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  • Thats exactly how i feel now that i cant say what i want to say because people will pick on me because im fat even on twitter i feel that i cant tweet certain things because people will talk about me. I feel like i dont have the right to voice my opinion because I'm fat. But I'm definately working on myself which is why i started my own Youtube channel and I'm learning to say what I want.

  • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol I know thats right...fuck that shit..keep doing YOU!!!!

  • Amen! You have just made my week :) Thanks alot for the motivation, I really needed that :) powerful!

  • I would like to thank you for this video,because it sound just like how I've been feeling and acting. So I would like to thank you for your words of wisdom.

  • god ur beautiful no homo

  • thank you

  • You said what I've been feeling for so long, Love it. Stay real, stay beautiful, and stay blessed <3

  • what is the name of the second song in his video?

  • Thanks Nina!!!! CONFIRMATION :)))

  • awesome..

    

  • I absolutely love you Nina, you are very beautiful inside and out!! Be blessed! Thanks for those words.

  • As always, you delivered and blessed and I thank you!!!!

  • :Cries tears of joy:

    I hope one day to be as confident as you one day!

  • I love your spirit in your videos!

  • I am so happy I found your channel...you are simply inspiring and keep being yourself.

  • Ooooooo I love it man. Soo much truth in your words and I love the way your express it. THANK U

  • Lol preach, lady! I love it.

  • I can't get enough of your confidence videos !! I listen to them when I am feeling down or when my self-esteem is low because of my weight.

  • this was much needed to be said in this video..love it

  • Wow wow wow thanks for this video I thought i was confident but my best friend told me that I worry about what others think too much and I think she is right. Am gonna be myself and if someone dislikes they can move. Thanks for Thai video am going to subscribe right now because am at Uni and am even doubting myself with my final yr project so uplifted

  • I like the way u talk ( no homo)... Your words really got to me on a good way

  • you are awesome.... keep up the good work.. love your hair and the styles you use...

  • Ur sooo 100!!!! " I just love it".......

  • I love this video! So TRUE.. dont let things hold you back and dont fear your own heart and who you are! Love this... Just what I needed to remind me and get my mind back on track :)

  • I agree with u 100% and keep being u.....

  • Wow I love listening you speak. I really needed to hear this today. Thank you. Continue to grow in your beauty :)

  • tell em girl

  • well said!!

  • I feel like i can relate to you on so many levels.You are a kew person whose down to earth. (I am a plus size woman who has battled with weight loss and I wear my hair natural) You are a whole woman who knows who you are and it's very magnetic. I'm inspried by your character and I wish I knew you personally because I feel like we could be really good friends. To say the least, I'm glad that I came across your video. You are a blessing to my life. Thank You!! ~Much Luv, Theprettygurl23~!

  • You go girl! Praise God for self assurance and peace. Don't hate, congratulate. I'm a doctorate student and I'm transitioning and you've inspired me and showed me that Doing me is all that matters. I've fought the confidence demon and I'm winning thanks to strong sistas like you.

  • Jesus is Lord my sista. Yes u gotsa know URSELF, and Know the Lord! Girl we are Gods masterpeice beautifully created in his likliness. My dear its tyme for us to Arise and be who God called us to be. Beautiful, Unique Children of God!

    Child, bless ya mmmmwah

  • Please tell me the exercises you did, and help me lose weight, I am 34 yrs old, and 239 lbs, and I need confidence and help, please help me if you can, thank you.

  • I think it's beautiful how you encourage women and men. I think God brought me to your page b/c I was just thinking about all the things I want to accomplish. Weight loss was at the top of my list. Finally someone is able to speak about what many go through when taking such a emotional journey. Thank you girl!

  • you really made me happy watching this because i have been really down the last few day due to people putting me down so thank you :)

  • It made my day to see a sister carrying hers.e.l.f in such an impeccable manner!Peace and Blessings!

  • speak girl, speak!!

  • That's so awesome. Keep the confidence for real girl! Stay true 2 who u are and yep, definitely forget the haters

  • Great video! Keep em comin

  • Great video! Thanks!!!

  • Nice Video

  • You hit it all right on the nail! I loveed it and needed to hear this! Thank you so much maam!

  • Do you Boo! I'm loving it!

  • Please keep making more videos!

  • Confidence within yourself is good...you are an inspiration because you know yourself and your doing your own thing!

  • ooooooooooooooooohhhhh yesssss

  • God Bless You!

  • yess honeyy!!! Work it sweetie! Don't let anyone tell you that you can or cannot do a damn thing because it is your life! Love the video! :D

  • I never had a account on youtube and didn't care to get one because I don't want to make videos and I just come on here to watch them. I just had to get an account just to comment on your video after I saw it. Your words on this video and your other ones have touched me so much and I agree with you totally.Thank you for being you and keeping it real!!!!!!

  • did anybody notice how at 7:53 the music stopped right on que CLASSIC MOMENT

  • man i hope i get bless to meet a women like u real talk

  • Beautiful!

  • u have truely motivated me to change for the better, outside as well as in. i watch your videos every week for encouragment, and thats exactly what i get each time. thnk you for sharing your wisdom, and continue to do so.....you are making a difference in other lives.!

  • I just want to say that you inspire me and I love every single video that you make. You have a way that makes people want to do something good for their body.

    Much love!

  • your mother made the best choice in the world when she adopted you. :) i hope that when i get older and adopt a child that she will turn out as great as you!

  • I Sooooo love ur Confident;) thanks for the vid's, becouse its helping us in some-way or another.

    be blessed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    smile:shontaeale

  • you say everything correctly!!! and i have to say-i always try to fight against peoples wrong mentality-but i learned to understand myself so i know at least what i do for me has a reason and is right!!!! beautifulbrownbabydol we have so much in common!!! am adopted too,natural hair, educated black woman,proud of who i am and open for every one!

  • Great message girl. You inspire me.

  • thank you soo much

    im a teenager and i DEFIANTLY needed this

  • wow,i feel like i did'nt run into you by chance.you were talking right to me! im so much of a people pleaser till it controls my life.i gained 60 pds in the pass years and it took my confidents.i dont like to talk in front of people because i feel as if they are saying who asked the fat girl. i stared a new diet and excs.ive been praying for change and then i ran into you.your my new big sis : )

  • Thank you for sharing!

  • And thank you for being yourself!!! This world needs you!!!!

  • jeez i want to cry...my best friend says you sound like me...i love that because i sometimes feel like i'm the only one in the world that understands why i am the way i am...thank you : )

  • that's a beautiful thoughy

  • Thank you SOOOOO much sister, you are BEAUTIFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL­LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL­LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL. You have NO IDEA what this just did for my life, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!!!

  • I hear you. I had the same comments on some of my videos (esp. after I said I have my masters).

  • Hi I loved this video and others that I just saw, and I am already a fan, take care and keep it the good job!!

  • keep speaking the way you do and say what you want to say i wish you the best of luck on your journey. you are a postive sister and i look to see more videos from you. sister you have the potential to encourage a lot of sister around the world. keep up great job:)

  • BeautifulBrwnBabyDol

    I subscribed!!!

    saw your beautiful hair and loved it , (Im going natural)-- listened to your post --you r beautiful inside out. I listened to this post, u must know u r inspiring,don't stop teaching/sharing, we need u.

    ONE

    Shawana

  • u have a voice that demands to be heard. u sound like u have a "preacher's" voice in that u can move people just by the way u say things.

  • Thank you so much for all your encouragement and advice!!!

  • i love the outfit are u an acquarius

  • sis you are so right. Being "mouse like" has been my issues as a big girl in not speaking my mind. I have learned that God has blessed me with a voice for a reason and to say what I feel and what he has put on the inside of me. You remind me of myself on all fronts. Peace, love, and mad blessings to you Empress.

  • You do you girl...

  • Powerful words!!!!!

  • im 20 & i truly look up to u. u speak very powerful & u are very intelligent. I too hope 2 lose weight being a larger chick, & my self confidence is very low. i def need to stop being a people pleaser, i was def put on earth to do big things & to learn & grow not please or care what others think about me, its def taking time but hopefully i will be able to speak my mind more & be not afraid to let others see who i TRULY am...THANX 4 an amazing motivational video

  • So true! I have so many areas in my life that need developing (self confidence and oral communication) so that I too can speak freely. I'm subscribing to your page!

  • I love the positivity!....so many ladies need to marinade in your message. Keep going with the PhD!!!!!

  • You go GIRL!!

  • That was awesome!

  • I hope you don't mind me sharing this on my FB page because I believes it sends out a strong message and it ought to be heard! Thank you for sharing yourself and your knowledge!!

  • I love that you have "Ego" playing in the background.

    "I talk like this 'cause I can back it up" ... SO perfect for this vid. Lol.

  • I am so glad u did this video...I hav been asking for months..This really helped alot : )

  • I really appreciate you keepin it real cause it's much needed....I feel like everything you say out loud is what I'm sayin in my mind it's weird but keep it up I know you ain't gonna let nobody stop you from doin you ;)

  • Yeah I agree with you, last year I felt as if I couldnt speak my mind because I felt as if I was an embarassment to my friends and myself but I have been on a journey this summer and I realized that I dont need friends who dont appreciate my kindness or advice so I dumped them. And when I watched your videos on confidence and your journey I decided I should change for the better for me. And after watchin fat 4 granted i feel that i have taken my size for granted and i will wrk on not doing so!

  • my goodness...u r so educated n full of "light" (energy) ...i watchd 1 of ur blogs n got addicted...lol...i wanted to address somthin 2 u...im struggleing so deeply and torn inside out.. 1) i dont kno who is fake....i trust ppl way 2 much 2) i dont kno how to start livin my life...im very insecure...lol, love 2 chat wit u som mor!

  • You just give me so much motivation whenever I watch your videos. You are really an inspiration to so many people.

  • I love it! I was jus speaking on this 2 my sis...go girl especially w dis natural hair journey like I needed ur permission 2 do wat I want 2 MY hair

  • your hair is so cute here :)

  • I love your videos so far, just watched two so far but im on my way to more lol. Just subscribed too, keep doing what you do I love the energy you feed off in your videos. And thanks this really helps.

  • I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!! (surscribing now)

  • You keep doing what you are doing. I feel that you should not have to explain yourself to us. Those of us who enjoy you will continue to enjoy you, those that don't let them watch. Your true personality shows and we love it!!!!

  • you should be a motivational speaker because you really empowered me

  • That was just beautiful! You are beautiful in every way...Hugs & Smiles!

  • Great video! I wish it was positive people like you in the world. You are a beautiful person, inside and out.

  • danggg!...u need ur own talk show! lol...great vid

  • Amazing video:)

  • You go girl. YOu are such an inspiration. Keep doing what your doing, because your doing it great. =)

  • Great video...so much truth to it. Sometimes, I feel like I'm holding back and I'm going to examine why that is and work on it. God bless you

  • I had watched a couple of videos of yours before this one, but this one right here, this one right her...made me subscribe lol. I really like your personality and the way you speak on things, its definitely real and u right, u gonna be who u gonna be..like it love it 'F' it or forget it. U are really inspirational in your information and delivery. Keep up the great work and continue to stay blessed =)

  • very touching~

  • I'm currently overweight but even when I was slimmer, I let out what I needed to say. If ppl didn't like it that was their choice but I refuse to allow anyone to tell me how to behave and how to speak. I am me and I don't change...I evolve. As usual great video! You know I'm a fan:)

    God Bless!

  • Why would anyone NOT like you? You are so very FIERCE~~!!!!!

  • There's always some ass who wants to impose their ways on you. Just do what you want they don't have to watch.

  • I 'm moved to tears! You are not only beautiful on the outisde, but on the inside as well.

    God bless you!

  • I love you for who you are what you have to say. I feel blessed to have come across your channel, because your videos have been an inspiration to me. I am a proud subscirber and forget those those negative people who don't get who you are. God Bless Love Ya.

  • This is a great video, thank you!! You are a very beautiful person!

  • You just brought tears to my eyes, tears of inspiration. Dont listen to what anyone says, KEEP doing you!

  • Amen!!! Keep up the GREAT work and don't lose the faith.

  • my 9 yr old daughter walked in the room while i was watching this and said "oh my she is so pretty, just like me (herself) she was speaking about you. (and she does not pay compliments to nobody)

  • AMEN Lady! I would love for you to review my book "Oh My God...She's Huge!" on line sometime. I love your attitude and your spirit! You are amazing and very inspirational. I love when people try to tell us who we should be..........cracks me up. If you don't like me, don't watch me.......simple as that! Excellent video! Great message!

  • Tell em girl Keep doing you!!!!

  • Correction: in

    Also, it takes a big person to be so open about their trials and tribulations. Especially when their only motivation is to inspire and support those who share your story...without charging $39.99 + shipping & handling.

  • Love it sistren. Don't change a thing is your message.

    You can't please everyone.

  • I love seeing powerful strong women on here.

    THANK YOU!

  • Great video once again sis. It is truly absurd that ppl will suggest that you change who you are in order to please them. That is hater speak, and they can def. kick rocks barefoot as my sis-in-law says lol.Thanks for the video. We have to be who GOD tells us to be and Nobody else.

  • Omg, why am I really angry that ppl are telling something about the way you talk!?!?!? Talk about hating, I'm telling you now if you stop being you I am UNSUBSCRIBING!!!! lol. Keep doing you girl, the reason I like your videos is because you're relatable. Love all your videos girl, They have inspired me to not only continue my weightloss journey but to go natural, FINALLY! Good job girl, keep it up!!

  • Can the church say "AMEN" Let your light continue to shine bright.  You are young gifted and black!!!! Blessing to your Mom!

    Peace and Love, Ang

  • (crying...)

    wow, I don't know what to say.

    i wonder if my eye liner is running down my face...

    I can't tell you how much i needed this...hmm, maybe I can, sending you a message now :)

  • I love your POSITIVE messages. This is a perfect example of using YouTube for GOOD...keep them coming please~! ;)

  • thank u thank u thank u!!! i really needed that this week!

  • Thank you for that. You are very inspiring.

  • Thank You. I've been struggling with this issue lately. I've been thru so much in life and @ times I come off as hard. This effects the reception i have with men.

  • aaaww your sweet...lol i have to admit i had to get use to the way you express yourself too but when i listened to what you were saying in all these videos i thought it was worth listening to and that you being so passionate about your subjects was worth it too. I bet you could preach up a good Bible study though = )

  • OMG!!!! I'm a fat girl and I know exactly what you're talking about!!!!!!! Please do not do a dissappearing act again. I needed to hear this today.

  • Right here you're talking about something that's sooo real and sooo important. People don't realise. Once you know yourself, and are happy being you, you can achieve ANYTHING.

  • keep up the great work!!! Keep it real! Tell the truth. To thine ownself be true.

  • I appreciate you! Thank you for sharing!

  • You look so much like my cousin. She was so sweet!

  • get em girl....u can't be anyone but urself!!!

  • You don't have to change shit for none of these folks on here. You are beautiful and you are real! Keep on doing your thing!

  • amen!!

  • I love your videos and like the mother said earlier I encourage my girls to listen to you also. You are beautiful from the inside out. Please do not entertain the negative. I miss you when you don't have new videos but I also understand that you have a life outside of You Tube. Thank you for what you give of yourself.

  • You have angelic beauty.. Love the videos mama!

  • Thank you for this. :-)  Say it!

  • That what inspirational speaking i never really thought about that but its true that. there things holding us back from saying thing that are on the ming is guess.

  • Your awesome...teaching from the heart...we don't deserve you! Your priceless! I have my daughter's listen to you. I have 4 girls and I want them to know someone as strong and natural and beautiful as you.

    Be Blessed!

  • Nina, Remember this because it has brought me so much Joy/Knowledge, Joy because my Baby girl(16) told me this! Knowledge because its the Truth!!! As I sat in my mirror one day admiring self- twisted natural hair(A Mess) I asked my daughter what she thought? To my amazement she replied "I will No longer live in other people's mirrors and neither should you!!!, Now do sumthin wit ya hair" A Life time of knowledge 4 Free! Enjoy!

  • I admire your attitude, You're a beautiful woman sis! (Seems a bit familiar [look in the mirror]  *lol*) Take care.

  • Just wonderful! Girl you got "swagger right check"...LOL! I love it!

  • TELL THEM be blessed young lady LUV the song choice...lol get emm girl

  • you remind of erica from Mary-Mary

  • i appreciate it that you share your knowledge and wisdom...i always enjoy your videos...keep up the great work and continue to SHINE...

  • It's crazy that w/all of the powerful messages you have given to us, ppl will still find something negative to pull from it. But the devil is always busy. I'm glad that you can keep doing even w/all of the negativity. It only means God is setting you up for the next journey. Giving you a thicker skin layer by layer waiting for your next steps. OOoohhh weeee. I'll keep your words in mind. Thank you Lord for giving BBBD a message to share w/the world. Amen.

  • i love your styleeeeeee!!!!!!

  • girl you are a beautiful and spiritual individual, dnt listen to the ignorant pple, you always knw when you are doing something worth doing in the world becuz there will be haterz. You knw u are somebody if you have haterz, but u dnt stunt them do you and keep pushing forward girl!

  • you are my Shero! yea i spelled it rigth. Shero. lol work it honey!

  • Thanks again sistah for sharing your knowledge. It is so needed right now. God Bless.

  • Wow you are so pretty and have such a good spirit.

  • Nina you better tell it, sis! This video touched me the most! Keep it coming!

  • yeah!!! keep loving to share and help. We love u for that!

  • yes!! i loved watching this, everything u said was the truth

  • WOOT!

    I Love YOUR PERSONALITY!!!!!

    DON'T CHANGE!

  • dang every time i watch your videos you give me hope. girl you are like my little role model lol thank you. im trying to lose weight and i though t that it was gonna be over night. but its not and that's ok . thank you again.also i use these tapes they are cardio core rhythms dvd's give me your advice on those thank you

  • When I make videos on Youtube, it's all me. I don't make videos to portray someone I'm not only to be dissatisfied.

    That's one important thing is to be satisfied with who you are and feel good about it in the end. I could careless how many subscribers I have. If they like me they'll watch me. If not, then that's okay.

    No man on this earth can please absolutely everyone around them. We can all accept that. But as long as we love who we are and we're pleasing God...that's what matters most

  • I LIKE YOU I LOVE THE WAY U AER!!!!!!!

  • pretty!

  • this is M ..... love your vids keep them coming

  • a beautiful soul to match a beautiful original natural black women

  • WOW!....Keep talking because someone is listening. and a Doctorate student...do tell! You inspire people

  • Nina, just remember 2 do and be you! You are a wonderful person inside and out! keep up the good work! And may God continue to bless you!!!!!!

  • thanks nina!! such a beautiful and inspiring video! thank you so much for your insight and words of encouragement!! they really make me think about the things in my life and why i lack confidence... i should really findout what my strengths and weaknesses are and LEARN myself!! thank you!! xoxo

  • Right on! I'm lovin' the whole tropical thing you have going on, too.

  • Gurl im so feeling what you say and hope more ppl understand that, you cant be nobody but yourself n like you said you cant please them all n neva will.. keep being you gurl!!!

  • Thank you! Great vid as always, I agree, public speaking is for you obviously. I agree with the comment about being a preacher from itybity89.

  • Go head girl!

  • wow u should be a preacher i dont know if someone's ever told u that but u be taken it to church..lol

    love the series

    ~itybity89~

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  • Thank you for being you and keeping it real!! Being different from others is what gives us uniqueness...you have and are endured a lot if life...you have a great testimony. Be blessed girl!! Love ya and what you stand for!

  • ^5555555's to you... you certainly have inspired me... i will begin grad school next month... and people tried to talk me out of it... for what... I am going to be me... and i am going to do what i feel is best for me... not anyone else... Thanks once again BBBD... YOU ROCK!