i see the responses.. she is only talking about what many are doing. He brings up a topic that many people do all the time. Most people grow numb to the same partner and often enhance by thinking of other people. They are only stating what is truth and not what you feel comfortable talking about yourself.
If anything is possible like abraham hicks says - anything, then it would be possible to have your man fantasize about you and you only, if that is what you want, right?
@doutzen177 The want needs to be pure.This want, derived from insecurities & fear, isn't pure. Resistance is inherent in this want; thus more 'evidence of the contrary' would be attracted & more & more until the wound that created this false want is revealed & healed --which is the real want here (to be healed of insecurities and to trust).
A clarion call to those seeking an honest, open and eager relationship! Let's discard worn-out fears, jealousies and insecurities.What if the man said, 'Honey - look at that hot woman!" and his wife answers, "Wow! You're right! She looks like she's in the vortex - let's say HI to her!"
Or what if the wife says "Damn! Look at that sexy guy!" and the husband replies "Wow! You're right honey - I'd like to have sex with him too!" What if humans could deal in honesty, truth eagerness and expansion?
@VortexNexus : Yep...agree. No problems about looking, appreciating and even sharing the visual appreciation of said gorgeous woman.... but a: I want to have that gorgeous woman, do you mind? ???? and b: Wow, I love that shirt your wearing she says to a good looking guy, and husband flips out....? Then what????
It could happen to be a woman asking the same question, we have these same fantasies too, but the thing is that even in a serious relationship men have this necessity to prove their manhood (check documentary "Tough Guise"). Actually I think that is not only his spouse who is insecure, but he's also insecure about himself, trying to have some attention from other women.....
Beautiful. Gotta listen again very carefully. There's truth in Abraham's words and it's very subtle. Law of Attraction applies to everyone and every situation, no exception. The only thing I control is my thought, my vibration. And how I feel indicates whether I'm heading: I feel good, I'm heading dowstream! This applies to thoughts of fantasies as well. I very much appreciate the posting. Much love.
oh oh oh , this is such a keeper. I'm going to send it to people on as a wedding card. I'm not joking.. Ok, Maybe I'll send them the poem from Kabil Gabran as well.
If this man is excessively looking at other women while out with his wife. His wife should not allow his annoying behavior to keep her out of the vortex--she should find a respectful man less interested in feasting his eyes perhaps as a passive aggressive way of hurting his wife's feelings.
@artlovervictoria Keep in mind that many women try their damndest to attract the "feasting" you refer to, including many wives of feasters, whether they admit it or not. Your take on this phenomenom is not very "in the vortex" is it? Like Abraham says "you both gotta get over it".
@gabriel999... BTW, I adore Abraham and Esther, for trying to put into terms we would understand, the incredible vibrations she's receiving. Esther and Jerry swore they would never edit any of the "channelings"... ever... Hence, the discussions we have here, and the hundreds of workshops Abraham-HIcks have... to work out the bugs.
@gabriel999red... I know this one! Because we have the power of the Universe in our hot little hands, and Abraham is giving us baby steps to learn to use this incredible power... ie: weight loss and money... if we can't believe those things will appear via the Law of Attraction... how can we believe we are 100% responsible for and capable of creating every aspect of our lives? .
@gabriel999red I have to admit, co-creating is so tricky... if we just concentrate on our own vibration, staying in the Vortex, we would only attract the best from another... because we are holding only the best of them in our vibration... so something in this man's vibration must be attracting this reaction from her... so the only work, here, is his vibration... as that's the only thing he has control over, anyway... just wish Abraham would have stayed on the man in the hotseat.
@gabriel999red The point I was trying to make was, his wife was not in the hotseat... and Abraham said that SHE should get over it... that he trained that relationship with her... when do we TRAIN another? That's not our job any more than we train our children. I understand not jumping through hoops to make another happy, but you also don't step on their toes, if you can avoid it... fantasize your heart out, just keep it to yourself until your partner's on the same page.
Why can't that momentary appreciation or the energy cultivated as a result be brought home and enjoyed by both hubby & wife? I am female & don't see a problem with the attention. I do agree that the uncomfortable one does have work to do. I'd add the hubby might also have some homework as he should pay attention to his emotional indicators when he's observing a beautiful woman - is it coming from/going to a pure place?
@omooyaobatala - Those are my thoughts as well. Also, how in the heck does this man summon the guts to tell (pretty much) the entire world about his personal question, yet he can't summon the strength to privately discuss the matter with his "significant other." What's up with that? Here I was in the living room with my friends, laughing my butt off with them and his "attempt to sound as professional as possible" regarding something so personal that should be rationally discussed with his wife.
So hurting his wife is being in the Vortex? According to him, it hurts her. I know he is not responsible for how she feels... but should Abraham be negating HER pain?... she wasn't in the hotseat. Parents and teachers are told by Abraham to love their children unconditonallly in the Vortex and allow them all of their feelings, but this woman was not given the same consideration... knowing what she does not want doesn't count for her, I guess... just him.
@ITLMOVEMENT - But if she is there's something not resonating with her inner being. Maybe she should be fantasizing about younger, sexier and more competent men who are satisfied with what she can provide. I have annoying "married" men "appreciating" my body (from afar) and I don't "appreciate" such revolting behavior. XD I saw allow the wife to do the same, or at least "channel" a sexy incubus that'll keep her too satisfied to care what her husband thinks. ROFL
He starts off saying he has sexual fantasies about other women. Maybe if he appreciated his wife fully, she would sense that, be full in that feeling and it wouldn't bother her when he wanted to 'appreciate' other women as well. Blaming her 'insecurities' allow him to indulge in the best of both worlds - he holds her in disdain and brings other women into their bed and house in his mind and then justifies it by saying SHE'S insecure. DUH!! There's only ONE sun.
I remeber being this way years ago(the women) all because of my own issues and naturally i attracted guys perfectly fit that role of not oly looking but later finding out that tried or had pursued women in stead of just admiring. Now i have my self worth and a deep sense of who i am not only is admiring beauty in others male and female perfectly the same as admiring flowers to me. Im attracting men who have the same self worth and admiration for how beautiful our human species are!
Hilariously tho, this guy sounds like a computer generated voice at the start of this excerpt. I realize it's partially because he's reading from a script he's written in preparation, but also, he simply sounds like the Software Activated Mouth voice software that's been in use since the 80's for computer generated voice ;)
7:50 "because she's got some work to do" - LOL! And the husband has some work to do about the fact that he's got his vibration in a twist because his wife has work to do. Looks like the wife isn't the only one with work to do, but sounds like she's not there to hear the message, until husband dearest tries to get her to listen to the tape afterwards... and we know how well that probably went! LOL
Bah. These ones where Abraham is talking to someone about another person's feelings who aren't even there aren't as good as the others. How about talk to the man about how HE feels instead of about how the (not present, unable to speak for herself) wife feels. I'll bet if the wife looked longingly at a wealthy man who provided many things for his wife/family the husband would feel the same knot in his stomach as the wife when he looks at another woman.
Constavlos, as a feminist, I don't read this as anti-feminist at all. It is about freedom to be yourself, which is what most feminists would advocate. I feel we often chose to be victims to justify our lack of dealing with a certain position...
Nobody who is really aligned, 'in the vortex', do anything that's bad for someone else. Period.
People always interact with those who are in vibrational alignment with them. If you are really happy, you will never rape or do something bad, because doing this things means you are not getting the things in the easy way. Raping is hard, and if you are needing to do something hard it means you are out of the vortex.
Who said anything about rape in this clip? It seems people look for any reason they can find to judge someone else so they can be right and feel better
This was one of the very few times I choose to watch an A-H video WITHOUT prereading the comment section. The comment section has absolutely nothing to do with the video posted. The video is about insecurities occuring in this man's relationship with his significant other.
Exactly! An by the way, I would love to hear from that guy , how would HE feel if she holds other men as the focus of her attention.. even if only for a brief moment, how would he feel , honestly, if she starts checking out all the good looking guys around. I wonder...
@ naivete2006 This is going to sound extrememly judgemental but I felt the need to say something. OK...in order to have sex with another human being. There needs to be consent and when a child is raped by Rapist. How is that ok? Ok so the rapist is in the vortex you say it is ok to rape another human being against their will because it makes them happy? I swear that's the most ridiculous thing I have ever read.
@naivete2006 I think you have a faulty premise. A child molester or a rapist is not aligned to source. They may "enjoy" it because to them that is higher on the emotional scale and gives them a feeling of relief. If they were people that were depressed or "bothered"as they usually are, the feeling of revenge and power that they get from dominating someone else feels "better". But that is a far cry from being in the vortex. someone in the vortex would never cause harm to another.
I really don't like peeing in an AH thread, but you know 100% DICK about me, and you say I'm "following" - following what, exactly? My shitty attitude detector? You come into the thread with heavy judgment, setting your shit tone by calling this guy an asshole. You're being all around unpleasant, and then have the nerve to falsely wish me a Merry Christmas (jerk-off motion). Oh yeah, you're a charmer and beacon of wisdom, alright. Please tell me what else I don't know! I won't read it.
If the rapist was aligned to Source, he wouldn't have been so unbalanced as to want to do that in the first place. Also, if the child and the parents of the child weren't dwelling on the unthinkable so much, this wouldn't happen as often as it does.
P.S. due to the sick nature of this topic, this'll be my last post on the matter. I don't want to attract this into my experience!
I see what you're saying, but he's not being an asshole for having hormones. Getting married (and "growing up") will not magically force your body's consciousness to automatically shut down from finding other human beings attractive.
Brilliant!!!
sisiganas 1 week ago
Just brilliant, really! The definition of insecurity is so to the point! Nice video! Thanks for sharing it.
csilvei658 1 week ago
i see the responses.. she is only talking about what many are doing. He brings up a topic that many people do all the time. Most people grow numb to the same partner and often enhance by thinking of other people. They are only stating what is truth and not what you feel comfortable talking about yourself.
richardedwardadams 1 month ago
Would this man be happy with his spouse fantasing about other men?
lovesupreme8 1 month ago
If anything is possible like abraham hicks says - anything, then it would be possible to have your man fantasize about you and you only, if that is what you want, right?
doutzen177 2 months ago
@doutzen177 The want needs to be pure.This want, derived from insecurities & fear, isn't pure. Resistance is inherent in this want; thus more 'evidence of the contrary' would be attracted & more & more until the wound that created this false want is revealed & healed --which is the real want here (to be healed of insecurities and to trust).
WazThaDifference 2 months ago
A clarion call to those seeking an honest, open and eager relationship! Let's discard worn-out fears, jealousies and insecurities.What if the man said, 'Honey - look at that hot woman!" and his wife answers, "Wow! You're right! She looks like she's in the vortex - let's say HI to her!"
Or what if the wife says "Damn! Look at that sexy guy!" and the husband replies "Wow! You're right honey - I'd like to have sex with him too!" What if humans could deal in honesty, truth eagerness and expansion?
VortexNexus 2 months ago
@VortexNexus : Yep...agree. No problems about looking, appreciating and even sharing the visual appreciation of said gorgeous woman.... but a: I want to have that gorgeous woman, do you mind? ???? and b: Wow, I love that shirt your wearing she says to a good looking guy, and husband flips out....? Then what????
d1ppychild 1 month ago
@d1ppychild There is an amazing book called " Love Unlimited: The Joys and Challenges of Open Relationships " Humanity is going to the next level...
vio77X 1 month ago
It could happen to be a woman asking the same question, we have these same fantasies too, but the thing is that even in a serious relationship men have this necessity to prove their manhood (check documentary "Tough Guise"). Actually I think that is not only his spouse who is insecure, but he's also insecure about himself, trying to have some attention from other women.....
mari2710br 3 months ago 2
Beautiful. Gotta listen again very carefully. There's truth in Abraham's words and it's very subtle. Law of Attraction applies to everyone and every situation, no exception. The only thing I control is my thought, my vibration. And how I feel indicates whether I'm heading: I feel good, I'm heading dowstream! This applies to thoughts of fantasies as well. I very much appreciate the posting. Much love.
csilvei658 3 months ago 2
Howling at the moon. That's about right
DavidLydonTV 4 months ago
Welcome to the vortex: the fastest path to Hell.
AikenBruce 4 months ago
tis BEST gift send to any newly wed.
twiggie 7 months ago
JustAnotherJedi, you just did.....
butterbean71763 7 months ago
oh oh oh , this is such a keeper. I'm going to send it to people on as a wedding card. I'm not joking.. Ok, Maybe I'll send them the poem from Kabil Gabran as well.
celestian1111 8 months ago
If this man is excessively looking at other women while out with his wife. His wife should not allow his annoying behavior to keep her out of the vortex--she should find a respectful man less interested in feasting his eyes perhaps as a passive aggressive way of hurting his wife's feelings.
artlovervictoria 9 months ago 2
@artlovervictoria Keep in mind that many women try their damndest to attract the "feasting" you refer to, including many wives of feasters, whether they admit it or not. Your take on this phenomenom is not very "in the vortex" is it? Like Abraham says "you both gotta get over it".
kelhawk1 6 months ago
@artlovervictoria
I agree with you completely. The man's voice is creepy and makes me want to hide any young children nearby.
Creepy!
Delisle4 5 months ago
@gabriel999... BTW, I adore Abraham and Esther, for trying to put into terms we would understand, the incredible vibrations she's receiving. Esther and Jerry swore they would never edit any of the "channelings"... ever... Hence, the discussions we have here, and the hundreds of workshops Abraham-HIcks have... to work out the bugs.
bbsmommy1st 9 months ago
@gabriel999red... I know this one! Because we have the power of the Universe in our hot little hands, and Abraham is giving us baby steps to learn to use this incredible power... ie: weight loss and money... if we can't believe those things will appear via the Law of Attraction... how can we believe we are 100% responsible for and capable of creating every aspect of our lives? .
bbsmommy1st 9 months ago
@gabriel999red I have to admit, co-creating is so tricky... if we just concentrate on our own vibration, staying in the Vortex, we would only attract the best from another... because we are holding only the best of them in our vibration... so something in this man's vibration must be attracting this reaction from her... so the only work, here, is his vibration... as that's the only thing he has control over, anyway... just wish Abraham would have stayed on the man in the hotseat.
bbsmommy1st 9 months ago
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bbsmommy1st 9 months ago
@gabriel999red The point I was trying to make was, his wife was not in the hotseat... and Abraham said that SHE should get over it... that he trained that relationship with her... when do we TRAIN another? That's not our job any more than we train our children. I understand not jumping through hoops to make another happy, but you also don't step on their toes, if you can avoid it... fantasize your heart out, just keep it to yourself until your partner's on the same page.
bbsmommy1st 9 months ago
Typo: I meant "I say" .. not "I saw." lol
YourDarkAccomplice 10 months ago
i have a video called instant manifestation, how to manifest objects from thin air.
RaptureSoftImmortal 10 months ago
this subject seems to have really touched a nerve amongst the comments, more so than on alot of other subjects, interesting! kinda made me laugh...
ceridawn 11 months ago
Why can't that momentary appreciation or the energy cultivated as a result be brought home and enjoyed by both hubby & wife? I am female & don't see a problem with the attention. I do agree that the uncomfortable one does have work to do. I'd add the hubby might also have some homework as he should pay attention to his emotional indicators when he's observing a beautiful woman - is it coming from/going to a pure place?
omooyaobatala 11 months ago
@omooyaobatala - Those are my thoughts as well. Also, how in the heck does this man summon the guts to tell (pretty much) the entire world about his personal question, yet he can't summon the strength to privately discuss the matter with his "significant other." What's up with that? Here I was in the living room with my friends, laughing my butt off with them and his "attempt to sound as professional as possible" regarding something so personal that should be rationally discussed with his wife.
YourDarkAccomplice 10 months ago
It is a great answer, hard to hear when you are insecure but a great answer:)
ayurveda1008 1 year ago
So hurting his wife is being in the Vortex? According to him, it hurts her. I know he is not responsible for how she feels... but should Abraham be negating HER pain?... she wasn't in the hotseat. Parents and teachers are told by Abraham to love their children unconditonallly in the Vortex and allow them all of their feelings, but this woman was not given the same consideration... knowing what she does not want doesn't count for her, I guess... just him.
bbsmommy1st 1 year ago
@bbsmommy1st She shouldnt be hurt by it. I believe that is the point.
ITLMOVEMENT 10 months ago
@ITLMOVEMENT - But if she is there's something not resonating with her inner being. Maybe she should be fantasizing about younger, sexier and more competent men who are satisfied with what she can provide. I have annoying "married" men "appreciating" my body (from afar) and I don't "appreciate" such revolting behavior. XD I saw allow the wife to do the same, or at least "channel" a sexy incubus that'll keep her too satisfied to care what her husband thinks. ROFL
YourDarkAccomplice 10 months ago 2
Why is this titled men's fantasies? Why not partner's fantasies? This applies to women equally.
rawnourished 1 year ago 2
He starts off saying he has sexual fantasies about other women. Maybe if he appreciated his wife fully, she would sense that, be full in that feeling and it wouldn't bother her when he wanted to 'appreciate' other women as well. Blaming her 'insecurities' allow him to indulge in the best of both worlds - he holds her in disdain and brings other women into their bed and house in his mind and then justifies it by saying SHE'S insecure. DUH!! There's only ONE sun.
Misslink8 1 year ago 2
Amen!!!
jdickerson23 1 year ago
I remeber being this way years ago(the women) all because of my own issues and naturally i attracted guys perfectly fit that role of not oly looking but later finding out that tried or had pursued women in stead of just admiring. Now i have my self worth and a deep sense of who i am not only is admiring beauty in others male and female perfectly the same as admiring flowers to me. Im attracting men who have the same self worth and admiration for how beautiful our human species are!
liquorish8 1 year ago
Is this woman pretending to be smart and knowledgeable?
66thPsalm 1 year ago
@66thPsalm - No. That would be you with your smug attitude. That's right. You.
BayviewFinch 1 year ago
@naivete2006 It's the worst answer because you disagree?
leadingbyxample 1 year ago
Liberating!
filchijap 1 year ago
Wow, this is divine. Thanks infinitely!
abundantlyharmonic 1 year ago
Hilariously tho, this guy sounds like a computer generated voice at the start of this excerpt. I realize it's partially because he's reading from a script he's written in preparation, but also, he simply sounds like the Software Activated Mouth voice software that's been in use since the 80's for computer generated voice ;)
AbrahamFan29 1 year ago 4
7:50 "because she's got some work to do" - LOL! And the husband has some work to do about the fact that he's got his vibration in a twist because his wife has work to do. Looks like the wife isn't the only one with work to do, but sounds like she's not there to hear the message, until husband dearest tries to get her to listen to the tape afterwards... and we know how well that probably went! LOL
AbrahamFan29 1 year ago 6
Bah. These ones where Abraham is talking to someone about another person's feelings who aren't even there aren't as good as the others. How about talk to the man about how HE feels instead of about how the (not present, unable to speak for herself) wife feels. I'll bet if the wife looked longingly at a wealthy man who provided many things for his wife/family the husband would feel the same knot in his stomach as the wife when he looks at another woman.
AbrahamFan29 1 year ago 3
Incredible as always. Thank you a lot Abraham and vio77X for posting.
slavric 1 year ago
total freedom !! i love it thank you!
solutionsplease 1 year ago
Constavlos, as a feminist, I don't read this as anti-feminist at all. It is about freedom to be yourself, which is what most feminists would advocate. I feel we often chose to be victims to justify our lack of dealing with a certain position...
Audrieau 1 year ago
i love how anti-feminist abraham is :)
Constavlos 1 year ago
Nobody who is really aligned, 'in the vortex', do anything that's bad for someone else. Period.
People always interact with those who are in vibrational alignment with them. If you are really happy, you will never rape or do something bad, because doing this things means you are not getting the things in the easy way. Raping is hard, and if you are needing to do something hard it means you are out of the vortex.
This is all based on Abes teachings.
(Sorry for my english)
danieltv123 1 year ago
Who said anything about rape in this clip? It seems people look for any reason they can find to judge someone else so they can be right and feel better
gregoriodavila 2 years ago 3
This was one of the very few times I choose to watch an A-H video WITHOUT prereading the comment section. The comment section has absolutely nothing to do with the video posted. The video is about insecurities occuring in this man's relationship with his significant other.
131kimber 2 years ago 13
@131kimber
Exactly! An by the way, I would love to hear from that guy , how would HE feel if she holds other men as the focus of her attention.. even if only for a brief moment, how would he feel , honestly, if she starts checking out all the good looking guys around. I wonder...
redskyintheafternoon 6 months ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
Sex should be two consenting and mature ADULTS. Not children!
hlrgirl 2 years ago
@hlrgirl why do you think this ?
12astile 2 years ago
@ naivete2006 This is going to sound extrememly judgemental but I felt the need to say something. OK...in order to have sex with another human being. There needs to be consent and when a child is raped by Rapist. How is that ok? Ok so the rapist is in the vortex you say it is ok to rape another human being against their will because it makes them happy? I swear that's the most ridiculous thing I have ever read.
hlrgirl 2 years ago
@naivete2006 I think you have a faulty premise. A child molester or a rapist is not aligned to source. They may "enjoy" it because to them that is higher on the emotional scale and gives them a feeling of relief. If they were people that were depressed or "bothered"as they usually are, the feeling of revenge and power that they get from dominating someone else feels "better". But that is a far cry from being in the vortex. someone in the vortex would never cause harm to another.
KobraKing10 2 years ago 5
I applaud you Kobraking. You hit it right on the marker. Thank you :)
susanshelit 2 years ago 2
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I really don't like peeing in an AH thread, but you know 100% DICK about me, and you say I'm "following" - following what, exactly? My shitty attitude detector? You come into the thread with heavy judgment, setting your shit tone by calling this guy an asshole. You're being all around unpleasant, and then have the nerve to falsely wish me a Merry Christmas (jerk-off motion). Oh yeah, you're a charmer and beacon of wisdom, alright. Please tell me what else I don't know! I won't read it.
madsketcher 2 years ago
Thanks for divulging that you know what's best for me! Merry Christmas!
madsketcher 2 years ago
I don't see what this has to do with rape; you're just angry. Go ask Abraham this question! I'm sure they'll one-up you. ;-)
madsketcher 2 years ago 3
If the rapist was aligned to Source, he wouldn't have been so unbalanced as to want to do that in the first place. Also, if the child and the parents of the child weren't dwelling on the unthinkable so much, this wouldn't happen as often as it does.
P.S. due to the sick nature of this topic, this'll be my last post on the matter. I don't want to attract this into my experience!
JustAnotherJedi 2 years ago 5
I see what you're saying, but he's not being an asshole for having hormones. Getting married (and "growing up") will not magically force your body's consciousness to automatically shut down from finding other human beings attractive.
madsketcher 2 years ago 2
I don't think the point was to make the other feel jealous, the point was to stay aligned to your Source Energy.
JustAnotherJedi 2 years ago 2
Very good! Thank you!
ReinisI 2 years ago
Great info!
I wonder what the anwser would be if the he had asked about having sex with other people? Has Abraham ever adressed that?
imussol 2 years ago
I've often wondered this.... I'm glad this was address.
smartkitmj 2 years ago
Love these types of odd questions that everyone thinks but only a handful ask
Appreciate your sharing :)
4moonbow 2 years ago 4
yees! exactly
trnjulcica 2 years ago
haha good choice of the picture. great clip, haven't heard anything like that before
trnjulcica 2 years ago 3