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  • Touching her c- OH SHIT WE'RE SHOOTING A VIDEO. I MEAN CASUALLY.

  • I got dumped for this shit

  • So it's not about telling her, but using non-verbal communication to show that you like her. That is really interesting.

  • Your a good speaker and have good ideas

  • i like this girl janelle laguni. im flippin out over her. she the cutest girl ive seen. but i cant seem to get to talk to her. im shy AND shes shy. so i dont no how to tell her. well, ive told her but shes always lukin at me in classes. i dont know what that means.

  • Arrrgghhh!!! Girls can be awkward!!! All they have to do is thrust there breasts out and sit there n smile at you. We have to do the backbreaking hard work!!! It sucks being a male sometimes :(

  • Wow... that was actually very useful... thanks Arkady Thirty Nine!

  • its been proven that a woman knows within 7 seconds if shes interested in you or not...i just go for broke...which is why im still single..."AHEM!"

  • Do you have any videos on HOW to get out of the FRIEND ZONE? Please direct me to it if so.

  • Thank you for advice :)

  • gr8 vid this certainly seems right to me

  • dude you save me you are the man!!!

  • it sucks that we don't know how girls think... They are so difficult -.-

  • How did Wow bring me here?

  • you sound mexican

  • be funny guy this is how u get pussy

  • thumbs up if you're under 15!

  • @blondemanproductions 15 counts?? lol xD

  • I was just about to tell a girl that I have been on 3 dates with that I like her, thank you for this video!!! :D

  • @Christian7thSF youve been on three dates? you dont need to tell her you like her...

  • This is probably this guy’s best video. Thanks!

  • if you realy want to her to love you tell her to close her eyes cos you have a gift for her then take her hand and let her touch you dick and if she asks what is that tell her it's a banana gift.

  • wow, this was good advice, thank you!

  • No thank you

  • I just whip out my 20 foot dong i dont see how that's so hard...

  • Fucking peter parker looking ass motherfucker

  • good advice

  • Bugger me 998 comments..............

  • Chat up lines:

    1. Id smash you right good.

    2. Nice tits.

    3. Dayyyyum.

    4. I have a 9 inch penis.

    All work guys trust me.

  • 41 here!!

  • @preditorwolf37 you too

  • me and this girl always hang out but people at school always say that were goin out which bugs her a lot she knows i fancy her cause its kind of obvious she just wants to be friends the only thing we have done is hug any tips im only in high school

  • @Watabouche I believe that you are stuck in the friendzone (don't take me too seriously though, I don't know the whole situation). Now if you feel it's the case, you must decide if she's worth keeping as a friend (and maybe hope for something more serious) or if it's better for you to just walk away and find someone else.

  • 17 here. =/ it's hard to be near the girl i like. never see each other... Man i miss her already and i was just talking to her 20 minutes ago.

  • 12 here !

  • im only 11!!!!!

  • So what if I've known her for like 3 years and I'm good friends with her...but I'm still shy about it...help please. 

  • @TheBiggamer64 dude thats the exact same thing with me i love her and have been in love with her for 3 years but im shy

  • @drewloldrew1 I know how you feel. I don't wanna ruin my friendship with her. And like Arkady says, I don't wanna give her the massive decision of whether she wants to "be with me" or not.  I think I'm starting to move on from it...but a part of me doesn't wanna give up.

  • @TheBiggamer64 well for me theres this other girl she likes me and i kinda like her too well at least im pretty sure she likes me, she flirts ALOT ,buti dont know what to do go for the girl that likes me or the one i liked for 3 years

  • @drewloldrew1 Hmm thats a tough decision. then again I'd stick with the one that I liked for years.

  • @TheBiggamer64 well the one that i've liked for years she doesn't like me back and its been like that for awhile

    im starting to lose hope

  • @drewloldrew1 In that case, you're going to need to move on. Its tough, but its possible. Its starting to happen to me, and trust me when it does its a huge relief. And don't worry about it if it wasn't meant to be. You'll find someone someday.

  • @TheBiggamer64 :) thanks

  • @drewloldrew1 anytime pal.

  • Need help I have this chick I like a lot in my riligeon class but way to shy to talk to her help pls

  • i cant beleve i looked this up and im only 11! XD

  • @mohikhgf lol, i am 4

  • ok, im in the wierdest situation ever, so im 15, and i met a girl on a party, who i started to like, and we danced. and i really started to like her. but later that night, 3 guys came to the party aswell, and sadly enough, that same night, the girl kissed one of them. the next day i told her friend that i like the girl, and she said that she liked me to. but when this friend asked the girl how she felt about me, she said that she didnt like me that much anymore, cause of the guy who kissed her.

  • Guys,

    It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

    Here's what you need to do:

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

    Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.

  • How would I fix my relationship with her? We're just friends but, I'm just lost now.

  • I can't believe I have to look this up and I'm only 13 lol

  • @Raywilliamjohnson133 samee xd

  • @Raywilliamjohnson133 well im 14 and i cant even talk to girls these are my only hope how sad is that

  • @Raywilliamjohnson133 bro your not alone. Im 13 too!

  • @Raywilliamjohnson133 well better 13 than 30 like me kid

    

  • @Raywilliamjohnson133 same here

  • @Raywilliamjohnson133 haha young love.. even though im 13 too.

  • @Raywilliamjohnson133 ikr except im a year younger

  • If I had that awesome accent and facial hair that arkady has, I wouldn't need this advice. You're the man, arkady!

  • This guy is the MAN.

  • Im shy but when we went on our first date I didnt show it and I mad sure she was comfortable. We talked for about 4 hours straight about life, passions, desires, music, family, etc and we listened to romantic music. She even took a few cds to borrow but now that she just got back with her abusive ex I probably wont ever get back my cds unless they break up again and she realizes I was the better guy and looks for me to hang out again. I bet u he will dump her again since he is a jerk to her.

  • @raulgomez902 damn always the same story that really sucks but you can get over her the first week you feel like youre missing her but then you are over her try to meet other girls you know i don't know you but we are a little bit the same and we are in the same situation i hate jerks that cheat on girls and al that shit i want to go out with that girl but i know she is shy and i am too and we don't realy talk that much she is always with her friends tommorow i going to talk with her alone

  • @raulgomez902 That sucks, you will get over it. The first week you feel not good, but after a week just start meeting other girls. I doesn't know you, but we are a little bit the same, and in the same situation. I asked her out for a date she said yes i want to know you better. But she is very shy and i am too, and we don't talk that much, but tommorrow i am going to talk with her alone, and i will see whats bothering her. You know if i do nothing than there's nothing going to happen.

  • @TimeUniform Im also shy but not too much nd the girl I was seeing is very shy like the one your seeing but she chose to go back with her ex that would cheat on her nd be a jerk to her. Im sure she will regret it sooner or later nd realize I was a better choice since I really did care about her and wanted to help her out. Hope it goes well for you. Keep it simple and be patient and you will get good results. Funny thing is the girl I was dating took my cds and didnt even offer to give them back

  • @raulgomez902 she sounds like a huge bitch. its a good thing you got rid of her

  • @dafuksup Can u believe the jerk dumped her again? lol. She told me I was right nd she was stupid for going back with him on facebook and called me like at 4 am and we talked for over an hour. She then later admitted shes scared of going out with me again since he would find out and to just talk for now with her since she still loves the jerk. I told her love is suppose to be from both sides nd she said I was right so I told her Il give her time nd she said thanks. She said her mom loves my cds

  • @raulgomez902 Haha thats weird, but you give her time ? But i think you need to talk every day with her on the phone or inreal and show her that you're still interested and maybe 2 monds later you have a nice girlfriend :PYou remmember that girl that was shy and i was in love with her? i want to go out with her she said yes ofcourse, so i had planned that we go to a restaurant and drink something together and i text her and she text back i don't like you anymore i said okecan we still be friends

  • @raulgomez902 And i am over her and i am waiting for a girl that really likes me the way i am and i want to like her the way she is :P i have some jerks in my school that get all the girls but its the same story they dump al the girls they get really strange don't you think :P

  • @TimeUniform Sorry to hear she did that to u man u deserve a girl who likes u for who u are. I bought a new car a few weeks ago and and the day before my birthday she texted me at 11pm when she got of work that she wanted to be the first to wish me a happy bday and I asked her to meet nd she said sure but for a bit since she was tired nd we stayed out till 5 30am again nd had a great time. I played her music and now we talk everyeday. We might go to the movies next week for her birthday

  • @TimeUniform Yes its strange haha. But I have a feeling within a few weeks of going out with her she will realize I care about her and maybe get over her ex but if she goes back with him again Id be pretty mad since he is a complete jerk, We;ve only gone out twice once before she got back with the jerk and the second after the jerk broke up again on my bday a few days ago. The third time will be in a few days for her bday and I plan to hold her hand while we watch a scary movie.

  • @raulgomez902 Haha thats good news for you! but don't plan to much things on a date if you are with her and the movie makes her afraid just put your arm on her shoulder or something then you are mr.niceguy :P i 'm going to a club in a couple of weeks and i am going to party ! haha :P maybe i met a girl but i hope for you that the whole relation thing with her works out for you and send me a message if you had the date we keep in touch or how do you say that the right way in English :P

  • @raulgomez902 Did u get to read both of my replies I sent to your reply where u said your over the girl. Its kind of unorganized here haha. I was saying that youll find the right girl that u deserve man nd the day be4 my bday she texted me at 11pm when she got of work that she wanted to be the first to wish me a happy bday nd I asked her to meet nd she said sure but for a bit since she was tired nd we stayed out till 5am again nd had a great time. I played her music and now we talk everyeday.

  • @raulgomez902 Oh thank you ! yes it's kind of unorganized here haha yes if you play music for a girl thats really romantic what kind of music did you play? only piano or guitar or singing? (haha) if i meet a girl thats likes me i'm going to sing a song for her :P and if you talk everyday thats good: a good relationship starts with talking:D but i am also tired right now i have tommorow at 10:15 AM i think a Engslish test they gave me like 250 english words to learn haha thats sick right? :P

  • @TimeUniform I played her some romantic cds, Next time I will play the piano for her and sing when I get to know her better. Today was her bday and she got very sick and called me to pick her up since her friend wasnt home and she was outside. So I was heading there and I got a missed call frome her and I called back and her friend(girl) answered and said that it was ok not to go that she was sick and inside her house. So we are just texting she said she threw up. Ill see her thursday though.

  • @raulgomez902 That's nice, and bad for you that she is sick but you can visit her tommorow or sommething with a boss of roses ( i dont know how to say it right in English but how do you call alot of roses :p ) she likes that believe me and i hope you get her as your girlfriend :P btw do you have facebook? if you have facebook i invite you oke ?

  • @TimeUniform Yea and funny I asked for your facebook on your page a few days ago. Yes check your inbox.

  • @raulgomez902 oke i will check my inbox :P

  • @raulgomez902 I really hate those jerks, because they going to cheat on girls. And some girls i meet says i am the good guy, but some girls like jerks untill they figure out that the jerk is cheating on her, and don't really love her, and give her the attention that the nice guy do. And you will see the good guy gets a girlfriend, and the jerk will end up alone. :P I really does'nt know what to do with that girl she know's that i like her and i heard from her friend that she like me. Advice?? XD

  • @TimeUniform Can u believe the jerk dumped her againlol. She told me I was right nd she was stupid for going back with him on facebook and called me like at 4am nd we talked for over an hour. She then later admitted shes scared of going out with me again since he would find out and to just talk for now with her since she still loves the jerk. I told her love is suppose to be from both sides nd she said I was right so I told her Il give her time nd she said thanks. She said her mom loves my cds

  • PROBLEM:

    I always got all crazy when meeting with woman the first time.

    after that all the craziness gone. i was like "whatever" u know.. even though the girl is really hot.

    is this normal?

  • @JoeCaliforniah hah, sounds familiar :D I am crazy about a girl I met once. SO I guess this is normal. I'm going to ask her out, and then hopefully I can start with a kiss. Good luck mate

  • Thank you I almost made a mistake

  • I told her I had feelings for her two days after the first date since we had a great first date and he is right she doesn't text me as much. I told her today I was l listening to too much romantic music and impulsively said it and that I do like her. I falied I know. But we are going out again tomorrow. How can I make things better??

  • @raulgomez902 Just be yourself if she talks to you dont agree with everything she says if she says i love the chipmunks (for example) you say something like why do you like the chipmunks i think they sounds way to high I am 14 but i think i fucked up my changes too i have a date today with her but she dont text me back so if she don't answer my text or my calls i go to her house and pick her up and then i see what comes so don't sit in the corner and do nothing just do something if you like her

  • @TimeUniform True. We text almost everyday but Im backing off to see if she texts me first once in a while. Also our second date wasn't for sure since she had told me her mom told her they might have family over so I texted at 12 30am since she got off work at 12am and hadnt let me know if she could and she replied that her cousins came over but that we could still text and go out another day. Im 20 she's 18. I will take things slow and see what happens.

  • @raulgomez902 yeah but don't try to hard if she doesn't text back meens nothing maybe her phone battery was dead or she lost her phone :P but i know what you mean i had a date with her but i text he she doesn't text back i call her she doesn't call back and a day later she text me back sorry i lost my phone yesterday so i could'nt answer. What i mean to say is don't text her too much don't follow her too much cuzz then she thinks that you're a stalker

  • @TimeUniform sorry not enough space to type my whole story haha :P that girl that i know i like her so much i think always to her you know when i listen a song or when i am in a good/bad mood but ik you really like her and she likes you you need to do nothing special if you have a date with her one advice DON"T BE BORING ! just talk with her and what i already said was if you talk with her do not always agree on what she says

  • @raulgomez902 and i have one question are you a little bit shy ? because i am ! if i talk to that girl i freeze emediantly you know :P i don't know what i can say to her but i do my best and she can see i am freezing and she see's also that i do my best and she apreciate that and if you do not text her for one day or something you see that she is texting back i think i text not for 2 days and she text me today hey how are you ? xx you see just don't worry if you like eatchother justdon't worry

  • @raulgomez902 and sorry for my bad Engslish i am from holland and my grammar is not the best :P

  • @TimeUniform Today I finally texted her nd asked her is she was over her ex and she replied that she was not that they just got back together and thats why she was scared of seeing me since he would leave her again.I told her I wished her good luck nd that at least I got to meet her nd she replied that she was sorry that it was also great meeting me but that he convinced her to get back and that she cant go against her heart.The worst part is that this guy was a jerk to her nd would cheat on her

  • Oh, I'm screwed..... I told her I liked her in the first 2 weeks I met her. Any ideas?

  • @BrokenSB09xHD Say you were Joking

    and when there is a ''Click'' between you and her

    tell her again

  • That actually helped a lot... Probably saved me from ruining our friendship by telling me to wait..

  • I agree and have been doing this my whole life, BUT... often times a more direct approach beats me to the punch.

  • Soo true, I guess

  • Thanks.  Thats some great advice.

  • thanks. much respect.

  • You are wrong again sweeheart we will fill you are not interested y you don't say you are into us.

  • @jitendra94 so what, so then you think we are desperate??? no thanks, he makes a good point.

  • made this mistake a few weeks ago actually, took a girl on a few dates, told her i liked her, got put in the friend zone

  • I gave a flower on Val's day to a girl once and ask her out. We were classmates for 3 months in a class. She rejected me out cold, and thought im a loser even though i have been planning on that for months. 10 years later, i met her again, she's still single, and I can afford a LP 670 SV already. Now she's beggin to suck my dick. fuck her.

  • @JoeCaliforniah classic 'back then they didnt want me, now im hot they all on me' story, i like it lol

  • @JoeCaliforniah lol wow thats messed up

  • @JoeCaliforniah Wow. Can someone say karma? XD

    If she was that nasty to you, when you went through the effort to buy her flowers on Valentine's Day, she was not worth it. Any decent girl would've, at the very least, been grateful and smiled and thanked you.

  • I was a clueless bitch till he said "it takes women longer to develope feelings for men than men for women" . Well damn this DID help! :)

  • im sorry, but isnt going out on a date with someone expressing that you do like said person?

  • im gay

     sooooo

  • yes but when can you ask her to FUCK

  • i should started to see your videos 3 days ago XD

  • Rule #1 of getting a hot babe: Don't be ugly.. which is why I haven't had much success.

  • @cobenaisboy5

    Tip #1 Don't expect others to overlook something you view as a negative.

    Go for whoever you want. Ugly guy wants only hot girls cool but if you see ugly as a negative and don't want an average girl then don't get p*ssy if girls don't want you.

    Tip #2 Girls are less visual not blind.

  • @udolipixie lol that was a joke

  • sweet fuck, ur accent is just amazing..

  • how many girls rejected you

  • gay.

  • @bateteng92 Paulo mendoza?

  • @supermasterjoker Lars ben hayahay malaki tite!

  • Who is this guy, that people would watch 200,000 times? The same rules dont apply in the hood, in the hood its just about being real. From the start, " this what i want, what do you want?" Bam straightforward.

  • @joessj5 hood don't have internet. This doesn't apply to people with no internet.

  • @rlrief oh they have internet. ust dont use it to look up advice when all you need is already inside. This vid is for desperate men...

  • where i live and in high school. all you gota do is be goodlooking and bitches want your umm dick faster than you get get a boner

  • this vedeo was the best of your youtube.com channel... thank you

  • I totally agree with all what you said. I have just made this major mistake of telling my ex-girlfriend that I liked her too early. It apparently pressured her to make a decision which ended up heartbreaking 2 months later ... . I wish I had seen your video before I met her.... . I am still in great pain... .Thank you...... .

  • EPIC ACCENT DUDE :D

    seriously i like your accent.

    i'm trying to copy it right now

  • what if her dad wants to kill you for looking at her

  • I've been following your steps and its been all good so far, thanks!

  • Oops I fucked up:(

  • Man you helped me a lot

  • What is i try telling her that I don't need her to make up her mind then?

  • Hey I've been friends with this girl for a while but just recently we have been talking allot and I've started to really like her what do I do?

  • Where's your woman at?

  • This is like common knowledge..

  • Fwanco, same her i was tooooo shy and now she doesnt like like me DONT do wat i did i acted rash and just asked her she said no and said so u lied (other story) i noded and said its too late the next day she was on fb tlkin to her bf

  • This guy's good.

  • this is shitty advice because i just told this girl ive liked her for a while, and i neveer dated her but she wants to go out with me now.

  • @shimeonmorpheus So what are you four

  • @cooleocooleocooleo yes i am number four...

  • Ok. so what if you goofed and told her you like her? It's been 2 days and we've been in a casual conversation and 1 serious one (in which she's not sure what she's feeling and doesn't want THIS to be a rebound, and I told her if she needed anything she could tell me and rush no pressure) what do I do? Atm, she's giving me pretty short responses (through ym, since class is over) what do I do? Her answers are sending red flags to my brain and I have no idea what to do.

  • SHOULD HAVE SEEN THIS 2 DAYS AGO! Dang it!

  • everyone just needs a lesson in love, it might break your heart but it prepares you and teaches you a thing or two for your next relationship

  • Same but the girl that i like is one grade higher then me but i'm going to tell her i like her no matter what even if i get laughed at the main thing is that i told her i like her i'm going to tell her on tuesday i'm not lieing i have the gut's to tell this girl but she's to HOT for ME IT DOES'NT MATTER i am going to tell thank you lord and give me the gut's to tell her i like her i'm going to email back if she say's yes or no everyone pray for me i'm going to the no fear zone thank you amen

  • @samz2626 How did it go bro?

  • @fatpanda1011 It went great we meet every day her x boyfriend going to fight me tomorrow give me luck mail me back and i'll tell if my eye's are black

  • i made this girl laugh ALOT today. and i mean ALOT. We both laughed then she licked my arm and bit as like a joke (i think). This has been going on for like 4 months. Is it a good time to ask her to "hangout?"

  • @MagicXXMadness no duh dude she licked u n bit u wtf are u doin askin this? of course u should! lol

  • I MET THIS GIRL WHICH I REALLY LIKE, WENT OUT ON AT DATE, BUT WE ENDED UP IN MY TRUCK DOING IT....NEVER REALLY GOT A CHANCE TO SEE WHAT SHE WAS ALL ABOUT......WE AGREE TO GO OUT ON 2ND DATES BUT WE HAVENT...I FIGURE SHE MIGHT HAVE A BOY FRIEND IN ANY CASE I JUST SQUASH IT BETTER

  • this shit just isnt for me

  • forcing a woman to make up her mind is NOT a good a idea, lol true for any circumstances

  • Jesus I like this girl and I really want to tell her that, all though im not confident, I'm shy, and the people in schools gonna laugh at me. so it's very hard and awkward to say "I love you" to her. I'm not sure if she likes me, she always says hi to me whenever i make eye contact. Is it that she just happy she has a friend as a boy? Or does she has feelings for me? I don't know if she's got another one, but, I really want her.

    How can I tell her that I love her?

    Anyone in the same problem l

  • @Fwanco m8 just spend some time with her first. talk and interact with her. you cant just say "i love you" lol that would creep her out. let your actions speak, you dont have to say those words for her to know you like her.

  • @Fwanco just make sure you do NOT tell her you "love her", they're going to take that very seriously. I have a couple girls i know who are JUST FRIENDS but we say we love each other, but its only a friendly way. When you say that to a girl you like she's going to think you are literally in love with her, which is kinda creepy when you haven't dated or anything. Just try not to think too hard and be natural!

  • short,precise,concrete and effective!

  • Same with him just cant get dis grl outta ma head i like her SO much

  • I'm in a mess.

    There is a girl i really like at school but i just can't say it too her - I'm too shy. I'm constantly thinking of her and i dont know what to do. We used to talk alot but my nerves got the better of me and now i hardly talk to her.

    She knew i liked her and i think that pushed her away, and now i think i'm in the friend zone. Were leaving school soon and i just dont know what to do.

    And to top it off, she's not even on Facebook or MSN anymore.

    I'm crazy about her...

    I need help...

  • @mouldbug2

    Same with me you know...

    At the moment I'm looking at a picture with her on it and i miss her...

    I Love Her so much...

  • MAN YOUR A BAD MUTH PHUKA. in a good way :)

  • well if ur on ur 3rd or fourth DATE means she KNOWS you like her