you are so hot.....i'm pansexual so i dont care for gender. but yes i agree, its not alright for transsexuals to deceive a str8 man, who cares if some of them aren't alright with it? Guys like me are =]
I agree with you about being honest. But this goes with any relationship. Being a straight male in my 50s I would be receptive to letting a transwoman talk with what they feel comfortable with. I am a pretty good listener. Men that get violent have issues with themselves and not you. Me, I prefer women, trans or otherwise. You don't have to wear a nametag and shout it to the mountaintops, but if there is any thing that involves more than a hug, be honest. I wish you well.
I think its my personal life and I'm not gonna share that information with just about anyone, if your at a bar and a guy hits on you and your talking to him after a while you decide to tell him "hey I'm transsexual" he's gonna go and tell EVERYONE in that bar what you are, he is literally gonna tell people he don't even know about your truth. I know the whole being safe thing and I get it, but men are pigs anyway.. so why all the fuss over them lol
I AGREE 100 PERCENT WITH YOU DOLL SPECIAL GURLZ SHOULD ALWAYS BE UPFRONT AND HONEST LIFE WILL BE MUCH BETTER AND THE GUY WILL RESPECT YOU MORE FOR BEING HONEST LOVE YOU DOLL KEEP THE VIDEOS COMING GOOD BLESSINGS TO YOU XOXOX
@Hayleydippity Try to see things from the man's point of view. Your only looking at things from your perspective and your feelings. Did you ever consider how the man might feel. I'm not saying who's right or wrong. I just want to point out that the man may not feel the same way as you regarding your condition.
don't listen to these insecure small penis men who hateon you. I am a real man, 1.92 meter, 7 inch penis, I practise martial arts and am heterosexual. I would love to go home with a girl after hitting a bar and find out she actually has penis! Tranny's can be really hot and better than normal women. Tranny supremacy, death to insecure haters!
There are many men like myself that are exclusively attracted to transgendered women. The old cliche, gender is in the mind not inbetween the legs. Transgendered women can be more sexier and loving to a man than a GG can ever be~
@ShpinxiLotus23 Oh my goodness. Try to imagine you have the mind of a man. How do you think your average man would react if he were to find out his girlfriend was a genetic guy? The natural reaction would be to get upset. Men are genetically more violent than women/transwomen. That's why their are more men in jail for violent crime. Why provoke a man like that? A genetic women and a transsexual are both not as violent as men. Protect yourself and be honest.
Not all male-to-female transsexuals fancy men. That is a common misconception. Indeed, a LARGE number are LESBIANS. Get your redneck heads around that, assholes.....
i love how u always spend so much time talking about dating tip, me asian cambodian ts myself it really hard to tell a man but i will always try to be honest with him and i agree with you we must tell a man when it come into something serious more than a friends. but what if u got sex change??? for me i still need to tell him no matter but at the sametime it SO HARD TO TELL A MAN THAT U BORN IN THE WRONG GENDER ETC FML IT HARD BEING TS =) BUT NO ONE CAN'T CHANGE ME TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT
yup i agree with her, i think u need to tell these guys and stop tryna feel cunt like ooo i bagged a boy why do u think u see transgender woman on the news murdered? like she said a guy may go through something mentally and get crazy my life is worth more than feelin cunt for any papi
@jesscaralsen what if lets say you're a transwoman and you're dating a ultra masculine macho heterosexual straight man who only wants a cisgendered woman who can mother children and if you're lucky like always you can cowardly call the cops when you know full well that you lied and decieved him. unless he bisexual or a transman then I guess he'll no problems loving you :D
ye they should say if they're in a relationship, im sure that could mess with some overly macho mans head finding out your girl is a guy that could even make some guys turn violent im sure,
@ox4poluter thats the same exact point I was also trying to make that every trans woman must tell the man the truth because it's Esssential! every man reacts differently and as you say a overly macho straight heterosexual male who is only sexually interested in a woman born with a vagina capable to mother a child. as opposed to a transwoman who was born with a penis and gets srs to get a fake vagina that cannot make babies because theres no Uterus no Egg and no Fallopian tube etc.
I think its different, if the transwoman is lesbian. What are your thoughts on transwomen not telling women before meeting them? Since we are more understanding usually with matters like that... :)
You are ridiculous !!! No matter what there is no reason to be violent !! You are a sick and crazy bitch !! Go fuck yourself you monster !! It is not that serious asshole !! Why say all that shit you bitch !!!
as a transgender girl you out of all people should know we aren't born men....where women born with male genitals. and tranny is offensive. but other than that your a great and inspiring person..im transgender and im 18....and i am happy to watch your vids.
This is why we call ppl who do what you're doing trolls. Maybe you think twice about insulting others who for all you know could be 6'4" marines and and experienced combat fighters before you say you're put them in hospitals. Just a thought.
@jesscaralsen Yes I have science on my side. The homos say they are born homo. So I tell them to prove that theory scientifically by sharing with the NORMAL people the homo gene so that we cann ERADICATE THE GAY GENE and cure homosexuality! But the homos have not shared their scientific knowledge with people because they know they are spreading a bullshit lie about being born homo. As being homo is a mental illness! Only LiberTurds and Homos believe being gay is ok!
@jesscaralsen If a masculine homophobe guy thinks you are a woman and wants to fuk you and discovers you are a male you would deserve to get your ass beat! Consider this fact that their are heterosexual men who would beat your faggot ass for making them believe you are a female.
I agree with this video because what if a man wanted kids sure you can adopt but most would rather have a kid that was made from them.
I would not mind dating a transexual though but i'd need to be attracted to the appearance as well yes i know all on the inside and all that but i dont want to date a girl with a deeper voice than mine who looks like a man in a wig. She doesnt have to be amazing 100% perfect looking but at least looks like a girl and sounds like one.
@Smellmenoweww Yes exactly the very same point I'm also trying to make the majority of heterosexual straight men want a cisgendered/genetic woman who can get pregnant. when on the otherside the minority of heterosexual men that find a woman with a penis exciting especially if they've been to bangkok thailand and fallen for a kathoey/ladyboy, what if the guy was a Muslim now the Quran forbids a man to marry a transwoman, which the Quran says you are still a man. I've read it!
That's why i originally said there was no right or wrong- just preferred and better- but unless you are them- you can't always tell which is which at first. I personally tihnk if you want a hetero cis guy then you run into these problems more then someone "strisght/not narrow" or someone in the LGBTAQIP community- each person needs to be handled differently. Peace
Isn't that much of a deal. If you waited more than a couple of weeks when your BOTH still getting to know each other, are its been months, engaged, that's all very different. Plus when you tell you are trusting that person to be responsible with that info. I'm not going to just tell someone second thing outta my mouth and have them tell they're friends and bashing me in the parking lot b/c i felt scoping them out first was wrong. safety works both ways- every person and sitiuation is different.
Also it's not like most ppl are waiting until its serious- you just want to see if that's a person you'd want to be wit peroid. If there's potential then you tell them- you can fish this out in like a week. For someone to get tha pissed or reactionary towards you for droping somthing like that during the first week or two opposed to the very first date they're stupid. I aviod that by avoiding stupid ppl. It also depends on the people involved. Being up front in the first two seconds and 7 days
What I guess I'm trying to say is it's a double edged sword and it's even worse for the transwomen most of the time. I personally don't date ppl I don't feel comfortable disclosing that kind of info to. If I find someone i like, i'd wait until the 2nd or 3rd b/c i want someone that i feel a long term connection with and i'm also fishing to see how'd they'd take such news. If you tell them right after your name then what usually happens is trans is all they see
@MrDividingbyzero Their is no such thing as a transwoman. There are men with cocks who are fuked in the mind and believe they are women trapped in a male body. Their are some men who will beat your ass because they consider any gayness to be perverted and you will get hurt if you fuk with them. I would send your gay faggot as to hospital if you tricked me into believing you were a female. Do NOT allow any sexual or physical contact to be made because the guy will beat your ass if he is homophobe
ok well maybe im old school but id rather get to know someone before i have intentions of getting near jumping in the sack with someone so yeah id still say its fine not to disclose cause maybe they arent a slut and not into fucking on the first date but hey if the want to both bump uglies then disclose of course
And what about genetic women who can't ever get pregnant? Should they also tell a guy the first time they see him? and does it make them less of a woman? Haven't you ever heard of adopting or even having a baby in different ways? It's not because you use to live inside a man's body, ( and not use to BE a man ), ( but it's just my way of seeing things concerning me,), that you can not have a certain way of living, everyone is individual, every TS is individual, being transexual doesn't define YOU
And I suppose that yes you should tell a guy if you decided to keep a penis but not necesseraly right away. That doesn't make things "ridiculous", it's actually wanting to give a man a different impression about your being and not feeling like your just here for what you have down there. What you're saying is everyone should just reduce all of the essentiel things when you first meet someone to your genitals.If the guy turns out not to be okay with it cause he doesn't like "cock" -
Then fine, just move on! It's part of socializing you shouldn't HAVE to just skip it!Everyone should live their own lives and NOTHING excuses Violence! We're not in STONE AGE anymore, there are human rights.
PS: One can learn from his/her mistakes. it's our individual job to find the right way of doing our personnal things without judging other ones, I'm not saying yours is wrong I'm just saying the different ones that you're criticizing aren't lower.
@Millearl At the end of the day everyone is entitled to do what ever they want with their life. I am not dictating on how someone must live. All I am is giving awareness to other young transsexual women... because we live in a world full of different kind of people and us as transsexuals live a different reality than most as well as we run different risks than any other genetic heterosexual woman would.
@Millearl You guys OBVIOUSLY dont get my point... my point has nothing to do with getting pregnant or anything.. all Im trying to say is if your a pre op transsexual you have to consider someone else believes and sexuality, therefore you must tell him that you were born transsexual. Thats all.
Here's the thing, you're a real cutie, you've got the voice and all that ( my jaw is on the floor); but some guys do go for v'jay-jay above other feminine qualities. Where I work, there are married women who have NEVER looked fine or girly... their hubbys might have been wanting a partner to play football with in the yard, or arm-wrestle with maybe... different strokes... As far as myself is concerned, if a woman is wearing her hair short I don't really see her !! Cute beats out Ruff as guts.
@rexjaru ...but what I should add is this... If a TS is 'heavy set'or large shoulderd they should realise that there are guys out there that are into that.
Every time I've gone out on a date with a transsexual woman, I've known about her transition beforehand. I really don't care whether she was born male or female, as long as she presents herself as a beautiful woman in my eyes, it's the only thing that matters to me. I have been fortunate to share numerous deep kisses with TS women...but I've found that many aren't the relationship type. Not many genetic females I've met are the relationship type, either.
While I can see how some may be offended at this video, I think the advice you give here is *very* prudent.
Not because I personally would be offended to find out a girl I had an interest in was trans - but simply because there are a lot of guys out there who (for a variety of reasons) could not only be caught off guard by this kind of "late in the game revelation", but (sadly) could get violent. It's really a personal safety issue for trans women.
I think the reason so many people are responding negatively to this video is because they are still trying to think of the world in a pleasant way. Well, the world isn't pleasant. Should we have to disclose to avoid violence? No. Knowing what kind of world that we live in, isn't it better than the alternative? Yes. I for one admire your bluntness and your ability to see the situation for what it is.
@ancientegyptianmagic Honestly.. If a guy talks to me in public or anywhere else even a gay bar I always assume he doesnt know... trust me I have been mistaken to be a lesbian by other lesbians out there... so I always tell a man right from the start... wether I get his number and then tell him over the phone on the first conversation or right then and there when he approaches me.. I say: "I dont know if you noticed but Im transgender" based wether I feel threatened or i think its safe to tell.
@AryannaLuv TO BE HONEST I REALLY DONT DO THE WHOLE DATIN THING, FALLIN IN LOVE THING, IM NOT THE RELATIONSHIP TYPE, I DONT DO THOSE LOL. BUT HONESTLY I WOULDNT BE MAD OR WANNA KILL HER CUS I DONT CONDONE VIOLENCE AND ESPECIALLY I DONT BELIEVE IN TAKIN SOMEONES LIFE. ILL JUS BE SHOCKED LIKE "WHAT? ARE YOU SERIOUS?". BUT TO OVER REACT, NAH I WOULDNT DO THAT. I CANT BRING MYSELF TO BE VIOLENT TOWARDS A WOMAN, WHETHER SHES TRANSEXUAL OR NATURAL BORN, I CANT AND WONT DO IT.
@gorillagarrett On a sexual level or do you plan on being with a transsexual? Or you just wouldnt mind if a girl ended up having a penis? Would you rather have her have a penis?
It is important to be honest, but what if a person is a post-op transexual. They have the vagina that the man wants. In that case, do you really have to tell right away?
@staceyschnee I think that it is important either way... I am not trying to lead everyone to live by what I think is right... but personally after I get my SRS I still will tell a man.
NO DISRESPECT TO TRANSEXUAL WOMEN, I RESPECT EM, BUT I CAN ONLY SEE MYSELF BEIN THERRE FRIENDS. I LOVE PUSSY. BUT GUYS WHO ARE INTERESTED IN TRANSEXUALS THEY SHOULDNT CARE WHATS BEEN HER LEGS OR NOT, ITS THE PERSON THEY ATTRACTED TO, HER PERSONALITY AND WHAT NOT. IF SOMEONE HAS SHYT TO SAY BOUT HIM, HE SHOULD TELL THAT PERSON "FUCK YOU, I DONT GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU SAY OR THINK". AT THE END OF THE DAY HES ATTRACTED TO THE WOMAN HE SEES. I DONT CONDONE VIOLENCE OR BELIEVE IN TAKIN SOMEONES LIFE.
@UMANEDAKIDD19 So if you dated a girl and you never noticed and she never said anything and you dated her and fell in love with her... you would not be bothered after you found out later in the aftermath that she doesnt have a "pussy"?
@UMANEDAKIDD19 You do know your caps lock is on right!!!! Well turn it off when you post comments on my page.. or ill delete the comments, There is no point in writing everything in caps.
Nice arguments and I tottally agree with you about the fact of telling them in the first date, but just when you want something serious with him, (obviously after you've tested if he's not a transphobic person, yeah that could also save both some drama). One main issue is the fact of honesty with people we want to get involved seriously with. The ones who would truly love us wouldn't care about our genitalia, but our inner self. Éxitos para todas, chicas!
@AryannaLuv I think it's nice you agreed to upload more Spanish videos based off Ernesto's request. Do you feel the language gap when you translate, or do you think just in English.
Why do you use the term "Transsexual"? It just reduces and sexualizes our gender. We are Transgender Women (Or tgirls) We are not "TS" - "Transsexuals" - "Trannies" - "Shemales" - "He/Shes"... Those are all pretty derogatory.
Im flattered that u made an entire response video 2 1 of mine, but y r u so hype over what Im doing w/ my life?
PS- i dont just wear the shoe, i embrace it... ITS NO ONES BUSINESS BUT MY OWN WHAT MY STATUS HAPPENS 2 B AS A WOMAN WHO HAPPENS 2 B TRANSEXUAL.
What u are doing by creating a # of ur videos is perpetuating social stigmas placed upon TS women. I realize, & have said many times, that I will always b TS. That's not however, the 1st thing a man needs 2 know about me.
PPS- Your analogy of transexual women to purses is completely insulting not just as trans women, but simply as human beings. It's totally cool if you are that one dimensional that your status as a pre/post/non-op transexual is the first thing you have to tell a man, but contrary to what my videos portray me as, i am multi faceted and believe showing a man what I have to offer besides my "cock", as you like to say....
you're trying to come off as "multi faceted" but in reality, i think it's insecurity that prevents you from being as honest as Aryanna. honesty is the best policy when it comes to talking to straight men. if you're talking to a tranny chaser it doesn't really matter.
@MACJunkie88 I dont see how?? I mean its only an analogy right? don't read too much into it. Anyway... Well look good luck in your transition into a post op transsexual... a more "normal" way of living as you might think... I personally think that a man can love you as a woman no matter what you have between your legs... dont put so much hope that life will be sooo much different having a vagina. I hope nothing but the best for you Jen.
@MACJunkie88 Hello Jen, I respect that female on the inside. But at the same time being honest to a man that you have deep feelings for is a positive thing to do, why because most straight men want to father children (start a family) and you were born with male reproductive organs (no womb or uterus) so giving birth is impossible but adoption isn't impossible. Also straight men will actually retaliate and get violent beating you up or worse Killing! You. and stop lying to guys ok
@MACJunkie88 I really dont care what you do with your over superficial lifestyle, or the fact that you personally don't share your transsexual status upfront, that might get you hurt more than just your feelings one day. I just care for the younger transsexuals that might watch your videos, would hate for them to think that going about life and meeting men and not telling them before dating that they were born "male" and now they are a woman is ok. Because its not. BTW thanks for watching :-)
@MACJunkie88 Well said MACJunkie. *BRAVO! I too will not tell a person (man or woman) that i am a ts woman at first. Being transgender does not define me as a whole. My status is a very personal subject. The way your saying it, i might as well put a sticky note on my forehead that says "I have a dick". My rule with dating is that no intimacy (kissing, touching, holding hands etc) unless he knows fully of my trans status.
@xoTrisTxo To me, this is the same as dating a genetic girl... u date her a few times, u find out something about her that you don't like, then you can go your separate merry ways. I refuse to be with someone that's only with me for what i have down there. To me, a relationship is based beyond physicality... that transcends further beyond what you see with your eyes. After all, looks are transient, and what makes an eternal impression is your personality. Our bodies are just shells.
@MACJunkie88 Hey Jenny this is YouTube a Free Speech Zone Hello!. If you can't handle criticism or advice that will help keep you alive. because many straight men will cause harm if you keep lying to them. Also if you want to be cocky and keep lying then don't blame us when you're on a morgue table with a tag on you're painted toe.
@michaeloflaherty I agree with you that you should be honest to a man that you have deep feelings for, but the argument here is if you should tell a man YOU JUST MET. You cant develop deep feelings for someone you just met so you're argument here is invalid.
@xoTrisTxo Yes I believe that you must tell a guy after you notice HIS interest is deeper than just a friend. I mean if you know that you aren't interested in a man sexually but just as a friend then you don't have to tell him.
@michaeloflaherty ARE YOU SERIOUS? youre saying its ok for a man to beat a woman (ts or not) who didnt tell him about her being infertile? You are advocating violence here my friend... NO ONE DESERVES VIOLENCE, period. I am AGAINST ts women being intimate to a man that doesnt know about her trans status but i am also AGAINST the idea that i have to disclose such private information about me to some random person i just met.
@michaeloflaherty "don't blame us when you're on a morgue table with a tag on you're painted toe." <~~~ read that again CAREFULLY and say that doesn't advocate violence...
@xoTrisTxo This is America! Everyone has a CCW Certificate and handgun, Not a safe Country. Many of us Straight men have faith in God (In God We Trust!) Remember that saying?. I'm not advocating Jack! ok, I'm just telling you the facts and if you're too Goddamn blind to see then don't blame me when (you decieve a real Heterosexual Man!) who will either let you know by objecting with words alone or He might want to punish you for trying to make him Gay! like You! I have Won!
@michaeloflaherty first of all this debate is not a contest... "I WIN" seriously? grow up.you can have your own opinion and so can i. And the way you reply to my comments is very immature... no need to get aggressive and rude. thank you :)
@xoTrisTxo there you go again making false accusations that men are so scary and aggressive you started on me first you have a start memory thanks to all that estrogen blocking every last trace of logic in you're feeble narissistic self rightious mind. Whats left of it I still Win She-Dick! :P
@michaeloflaherty lol i am sorry but im seriously laughing out loud here. Anyways, im no longer going to partake in this debate between you and me as it is useless and not worth my effort and time. Good luck with life mister and a happy new year.
Whenever someone finds out, they should be mature and compassionate, regardless of how the first party may or maynot have gone about disclosing anything. WE NEED TO STOP GIVING MEN EXCUSES FOR THEIR HOMOPHOBIC BEHAVIOR AND BE TRUE GENTLEMEN FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! Not insecure little babies who felt decieved for info that historically has gotten people killed no matter when they said anything!!
@MrDividingbyzero They should be respective but in all reality they dont so whats wrong with protecting your self and not put your self in dangers way by not dealing with this fact from the start? I do not think it is ok to beat anyone for anything but all I am saying is why give someone a reason to harm you?
@MrDividingbyzero i date a transgendered woman now and your comment is why i dont have a problem with other men and their behavior. your comment has to be the most uneducated post ive ever seen
Just a thought... in a perfect world... shouldn't the guy also say that he is a bio cis male, too, just so everyone's clear? I know probability wise he most likely would be, but I think if we can't let anyone assume anythin, than fair's fair. There is no excuse for violence. And if someone is that homophobic than I can't see how a trans person could seriously want to get involved seeing as hoe perceptions between the two or so closely inter-twined in regular society.
You're such an inspiration :) you're the most educated professional transsexual ive seen, im so glad iv'e subscribed to you, you're a role model for the Younger T.s.
Just to make this clear... I will not disclose who I am talking about and many think its MACJunkie88 well all I will say is... if the shoe fits then wear it.
I know the girl your talking about MACJunkie88/Jen she believes/acting like she is a cisgendered/biological female and she is going meet the wrong guy someday who will probably kill or injure her. I also the her black & white video and she was still saying the F word over and over which also draws the wrong attention
Sorry but well id really like a response to this but how would you like to say this when you first met the man...... hi im blah blah and im a transexual before anything starts????? no you would see what is going and if it looks like its going to lead anywhere then of course you would disclose... lets just say that you had a birth defect that cant be seen would you introduce yourself and then disclose that you have a genetic disorder of course not
@mbatts73 Someone has to be an IDIOT to not know when someone is interested in them. I mean if a guy comes up to me and asks for my number... Ill just take his and then the first conversation I tell him whats up because no average man goes up to a beautiful or at that any girl with intentions to be friends with. No guy wants a girl to just have a pajama sleep over or paint their toe nails together kind of a friend. So yes I believe that a girl has to disclose it because it is important...
That's kind of like thinking that a guy has a reason to hit a woman after she discloses that she has polycistic ovary syndrome and pprovide children for him. I think you're in the wrong, you're being rude, and close minded about it and using the word "cock" quite offensively as well =/
@AryannaLuv Why is it a "situation"? It's not an ailment it's a part of their body and their life story, when you first date a man there is things you don't tell him on the first date that are simply personal and don't need to be disclosed to someone you don't know. Usually it becomes quite evident that the person would either be willing to learn to accept it or not within the first few if it's clear they're not there's no need to continue that relationship, if they are THEN it's important
nowhere near the same thing. it's just a matter of honesty. dating a TS woman is cool but it comes with certain challenges. it's only fair to let the guy know what's up and give him an opportunity to do what he decides he's comfortable with.
I CAN TOTALLY AGREE WITH BEING HONEST FOR THE SAKE OF SAFETY AND ONES DIGNITY. HOWEVER I STRONGLY DISAGREE WITH THE WAY THAT SOCIETY HAS BEEN BRAIN WASHED TO BELIEVE THAT GENDER IS BETWEEN ONES LEGS RATHER THAN ONES EARS, AND I ALSO FIND IT QUIET CHILDISH, AND IGNORANT WHEN THERE IS A MISS USE OF SUCH WORDS AS, TRANNY, SHEMALE, HE SHE, LADYBOY, ETC, SUCH ONLY APPLY TO THOSE WITH NO CLEAR UNDERSTANDING AS TO WHAT AND OR WHY IT IS THEY ARE EVEN TRANSITIONING OTHER THAN FOR PRODUCING PORN MOVIES.
As a heterosexual male that is not only pro gay but has (would still like to) been a counselor in small LGBT groups around NY i applaud your statements...I can't count how many arguments/debates i have been in involving this topic...Yes it is horrible that people can get violent at the notion that they are indeed dating a Transgender....but it also isn't fair to the man involved keeping that aspect of your life a secret. Its just out of respect for the other person. Thats all i see it as.
I find it so ironic, it takes a transgendered person to teach genetic males how to be men and treat a lady. if anything, you would think the transgendered person would have to learn from the genetically born how to be the target gender.
I'm sorry whats the point of going through a transition to become who you are, when you're "never going to get out of the tranny thing" That's so fucking annoying. How about I just never date anyone.
It may be an ugly reality that many men get violent when they feel deceived by a transgendered female, but--there is no excuse for it. It's based on ignorance and fear and should not be condoned. It should not be considered "normal". It should be condemned as the reactionary madness that it is. No one should be compelled to reveal private information to some blockhead in order to avoid being victimnised. Why aren't you counselling the cavemen to get civilised? That would make sense.
@jkeyes1000 Because its like going to Luis Vuitton and buying a purse for a couple of thousands of dollars and then find out that they sold you a purse that was made in China, not authentic, and in reality costs 20 dollars. Would you be ok with that? I think many humans would act in rage wether physical or just verbal. I would curse at those people and be pissed off because I was deceived and they should have known better. I think its the transsexual that puts herself in this position not him.
@AryannaLuv Well--I'm a man and I respect any woman's right to present herself as female regardless of her genitalia, and I don't think it's deceptive. I don't fault a woman for having her secrets, and if a man is presumptuous about any detail of her character, he ought to blame himself. A case for misrepresentation would only be valid if she expressly claimed to possess an anatomical feature that she did not in fact possess.
Well thats fine for you. but it goes without saying that not everyone feels the same as you. it doesn't mean that something is wrong with them...its just not as big of a issue to you. Everyone has there preferences so don't you think that those preferences should be respected?
@note156 My point is that there IS something wrong with someone who blames somebody else for merely being herself. We all have secrets, and they're secrets for good reason--they could cause US embarrassment if they were revealed. Why should a transgendered person be required to risk her social status for the sake of any Tom, Dick or Harry? An aggressive reaction should always be considered more objectionable than a passive demeanor.
You said it perfectly....."For ANY tom, dick or harry"....but a potential boyfriend isn't ANY old tom,dick or harry. Its the person you eventually will build a romantic/sexual relationship with...If the person isn't sexually interested in dating a transgender woman then thats it. Secrets are fine but its also good to respect the other person's feelings...you are entitled to keep it your own business...but it would be nice to respect other peoples feelings as well.
@jkeyes1000 Your correct but a penis is not a detail in character it is a body part that many men are not ok to play with either than their own. So yea I don't fault a woman to carry her self as a woman as long as she doesn't put a man in an awkward position to where society can claim and judge him as a homosexual because she failed to disclose that she was born with a penis. It is very unfair to the man.
That's an interesting comparison. I think it's about the value that is unfairly imposed onto trans-people. with the stigma towards homosexuality, society has set it up in a way that places all the responsibility on you. men don't get homicidal when he discovers his date was bald or has a tail. I'd say it's human to feel like we're worth more. is it just that horrible to think people would like for someone to know their personality first before being rejected for being trans? it was just a week.
@itzyourcrayons The world is not that nice and neither are the people living in it. I know that many people would like to see that life shouldnt be like this and that but the reality is that transsexual individuals live a different reality than the average heterosexual human. Do some research and youll see what I am talking about... just to lighten you up on something in Brazil transsexual women are murdered at a rate as 1 per week... and then many would ask why? Well because people are cruel.
@AryannaLuv. it's not about being deluded into thinking the world's a nice place. you take a risk by just stepping outside. that doesn't mean we should lock our doors and hide in fear. I don't disagree that disclosing our status first is best if safety is priority, this is good advice. I disagree that not doing so is unethical. in a nutshell, you're advocating that we should give into blackmail. This should be an individual choice, not a requirement.
@jkeyes1000 Also yes you have to share your transsexual status to any man you start becoming comfortable with... because you dont want to mislead him into believing you are his future baby mama when in reality you will NEVER be able to get pregnant and have a child with him.
I agree with everything that you are saying. It is both too risky and silly not to tell someone at a time/place that is both appropriate and (most importantly to you) safe to do so. Show respect for yourself and keep your safety well in mind: respect common sense and give that person the courtesy of letting them know. Too many girls try to avoid this ... with disastrous results. If the other person is truly into you, then a relationship has potential. Be yourself and avoid compromising honesty.
You look so sexy in this video. I would love to shoot my load over your chest. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!! wear a short skirt in your next video. I would love to see your legs and thighs.
you are so hot.....i'm pansexual so i dont care for gender. but yes i agree, its not alright for transsexuals to deceive a str8 man, who cares if some of them aren't alright with it? Guys like me are =]
prototyperick1 1 day ago
I agree with you about being honest. But this goes with any relationship. Being a straight male in my 50s I would be receptive to letting a transwoman talk with what they feel comfortable with. I am a pretty good listener. Men that get violent have issues with themselves and not you. Me, I prefer women, trans or otherwise. You don't have to wear a nametag and shout it to the mountaintops, but if there is any thing that involves more than a hug, be honest. I wish you well.
TheGriffin57 1 week ago
I think its my personal life and I'm not gonna share that information with just about anyone, if your at a bar and a guy hits on you and your talking to him after a while you decide to tell him "hey I'm transsexual" he's gonna go and tell EVERYONE in that bar what you are, he is literally gonna tell people he don't even know about your truth. I know the whole being safe thing and I get it, but men are pigs anyway.. so why all the fuss over them lol
chelsiefairchild808 1 week ago
"They dun want cock"
Glatium 2 weeks ago
AND P.S. LOOVE LOVE UR DARK HAIR GURL XOXOXO
toydoll22 2 weeks ago
I AGREE 100 PERCENT WITH YOU DOLL SPECIAL GURLZ SHOULD ALWAYS BE UPFRONT AND HONEST LIFE WILL BE MUCH BETTER AND THE GUY WILL RESPECT YOU MORE FOR BEING HONEST LOVE YOU DOLL KEEP THE VIDEOS COMING GOOD BLESSINGS TO YOU XOXOX
toydoll22 2 weeks ago
You are dead right,thank God for women like you. I've heard of women getting badly beaten and killed for this.
misssheltathari1953 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from AryannaLuv
You voice is amazing *----------*
KaioSternOficial 3 weeks ago
WTF am I watching
noobskateronly11 3 weeks ago
You have such a jaded view point. how sad.
Hayleydippity 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from AryannaLuv
@Hayleydippity Try to see things from the man's point of view. Your only looking at things from your perspective and your feelings. Did you ever consider how the man might feel. I'm not saying who's right or wrong. I just want to point out that the man may not feel the same way as you regarding your condition.
PorkChopMissPiggy 3 weeks ago
So you want to live your life as a tranny and not a man or a woman? Cause when you tell them that's all they will see of you after.
Hayleydippity 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from AryannaLuv
WOW great video. I 100% agree. No one likes to be fooled. Much respect to you sister.
PorkChopMissPiggy 3 weeks ago
I wouldn't care if you were born a station wagon - you're beautiful (and also considerate, honest, and brave).
ahobimo732 3 weeks ago
don't listen to these insecure small penis men who hateon you. I am a real man, 1.92 meter, 7 inch penis, I practise martial arts and am heterosexual. I would love to go home with a girl after hitting a bar and find out she actually has penis! Tranny's can be really hot and better than normal women. Tranny supremacy, death to insecure haters!
WoWrapesGW2 3 weeks ago
There are many men like myself that are exclusively attracted to transgendered women. The old cliche, gender is in the mind not inbetween the legs. Transgendered women can be more sexier and loving to a man than a GG can ever be~
Johnny2163 4 weeks ago
If someone told me after a few days, weeks or months that she had a penis, I would freak out.
Darlica1 4 weeks ago
@Darlica1 BUT if she told you from the very start and you still went out with her than it's not her fault. This girl is 100% right.
PorkChopMissPiggy 3 weeks ago
@Darlica1 does she have a penis?
WIZZINGSHIRE 6 days ago
nobody is born a man.
ShpinxiLotus23 1 month ago
@ShpinxiLotus23 Oh my goodness. Try to imagine you have the mind of a man. How do you think your average man would react if he were to find out his girlfriend was a genetic guy? The natural reaction would be to get upset. Men are genetically more violent than women/transwomen. That's why their are more men in jail for violent crime. Why provoke a man like that? A genetic women and a transsexual are both not as violent as men. Protect yourself and be honest.
PorkChopMissPiggy 3 weeks ago
Damn,you are absolutely gorgeous.
simmy1950 1 month ago
Not all male-to-female transsexuals fancy men. That is a common misconception. Indeed, a LARGE number are LESBIANS. Get your redneck heads around that, assholes.....
disinterestful 1 month ago
You are absolutley beautiful! Fantastic tits!!
9876johnz 1 month ago
You make a great point!
bulruq 1 month ago
i love how u always spend so much time talking about dating tip, me asian cambodian ts myself it really hard to tell a man but i will always try to be honest with him and i agree with you we must tell a man when it come into something serious more than a friends. but what if u got sex change??? for me i still need to tell him no matter but at the sametime it SO HARD TO TELL A MAN THAT U BORN IN THE WRONG GENDER ETC FML IT HARD BEING TS =) BUT NO ONE CAN'T CHANGE ME TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT
Naren789 1 month ago
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AGirlLikeMe916 1 month ago
Hey gorgeous! You haven't posted in a while. I miss seeing you.
ogobby 1 month ago
for me, it will not a big deal if i'm with a ts girlfriend, yes i'm hetero, but as she is sincerely with me, i will don't care about it.
and yes i want raise kids, but we could adopted,
for me it doesn't matter at all how gorgeous the woman is, it's more about how feel she, thats my opinion,
and as an hetero guy, i could say you look gorgeous, more as some girls that i know....
jantoship 1 month ago in playlist Más videos de AryannaLuv
@jantoship you look like a real woman, and if i know you at a bar, a disco whatever, i will give you the chance to know me and why not dating
jantoship 1 month ago in playlist Más videos de AryannaLuv
yup i agree with her, i think u need to tell these guys and stop tryna feel cunt like ooo i bagged a boy why do u think u see transgender woman on the news murdered? like she said a guy may go through something mentally and get crazy my life is worth more than feelin cunt for any papi
SeXxINaTTi 1 month ago
@jesscaralsen what if lets say you're a transwoman and you're dating a ultra masculine macho heterosexual straight man who only wants a cisgendered woman who can mother children and if you're lucky like always you can cowardly call the cops when you know full well that you lied and decieved him. unless he bisexual or a transman then I guess he'll no problems loving you :D
michaeloflaherty 1 month ago
You are right. No matter what the basis for a healthy realtionship is to tell the truth
h5t6ca 1 month ago
yes is really truth
leticiasatin 1 month ago
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I KINDA agree with her. but hunny NOBODY was born a MAN. your born male .
kuntyfacedbitch 1 month ago
ye they should say if they're in a relationship, im sure that could mess with some overly macho mans head finding out your girl is a guy that could even make some guys turn violent im sure,
ox4poluter 1 month ago
@ox4poluter thats the same exact point I was also trying to make that every trans woman must tell the man the truth because it's Esssential! every man reacts differently and as you say a overly macho straight heterosexual male who is only sexually interested in a woman born with a vagina capable to mother a child. as opposed to a transwoman who was born with a penis and gets srs to get a fake vagina that cannot make babies because theres no Uterus no Egg and no Fallopian tube etc.
michaeloflaherty 1 month ago in playlist Transgender
It's about choice, giving the man a choice knowing the truth, everyone has the right to choose. Good video!
dancinglikeagirl 1 month ago 4
@dancinglikeagirl My point!
AryannaLuv 1 month ago 5
I think its different, if the transwoman is lesbian. What are your thoughts on transwomen not telling women before meeting them? Since we are more understanding usually with matters like that... :)
SchmexyLesbian 1 month ago
You are as inspiring a a fart !!!
Qlassy 1 month ago
You are ridiculous !!! No matter what there is no reason to be violent !! You are a sick and crazy bitch !! Go fuck yourself you monster !! It is not that serious asshole !! Why say all that shit you bitch !!!
Qlassy 1 month ago
as a transgender girl you out of all people should know we aren't born men....where women born with male genitals. and tranny is offensive. but other than that your a great and inspiring person..im transgender and im 18....and i am happy to watch your vids.
brecrady777 1 month ago
Why the fuck do you say born a man ? We were born transsexual not men you filthy bitch !! Read the latest genders studies asshole !!!
Qlassy 1 month ago 3
@Qlassy
Jesus, calm your self!
KawaiiMakeUpPrincess 1 month ago
This is why we call ppl who do what you're doing trolls. Maybe you think twice about insulting others who for all you know could be 6'4" marines and and experienced combat fighters before you say you're put them in hospitals. Just a thought.
MrDividingbyzero 1 month ago
@jesscaralsen Yes I have science on my side. The homos say they are born homo. So I tell them to prove that theory scientifically by sharing with the NORMAL people the homo gene so that we cann ERADICATE THE GAY GENE and cure homosexuality! But the homos have not shared their scientific knowledge with people because they know they are spreading a bullshit lie about being born homo. As being homo is a mental illness! Only LiberTurds and Homos believe being gay is ok!
MrObamaisCarter 1 month ago
@jesscaralsen If a masculine homophobe guy thinks you are a woman and wants to fuk you and discovers you are a male you would deserve to get your ass beat! Consider this fact that their are heterosexual men who would beat your faggot ass for making them believe you are a female.
MrObamaisCarter 1 month ago
@jesscaralsen True... I never said they dont.. I am just saying its best to do it in the beginning.
AryannaLuv 1 month ago 6
I agree with this video because what if a man wanted kids sure you can adopt but most would rather have a kid that was made from them.
I would not mind dating a transexual though but i'd need to be attracted to the appearance as well yes i know all on the inside and all that but i dont want to date a girl with a deeper voice than mine who looks like a man in a wig. She doesnt have to be amazing 100% perfect looking but at least looks like a girl and sounds like one.
Smellmenoweww 1 month ago
@Smellmenoweww Yes exactly the very same point I'm also trying to make the majority of heterosexual straight men want a cisgendered/genetic woman who can get pregnant. when on the otherside the minority of heterosexual men that find a woman with a penis exciting especially if they've been to bangkok thailand and fallen for a kathoey/ladyboy, what if the guy was a Muslim now the Quran forbids a man to marry a transwoman, which the Quran says you are still a man. I've read it!
michaeloflaherty 1 month ago
That's why i originally said there was no right or wrong- just preferred and better- but unless you are them- you can't always tell which is which at first. I personally tihnk if you want a hetero cis guy then you run into these problems more then someone "strisght/not narrow" or someone in the LGBTAQIP community- each person needs to be handled differently. Peace
MrDividingbyzero 2 months ago
Isn't that much of a deal. If you waited more than a couple of weeks when your BOTH still getting to know each other, are its been months, engaged, that's all very different. Plus when you tell you are trusting that person to be responsible with that info. I'm not going to just tell someone second thing outta my mouth and have them tell they're friends and bashing me in the parking lot b/c i felt scoping them out first was wrong. safety works both ways- every person and sitiuation is different.
MrDividingbyzero 2 months ago
Also it's not like most ppl are waiting until its serious- you just want to see if that's a person you'd want to be wit peroid. If there's potential then you tell them- you can fish this out in like a week. For someone to get tha pissed or reactionary towards you for droping somthing like that during the first week or two opposed to the very first date they're stupid. I aviod that by avoiding stupid ppl. It also depends on the people involved. Being up front in the first two seconds and 7 days
MrDividingbyzero 2 months ago
What I guess I'm trying to say is it's a double edged sword and it's even worse for the transwomen most of the time. I personally don't date ppl I don't feel comfortable disclosing that kind of info to. If I find someone i like, i'd wait until the 2nd or 3rd b/c i want someone that i feel a long term connection with and i'm also fishing to see how'd they'd take such news. If you tell them right after your name then what usually happens is trans is all they see
MrDividingbyzero 2 months ago
@MrDividingbyzero Their is no such thing as a transwoman. There are men with cocks who are fuked in the mind and believe they are women trapped in a male body. Their are some men who will beat your ass because they consider any gayness to be perverted and you will get hurt if you fuk with them. I would send your gay faggot as to hospital if you tricked me into believing you were a female. Do NOT allow any sexual or physical contact to be made because the guy will beat your ass if he is homophobe
MrObamaisCarter 1 month ago
ok well maybe im old school but id rather get to know someone before i have intentions of getting near jumping in the sack with someone so yeah id still say its fine not to disclose cause maybe they arent a slut and not into fucking on the first date but hey if the want to both bump uglies then disclose of course
mbatts73 2 months ago
And what about genetic women who can't ever get pregnant? Should they also tell a guy the first time they see him? and does it make them less of a woman? Haven't you ever heard of adopting or even having a baby in different ways? It's not because you use to live inside a man's body, ( and not use to BE a man ), ( but it's just my way of seeing things concerning me,), that you can not have a certain way of living, everyone is individual, every TS is individual, being transexual doesn't define YOU
Millearl 2 months ago
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Millearl 2 months ago
@Millearl
And I suppose that yes you should tell a guy if you decided to keep a penis but not necesseraly right away. That doesn't make things "ridiculous", it's actually wanting to give a man a different impression about your being and not feeling like your just here for what you have down there. What you're saying is everyone should just reduce all of the essentiel things when you first meet someone to your genitals.If the guy turns out not to be okay with it cause he doesn't like "cock" -
Millearl 2 months ago 2
Then fine, just move on! It's part of socializing you shouldn't HAVE to just skip it!Everyone should live their own lives and NOTHING excuses Violence! We're not in STONE AGE anymore, there are human rights.
PS: One can learn from his/her mistakes. it's our individual job to find the right way of doing our personnal things without judging other ones, I'm not saying yours is wrong I'm just saying the different ones that you're criticizing aren't lower.
Millearl 2 months ago
@Millearl No they arent they just can potentially get you killed or harmed physically.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@Millearl At the end of the day everyone is entitled to do what ever they want with their life. I am not dictating on how someone must live. All I am is giving awareness to other young transsexual women... because we live in a world full of different kind of people and us as transsexuals live a different reality than most as well as we run different risks than any other genetic heterosexual woman would.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@Millearl You guys OBVIOUSLY dont get my point... my point has nothing to do with getting pregnant or anything.. all Im trying to say is if your a pre op transsexual you have to consider someone else believes and sexuality, therefore you must tell him that you were born transsexual. Thats all.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@AryannaLuv Okay, my bad then
Millearl 1 month ago
this video was very interesting, haven't learned so much in one day from youtube video before Bravo! Keep it up :D
warhill30 2 months ago 2
@EB976246 lol I drunk text but NEVER drunk Youtube lol
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
Here's the thing, you're a real cutie, you've got the voice and all that ( my jaw is on the floor); but some guys do go for v'jay-jay above other feminine qualities. Where I work, there are married women who have NEVER looked fine or girly... their hubbys might have been wanting a partner to play football with in the yard, or arm-wrestle with maybe... different strokes... As far as myself is concerned, if a woman is wearing her hair short I don't really see her !! Cute beats out Ruff as guts.
rexjaru 2 months ago
@rexjaru ...but what I should add is this... If a TS is 'heavy set'or large shoulderd they should realise that there are guys out there that are into that.
rexjaru 2 months ago
You are very cute and friendly. I like your spirit.
FantasyStockings2 2 months ago
@FantasyStockings2 Thanks hun. :-)
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
Every time I've gone out on a date with a transsexual woman, I've known about her transition beforehand. I really don't care whether she was born male or female, as long as she presents herself as a beautiful woman in my eyes, it's the only thing that matters to me. I have been fortunate to share numerous deep kisses with TS women...but I've found that many aren't the relationship type. Not many genetic females I've met are the relationship type, either.
EricBatTGLife 2 months ago
@AVGuy2981 I know.. I was VERY irritated.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago 2
@AryannaLuv
While I can see how some may be offended at this video, I think the advice you give here is *very* prudent.
Not because I personally would be offended to find out a girl I had an interest in was trans - but simply because there are a lot of guys out there who (for a variety of reasons) could not only be caught off guard by this kind of "late in the game revelation", but (sadly) could get violent. It's really a personal safety issue for trans women.
DemokraticRepublican 2 months ago
I think the reason so many people are responding negatively to this video is because they are still trying to think of the world in a pleasant way. Well, the world isn't pleasant. Should we have to disclose to avoid violence? No. Knowing what kind of world that we live in, isn't it better than the alternative? Yes. I for one admire your bluntness and your ability to see the situation for what it is.
LaurenES95 2 months ago
@LaurenES95 *Agreed*
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
let me ask you, when do YOU tell them? your very passable and pretty. BE HONEST!!!
ancientegyptianmagic 2 months ago
@ancientegyptianmagic Honestly.. If a guy talks to me in public or anywhere else even a gay bar I always assume he doesnt know... trust me I have been mistaken to be a lesbian by other lesbians out there... so I always tell a man right from the start... wether I get his number and then tell him over the phone on the first conversation or right then and there when he approaches me.. I say: "I dont know if you noticed but Im transgender" based wether I feel threatened or i think its safe to tell.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@AryannaLuv TO BE HONEST I REALLY DONT DO THE WHOLE DATIN THING, FALLIN IN LOVE THING, IM NOT THE RELATIONSHIP TYPE, I DONT DO THOSE LOL. BUT HONESTLY I WOULDNT BE MAD OR WANNA KILL HER CUS I DONT CONDONE VIOLENCE AND ESPECIALLY I DONT BELIEVE IN TAKIN SOMEONES LIFE. ILL JUS BE SHOCKED LIKE "WHAT? ARE YOU SERIOUS?". BUT TO OVER REACT, NAH I WOULDNT DO THAT. I CANT BRING MYSELF TO BE VIOLENT TOWARDS A WOMAN, WHETHER SHES TRANSEXUAL OR NATURAL BORN, I CANT AND WONT DO IT.
UMANEDAKIDD19 2 months ago 2
Im one of those heterosexual men who doesn't want kids and loves women with penises.
gorillagarrett 2 months ago 4
@gorillagarrett On a sexual level or do you plan on being with a transsexual? Or you just wouldnt mind if a girl ended up having a penis? Would you rather have her have a penis?
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@AryannaLuv
I love women with penises.it's the form im attracted to the most.
As for having a relationship with one, im a looking for a ts girlfriend at the moment. Have been looking for one for months now.
gorillagarrett 2 months ago 6
It is important to be honest, but what if a person is a post-op transexual. They have the vagina that the man wants. In that case, do you really have to tell right away?
staceyschnee 2 months ago
@staceyschnee I think that it is important either way... I am not trying to lead everyone to live by what I think is right... but personally after I get my SRS I still will tell a man.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago 3
So true sis...... so important to be real and truthful to the guy....... be proud of who you are... be yourself and be honest!! Done!!!!! .-))
joyce4evers 2 months ago
NO DISRESPECT TO TRANSEXUAL WOMEN, I RESPECT EM, BUT I CAN ONLY SEE MYSELF BEIN THERRE FRIENDS. I LOVE PUSSY. BUT GUYS WHO ARE INTERESTED IN TRANSEXUALS THEY SHOULDNT CARE WHATS BEEN HER LEGS OR NOT, ITS THE PERSON THEY ATTRACTED TO, HER PERSONALITY AND WHAT NOT. IF SOMEONE HAS SHYT TO SAY BOUT HIM, HE SHOULD TELL THAT PERSON "FUCK YOU, I DONT GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU SAY OR THINK". AT THE END OF THE DAY HES ATTRACTED TO THE WOMAN HE SEES. I DONT CONDONE VIOLENCE OR BELIEVE IN TAKIN SOMEONES LIFE.
UMANEDAKIDD19 2 months ago 6
@UMANEDAKIDD19 So if you dated a girl and you never noticed and she never said anything and you dated her and fell in love with her... you would not be bothered after you found out later in the aftermath that she doesnt have a "pussy"?
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@UMANEDAKIDD19 You do know your caps lock is on right!!!! Well turn it off when you post comments on my page.. or ill delete the comments, There is no point in writing everything in caps.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
Nice arguments and I tottally agree with you about the fact of telling them in the first date, but just when you want something serious with him, (obviously after you've tested if he's not a transphobic person, yeah that could also save both some drama). One main issue is the fact of honesty with people we want to get involved seriously with. The ones who would truly love us wouldn't care about our genitalia, but our inner self. Éxitos para todas, chicas!
SilvMeMe 2 months ago
Totally agree, I say be uprfront from the start. The guys you're gonna have a good with are the ones who are down from day one anyways.
amensupremera 2 months ago
P.S. Nice boobs they really bring out your eyes.......
g0so87 2 months ago
@AryannaLuv I think it's nice you agreed to upload more Spanish videos based off Ernesto's request. Do you feel the language gap when you translate, or do you think just in English.
g0so87 2 months ago
@theporkiestpig007 Because it educates people about Transgender issues. You're too horny, and blinded by big tits to understand that.
MissKaydenHarley 2 months ago
Why do you use the term "Transsexual"? It just reduces and sexualizes our gender. We are Transgender Women (Or tgirls) We are not "TS" - "Transsexuals" - "Trannies" - "Shemales" - "He/Shes"... Those are all pretty derogatory.
MissKaydenHarley 2 months ago 3
Gender theory, for the love of god look it up.
brackishtea 2 months ago
@brackishtea
key word being theory.
Kafka1479 2 months ago
@Kafka1479 still look it up :D
brackishtea 2 months ago
Im flattered that u made an entire response video 2 1 of mine, but y r u so hype over what Im doing w/ my life?
PS- i dont just wear the shoe, i embrace it... ITS NO ONES BUSINESS BUT MY OWN WHAT MY STATUS HAPPENS 2 B AS A WOMAN WHO HAPPENS 2 B TRANSEXUAL.
What u are doing by creating a # of ur videos is perpetuating social stigmas placed upon TS women. I realize, & have said many times, that I will always b TS. That's not however, the 1st thing a man needs 2 know about me.
MACJunkie88 2 months ago 3
@MACJunkie88
PPS- Your analogy of transexual women to purses is completely insulting not just as trans women, but simply as human beings. It's totally cool if you are that one dimensional that your status as a pre/post/non-op transexual is the first thing you have to tell a man, but contrary to what my videos portray me as, i am multi faceted and believe showing a man what I have to offer besides my "cock", as you like to say....
MACJunkie88 2 months ago 7
@MACJunkie88
you're trying to come off as "multi faceted" but in reality, i think it's insecurity that prevents you from being as honest as Aryanna. honesty is the best policy when it comes to talking to straight men. if you're talking to a tranny chaser it doesn't really matter.
Kafka1479 2 months ago
@MACJunkie88 I dont see how?? I mean its only an analogy right? don't read too much into it. Anyway... Well look good luck in your transition into a post op transsexual... a more "normal" way of living as you might think... I personally think that a man can love you as a woman no matter what you have between your legs... dont put so much hope that life will be sooo much different having a vagina. I hope nothing but the best for you Jen.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@MACJunkie88 Hello Jen, I respect that female on the inside. But at the same time being honest to a man that you have deep feelings for is a positive thing to do, why because most straight men want to father children (start a family) and you were born with male reproductive organs (no womb or uterus) so giving birth is impossible but adoption isn't impossible. Also straight men will actually retaliate and get violent beating you up or worse Killing! You. and stop lying to guys ok
michaeloflaherty 2 months ago 2
@MACJunkie88 I really dont care what you do with your over superficial lifestyle, or the fact that you personally don't share your transsexual status upfront, that might get you hurt more than just your feelings one day. I just care for the younger transsexuals that might watch your videos, would hate for them to think that going about life and meeting men and not telling them before dating that they were born "male" and now they are a woman is ok. Because its not. BTW thanks for watching :-)
AryannaLuv 2 months ago 2
@MACJunkie88 Well said MACJunkie. *BRAVO! I too will not tell a person (man or woman) that i am a ts woman at first. Being transgender does not define me as a whole. My status is a very personal subject. The way your saying it, i might as well put a sticky note on my forehead that says "I have a dick". My rule with dating is that no intimacy (kissing, touching, holding hands etc) unless he knows fully of my trans status.
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@xoTrisTxo To me, this is the same as dating a genetic girl... u date her a few times, u find out something about her that you don't like, then you can go your separate merry ways. I refuse to be with someone that's only with me for what i have down there. To me, a relationship is based beyond physicality... that transcends further beyond what you see with your eyes. After all, looks are transient, and what makes an eternal impression is your personality. Our bodies are just shells.
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@xoTrisTxo I.E. we dont remember albert einstein for his crazy white hair, we know him as a genius that made great contribution to our society.
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@MACJunkie88 Hey Jenny this is YouTube a Free Speech Zone Hello!. If you can't handle criticism or advice that will help keep you alive. because many straight men will cause harm if you keep lying to them. Also if you want to be cocky and keep lying then don't blame us when you're on a morgue table with a tag on you're painted toe.
michaeloflaherty 2 months ago 9
@michaeloflaherty I agree with you that you should be honest to a man that you have deep feelings for, but the argument here is if you should tell a man YOU JUST MET. You cant develop deep feelings for someone you just met so you're argument here is invalid.
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@xoTrisTxo Yes I believe that you must tell a guy after you notice HIS interest is deeper than just a friend. I mean if you know that you aren't interested in a man sexually but just as a friend then you don't have to tell him.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@michaeloflaherty ARE YOU SERIOUS? youre saying its ok for a man to beat a woman (ts or not) who didnt tell him about her being infertile? You are advocating violence here my friend... NO ONE DESERVES VIOLENCE, period. I am AGAINST ts women being intimate to a man that doesnt know about her trans status but i am also AGAINST the idea that i have to disclose such private information about me to some random person i just met.
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@xoTrisTxo HEY!!!!!! Fuck You! I wasn't saying that God you feminist Cunts love to jump to conclusions Dont You Don't You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
michaeloflaherty 2 months ago 2
@michaeloflaherty "don't blame us when you're on a morgue table with a tag on you're painted toe." <~~~ read that again CAREFULLY and say that doesn't advocate violence...
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@xoTrisTxo This is America! Everyone has a CCW Certificate and handgun, Not a safe Country. Many of us Straight men have faith in God (In God We Trust!) Remember that saying?. I'm not advocating Jack! ok, I'm just telling you the facts and if you're too Goddamn blind to see then don't blame me when (you decieve a real Heterosexual Man!) who will either let you know by objecting with words alone or He might want to punish you for trying to make him Gay! like You! I have Won!
michaeloflaherty 2 months ago
@michaeloflaherty first of all this debate is not a contest... "I WIN" seriously? grow up.you can have your own opinion and so can i. And the way you reply to my comments is very immature... no need to get aggressive and rude. thank you :)
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@xoTrisTxo there you go again making false accusations that men are so scary and aggressive you started on me first you have a start memory thanks to all that estrogen blocking every last trace of logic in you're feeble narissistic self rightious mind. Whats left of it I still Win She-Dick! :P
michaeloflaherty 2 months ago
@michaeloflaherty lol i am sorry but im seriously laughing out loud here. Anyways, im no longer going to partake in this debate between you and me as it is useless and not worth my effort and time. Good luck with life mister and a happy new year.
xoTrisTxo 2 months ago
@michaeloflaherty WOW you guys are out of control.. cmon... stop cursing and be respective and civil about difference in opinions!!! Damn!
AryannaLuv 2 months ago 2
Whenever someone finds out, they should be mature and compassionate, regardless of how the first party may or maynot have gone about disclosing anything. WE NEED TO STOP GIVING MEN EXCUSES FOR THEIR HOMOPHOBIC BEHAVIOR AND BE TRUE GENTLEMEN FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! Not insecure little babies who felt decieved for info that historically has gotten people killed no matter when they said anything!!
MrDividingbyzero 2 months ago
@MrDividingbyzero They should be respective but in all reality they dont so whats wrong with protecting your self and not put your self in dangers way by not dealing with this fact from the start? I do not think it is ok to beat anyone for anything but all I am saying is why give someone a reason to harm you?
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@MrDividingbyzero i date a transgendered woman now and your comment is why i dont have a problem with other men and their behavior. your comment has to be the most uneducated post ive ever seen
mikeg8866 2 months ago
Just a thought... in a perfect world... shouldn't the guy also say that he is a bio cis male, too, just so everyone's clear? I know probability wise he most likely would be, but I think if we can't let anyone assume anythin, than fair's fair. There is no excuse for violence. And if someone is that homophobic than I can't see how a trans person could seriously want to get involved seeing as hoe perceptions between the two or so closely inter-twined in regular society.
MrDividingbyzero 2 months ago
I can't agree with you more about this topic!
seensol 2 months ago
You're such an inspiration :) you're the most educated professional transsexual ive seen, im so glad iv'e subscribed to you, you're a role model for the Younger T.s.
OmgItsTeera 2 months ago
Just to make this clear... I will not disclose who I am talking about and many think its MACJunkie88 well all I will say is... if the shoe fits then wear it.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago 4
I know the girl your talking about MACJunkie88/Jen she believes/acting like she is a cisgendered/biological female and she is going meet the wrong guy someday who will probably kill or injure her. I also the her black & white video and she was still saying the F word over and over which also draws the wrong attention
michaeloflaherty 2 months ago 5
love you
wish you were my ts lover
youre so amzing
great to hear youre advice
and youre looking so hot girl
i getting all worked up here
love paul
rhudson699 2 months ago
Jes you are so right, and even after the big cut. If you don´t tell, you have to live in fear for the rest of your life. Clarissa
ClarissaX100 2 months ago 3
wow your such a dumb bit*H :)
averyburnette 2 months ago
@averyburnette Yea yeah yeah... go cry about it in your room now.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago 2
Sorry but well id really like a response to this but how would you like to say this when you first met the man...... hi im blah blah and im a transexual before anything starts????? no you would see what is going and if it looks like its going to lead anywhere then of course you would disclose... lets just say that you had a birth defect that cant be seen would you introduce yourself and then disclose that you have a genetic disorder of course not
mbatts73 2 months ago
@mbatts73 Someone has to be an IDIOT to not know when someone is interested in them. I mean if a guy comes up to me and asks for my number... Ill just take his and then the first conversation I tell him whats up because no average man goes up to a beautiful or at that any girl with intentions to be friends with. No guy wants a girl to just have a pajama sleep over or paint their toe nails together kind of a friend. So yes I believe that a girl has to disclose it because it is important...
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
That's kind of like thinking that a guy has a reason to hit a woman after she discloses that she has polycistic ovary syndrome and pprovide children for him. I think you're in the wrong, you're being rude, and close minded about it and using the word "cock" quite offensively as well =/
LivingtheMash 2 months ago
@LivingtheMash Tell that to the hundreds of girls who are DEAD because they failed to disclose their "penis" situation.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago 5
@AryannaLuv Why is it a "situation"? It's not an ailment it's a part of their body and their life story, when you first date a man there is things you don't tell him on the first date that are simply personal and don't need to be disclosed to someone you don't know. Usually it becomes quite evident that the person would either be willing to learn to accept it or not within the first few if it's clear they're not there's no need to continue that relationship, if they are THEN it's important
LivingtheMash 2 months ago
@LivingtheMash
nowhere near the same thing. it's just a matter of honesty. dating a TS woman is cool but it comes with certain challenges. it's only fair to let the guy know what's up and give him an opportunity to do what he decides he's comfortable with.
Kafka1479 2 months ago
I CAN TOTALLY AGREE WITH BEING HONEST FOR THE SAKE OF SAFETY AND ONES DIGNITY. HOWEVER I STRONGLY DISAGREE WITH THE WAY THAT SOCIETY HAS BEEN BRAIN WASHED TO BELIEVE THAT GENDER IS BETWEEN ONES LEGS RATHER THAN ONES EARS, AND I ALSO FIND IT QUIET CHILDISH, AND IGNORANT WHEN THERE IS A MISS USE OF SUCH WORDS AS, TRANNY, SHEMALE, HE SHE, LADYBOY, ETC, SUCH ONLY APPLY TO THOSE WITH NO CLEAR UNDERSTANDING AS TO WHAT AND OR WHY IT IS THEY ARE EVEN TRANSITIONING OTHER THAN FOR PRODUCING PORN MOVIES.
SuperAmberlin 2 months ago 3
I completely disagree agree with you. Telling other people how to live or behave absolutely sucks, and that's just what you're doing.
MsMsmak 2 months ago
Telling it plain and simple darling, love it, thankyou!...
LolitaLaTex 2 months ago
brilliant!
natasha296 2 months ago
ummmmmm !!! so ? is they life they can do what ever if they want to =_= don you think?
tatothai12 2 months ago
@tatothai12 People can do what ever they want with their life... I just have an opinion and I am using it.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
As a heterosexual male that is not only pro gay but has (would still like to) been a counselor in small LGBT groups around NY i applaud your statements...I can't count how many arguments/debates i have been in involving this topic...Yes it is horrible that people can get violent at the notion that they are indeed dating a Transgender....but it also isn't fair to the man involved keeping that aspect of your life a secret. Its just out of respect for the other person. Thats all i see it as.
note156 2 months ago in playlist TRANSSEXUAL EDUCATIONAL VIDEOS
I find it so ironic, it takes a transgendered person to teach genetic males how to be men and treat a lady. if anything, you would think the transgendered person would have to learn from the genetically born how to be the target gender.
Segnet37451172 2 months ago
I'm sorry whats the point of going through a transition to become who you are, when you're "never going to get out of the tranny thing" That's so fucking annoying. How about I just never date anyone.
dzividani 2 months ago
It may be an ugly reality that many men get violent when they feel deceived by a transgendered female, but--there is no excuse for it. It's based on ignorance and fear and should not be condoned. It should not be considered "normal". It should be condemned as the reactionary madness that it is. No one should be compelled to reveal private information to some blockhead in order to avoid being victimnised. Why aren't you counselling the cavemen to get civilised? That would make sense.
jkeyes1000 2 months ago 6
@jkeyes1000 Because its like going to Luis Vuitton and buying a purse for a couple of thousands of dollars and then find out that they sold you a purse that was made in China, not authentic, and in reality costs 20 dollars. Would you be ok with that? I think many humans would act in rage wether physical or just verbal. I would curse at those people and be pissed off because I was deceived and they should have known better. I think its the transsexual that puts herself in this position not him.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@AryannaLuv Well--I'm a man and I respect any woman's right to present herself as female regardless of her genitalia, and I don't think it's deceptive. I don't fault a woman for having her secrets, and if a man is presumptuous about any detail of her character, he ought to blame himself. A case for misrepresentation would only be valid if she expressly claimed to possess an anatomical feature that she did not in fact possess.
jkeyes1000 2 months ago
@jkeyes1000
Well thats fine for you. but it goes without saying that not everyone feels the same as you. it doesn't mean that something is wrong with them...its just not as big of a issue to you. Everyone has there preferences so don't you think that those preferences should be respected?
note156 2 months ago in playlist TRANSSEXUAL EDUCATIONAL VIDEOS
@note156 My point is that there IS something wrong with someone who blames somebody else for merely being herself. We all have secrets, and they're secrets for good reason--they could cause US embarrassment if they were revealed. Why should a transgendered person be required to risk her social status for the sake of any Tom, Dick or Harry? An aggressive reaction should always be considered more objectionable than a passive demeanor.
jkeyes1000 2 months ago
@jkeyes1000
You said it perfectly....."For ANY tom, dick or harry"....but a potential boyfriend isn't ANY old tom,dick or harry. Its the person you eventually will build a romantic/sexual relationship with...If the person isn't sexually interested in dating a transgender woman then thats it. Secrets are fine but its also good to respect the other person's feelings...you are entitled to keep it your own business...but it would be nice to respect other peoples feelings as well.
note156 2 months ago
@jkeyes1000 Your correct but a penis is not a detail in character it is a body part that many men are not ok to play with either than their own. So yea I don't fault a woman to carry her self as a woman as long as she doesn't put a man in an awkward position to where society can claim and judge him as a homosexual because she failed to disclose that she was born with a penis. It is very unfair to the man.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
That's an interesting comparison. I think it's about the value that is unfairly imposed onto trans-people. with the stigma towards homosexuality, society has set it up in a way that places all the responsibility on you. men don't get homicidal when he discovers his date was bald or has a tail. I'd say it's human to feel like we're worth more. is it just that horrible to think people would like for someone to know their personality first before being rejected for being trans? it was just a week.
itzyourcrayons 2 months ago
@itzyourcrayons The world is not that nice and neither are the people living in it. I know that many people would like to see that life shouldnt be like this and that but the reality is that transsexual individuals live a different reality than the average heterosexual human. Do some research and youll see what I am talking about... just to lighten you up on something in Brazil transsexual women are murdered at a rate as 1 per week... and then many would ask why? Well because people are cruel.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@AryannaLuv. it's not about being deluded into thinking the world's a nice place. you take a risk by just stepping outside. that doesn't mean we should lock our doors and hide in fear. I don't disagree that disclosing our status first is best if safety is priority, this is good advice. I disagree that not doing so is unethical. in a nutshell, you're advocating that we should give into blackmail. This should be an individual choice, not a requirement.
itzyourcrayons 1 month ago
@jkeyes1000 Also yes you have to share your transsexual status to any man you start becoming comfortable with... because you dont want to mislead him into believing you are his future baby mama when in reality you will NEVER be able to get pregnant and have a child with him.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
@AryannaLuv Hon you don't have to get bregnant to be a mom =/
LivingtheMash 2 months ago
@LivingtheMash Pregnant**
LivingtheMash 2 months ago
@LivingtheMash Lol I was typing so fast I didn't realize my error lol TYPO.
AryannaLuv 2 months ago
LOL w/o a doubt it was MACJunkie88 :D
Luisinthehouse 2 months ago
I agree with everything that you are saying. It is both too risky and silly not to tell someone at a time/place that is both appropriate and (most importantly to you) safe to do so. Show respect for yourself and keep your safety well in mind: respect common sense and give that person the courtesy of letting them know. Too many girls try to avoid this ... with disastrous results. If the other person is truly into you, then a relationship has potential. Be yourself and avoid compromising honesty.
mystriousgrl 2 months ago
it was MACJunkie88
TheFutureTgirl 2 months ago
You look so sexy in this video. I would love to shoot my load over your chest. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!! wear a short skirt in your next video. I would love to see your legs and thighs.
ANOTHERHOLEINYOHEAD 2 months ago
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BritneyBellemont 2 months ago
Instead of transsexual woman I prefer the phrase "New Woman" :)
colmonhs 2 months ago