Omg, it works! I created two separate profiles. One of them I smiled a lot, the other I put a picture of me holding a hammer and looking at it as the default... and only pics that looked AWAY from the camera and IT WORKED! I have like 70% more women going to my 2nd profile, hahaha!! XD
Fake user profiles should be exposed! For example, the user "Jollily" on OkCupid who recently (up until a few days ago) used a fake photograph of an attractive woman in order to lure innocent and trusting men to her. I was one of her victims. she is still active on this site, and still won't use her own photo!! Ladies and gents - watch out for charlatans. They lurk everywhere. ID verification should be standard across the board.
Fake user profiles should be exposed! For example, the user "Jollily" on OkCupid who recently (up until a few days ago) used a fake photograph of an attractive woman in order to lure innocent and trusting men to her. I was one of her victims. she is still active on this site, and still won't use her own photo!! Ladies and gents - watch out for charlatans. They lurk everywhere. ID verification should be standard across the board.
@15gmt Very good idea too - Webcams for every one on one chat and a badge/logo for "ID Verified". This would work fairly well on OkCupid, so long as they have the bandwidth to handle the extra video traffic. Pay sites may be less enthusiastic because they are make money by having a higher subscriber count. Another BIG failing of (most) dating sites is that they do not provide guidance / coaching on what to do when you actually meet someone face to face.
ROFL, bullshit. This site is fucking worthless. The site is self is fine... but the women FUCKING SUCK!!! No decent chick will fucking respond to you! Go look around, there's countless guys complaining about this. Doesn't matter if you're good looking, polite, sociable, etc... doesn't matter how you approach them or what you say. They ignore you, and its fucking obnoxious! I don't understand why these stupid cunts are even on this site if they won't even talk to the guys who contact them
@GeneralHoohah Honestly, what reason does a str8 man have to use a dating website, especially a str8 white male. You're living a country that 74% white for god's sake. I am a black male and I have white and black women flirting me up all the damn time. I'm never interested because I'm gay though. I just don't know what kind of a str8 man has to turn to dating websites unless he's pathetic, hideous, or some kind of creeper?! Women, it's actually easier than men because it's not all about looks
@GeneralHoohah LoL! I would originally go postal on someone who made a comment like that but I see myself in you so I'm not going to. While I do very well with girls, I have had a very different experience with men. I basically had your exact same experience in dealing with men online. LOL! The rant you made is exactly what has gone through my head a bzillion times, only about guys. I can put the most gorgeous picture up and still get rejected some of these cunt bag males. It's weird though...
@Tonetare (continued) because in person, I've had an entirely different experience. While online if I show a guy my facebook, in person like at college today guys will repeatedly check me out during class. It's just constant. I know it's not the picture because my pictures look really good and exactly how I look so I don't know what it is. I sometimes wonder if it's racism. I pretty much only have white males to choose from in my area. Maybe white guys have to be present with a black male before
@Tonetare (continued 2) pursuing anything with them because they have a bunch of preconceived notions about black guys and believe in all of the stereotypes. I remember before I went on a date with one white guy I met online, he was on the phone talking about, "I don't know if I can date a black guy. My parents would hate that because most of them are lazy and on welfare" On the date, he ended up liking me but I wasn't into him and passed. Likewise, girls may be doing the same thing with you.
@Tonetare (continued) even if you're white, girls tend to make assumptions about guys if they don't have a certain look. Although I've never pursued women online before, just hearing a lot of talk from women online and places on yahoo answers, it seems like they just assume a lot of guys are creepers if they date online, so you have that obstacle to deal with. It's all stereotypes man. All abotu stereotypes. People believe in them. That holds you back in online dating.
@Tonetare After talking with some very intelligent people on that site, we came to a conclusion. Their expectations are way too high. Women go to this site thinking they'll get the perfect match so they raise their expectations way too high. As a result, they don't bother replying to anyone, and those men as a result put less and less time into their introductions (I don't) and most of the women complain they're getting hundreds of short brainless intros. Its a catch 22 cycle.
@GeneralHoohah If most of the women on that site would be more realistic and take a chance on more of these guys, the problem would go away.
Its the classic rejection scenario that has been plaguing man kind since the spawn of life. Women in general say "NO" way too much, shoot men down in flames, and usually have expectations that are too high, while usually not meeting expectations that high themselves. This in turn causes a societal backlash where women are treated with less respect.
@GeneralHoohah e-mail me me one on one and let's get you a woman. Show me your face pic. Being gay, I can sum up a man within to seconds and know what he's got working for him and what he doesn't. Of course understand that with women, a lot more goes into it than just looks. Men it's all about looks. With women, you have to have other stuff working for you.
How do you expect daters to find you a perfectionistic dating site when you have men on Your site that have zillions of profiles and you allow this and other abuse of people to continue. Quite a crew of morons.
Good Lord there is a freak on there that claims he owns a space ship and certain parts of his body glow in the dark. He also wrote me that the POLICE department was involved in Dominatrix houses and lured people in to murder them.
FROM OKCUPID: We are very pleased to report that you are in the top half of our site's most attractive users. The scales recently tipped in your favor, and we thought you'd like to know.How can we say this with confidence? We've tracked click-thrus on your photo and analyzed other people's reactions to you in .your elite status comes with one important privilege: You will now see more attractive people in your match results. Was I GIVEN UGLY PEOPLE FIRST? & BY WHO'S STANDARDS?
interesting points. Wonder what would work for male/female profile pics, when seeking same sex(or bi/either-sex) persons..Also wonder how okcupid handles the trans profiles.
Omg, it works! I created two separate profiles. One of them I smiled a lot, the other I put a picture of me holding a hammer and looking at it as the default... and only pics that looked AWAY from the camera and IT WORKED! I have like 70% more women going to my 2nd profile, hahaha!! XD
ThCakeIsALie 3 weeks ago
sam your site sucks so bad.. heres why
1. you have tons of fake profiles you put up tons of women who dont fill out profiles
2.people never respond even if your hot
3.no way to email the site and complain
4.you ban people from comeing in if your not a women
5.btw sam are you the one that owns this site i thought that some douch bag english man did you dont look like the guy who emails me when i sign up..
your site is a scam
locutus340 1 month ago
late emphasis on the final words@ 2:33 lmao.. now we really believe you
1of111 3 months ago
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Fake user profiles should be exposed! For example, the user "Jollily" on OkCupid who recently (up until a few days ago) used a fake photograph of an attractive woman in order to lure innocent and trusting men to her. I was one of her victims. she is still active on this site, and still won't use her own photo!! Ladies and gents - watch out for charlatans. They lurk everywhere. ID verification should be standard across the board.
777specops 7 months ago
Fake user profiles should be exposed! For example, the user "Jollily" on OkCupid who recently (up until a few days ago) used a fake photograph of an attractive woman in order to lure innocent and trusting men to her. I was one of her victims. she is still active on this site, and still won't use her own photo!! Ladies and gents - watch out for charlatans. They lurk everywhere. ID verification should be standard across the board.
777specops 7 months ago 2
@777specops i agree with you. thats y i always make sure the person im talking to has skype where we can both see who were talking to.
15gmt 6 months ago
@15gmt Very good idea too - Webcams for every one on one chat and a badge/logo for "ID Verified". This would work fairly well on OkCupid, so long as they have the bandwidth to handle the extra video traffic. Pay sites may be less enthusiastic because they are make money by having a higher subscriber count. Another BIG failing of (most) dating sites is that they do not provide guidance / coaching on what to do when you actually meet someone face to face.
777specops 6 months ago
@777specops ive had more luck on free sites than big pay sites like match.com and eharmony. i think its just a scam.
15gmt 6 months ago
I met my boyfriend at OKCupid and we've been together a year and a half :)
samick0926 8 months ago 2
If you can't find a significant other in reality, you're not going to find one online. Experience.
Klayribel 10 months ago
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Tonetare 1 year ago
ROFL, bullshit. This site is fucking worthless. The site is self is fine... but the women FUCKING SUCK!!! No decent chick will fucking respond to you! Go look around, there's countless guys complaining about this. Doesn't matter if you're good looking, polite, sociable, etc... doesn't matter how you approach them or what you say. They ignore you, and its fucking obnoxious! I don't understand why these stupid cunts are even on this site if they won't even talk to the guys who contact them
GeneralHoohah 1 year ago
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Tonetare 1 year ago
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Tonetare 1 year ago
@GeneralHoohah Honestly, what reason does a str8 man have to use a dating website, especially a str8 white male. You're living a country that 74% white for god's sake. I am a black male and I have white and black women flirting me up all the damn time. I'm never interested because I'm gay though. I just don't know what kind of a str8 man has to turn to dating websites unless he's pathetic, hideous, or some kind of creeper?! Women, it's actually easier than men because it's not all about looks
Tonetare 1 year ago
@Tonetare Ignorant fuck ass trolls like you should be hung publicly.
GeneralHoohah 1 year ago
@GeneralHoohah LoL! I would originally go postal on someone who made a comment like that but I see myself in you so I'm not going to. While I do very well with girls, I have had a very different experience with men. I basically had your exact same experience in dealing with men online. LOL! The rant you made is exactly what has gone through my head a bzillion times, only about guys. I can put the most gorgeous picture up and still get rejected some of these cunt bag males. It's weird though...
Tonetare 1 year ago
@Tonetare (continued) because in person, I've had an entirely different experience. While online if I show a guy my facebook, in person like at college today guys will repeatedly check me out during class. It's just constant. I know it's not the picture because my pictures look really good and exactly how I look so I don't know what it is. I sometimes wonder if it's racism. I pretty much only have white males to choose from in my area. Maybe white guys have to be present with a black male before
Tonetare 1 year ago
@Tonetare (continued 2) pursuing anything with them because they have a bunch of preconceived notions about black guys and believe in all of the stereotypes. I remember before I went on a date with one white guy I met online, he was on the phone talking about, "I don't know if I can date a black guy. My parents would hate that because most of them are lazy and on welfare" On the date, he ended up liking me but I wasn't into him and passed. Likewise, girls may be doing the same thing with you.
Tonetare 1 year ago
@Tonetare (continued) even if you're white, girls tend to make assumptions about guys if they don't have a certain look. Although I've never pursued women online before, just hearing a lot of talk from women online and places on yahoo answers, it seems like they just assume a lot of guys are creepers if they date online, so you have that obstacle to deal with. It's all stereotypes man. All abotu stereotypes. People believe in them. That holds you back in online dating.
Tonetare 1 year ago
@Tonetare After talking with some very intelligent people on that site, we came to a conclusion. Their expectations are way too high. Women go to this site thinking they'll get the perfect match so they raise their expectations way too high. As a result, they don't bother replying to anyone, and those men as a result put less and less time into their introductions (I don't) and most of the women complain they're getting hundreds of short brainless intros. Its a catch 22 cycle.
GeneralHoohah 1 year ago
@GeneralHoohah If most of the women on that site would be more realistic and take a chance on more of these guys, the problem would go away.
Its the classic rejection scenario that has been plaguing man kind since the spawn of life. Women in general say "NO" way too much, shoot men down in flames, and usually have expectations that are too high, while usually not meeting expectations that high themselves. This in turn causes a societal backlash where women are treated with less respect.
GeneralHoohah 1 year ago
@GeneralHoohah e-mail me me one on one and let's get you a woman. Show me your face pic. Being gay, I can sum up a man within to seconds and know what he's got working for him and what he doesn't. Of course understand that with women, a lot more goes into it than just looks. Men it's all about looks. With women, you have to have other stuff working for you.
Tonetare 1 year ago
.How can you allow this PUKE and his cohorts to control YOUR supposed site?
Cupid is a Joke. It is for men who can't get it up and use their mouths instead of their small needle dicks.
karenlynn533 1 year ago
How do you expect daters to find you a perfectionistic dating site when you have men on Your site that have zillions of profiles and you allow this and other abuse of people to continue. Quite a crew of morons.
Good Lord there is a freak on there that claims he owns a space ship and certain parts of his body glow in the dark. He also wrote me that the POLICE department was involved in Dominatrix houses and lured people in to murder them.
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karenlynn533 1 year ago
FROM OKCUPID: We are very pleased to report that you are in the top half of our site's most attractive users. The scales recently tipped in your favor, and we thought you'd like to know.How can we say this with confidence? We've tracked click-thrus on your photo and analyzed other people's reactions to you in .your elite status comes with one important privilege: You will now see more attractive people in your match results. Was I GIVEN UGLY PEOPLE FIRST? & BY WHO'S STANDARDS?
CheekiMnky 1 year ago 2
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nicolette71 1 year ago
I love OKCupid :)
Anomki 1 year ago
okcupid would be cool if they didn't sell your email addresses to spam companies.
180yankee 1 year ago
@180yankee
Oh that's ok, the email I use already gets inundated in spam anyway.
Mrmoc7 8 months ago
You are biased. Cupid sucks!
karenlynn533 1 year ago
They give out plenty of chances for people to break the ice and read up on peoples profiles and questionaires to see how they match up.
JCSCougar 1 year ago
Dude his head is a lightbulb!
PowerfrogsBeotch 1 year ago
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adawg25 1 year ago
@adawg25 Have you ever considered that you're what isn't working here?
Tiaxthemighty 1 year ago
interesting points. Wonder what would work for male/female profile pics, when seeking same sex(or bi/either-sex) persons..Also wonder how okcupid handles the trans profiles.
upcycle 1 year ago
Ok Cupid is the best!
FromThatShow 1 year ago 2
@FromThatShow yeah right
souljahrick 1 year ago