I am a guy I definitely struggle with porn. anal sex is it for me why don't really no but the catch is my gf of three years hates porn.with a passion but won't meet that need so I feel trapped I will say for lack of a better term. but because I love her she is sexy slutty and fun so you make the sacrifice. Yes I won't ly I miss watching porn LIKe crazy but I would miss her 100x more and not only for sex I'm not perfect I still watch it on occasion but work on it think from her pov. .....alex
@Atkdt1 Once you marry her, she'll stop having sex with you. Trust me, happens in every marriage. After that, well hell, you can't watch porn or have sex. So what do you get? a unsatisfied husband. I'd advise you to stick up for yourself. The last thing you want is her deciding whats gunna happen for the next few years. If you let her get a power of what you do sexually, she'll be the boss and your marriage will suck. Tell her if she really loved you, she'd want what makes you happy. ~ Smart
LOL! How embarrassing you two are! You might just be the dumbest fucks alive. Now fuck off and drink your lame cocktails. Ps Dan is clearly gay. So the only way Jennifer will be able to perform the kind of acts that Dan enjoys in porn is if she grows a dick and testicles.
It's crazy how girls are so addicted to romance! I'm so insecure about how much they want to feel loved. I really don't think they should be able to read romance novels and watch chick flicks...oh, wait, that was a sarcastic reversal of the insecure female's judgment of pornography. So, how does this double-standard measure up? It doesn't, so stop "objectifying" men. Pretty much every feminist retard buzzword in the book can be turned right back around on them like a boomerang.
@klined Damn straight, and exactly my point: I've got no time for hypocrites talking about how gross watching some people have sex supposedly is--because sex is so unnatural, I guess--how the fuck is some feminist-induced, selfish nut supposed to satisfy a man, anyway, when she's been subliminally trained to hate men from birth? Fuck that theory! There's no such thing as "objectification," and if there were, why does it only work for women to boo-hoo? Fuck that, too!
married men should not need to watch porn. i think porn is for single men who don't have a woman. but a man that has a woman that looks at porn? that does not make sense.
it's about time men learned their lesson and stopped viewing women as objects. Even if it's unintentional and deemed "normal" by society - even though it has been deemed normal since the early Bible days. It's the 21st century time to grow up
really?? so if the guy loves her but loves to kill people, hey just let him because that is unconditional love. NOOOO, can we get someone who at least is passed 3rd grade in discernment? umm, great oh how we need God, really, this is freiken stupid?
but.... how can u get off watching other ppl get off.... its kinda nasty... i just cant let my bf watch it.. it bothers me... its like a guy being married to a girl who is smart pretty hot n makes money n cheats on her.... plus ppl are making it seem like its normal n guys should be allowed but many make a choice not to watch it n they are just fine
well i wish i could look at it as light but i cant. some men watch this shit cause like you said but if yo girl NEEDED eye candy thats when the trouble starts men can do things that they girl cant do like he can watch porn but dont want her to have a NICE toy
I liked your comment on that but, I have to add something because I see that some women still don't understand what porn is all about for us men. It is NOT about the sexy women who are getting f... it is about the FEELING that we are looking for! Even if I have a girlfriend I still like watching porn but that does NEVER mean that I do not love her or that I am not satisfied with our sex life. Women have no reason to be jealous because of this !!!!
@zsozso411 But I just don't understand how you can say you love someone as much as some men say they do, but then partake in watching OTHER women doing such a personal act? Why wouldn't we be jealous of these other women taking our boyfriend/husbands attention? Makes me feel like crap...like "well your not doing the trick, I'll watch this instead". It's heart breaking.
Myself and my friends sister are both having a problem with this because usually this type of addiction turns into action. I am now divorcing my husband and so is she because they are always on swinger sites and talking to "Pals" - you two have a different perspective because you are swingers and the woman in this relationship wears the pants.
the only time my husband watches porn is when i simply am too tired ,,,shhiiiit i tell him he better go watch somthing,,,lol ,,,,,im sure if you take a hole bunch of bullshit drugs that the government pushes you to take u are gonna have issues with sex ,,,,stop taking them,,,,,,use vitamins,,atleast do research on what your taking ..half of them u probably dont need
DanAndJen, I"M on alot of tablets, since 17years ago,sex is great, but i av real hard times feeling sexy 4 him sinse the bad accident,,etc,,etc, ive been with my husband now 4 20years, hes 47 i am 40.... and i lv sex,, but carnt be arsed with it ,, do u think! something 2 do with ma medication,,please could u help us
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It male nature to want to sex up different women and spread their seed. Men are not biologically suited for a monogamous relationship. I find porn to be harmless. It's a man's way to remain faithful, but still get the benefits of what he's biologically suited for.
There's more to life than sex and penis size and doing all the things the women in the pictures do. Anyways, once people understand this, they will have better relationships and marriages. They don't care though, so forget about them...
Watching porn is like having sex with a different beautiful woman every single day. It's a fantasy. There is no way the wife will fulfill that fantasy. NO fucking way!
Simple..men like to see naked women. The same one over and over again becomes dull after awhile. Doesnt matter if the woman is dynamite in bed, you still want too look at other women its natural
that woman who wrote the letter should watch some of max hardcore's videos, and then blow her husband away by trying some of that stuff in the bedroom.
"OHH DADDY IT HURTS! Ohhh i've been a bad, nasty, little bitch!"
I am so damn sick and tired of men "owning porn." You know, "Men like eye candy. Watch it with us ladies." I say, ladies, start checking out all those great new web sites with all the gorgeous eye candy designed just for women. Once you go there and check out these guys, you can tell your man to go watch his eye candy in another room. You've got much better candy to look at!! Wonder if your man is gonna make sure he works on looking as good as these hot guys I'm looking at right now?
@crimson1923 but i think the point is that men are visually stimulated, not women. the appropriate analogy would be letting women watch emotional chick flicks or reading dirty romance novels. as a guy i would not only not object to that, i would like it because i would know she would be aroused afterward.
when i think about the true analogy i have to wonder what you combative feminists have in your craw that makes you so miserable that you want to take all the joy away from males.
@flanker2020 My point is that women are visually stimulated too. Maybe some men think women watching emotional "chick flicks" or "reading dirty romance novels" is the equivalent of men enjoying themselves looking at pornography, but that's a myth. Women are visually stimulated looking at naked men just as much as men are stimulated looking at naked women. Women should not feel bad when their men look at porn because women can too. It will arouse you more than any "chick flick" ever could.
@crimson1923 your comments are bullshit and everybody know that they're bullshit. you're implying here that men and women think and are aroused the same and that's obvious even to the mentally retarded (literally!). only the feminist movement pushes for equality between the sexes when, in fact, the sexes are NOT equal. they think differently, and they have different physiology.
@crimson1923 the only reason women are visually aroused by certain men is that they have emotional arousal by connecting that guy's appearance with,say, a previous boyfriend or maybe her brother who was always nice or protective or something. you don't see guys sitting around pouring over romance novels and you definitely don't see them flocking into the theaters for chick flicks (hence the name stupid).
@flanker2020 Since I'm a woman and know what arouses me, I think it's fair to say that I'm very well informed on the subject. Previous boyfriends and male siblings?! No! And who ever said men had to read romance novels or flock to theaters to see so-called "chick flicks?" It's called, "freedom of choice" and if you don't agree, it certainly won't stop women who enjoy porn from, well, enjoying porn. Women are visually aroused looking at men all the time and porn has a lot of sexy guys to look at.
@crimson1923 like i said, everybody knows your comments are bullshit. every guy on the planet knows that women want things like romance, and sweetness, and kindness, and flowers and nice little things said to them throughout the day. all of these things are emotional, not visual. Continued...
@flanker2020 You say my views are without merit and that "every guy on the planet would agree." My husband is a guy who does not agree. He's read your replies and thinks your views are conformist. You have an opposing opinion and every right to it. A London survey found that 76% of women use porn. Sexuality is personal. If women are aroused by porn, it is just one expression of our sexuality. And moderation is always far better than excess. We'll have to agree to disagree.
@crimson1923 obviously there is no way to interpret what is meant by "conformist". conforming to what, exactly, the truth?? if you say conforming to some kind of social consensus then you are woefully mistaken since the vast majority of people i've met espouse YOUR views, not mine: most women do not say oh yes porn is wonderful i hope my husband or boyfriend watches lots of it. Continued...
@crimson1923 ...i'm also laughing because you seem like an ardent feminist and i can only imagine the repercussions if he were to *gasp!* agree with me and disagree with you.
Even if 100% of women use porn, my argument still stands, that "visual" for females is only vicariously emotional. Continued...
@flanker2020@flanker2020 You don't know me nor my husband. I've stated my opinion on this subject, as have you and I've also said that moderation is always better than excess. This sensible maxim applies to men as well as to women. Now you can imagine, label, laugh, analyze, interpret and disagree, but I am finished with this discussion and would appreciate it if you'd respect my request to end this debate.
@crimson1923 i don't know what you mean in the context of this discussion by "moderation is better than excess".
I find interesting the fact that we have finally reached the nub of this discussion, and you are looking for an excuse to fall off the map. You are evading my points, and are suddenly adopting an aloof attitude because you know you've been cornered. the only reason this debate is finished is because you've been cooked.
@falconflyer34 well you see combative feminists like crimson are really incredibly self-saturated and are EXTREME hypocrites. porn for women are things like romance novels and chick flicks. notice, they not only partake, but they want you the guy to watch chick flicks with them! see any guys complaining? there are few.
@falconflyer34 in fact most guys will even take her out to see a chick flick. however look what happens when a guy wants a girl to look at images of sexy women and discuss with her his fantasies about it. look out!! dishes are about to fly!! think about reacting that way to chick flicks, and you will see just how disgusting self-serving feminists are.
@flanker2020 I agree. I could never be with someone like that. My wife understands how it works, and will even enjoy it with me at times. And, she would never force me to watch "Steele Magnolias" with her. Men make the beds they sleep in. Choose wisely!
@falconflyer34 So your wife makes that (some would say deplorable) compromise for you while you're unwilling to meet her halfway by watching a sappy romance movie. Can you BE more fucking selfish?
@carolinaAzz555 I guess you missed the part of my comment that said "enjoy" i.e. she LIKES to watch it as well. A "compromise" would indicate that she was doing something she ordinarily would not do. When I met her, she already had her own collection of big dick porn movies. Why do you think she married me??? And no, I still wouldn't watch a sappy romance movie with her.
@falconflyer34 well at least you guys have something in common LOL. Personally I hate football &various other things primarily men enjoy but if I care about someone I get over myself & give their stuff a chance & if ur married I think u should make 10x the effort as long as ur not the only one bending & breaking. It'd be a nice gesture if u watched a movie w/ her w/o being asked. Idk what kind of marriage you can have if ur unwilling to leave ur zone. But if it works for u, do your thing!
@crimson1923 Also sexuality is what it is. Whether it's "personal" is irrelevant to this discussion, and incidentally by your own standards then (not mine), men should be allowed to watch as much porno stuff as they want and you should butt out.
@crimson1923 ...i might not be a female, but i am not removed from the power of observation which screams at me that "visual" for females is only vicariously emotional. the fact is that females read romance novels and watch chick flicks because they are emotionally arousing to them. therefore females banning guys from watching porn is nothing less than hypocrisy and double standards.
@crimson1923 i would also like to point out, however, that pornography is not necessarily healthy. there is a difference between objectifying women and simply admiring the form of women. i never thought words of wisdom would flow from the likes of hugh hefner, Continued...
@crimson1923 ...but he stumbled over the truth when he observed that women ARE sex objects, but that they are a great deal more. the latter half is what porn abandons along with, i might add, a heightened appreciation for females. since sex is all in the brain, getting to know more of a woman than tits & ass is the way to enhance sex and of course the relationship in general.
@crimson1923 but yal do that anyway, whether we like it or not. We don't even bother to get an attitude cause its pointless. As long as you're not touching the guy or seeing him we just let it slide. You have your devices and we have ours. I mean for god sakes your gender goes out and buys vibrators. Do you see us running around checking your underwear drawer for the lil battery operated monster and setting it ablaze
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My advice to the woman is if you look like like a sack of dirty potatos then no man can be turned on. The woman must look good or pay the consequences of a life of bad sex and mysery
Girls should just start watching porn themselves. There are some really sexy men in them, trust me ladies. It will get you all hot and bothered. Then slowly suggest that your boyfriend/husband watch it with you.
He will find you so irresistible...he will jump on you so fast it won't even be funny.
@PrettyDoctor Are you referring to actors? Like that studio stuff with that lame bow chica bow wow shit playing in the background? Bc if so then I can't agree with u. Those men are not my idea of sexy. They're "attractive" of course but that boring shit does nothing for me. If my bf wants to see me get going, he has to show me something more amateurish, a man with FLAWS, attractive but REAL & a woman who's not stick thin & made of plastic. Maybe that's what you meant idk lol
is this guy REALLY addicted to porn or does he just enjoy looking at it? there's a difference. i enjoy looking at it but i still have a great sex life with my wife and am very happily married. she knows i look at it and she's fine with it because we both accept it as being part of MY sex life. we allow each other the freedom to fantasize about other things because we trust each other and don't feel threatened by it. when i have sex with my wife, i have sex with her, not those fantasies.
I may be a minority, but I do not like "slutty" women. They disgust me. If my wife dressed like a two-dollar whore...we would be on our way to marriage counseling ASAP
What about what makes HER happy? I don't get why women have to "deal with it" and be the ones to compromise. I dated a porn addict before.. it was damaging to my self-esteem and to the relationship itself. Which is why I came to the conclusion that if he likes self-lovin that much he'll have all the more time (and privacy!) to do it while you're dating someone else :)
@joleneo I get grief like this when I buy Maxim or other magazines from the store. For the millionth time its just a freakin image, it has nothing to do with you as a woman compromising. The guy is not running off to have sex with this person who they don't even know, he's just simply enjoying the view; its in his nature. We cannot change who we are, you learned this during sex ed growing up so don't play dumb like we can change. This isn't Burger king, you can't change the order! We're men!
@Tyrone5683 Why do guys always explain away everything they do by pointing out what they have between their legs? "I'm a guy! I'm a man! We're men! It's the way we're made!" Boy, will it be a lovely day when males start taking responsibilities for their own actions. I have a strong sexuality too but I still make the rules! Weird concept, I know. Isn't it strange that I've heard rapists explain away their sick pleasures with the same shit you're using?
@carolinaAzz555 I never mentioned anything about whats between a man's legs.I simply explained that men are attracted to women and their bodies. Its physiology, science, laws of nature. As far as how they behave or portray this then they are responsible for their behavior and respecting the feelings of those closest to them and the ones around them. However women have to take responsibility too...if you're showing off your body parts for attention and causing a stir aren't you partly to blame?
@Tyrone5683 By explaining away everything u do sexually by pointing out that you're a man, you're alluding to what u have between ur legs. & I am in no way responsible for another person's behavior idgaf wtf I have on. Never get that twisted. & there u go yet again, hiding behind ur gender. If u like to look at porn so what but stop blaming everything on u havin a dick. All I'm saying is be an individual. If ur caught with a Maxim & r asked y dont give the history of MEN. It's a ques for YOU.
@carolinaAzz555 Since when is Maxim porn? And as far as porn goes I'm not an advocate of it and I don't really want to be thrown into the pile of assumptions with other men as you're doing. I'm am simply saying this is a societal issue and not one genders problem. Since before the dawn of time there have been women who have used their sexuality to get by...maybe not by choice at first but rather than be true to their feelings and fight it they just went along with it and accepted it.
@Tyrone5683 lol you have yet to see what I'm getting at. "it's in his nature...we can't change...can't change the order...we're men!" TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR **YOURSELF** & STOP PINNING EVERYTHING ON YOUR GENDER!!!!! Clear enough? To me, its like saying "well of course Rover's drinking out of the toilet, he's a dog" Do you not have the ability to think for yourself & entertain your own ideas & morals? Or was all that forfeited when the Y chromosome formed?
@carolinaAzz555 We never pinned anything on our gender we just accepted who we are from the start. Women have this urge to always completely change what already is. Its like they'll look at a block of wood and say "ok now turn to gold". Its freakn wood! Yes men can control themselves..they learn as they go along and are in a relationship simply for the fact they care about the their partner. The key word is "partner" You have to compromise a little too. For starters look nice, fix yourself up.
It's fucked up that men need porn to improve their sex life w/ women. Jenn, Dan is really looking at the bitches not you. You are not what really turns him on. I could bet my life that his idea of the perfect women is not your old looking ass!!! When he's fucking u it them he sees. I can't believe u let him brain wash u like that. Let me guess, u have no problem w/ him looking at other girls in the streets...ur a dumb ASS Jenn. Don't get mad when he leaves in a few yrs for an 18yr old.
@jeannie1 Wow, you sound kind of bitter lol. Or soundED since it was 3 years ago :)
Only thing that bothers me is when the guy acts like watching porn is something he can't "help". Unless u have an addiction u have a choice. Respect your partners feelings above all. It's not like porn watching has some hidden honor in it that all must understand lol. The shit is nasty & should be done in the DARK. Don't act like porn is a part of owning a freakin penis fellas i mean really. Own UP.
Talking and letting her know, that SHE IS THE ONLY ONE is the answer. When she gets over the "mindset", you will discover in that woman something, that you never dreamed before. She will do things, and offer it to you, that you would never imagine. You will discover, what this shy and fragile little creature is capable of! For you girls, - Talk, honest talk and understanding your man (if you really love him, of course). Cheers!
My wife and I, had an issue with that 10 years ago, (after being married for 6 years), but after she finally accepted, and got into it, our sex life got so-o-o-o much better, I can't even describe it with words!
This leads to more dangerous things - like AIDS. I hope their eyes fall out and their dicks fall off. Girl power - may the sluts take all of their money and may the wives have fun like Ms. Bobbitt!!!!
You make me horny. We should fuck. Your hate is sooo hot. Your bitterness is soooo curvey and sensual. Ooohh yeah, tell me about all your cats. Ah huh, I wanna watch Sister Act 2 with you. OOOoooooooooo I JUST CAME ALL OVER YOUR "KATHY" NIGHT SHIRT!!!!!!!!!!!
My opinion is that men have instinct to fornicate as many woman as possible. This is for sustaining the human species. Porn is a good alternative to men cheating on their women. It is just visual stimulation and should not be suppressed. It is same as fantasizing which will help achieve good sex.
A lot of women feel threatened by porn but they shouldn't. The woman who wrote the letter is probably getting sex every day cuz porn is revving up her man, yay! My guy and I love watching porn together. We email each other clips all the time, they're like porn love letters, ha.
So he gets turned on by the fake-titted bimbo, then proceeds to have sex with his wife while imagining he's plowing little miss fucksalot.
Wow, that *IS* sexy. I'm going to watch some "monster dick" porn around my guy and then tell him it has nothing to do with him. Oh wait, I'm not that insensitive :)
I must say, your reply is the best yet. I love the sarcasm and the way you are straight forward with your thoughts.
Porn makes normal looking women feel like they are inadequate and in my opinion, the sex life suffers because her self-esteem suffers. I like your idea about watching "monster dick" porn in front of him. lol I actually did that to my ex and I gotta say...he didn't appreciate it much. lol
maybe if wives actually made it a point to cater to their husbands' fantasies, they would find that the porn dissipates?
OpusRuspee 2 weeks ago
I am a guy I definitely struggle with porn. anal sex is it for me why don't really no but the catch is my gf of three years hates porn.with a passion but won't meet that need so I feel trapped I will say for lack of a better term. but because I love her she is sexy slutty and fun so you make the sacrifice. Yes I won't ly I miss watching porn LIKe crazy but I would miss her 100x more and not only for sex I'm not perfect I still watch it on occasion but work on it think from her pov. .....alex
Atkdt1 2 months ago
@Atkdt1 Once you marry her, she'll stop having sex with you. Trust me, happens in every marriage. After that, well hell, you can't watch porn or have sex. So what do you get? a unsatisfied husband. I'd advise you to stick up for yourself. The last thing you want is her deciding whats gunna happen for the next few years. If you let her get a power of what you do sexually, she'll be the boss and your marriage will suck. Tell her if she really loved you, she'd want what makes you happy. ~ Smart
BalloonGaming 2 months ago
@BalloonGaming I wouldn't call you smart lol
bastardgear8 1 month ago
@bastardgear8 Wise then.
BalloonGaming 1 month ago
Let him do it and it brings him joys? Are you kidding? Well..Joy could only lead to a bad habit sooner or later and this is sooo unfair to the wife.
steffity 2 months ago
LOL! How embarrassing you two are! You might just be the dumbest fucks alive. Now fuck off and drink your lame cocktails. Ps Dan is clearly gay. So the only way Jennifer will be able to perform the kind of acts that Dan enjoys in porn is if she grows a dick and testicles.
redpeterable 9 months ago
Watch porn together ack the seen
iRunThisZone 9 months ago
THE WORST ADVISE I'VE EVER HEARD...YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES!
lisabebesita 1 year ago 2
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I agree. "Let him?" So what will he try to get away with next? Actually doing...
pieces141127 10 months ago
@MusicChrono I take pride in undoing billions of dollars of lies that harm people.
Lachdenan 1 year ago
DanAndJenn my m.s.n is my profile baybe!
sexykatie911 1 year ago
OR it could be an addiction..
binglejells 1 year ago
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picassogecko 1 year ago
Short answer: yes. Look at some Marc Dorcel, and you will know that you cannot do all of it.
ttttttttttc 1 year ago
It's crazy how girls are so addicted to romance! I'm so insecure about how much they want to feel loved. I really don't think they should be able to read romance novels and watch chick flicks...oh, wait, that was a sarcastic reversal of the insecure female's judgment of pornography. So, how does this double-standard measure up? It doesn't, so stop "objectifying" men. Pretty much every feminist retard buzzword in the book can be turned right back around on them like a boomerang.
Lachdenan 1 year ago 7
@Lachdenan
romantic comedies where a plain jane gets a millionaire to love her are porn for women
klined 1 year ago
@klined Damn straight, and exactly my point: I've got no time for hypocrites talking about how gross watching some people have sex supposedly is--because sex is so unnatural, I guess--how the fuck is some feminist-induced, selfish nut supposed to satisfy a man, anyway, when she's been subliminally trained to hate men from birth? Fuck that theory! There's no such thing as "objectification," and if there were, why does it only work for women to boo-hoo? Fuck that, too!
Lachdenan 1 year ago
@Lachdenan Wow, you're a moron.
adzik1410 6 months ago
married men should not need to watch porn. i think porn is for single men who don't have a woman. but a man that has a woman that looks at porn? that does not make sense.
diamondsays 1 year ago
it's about time men learned their lesson and stopped viewing women as objects. Even if it's unintentional and deemed "normal" by society - even though it has been deemed normal since the early Bible days. It's the 21st century time to grow up
radrussian100 1 year ago
@radrussian100 you sound hot, what are you wearing at the minute?
bbking82 1 year ago
really?? so if the guy loves her but loves to kill people, hey just let him because that is unconditional love. NOOOO, can we get someone who at least is passed 3rd grade in discernment? umm, great oh how we need God, really, this is freiken stupid?
Grace2abound 1 year ago
Men are never satisfied...The grass is always greener on the other side...
bcast25 1 year ago
"Get over it"? That's their advice?
eljagg01 1 year ago
but.... how can u get off watching other ppl get off.... its kinda nasty... i just cant let my bf watch it.. it bothers me... its like a guy being married to a girl who is smart pretty hot n makes money n cheats on her.... plus ppl are making it seem like its normal n guys should be allowed but many make a choice not to watch it n they are just fine
irislovesnikki99 1 year ago
well i wish i could look at it as light but i cant. some men watch this shit cause like you said but if yo girl NEEDED eye candy thats when the trouble starts men can do things that they girl cant do like he can watch porn but dont want her to have a NICE toy
nicholebullock23 1 year ago
that guy has his leg up because he has a boner talking about this stuff. lol
xXKrazyLepreconXx 2 years ago
I liked your comment on that but, I have to add something because I see that some women still don't understand what porn is all about for us men. It is NOT about the sexy women who are getting f... it is about the FEELING that we are looking for! Even if I have a girlfriend I still like watching porn but that does NEVER mean that I do not love her or that I am not satisfied with our sex life. Women have no reason to be jealous because of this !!!!
zsozso411 2 years ago
@zsozso411 But I just don't understand how you can say you love someone as much as some men say they do, but then partake in watching OTHER women doing such a personal act? Why wouldn't we be jealous of these other women taking our boyfriend/husbands attention? Makes me feel like crap...like "well your not doing the trick, I'll watch this instead". It's heart breaking.
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gnubug 2 years ago
so she's being judgemental when her husband gets turned on by other women?? since when did this world get turned around like that?
bbgum12345 2 years ago
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Morrison1942 2 years ago
Myself and my friends sister are both having a problem with this because usually this type of addiction turns into action. I am now divorcing my husband and so is she because they are always on swinger sites and talking to "Pals" - you two have a different perspective because you are swingers and the woman in this relationship wears the pants.
ubiquitousparadox 2 years ago
Yes, Women are not slutty enough (cough cough)
royalsteven 2 years ago
women are visual creatures too!!! it has just been repressed for f*** centuries!!
rapiergirl 2 years ago
DanandJEnn are horrible at this whole stuff, i haven't seen a satisfying answer from them yet.
Ravain 2 years ago 3
i HATE porn
FrancessBeann 2 years ago
very fool answer
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gary97663 2 years ago
what does the first constitution, especially the 1st amendment what does it has to do with porn?
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they should remove porn from the internet like for ever.
X4SpeedyMaloX4 2 years ago
maybe you should read up on the united states constitution, especially the 1st amendment.
stealmind 2 years ago 5
amen
Ade161 2 years ago
the only time my husband watches porn is when i simply am too tired ,,,shhiiiit i tell him he better go watch somthing,,,lol ,,,,,im sure if you take a hole bunch of bullshit drugs that the government pushes you to take u are gonna have issues with sex ,,,,stop taking them,,,,,,use vitamins,,atleast do research on what your taking ..half of them u probably dont need
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DanAndJen, I"M on alot of tablets, since 17years ago,sex is great, but i av real hard times feeling sexy 4 him sinse the bad accident,,etc,,etc, ive been with my husband now 4 20years, hes 47 i am 40.... and i lv sex,, but carnt be arsed with it ,, do u think! something 2 do with ma medication,,please could u help us
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CaseyHenderson87 3 years ago
Maybe if you dressed at home as a porn slut he wouldn't do that.
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abcejin 3 years ago
who the fuck are these retards?
FreeThinkingHeretic 3 years ago
It male nature to want to sex up different women and spread their seed. Men are not biologically suited for a monogamous relationship. I find porn to be harmless. It's a man's way to remain faithful, but still get the benefits of what he's biologically suited for.
googooglob 3 years ago
I totally agree as a zoologist.
r56mini 3 years ago
Talk about over-analysis: men like porn because the women are not his wife. Thats it.
Blackshayde 3 years ago
There's more to life than sex and penis size and doing all the things the women in the pictures do. Anyways, once people understand this, they will have better relationships and marriages. They don't care though, so forget about them...
ominuka 3 years ago
If a man wants to fantasize about sexing it up with other women then WHY GET MARRIED???? DUH?
cathrosser 3 years ago
Watching porn is like having sex with a different beautiful woman every single day. It's a fantasy. There is no way the wife will fulfill that fantasy. NO fucking way!
r56mini 3 years ago
hell no. its marrige. boring as fuck marrige. when im 30 something maybe i will get married. but i will fuck as much as i can.
lahluv 3 years ago
hell no.
lahluv 3 years ago
Simple..men like to see naked women. The same one over and over again becomes dull after awhile. Doesnt matter if the woman is dynamite in bed, you still want too look at other women its natural
fa272 3 years ago
that woman who wrote the letter should watch some of max hardcore's videos, and then blow her husband away by trying some of that stuff in the bedroom.
"OHH DADDY IT HURTS! Ohhh i've been a bad, nasty, little bitch!"
clustro2 3 years ago
I am so damn sick and tired of men "owning porn." You know, "Men like eye candy. Watch it with us ladies." I say, ladies, start checking out all those great new web sites with all the gorgeous eye candy designed just for women. Once you go there and check out these guys, you can tell your man to go watch his eye candy in another room. You've got much better candy to look at!! Wonder if your man is gonna make sure he works on looking as good as these hot guys I'm looking at right now?
crimson1923 3 years ago 6
@crimson1923 but i think the point is that men are visually stimulated, not women. the appropriate analogy would be letting women watch emotional chick flicks or reading dirty romance novels. as a guy i would not only not object to that, i would like it because i would know she would be aroused afterward.
when i think about the true analogy i have to wonder what you combative feminists have in your craw that makes you so miserable that you want to take all the joy away from males.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020 My point is that women are visually stimulated too. Maybe some men think women watching emotional "chick flicks" or "reading dirty romance novels" is the equivalent of men enjoying themselves looking at pornography, but that's a myth. Women are visually stimulated looking at naked men just as much as men are stimulated looking at naked women. Women should not feel bad when their men look at porn because women can too. It will arouse you more than any "chick flick" ever could.
crimson1923 1 year ago
@crimson1923 your comments are bullshit and everybody know that they're bullshit. you're implying here that men and women think and are aroused the same and that's obvious even to the mentally retarded (literally!). only the feminist movement pushes for equality between the sexes when, in fact, the sexes are NOT equal. they think differently, and they have different physiology.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020 what i meant was, obviously FALSE even to the mentally retarded.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@crimson1923 the only reason women are visually aroused by certain men is that they have emotional arousal by connecting that guy's appearance with,say, a previous boyfriend or maybe her brother who was always nice or protective or something. you don't see guys sitting around pouring over romance novels and you definitely don't see them flocking into the theaters for chick flicks (hence the name stupid).
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020 Since I'm a woman and know what arouses me, I think it's fair to say that I'm very well informed on the subject. Previous boyfriends and male siblings?! No! And who ever said men had to read romance novels or flock to theaters to see so-called "chick flicks?" It's called, "freedom of choice" and if you don't agree, it certainly won't stop women who enjoy porn from, well, enjoying porn. Women are visually aroused looking at men all the time and porn has a lot of sexy guys to look at.
crimson1923 1 year ago
@crimson1923 like i said, everybody knows your comments are bullshit. every guy on the planet knows that women want things like romance, and sweetness, and kindness, and flowers and nice little things said to them throughout the day. all of these things are emotional, not visual. Continued...
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020 You say my views are without merit and that "every guy on the planet would agree." My husband is a guy who does not agree. He's read your replies and thinks your views are conformist. You have an opposing opinion and every right to it. A London survey found that 76% of women use porn. Sexuality is personal. If women are aroused by porn, it is just one expression of our sexuality. And moderation is always far better than excess. We'll have to agree to disagree.
crimson1923 1 year ago
@crimson1923 obviously there is no way to interpret what is meant by "conformist". conforming to what, exactly, the truth?? if you say conforming to some kind of social consensus then you are woefully mistaken since the vast majority of people i've met espouse YOUR views, not mine: most women do not say oh yes porn is wonderful i hope my husband or boyfriend watches lots of it. Continued...
flanker2020 1 year ago
@crimson1923 ...i'm also laughing because you seem like an ardent feminist and i can only imagine the repercussions if he were to *gasp!* agree with me and disagree with you.
Even if 100% of women use porn, my argument still stands, that "visual" for females is only vicariously emotional. Continued...
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020@flanker2020 You don't know me nor my husband. I've stated my opinion on this subject, as have you and I've also said that moderation is always better than excess. This sensible maxim applies to men as well as to women. Now you can imagine, label, laugh, analyze, interpret and disagree, but I am finished with this discussion and would appreciate it if you'd respect my request to end this debate.
crimson1923 1 year ago
@crimson1923 i don't know what you mean in the context of this discussion by "moderation is better than excess".
I find interesting the fact that we have finally reached the nub of this discussion, and you are looking for an excuse to fall off the map. You are evading my points, and are suddenly adopting an aloof attitude because you know you've been cornered. the only reason this debate is finished is because you've been cooked.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020 Cook yourself some dinner and respect my request.
crimson1923 1 year ago
@crimson1923 no thanks sugar pop i'm looking at porn. 'care to join me??
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020 Crimson1923 = epic fail.
falconflyer34 1 year ago
@falconflyer34 well you see combative feminists like crimson are really incredibly self-saturated and are EXTREME hypocrites. porn for women are things like romance novels and chick flicks. notice, they not only partake, but they want you the guy to watch chick flicks with them! see any guys complaining? there are few.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@falconflyer34 in fact most guys will even take her out to see a chick flick. however look what happens when a guy wants a girl to look at images of sexy women and discuss with her his fantasies about it. look out!! dishes are about to fly!! think about reacting that way to chick flicks, and you will see just how disgusting self-serving feminists are.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@flanker2020 I agree. I could never be with someone like that. My wife understands how it works, and will even enjoy it with me at times. And, she would never force me to watch "Steele Magnolias" with her. Men make the beds they sleep in. Choose wisely!
falconflyer34 1 year ago
@falconflyer34 So your wife makes that (some would say deplorable) compromise for you while you're unwilling to meet her halfway by watching a sappy romance movie. Can you BE more fucking selfish?
carolinaAzz555 6 months ago
@carolinaAzz555 I guess you missed the part of my comment that said "enjoy" i.e. she LIKES to watch it as well. A "compromise" would indicate that she was doing something she ordinarily would not do. When I met her, she already had her own collection of big dick porn movies. Why do you think she married me??? And no, I still wouldn't watch a sappy romance movie with her.
falconflyer34 6 months ago
@falconflyer34 well at least you guys have something in common LOL. Personally I hate football &various other things primarily men enjoy but if I care about someone I get over myself & give their stuff a chance & if ur married I think u should make 10x the effort as long as ur not the only one bending & breaking. It'd be a nice gesture if u watched a movie w/ her w/o being asked. Idk what kind of marriage you can have if ur unwilling to leave ur zone. But if it works for u, do your thing!
carolinaAzz555 6 months ago
@crimson1923 Also sexuality is what it is. Whether it's "personal" is irrelevant to this discussion, and incidentally by your own standards then (not mine), men should be allowed to watch as much porno stuff as they want and you should butt out.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@crimson1923 ...i might not be a female, but i am not removed from the power of observation which screams at me that "visual" for females is only vicariously emotional. the fact is that females read romance novels and watch chick flicks because they are emotionally arousing to them. therefore females banning guys from watching porn is nothing less than hypocrisy and double standards.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@crimson1923 i would also like to point out, however, that pornography is not necessarily healthy. there is a difference between objectifying women and simply admiring the form of women. i never thought words of wisdom would flow from the likes of hugh hefner, Continued...
flanker2020 1 year ago
@crimson1923 ...but he stumbled over the truth when he observed that women ARE sex objects, but that they are a great deal more. the latter half is what porn abandons along with, i might add, a heightened appreciation for females. since sex is all in the brain, getting to know more of a woman than tits & ass is the way to enhance sex and of course the relationship in general.
flanker2020 1 year ago
@crimson1923 but yal do that anyway, whether we like it or not. We don't even bother to get an attitude cause its pointless. As long as you're not touching the guy or seeing him we just let it slide. You have your devices and we have ours. I mean for god sakes your gender goes out and buys vibrators. Do you see us running around checking your underwear drawer for the lil battery operated monster and setting it ablaze
Tyrone5683 6 months ago
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My advice to the woman is if you look like like a sack of dirty potatos then no man can be turned on. The woman must look good or pay the consequences of a life of bad sex and mysery
datsoqwerty 3 years ago
Girls should just start watching porn themselves. There are some really sexy men in them, trust me ladies. It will get you all hot and bothered. Then slowly suggest that your boyfriend/husband watch it with you.
He will find you so irresistible...he will jump on you so fast it won't even be funny.
Mine does ;-)
PrettyDoctor 3 years ago 5
@PrettyDoctor Are you referring to actors? Like that studio stuff with that lame bow chica bow wow shit playing in the background? Bc if so then I can't agree with u. Those men are not my idea of sexy. They're "attractive" of course but that boring shit does nothing for me. If my bf wants to see me get going, he has to show me something more amateurish, a man with FLAWS, attractive but REAL & a woman who's not stick thin & made of plastic. Maybe that's what you meant idk lol
carolinaAzz555 6 months ago
is this guy REALLY addicted to porn or does he just enjoy looking at it? there's a difference. i enjoy looking at it but i still have a great sex life with my wife and am very happily married. she knows i look at it and she's fine with it because we both accept it as being part of MY sex life. we allow each other the freedom to fantasize about other things because we trust each other and don't feel threatened by it. when i have sex with my wife, i have sex with her, not those fantasies.
littlegreenjason 3 years ago 3
its just pron....
o0nativeangel0o 3 years ago
pretty much all of these comments are from radical feminists
guess what?
PORN RULES!!!!
Gobwyeth 3 years ago
Some of us ladies like porn. The man I marry will be very lucky indeed ;-)
PrettyDoctor 3 years ago 3
he has an addiction she needs to get away from him...look at what this world is coming to
kisha466 3 years ago
I may be a minority, but I do not like "slutty" women. They disgust me. If my wife dressed like a two-dollar whore...we would be on our way to marriage counseling ASAP
VolParagom 3 years ago 4
i am a minority but i love them
lahluv 3 years ago
What about what makes HER happy? I don't get why women have to "deal with it" and be the ones to compromise. I dated a porn addict before.. it was damaging to my self-esteem and to the relationship itself. Which is why I came to the conclusion that if he likes self-lovin that much he'll have all the more time (and privacy!) to do it while you're dating someone else :)
joleneo 4 years ago 16
@joleneo I get grief like this when I buy Maxim or other magazines from the store. For the millionth time its just a freakin image, it has nothing to do with you as a woman compromising. The guy is not running off to have sex with this person who they don't even know, he's just simply enjoying the view; its in his nature. We cannot change who we are, you learned this during sex ed growing up so don't play dumb like we can change. This isn't Burger king, you can't change the order! We're men!
Tyrone5683 1 year ago
@Tyrone5683 Why do guys always explain away everything they do by pointing out what they have between their legs? "I'm a guy! I'm a man! We're men! It's the way we're made!" Boy, will it be a lovely day when males start taking responsibilities for their own actions. I have a strong sexuality too but I still make the rules! Weird concept, I know. Isn't it strange that I've heard rapists explain away their sick pleasures with the same shit you're using?
carolinaAzz555 6 months ago
@carolinaAzz555 I never mentioned anything about whats between a man's legs.I simply explained that men are attracted to women and their bodies. Its physiology, science, laws of nature. As far as how they behave or portray this then they are responsible for their behavior and respecting the feelings of those closest to them and the ones around them. However women have to take responsibility too...if you're showing off your body parts for attention and causing a stir aren't you partly to blame?
Tyrone5683 6 months ago
@Tyrone5683 By explaining away everything u do sexually by pointing out that you're a man, you're alluding to what u have between ur legs. & I am in no way responsible for another person's behavior idgaf wtf I have on. Never get that twisted. & there u go yet again, hiding behind ur gender. If u like to look at porn so what but stop blaming everything on u havin a dick. All I'm saying is be an individual. If ur caught with a Maxim & r asked y dont give the history of MEN. It's a ques for YOU.
carolinaAzz555 6 months ago
@carolinaAzz555 Since when is Maxim porn? And as far as porn goes I'm not an advocate of it and I don't really want to be thrown into the pile of assumptions with other men as you're doing. I'm am simply saying this is a societal issue and not one genders problem. Since before the dawn of time there have been women who have used their sexuality to get by...maybe not by choice at first but rather than be true to their feelings and fight it they just went along with it and accepted it.
Tyrone5683 6 months ago
@Tyrone5683 lol you have yet to see what I'm getting at. "it's in his nature...we can't change...can't change the order...we're men!" TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR **YOURSELF** & STOP PINNING EVERYTHING ON YOUR GENDER!!!!! Clear enough? To me, its like saying "well of course Rover's drinking out of the toilet, he's a dog" Do you not have the ability to think for yourself & entertain your own ideas & morals? Or was all that forfeited when the Y chromosome formed?
carolinaAzz555 6 months ago
@carolinaAzz555 We never pinned anything on our gender we just accepted who we are from the start. Women have this urge to always completely change what already is. Its like they'll look at a block of wood and say "ok now turn to gold". Its freakn wood! Yes men can control themselves..they learn as they go along and are in a relationship simply for the fact they care about the their partner. The key word is "partner" You have to compromise a little too. For starters look nice, fix yourself up.
Tyrone5683 6 months ago
It's fucked up that men need porn to improve their sex life w/ women. Jenn, Dan is really looking at the bitches not you. You are not what really turns him on. I could bet my life that his idea of the perfect women is not your old looking ass!!! When he's fucking u it them he sees. I can't believe u let him brain wash u like that. Let me guess, u have no problem w/ him looking at other girls in the streets...ur a dumb ASS Jenn. Don't get mad when he leaves in a few yrs for an 18yr old.
jeannie1 4 years ago
@jeannie1 Wow, you sound kind of bitter lol. Or soundED since it was 3 years ago :)
Only thing that bothers me is when the guy acts like watching porn is something he can't "help". Unless u have an addiction u have a choice. Respect your partners feelings above all. It's not like porn watching has some hidden honor in it that all must understand lol. The shit is nasty & should be done in the DARK. Don't act like porn is a part of owning a freakin penis fellas i mean really. Own UP.
carolinaAzz555 6 months ago
better than goin off with another woman every now and then
jonny459 4 years ago
These people are so goofy. If you need to ask these two for advise, than your even goofier. Get Bent.
macadoughshus 4 years ago
Talking and letting her know, that SHE IS THE ONLY ONE is the answer. When she gets over the "mindset", you will discover in that woman something, that you never dreamed before. She will do things, and offer it to you, that you would never imagine. You will discover, what this shy and fragile little creature is capable of! For you girls, - Talk, honest talk and understanding your man (if you really love him, of course). Cheers!
olegschramm 4 years ago 2
I'm guessing this doesn't come from experience...
joleneo 4 years ago
My wife and I, had an issue with that 10 years ago, (after being married for 6 years), but after she finally accepted, and got into it, our sex life got so-o-o-o much better, I can't even describe it with words!
olegschramm 4 years ago
A hard core answer for this,
He is just a fucking horny pug!Period
Yours truly
Philosopher Mac
700016597 4 years ago
This leads to more dangerous things - like AIDS. I hope their eyes fall out and their dicks fall off. Girl power - may the sluts take all of their money and may the wives have fun like Ms. Bobbitt!!!!
OneBigRayofSunshine 4 years ago
You make me horny. We should fuck. Your hate is sooo hot. Your bitterness is soooo curvey and sensual. Ooohh yeah, tell me about all your cats. Ah huh, I wanna watch Sister Act 2 with you. OOOoooooooooo I JUST CAME ALL OVER YOUR "KATHY" NIGHT SHIRT!!!!!!!!!!!
xoxo
macadoughshus 4 years ago
p0rn rules
r0xb0x 4 years ago
About 80% of my(the husband) friends have admitted they surf porn in our conversations!
About 90% of my wifes friends deny their husbands look at or need porn!
Funny thing most of her friends are married to those friends of mine making up the 80% number...
Addiction sounds like a really strong word...
thenibblers 4 years ago
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Buy Dell computer for porn! Porn for life!
edmondov 4 years ago
Porn is good for sexual stimulation and fantasizing.
edmondov 4 years ago
My opinion is that men have instinct to fornicate as many woman as possible. This is for sustaining the human species. Porn is a good alternative to men cheating on their women. It is just visual stimulation and should not be suppressed. It is same as fantasizing which will help achieve good sex.
edmondov 4 years ago
If it's really that difficult for you to keep your dick in your pants, you guys deserve every std you get.
joleneo 4 years ago 5
You can blame god or nature for giving us (real man) a powerful Penis!
edmondov 4 years ago
interesting video...
otrovzemun 4 years ago
Are there men that are not addicted to porn?
ProductPlacer 4 years ago
Yes, but you have to inflate them.
TheDish101 4 years ago 4
A lot of women feel threatened by porn but they shouldn't. The woman who wrote the letter is probably getting sex every day cuz porn is revving up her man, yay! My guy and I love watching porn together. We email each other clips all the time, they're like porn love letters, ha.
kejholliday 4 years ago
So he gets turned on by the fake-titted bimbo, then proceeds to have sex with his wife while imagining he's plowing little miss fucksalot.
Wow, that *IS* sexy. I'm going to watch some "monster dick" porn around my guy and then tell him it has nothing to do with him. Oh wait, I'm not that insensitive :)
joleneo 4 years ago 11
I must say, your reply is the best yet. I love the sarcasm and the way you are straight forward with your thoughts.
Porn makes normal looking women feel like they are inadequate and in my opinion, the sex life suffers because her self-esteem suffers. I like your idea about watching "monster dick" porn in front of him. lol I actually did that to my ex and I gotta say...he didn't appreciate it much. lol
FallenDarkFaerie 2 years ago
hahahaahahahaaha... u r so wrong n wicked.
kaluski 2 years ago
@ FallenDarkFaerie... But don't be surprised and alarmed one day he pulls out a huge toy dildo dick and commands you to assume the position...lol
kaluski 2 years ago
@kaluski LMAO oh jesus....with the history of boyfriends that I've had I wouldn't be surprised. lol
FallenDarkFaerie 2 years ago
@joleneo LOL!
exussupremebeing 9 months ago