@testizel its all insecurity,ugly broads,and they wanting to be uphold and praised.. ugly women come in all skin tones.get over yourselves insecure broads.
I'm not going to lie, I do believe more diverse of black beauty need to be embrace. I been blasted all of my life for being light skinned. I don't understand why ppl get the idea, ppl think we just get our asskissed and worshiped by everybody which isn't true. I researched aesthetics in the media, most of those women in music videos/media are light skinned black Hispanics (like Dominican) not light skinned African American women.
I really wish these dark skinned women would chill with the pity parties, and for the men that do hate dark skinned women, they have serious issues within themselves, and they want to hurt somebody, so by dark skinned women playing into it, they feel empowered and successful and they keep the insults rolling. Most black men just appreciate a good woman, if the outside is the only thing a man cares about, he's not worth getting upset over.
You are so right. Most men don't give a damn, some women are basing these things based off what they see on the internet and tv, but when a man is looking for a girlfriend, he really doesn't care about complexion. If a man does care he's not worth your time or worth crying over him.
i dont aggree with this video u can sit here saying is not true we all know been dark skin in this country make people treat u bad that why i say dark skin girls even they not put pretty in this country but there are in black countrys, even the brothas here go choose lighter women so do u see why they get hurt by that i see it myself to even i dont from here is true men they treat them wrong wrong
Lightskinned women being said to have attitudes is SO different from darskinned girls who are called ugly... the things light skinned women (generally) go through does not compare to what darskinned women go through, especially in america... mainly atlanta/ new york....
you clearly dont really know what you're talking about. You're saying men dont care about skin color and hair and image, cut the shit because we all know they do. Most men are so superficial.
@testizel you're an idiot, Im darkskinned so you're ASSUMING that I have self esteem issues which I dont... that right there shows how ignorant you are. I simply said its clearly seen that darskinned women get bashed all the time, and so openly. and you're telling them to get over it. you're not a female nor are you darskinned so you have no right to talk.
@testizel You really are so fucking ignorant its not even funny, Its Rihanna... I like Rihanna..... I didnt want MY picture up sooooo... idk why you really act you're making a point, you really have no valid argument. I dont understand what self hate has to do with that because thats not even a part of it... you really are an idiot.
@TDimples014 He's not an idiot, and the only reason he made that assumption about your self-esteem is because dark skinned women are always whining about their skin and having a pity party just like he said. I'm a dark skinned woman, and I can tell you right now, this brother is speaking nothing but the truth.
@watchalotovids the issue in this video and even with your comment is that instead of saying SOME of the dark skinned women that he or you have encountered are always having a pity party and always whining about their skin,when there are hundreds of thousands of dark skinned women that you haven't even met so to make a conclusion that dark skinned girls are always whining and complaining about their skin ridiculous because you cant speak 4 an entire group of people.
@TDimples014 I agree with what your saying to a certain extent.I see where he coming from 2 but the thing is as you stated being called ugly or less attractive vs. being said to have an attitude and conceited are like comparing apples to oranges, you just cant compare the two. I do believe that he's not correct in sayin its a pity party and complaining its just being realistic,people nowadays just dont want 2 keep it real. I mean listen 2 the music clearly black men care about color
@TDimples014 no, you're just insecure.it amazes how almost every bw swear that they are a physical work of art but yet r color struck on their dark skin. you bw will be the first and only ones that will be quick to call a nigga ugly but yet you have a raging insecurity on dark skin tone issues..and bw beauty being unrepresented in the media.you guys are full of hot air.please, yall all just a front.you guyz are super insecure and its disgusting. and desperate, no 1 cur abt ur skin.
@toyu17 Im actually not insecure. Its idiots like you who make darskinned women look bad. you think just because Im dark I have a problem? And people wonder why they cursed out overthe internet, acting like you know people. shut up
@toyu17 Im not even insecure so your point is invalid. you dont make anysense. you assume because Im dark that Im automatically insecure which proves my point on how ignorant you and all these other people and the guy in the video is, acting like you know what it feels like to be darkskinned. acting like we all think and act the same and we dont. Men, BLACK MEN, are known to care about skin color. alot of them prefer lighter. stop being ignorant.
You're making it seem like Darkskin women have no reason to be upset and annoyed. Not every darskinned women are insecure about their skin color, but we are sick of people talking shit.. There are HIDDEOUS light skinned girls who feel because they're lightskinned that they look better than every dark girl...
a lot of people dont see their lover as an equal or dont like being criticized. some keep secrets or have no privacy in a relationship. some dont communicate enough to understand one another. some let their family get in the way of it. some cant see past themselves or just materialistic. some worry about what others think instead of their spouse. personalities are the main problem in relationships because its something from within it has nothing to do with race or color but the human heart.
i can care less about color a real man can cast aside his standards because he know that perfection dont exist. men, women we are all label by looks and appearance instead of intellect consideration communication and honesty. love is deeper than looks you cant see love you can only feel it. so people put down the barrier you cant take everything to an offense some people lack respect over opinionated because they are use to one sided relationships. let your heart guide you and not your eyes
Alot of BW who make these "dark-skinned vs. light-skinned" vids are doing so to use skin complexion as an excuse of why so many of us BM aren't dating them.
The truth is, most of us BM are having a universal problem w/ BW: THEIR LOUSY FUCKING PERSONALITIES!!
When we as BM tell BW the truth about themselves, they look @ it as bashing. They don't like hearing the truth and prefer to live in their own fantasy worlds rather than this one.
I'm Black usually mostly we don't care for skin tone, but black women on the other hand kind do care about skin tone, but it was worst in the 90's. I love all shades.
thats not true,. cuz first off A LOT of guys discriminate on black women... you say that it doesnt matter to guys if your light skin, dark skin, or whatever which is not true... most black men choose light skin women over black women sooo....
O.k. First off, the word is vo-lup-tu-ous, not vaLUMPchamabus. 2nd, Black women have all the issues with color and hair because of how we have been treated all our lives, being either unfairly put on a pedestal because of long hair and/or light skin (L/L) or unfairly kicked into the gutter because of short hair and/or dark skin (S/D). Uppity attitudes DEVELOP because of the routine, extreme fawning by others (LL), while indignation DEVELOPS because of constant negative treatment from others (SD)
Generally, men are a lot less worried about superficial bullshit like women are. They don't care what color your nails are, they don't care much about hairdo's and shit like that. This is not just black men, but most men. When you wake up with her in the morning and her hair's fucked up and her make-up is off and you still happy that you woke up with her.. that's what matters.
Men have wide scope of "ideal woman". Women hardly understand it. They believe in propaganda that ideal women men like must be lean, light skin, long hair...Many men have this preference but surely not all. Besides example of "ideal woman" has changed during the history. E.g blonde woman has not for a while been ideal one.
your right,and not only a nice physique... i know alot of women that have beautiful facial features and a confident attitude with dark skin, they get hit on by men of all races. So the skin tone doesnt matter,the skin tone wont hide your beauty ladies. If your beautiful,your beautiful no matter if your light skin or dark skin lol
personally am light skined...and what you saying about men not caring about how light your skin is ..is untrue. i know guys that say i dont date dark skin girls with nappy hair... so some guys do care ,,i agree thou that ppl should be comfortable in there own skin
this is all black americans think about and they wonder why no one likes or respects them.Who gives a fuck what another man likes as long as he doesnt get disrespectful with it??Cmn on man.
Black women would do well for themselves if they simply left most black men alone. There is something very sick about a black man actually talking about dark and light skinned women. LOL!
Black men need to get their ish together and stop worrying about everyone else.
Oh "testizel" PLEASE give me a break! I wont say that all men care but allot of them sadly do care about the skin tone. I heard so many men say crap about a woman's skin tone and weather she wear her hair natural or straight.
blk men, in general, don't care what skin tone a woman is???? you've got to be kidding me. of course they care. look in the rap videos. but it goes waaay back to our conditioning and slavery and so on and so on. its time to break that, but i think its hard when eurocentric beauty standards are being pushed. some women struggle with it and some dont.
@Shae77788 You are soo right about him having self hate...smdh Anyway I am always going to be happy in my own skin and there isnt anyone that can make me feel any different :)
Yet on forums all you hear is "I don't like black women or I'm not attractive to 'black features'".
After hearing that crap nonstop from idiots, anyone would get the conclusion that skin tone DOES matter.
And no I'm not making this crap up. This is what I've actually read many times online. Google "black women are unattractive" to see exactly what they are talking about. That crap is fucked up.
I'm a chocolate skinned African sister and I love my hair (au naturale), skin, physique and everything. Chocolate sisters y'all enable this stupid dark skinned/light skinned B.S. Do what you do, you're too busy looking at light-skinned girls so you aren't working on yourself, then you're giving power to light-skinned people to feel that for some reason they are better. Its a neither nor situation. #1 get schooled, #2 believe in yourself (Damn & smh) #3 Stop the sob stories (what are excuses?)
its not insecure to point out how racist and colourist some black men can be, thats just reality. What this black boy in this viddeo should be talking about is how Black men need to learn to love there blackness which includes dark skin and afro textered hair
I am currently making a series of videos debating with a "popular" youtuber because he constantly bashes dark skin women...everyone is welcome to watch my videos :)
Brother will ALL due respect I have to disagree.....I don't see NO black dudes checking for the darker sisters...NONE....these women aren't complaining or having "pity parties" you need to understand that these women have had to put up with this nonsense their entire lives bro....Black men DO care.
Are you trying to please black women? What a simp, your nothin but a buster bitch ass nigga mammys boy. LOL! the new generation of black males hahahaha, forget it. I have noticed alot of you are nothin but a bunch of bitches raised by mammy. TESTIZEL is a biiiiiiiiitchhhhhhh. I'm done with you and your wack ass videos, go find your daddy BITCH.
Im tired if these women whining on youtube, tyra, etc making themselves look stupid all because of skin tone. Also how come the fact that maybe that certain dark skin sister is simple unattractive doesn't come into play? I know plenty of dark skin bw that get it in with plenty of bm and some white/spanish dudes.
So Instead of using the "oh he doesn't like dark skin women" perhaps you should take a look in the mirror cause its not just skin color that determines beauty.
@DXcellence718 "perhaps you should take a look in the mirror cause its not just skin color that determines beauty." <<<<<<<Thats what they FAIL to realize
Wrong. Not color of skin. Facial features maybe yes, but not color of skin. In case of skin tone of black women, if other facial features are fine, dark skin is even extra plus just like nappy hair. This is my opinion.
@DXcellence718 YOU NEED TO SHUT THE FUCK UP. FIRST OF ALL, BLACK MEN ARE FUCKING RACIST AGAINST THEIR OWN, THAT IS WHY I DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT RACISM IN GENERAL. PITY PARTY? the PREJUDICE stereotypes and names that are used against dark skin women is UNFAIR AND RUDE. its fuckign ironic when people DEFEND THEMSELVES, YOU BITCHES CLAIM WE ARE COMPLAINING. OUR OWN RACE IS FUCKING AGIANST US. FUCK YOU! THE BLACK WOMAN IS DARK, SO KISS MY BLACK ASS.
@BlackGirlScholar7 Why you jelly for, typing in caps makes you look foolish. Obviously what i said is true other wise you wouldn't devote a paragraph pf nonsense towards me. All bm are racist, do you have documented factual proof?? No i didnt think so, now write me another reply of foolishness. If a black women is rejected they assume its because of their skintone, which is foolish not all dark skin bw are hot and not all are ugly.
I agree with you - it dosn't help that black skinned women complain about this all the time. Here in the UK I know many many dark skinned women who have no problems attracting black men. I have one particular friend who is natural-totally black and has totally afro hair. Black men are queing up by the dozen to get her, why is this if they are not suppose to go for dark women? Think dark skinend women need to have more self confidence in themselves, rather than moaning about this .
@Nan44 Not all women who speak out about this are complaining. I have a 3 yr old niece who's brwn skind like me n she mentioned that she wished she had more light skn on her body like the palm of her hand. When I speak out about it, it's solely for the purpose of stopping the cycle of putting light skin on a pedistal! I was raised to believe that light skin was better. N although I've overcome my self hate in my adult life, it sickens me that the cycle has begun again w my niece.
@Nan44 Its more of a US thing... But dark skinned women do need to get over it and embrace their beautiful complexion. You can't change yourself. The media and US mindset towards darker skinned black women are not going to change. Certainly, black men preferences for lighter skinned black women and non-blacks are not going to change. We just need to love ourselves and our beautiful chocolate complexion... Refuse to accept any crap saying that we are inferior to anyone! Black is beautiful!
Is this video for real? a lot of men do care. I'm caramel but I'm glad I have good hair a lotta niggas love that and praise me for it. I feel good about it but then feel kinda bad because hair is something that I can't help. A lot of men are brainwashed and don't look at the true beauty of a woman, they just get blinded by eurocentric/mixed features. I have seen pretty black/brown girls get overlooked by less attractive light girls a lot. A lot of men are still trained like slaves
THANK YOU!!! All of this complaining about about light skin & euro-centric beauty standards gets on my nerves. Why do some blk girls think telling black men that they hate themselves 24/7 is going to make them like them more?
@GGLebo23 It might be "annoying" to you, but be thankful you are not on the receiving end of being judged negatively by your features. Maybe black women wouldn't complain if they felt understood and appreciated by their men. The whole world puts black women down and some of y'all don't even care y'all just want her to shut up and act like it's no big deal. Try being a supporter
@oohk Why would I date white girls? Lol I'm not getting your logic. I think this color crap is a non-issue. Even w/ BM who prefer light skin, their are still more than enough guys out there that like chocolate girls. Their aren't any women in America who r single bc they are too dark. Plus, preference is not the end all be all. Ppl settle all the time. Nvm the fact that just bc you like one feature better doesn't mean you dislike the other. Lol ur acting as if BW doesn't have preferences...
You're right. What a BW should do when another brother steps to her with that nonsense is to tell him: F*ck you and the H*e that gave birth to you and keep it moving. You have to have the same f*ck you mentality to BM who go around slamming BW for being dark skinned or not being non-Black and talk about them like a dog in kind and treat them like s**t--show the same respect they show you. Always, works for me. Deal with those men who want to deal with you.
What I don't like is these morons who go around talking about their preferences to your damn face, and still trying to get with you when they clearly make it known you don't fit their preference. I don't won't a brother settling for me. I don't want to experience a lack than luster intimate relationship with a man b/c I wasn't his preference. I want that man to be turned on by in on all levels. So, if I am not his preference, he can move on and I won't get mad.
SMH. I was hoping this wasn’t still an issue w young ppl. Unfortunately I do still see men still “trippin” on skin and hair--one Lt and one Dk woman in a room with a similar physique and the men’s eyes often go to the Lt one FIRST. Sadly, in my neck of the woods, they go for white first also. It's crazy! But these men are brainwashed!
Ladies why would u want a man that judged you on the superficial? Mostly men like what’s sexy n cute…to them--and it's personality that makes him stay.
This is always what I though about black men for the most part. I'm dark with locs but people always tell me I have a "pretty face". I can remember all the way back to kindergarten boys always crushing on me. I'm not trying to sound cocky or anything but I haven't experienced that much drama regarding my skin tone. I had one or two blk men mentionit but not every single one. I guess it helps that I'm super friendly,approachable and stay in shape too.
@luvto2badork I'm glad this has been your experience. I have dark skinned sisters and I hope they have positive experiences like you I hate to see how ignorant some people can be but props to you for not letting it bother you, it's all Bbullshit anyway
Im dark skin and i never had problem with attracting any shade of guys.. i think for some women its a learn behavior and just depends on how secure a woman is wit her beauty.. but i disagree maybe most men dont but i know some dudes that only date light skin chick so yes its sad but some men espeically black men think that.. and black ppl in general are just brainwashed about what beauty is anyway. but i dont feed into shid i love my chocolate skin & my relaxed hair lol its just a preference ppl
@ImALilMuch there called models because the media calls them that...ever heard of mass conditioning? mind control anyone? a little step outside the mental matchbox??? what do i care i'm a punk with blue hair..a so called race traitor...but i do not give a flying fuck
I am dark skin and have chemical free hair, I could not care less what men think about what I was born with and out of my personal control. I love and appreciate my future--they are unique to my person. You will never catch me having a pithy party about how a man does not want me because of my hair, skin etc... What I care about is my mind and how I present myself to the world (things that are within my control). Great post btw
Im dark with natural hair and i've never had a problem getting a man I'm also not overweight like the bw with the real issues. Not to sound cocky or anything.
@NaturesGirl85 yeah people are overweight who gives a fuck...only people with 'issues' themselves..and belive me i'm not having a 'pithy party' my mind is p.h.d level
All you sistas tripping on the skin tone issue how many relationships have you had?!? I better start hearing some tales of virginity and chastity belts or yall better hush lol.
"All you sistas tripping on the skin tone issue how many relationships have you had?!? I better start hearing some tales of virginity and chastity belts or yall better hush lol."
IMO it depend on the person. You got color struck dudes only checking for light skined women but you also got color struck women only checking for light skinned dudes. What I don't get is why dark skinned black women figure everybody got to like them. Not everybody prefers light skinned women. Hell, what about the black folk who are "brown skinned"? Totally left out of the discussion. Anyway most of these women complaining are no virgins, somebody believes the blacker the berry....so WTF?
@dealmaker007 lol real talk, and then you have colorstruck black women who ONLY fool with DARKSKIN black men. oh but nobody mentions that. lol females love having their double standards
@testizel Oh yeah man I'm somewhere in the middle I'm kinda brown so I lose out with the sistas who prefer light skinned dudes or dark skinned dudes. LOL. Then you got those women who want their man to be tall dark and hansome. I ain't that tall and I ain't dark I guess I"m screwed SMH. But you know, they entitled to what they like but nobody else is, it's a damn shame.
@testizel And not to mention those women who want you to make 6 figures or you ain't shit. News flash 85% of men don't make 100k or more and it's even moreso the case among us brothas but these women ain't changing their preferences even though reality is staring them right in the face. But they crying cause certain guys don't want them. For every color struck dude I am sure there are a bunch of pro black cats who love themselves a dark skinned sista but you know there has to be this pity party
Wooow!You really have shadism issues! You say men in general (we) don't really care about skin and hair, Really? Your contradicting yourself from your other videos, blogs and facebook posts. You make excuses for your disdain for the Black community and your preferences otherwise. I mean really whats your point?? To "Enlighten us who don't get it?! All your comments seem self serving. Just live your life and keep it moving. you spend way more energy bashing than uplifting, IJS
They are more open about the issue and will tell you that if your are light skinned that is good and you'll have more marriage proposals. I believe that the issue for black american/and south American stems from slavery and for evey one else through colonialism. My parents are african and i can tell you that even there more and more the "preference" leans towards those of lighter complexion.
Hey wussup man. I got to say i disagree with you. Skin tone is an issue w/ the blacks, asians and latinos. Some of my own friends (light and dark) openly say that they are not checking for the dark skinned girls. As much as i try to deny i myself have the same ignorance, i notice 7 out of 10 times i'm checking the light skinned chick first...and i'm dark. When I was working at johns hopkins i was working closely with a lot of indians.
you are in the minority,many people make a huge nasty fuss about people's natural hair...they are stupid and ignorant but always very loud,they buy into commercial crap,this guy made his girlfriend cut her dreads off,i would never do that for a guy,and i've had loads of hassle for having dreads and yes been rejected many times for the'ultimate woman'...a skinny blonde,i know others have been through this,its good you don't care but most guys do
@pikachops i'm sorry you had to go through that but like i say its not the majority. it mostly depends on the age range. younger men expect more (appearance wise) and older men are quicker to compromise.
@testizel i appreciate what you are saying but who wants to play second best or be a compromise because the guy couldn't get the first choice model.one guy even said i was jealous.sooo not true,i am actually happy being me but the popularity of 'models' such as katie price(jorden) tells me what the majority of men think is desirable,it isnt just me,many friends have found porno under the bed featuring teen blondies etc,its disrespectful and irritating and no,i'm not gay
@AquariusLove100 so am i putting a gun to your head MAKING you subscribe to me??? NO. lol. MrMonstrosity is pretty diverse in his IGNORANCE and STUPIDITY. Enjoy filling your IMPRESSIONABLE mind to poison
LMAO!! the last time you talked about a topic like this, you see what happened. I tried talking to a couple of females off line about this topic and I got attacked for it. I think there's certain topics women don't want to be discussed because it's too sensitive.
I love all your videos. you are such a smart dude. you take these topics and speak well and dont say anything in a bad way. Not only that but Ive learned so much. thanks dude and keep making them :)
THANK YOU ! Real talk.
jag5022 3 weeks ago
@testizel its all insecurity,ugly broads,and they wanting to be uphold and praised.. ugly women come in all skin tones.get over yourselves insecure broads.
toyu17 1 month ago
I'm not going to lie, I do believe more diverse of black beauty need to be embrace. I been blasted all of my life for being light skinned. I don't understand why ppl get the idea, ppl think we just get our asskissed and worshiped by everybody which isn't true. I researched aesthetics in the media, most of those women in music videos/media are light skinned black Hispanics (like Dominican) not light skinned African American women.
TheKennesha 1 month ago
you should tell the nem tht also, tht is where it all stemmed frm
candied88dj 1 month ago
to me its about not about skin colour with women its if you look gooding then your then your ok with me or decent
02mrjosh 1 month ago
i love this vid :) me & my sister HAD a light skin home girl that used to basically call herself "ugly" WE DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR THAT!
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I really wish these dark skinned women would chill with the pity parties, and for the men that do hate dark skinned women, they have serious issues within themselves, and they want to hurt somebody, so by dark skinned women playing into it, they feel empowered and successful and they keep the insults rolling. Most black men just appreciate a good woman, if the outside is the only thing a man cares about, he's not worth getting upset over.
watchalotovids 1 month ago
You are so right. Most men don't give a damn, some women are basing these things based off what they see on the internet and tv, but when a man is looking for a girlfriend, he really doesn't care about complexion. If a man does care he's not worth your time or worth crying over him.
watchalotovids 1 month ago
i dont aggree with this video u can sit here saying is not true we all know been dark skin in this country make people treat u bad that why i say dark skin girls even they not put pretty in this country but there are in black countrys, even the brothas here go choose lighter women so do u see why they get hurt by that i see it myself to even i dont from here is true men they treat them wrong wrong
cecinia23 2 months ago
Lightskinned women being said to have attitudes is SO different from darskinned girls who are called ugly... the things light skinned women (generally) go through does not compare to what darskinned women go through, especially in america... mainly atlanta/ new york....
you clearly dont really know what you're talking about. You're saying men dont care about skin color and hair and image, cut the shit because we all know they do. Most men are so superficial.
TDimples014 2 months ago 4
@TDimples014 sorry but i'm not joining your PITY PARTY. go somewhere and get some self esteem.
testizel 2 months ago
@testizel you're an idiot, Im darkskinned so you're ASSUMING that I have self esteem issues which I dont... that right there shows how ignorant you are. I simply said its clearly seen that darskinned women get bashed all the time, and so openly. and you're telling them to get over it. you're not a female nor are you darskinned so you have no right to talk.
TDimples014 2 months ago 4
@TDimples014 you say you darkskinned but have a picture profile picture of LIGHTSKINNED black woman. LMAO whats up with the self hate sweetheart?
testizel 2 months ago 2
@testizel You really are so fucking ignorant its not even funny, Its Rihanna... I like Rihanna..... I didnt want MY picture up sooooo... idk why you really act you're making a point, you really have no valid argument. I dont understand what self hate has to do with that because thats not even a part of it... you really are an idiot.
TDimples014 2 months ago 3
@TDimples014 call me ignorant all you want. at least i don't have self hate issues. you wanna be lightskin so bad its killing you lol
testizel 2 months ago
@TDimples014 He's not an idiot, and the only reason he made that assumption about your self-esteem is because dark skinned women are always whining about their skin and having a pity party just like he said. I'm a dark skinned woman, and I can tell you right now, this brother is speaking nothing but the truth.
watchalotovids 1 month ago
@watchalotovids the issue in this video and even with your comment is that instead of saying SOME of the dark skinned women that he or you have encountered are always having a pity party and always whining about their skin,when there are hundreds of thousands of dark skinned women that you haven't even met so to make a conclusion that dark skinned girls are always whining and complaining about their skin ridiculous because you cant speak 4 an entire group of people.
Jakayla92 1 month ago
@TDimples014 I agree with what your saying to a certain extent.I see where he coming from 2 but the thing is as you stated being called ugly or less attractive vs. being said to have an attitude and conceited are like comparing apples to oranges, you just cant compare the two. I do believe that he's not correct in sayin its a pity party and complaining its just being realistic,people nowadays just dont want 2 keep it real. I mean listen 2 the music clearly black men care about color
Jakayla92 1 month ago
@TDimples014 no, you're just insecure.it amazes how almost every bw swear that they are a physical work of art but yet r color struck on their dark skin. you bw will be the first and only ones that will be quick to call a nigga ugly but yet you have a raging insecurity on dark skin tone issues..and bw beauty being unrepresented in the media.you guys are full of hot air.please, yall all just a front.you guyz are super insecure and its disgusting. and desperate, no 1 cur abt ur skin.
toyu17 1 month ago
@toyu17 Im actually not insecure. Its idiots like you who make darskinned women look bad. you think just because Im dark I have a problem? And people wonder why they cursed out overthe internet, acting like you know people. shut up
TDimples014 1 month ago
@TDimples014 men don't care abt ur skin tone they care abt ur attitude. your inner self.ur just insecure.DISMISS!
toyu17 1 month ago
@toyu17 Im not even insecure so your point is invalid. you dont make anysense. you assume because Im dark that Im automatically insecure which proves my point on how ignorant you and all these other people and the guy in the video is, acting like you know what it feels like to be darkskinned. acting like we all think and act the same and we dont. Men, BLACK MEN, are known to care about skin color. alot of them prefer lighter. stop being ignorant.
TDimples014 1 month ago
@TDimples014 m hmm!
toyu17 1 month ago
You're making it seem like Darkskin women have no reason to be upset and annoyed. Not every darskinned women are insecure about their skin color, but we are sick of people talking shit.. There are HIDDEOUS light skinned girls who feel because they're lightskinned that they look better than every dark girl...
TDimples014 2 months ago
@TDimples014 agree!
oanunkor 2 months ago
a lot of people dont see their lover as an equal or dont like being criticized. some keep secrets or have no privacy in a relationship. some dont communicate enough to understand one another. some let their family get in the way of it. some cant see past themselves or just materialistic. some worry about what others think instead of their spouse. personalities are the main problem in relationships because its something from within it has nothing to do with race or color but the human heart.
007jdark 2 months ago
i can care less about color a real man can cast aside his standards because he know that perfection dont exist. men, women we are all label by looks and appearance instead of intellect consideration communication and honesty. love is deeper than looks you cant see love you can only feel it. so people put down the barrier you cant take everything to an offense some people lack respect over opinionated because they are use to one sided relationships. let your heart guide you and not your eyes
007jdark 2 months ago
Dumb nigga
Genearke 3 months ago
Alot of BW who make these "dark-skinned vs. light-skinned" vids are doing so to use skin complexion as an excuse of why so many of us BM aren't dating them.
The truth is, most of us BM are having a universal problem w/ BW: THEIR LOUSY FUCKING PERSONALITIES!!
When we as BM tell BW the truth about themselves, they look @ it as bashing. They don't like hearing the truth and prefer to live in their own fantasy worlds rather than this one.
ApollosInsight 3 months ago
I'm Black usually mostly we don't care for skin tone, but black women on the other hand kind do care about skin tone, but it was worst in the 90's. I love all shades.
Bladeboy05 3 months ago
thats not true,. cuz first off A LOT of guys discriminate on black women... you say that it doesnt matter to guys if your light skin, dark skin, or whatever which is not true... most black men choose light skin women over black women sooo....
SuperShaeBayBay 3 months ago
O.k. First off, the word is vo-lup-tu-ous, not vaLUMPchamabus. 2nd, Black women have all the issues with color and hair because of how we have been treated all our lives, being either unfairly put on a pedestal because of long hair and/or light skin (L/L) or unfairly kicked into the gutter because of short hair and/or dark skin (S/D). Uppity attitudes DEVELOP because of the routine, extreme fawning by others (LL), while indignation DEVELOPS because of constant negative treatment from others (SD)
TheLiberatingTruth 3 months ago
@TheLiberatingTruth LMAO u serious????
testizel 3 months ago
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that's is true and i agree
tweety196942 3 months ago
Generally, men are a lot less worried about superficial bullshit like women are. They don't care what color your nails are, they don't care much about hairdo's and shit like that. This is not just black men, but most men. When you wake up with her in the morning and her hair's fucked up and her make-up is off and you still happy that you woke up with her.. that's what matters.
Sahfyr 4 months ago
@Sahfyr
Men have wide scope of "ideal woman". Women hardly understand it. They believe in propaganda that ideal women men like must be lean, light skin, long hair...Many men have this preference but surely not all. Besides example of "ideal woman" has changed during the history. E.g blonde woman has not for a while been ideal one.
saddoboxing1 3 months ago
your right,and not only a nice physique... i know alot of women that have beautiful facial features and a confident attitude with dark skin, they get hit on by men of all races. So the skin tone doesnt matter,the skin tone wont hide your beauty ladies. If your beautiful,your beautiful no matter if your light skin or dark skin lol
lizabutera 4 months ago
personally am light skined...and what you saying about men not caring about how light your skin is ..is untrue. i know guys that say i dont date dark skin girls with nappy hair... so some guys do care ,,i agree thou that ppl should be comfortable in there own skin
memelili11x 4 months ago
@memelili11x those niggas were LYING to you
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Why our culture be trippin on this...White people dont have debates Over Light White vs Dark White...Yea Sounds Stupid Right
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OnlyChild28 4 months ago
this is all black americans think about and they wonder why no one likes or respects them.Who gives a fuck what another man likes as long as he doesnt get disrespectful with it??Cmn on man.
julioholderbusiness 5 months ago
Black women would do well for themselves if they simply left most black men alone. There is something very sick about a black man actually talking about dark and light skinned women. LOL!
Black men need to get their ish together and stop worrying about everyone else.
dginki 5 months ago 2
Oh "testizel" PLEASE give me a break! I wont say that all men care but allot of them sadly do care about the skin tone. I heard so many men say crap about a woman's skin tone and weather she wear her hair natural or straight.
musicproducer16 5 months ago
blk men, in general, don't care what skin tone a woman is???? you've got to be kidding me. of course they care. look in the rap videos. but it goes waaay back to our conditioning and slavery and so on and so on. its time to break that, but i think its hard when eurocentric beauty standards are being pushed. some women struggle with it and some dont.
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@Shae77788 You are soo right about him having self hate...smdh Anyway I am always going to be happy in my own skin and there isnt anyone that can make me feel any different :)
deondra256 5 months ago
lol most drkskinned chics r ugly breh..pls stop lying to these women..
julioholderbusiness 5 months ago
@julioholderbusiness lmao most guys like you cant even spell smdh
deondra256 5 months ago
U NEED TO SPEAK FOR URSELF COS... THIS IS NOT TRUE FOR GENERAL !!!
jadenwoods11 6 months ago
To the video poster: you are a fucking moron.
"People don't care about skin tone.."
Yet on forums all you hear is "I don't like black women or I'm not attractive to 'black features'".
After hearing that crap nonstop from idiots, anyone would get the conclusion that skin tone DOES matter.
And no I'm not making this crap up. This is what I've actually read many times online. Google "black women are unattractive" to see exactly what they are talking about. That crap is fucked up.
TheUltimateBeing01 6 months ago
I'm a chocolate skinned African sister and I love my hair (au naturale), skin, physique and everything. Chocolate sisters y'all enable this stupid dark skinned/light skinned B.S. Do what you do, you're too busy looking at light-skinned girls so you aren't working on yourself, then you're giving power to light-skinned people to feel that for some reason they are better. Its a neither nor situation. #1 get schooled, #2 believe in yourself (Damn & smh) #3 Stop the sob stories (what are excuses?)
idiapharm 6 months ago
its not insecure to point out how racist and colourist some black men can be, thats just reality. What this black boy in this viddeo should be talking about is how Black men need to learn to love there blackness which includes dark skin and afro textered hair
Applebaum 6 months ago
@Applebaum nigga please
testizel 6 months ago
@testizel weak
Applebaum 6 months ago
I am currently making a series of videos debating with a "popular" youtuber because he constantly bashes dark skin women...everyone is welcome to watch my videos :)
I always uplift my fellow dark skin women!
tmdpictures 7 months ago
Brother will ALL due respect I have to disagree.....I don't see NO black dudes checking for the darker sisters...NONE....these women aren't complaining or having "pity parties" you need to understand that these women have had to put up with this nonsense their entire lives bro....Black men DO care.
myronmlawing 7 months ago 2
you dont know what your talking about... a lot of them are turned off by certain women.
MzKinkyness 7 months ago
You're straight up ignorant.
sclay12345 8 months ago 2
Are you trying to please black women? What a simp, your nothin but a buster bitch ass nigga mammys boy. LOL! the new generation of black males hahahaha, forget it. I have noticed alot of you are nothin but a bunch of bitches raised by mammy. TESTIZEL is a biiiiiiiiitchhhhhhh. I'm done with you and your wack ass videos, go find your daddy BITCH.
DIJV79 8 months ago
@DIJV79 are you BIPOLAR??? lmao
testizel 8 months ago 2
@testizel LOL this is not true.
Meg62685 7 months ago
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ImHereToTellYou1 8 months ago
is this why darker skinned women r angry all the time ? or complaining.NOT ALL but some
650Pisces 8 months ago
@650Pisces YES! and its very SAD. smh
testizel 8 months ago
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@testizel Black women are not as attractive as other women. It has been an issue for centuries. I agree with you about the light skin thing as well.
mrblackalchemist 8 months ago
@testizel no wonder they lash out at ppl for no reason..haha ive been a victim haha
650Pisces 8 months ago
@650Pisces its a reason behind the insanity lol
testizel 8 months ago
Im tired if these women whining on youtube, tyra, etc making themselves look stupid all because of skin tone. Also how come the fact that maybe that certain dark skin sister is simple unattractive doesn't come into play? I know plenty of dark skin bw that get it in with plenty of bm and some white/spanish dudes.
So Instead of using the "oh he doesn't like dark skin women" perhaps you should take a look in the mirror cause its not just skin color that determines beauty.
DXcellence718 8 months ago
@DXcellence718 "perhaps you should take a look in the mirror cause its not just skin color that determines beauty." <<<<<<<Thats what they FAIL to realize
testizel 8 months ago 8
@testizel
Wrong. Not color of skin. Facial features maybe yes, but not color of skin. In case of skin tone of black women, if other facial features are fine, dark skin is even extra plus just like nappy hair. This is my opinion.
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ImHereToTellYou1 8 months ago
@DXcellence718 YOU NEED TO SHUT THE FUCK UP. FIRST OF ALL, BLACK MEN ARE FUCKING RACIST AGAINST THEIR OWN, THAT IS WHY I DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT RACISM IN GENERAL. PITY PARTY? the PREJUDICE stereotypes and names that are used against dark skin women is UNFAIR AND RUDE. its fuckign ironic when people DEFEND THEMSELVES, YOU BITCHES CLAIM WE ARE COMPLAINING. OUR OWN RACE IS FUCKING AGIANST US. FUCK YOU! THE BLACK WOMAN IS DARK, SO KISS MY BLACK ASS.
BlackGirlScholar7 7 months ago
@BlackGirlScholar7 Why you jelly for, typing in caps makes you look foolish. Obviously what i said is true other wise you wouldn't devote a paragraph pf nonsense towards me. All bm are racist, do you have documented factual proof?? No i didnt think so, now write me another reply of foolishness. If a black women is rejected they assume its because of their skintone, which is foolish not all dark skin bw are hot and not all are ugly.
Stop being jelly of me ;)
DXcellence718 7 months ago
I agree with you - it dosn't help that black skinned women complain about this all the time. Here in the UK I know many many dark skinned women who have no problems attracting black men. I have one particular friend who is natural-totally black and has totally afro hair. Black men are queing up by the dozen to get her, why is this if they are not suppose to go for dark women? Think dark skinend women need to have more self confidence in themselves, rather than moaning about this .
Nan44 9 months ago
@Nan44 I love your comment. I would much rather date a natural haired women over the processed crap any day.
MrVeesworld 8 months ago
@MrVeesworld Natural is is better.
ImHereToTellYou1 8 months ago
@Nan44 Not all women who speak out about this are complaining. I have a 3 yr old niece who's brwn skind like me n she mentioned that she wished she had more light skn on her body like the palm of her hand. When I speak out about it, it's solely for the purpose of stopping the cycle of putting light skin on a pedistal! I was raised to believe that light skin was better. N although I've overcome my self hate in my adult life, it sickens me that the cycle has begun again w my niece.
DEANAMIERRA 7 months ago 10
@Nan44 Its more of a US thing... But dark skinned women do need to get over it and embrace their beautiful complexion. You can't change yourself. The media and US mindset towards darker skinned black women are not going to change. Certainly, black men preferences for lighter skinned black women and non-blacks are not going to change. We just need to love ourselves and our beautiful chocolate complexion... Refuse to accept any crap saying that we are inferior to anyone! Black is beautiful!
VirtuousKween 6 months ago
@VirtuousKween
100% agree with this comment. Love your self.
everagej 4 months ago
Is this video for real? a lot of men do care. I'm caramel but I'm glad I have good hair a lotta niggas love that and praise me for it. I feel good about it but then feel kinda bad because hair is something that I can't help. A lot of men are brainwashed and don't look at the true beauty of a woman, they just get blinded by eurocentric/mixed features. I have seen pretty black/brown girls get overlooked by less attractive light girls a lot. A lot of men are still trained like slaves
oohkillertofu 9 months ago
THANK YOU!!! All of this complaining about about light skin & euro-centric beauty standards gets on my nerves. Why do some blk girls think telling black men that they hate themselves 24/7 is going to make them like them more?
GGLebo23 10 months ago
@GGLebo23 its pathetic right? lol smh
testizel 10 months ago
@GGLebo23 Well said!!!!
MrVeesworld 8 months ago
This country looks at black women differently then white. Instead of putting us down try listening for a change.
lwiggins2able 10 months ago
@lwiggins2able Black women that complain about beauty standards are simply annoying. It doesn't make them more attractive. In fact, it draws men away
GGLebo23 10 months ago
@GGLebo23 It might be "annoying" to you, but be thankful you are not on the receiving end of being judged negatively by your features. Maybe black women wouldn't complain if they felt understood and appreciated by their men. The whole world puts black women down and some of y'all don't even care y'all just want her to shut up and act like it's no big deal. Try being a supporter
oohkillertofu 9 months ago
@oohkillertofu Nope... still don't care
GGLebo23 9 months ago
@GGLebo23 Date white girls then, you sound like you would be a crappy boyfriend
oohkillertofu 9 months ago
@oohk Why would I date white girls? Lol I'm not getting your logic. I think this color crap is a non-issue. Even w/ BM who prefer light skin, their are still more than enough guys out there that like chocolate girls. Their aren't any women in America who r single bc they are too dark. Plus, preference is not the end all be all. Ppl settle all the time. Nvm the fact that just bc you like one feature better doesn't mean you dislike the other. Lol ur acting as if BW doesn't have preferences...
GGLebo23 9 months ago
@GGLebo23
You're right. What a BW should do when another brother steps to her with that nonsense is to tell him: F*ck you and the H*e that gave birth to you and keep it moving. You have to have the same f*ck you mentality to BM who go around slamming BW for being dark skinned or not being non-Black and talk about them like a dog in kind and treat them like s**t--show the same respect they show you. Always, works for me. Deal with those men who want to deal with you.
everagej 4 months ago
@GGLebo23
What I don't like is these morons who go around talking about their preferences to your damn face, and still trying to get with you when they clearly make it known you don't fit their preference. I don't won't a brother settling for me. I don't want to experience a lack than luster intimate relationship with a man b/c I wasn't his preference. I want that man to be turned on by in on all levels. So, if I am not his preference, he can move on and I won't get mad.
everagej 4 months ago
@everagej Okay...
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we were born this way!!!!!!!!!!!
blackspaniard1025 10 months ago
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we were born this way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
blackspaniard1025 10 months ago
brown skin black is the best
blackspaniard1025 10 months ago
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we were born this way!!!!!!!!!!!!
blackspaniard1025 10 months ago
man fuck these black darkskin whores!
NoLaTvShow 10 months ago
SMH. I was hoping this wasn’t still an issue w young ppl. Unfortunately I do still see men still “trippin” on skin and hair--one Lt and one Dk woman in a room with a similar physique and the men’s eyes often go to the Lt one FIRST. Sadly, in my neck of the woods, they go for white first also. It's crazy! But these men are brainwashed!
Ladies why would u want a man that judged you on the superficial? Mostly men like what’s sexy n cute…to them--and it's personality that makes him stay.
kameelean 11 months ago
This is always what I though about black men for the most part. I'm dark with locs but people always tell me I have a "pretty face". I can remember all the way back to kindergarten boys always crushing on me. I'm not trying to sound cocky or anything but I haven't experienced that much drama regarding my skin tone. I had one or two blk men mentionit but not every single one. I guess it helps that I'm super friendly,approachable and stay in shape too.
luvto2badork 1 year ago
@luvto2badork I'm glad this has been your experience. I have dark skinned sisters and I hope they have positive experiences like you I hate to see how ignorant some people can be but props to you for not letting it bother you, it's all Bbullshit anyway
oohkillertofu 9 months ago
Im dark skin and i never had problem with attracting any shade of guys.. i think for some women its a learn behavior and just depends on how secure a woman is wit her beauty.. but i disagree maybe most men dont but i know some dudes that only date light skin chick so yes its sad but some men espeically black men think that.. and black ppl in general are just brainwashed about what beauty is anyway. but i dont feed into shid i love my chocolate skin & my relaxed hair lol its just a preference ppl
makeda2010able 1 year ago
@ImALilMuch there called models because the media calls them that...ever heard of mass conditioning? mind control anyone? a little step outside the mental matchbox??? what do i care i'm a punk with blue hair..a so called race traitor...but i do not give a flying fuck
pikachops 1 year ago
I am dark skin and have chemical free hair, I could not care less what men think about what I was born with and out of my personal control. I love and appreciate my future--they are unique to my person. You will never catch me having a pithy party about how a man does not want me because of my hair, skin etc... What I care about is my mind and how I present myself to the world (things that are within my control). Great post btw
NadegeP1 1 year ago
@NadegeP1 BEAUTIFULLY STATED!!! I wish more black women would think like you instead of having pity parties/complaining all the time.
testizel 1 year ago
Im dark with natural hair and i've never had a problem getting a man I'm also not overweight like the bw with the real issues. Not to sound cocky or anything.
NaturesGirl85 1 year ago
@NaturesGirl85 lol that was pretty funny and unexpected
testizel 1 year ago
@NaturesGirl85 yeah people are overweight who gives a fuck...only people with 'issues' themselves..and belive me i'm not having a 'pithy party' my mind is p.h.d level
pikachops 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive HAHAHAHA U A TRIP NAT
testizel 1 year ago
All you sistas tripping on the skin tone issue how many relationships have you had?!? I better start hearing some tales of virginity and chastity belts or yall better hush lol.
dealmaker007 1 year ago
@dealmaker007
"All you sistas tripping on the skin tone issue how many relationships have you had?!? I better start hearing some tales of virginity and chastity belts or yall better hush lol."
ROTFLMFAO!!!!!
testizel 1 year ago
IMO it depend on the person. You got color struck dudes only checking for light skined women but you also got color struck women only checking for light skinned dudes. What I don't get is why dark skinned black women figure everybody got to like them. Not everybody prefers light skinned women. Hell, what about the black folk who are "brown skinned"? Totally left out of the discussion. Anyway most of these women complaining are no virgins, somebody believes the blacker the berry....so WTF?
dealmaker007 1 year ago
@dealmaker007 lol real talk, and then you have colorstruck black women who ONLY fool with DARKSKIN black men. oh but nobody mentions that. lol females love having their double standards
testizel 1 year ago
@testizel Oh yeah man I'm somewhere in the middle I'm kinda brown so I lose out with the sistas who prefer light skinned dudes or dark skinned dudes. LOL. Then you got those women who want their man to be tall dark and hansome. I ain't that tall and I ain't dark I guess I"m screwed SMH. But you know, they entitled to what they like but nobody else is, it's a damn shame.
dealmaker007 1 year ago
@dealmaker007
"But you know, they entitled to what they like but nobody else is, it's a damn shame."
EXAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACTLY!!! lmao
testizel 1 year ago
@testizel And not to mention those women who want you to make 6 figures or you ain't shit. News flash 85% of men don't make 100k or more and it's even moreso the case among us brothas but these women ain't changing their preferences even though reality is staring them right in the face. But they crying cause certain guys don't want them. For every color struck dude I am sure there are a bunch of pro black cats who love themselves a dark skinned sista but you know there has to be this pity party
dealmaker007 1 year ago
Wooow!You really have shadism issues! You say men in general (we) don't really care about skin and hair, Really? Your contradicting yourself from your other videos, blogs and facebook posts. You make excuses for your disdain for the Black community and your preferences otherwise. I mean really whats your point?? To "Enlighten us who don't get it?! All your comments seem self serving. Just live your life and keep it moving. you spend way more energy bashing than uplifting, IJS
Sweetumbra1 1 year ago
@Sweetumbra1 how have i contradicted myself and what videos?? bring facts with your next comment and knock off the biased opinions;)
testizel 1 year ago
@testizel
Sweetumbra1 1 year ago
@Sweetumbra1 a lot of these u tube men are jealous of women so..um...yeah
EyeWearMySunglasses 1 year ago
They are more open about the issue and will tell you that if your are light skinned that is good and you'll have more marriage proposals. I believe that the issue for black american/and south American stems from slavery and for evey one else through colonialism. My parents are african and i can tell you that even there more and more the "preference" leans towards those of lighter complexion.
ic0n29 1 year ago
Hey wussup man. I got to say i disagree with you. Skin tone is an issue w/ the blacks, asians and latinos. Some of my own friends (light and dark) openly say that they are not checking for the dark skinned girls. As much as i try to deny i myself have the same ignorance, i notice 7 out of 10 times i'm checking the light skinned chick first...and i'm dark. When I was working at johns hopkins i was working closely with a lot of indians.
ic0n29 1 year ago
you are in the minority,many people make a huge nasty fuss about people's natural hair...they are stupid and ignorant but always very loud,they buy into commercial crap,this guy made his girlfriend cut her dreads off,i would never do that for a guy,and i've had loads of hassle for having dreads and yes been rejected many times for the'ultimate woman'...a skinny blonde,i know others have been through this,its good you don't care but most guys do
pikachops 1 year ago
@pikachops i'm sorry you had to go through that but like i say its not the majority. it mostly depends on the age range. younger men expect more (appearance wise) and older men are quicker to compromise.
testizel 1 year ago
@testizel i appreciate what you are saying but who wants to play second best or be a compromise because the guy couldn't get the first choice model.one guy even said i was jealous.sooo not true,i am actually happy being me but the popularity of 'models' such as katie price(jorden) tells me what the majority of men think is desirable,it isnt just me,many friends have found porno under the bed featuring teen blondies etc,its disrespectful and irritating and no,i'm not gay
pikachops 1 year ago
@AquariusLove100 so am i putting a gun to your head MAKING you subscribe to me??? NO. lol. MrMonstrosity is pretty diverse in his IGNORANCE and STUPIDITY. Enjoy filling your IMPRESSIONABLE mind to poison
testizel 1 year ago
Lol! Co-signed.
K.
magirecords2004 1 year ago
LMAO!! the last time you talked about a topic like this, you see what happened. I tried talking to a couple of females off line about this topic and I got attacked for it. I think there's certain topics women don't want to be discussed because it's too sensitive.
TheAntoine2012 1 year ago
@TheAntoine2012 i have too and i've gotten a MILLION excuses every single time lol
testizel 1 year ago
@AquariusLove100 why don't you hop over to MrMonstrosity's channel and get your daily dose of buffoonery;)
testizel 1 year ago
@AquariusLove100 am i putting a gun to your head MAKING you watch my videos??? NO.
testizel 1 year ago
I love all your videos. you are such a smart dude. you take these topics and speak well and dont say anything in a bad way. Not only that but Ive learned so much. thanks dude and keep making them :)
johee626 1 year ago
@johee626 thank you and i appreciate it! i'm just trying to take people out of their "Regularly Scheduled" programming;)
testizel 1 year ago