Voice of Reason: Black Men "hating" Black Women = IntraRacism: (Hint: It's You Boo.)

[sophinal]

EWWW!! pale skin

[queenroyalty2012]

people needs to get it together i love black men but yawl can be ignorant and i dont care how many fucked up black men i run into my body was made for my black men and would not and can not ever inn life see me fucking with anything out side my race. and i know that i am a good blk woman that stand by my black man side no matter what we all we got but until some of yawl black men get it together it really is going to be a division between blk men and blk women because neither can get it right.

[piperadio]

Is she serious? I hope she doesn't have Black children. White people can have her.

[caramelking2000]

Black Women = Global Nutcase

[MickJagoffable]

The problem with Black women in America is that they want a Denzel Washington with a nice car and a bank full of money to come and sweep them off their feet. They turn a blind eye too the guy that doesn't have a beamer. They spend all their fucking time moaning about "broke niggas" that can't afford to pedal their bleaching cream & hair weave expenses. If African American women focused less on getting their hair and nails "did" and the "finer things" in life maybe things would be different.

[DaPrincess007]

@MickJagoffable I never said I wasn't attracted to non black men. The YT videos are just an add on of why I don't date BM generally. Non-black men and light skinned BM are what I am sincerely attracted to and I would choose a non black guy or a light skinned black guy who treats my right over a dark skinned one cause that is my preference. And, please don't say anything about wanting pretty babies either. I'm already mixed as it is.

[MickJagoffable]

@DaPrincess007 @DaPrincess007 Exactly what I said in my comment. Dating interracially is your PREFERENCE. That's exactly what I said and you confirmed it. The problem is you made it seem as if you only dated inetrracially because the big bad black man hurt your feelings in the a couple of videos on youtube. However, I've noticed you called a BM a "self hating & WHITE WASHED" in one of your comments for his preference of dating non black women. You come across as a hypocrite right now.

[DaPrincess007]

@MickJagoffable Yes, but I don't go saying that BM are jealous of non black men and stuff like how he says that towards black women. That's the difference b/w me and him.

[MickJagoffable]

@DaPrincess007 There is no difference. You just hated on him for dating interracially when you do the exact same thing. People like you are one of the reasons why Black men in America are dating everyone else BUT Black women. You're a complete hypocrite. How dare you call some a self hater and White washed when you date Whites yourself!!! There are a lot of a good Black women out there but they get a bad rap and it's mostly down too people like you.

[DaPrincess007]

@MickJagoffable Yes, there is a difference. I have nothing to prove to you because you don't know the history of arguments I have had with the man I have commented to. And, I am NOT the only one that has said the same things I have said to him. I honestly don't care anymore if BM don't date BW. LOL, sweetheart, you know nothing about me to judge on the person of who I am. You can believe whatever you want about me, not like that matters. You don't contribute anything to my life anyway.

[grantjoh2931]

you make a good point. People are projecting their disappointment with rejection.

[grantjoh2931]

You're so bitter dear. I hope things work out for you with asian men.

[JGvisions]

...were hoes and the bad ones men need to avoid. in all cases how would a man or BM navigate through all that in a consistent manner to get to that suppose good chick in the bunch? and that is considering that the chicks from the first group (the "ignorers") are where the good women are at apart from the second group ( the psychopaths) and the messed up chicks.

[JGvisions]

also, towards the end of your video a lot of the issues some guys have are with that part: actually talking to some of these women because of the behavior that they receive when they do attempt to approach and whatnot. either you have (as you said before) Those women who ignore and dont respond (as you mentioned don't bitch about it and keep it moving), the vicious and malicous ones who act to hurt then reject a dudes advances, and the ones that do accept but are women that you explained..part1

[moozikman61]

I thought it was relevant to the topic...guess I was wrong...peace

[JGvisions]

Also im trying to understand the relevance of the concept of divorce in regards to the issue of knowing your place in a relationship. i would figure that conflict that comes from the not knowing your place or knowing the roles that each person can respectfully fullfill is important because it will prevent the relationship from going to divorce. saying these men dont know anything about relationships and bring up divorces is irrelevent to the what the guy is saying in his videos.

[monaymonroe]

@JGvisions listening to older people or to people who have out time in a relationship will help aid in a new romance or current one. again with the assumption: YOU can figure anything you like: if you're not researching then you sound like an ass.

[monaymonroe]

@monaymonroe *put time in

[JGvisions]

@monaymonroe Hmm? yeah i get the concept and i think alot of people do understand it and have it as a pillar of knowledge in some respect but he was talking about knowing each others place in the relationship, that is the guys tripe in his video. nothing about divorce. You seem to end most of your responses in a passive aggressive tone ( if you're not researching then you sound like an ass.) why is that?

[JGvisions]

question: i'm wondering as i watch this what is your opinion on our connection to each other in regards to a race when you bring up the issue of Not being able to get a certain response from the opposite sex from your own people? if as a collective the majority of the women are only focused on a certain type of guy that has a negative effect on the culture itself. Where does that leave the majority of the men who have brought up this issue to the forefront?

[monaymonroe]

@JGvisions "Not being able to get a certain response from the opposite sex from your own people" means most black men that try to talk to me aren't on my level: that could be drive & determination, financial management or family values. yes, focusing on one type is bad just like only drinking beer and nothing else is bad. your last question doesn't need an answer; next time don't assume you know my esponse. just ask the question.

[JGvisions]

@monaymonroe im a bit confused, the post i put up was a question (two-parter), where did i assume your answer was or make reference that i would?

[moozikman61]

Life is way too short...date whomever from every race....in the end we are all human...

[monaymonroe]

@moozikman61 and this has what to do with the vid? the first 5 min yes but not the entire viideo.

[Chas0x01]

neither aaw nor aam have a clear sense of that a good mate is. too much superficial bs and instant gratification driving all this.

[monaymonroe]

@Chas0x01 You're not into black people so stay out of our issues. You like Mexicans, Hispanics, Puerto Ricans and other Latinos. Stay in thier shit. I've seen the comments you leave on other videos and it's alway's race related.

[Chas0x01]

@monaymonroe what, i can't like latinas:) you're the one trying to promote interracial relationships with asians, who are even less likely to marry a black woman than a white man.smdh keep chasing the rainbow, sistah.

[monaymonroe]

@Chas0x01 you can "like" what you want; its your responses to otr vids that leaves me to believe you're an asshole. you left a comment on a video about a dark toned woman who was cooing a light toned baby. you insisted that the woman wouldn't react the same way if te baby was as dark as the woman. YES: I read on people who comment. just stop with your selgf centered bullshit and leav black peopled alone.

[impatientwithdesire]

When we were back in Africa - black men didn't think we had so much attitudes. They wanted to be our kings right. So what's different now fucktards?

[monaymonroe]

@impatientwithdesire What's different? Access to non black women. On top of being openly desired by non black women. Non black men aren't actively promoted doing the same thing. But I can get one if it's the right guy.

[impatientwithdesire]

@mon- Nonblack women desire gullible rich black men who will pay their way into success when white men reject them.

Nonblack men arent as forward as black men are and black women have to realize that. These men will talk to you randomly and NO MAN talks to you randomly without a good reason.

They wont holler at you and call you a bitch if you dont answer...i know its not something we are used to.

But it doesnt help when sistas proclaim their love for bm and sneer at people around them either.

[impatientwithdesire]

and i dont know why but a lot of sistas will think wm are only after sex (regardless of your race, men are usually just after sex in the beginning anyway)

but will let themselves be used and abused over and over by black men.

We do it out of fear that wm wont want us

So think about wm and other nonbm when they see how many of us are very strong,independent and lets admit-with a bad attitude

and to top it off -so many of us ignore them waiting for bm.

Dont you think they have fear too?

[monaymonroe]

@impatientwithdesire depends on what level those wm are one. Paul Walker has been with black women: so has Colin Ferrell; George Lucas is WITH a black woman as is Robert Dinero. So it really depends on how set a man is in his ways. I'm still waiting on George Clooney to get with another black woman LOL.

[DaPrincess007]

YES YES!!!!! AMEN!!!! I am SICK of the THOUSANDS of videos talking about how black women are no good, ugly, etc. This is why I STOPPED dating black men. It is too many of these coons that think the same and are bitter. They will say how they truly feel behind a computer screen and that is what is messed up and you know they're saying how they really feel. 

[monaymonroe]

@DaPrincess007 Me too honey. I don't understand why they fell into the trap. It's meant to be a genocide for black people as a whole. It's not black women who are doing this mess; it's these young men who are misguided.

[interracialicious]

@monaymonroe .....and I'm sick and tired of the dirty looks I get from black women when I'm out with my beautiful white queen.

[DaPrincess007]

@interracialicious at this point now, I sincerely doubt you're even in a relationship with a white chick. You're just a white washed self hating BM. I worship my FIANCE not based on his race but b/c he loves me for who I am. You have no picture of yourself. Where is this beautiful white queen you speak of? I don't take anyone seriously that talks shit beind a computer with no videos or pictures. You're the type of BM I'm talking about.

[monaymonroe]

@interracialicious well be sick and tired or admit your with your beautiful white queen because you can't handle a beautiful black one. You need to think about your future biracial son: he may want a black chic. That might scare you but everyone is an individual.

[seinfeildsucks]

@interracialicious Bro. Did I miss the memo? I don't know about you but I'm sick and tired of interracial couples repeating the same old line."People are always looking at me". I lived in Seattle WA for 9 years and trust me, there is no other City with the most interracial relationships in America and not one time have I ever noticed a black woman starring or giving a bm/ww bad looks. I never got mean look and I'm in a IRR. Maybe because I really don't care of anyone giving their approval.

[seinfeildsucks]

@interracialicious But what I wanted to ask is if you are in a loving relationship and are TRULY happy. Why the fuuuck would you give a shit or care what people think. I'm focused on my woman more then anybody else. If I'm in a rural area and people were burning crosses on my lawn, thats different. Don't look for approval of anyone but god because that's illogical. Your whole story sounds like you want approval by someone. I hope this helps.

[interracialicious]

@DaPrincess007 .....and I'm sick and tired of the MILLIONS of black women hating on interracial relationships. I watched that first episode of "The Game", and it was sickening. Ugh.

[DaPrincess007]

@interracialicious sweetheart, nobody cares if you're with a white chick. I sure as hell don't ad a lot of black wmen don't care either. Just those hebrew israelite women. Please just go away and stop watching ghetto tv. It's like you enjoy getting a rise out of black women just to valiate your relationship. you look for those dirty looks to make yourself feel good. I have no need for that because unlike you, I'm secure.

[interracialicious]

@DaPrincess007 You said: "It's like you enjoy getting a rise out of black women just to valiate your relationship. you look for those dirty looks to make yourself feel good". LOL!!!! WOW!!! Look who's talking!!! Exactly what the hell do you think YOU are doing on youtube. What a hypocrite!!

[DaPrincess007]

@interracialicious LOL, you are funny. I don't have a channel that is DEDICATED to making BW/BM look bad, unlike you. I tackle several issues at hand, let alone I upload video game matches of me playing fighting games. I may not date BM, but that doesn't mean I hate them, unlike you and how you put BW like they're inferior. I just don't like the things that are said and done. Now please go away and be with your white queen while I be with my Asian king, as you like to put it.

[monaymonroe]

@interracialicious one episode, which is mostly scripted by black male writers. It's a show meant for ratings.

[impatientwithdesire]

Bm and bw are both single at the same rates

[impatientwithdesire]

Look at these self hating coons below me proving the videos point.  Someone mentioned something great. Bm and bw are both single at the same fuckin rates!!!!

[monaymonroe]

@impatientwithdesire well said again.

[impatientwithdesire]

Thank you girlfriend. Black women just to need most black men and their self hating asses ALONE. let them destroy themselves. Not you in the process.

[monaymonroe]

@impatientwithdesire well said.



[arelius1971]

This bitch is CRAZY !!! And she wonders why most black women are SINGLE !!!

[monaymonroe]

@arelius1971 I don't wonder why most black women are single: did you even watch the video?

[monaymonroe]

@RealityIsAIllusion At 21, you have a right to your opinon. Albeit a stupid one but your none the less.

[monaymonroe]

@RealityIsAIllusion You are 21: when you turn 30 we'll talk like adults.

[monaymonroe]

@RealityIsAIllusion Blacks won't be finished ANYWHERE! Africa, South America, Phillippines, Europe... we survive and thrive. Think about our ancestors and what they went through. Be grateful you are still here.

[monaymonroe]

@RealityIsAIllusion Again, live to see 30 and I'll start to believe you.

[NYDASH28]

All these government hand outs and the white man eduction yet many of u all cannot even get married, yet many of u all cannot even get pregnant by proper dick. So honestly really? bm don't even holla at bw in the clubs much less the street like that. N believe me, bm who have the ish together see no need on even hollaing at a bw. for what purpose? at the end of the day many ppl and white ppl will still call u a nigger miss education got a degree, house an car idiot. Your still a nigger

[monaymonroe]

@NYDASH28 Your answer proves lack of research: NPR Radio has the stats: single BM: 41% single BW: 42%. and black people marry within the black race at a higher percentage than outside. And for the record, I was "hollared" at last night.

[NYDASH28]

I don't blame black men for dating out and marrying other races of women, because black women are just down right disrespectful towards black men. Who the hell wants to be with someone who constantly disrespects them? The truth of the matter is that many bm know bw switch up when they date other races but have the never to mean mugg u as a bm. The bw today don't even have anything in common with bm of today, much less any care about our plight so in all honesty bw, many of us really do not care

[monaymonroe]

@NYDASH28 The blame falls on all the reason's given. If you want to date non black, then it should be because you like that person; you don't use people to escape problems.

[ShinIsTrue]

lmao facepalm...

[monaymonroe]

@ShinIsTrue Not very clear on who that belongs to: deleting your comment sounds like a good idea...

[ShinIsTrue]

@monaymonroe just you no better than what you talk about.

[monaymonroe]

@ShinIsTrue Now blocking you sounds like a good idea. Ok. It's done.

[heavymetalloverz]

Great video sis!

[monaymonroe]

@heavymetalloverz Thank You!

[cosplaylicious]

If one researches Black men being single versus Black women being single you would find we are pretty much neck to neck, yet their isn't any media cancer asking why are Black men single. Also just because a female hasn't been through the court system to file papers for marriage that doesn't mean she isn't taken.

[monaymonroe]

@cosplaylicious No, they want to keep attacking black women making us look bad as we are stronger than the men. It has to do with emotional strength.

[DaPrincess007]

@cosplaylicious I think the media is scared of putting black men on blast.I don't understand why though. They're human beings that deserve criticism too.

[cosplaylicious]

I agree with you on people are projecting because they have been rejected. I find it funny that guys will whine about being rejected but have not taken into consideration all the humble in looks females they have looked past and rejected themselves. If a guy wants the 'supermodel' types don't get mad when you can't afford her step YOUR game up.

[monaymonroe]

@cosplaylicious Exatly. People want what they want and it goes both ways.

[DaPrincess007]

@cosplaylicious AMEN GIRL!!!!

[cosplaylicious]

"If someone is fascinated over lil wayne...let that bitch go" loose quote but hilarious! LMAO XDD

[monaymonroe]

@cosplaylicious Thanks for quoting me! That's pretty cool to read.

[TaharkahX]

If you are so concerned about Black people, then why were you out there promoting sisters being with asian men? Confused coon.

[monaymonroe]

@TaharkahX no one is confused. I'll alway's be a black woman so having good relationships within our own community will alway's be important. Dating should not be limited to one's own race which is why I promote interracial dating; for both black men and black women. I would say you TaharkanX have chosen how you want black women to be and I don't fit your idea. That's ok with me so you need to make peace with that as I already have.

[mypreciousness12]

Gooooo Girl lol ...I couldn't have said it better myself.

[monaymonroe]

@mypreciousness12 thanks hon.

[togair9]

boring



[monaymonroe]

@togair9 haha. ok.

[Coast2CoastTuber]

Hey I listened to this video and I can't disagree with the overall message. I don't think it was delivered in a way that would cause the audience to re-evaluate their actions or mindset toward black women. I think when someone offends or attacks with a message the target audience won't focus on the message and the messenger can be alienated. I do want to voice that I believe your feelings on this topic are valid and I applaud anyone with the courage to speak out on issues like this.

[blackburn9]

On of the problems with worshiping celebrity images is that it has the potential of reducing concepts of relationships to superficial values. Thus an unrealistic ideal is projected onto people with expectations that are rarely fulfilled. If people sometimes feel frustrated and voice their frustrations you give an impression that their concerns are fodder for ridicule and trivialization. You assumption BM know nothing about relationships isn't realistic.

[monaymonroe]

@blackburn9 I never gave that impression of ridiculing anyone: I pointed out the error of saying "black women" in general when they should say "the black women I've been with". I don't assume anything about anyone's relationship.

[miamivice32]

the hell with the american minded black woman nobody in there state of mind word want deal with you i urge black men too go out side of america get a good woman from overseas

[monaymonroe]

@miamivice32 doing that sounds great... until you bring them over here and they see how "we american minded women" act. Who knows: she might be encouraged to be the same way. All depends on her.

[justicecarly]

sista, i would have done the same thing! the last thing you need is some dude that cant figure out if breaking off with his ex fiance is the right thing to do...niggas think their shit don't stink...this is the biggest problem of all.

[monaymonroe]

@justicecarly Well thanks! He was a cute little mexican guy who I still talk to. He's a great guy; just made a bad decision. And it's true: brothers think they can get anything by dating outside their race. It's fine until they research WHY black women are labeled the way we are. Most of it self defense.

[nappytaffy]

Thank you sistah!

[monaymonroe]

@nappytaffy You're welcome!

[MrHENNYBLACK]

You are complaining about people complaining...Go figure...I get your points but your helping the problem.

[monaymonroe]

@MrHENNYBLACK yes, i pointed that out in the vid. I"m "helping" the problem sounds so funny to me. Thanks for watching.

[MrHENNYBLACK]

Like the hair

[monaymonroe]

@MrHENNYBLACK just saw this: thank you.

[monaymonroe]

@painlessunlimited what are you saying "exactly" to? I'm not asking what "others" are doing: I'm asking what these BM on youtube are doing. They are complaining so I'm getting to the bottom of things. "Good video". Ok, sounds like you want this to end. So be it.

[monaymonroe]

@painlessunlimited Also, age has a DRAMATIC affect on a person. Sure you'd like to say it doesn't; so do pedophiles. How would one equate age w/ knowledge? I was referring to experience the person may or may not have had. For example: the human brain is not fully developed until the age of 21 (which is why thats the legal age to drink). If one drinks before 21, its possible to mess up the development of the brain, causing holes to form.

[monaymonroe]

@monaymonroe This lack of full development get's in the way of growth: emotional, physical, etc. I ask what age of these BW you all are referring to as it may give clue to what you're choosing to have in your life: ergo, you are somewhat responsible for any mess that may occur. Yes, the Black community has a lot to do. Finally, why "deal" with us? Just leave if its too much.

[monaymonroe]

@painlessunlimited I didn't say keeping it real meant a woman was strong. I never said anything about being strong as "strong black woman" is not a phrase I've ever used. I meant exactly what I said: BW respond as they please. Doesn't matter if no one else likes the response: BW will say what they need to say until the convo is over. That's what I'm implying w/ the phrase "keep it real". No regrets. I wish more people would be this way. No confusion.

[Domineace2kool]

No problem...

[Domineace2kool]

There's no reasoning with dumbasses, so I wouldn't waste my time if I were you.

[Domineace2kool]

Monaymonroe, you've just won yourself a subscriber...thanks for putting the unadulterated truth out there.

[monaymonroe]

@Domineace2kool thanks for subbing!

[Domineace2kool]

Sometimes I laugh at some of these people who constantly bitch and whine about certain individuals by way of youtube videos and threads, because they are absolutely ridiculous and don't realize the TRUE origin of their problems. The sooner they realize they cannot control what other folks are doing the better things will become for them...or maybe not, lol. I'm so glad my man isn't behaving in such away, thank GOD for his existence.

[monaymonroe]

@Domineace2kool I'm glad your man is so good to you.

[Domineace2kool]

Monaymonroe, you've just yourself a subscriber...thanks for putting the unadulterated truth out there.

[monaymonroe]

@SouljaFag5 And we're done here. That response only encourages me to tell you to stay single. goodbye!

[MatlasX]

Hmmm... the first thing you do in this video is draw attention to your hair... automatic turnoff and exactly what black men are talking about.

[monaymonroe]

@MatlasX Very silly to be turned off by the mention of hair. I'd like for you to explain why that's a turnoff since that's "exactly what black men are talking about".

[MatlasX]

@monaymonroe I'll tell you why. Your hair ain't natural in this video. Probably either a weave or a wig. Why can't black women just be like Pam Grier of the 1970's and wear their hair natural without having all of the fake-azz diashiki/India Arie nonsense that most of these "natural" sistas want to bring with them? A natural with a nice evening dress would be a sexy and different look. You don't see black women do that.

[monaymonroe]

@MatlasX OK. so it's about YOUR personal taste. that's the problem. We (meaning both male and female) dress ourselves up for OURSELF. I don't dress for anyone but me. For you to expect someone you DON'T know to dress the way you want them to show's your narcissm. Furthermore, research black women and natural hair. See how much time it takes to take care of black hair: natural or relaxed. And Pam Grier? Really? That was during a time when that look was "in". Pam's hair is relaxed now.

[blackboysports]

And other thing which was always funny to me how you black women searching for an amusing excuses for sleeps/sucking white man's dick and feel herself good it's like she have white woman status!

[monaymonroe]

@blackboysports Now, you're just bullshitting yourself. We're done with this convo. Good day sir!

[monaymonroe]

@blackboysports You brought up a good point for my next video: What exactly is "white women status"?

[LoveAboveHate]

@blackboysports Excellent point!

[monaymonroe]

@LoveAboveHate Talking about dick sucking is NEVER an excellent point. That's a sorry ass comment.

[blackboysports]

that is why most of black/mixed women are single, unmarried or porno whores it only because they can do only two things and in their life: to be pregnant or sucks dick! that is why your black men are gays, f'cking up and is in sh't! so don't blame only us in these problems!

[monaymonroe]

@blackboysports No, your reasons are not why black women are single. This viewpoint is created by you. A person will see what they want. If all you've seen are strippers & whores, then your viewpoint is understandable. But I've seen more: lot's more. So again, I'll tell you to travel and reach for a bigger picture.

[blackboysports]

ex-whores self-hating single black mothers teaching their daughters don't date/marry real dark/brown skin black men for being "happy" so after all this, a lot of black/mixed b'tches have a dreams about "rich, tall, blond, white man with blue eyes and big pink dick" LOL hahah (just like in white/jews porno movies that smart racist jews/crakkkers propagandize for having only sex with them) but reality is reality and anti princesses a dreams.

[monaymonroe]

@blackboysports Again, very hard to agree or disagree with you as I'm not sure of your upbringing. But I will say you definitely need to travel as this comment reveals you've had very many negative experiences with black women.

[blackboysports]

The problem consists in this that, black women don't really love and attractive real dark skin black men. most of black or mixed women think that we simply "ugly n!ggers" and they deserve the best than to be mother of black race and the wife of the black men.

[monaymonroe]

@blackboysports I wouldn't say such things that aren't true. I don't know what area you live in so I can't form an opinon on the subject about dark skin men in your neighborhood. Just seems to me, based on this comment, you may need to travel more

[monaymonroe]

@LISTENtotheMANofGOD So you want a lady you say? The only way to get one is to present yourself as a gentleman. What that lady did on the bus/train has nothing to do with me or our convo so why bring her up? I can't control other women and neither can you, which is my point. I chose to date all races and not due to stereotypes. Again, You've never met me so you are only able to pull from this video and this subject. Thank you and goodnight.

[monaymonroe]

@monaymonroe Original Comment: Back women continue to call black men 'weak' while they call themselves the strong bw. BW are intolerant of any criticism of any bw whatsoever. BW are the last to be married/chosen for nothing. BW love to attack male ego. BW seek Asian men because they are perceived as docile and easy to control.

[monaymonroe]

@monaymonroe Original Comment: Most Asian men avoid BW like the plague. Don't say you deserve to be treated like a lady when you refuse to behave like a lady. Cursing and fighting on buses and trains is so UN ladylike. Most men agree

[vincent15641]

@monaymonroe Compare this comment with the revelations in the video called What Women Want is Worship".

[monaymonroe]

@LISTENtotheMANofGOD you're upset over cursing? WEAK.

And people do have a right to an opinon: they don't have a right to expect other people to follow through. It's about control. You can have your opinon about me. But it's clear you've never watched my other vids or met me. I express so many emotions in this vid but of course, you only see what you want. You're allowed to see whatever you like. Doesn't make it true.

[monaymonroe]

@monaymonroe Original Comment: You are cursing and talking about 'eating balls' and saying people have no right to an opinion? You fit the model for the type of women black men are making videos about. This is why men avoid black women.