rather just see a wider variety of races in all television, not in a segregated networking system like what is out there now. Blackbuster movies and The Game? Entertainment? Please...
Khaostenshi 1 year ago
@Khaostenshi whatever man i just dont watch that crap ._. no skin off my nose.
sang133 1 year ago
maria carry is not black lol
MidwestBlue1 1 year ago
@MidwestBlue1 Yes she is. lol
Khaostenshi 1 year ago
@Khaostenshi MIXED...... not black lookng at all ._.
sang133 1 year ago
@sang133 ...what? lol
Khaostenshi 1 year ago
@Khaostenshi what are you talking about
sang133 1 year ago
@dshernic jlo and kim wouldnt be considered caucasian i dont think..i mean especially jlo..shes hispanic
whiteduke101 1 year ago
Mariah Carey is mostly white and Halle Berry is part white even though she does look more black.
Anyway you can't generalize the majority or as you said 'most' of black women based on your experience. If I spoke about my experiences with white men or white people as a whole it wouldn't be positive at all but I think outside of my own experiences and realize that white people come from all over the world.
VirgoAtHeartDenara 1 year ago
all the women u said are like 1/2 white or borderline white hehe
cdm0014 1 year ago
with that being said black woman having the worst attitudes is the BIGGEST LIE TOLD IN society to say that majority is a BIG LIE whenever you see a black woman with bad behavior you will completely ignore the other hard worker humble ones in society it like they are invisible where as when a white woman has bad behavior she ignored or its understood she going through a bad girl phase which is complete bullsh!t.
HocusPocusBytch 1 year ago 2
Black Woman attitude to me are not worst society has perceived them to have bad attitudes so I notice that people who believe this garbage approach black woman in a way that would make any person upset, a person body language says a lot so if you feel a certain way about a group a people your vibe aura whatever reads that just as white people can tell a mile a way when they are dealing with a black person who are not receptive to them it shows.
HocusPocusBytch 1 year ago
If you don't like us and feel that we have an atittude, then maybe you should stay away from us. And don't talk about us on YouTube!!!!
dontsugarcoatit4me 1 year ago
@jayjayjay000027
For the record if you think we have an atittude, then maybe you should stay away from us.
dontsugarcoatit4me 1 year ago
@jayjayjay000027
"that's why most black men are dating white women because they have better atittudes." this is a very very hurtfull comment, especially comming from you. I think you are throwing salt in our wounds. You can not understand the problems we face in society everyday. This is such a touchy subject, I think you need to do some soul searching before you start pointing the finger at us.
dontsugarcoatit4me 1 year ago
@dontsugarcoatit4me lol 95% of black men who are married are married to black women.
VirgoAtHeartDenara 1 year ago
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that these are to different races of people. Things will effect them differently. You have to stand back and look at the whole picture, and ask yourself, why are these two groups of women so different? Do they come from different envirements, does one have it more easier than the other? Am I judging these women fairly? I honestly don't think that you are being fair.
dontsugarcoatit4me 1 year ago
Ok son let me break this down for you. Some of the comments you made in this video are just plain harsh! I have met more stuck up, mean raciest white women and men than all black women combined. Before you go around saying that black women have atittudes and white women don't, you have to understand ,,,,,
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dontsugarcoatit4me 1 year ago
we don't all have attitudes but I have one now with you saying that I have dated white men in the past and many men like me and I am nice I get tired of hearing that shit
CerebralMadness 1 year ago
No one seems to pay attention to the "attitudes" of other races. White women, asian and especially latin women can and are just as bitchy as black women are made to be. I really wish there were more positive images of us in television. BET is the worst network for it. I'm biracial so its hard catching Hell from both sides.
Khaostenshi 1 year ago 24
@Khaostenshi Thank you.. I respect that comment..... I was just stating what I though.. But thank you though.. Im not being a smart ass either... i mean it.
jayjayjay000027 1 year ago
@jayjayjay000027 Failure to focus on your own lackof knowledge causes to come up with these generalizations. Because most serialkillers are white men does not make all white men psycho.
jb6591 1 year ago
@Khaostenshi Those women are given a pass because of their lighter skin and so called "good hair".
VirgoAtHeartDenara 1 year ago
@VirgoAtHeartDenara I have never been given a pass due to lighter skin and "Good Hair". Thats ridiculous. Infact I get negativity from both sides from ignorant assumptions on how I carry myself. People think I have the idea that I am better just because I have lighter skin. These things are ridiculous and show true racism and it comes from every racial community, not just blacks or whites. Where the devil are people getting these stupid notions?
Khaostenshi 1 year ago