The only reason to tell anyone is if you are post op or never getting surgery. Otherwise you will always be just a tranny in their eyes. Unless you want to have the tranny life style that's fine too. But it seems to me you just want to be a girl without that baggage.
face change could be done without hormones, fat distribution in face and body can done better with a plastic surgeon, 3 years of hormone treatment can be done in one hour with a plastic surgeon , all shemales who took hormones end up in a hand of a plastic surgeon, they will do again cheeck bones , nose job, facial and body hair removal , lips filler, botox , hip shape with filler and most importan thing boobs,so what for hormones, i done all this without any pill of hormones,i love you all
I'm not trying to have a go at you by my last comment, I don't know in person so I'm not going to judge you, to me you seem like a kind loving person that I be happy to call you as a friend if I were to have a in person face to face friendship, meaning if I was friends with you outside this YT Internet world. Hope you have a wonderful day, Stacy ~ Australia.
Hey like watching your videos, one thing I got to thinking when watching your video was; when you tell someone you feel close to that your trans you also tell them that you are on YT and do vblog's and may just talk about them by first name on your vblog, how do you feel about talking about your friends/family here on YT, I was just wondering. If I was one of your friends in person I was would like to know if you were talking about me by my first name here on your YT vblog.
I honestly think that the only remaining masculine thing about you is your voice. It is recognizably male. I don't mean to criticize you, of course, I have respect for what you decided to do to feel happy. Perhaps you should consider hiring a vocal coach, they can help you to maintain a higher pitch of speaking voice which would be more believably female.
Not everyone is homosexual. Therefore, if you know a man may be mistaking you for a woman, you should let him know that you are a man right away. Why be deceitful? Your friend was wrong. You do owe him and everyone else in this world something, and that something is RESPECT! You want people to respect your homosexuality, well you need to respect peoples' heterosexuality. Or are you so desperate and selfish that you wont even consider how your actions effect other people? You know better.
@brainznbeauty Not everyone is a bigot. Therefore, if you have no real knowledge of trans issues, you shouldn't spout mindless rabble. You owe HER and everyone else in this world something, and that something is RESPECT! You want people to respect your uneducated words, well, you need to actually learn what it means when someone is trans and respect people's gender identity. Or are you so desperate and selfish that you won't even consider how your actions effect other people. You know better.
@brainznbeauty but a homosexual man wouldn't be attracted to a transwoman, and just because a heterosexual man is attracted to a transwoman doesn't make him gay, even if he's okay with the fact that she's trans.
again just ur noisy voive that u call interesting u now what u want uh... stress boys all over the internet on utube not showin ya boobs how rude shame on u ur country and the so called culture u live in boring crap i wont listen its over yes me one u zero the germans win again oh viva la france props to kanada. or are u a canadian girl with noisy voice and bad oxford english???
but wait honey i was sent to u back in time to say the gay gay under myself is my future image... fuckin u.... hahahahaha grets from germany again totally stoned and flamin ya cause u r really a cool gir with a sexy new cat
trust me i know your language in german it sounds like blabla ptobably u never get a cool boyfriend but maybe ... maybe u r hot and me is frustrated about u not showing me ya boooobies muauauauaua barney herman the german stinson was here
You def did right in telling the people. And fuck the first guy you told, 0 Swag, not worth your time.
Also, not sure if you would want this but there are dating/meet up websites for people into/looking-for trans people. Some are more all inclusive "alternative" dating websites, others just trans folk. Sometimes it can be really helpful, but the downside is that it can be kinda like having a double life :(
Either way, your beautiful and I wish you the best! Also your video's rock
"Splash.....I have a penis"...cracked me up! I just smoked a fat J and couldn't stop laughing. I have no idea how I ended up on this video, but you seem like a really genuine, fun person. Keep being awesome!
I really like you, no matter what, you are such a lovely personality. I wish you all the best in your life as a girl! and don't worry about assholes, I'm sure you will find a nice boy who would love you as you are.
you are a beautiful girl/boy, i dont even know you and in someway i got to this video, and if i just think you are an awesome persone and there is more in you to see rather than your anatomy. which i do like dough, lol
you are a beautiful girl/boy, i dont even know you and in someway i got to this video, and if i just think you are an awesome persone and there is more in you to see rather than your anatomy. which i do like dough, lol
I'm a girl & I'm attracted to you I picture you as a boy & a girl . But I love the way you speak too .... So does that mean I'm bi or idk ? To me it's like u still have the male mins somewhat but ur a girl so ur not so intimidating & it turns me on
hi there, as it is known, ending up perfect is important. thank God that you are on the track. may you find all that you dreamed of in your life. best wishes from a transgender mtf, from sri lanka.
Just be careful. If you can be up front try to. I lot of these reactions are tied to peoples ego's and how they imagine themselves. The manly man and what not. Those self created images are what ruin most relationships.
In an earlier video, you said that you were engaged to a girl. Then in a later video, you seemed to imply that you continued seeing women during your first year transitioning. When did you start liking guys? Did you always or was it the hormones?
I think you look great Jordan and FFS really does make a differance. That said I feel that Anyone who doesn't have GRS has to expect that most people are going to be upset and not understand. You are opening yourself up to TROUBLE and this will continue to be a problem for the rest of your life. Having GRS and being whole is the ONLY way to complete the transitional process and life a normal life.
I think you have wonderful friends and you should remain as friends at the very least with Scott, he seems to understand you from what you say and that is a very powerful friend who didn't know you before and knows you now and liked you in the way he does but doesn't run off at the first sign of something he's not used to.
I think you've handled both situations really well. You are very beautiful and I can easily understand why you'd get a lot of attention from both men and women. I don't think you "owe" this information to someone just because you are kissing any more than a guy has to tell a girl his penis size while they are kissing. Go with how you feel. The safety issue is unfortunate and I understand the concern, I just wanted to point out that you don't have a "moral" obligation to tell people right away.
Jordan, one caution, at 3:13 you say,"Just because someone's becoming irrational, in the heat of the moment, and wants to beat me up..." I want to caution you not to think that is "irrational" - might be semantics on my part - your use of one word or another, but words say a lot, don't they? It would be dangerous to think he's irrational. To him that might be fully rational. Context my friend, is important, you know? Peace.
Next time they get pissed and ask, "WHy didn't you tell me early on?" Just say, "BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T ASK DUMB ASS! NOT MY FAULT YOU ARE TOO DUMB YOU CAN'T TELL!"
@blognewb that's actually a little insulting to say because there are a lot of trans people who pass really well and to imply that someone has to be dumb in order to see them the way they want to be seen is very hurtful.
@Chris188228 I was being facetious and exaggerated about the "dumb" part. If you look masculine or feminine, your date would tell right away. Some men however pursue women who actually have masculine features, like Tori Spelling's husband. His ex-wife actually looked so much like Tori Spelling as well. So the point is, if trans people can easily pass, it is their right when to disclose their congenital gender.
im hetero & got lots of friend that ad sex change & i dont care what people thinks you look good ,i wish i had you as a friend not a lover , & i would tell you dont be afraid of guys if you like them but dont wait too long too tell them cause , you might loose friend if you loose them they should not be your friend a friend understand if they dont they will not tell you but atleast acept it , its your life live it like you should not like people whant it, & i wish you luck
I've seen several girls come out in different ways, its an inevitability anymore. something that has to happen. I'm a strait guy, who has dated strictly trans women for the last like 4years. because i only chat up t-girls i get to see women out them selves all the time. So many girls get so nervous about it. Girls are shocked, when i am understanding, I always think, "did you expect me to get angry and run away?" it even gets annoying sometimes..be confident my friend....props
I think you should tell someone before you get physically involved (kissing included) even if it happens within an hour before you meet the person. Make sure you are not alone when you tell someone either. I don't think you did anything wrong, but you want to be safe and not piss people off who don't understand. You look great, by the way!
I AM A STRAIGHT MALE AND JUST WONDERED WHY NO ONE HAS MENTIONED TO YOU THAT YOU CAN BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT HAVING SEX. I HAVE BEEN INTIMATE WITH WOMEN, WITHOUT JUMPING THEM. INTIMACY AND SEX ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. GREAT WHEN COMBINED, BUT NOT THE SAME. IT IS ACTUALLY HARDER TO BE INTIMATE WITHOUT THE SEX, BUT IT WILL ALLOW YOU TO GET TO REALLY KNOW EACH OTHER. DON'T RUSH INTO ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU UNCORFOMTABLE. LOL.
The saying goes that you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince charming. Don't lose faith in finding "the one". He is out there, and he will look beyond the whole trans thing and see you for the beautiful woman you are.
@ around 1 minute you were talking about being hit on by the guys. And you aid about them not noticing or figuring it out. But what if they do "read " and just don't care? I know i have had that happen to me a few times. Also if that one guy is still interested you should meet up with him more. (Rachel)
you are so got your stuff together its good, and its very nice that your friends don't say that you was once a boy i have some ex-friends that thought it was up to them to let others know maybe because they were just jealous that i was very friendly to people and they didn't like it but you handled the situation very well koodos to you
i feel like there is only so well a person can know me, without knowing that i'm trans. eventually so much of my feelings and experiences can't be told unless i explain it... and so far, once i've realized i really liked someone i have told them. i don't want some square anyway hehe.
I feel what you did was fine. You will always run into people that won't understand and be mad no matter what, but good luck with you future relationships. As for telling people to each is their own and it is all about timing and what feels right to you.
If someone dosent know they freak out once they find out, often times they come back around, but the guy who sayed and didnt react much prob knew even though he is acting like he didnt. It takes time and guys dont come around that quickly.
good stories...always tell at the beginning before anything happens...some guys might shit most would flip out finding out after anything even happens...wouldnt want u to to get hurt in a situation like that...u are looking good tho i just have to throw that in there...xoxoxo
Think you did the right thing hon, by telling them after they got to know you as a person and before intimacy. I always make sure I tell someone, even b4 kissing or touching, etc.
u gotta tell ppl early, and telling someone at a party or around alcohol is not the best thing to do ... but its sort of tough because u don't want to tell ppl that don't have to know either ...
The first confession was fucked up lol. That's like tricking a vegetarian to eat meat. Or in my case, that's like kissing someone & then telling them I have an STD. U did right with the 2nd guy. Telling someone in advance is the right thing to do. It gets them mentally prepared. Make sure he eats your ass first before fucking so that way your anal muscles will relax. Or you can stretch yourself by using 1 finger at a time. Or use toys & pretend there's a space ship being sucked into a blackhole.
Jordan; I think you totally did the right thing thing by picking the right time to disclose your status. Do you think that maybe at 5am the beer had a bit of an effect on his angry reaction. Scott, on the other hand, might dig you as a woman, a friend and an athlete so he might do the brain work to process his feelings. You will never know where or when you will meet Mr Right so keep at it and be safe. Cool beans for you and thanks for the inspiration.
I don't know what some of these people are talking about. If you preempted every encounter with "btw, I'm trans," you might be open and upfront but you're not being you, you're being your transition. I think you handled boy #1 as well as can be hoped for.
Wow, that sounds like hella drama, but kinda cool that your getting that much attention from the guyz, sweet. Good luck with the whole thing. I only hope that one day that will happen for me. Love your vids, Smiles -Nat-
I think you should see the one that stuck around longer. See where it goes. You know? It doesn't necessarily have to end up sexual, and if it does, so be it... You're beautiful and deserve someone there by your side and who supports you for you
Jordan please just be safe ... you are a smart woman so you know when its getting there so be careful . and from what your saying you seem to be doing good. Be careful ... guys have their own agenda just be so so careful please?
I think the biggest thing everyone needs to remember is that not everyone knows much/has been around trans folks. Decomposing something that you've been brainwashed to think to make place for a new opinion is extremely hard and time consuming. Why that guy was pissed off, you may never know. Could've been because he's a close-minded ass, could've been because he was never faced with anything like it before, and his views had never been challenged.
Weird part is that I am totally turned off by facial piercings, but a girl with a penis, it is just another form of human beauty.
I like that people are more accepting these days, but I do not think transwomen need to go around describing their genital differences, any more than a man should tell his date, "Oh, I have to tell you, I have a mole on my butt that looks like George W. Bush, so don't freak..."
The concern of guys is that their buds might have known you are ts, and were making fun.
ladies ... we need to support each other .... i find that ts girls dont always support each other.... their is strength in numbers ... also if you stop pointing out your flaws the world will stop looking at them... if we could only be so proud of each other and giving support, we as a people could do anything. "when you value yourself, the world too will see this value".... as we gain confidence we grow as we loose confidence we die... Brandon
Maybe they know already... and accept it ...lots of men have attraction to ts girls...i get plenty of attention but be upfront ... and be honest always... i feel that if you tell the truth (but its how you say it ) because when you do the people you meet will accept you for who you are ...and this means rejection too....from one ts to another baby we are all wonderful....but we need to always be a cut above the rest ..im proud of you ,,,,good going ... Brandon
So I'm flattered you even responded to this comment because hahah I totally consider you role model status too lololol I've subscribed to both you girls and you've helped me a ton! Your courage is inspirational :) I've only recently come out to my close friends/family and without people like you I wouldn't have been able to do it.
Haha okay, I'm just going on and on. But you're super pretty, annnnd <3!
@AuFleur well thank you.. i cant speak for jordan but im sure she feels the same as me in the fact that we r totally happy to help other transpeople see thats okay to be who you are.
Jordan you really are living the dream. A smooth transition with supportive friends and family. Stunning looks and such a great attitude. Now you got the cute guys blowing things up...lol You go girl, but please be careful. xoxo... Jazzy
Relationships with a quick flame, tend to burn out quickly... even if you aren't clicking with guy #2 RIGHT away, maybe you should still keep in touch and go out on a date or two before deciding weather or not you like him.
Guy #1: You should never have kissed him before he knew the truth about you. You're lucky you didn't get hurt and that he just got pissed off and left.
Guy #2: Sounds like you still have a chance, but if you're not clicking then why bother?
In general: You might not want to mention these guys by name at all. Even though you're only saying their first names, you never know if they'll see these videos and flip out over being mentioned at all. Be careful.
Girl...you need to be really careful....you bring a big dude home you don't "really" know. Who has been hittin' on you...DO NOT BRING them HOME before you told them in a public place and are okay with it...freak me out. If you still have the boy junk then it could go really bad....
Oh man, wow. Um thats tough and I have no idea what I would do cause I havent been in that position yet but jeeze i bet i will someday.
Im sorry that dude blew up like that, that really sucks. No one forced him to make out with you. Its kinda dumb for him to do such a 180 when just a few moments ago he couldnt even tell the difference.
Just be careful plox, your like an awesome success story and dont want to lose you over some ignorant douchebag.
The only reason to tell anyone is if you are post op or never getting surgery. Otherwise you will always be just a tranny in their eyes. Unless you want to have the tranny life style that's fine too. But it seems to me you just want to be a girl without that baggage.
Hayleydippity 2 weeks ago
face change could be done without hormones, fat distribution in face and body can done better with a plastic surgeon, 3 years of hormone treatment can be done in one hour with a plastic surgeon , all shemales who took hormones end up in a hand of a plastic surgeon, they will do again cheeck bones , nose job, facial and body hair removal , lips filler, botox , hip shape with filler and most importan thing boobs,so what for hormones, i done all this without any pill of hormones,i love you all
foxyperla 1 month ago
I'm not trying to have a go at you by my last comment, I don't know in person so I'm not going to judge you, to me you seem like a kind loving person that I be happy to call you as a friend if I were to have a in person face to face friendship, meaning if I was friends with you outside this YT Internet world. Hope you have a wonderful day, Stacy ~ Australia.
TheBrightpower 1 month ago
Hey like watching your videos, one thing I got to thinking when watching your video was; when you tell someone you feel close to that your trans you also tell them that you are on YT and do vblog's and may just talk about them by first name on your vblog, how do you feel about talking about your friends/family here on YT, I was just wondering. If I was one of your friends in person I was would like to know if you were talking about me by my first name here on your YT vblog.
TheBrightpower 1 month ago
03:32 - Is that Cyriak? :D YOU ARE AWESOME BTW! I've been watching all your videos a few times over and i'm really interrested in your story.
TiasAhlgreN 2 months ago
<3
Vladamirr21 2 months ago
I honestly think that the only remaining masculine thing about you is your voice. It is recognizably male. I don't mean to criticize you, of course, I have respect for what you decided to do to feel happy. Perhaps you should consider hiring a vocal coach, they can help you to maintain a higher pitch of speaking voice which would be more believably female.
alextoob1 4 months ago
Not everyone is homosexual. Therefore, if you know a man may be mistaking you for a woman, you should let him know that you are a man right away. Why be deceitful? Your friend was wrong. You do owe him and everyone else in this world something, and that something is RESPECT! You want people to respect your homosexuality, well you need to respect peoples' heterosexuality. Or are you so desperate and selfish that you wont even consider how your actions effect other people? You know better.
brainznbeauty 5 months ago
@brainznbeauty what exactly is wrong with you?
PinkProgram 4 months ago
@brainznbeauty Not everyone is a bigot. Therefore, if you have no real knowledge of trans issues, you shouldn't spout mindless rabble. You owe HER and everyone else in this world something, and that something is RESPECT! You want people to respect your uneducated words, well, you need to actually learn what it means when someone is trans and respect people's gender identity. Or are you so desperate and selfish that you won't even consider how your actions effect other people. You know better.
Jade24B 2 months ago
@Jade24B So I guess you couldn't think of anything else to say but repeat what I said, lol. Imitation, honey, is the highest form of admiration.
brainznbeauty 2 months ago
@brainznbeauty but a homosexual man wouldn't be attracted to a transwoman, and just because a heterosexual man is attracted to a transwoman doesn't make him gay, even if he's okay with the fact that she's trans.
Chris188228 1 month ago
now i reallized. u r an it. u are hot and.cute anyway i am just man bored. didnt want to hurt u
MrSqueezi 5 months ago
again just ur noisy voive that u call interesting u now what u want uh... stress boys all over the internet on utube not showin ya boobs how rude shame on u ur country and the so called culture u live in boring crap i wont listen its over yes me one u zero the germans win again oh viva la france props to kanada. or are u a canadian girl with noisy voice and bad oxford english???
MrSqueezi 5 months ago
but wait honey i was sent to u back in time to say the gay gay under myself is my future image... fuckin u.... hahahahaha grets from germany again totally stoned and flamin ya cause u r really a cool gir with a sexy new cat
MrSqueezi 5 months ago
trust me i know your language in german it sounds like blabla ptobably u never get a cool boyfriend but maybe ... maybe u r hot and me is frustrated about u not showing me ya boooobies muauauauaua barney herman the german stinson was here
MrSqueezi 5 months ago
shut up show boobies to me muauauaua crazy german maofuckas uh
MrSqueezi 5 months ago
You def did right in telling the people. And fuck the first guy you told, 0 Swag, not worth your time.
Also, not sure if you would want this but there are dating/meet up websites for people into/looking-for trans people. Some are more all inclusive "alternative" dating websites, others just trans folk. Sometimes it can be really helpful, but the downside is that it can be kinda like having a double life :(
Either way, your beautiful and I wish you the best! Also your video's rock
PeteGK08 8 months ago
You did right in telling him then, better to say something ahead of time then to finding out in the heat of the moment.
deaderdeadbpu 8 months ago
"Splash.....I have a penis"...cracked me up! I just smoked a fat J and couldn't stop laughing. I have no idea how I ended up on this video, but you seem like a really genuine, fun person. Keep being awesome!
BMXchic36 9 months ago
I really like you, no matter what, you are such a lovely personality. I wish you all the best in your life as a girl! and don't worry about assholes, I'm sure you will find a nice boy who would love you as you are.
dusicka8 9 months ago
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dusicka8 9 months ago
you are a beautiful girl/boy, i dont even know you and in someway i got to this video, and if i just think you are an awesome persone and there is more in you to see rather than your anatomy. which i do like dough, lol
69zummer 9 months ago
you are a beautiful girl/boy, i dont even know you and in someway i got to this video, and if i just think you are an awesome persone and there is more in you to see rather than your anatomy. which i do like dough, lol
69zummer 9 months ago
so you put allll your business an personal life on YOU TUBE ! are you serious !
MsBiscuitz87 9 months ago
Mind*
annietaylorgdgd 10 months ago
I'm a girl & I'm attracted to you I picture you as a boy & a girl . But I love the way you speak too .... So does that mean I'm bi or idk ? To me it's like u still have the male mins somewhat but ur a girl so ur not so intimidating & it turns me on
annietaylorgdgd 10 months ago
you seem like a reall cool person..no matter wut your gender...and thats most important..wish u could teach me guitar....lol...anyway good luck
redhallpm 10 months ago
hi there, as it is known, ending up perfect is important. thank God that you are on the track. may you find all that you dreamed of in your life. best wishes from a transgender mtf, from sri lanka.
kris25235 10 months ago
Perhaps the most encouraging thing about this video is the "67 likes, 0 dislikes" :)
ultrabeest 11 months ago
Just be careful. If you can be up front try to. I lot of these reactions are tied to peoples ego's and how they imagine themselves. The manly man and what not. Those self created images are what ruin most relationships.
knossis1 11 months ago
In an earlier video, you said that you were engaged to a girl. Then in a later video, you seemed to imply that you continued seeing women during your first year transitioning. When did you start liking guys? Did you always or was it the hormones?
AliAliDillyDally 11 months ago
I think you look great Jordan and FFS really does make a differance. That said I feel that Anyone who doesn't have GRS has to expect that most people are going to be upset and not understand. You are opening yourself up to TROUBLE and this will continue to be a problem for the rest of your life. Having GRS and being whole is the ONLY way to complete the transitional process and life a normal life.
sweetbrandigirl 1 year ago
Was coming out as transgendered hard for you to do? Especially to your male friends? Cause I'm so worried and scared to do it.
Elohcinyelyah 1 year ago 6
That is what scares me about transgender People..I'm afraid of them getting hurt or even killed..
Midnightryder7 1 year ago
you would be killed in my country :)
weidenfella 1 year ago
I think you have wonderful friends and you should remain as friends at the very least with Scott, he seems to understand you from what you say and that is a very powerful friend who didn't know you before and knows you now and liked you in the way he does but doesn't run off at the first sign of something he's not used to.
macand0314 1 year ago
Hot guy, hot girl. You're lucky your friends understand
lxXDobbyXxl 1 year ago
Quit the cigarettes..
jelap62 1 year ago
I think you've handled both situations really well. You are very beautiful and I can easily understand why you'd get a lot of attention from both men and women. I don't think you "owe" this information to someone just because you are kissing any more than a guy has to tell a girl his penis size while they are kissing. Go with how you feel. The safety issue is unfortunate and I understand the concern, I just wanted to point out that you don't have a "moral" obligation to tell people right away.
wiredandbuzzed 1 year ago
Great video and I reckon this will be pretty much the experiences to expect, confusion, anger or acceptance.
puckman 1 year ago
i love you hun you r sooooooooooooooooooo pretty
bisexman19 1 year ago
Love it love it love it!
YES, I am vicariously living your escapade!
Jordan, one caution, at 3:13 you say,"Just because someone's becoming irrational, in the heat of the moment, and wants to beat me up..." I want to caution you not to think that is "irrational" - might be semantics on my part - your use of one word or another, but words say a lot, don't they? It would be dangerous to think he's irrational. To him that might be fully rational. Context my friend, is important, you know? Peace.
porkythepig007 1 year ago
i <3 your cal luvs weed poster thingy! lmao!!! n u go girl do ur thing!
alejandrosoyjo25 1 year ago
@alejandrosoyjo25 u handled it the right way.... <3
alejandrosoyjo25 1 year ago
Next time they get pissed and ask, "WHy didn't you tell me early on?" Just say, "BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T ASK DUMB ASS! NOT MY FAULT YOU ARE TOO DUMB YOU CAN'T TELL!"
blognewb 1 year ago 9
@blognewb that's actually a little insulting to say because there are a lot of trans people who pass really well and to imply that someone has to be dumb in order to see them the way they want to be seen is very hurtful.
Chris188228 1 month ago
@Chris188228 I was being facetious and exaggerated about the "dumb" part. If you look masculine or feminine, your date would tell right away. Some men however pursue women who actually have masculine features, like Tori Spelling's husband. His ex-wife actually looked so much like Tori Spelling as well. So the point is, if trans people can easily pass, it is their right when to disclose their congenital gender.
blognewb 1 month ago
im hetero & got lots of friend that ad sex change & i dont care what people thinks you look good ,i wish i had you as a friend not a lover , & i would tell you dont be afraid of guys if you like them but dont wait too long too tell them cause , you might loose friend if you loose them they should not be your friend a friend understand if they dont they will not tell you but atleast acept it , its your life live it like you should not like people whant it, & i wish you luck
drakeion 1 year ago
I've seen several girls come out in different ways, its an inevitability anymore. something that has to happen. I'm a strait guy, who has dated strictly trans women for the last like 4years. because i only chat up t-girls i get to see women out them selves all the time. So many girls get so nervous about it. Girls are shocked, when i am understanding, I always think, "did you expect me to get angry and run away?" it even gets annoying sometimes..be confident my friend....props
natetimesten 1 year ago
You need to go out with men a little older and understand more about transgender people.
forestda 1 year ago
You need to go out with men a little aolder and understand more about transgender people.
forestda 1 year ago
I think you should tell someone before you get physically involved (kissing included) even if it happens within an hour before you meet the person. Make sure you are not alone when you tell someone either. I don't think you did anything wrong, but you want to be safe and not piss people off who don't understand. You look great, by the way!
sonopoly 1 year ago
I AM A STRAIGHT MALE AND JUST WONDERED WHY NO ONE HAS MENTIONED TO YOU THAT YOU CAN BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT HAVING SEX. I HAVE BEEN INTIMATE WITH WOMEN, WITHOUT JUMPING THEM. INTIMACY AND SEX ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. GREAT WHEN COMBINED, BUT NOT THE SAME. IT IS ACTUALLY HARDER TO BE INTIMATE WITHOUT THE SEX, BUT IT WILL ALLOW YOU TO GET TO REALLY KNOW EACH OTHER. DON'T RUSH INTO ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU UNCORFOMTABLE. LOL.
55atras 1 year ago 2
You handled the situations great and I hope alls well with the guys whos txting you
roman10o1998 1 year ago
adams apple surgery n remove penus = badass girl :D
anonymous133711 1 year ago
The saying goes that you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince charming. Don't lose faith in finding "the one". He is out there, and he will look beyond the whole trans thing and see you for the beautiful woman you are.
6672rock 1 year ago
Well, first of all, it SUCKS telling someone, but you have to do it so you don't get hurt!!!!! Preferrably in a public place!!!!
Tara1230011 1 year ago 2
did he like you and kissing you ? i think that's the only question(for him)
montabob 1 year ago
@ around 1 minute you were talking about being hit on by the guys. And you aid about them not noticing or figuring it out. But what if they do "read " and just don't care? I know i have had that happen to me a few times. Also if that one guy is still interested you should meet up with him more. (Rachel)
Blondets1 1 year ago
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Blondets1 1 year ago
you are so got your stuff together its good, and its very nice that your friends don't say that you was once a boy i have some ex-friends that thought it was up to them to let others know maybe because they were just jealous that i was very friendly to people and they didn't like it but you handled the situation very well koodos to you
krystalme32 1 year ago
i feel like there is only so well a person can know me, without knowing that i'm trans. eventually so much of my feelings and experiences can't be told unless i explain it... and so far, once i've realized i really liked someone i have told them. i don't want some square anyway hehe.
youcancallmethedude 1 year ago
I feel what you did was fine. You will always run into people that won't understand and be mad no matter what, but good luck with you future relationships. As for telling people to each is their own and it is all about timing and what feels right to you.
personmidwest 1 year ago
You should tell a guy before he commits to the idea of dating and before any bodily fluids are exchanged.
CogitoErgoCogitoSum 1 year ago
If someone dosent know they freak out once they find out, often times they come back around, but the guy who sayed and didnt react much prob knew even though he is acting like he didnt. It takes time and guys dont come around that quickly.
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catscan89 1 year ago
good stories...always tell at the beginning before anything happens...some guys might shit most would flip out finding out after anything even happens...wouldnt want u to to get hurt in a situation like that...u are looking good tho i just have to throw that in there...xoxoxo
abenewson 1 year ago
Think you did the right thing hon, by telling them after they got to know you as a person and before intimacy. I always make sure I tell someone, even b4 kissing or touching, etc.
JillyBeane1 1 year ago
u gotta tell ppl early, and telling someone at a party or around alcohol is not the best thing to do ... but its sort of tough because u don't want to tell ppl that don't have to know either ...
jennystgirls 1 year ago
luv the vid - you did great. hang in there
stefwannabe 1 year ago
The first confession was fucked up lol. That's like tricking a vegetarian to eat meat. Or in my case, that's like kissing someone & then telling them I have an STD. U did right with the 2nd guy. Telling someone in advance is the right thing to do. It gets them mentally prepared. Make sure he eats your ass first before fucking so that way your anal muscles will relax. Or you can stretch yourself by using 1 finger at a time. Or use toys & pretend there's a space ship being sucked into a blackhole.
SpellLoveBackwards 1 year ago
how tall are you? I'm 6'1.. sometimes being tall sucks
gamergirl0010 1 year ago
Jordan; I think you totally did the right thing thing by picking the right time to disclose your status. Do you think that maybe at 5am the beer had a bit of an effect on his angry reaction. Scott, on the other hand, might dig you as a woman, a friend and an athlete so he might do the brain work to process his feelings. You will never know where or when you will meet Mr Right so keep at it and be safe. Cool beans for you and thanks for the inspiration.
Paula A.
msPaulaA1 1 year ago
I don't know what some of these people are talking about. If you preempted every encounter with "btw, I'm trans," you might be open and upfront but you're not being you, you're being your transition. I think you handled boy #1 as well as can be hoped for.
You definitely are a role model.
pbandjbird 1 year ago
love the piercing
vivcatgirl 1 year ago
LOVE ur smile and laugh. great video.
84source 1 year ago
Awesome video, there aren't that many people on youtube talking about this kind of thing. Hope you keep us updated :)
1Vella 1 year ago
you have a good heart and a good conscious to already be thinking about letting this guy know you're trans...kudos
flyer11234 1 year ago
Wow, that sounds like hella drama, but kinda cool that your getting that much attention from the guyz, sweet. Good luck with the whole thing. I only hope that one day that will happen for me. Love your vids, Smiles -Nat-
PINKalidescope 1 year ago
I think you should see the one that stuck around longer. See where it goes. You know? It doesn't necessarily have to end up sexual, and if it does, so be it... You're beautiful and deserve someone there by your side and who supports you for you
arg110587 1 year ago
girl u look totally female,u just look like a tomgirl...which isnt a bad thing :)
msParisxoxoable 1 year ago
Jordan please just be safe ... you are a smart woman so you know when its getting there so be careful . and from what your saying you seem to be doing good. Be careful ... guys have their own agenda just be so so careful please?
jennjelly 1 year ago
I think the biggest thing everyone needs to remember is that not everyone knows much/has been around trans folks. Decomposing something that you've been brainwashed to think to make place for a new opinion is extremely hard and time consuming. Why that guy was pissed off, you may never know. Could've been because he's a close-minded ass, could've been because he was never faced with anything like it before, and his views had never been challenged.
cotoncandie 1 year ago
Weird part is that I am totally turned off by facial piercings, but a girl with a penis, it is just another form of human beauty.
I like that people are more accepting these days, but I do not think transwomen need to go around describing their genital differences, any more than a man should tell his date, "Oh, I have to tell you, I have a mole on my butt that looks like George W. Bush, so don't freak..."
The concern of guys is that their buds might have known you are ts, and were making fun.
ClaireseStarr 1 year ago
You're an attractive woman; we all are our own worst critics at times.
MissFaithLouise 1 year ago
ladies ... we need to support each other .... i find that ts girls dont always support each other.... their is strength in numbers ... also if you stop pointing out your flaws the world will stop looking at them... if we could only be so proud of each other and giving support, we as a people could do anything. "when you value yourself, the world too will see this value".... as we gain confidence we grow as we loose confidence we die... Brandon
MKZJONES 1 year ago
Maybe they know already... and accept it ...lots of men have attraction to ts girls...i get plenty of attention but be upfront ... and be honest always... i feel that if you tell the truth (but its how you say it ) because when you do the people you meet will accept you for who you are ...and this means rejection too....from one ts to another baby we are all wonderful....but we need to always be a cut above the rest ..im proud of you ,,,,good going ... Brandon
MKZJONES 1 year ago
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MKZJONES 1 year ago
aw you are a role model :)
I like you videos! Totally scribed :D <3
AuFleur 1 year ago
@AuFleur i totally agree.. she is def a roll model to me too. like shes so far ahead of me in transition.. i for one know how tough transitioning is.
Jesslyngirl87 1 year ago
@Jesslyngirl87
Good to see you and Jordan becoming acquainted. I look forward to your, all transwomen, metal band!
ClaireseStarr 1 year ago
@Jesslyngirl87
So I'm flattered you even responded to this comment because hahah I totally consider you role model status too lololol I've subscribed to both you girls and you've helped me a ton! Your courage is inspirational :) I've only recently come out to my close friends/family and without people like you I wouldn't have been able to do it.
Haha okay, I'm just going on and on. But you're super pretty, annnnd <3!
AuFleur 1 year ago
@AuFleur well thank you.. i cant speak for jordan but im sure she feels the same as me in the fact that we r totally happy to help other transpeople see thats okay to be who you are.
jesslyn:)
Jesslyngirl87 1 year ago
When you talk to guy, do notices if your voice changes?
TeriElsaLima 1 year ago
i have that same exact hat!!! (jack Daniels right? i think so)
anyway
you have an amazing life please don't stop making videos!!
also "splash, also i have a penis"
OMGItsMe241 1 year ago
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OMGItsMe241 1 year ago
Jordan you really are living the dream. A smooth transition with supportive friends and family. Stunning looks and such a great attitude. Now you got the cute guys blowing things up...lol You go girl, but please be careful. xoxo... Jazzy
jul9cuz 1 year ago
Relationships with a quick flame, tend to burn out quickly... even if you aren't clicking with guy #2 RIGHT away, maybe you should still keep in touch and go out on a date or two before deciding weather or not you like him.
bonifagurl 1 year ago
I think your really pretty and smart and talented. Younare just an incredible woman.
elvis3700 1 year ago
Guy #1: You should never have kissed him before he knew the truth about you. You're lucky you didn't get hurt and that he just got pissed off and left.
Guy #2: Sounds like you still have a chance, but if you're not clicking then why bother?
In general: You might not want to mention these guys by name at all. Even though you're only saying their first names, you never know if they'll see these videos and flip out over being mentioned at all. Be careful.
T10041 1 year ago
Girl...you need to be really careful....you bring a big dude home you don't "really" know. Who has been hittin' on you...DO NOT BRING them HOME before you told them in a public place and are okay with it...freak me out. If you still have the boy junk then it could go really bad....
NoNameTransWoman 1 year ago
So if the dude was blowing you do you really need to tell him...?? Oh! You mean blowing me up!! Like blowing up the phone....hahahah.
NoNameTransWoman 1 year ago
P.S. , Your still amazingly gorgeous ^^, Id totally date you if you were lesbian mtf to.
innershadow101 1 year ago
Oh man, wow. Um thats tough and I have no idea what I would do cause I havent been in that position yet but jeeze i bet i will someday.
Im sorry that dude blew up like that, that really sucks. No one forced him to make out with you. Its kinda dumb for him to do such a 180 when just a few moments ago he couldnt even tell the difference.
Just be careful plox, your like an awesome success story and dont want to lose you over some ignorant douchebag.
innershadow101 1 year ago
last night I was talked to by lots of men and I haven't even started hormones, nothing I just have long hair and am super thin and petit..O_o
davisfontanes 1 year ago
You are gorgeous, and you are right it's entirely your choice whether to tell a guy or not and only you can know when the time is appropriate. x
theantnest 1 year ago