Things that will turn a girl off even if she liked you

[Titianessa]

Hie Faith, pliz do a video on how u prepared yourself for marriage while u were waiting for your Boaz, did u fast? Did u do a list of characteristics u wanted him to have etc? I think a lot of ladies would love to see that.

[MrBlackman504]

THIS IS A BEUTIFUL WOMAN

[kyl64]

I can agree with most of the things said. But the one thing I can't agree with is that Christian men take "too long" to label it. If one is already going out and such, I can understand and he should affirm it with a commitment of courtship. If he's serious and trustworthy and wise, he'd want to absolutely make sure this is what he wants. How long that takes is kind of up to him. If the girl finds it too long, then she probably doesn't think he's worth waiting for then. Two-way street.

[BabyDBoom]

@kyl64 I so agree with you...if you're taking your time, it means you're being patient and making sure you know what you're heading into..You can't rush relationship. In my opinion, the longer the better and if he can wait more than at least two years, i'm guessing he's the one.

[princeofthepen]

This message needs to be heard!!!

[diamony123]

The funny thing is everything you said is great but its like its also a lie... what has work for men is mostly the exact opposite of what you just said...its not even a small amount of black woman, it's withing the majority thats is attracted to men for the wrong reason..of-course most women uphold a mature conversation about the kind of good men they want...the problem with most woman is that they are so narrow minded for what their looking for, that they find out all the bad things later

[OceanJackson40]

I agree to make a good impression with a woman of character, a man must make sure his hygiene and mannerism is right.

[3089280288]

One word: COMICON

[herbaudition]

what kind of christian is that who doesn't practice modesty in dressing? bah!

[The3baldwin]

Ok I need some advice from anyone who is a lesbian cuz their is a girl that sits next to me in one of my classes and she is always trying to find a reason to touch me or talk to me and now she follows me sometimes so I would like to know how to turn her off preferably in a nice way.

[AmyRosario37]

@The3baldwin I think you should tell her honestly, and boldly, but with respect, that you don't want her to touch you. You are not interested and if she can't respect you and not keep her hands off of you then you will distance yourself. This way is not being rude, it's stating that you will respect her if she respects you.

[MishuTaste]

Is somebody washing dishes in the background?!

[sansez]

"Things that will turn a girl off even if she liked you"

Being unemployment, broke and no car

[HEKNOWSTHEPLANS]

WOW WHAT GREAT POINTS YOU COVERED.....BUT, WAIT TILL YOU HEAR MINE!

[090909azazaz1]

7:19 hahahaha 'guyz move quickly' ...

[GiftOfGod11]

"No corny Pick up Liness"

[coffeeeater]

Thanks for that line "is your father a terrorist?" I'll try that the next night

[nikewarrior24]

@coffeeeater lol..

[musicalprodigy7]

The biggest turn-off is disrespect. The lowest thing a guy can do is disrespect a woman.

[MsKittenz1]

Good points although I believe you should at least know someone for a year or more before marriage that's just my personal opinion. A few months just doesn't cut the butter because everyone puts on their best face those 1st few months. No- I say wait at least a yr. I hate when marriage goes sour after a short period of time becuz the couple found out they really didn't know each other.

[bobertgreat]

I DISAGREE WITH YOUR TIME THING ON WHEN TO GET MARRIED oops caps sorry

us as chirstain guys want to make sure that you realy are compatiple we need more then 6 months minimum of two to three years and most of the christian girls i know think the same most of the people that go to churches in my area usualy date about 4 to 5 years before marrige with the girl but that is my opinion

but there is some good advise for the most part

[wcr4]

@bobertgreat Four to five years? That sounds horribly indecisive. A year is not unreasonable.

[zheahra]

Like your list. Hygiene is very important. Also, getting your rest and not staying up too late. A man with confidence in himself speaks volumes. Sistah you have told the truth about these not taking too long to make their minds over. After you've reached a certain age, you should know what you want and with whom you're looking to marry. You're beautiful. Would you do a tutorial on how christian women should dress?

[Xenix47]

Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

This appears THREE times in Songs of Solomon. We are NOT meant to rush into relationships or love. Don't take my word for it, read it yourself. If a woman cannot wait for a man who is seeking his guidance from GOD then perhaps she need stop looking for a relationship with men and work on her connection with her FATHER.

[superkal2006]

american 'cwistian' women are preprogrammed to hate christian men. bible believing, holy ghost baptised, tongue talking men are considered arogant and self righteous?? i have experienced this to the point of knowing that american christian women are consumed with witchcraft and a radical commitment to depravity that surpasses all the historical contemporaries. better to cut their ears off and give them a real reason to be angry at you all day long

[umkish]

I would like to add two more to this. One is arrogance and the other is lack of respect for the woman. These sound like obvious things to detect, but they are quite subtle. A person should have confidence in who they are in God and in what they have accomplished in life, but arrogance stems from insecurity and self-grandeur. In terms of respect, something as simple as ignoring her when she signals for space, interrupting her, or being overly aggressive is disrespectful and unattractive.