Okay well I have to answer the question from the opposing viewpoint. I had been involved in cybersex many times before, chiefly as a masturbation aid. Though my girlfriend found out and was very hurt by it. We discussed it and I admit I failed to address my issues at first, but then I realized that while it's merely a creative aid to my physical desires, she is concerned about me developing an emotional connection that might replace her. I am glad to say I eventually did overcome it though!
Why not do it with each other? It's great fun - cybersex and sexting can add a new dimension to your relationship - it depends how open you are with one another, but it can be mind blowing (!) ;D
Dan and Jennifer, great advice, great show!! Thanks!!
It would bother me if my bf was sexting because having a partner is the whole reason for your sexual pleasure plus love. You can't be a secondary part of his life compared to other sexual pleasures. The whole part of having a relationship is doing stuff with each other. Sexting with each other is much better than doing it with strangers.
O.K enough is enough. People have been extending the meaning of sex to incoporate things they're insecure with. Watching porn is not cheating. There is no sexting... just text. I've been watching porn since I was 12 and It will be a cold day in hell if I give that shit up.
I would never be alright with any of those things if my guy did that or if he began to. I wouldn't be able to stand and I would be angry at him all the time. So I won't accept anything similar or anything related to that.
I never had a partner doing this! I don't think it's ok. Chatting with female friends is of course ok with me but not about sex, his fantasies etc. My fiance doesn't agree either. Sex is between the two partners in the relationship and doesn't have to be discussed with others.
I have done both while in a relationship. To me it was no different than looking at porn. It was something i used to get off to on occasion and had no effect on my feelings for her. There are some who view it in a similar way as I do, and others who consider it cheating. Unfortunately she considered it cheating... oops!
The title should be, "Is cybersex and sexting cheating?" The current title implied that it was about whether cybersex and sexting are okay for, like, teenagers or something.
My boyfriend and i have an agreement that we can sext and Cyber sex other people as long as we havent actually ever met face to face. We also promised to keep who we do it with somewhat secret. I mean, we both know we do it, but neither of us wants to hear the details xxx
@xXPakhiaPriestessXx Omg, if MY boyfriend were to be sexting another girl, that would drive me SSOOO CRAZY. I myself don't see that as okay in a relationship. My opinion is if a guy is interested in you... Then all of his likes should ONLY BE YOU. JUST YOU.
Personally I deal with open realtionships. If my girlfriend wants to cyber, or have sex with others thats fine with me, as long as it doesn't interfere with her time with me.
I 19 year old is in prison because of sexting, he says she was up for it cause the rumor in school was she was loose - not true because the girl was 15 and didn't even go to his school....... she rejected his advances and he finally got caught and is now facing federal charges - think when you sext someone ! especially if you do not know them!
@OlyJeebus People are incapable of being honest with themselves. "Why would he be sexting and cybering in the 1st place?" Because the variety in sex isn't there plain and simple. Since in monogamous relationship variety can't be achieved in the number of partners, it can be achieved by spicing up your sex. Boring sex = wandering eyes. I don't care how good your relationship is, a bad sex life will lead to it ending or cheating.
I don't understand sexting, I think it's retarded
devilshomie 8 months ago
cyber sex. i say its fine bc its not actually touching or anything.
kaleighandblair 11 months ago
Okay well I have to answer the question from the opposing viewpoint. I had been involved in cybersex many times before, chiefly as a masturbation aid. Though my girlfriend found out and was very hurt by it. We discussed it and I admit I failed to address my issues at first, but then I realized that while it's merely a creative aid to my physical desires, she is concerned about me developing an emotional connection that might replace her. I am glad to say I eventually did overcome it though!
aozgolo 1 year ago
Why not do it with each other? It's great fun - cybersex and sexting can add a new dimension to your relationship - it depends how open you are with one another, but it can be mind blowing (!) ;D
Dan and Jennifer, great advice, great show!! Thanks!!
MsRedkitty1 1 year ago
It would bother me if my bf was sexting because having a partner is the whole reason for your sexual pleasure plus love. You can't be a secondary part of his life compared to other sexual pleasures. The whole part of having a relationship is doing stuff with each other. Sexting with each other is much better than doing it with strangers.
Okalani5000 1 year ago
O.K enough is enough. People have been extending the meaning of sex to incoporate things they're insecure with. Watching porn is not cheating. There is no sexting... just text. I've been watching porn since I was 12 and It will be a cold day in hell if I give that shit up.
FitnessGuru1988 1 year ago
I would never be alright with any of those things if my guy did that or if he began to. I wouldn't be able to stand and I would be angry at him all the time. So I won't accept anything similar or anything related to that.
Filipina84 1 year ago
I say join him and have cyber threesome.
happyare 1 year ago 2
If not now he was cheating!
michaelstanger 1 year ago
I never had a partner doing this! I don't think it's ok. Chatting with female friends is of course ok with me but not about sex, his fantasies etc. My fiance doesn't agree either. Sex is between the two partners in the relationship and doesn't have to be discussed with others.
slun4evka 1 year ago
I have done both while in a relationship. To me it was no different than looking at porn. It was something i used to get off to on occasion and had no effect on my feelings for her. There are some who view it in a similar way as I do, and others who consider it cheating. Unfortunately she considered it cheating... oops!
SkiaMac 1 year ago
The title should be, "Is cybersex and sexting cheating?" The current title implied that it was about whether cybersex and sexting are okay for, like, teenagers or something.
ncfwhitetigress 1 year ago 19
@ncfwhitetigress obviously is cheating if ur not single u idiot .. fuck
44centz 1 year ago
@44centz i wasn't questioning that. i was just saying the title was misleading.
ncfwhitetigress 1 year ago
My boyfriend and i have an agreement that we can sext and Cyber sex other people as long as we havent actually ever met face to face. We also promised to keep who we do it with somewhat secret. I mean, we both know we do it, but neither of us wants to hear the details xxx
xXPakhiaPriestessXx 1 year ago
@xXPakhiaPriestessXx Omg, if MY boyfriend were to be sexting another girl, that would drive me SSOOO CRAZY. I myself don't see that as okay in a relationship. My opinion is if a guy is interested in you... Then all of his likes should ONLY BE YOU. JUST YOU.
Filipina84 1 year ago
Personally I deal with open realtionships. If my girlfriend wants to cyber, or have sex with others thats fine with me, as long as it doesn't interfere with her time with me.
MasterTiarnan 1 year ago
I 19 year old is in prison because of sexting, he says she was up for it cause the rumor in school was she was loose - not true because the girl was 15 and didn't even go to his school....... she rejected his advances and he finally got caught and is now facing federal charges - think when you sext someone ! especially if you do not know them!
chibomato78 1 year ago
Why would he be sexting and cybering in the first place.
something be wrong with that my lady.
He has you and he has to have like sexual contact over the internet and via texting to be happy ?
interesting.
good video by the way.
OlyJeebus 1 year ago 12
@OlyJeebus People are incapable of being honest with themselves. "Why would he be sexting and cybering in the 1st place?" Because the variety in sex isn't there plain and simple. Since in monogamous relationship variety can't be achieved in the number of partners, it can be achieved by spicing up your sex. Boring sex = wandering eyes. I don't care how good your relationship is, a bad sex life will lead to it ending or cheating.
FitnessGuru1988 1 year ago
ooooh first comment ... great video
xxKikaVikaxx 1 year ago
first losers
mrtvman 1 year ago