VEDA 19- Stupid girls are stupid

[pinkberrypeaches]

This is one of the biggest reasons as to why I deactivated my stupid facebook!

[Therandomgamergirl]

LOL xD

[chachathatsmee]

Well spoken *nods*

[SlightlyImprov]

This was posted on my birthday. It was the greatest birthday I shall allow myself to have.

[velikistefanxxxx]

are you a virgin?

[cody34ish]

U ugly

[toGeek]

@cody34ish SHE! IS! PERFECT!

[CrazypersonPHD]

One of the worst offenders in my Facebook circle is a dude who updates every insignificant detail of his wife's life. The amount of footage from the week they got married was unbelievable. Thanks to him, I now know what she looks like asleep. Excessive much? Another chick straight up wrote in her ''interests'' - ''my boyfriend''.

[koookeeez]

boyfriends are only good for taking you out to the movies or a theme park or a restaurant and buying you cute gifts and PAYING for all off it like a GOOD gentlemen. non of that "you pay half ill pay half" BULLSHIT.

hear that boys?! take some notes!

[peaceloveandpie]

@koookeeez i refuse to let the guy pay for everything.

XD

[GrrlyGore]

Boyfriends are more trouble than they are worth.

[InsanityIgnitions]

This world needs more of you!

[orangegummy13]

I was your 1000th like. :)

[magnusbaneforthewin]

Very True words of wisdom are spoken... Thank you

[SiLlyGoOse4321]

Couldn't agree more!

[xXpandalovex]

thank you! all of my friends on facebook annoy me with their sappy love quotes and love song lyrics. it annoys me to no end. its like please stop, no one cares. haha.

[zenonia3]

agree with u there^^

[SparklyyMegan]

I fucking agree. It annoys the FUCK out of me when teenagers think they're in love. And then on facebook you have the girls that always have emo love quotes on their statuses. I really do feel bad for them because their whole lives are basically based on having a boyfriend.

[AyaandCeres]

Thank. You. Someone other than me gets it. -__-

[IMVUGasp]

YES. <3

It's sad. Most of the time it's not really true love. They just think of a boyfriend/girfriend as an accessory. A pretty little keychain, the frig.

And the younger generation are starting to think like this too. When I was their age I had friggin' friends. Doing awesome things. Not worrying about having a 'Pretty keychain' attached to my arm so I could be 'someone'.

[DancingChaos01]

I AGREE. I also never comment on videos. That's how much I agree with you.

[oOoKtwinkleoOo]

I love your glasses!

[TheRemowave]

I don't need a boyfriend, because I have Justine.

[Numse88]

You are so right Justine!!

[chopopcherubii]

i need a friggin love button for this

[ZeMostAmazing]

PREACH SISTA.

[christ2006]

your neck looks slimmer! looking good justine :)

[youreglowing]

what about when they barely get together and are pronouncing it true love only to have them break up a couple weeks later...with every guy they're with

[lunazulaivarsson]

preach

[perry2014]

I have a boyfriend who I have been with for over a year. I have never posted a status about him. And I make him watch jpmetz.

[jbizz162]

Right on! I know a bunch of girls like this!

[AceTrainerJacob]

How many cats do you have?

[TheMonaLisaCloud]

Entirely relevant. I enjoy your wisdom, Justine.

[Seagloom]

I agree wholeheartedly. Seeing a few updates or hearing about it in person now and then is fine. It's when someone talks about their beau every chance they get that it becomes obnoxious. Fortunately I don't know too many women like that.

[lovesitable]

"a girl and his boyfriend"

[r0r0rainb0w]

I love this. So smarrrrt. :D

[iM8kYouUp]

AMEN sista! you tell 'em Justine!!

[bluemoonicecream22]

Woot for being rejected by my longtime crush today and then I watch this video and it makes me feel better. :)

[TheNightcloudHATER]

D: but i want to have a boyfriend

[30zsProduction]

a boy actually does the same thing with his girlfriend on his fb its annoying.

[gravemakers45]

I'M SAYIN

[Qtblondie2009]

Best VEDA yet :)

[somehowjinxed]

i have a friend that constantly has to have a boyfriend, and if she hasn't got one she talks about boys nonstop and doesn't think about anything else until she finds another boyfriend to be all crazy about.. drives me fucking crazy

[pufferluver14]

Preach!

[livingthelife194]

Justine speaks the truth. You don't see guys doing this (as much). It makes me sad that girls are so damn dependent.

[Specialcookie246]

PREACH! Seriously, I know far too many people exactly like how you described (and I want to punch them violently)

[WrittenSouls]

Stupid girls are stupid is redundant...sigh- if I'm not worth it, than I guess I am also not worth watching the video :P

take care,

[abeille128]

Lol boyfriend statuses are the friggin WORST the hell...

[NineteenPercent]

I know quite a few of these girls. I feel bad for them.

[wiwians]

your teeth are soo streight.

[pyewacket60]

I have a remedy, anytime the louse invades your thoughts or quiet moments, think of the very worst times you had together. This will make you very angry and in time all of those nostalgic moments will fade.

[atikahhchicahh]

you have a pretty voice <3

[jleeetm]

I have a boyfriend, and I told him right after we started dating that I'm not a statusy person and I wouldn't write statuses about him and he better not look there for love. We just had our 6 month anniversary and I wrote my first status about him. It felt great not being a huge asshat about my relationship because there are so many morons who are DOING IT THE HELL WRONG.

[nichola1405]

I agree :)

[zoul86]

What about all the girls who claim to be in love with the first guy they meet and who wants them? Most of the girls I see on facebook have been together with a guy for a few hours/one day? and they immediatly say "i love you, we'll be together always". Makes me mad, because you shouldn't use words like "I love you" if you have no clue what they mean. Anyway, awesome you brought this up for discussion! Def. going to subscribe to your main channel :)

[ImmatureShenanigans]

@zoul86

Thats exactly how I feel. I know someone who does that and she has a new boyfriend every week...its just annoying. -_-

[zoul86]

@ImmatureShenanigans: God, I would so hate that aswell -.-"

[Jacklynuh]

Hallelujah!

[BookishBirdy]

Bellasyndrome.... that's what that's called.

[xsephoraholicx]

She said "excessive." I love that.

[DiscoveringTheLost1]

My best friend is 12.... 12! She has a boyfriend like, every other week... it's annoying as hell

[NiknilKrapFTW]

It pisses me off so much seeing girls who have dated someone for like 2 days saying theyre in love with them or cant live without them or that crap

especially when a girl has a breakup with someone she barely knows and says her life is over and shes gonna die when shes like 12 years old -_-

[Veena0984]

"Remove from friends". Yes. Annoyance gone.

[cutewitch772]

Thanks, Justine. I know you didn't MEAN to help, OF COURSE. But thanks.

[3m0g33k]

There was this guy who apparently was going out with this girl for two years and every status he posted talked about how much he loved her. Tillll she figured out within the last year he's dated my sister and a couple of her friends. Then they didn't love each other anymore :)

[jillybnz2379]

i dont have anyone to hang with honestly... its my hubby, me, our 2 dogs, that sums it up.

guess im the loser

[misspeaking]

I don't know if you've seen Hedwig and the Angry Inch, but I think the theme of that movie/play relates to this video. Hedwig spends so much time searching for her "other half," to the point of basically making her life revolve around finding that one person, only to realize that she's complete just as she is. We're basically programmed to find that one person and make our lives about him/her, but that's not how it should be. Relationships are great, but it's not all that life's about.

[strawbery0774]

i think this is the most sencere and caring ive seen JPMETZ be.....ever!

[LoveAndStars897]

Goddamn, your smart!!

[mollz531]

Justine, I mean this in all seriousness...I am so fffrrreeaking glad that another woman feels the same way about this. I am not.even.kidding when I tell you that all my girl friends do the very things you are talking about (yeah I know it's beyond the point of annoying). Don't get me wrong-I love my girlfriends to death and back (i figured I would throw "and back" in there due to the upcoming holiday on sunday) but they just don't get it! I'm s happy another woman understands.

[3vil1]

It's not about self worth.. it's about hot sex ;)

[itsmary3]

Wow. FINALLY someone gets it. <3

[Brittyinsane]

Those don't annoy me as much as the drama posts.

Your life sucks right now? Oh wah, call up a friend and talk about that shit.

Don't post it to facebook.

[allysmusic14]

my thoughts exactly.

[Dannypanify]

You make much sense.

[partnersincrimexx]

OH MY GOD YOU SPOKE MY MIND

like all of facebook doesn't care and doesn't need to see "i love my amazing boyfriend so much!(L)(L)(L)(L)" all over their news feed everyday

[TheBlueEyedMariposa]

Preach it! I always chime in with that and the people using that as a method of consoling look at me like I'm crazy....grrrr

[Andreaaatastic]

is it just me or does Justine already look slimmer?

<3

[nochokin]

why cant it be your just happily in love with your boyfriend...why must it be a self esteem/worth thing?...oh wait ...this is JPMETZ...duh....yea they are worthless no lifes cunts

[BringOutTheFire]

You more or less just described my roommate. I love her to pieces but she is SO DEPENDENT on her boyfriend all the time. UGH

[glitterglam27]

I so totally friggen AGREE with everything you said!! I hate all the dumb shit status updates. I am constantly hitting X on the newsfeed to hide that shit.

[pixieatnight]

Oh I hate people like this, its just so annoying especially cause no one actually cares

[NerdisthewerdYEAH]

This is exactly what I've been trying to get my friends to reaize! I FRIGGIN LOVE YOU.

[kylecampbell4]

I love you.

[KiyoneMihoshiFan3]

You are such an awesome youtube speaker! What you are saying is very true. :)

[Sabrinaclaycreation]

This is why the defriend tool is my best friend

-irony-

[applesmoothiee]

AMEN.

I heart you

[TheFemmeFi]

this is SO true

[crysscryss09]

I want to put this on my fb but I know my friends are going to be "WTF!" and be all up in my face but I a MILLION times agree with you! I have a bf but you dont see me write every single status update about him... girls need a life!

♥ jpmetz (:

[ChubbyBunniez]

I literally said, "Fuck yeah" while watching this video. Preach.

[91shironeko]

YES! Thank you!!

[XDilovellamas]

This reminded me exactly why i watch justine. Besides her devastatingly sarcastic attitude, she always makes valid points and excels at vlogging. I really, really would love for her to have a show that i could watch every day on TV.

[jessrlee88]

*applause*

[pokemongurl93]

I didn't have room for this in my other comment, but:

Your slogan should be

Jpmetz. Enlightening the world one video at a time.

[pokemongurl93]

Amen! Thanks Justine XD I know a lot of girls (some are my friends) that just NEED to have a boyfriend, and I am thirteen so that says a lot. I DO have room to talk because me, I've never had a boyfriend, don't need one. I tell my friends to be independent, they are 13 years old they don't need to be obsessive and cry and be stupid over a boy. A damn boy who won't even last more than a couple of weeks. I hope everyone who does this stuff watches jpmetz XD!

[NuniMuS]

Single since '07! Woop!

[RVproductions1]

Amen to that. I just changed my Religious Views on Facebook to jpmetz.

[talktimeabbyrachel]

There's a what?! I wanted to know what you said at the end. :(

[MsYogawolf]

I don't feel whole or complete or self confident without pokemon.

[LaArRaAl]

this. so much this.

[TwistedxJester]

Look at you practicing for your Podcast, Justine. Bravo!

[MelissaVenesia]

Exactly. Exactly how I feel when people I know on FB won't quit posting shit about their boyfriend and then after the breakup.... I'm so glad that I don't need a guy to be happy.

[13310Nick]

This is why I enjoy being gay...

[brianific]

@13310Nick Irrelevant comment is irrelevant lol. I've dated plenty of gays who do just the same..

[13310Nick]

@brianific most gays arent really that flamboyant, thats just the general stereotype because they are the more attention grabbing.

You could obviously state a certain guy is gay just by the way he acts, but if you met me, you would have never geussed I was gay.

[brianific]

@13310Nick Well I mean regardless I don't think you have to have feminine traits to feel like you always have to be in a relationship or be always talking about your boyfriend..

Also, yeah you notice the more flamboyant ones more but I doubt theres really significantly more of one or the other, where I live theres more flamboyant than not.

[Laterboy13]

@13310Nick I agree.. Though some feminine guys act the same.

[alliissolegit]

I was thinking about 3 specific people while watching this. I'm seriously considering posting this in my FB, maybe they'll watch it and get the friggin message.

[sweetcharade518]

THIS.

[Peaches70380]

A girl cannot be happy with a guy until she's happy with herself.

[airwick0905]

Preach on J! This is so true.

[MyMovieLove]

I know what you mean! It's SOOOO annoying! Especially when they just randomly end off EVERY one of their statuses with "I love you baby xoxo" or whatever, even if they say "Going to the movies with my parents... I love you baby forever hdihrfiuahaus!! "

[spacecowboy0017]

So a girl does not need a guy , I will go along with that.

So then for most guys what is their use ?

Also are your comments gender interchangeable ?

[talktoleo]

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I find it so annoying when people just aren't satisfied with the attention they have, and they use facebook as a tool to grapple for more.

[danamaze]

Oh I can't STAND that! I know a girl who seriously feels worthless it seems unless she's hooking up with some guy. It's honestly pathetic.

I've stopped hanging out with her because every time I would, it was always "Let's go meet some guys" "Do you know any hot guys?". Ugh. Obnoxious.

[keepallyourmisery]

Amen to that. No one cares about what you're doing every waking moment of every damn day, especially if 90% of the time it's that you're hanging out with your boyfriend that no one cares that you have.

[TANHAMM]

There is this one girl on fb that every like 3 hrs she updates and at the shell say love nick -3 that gets annoying real fast. And I could care less about having a bf

[zeefeesheepwns]

i have no self value without jpmetz.

[Gvf77x]

Never had a boyfriend or been on a date and I don't really care anymore.

I realized I don't need someone to tell me I'm awesome ;D

[JackieBorelli]

very good point, Justine, boys suck. its nice to have a boyfriend sometimes, but other times, they're just not worth all the BS they come with. all girls need are each other, and a fulfilling life that makes them feel valued.

[aDisabledRabbit]

I'm gay, but I'm thinking of turning straight and being JP's boyfriend just so I can brag about her being my gf on FB. ;-)

[angeldemovamp77]

Booo! She has no worth if she cant makr a decent sammich. Thats the main reason we dump you whores.

[BooPandah]

I agree! Especially when friend's use the phrase "you're pretty; you'll find somebody else."

Not only do you NOT need to find somebody else as a replacement, but you DONT need to be goddamn pretty to be loved.

[Gvf77x]

@BooPandah DITTO! =P

[LisaMuerte]

A-FREAKIN-MEN.

[TeHNyboR]

I think it's kind of pathetic that a girl thinks she's worthless unless she has a boyfriend. In my eyes, you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else. And I know tons of girls like that too, and it's pretty damn sad...the frig...

[RaixKun]

When you stop doing these vlogs I will be absolutely miserable. =/

[mark13728]

OMG! I LOVE YOU! You are sooo sharp! People (especially, Girls)---- don't understand anything that you vlogged about! Maybe you should teach about that! (smile)

[SlightlyCliche]

It's starting to get a little feminist in here....and I so super duper approve. No, no woman needs a man to give her value. Women should really take a step back and see their self worth before looking to a man (or any outside source) for validation. Sometimes cereal dating is about trying to escape introspection by having someone else to focus on, which clearly also has it's faults.

[CaMstErr]

Exactly! No one NEEDS a boyfriend. I find boyfriends to kind of be an added nuisance and responsibility that I dont really want.

[OliviaNobody]

THIS VIDEO SO MUCH

[WitheredxAway]

I completely agree. But it's not just the ladies -- I have a male cousin who does the exact same thing with whoever his girlfriend is for that day.

[XXwhoknowsXX81]

if there was a love button id be hitting it.

[nena505]

One day my friend came over crying about her husband cheating on her...again. I told her leave him, you don't need him and you'll be fine on your own. She got mad and stopped talking to me for  long time, even now things are still tense when I occasionally see her. I think she wanted me to say you'll work it out with him, or you'll find someone else...lol.

[BubbleGlitter98]

I totally know what you mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[afoley7]

I just don't get this rant. If someone wants to talk about their boyfriend and hang out with themall the time, then so what? As long as they're happy and content who gives a crap. Equally, if someone has a boyfriend and wants to keep it to themselves, then great! As long as they're happy right? I just couldn't be bothered getting upset or pissed off about how other people live their lives. It's just a waste of time!

[Michellebrb]

i agree with justine, i do not post anything about my boyfriend,

and when one of my best friends, who was 8 months pregnant, caugh her husband with another woman, i told her she doesnt desserve that ass, she can do better alone, she replied: but i'm not leaving him, then i thought to myself: you know what, you do desserve him, cause you're an idiot

[XKeelyX]

YES! I completely agree with you.

[jonasgurl456]

I just deleted every status I ever had about my boyfriend thanks to jpmetz. <3

[thebluerobbin]

The same can be true about men, but men are more passive aggressive about it...

[bestckt]

I have been saying this same thing for several years. It is disturbing what young girls will do and go through to be sure they consistantly have a boyfriend. I wish they would spend that time and effort on themselves, they'd have a hell of alot more fun finding out that when you stop limiting yourself there's a whole world out there full of great things with your own name on them, you don't have to wait for "permission" to experience them only through someone else.

[MortalFataliti]

The reason they cry in the first place isn't normally because of the breakup persay, but because the girl was most likely made to feel like she wouldn't get another guy, or that she wasn't good enough. Guys are all f''d up lol. That's why I think most friends use that retort.. Being someones friend, you can see all of their potentail, and even it they don't need to hear it, that's what we want to say. It's a nice gesture that should be taken and appreciated. Good friends can't help it((:

[hilomona]

Thing is, Facebook, and dare i say, people who use this site and think it's important to "update their status", may or may note be clueless, dumb and vapid to begin with. Just sayin'. Duckface, bathroom mirror. Just sayin'.

[bell5792]

agreed.. im sick of seeing pointless statuses like "with my boy friend"(for the 17th time that day) so why the hell do you keep updating your facebook status, must have a pretty boring boyfriend... go have some real fun and kick some friggen geese... maybe then you could make a good facebook status. "kicking geese with my boyfriend"

[RavenFaye1666]

i have been single for almost 4 YEARS.... n i love it!!!! ^^ .... but i totally agree w/what u r saying... when my friends r single for the week or two between relationship i see them a lot more in that time... *sigh*

[KarahChanelle]

A-to-the-freakin'-MEN!

=)

[acf870]

unfortunately i only seem attractive to others when im in a relationship... wouldnt cheat but i think thts weird.

[youreperfect]

this is a *have some money justine* comment

[stargirl13n1]

You tell em! lmao

[Birdolina]

If I could I'd like this video 200.000 times because you only say great and truth things!

[pinglala]

YOU SPEAK PROBABLY ALL OF THE TRUTH

[sandwichperson]

I'm going to miss seeing your videos everyday once April is over.

[TmakesV]

agreed

[xyly]

SO true.

[carebearkidd]

agh i agree 100 percent

[3BsAlaska]

AGEED!!!!!!!! 

[fire1ce]

Then how come they are your friends anyway?

[NannyDiaries23]

HELL YES! i totally agree, relationships are overrated.

[katiebrookeee]

omg u described my days thoughts perfectly n one video thank you! i hate the fb shit more than anything tho seriously

[ApricotArtLover]

and what about the people that ask how are ya? and dont really care to hear your answer... its like why do you ask in the first place!?! I hate that question... cuz its not really a question in most cases or they expect you to say Fine or Good! fuck that im pissed!

[happyzero]

omg i love you.

[ApricotArtLover]

I was thinking the same thing earlier today... my sister does this all the freaking time... i just wanna say shut up but shes my sister and im suppose to care right? ugh

[iluvtiesto503]

you look like your 12 in this video!

[NatashaGalkina]

PREACH! I haven't been in a relationship yet nor do I want to. It kind of scares me a little that I have a fear of commitment at 15 :S

[PillowiePanda]

it's even more annoying when u see it's a dude on fb and they saying all that mushy love stuff and they break up with that girl about a month later and repeat those steps three times over ANNOYING! >>

[christinesometimes]

yes! i was telling someone this exact thing today.

[MedicRTsGirl]

I totally agree with you! I think that a lot about some of the girls I know. I know it sucks Joe whoever broke up with you but, life goes on and use that time single to Enjoy other things! geez! Love your vids

[GeeNJaysMom]

Facebook stalking: stuff I like to do in my "free" time:) I love to comment on other people's status if it's funny or if I have an Idea of what the hell they're talking about, I think if you have to post crap about the person that "you're so in love with" than delete FB and go tell the person you claim to be in "love" with, frigging idiots and updating their status!

[HazelWHOREFACE]

Also people do say to her 'you'll find someone else' 'I don't want to. I want him' *1 month later* ...

[Enkanowen]

Sing it sister! I was *happily* single for 9 years. Now I'm not. I haven't even updated my facebook. I don't get, okay I do get how people can be so all about their boyfriends. I used to be one of them. Then I turned 14! Most of these girls (if not all of them) have self-esteem issues they try to cover up by showcasing how wanted they are. Lame!

[sohipimhop]

fucking PREACH. I can not even begin to explain how happy it makes me to know that there is another woman on this planet that feels that way. It is 100% true!