you are very good looking you will have no problem with the gay people just the people that act like they hate gay people. come hang out in florida we welcome good looking gay guys
Scott "Amico Mio" I know your great contribution to the "Coming Out" archive is getting on a bit here, but Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here, believes it's never too late to tell a friend just how fricken proud he is of him!
Con L'Amore e Molti Baci! (With Love And Kisses)
Il Tuo Nuovo Zio "Gay" e Amico! (Your New "Gay" Uncle And Friend)
@midevilmonkeyterd tell a really close friend, or someone you just trust the most. that should make it easier, and help you feel less nervous. good luck, and remember who you are is awesome, and no one can take that away from you!
everything that i have done is clear evidence that i was able to get on with my life as soonas i just told my parents this is who i am and i have no intention of changing to satisfy you you know just love me or hate me i dont care and they where just really cool about it and they said well yeah we figured we didnt need you to tell me that but i really admire what ypou did though coz it does take some courage to do it come out to your family i was shaking when i did this and i had to do it alone.
dude i really dont think you should have been worried i did the same thing with my parents they where the only people i had to turn but they where really excepting of it but now life is great i know hundreds of people they all love me for who i am even straight guys dont give a shit and now and i 19 living in the united kingdom i have my own business a husband live in a seven bedroomed house regular parties and 2 adopted childrenand going to university doing fashion and clothing.
i know exactly what you went thru cuz i am going thru it. im 21 and coming out it took a heavy toll on me. but it is not a choice and nobody should be punished for how they were born. Sexual Attraction is something we can NOT control. good luck and god bless.
I just ran across your interview series, and I just want to say how much I appreciate you and your family doing them. Your family models how a family ought to work! I want your mother for my own! (even though I'm probably older than she is ;)
You are awfully lucky in being Canadian, but not nearly so much as having your family! Thanks.
Well, I'd say, so far so good. You've got a good head on your shoulders brother and I'm proud to have you on our side. Things will only get better now! Hang in there and be strong man!
In support of all those brave, I entered an animation contest for Valentine's Day with a gay 'coming out' theme.
Will you vote for my animation? All you have to do is watch it and that gets me a vote! You can access it by watching the video on my channel, and then there's a link bubble that takes you to the story.
Hi, I created a youtube channel to help gay teens and for them to get through every day issue's. Click on my name and help me, keep helping others by subscribing!
well that is inspiring, i have only come out to my mother and all of my friends and they seem to have no problem with it... there was a few funny moments and akward silences but is so much more of a relief instead of looking over my shoulder everytime i went out with my boyfriend, now all i have to do is remove the remander of the lurking shadow and tell the rest of my family but i am in a happy place.
I'd just like to say thankyou, you are an inspiring young adult and are a true inspiration
Was a car designed to drive on land or sea? Land. Was an airplane designed for air or underwater. Air. Was a man designed to be with a woman or man. ....... Let me know why you are homosexual and what you think about the aforementioned.
I heard that the president of Iran said there were no gays in Iran. I thought that was weird. With a population that large, some people must be gay. I guess no Iranians have came out yet.
Great story. I'm very conservative, against gay marriage but for different reasons than most. That said I am first and foremost a libertarian, and I'm proud to live in a country were individuals like yourself (in what could in other cultures be a compromising situation) are free to express and be themselves. bravo.
You "hit the nail on the head" by stating fear of the "what if". You obviously set a good example of a gay person. I'm certain you will be a positive force for gay people through out your life. If only we had You Tube many decades ago, and people such as yourself posting blogs, many suicides might have been avoided, and more straight people would have a more positive acceptance of gay orientation. Good for you, and thank you.
you don't seem to realize that gay jock IS a stereotype
although i agree with you that most gay guys aren't visibly effeminate and don't feign interest in sports to look manly, those are definitely misconceptions
dude...so i dont know how old this video is or how out you are at this point but heres how i look at it.
being gay is not something that you have to go and anounce to the world. its a piece of you, and you r right it helps you be who you really are, but its not who you are. When you meet people they dont come out to you as hetrosexual so there really is no need for you to come out as homosexual to everyone that you meet. unless you really want to. thats just my POV.
Good video dude!!! I'm a 13 year old lesbian and in 8th grade and my school is very homophobia. If I told one of my friends it would pass on and spread rumors and eventually everyone in the school will hate me for who I am.
i'm glad your experience was a lot better than mine, i'm 31 now and my mum still thinks it a phase which can be cured by good old christianity!!!! i know it's just tragic !!!!
I'm glad it worked out so good for you -- you seem like a nice guy. For so many people those fears of coming out become reality when they do and lives are never the same. Good for you and your family.
being gay is so normal, its a shame you had to make an announcement to the world . Straights don't have to worry about what others will think. Be proud of who you are.
Call on the name of Yahuah of hosts, he made you Gay and not that impostor on a cross. The Roman Catholic man invented god with the Greek name. They say that God is all things, so stop throwing stones at God!!!!!
Revelation 3:9
Hosea 13:4
HallEluYah.
BTW Repent from not accepting who you are!!!!!!!
Love letters to stoodOnAnArk, Christian letters to Vatican City.
im out to like four people officially but alot of people think they know but luckily 3 of those people r good friends (ones kinda a boyfriend) and the others an ex girl friend so think of that wat u will lol
I see that this little quarrel has resurrected. I'll just chime in that a master's degree in theology is much the same as a doctorate in Scientology dianetics, or like certification in the field of paranormal ghost-hunting. It's a subject which largely chases after make-believe concepts, and makes no apologies for doing so. Why not be a veterinary specialist for unicorns? That joke was just begging for me to say it.
I am glad you realize how lucky you are. You seem very confident with yourself. That's good! I found the video helpful. Wish you well on your journey and thanks for sharing.
Fine story. You were raised right and your excellent character is a tribute to your folks and your own intelligence and courage. You'll do well going forward and will command respect from most who know you. (There will be some who nurture prejudice in their psyche. Can't do much about them. They throw up a wall of hate and it engulfs them, like it's their internal chemistry to be that way.) Thanks for being out there for all your friends!
i admire your bravery my friend. i cannot imagine how nervous you were when you come out to your parents. ignore those disgusting biggots who put you down because of who you are.
and one final thing, i must say you are a very handsome lad indeed. any lad you wish to have as a bf must be a very lucky guy indeed
Dude your storyvis gr8,I'm 14 and I'm kinda the same as u, nobody would think I was gay, except for the 4 friends I've told so far, i play sport I do trainning and weights. I'm willing to do manuel labour and stuff to. People steriotype to much these days, gd to hear something I can relate 2, just can't wait till I can have a proper relationship with another guy, I need it. Great vid 5/5
You have done the right thing! And now live your life Proud. And I dont mean wave your flag all day, I mean be who you are and dont let anyone or anything pull you down! One more thing when you think your in love your probably not, make sure that you protect your heart. Feel love but be prepared to see it end. If you invest your life and love to someone make sure they are all you expect in a human and dont ever take someone on that you think will change or that you think you can change.
You are indeed very lucky to have such nice, accepting parents....take me for example: I'm 18 and I still haven't told my dad cuz he'd certainly freak out so I dont think he's ready to know about it......but yet I feel pretty lucky because I have two great sisters who love me for who I am :)
I know there are people that'd faced much worst situations...
Brilliant job. You're head is well screwed on. You've got a wonderful family (see the "interview" videos), probably in part responsible for the former observation. And, you live in a country that has started to recognize the importance of nurturing its gay citizens. Not everybody is so lucky. But you've shown everyone what the world COULD look like if we work at it.
well hello scott. ur very very brave to make a coming out story. and wow man ur lucky.
wheni told my friends i was gay they abandonded meand my BF. eventhough myBF was one of my friends but ya westuck together. anyway um msg me if you wanna talk.
Very interesting story. Very similar to mine, although I have not posted it on the Coming Out Archives yet. I subscribed so keep in touch. Check out my vids.
You were very bold, even for expressing all things to your family...in Spain, Italy, Greece is not so simple...you're marked for all the life. Be patient with your school companions. God bless you! Dave
Dude, You don't sound gay. You voice sounds like a straight guy. Where's your feminine voice? I always picture gay guys like the Adam and Eve commercial I have on my channel. Adam is gay and he acts so girlie. LOL. Check my channel.
I found your channel through this video, so I didn't really know you when I first saw it. Watching it again now is really interesting, especially seeing the differences between how you describe the experience and what your family said in their interviews.
What you said about horror stories is so true, although what really does it for me is when, in addition to all the hate from the world, people have to overcome self-hate due to their religion.
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True Christians don't hate homosexuals, but they cannot approve of their behavior because the Bible states that it's a sin. BTW, the Bible also states that any sex outside of marriage (which Jesus indicated as being between a man and a woman) regardless of gender is a sin. So, I pray that God will help you as he help me to consider marriage instead of "playing the field." I'm not saying that you are playing the field, but I am saying that Christians cannot condone what God doesn't accept.
And the "marriage" that Jesus allegedly refered to is between a girl between the ages 8-12 and a male suitor of any age (as was customary in that time, and throughout history). The bible is a very poor place to get morals from.
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Jesus told the Jews that Moses allowed divorce & polygamy because of the evil in their hearts, but God created marriage between 1 man and 1 woman from the beginning, and he does not like divorce. Morality is nothing more than a mask that hides the immoral tendencies of the heart. Jesus frees us from that mask of morality and we are slowly changed from within. This, my friend is what Christianity is all about. Gradually being conformed to the image of Christ (Rom 8:28-29). :)
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Thanks. Don't worry, I don't expect you to understand spiritual matters. 1 Cor 2:14, "The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned." Sir, I will pray that God open your mind and heart to the truth.
Who are you asimpleinstrument? And why would you comment about sinning? When just about everyone sin on a daily bases and he not sinning no more than me or you. In fact he probably by far more righteous and Christian than we will ever be. Going though pain and struggle will only make you just more closer to God.
@uraine7626 Who am I? A servant of Christ. I'm a pastor, a missionary, a chaplain (for two hospitals and the sheriff's department), I have a master's in theology, and am currently writing a book. Going through what kind of pain gets you closer to God? If it's the pain of suffering for the sake of Christ and the preaching of the Gospel, yes that will get you closer to God - but not suffering because you can't stop yourself from having sex outside of marriage.
@asimpleinstrument fornication is consider a sin from the words of Christ, but u seen like a good Christ so let me ask you this. Homosexuality is a sin in the bible that is debatale, because Christ didn't teach against homosexuality and the only person who was highly against it was the apostle Paul,
who had a lot of teaching that Jesus didn't agree with (I shouldn't have to go indetail because you said u a servant of Christ). And everyone who is true Christians know that Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because of the disrespected and lack of hostipality that the villagers showed Lot and his quests, so there no evidence that God is against the homosexuality because that didn't even occurred in the story.
@asimpleinstrument. And the purpose of marriage according to the bible is because God seen man (Adam) as being lonely and he felt that loneliness wasn't good for man so he made a covenant for two people to be together which is marriage. So if homosexuality isn't a sin in the eyes of God, who is to blame for homosexuals not being able to get married?
@asimpleinstrument Who will help them bear their sin though fornication? because we all know that Jesus acknowledge that it better to wed then to burn. but they can't get married, so u fault is that? Are they the one to blame for that sin or is it someone else?
Awesome, moving post. I'm glad that you've had nothing but positive responses from friends and family so far. Like you, my sister was the first to know and was also supportive. Don't worry too much about your schoolmates, though--I didn't think I knew any other gays in my catholic school back in Wisconsin; however, I did catch up with several later in life. Take care!
scott pls marry me! and btw im so not the typical stereotype either! xD im not really into the flaming and gay pride and stuff... i used to do sports but i was getting lazy... LOL thats my nature... being lazy... anyways, yeh great coming out! xD i havent come out to my family yet, but i reckon they are getting suspicious of my sexuality lately im getting scared cus my family is religious and they are very homophobic! lol wish me luck! i really wanna marry u! xD
You definitely don't meet the typical gay stereotype.... me either, I mean, I am not into sports, but I am not a flamer. I don't like the whole flamer thing, not into it. I enjoyed your video and the other videos that you have posted. I am glad for you that you have had the acceptance that you have found.
You're getting a lot of love on this channel so you won't be surprised if I add my two cents worth. I found your video by accident and I was moved by your courage and honesty. Although you're a complete stranger to me, you make me less cynical about humanity. You have a positive effect on people and that's an awesome gift. 7025 views as of 8:20 am
my mom wasn't acceptive of it at first but she did in time my dad never found out he commited sucide before he ever found out my dads side doesn't know my moms side does know they accept that there behind me 100 percent
thats awsome ur sister was there that helps alot it took me a long time too to get over the whole thing and come out to my family too but i did it im pretty much out now but never let others put u down ignore hatred Great story i like it
Great :) im a gay and i actually cried watching the video of u contemplating suicide
mizmiller2081 2 months ago
fantastic guy :)
Televersity 3 months ago
You must be Canadian...you say "grade..." hehe...my brotha! :)
MDkid1 4 months ago
:) inspirtation
TheCitymonster 5 months ago
So proud of you!:D
bunnybooties 5 months ago
you are very good looking you will have no problem with the gay people just the people that act like they hate gay people. come hang out in florida we welcome good looking gay guys
mullisjoseph1 5 months ago 5
Very inspirational..video
ps love your voice :p
1TheLoneWolf1 5 months ago
inspriation to young gays congrats bro
LoLsTar1011 5 months ago
Im proud of u doing this giving other gay kids courge of coming out is acctully a good thing
MrYesitis1 5 months ago
@big93scott
Ciao Bello!
Scott "Amico Mio" I know your great contribution to the "Coming Out" archive is getting on a bit here, but Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here, believes it's never too late to tell a friend just how fricken proud he is of him!
Con L'Amore e Molti Baci! (With Love And Kisses)
Il Tuo Nuovo Zio "Gay" e Amico! (Your New "Gay" Uncle And Friend)
Blaine
blainebill39 6 months ago
im thinkin bout comin out to people i now but im nervous as hell and dont now how people will treat me
midevilmonkeyterd 7 months ago
@midevilmonkeyterd tell a really close friend, or someone you just trust the most. that should make it easier, and help you feel less nervous. good luck, and remember who you are is awesome, and no one can take that away from you!
betteryetcrazy 7 months ago
@midevilmonkeyterd tell a really close friend that is open! youll feel really good.
KamensTV 6 months ago
ok im a girl and ur hot
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I thinks all Faggots want to be woman's They love to get fuck like one. LMAO:D
jadyqg12511 7 months ago
everything that i have done is clear evidence that i was able to get on with my life as soonas i just told my parents this is who i am and i have no intention of changing to satisfy you you know just love me or hate me i dont care and they where just really cool about it and they said well yeah we figured we didnt need you to tell me that but i really admire what ypou did though coz it does take some courage to do it come out to your family i was shaking when i did this and i had to do it alone.
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dude i really dont think you should have been worried i did the same thing with my parents they where the only people i had to turn but they where really excepting of it but now life is great i know hundreds of people they all love me for who i am even straight guys dont give a shit and now and i 19 living in the united kingdom i have my own business a husband live in a seven bedroomed house regular parties and 2 adopted childrenand going to university doing fashion and clothing.
09benjaminbutton 8 months ago in playlist scals&chachacha
damn cutie pie lol am gay too hit me up some time
dukedoggydoggy 8 months ago
I love your story!
:)
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sexykatie90 9 months ago
i know exactly what you went thru cuz i am going thru it. im 21 and coming out it took a heavy toll on me. but it is not a choice and nobody should be punished for how they were born. Sexual Attraction is something we can NOT control. good luck and god bless.
Bignadz55 9 months ago
You are extremely cute :)
Thanks for the story!
You were very lucky
NomNomCookies000 10 months ago
i would never guess you were gay without you saying [:
BakaUzai 11 months ago
I just ran across your interview series, and I just want to say how much I appreciate you and your family doing them. Your family models how a family ought to work! I want your mother for my own! (even though I'm probably older than she is ;)
You are awfully lucky in being Canadian, but not nearly so much as having your family! Thanks.
waynesb 11 months ago
Well, I'd say, so far so good. You've got a good head on your shoulders brother and I'm proud to have you on our side. Things will only get better now! Hang in there and be strong man!
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illtakedarain 1 year ago
I love ur coming out story mines was so different, but it was when I was 18.lol now I am 20. Ur so handsome by the way.lol
:))
alexma90 1 year ago
You're cool, and attractive, Austin, Texas :-P ??
mak0tak0 1 year ago
i love you
trogtrash 1 year ago
well that is inspiring, i have only come out to my mother and all of my friends and they seem to have no problem with it... there was a few funny moments and akward silences but is so much more of a relief instead of looking over my shoulder everytime i went out with my boyfriend, now all i have to do is remove the remander of the lurking shadow and tell the rest of my family but i am in a happy place.
I'd just like to say thankyou, you are an inspiring young adult and are a true inspiration
Crazycow280 1 year ago
Hey I come from a farming community, now live in near a big city. As for going to a catholic school. Man I feel for you. Haha. Great job
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you all suck at life fucking freaks
dontmakemeMADhelper1 1 year ago
@dontmakemeMADhelper1 I think you're flirting with us
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why arent you all fucking diyng ?
dontmakemeMADhelper1 1 year ago
@dontmakemeMADhelper1 you are a disease
trogtrash 1 year ago
i think hes hot there lol
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Was a car designed to drive on land or sea? Land. Was an airplane designed for air or underwater. Air. Was a man designed to be with a woman or man. ....... Let me know why you are homosexual and what you think about the aforementioned.
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Very nice! I have some video's of destruction and flexing you might like ;)
BrianIrmiter 1 year ago
whish i had your parents... i guess some ppl are not as lucky to have great open minded parents...
Rayden150 1 year ago
I heard that the president of Iran said there were no gays in Iran. I thought that was weird. With a population that large, some people must be gay. I guess no Iranians have came out yet.
TheNanakDev 1 year ago
Great story. I'm very conservative, against gay marriage but for different reasons than most. That said I am first and foremost a libertarian, and I'm proud to live in a country were individuals like yourself (in what could in other cultures be a compromising situation) are free to express and be themselves. bravo.
mattymatt54 1 year ago
wow i honestly if i were to see you somewhere or talk to you i would never suspect you were homosexual.
Its nice to see that someone like you can be an example that not all homosexual men are feminine
You inspire me =]
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that's awesome man, i'm happy for you.
mrkimono2 1 year ago
I would have never have guess you're gay! I'm gay too! Haha! =)
TeddyFierceGlamorous 1 year ago
You "hit the nail on the head" by stating fear of the "what if". You obviously set a good example of a gay person. I'm certain you will be a positive force for gay people through out your life. If only we had You Tube many decades ago, and people such as yourself posting blogs, many suicides might have been avoided, and more straight people would have a more positive acceptance of gay orientation. Good for you, and thank you.
tahoemack 1 year ago
I LIKE BOYS 2 IT KOOL... BUT RELAX
liteson786 1 year ago
@big93scott
You are truly blessed in your family and it’s great to hear you express
your gratitude for that! The closet kills!
I can't help but being so proud of you my friend! The world you will be
"out" in is a far less hostile place than that which I came out in as a boy!
When I was not yet 18, I met and fell in love with a boy named Bobby
Griffith(Prayers for Bobby).
blainebill39 1 year ago
@big93scott
His family at the time was dogmatically
religious, and the pain of the closet was unbearable for him. He took
his own life in 1983! Thankfully that was a long time ago and much has
changed. We're not quite there yet, but full inclusion is within sight!
blainebill39 1 year ago
@big93scott
It thrills me to know that you will be able to lead an authentic life as
a gay man, and will even likely be able to marry the person whom you
love, if you so choose!
Yeah!!!!
May G-D Bless You!
Blaine
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blainebill39 1 year ago
that's awesome man, i'm happy for you.
Tremari0 1 year ago
lol - I feel your pain man! haha
Ganajah 1 year ago
you don't seem to realize that gay jock IS a stereotype
although i agree with you that most gay guys aren't visibly effeminate and don't feign interest in sports to look manly, those are definitely misconceptions
shanegamer13 1 year ago
how old would you be in grade 3? im english so i dont get grades :L
TheMakeAScene 1 year ago
That would be about 7 or 8 years old
Daltonleeper 1 year ago
yes you are lucky.... try living in a fucked up, homophobic, eastern european country ......imagine how i feel
The95Alex 1 year ago
dude...so i dont know how old this video is or how out you are at this point but heres how i look at it.
being gay is not something that you have to go and anounce to the world. its a piece of you, and you r right it helps you be who you really are, but its not who you are. When you meet people they dont come out to you as hetrosexual so there really is no need for you to come out as homosexual to everyone that you meet. unless you really want to. thats just my POV.
gipsojma8 1 year ago
you're brave man. braver than me im to scared to come out to my family
guy3911 1 year ago
@guy3911 same here
ivasenko48 1 year ago
Coming out of where?
Trifonsdude 1 year ago
Nice video. Im glad that you shared this with everyone.
1Bald2Eagle5 1 year ago
Good video dude!!! I'm a 13 year old lesbian and in 8th grade and my school is very homophobia. If I told one of my friends it would pass on and spread rumors and eventually everyone in the school will hate me for who I am.
MsSneakerlover 1 year ago
Very good story, and good for you wanting to "break the barrier" at your school, if only more people were as self accepting as yourself :)
limegreen9717 1 year ago
Are you the youngest of your siblings?
hawksandsparrows 1 year ago
i 'm pleased it was a good experience for you. it's a shame that so many others, mine included aren't so lucky. big hug 2 u!
darrelja 1 year ago
i'm glad your experience was a lot better than mine, i'm 31 now and my mum still thinks it a phase which can be cured by good old christianity!!!! i know it's just tragic !!!!
darrelja 1 year ago
@scheiSSkind77 wtf i didn't even know you were black but you need to leave people alone and stop judging just because of who they are!
cookie29234 1 year ago
@scheiSSkind77 well you might be 45 but your way of thinking is like a stupid kid!
cookie29234 1 year ago
@scheiSSkind77 you need to fucking grow up dumb ass bitch!
cookie29234 1 year ago
@scheiSSkind77 STUPID BITCH it's his life and he can do with it whatever he wants and you're nobody to be judging who he is!
cookie29234 1 year ago
@scheiSSkind77 very observant.
big93scott 1 year ago
well at least one of us was able to admit it in jr high.
crisbynt 1 year ago
I'm glad it worked out so good for you -- you seem like a nice guy. For so many people those fears of coming out become reality when they do and lives are never the same. Good for you and your family.
1460Ethan 1 year ago
being gay is so normal, its a shame you had to make an announcement to the world . Straights don't have to worry about what others will think. Be proud of who you are.
localman12 1 year ago
Call on the name of Yahuah of hosts, he made you Gay and not that impostor on a cross. The Roman Catholic man invented god with the Greek name. They say that God is all things, so stop throwing stones at God!!!!!
Revelation 3:9
Hosea 13:4
HallEluYah.
BTW Repent from not accepting who you are!!!!!!!
Love letters to stoodOnAnArk, Christian letters to Vatican City.
stoodOnAnArk 1 year ago
im out to like four people officially but alot of people think they know but luckily 3 of those people r good friends (ones kinda a boyfriend) and the others an ex girl friend so think of that wat u will lol
fandude15 1 year ago
@asimpleinstrument
I see that this little quarrel has resurrected. I'll just chime in that a master's degree in theology is much the same as a doctorate in Scientology dianetics, or like certification in the field of paranormal ghost-hunting. It's a subject which largely chases after make-believe concepts, and makes no apologies for doing so. Why not be a veterinary specialist for unicorns? That joke was just begging for me to say it.
EnterWittyPhraseHere 1 year ago
I really liked your video, very touching, very heart-felt...
I think young gays need more people like you. Did you end up coming out at school? How did it go?
A++ and all the best
Nic
littlebuggermate 1 year ago
I am glad you realize how lucky you are. You seem very confident with yourself. That's good! I found the video helpful. Wish you well on your journey and thanks for sharing.
Jedd20 1 year ago
Fine story. You were raised right and your excellent character is a tribute to your folks and your own intelligence and courage. You'll do well going forward and will command respect from most who know you. (There will be some who nurture prejudice in their psyche. Can't do much about them. They throw up a wall of hate and it engulfs them, like it's their internal chemistry to be that way.) Thanks for being out there for all your friends!
x8tmc8x 1 year ago
good to see that there are "normal" gays! so many people think that gays are automaticially like chris crocker! peace guys
butterbread1000 1 year ago
I don't know how old you are, but you are super cute! ;) My coming out story was similar to yours...but mine was a little different...
xXxiPodSingerxXx 1 year ago
i admire your bravery my friend. i cannot imagine how nervous you were when you come out to your parents. ignore those disgusting biggots who put you down because of who you are.
and one final thing, i must say you are a very handsome lad indeed. any lad you wish to have as a bf must be a very lucky guy indeed
thedarknesscallingme 1 year ago
wow ur sexy i'd go out w/u :)
graywolfjb89 1 year ago
you say you are lucky. that is true.
but more importantly, you are very brave. and thats something everyone admires :) very nice story
kzwang 2 years ago
@kzwang i think this was the best coming out story that i ever had to hear
TheDragonite9 1 year ago
Dude your storyvis gr8,I'm 14 and I'm kinda the same as u, nobody would think I was gay, except for the 4 friends I've told so far, i play sport I do trainning and weights. I'm willing to do manuel labour and stuff to. People steriotype to much these days, gd to hear something I can relate 2, just can't wait till I can have a proper relationship with another guy, I need it. Great vid 5/5
yttihp11 2 years ago
Beautiful story Scott. Its really refreshing to hear a positive coming out story. It makes me feel easier about one day coming-out myself.
Your family sounded really accepting which was lovely.
I am sure you will inspire many others in your school to come to terms with accepting themselves too. Despite what any inseccure phobe will say.
steve4equality 2 years ago
dude kudos i dont know if i will ever comeout however i am glad that your parents are loving enough to accept you dont worry what people think
DOUGGYBEAR66 2 years ago
Good that you are coming out at a young age, I came out when i was 20
chrisnunya2001 2 years ago
You have done the right thing! And now live your life Proud. And I dont mean wave your flag all day, I mean be who you are and dont let anyone or anything pull you down! One more thing when you think your in love your probably not, make sure that you protect your heart. Feel love but be prepared to see it end. If you invest your life and love to someone make sure they are all you expect in a human and dont ever take someone on that you think will change or that you think you can change.
johnnyrook100 2 years ago
i mean, you are dripping with sweetness
and adorable as a puppy, yet pretty dam
sexy too. who wouldnt love you no matter
what? i dont even know you, and im in
lust,,,,,er , uh,,,love.
jumbobobcleo 2 years ago
Hey Scott, Congrats to you! for putting your story out there, for being so real and for letting people hear your story
You're a truly beautiful person
1974antz 2 years ago 17
God loves everyone so don't judge him
lit26 2 years ago
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dude you are to cute to be gay you could get almost any girl you want. girls are way sexier and hotter then boys
jadyqg12511 2 years ago
We will have to agree to disagree on that one.
big93scott 2 years ago
@jadyqg12511 That is incredibly offensive, cute or not he doesn't want girls, he's gay :S
limegreen9717 1 year ago
you're kinda cute ; )
carlsson86 2 years ago 8
it is all cool who cars what people think as long as you are happy
rondord 2 years ago 2
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who cares just get over it and deal with it your gay and we like you
rondord 2 years ago
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Great coming out sketch: "The China Buffet" Mark and Mom by Damien1995 ...hilarious.
dogdaysvideo 2 years ago
wish you all the best man ! you're so brave and also so cute !
greeko25 2 years ago
Good story^^
You are indeed very lucky to have such nice, accepting parents....take me for example: I'm 18 and I still haven't told my dad cuz he'd certainly freak out so I dont think he's ready to know about it......but yet I feel pretty lucky because I have two great sisters who love me for who I am :)
I know there are people that'd faced much worst situations...
hugovsky5 2 years ago 2
Go on ya good thing be the first to break the barrier!! :D
TecNites 2 years ago
the hateing is very sad to hear. but thats good that you had a plan. that is good.!! BOOYAA!! FOR GAY MARRIGE!! Yes!! be the one to break it!!
truthbreaker 2 years ago 2
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Well done! Terrific! It is wonderful that you are sharing this very personal story!
God Bless,
A Gay Christian Pastor
LAFOF0238 2 years ago
brilliant video, i hope all goes reely well for u x
emoandpunk1 2 years ago
I will NEVER come out eccept online!!!
GayBoyJuly1996 2 years ago 2
Then you will live a very unhappy life. Coming out = freedom.
rlugg 2 years ago 12
Coming out== embarased
GayBoyJuly1996 2 years ago
I wish I had a family like yours. Good for you though. I think this is awesome. You're so brave, and I really envy you.
vegasbaby92 2 years ago
Thanks for sharing it was very inspirational! You have such a great family. Cheers from Russia
JuggernautRF 2 years ago 2
dude, you need a friend, you have one here, besides that, your hot, need a bf? JK, I am here for ya babe.
TheNicholasbutler14 2 years ago
Brilliant job. You're head is well screwed on. You've got a wonderful family (see the "interview" videos), probably in part responsible for the former observation. And, you live in a country that has started to recognize the importance of nurturing its gay citizens. Not everybody is so lucky. But you've shown everyone what the world COULD look like if we work at it.
toreadorable 2 years ago
Nice story. Folks don't realize that most of us are not stereotypes. Scott, glad you joined the party. Have fun.
connectmoi 2 years ago 26
well hello scott. ur very very brave to make a coming out story. and wow man ur lucky.
wheni told my friends i was gay they abandonded meand my BF. eventhough myBF was one of my friends but ya westuck together. anyway um msg me if you wanna talk.
Aerosmithfan4484 2 years ago
Very interesting story. Very similar to mine, although I have not posted it on the Coming Out Archives yet. I subscribed so keep in touch. Check out my vids.
FirstOfficerNCC8912 2 years ago
You were very bold, even for expressing all things to your family...in Spain, Italy, Greece is not so simple...you're marked for all the life. Be patient with your school companions. God bless you! Dave
HN7319 2 years ago
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your coming out story is boring...
Jackie2383 2 years ago
I'm sorry you feel so compelled to type a comment proclaiming your boredom.
big93scott 2 years ago 5
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Dude, You don't sound gay. You voice sounds like a straight guy. Where's your feminine voice? I always picture gay guys like the Adam and Eve commercial I have on my channel. Adam is gay and he acts so girlie. LOL. Check my channel.
OS253 2 years ago
Hi Scott,
I found your channel through this video, so I didn't really know you when I first saw it. Watching it again now is really interesting, especially seeing the differences between how you describe the experience and what your family said in their interviews.
What you said about horror stories is so true, although what really does it for me is when, in addition to all the hate from the world, people have to overcome self-hate due to their religion.
miamlarda 2 years ago
Good for u mate im no strotype either youve got balls thats all i can say
jonnyv89 2 years ago 2
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True Christians don't hate homosexuals, but they cannot approve of their behavior because the Bible states that it's a sin. BTW, the Bible also states that any sex outside of marriage (which Jesus indicated as being between a man and a woman) regardless of gender is a sin. So, I pray that God will help you as he help me to consider marriage instead of "playing the field." I'm not saying that you are playing the field, but I am saying that Christians cannot condone what God doesn't accept.
asimpleinstrument 2 years ago
And the "marriage" that Jesus allegedly refered to is between a girl between the ages 8-12 and a male suitor of any age (as was customary in that time, and throughout history). The bible is a very poor place to get morals from.
big93scott 2 years ago
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Jesus told the Jews that Moses allowed divorce & polygamy because of the evil in their hearts, but God created marriage between 1 man and 1 woman from the beginning, and he does not like divorce. Morality is nothing more than a mask that hides the immoral tendencies of the heart. Jesus frees us from that mask of morality and we are slowly changed from within. This, my friend is what Christianity is all about. Gradually being conformed to the image of Christ (Rom 8:28-29). :)
asimpleinstrument 2 years ago
You made absolutely no reference to my argument whatsoever. Fine job sir, fine job.
big93scott 2 years ago
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Thanks. Don't worry, I don't expect you to understand spiritual matters. 1 Cor 2:14, "The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned." Sir, I will pray that God open your mind and heart to the truth.
asimpleinstrument 2 years ago
LMAO this is exactly what I meant in my recent comment on EX-Gay. You totally avoid the interjection alltogether.
big93scott 2 years ago
lol wtf
try responding to his comment
and stop preaching
slamt08 2 years ago
Try listening to my preaching and stop responding to his comment... :)
asimpleinstrument 2 years ago
Who are you asimpleinstrument? And why would you comment about sinning? When just about everyone sin on a daily bases and he not sinning no more than me or you. In fact he probably by far more righteous and Christian than we will ever be. Going though pain and struggle will only make you just more closer to God.
uraine7626 2 years ago
@uraine7626 Who am I? A servant of Christ. I'm a pastor, a missionary, a chaplain (for two hospitals and the sheriff's department), I have a master's in theology, and am currently writing a book. Going through what kind of pain gets you closer to God? If it's the pain of suffering for the sake of Christ and the preaching of the Gospel, yes that will get you closer to God - but not suffering because you can't stop yourself from having sex outside of marriage.
asimpleinstrument 1 year ago
@asimpleinstrument fornication is consider a sin from the words of Christ, but u seen like a good Christ so let me ask you this. Homosexuality is a sin in the bible that is debatale, because Christ didn't teach against homosexuality and the only person who was highly against it was the apostle Paul,
uraine7626 1 year ago
who had a lot of teaching that Jesus didn't agree with (I shouldn't have to go indetail because you said u a servant of Christ). And everyone who is true Christians know that Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because of the disrespected and lack of hostipality that the villagers showed Lot and his quests, so there no evidence that God is against the homosexuality because that didn't even occurred in the story.
uraine7626 1 year ago
@asimpleinstrument. And the purpose of marriage according to the bible is because God seen man (Adam) as being lonely and he felt that loneliness wasn't good for man so he made a covenant for two people to be together which is marriage. So if homosexuality isn't a sin in the eyes of God, who is to blame for homosexuals not being able to get married?
uraine7626 1 year ago
@asimpleinstrument Who will help them bear their sin though fornication? because we all know that Jesus acknowledge that it better to wed then to burn. but they can't get married, so u fault is that? Are they the one to blame for that sin or is it someone else?
uraine7626 1 year ago
Ha I wish I had to the balls to post my coming out story via youtube.
Uwsar 2 years ago
Awesome, moving post. I'm glad that you've had nothing but positive responses from friends and family so far. Like you, my sister was the first to know and was also supportive. Don't worry too much about your schoolmates, though--I didn't think I knew any other gays in my catholic school back in Wisconsin; however, I did catch up with several later in life. Take care!
Eurovirgo80 2 years ago
A real inspiration!
riddlerno1 2 years ago
Just like to say well done Scott from New Zealand. Inspiration for other young lads. You've got a good sister there too.
kingy002 2 years ago
scott pls marry me! and btw im so not the typical stereotype either! xD im not really into the flaming and gay pride and stuff... i used to do sports but i was getting lazy... LOL thats my nature... being lazy... anyways, yeh great coming out! xD i havent come out to my family yet, but i reckon they are getting suspicious of my sexuality lately im getting scared cus my family is religious and they are very homophobic! lol wish me luck! i really wanna marry u! xD
sadguyfoundout1 2 years ago
This story shows a lot of courage on your part. I too would like to add my full support and encouragement to you. Good for you!
BrizyComics 2 years ago
you are VERY lucky hon!! my story is soo different from yours.
foxolita 2 years ago
You definitely don't meet the typical gay stereotype.... me either, I mean, I am not into sports, but I am not a flamer. I don't like the whole flamer thing, not into it. I enjoyed your video and the other videos that you have posted. I am glad for you that you have had the acceptance that you have found.
bp30123 2 years ago 3
samee :)
CallumJames0310 2 years ago
mmm ur hot.
technofan10 2 years ago
I know God loves gay -- but does he love Canadian?
InowOwn3Hammonds 2 years ago 3
everybody loves Canadians!
camenk 2 years ago 6
i'm canadian, and gay too!
titleistpvx 2 years ago
lol
dstrbdchck 2 years ago
You got a good family
compositesoul 2 years ago
your very cute and im very happy for you for coming out bri xx
hornybri 2 years ago 3
You're getting a lot of love on this channel so you won't be surprised if I add my two cents worth. I found your video by accident and I was moved by your courage and honesty. Although you're a complete stranger to me, you make me less cynical about humanity. You have a positive effect on people and that's an awesome gift. 7025 views as of 8:20 am
Bigstubby1 2 years ago
i love you. lol
whatthefuzzybear 2 years ago
Congratulations, you are a positive person for other gay people. Be yourself, and be a positive, contributing citizen of life.
magnoliabanks 2 years ago 3
wowsa, he dont look gay....
death to all homophobes
hilary clinton 4 president!
XEmilySylviaX 2 years ago
I didn't realize gay people were supposed to look a certain way?
tattooskin72 2 years ago 12
Yeah I know hat you mean tattooskin. I mean what happened to his green skin? He must have had plastic surgery? Yeah, thats it, plastic surgery!
simon180 2 years ago
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Homonogamous 2 years ago
yourrrr sooooo cuteee =D
i love you :P your so hot ;)
Lethalleo 2 years ago
my mom wasn't acceptive of it at first but she did in time my dad never found out he commited sucide before he ever found out my dads side doesn't know my moms side does know they accept that there behind me 100 percent
thats awsome ur sister was there that helps alot it took me a long time too to get over the whole thing and come out to my family too but i did it im pretty much out now but never let others put u down ignore hatred Great story i like it
captainwalsh 2 years ago
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Homonogamous 2 years ago
you sound identical to michael c. hall!
cool vid :P
mort1990 2 years ago
People are often surprised by how accepting family and friends can be. Don't under-estimate them!
cynterslave 3 years ago
you posted this on my bday!
armusicguy 3 years ago