Fantastic video, good to hear this out of a woman's mouth. Most men are ashamed to speak for themselves because they think it makes them look weak. Thanks for taking a stand for us :-)
God dame this chick hit the spot. I always hated the idea that men care less about men and wemen care even less about men. Always sacrafice men first. I have always felt felt a sense of worthlesness because of this. I often think men are not needed periopd if wemen had just a little more strength or used they're heads more for general combat. But what do I know.
i used 2 be a weak man too! i felt in love with a women that was only using me either when she was lonely or needing favors from me it's good to finally hear a women speak up about this and that's why now i am a subscriber.
One of the 5 best videos on YouTube in 2011 re: how feminism is keeping society from moving toward real humanity. An updated version of the old, "Do on to others as you would have them do on to you" with a feminine perspective done even handedly. We need truthful social commentary & less bias bullshit filled with hate videos. This corrupt society & it's money grubbing (follow the $'s) courts & politicians don't want equality or harmony any more than Burger King wants you to stop eating burgers.
when i come to humans in general, women can survive without man, but it will end eventually because women gonne kill eachother because of the existance of man, man doesnt need women unless they want to kill his lust for plessure, thats why i find plessure in torture man for flirt and attention a weak thing about women.
I understand what it's like to be one of the few women that acknowledges men are getting the short end of the stick in a lot of ways. I've actually been called sexist for stating that, among other things. Great video; I enjoyed. :3
@LadyRuin2012 I so know that feeling, most women seem so happy to loudly proclaim how bad their situation is and how every male should serve them, but the gods forbid that somebody tells them that males have their very own discrimination.
I get around being called sexist in stating from the beginning that I am a macho and then delving into a debate about how gender is a social construction, at that point most people are way to confused to state anything coherently ;D
I'm in 8th grade and the sexism is already beginning. In 7th grade we didn't have to do 1 exercise if we ran the mile in under 9 minuets. Most boys got that little slip were about 3-4 girls got it. This year they changed it so the girls have to run under 11 minuets while the boys had to run 7. Most girls got the slip while more boys didn't. And then the girls go on to say that this is proof of why there superior. -_-'
@KillerStarMan Now this is wrong on several levels. Am I right in assuming that exercise was not in sports class?
In my opinion both the 9 minutes as well as the 7-11 minutes rule is unjust. As far as I know there is a rather slight difference in the possible running speed based on biology so a slightly longer time for females would be okay, but that difference is a plain discrimination.
It is really sad to see how early the construction of barriers between males and females starts :(
I agree with a lot of things you say expect ; many birth control pills have a lot of side effects and disturb natural production of hormones in women. Condoms are definitely safest birth control that can be used for men and women, I wouldn't say they are that expensive, I doubt any woman would sleep with a guy who cant even afford condoms. Otherwise great video, nice to listen to open minded woman . Good luck!!!
@chafut I do agree that birth control pills aren't really the best way to go, but there are a lot of other possibilities for women, from diaphragms to implants. And condoms become extremely expensive over time, in a relationship were you have sex on a regular daily basis the cost of condoms amounts to a really big expense. For casual sex outside any relationship, so you don't know the person very well, it is a completely different case of course, there I agree with you.
The first sentence in your description sums up a lot. We live in a society where even women know they will be attacked/mocked/ridiculed for daring to mention that men deserve to be treated with equality and dignity.
After having 2 adulterous wives I've resigned myself to the fact that I will never meet a logical woman like this & am happy to be single for the rest of my days. It's good to see they are some out there & willing to speak up though.
Thank you so much for your honesty and character in speaking the truth and advocating for gender justice for men in an increasingly more misandric Western World.
Very true thoughts. It is good to see the message circulating. Facts are facts. Men have 3 options with contraception. Condoms, vasectomy, or abstinence. Not much choice.
As a man myself, I do say it is the fault of males in marrying and having sex at all, given the literally extreme risks to their potential children and themselves.
@CaraDanaellea you've got a good message, that would be taken much more seriously if you aren't on a leash. just my opinion though, do what ever you want.
@suavitas110289 I don't view the collar as being on a leash but rather as taking a symbol and turning it on its head to cry out a message louder than it otherwise would. Especially because the symbol on the collar is a bio-hazard sign, I am dangerous and alive is what it symbolizes to me :)
true what you say about not getting married. I wont ever get wed.Not because of commitment issues but because of the consequences of failure of a marriage
@lee0nline1 What I hate about the whole problem of getting married is that you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Either you have to live in fear of the likely negative consequences or you have accept to be a second class citizen, paying more taxes and having less rights. I want a revoked marriage system!
@CaraDanaellea Your video is not unimportant. The truth is always important.
And please, don't be humbled. To have a really popular channel, I would need to be an atheist, a comedian or a woman with great cleavage. That's how it works :-)
You are unbelievably smart. I can't explain how refreshing it is to hear an argument like this be as unbiased as you've driven in it. Why this video hasn't received more views, I have no idea or reasoning for. However, I will work to change that by posting it to my FaceBook profile page. This video is beneficial in every point.
@linkkid185 Thank you very much. I try really hard to make my videos enjoyable and interesting to watch, so I'm glad you like it. I guess I have so few views is because my channel isn't so big and the topic of discrimination against men is completely underrated, so thanks a lot for you trying to promote me :)
Women will NEVER be equal for the one simple fact that they bitch if we hit them. If you can hit man and i can't hit you back then we aren't fucking equal now are we bitch?
@SheIbyCobra Glad you like it. It is really important in my eyes that more attention is given to sex-discrimination, both positive against women and negative against men. The last decades were nothing but an unprosecuted hunting season on men's rights. Of course it is important that women have equal rights, but the key term here is equal not rights :)
The problem is that men often underestimate women and end up being the weakest link in a relationship. Women just use them as money making machines while men are working their asses off, and if they get a divorce they got to pay the oppressive bitch every month, even if they are childless. That's at least what happens in my country where laws are pretty old-fashioned :P
@lakeb0dom I'd say the problem with that lies even deeper. It's not only that females get away with such behaviour. The men feel weak themselves if they don't get into the provider role. They believe that they MUST work their asses off to be a real man.
The blame is not solemnly on the women. Society in itself e.g. through laws facilitates the whole BS. Once socialized men and women stupidly fall into the roles and there we have the whole problem...
@CaraDanaellea You neglected to mention one other glaring fact about men.I am surprised because I am sure you know it already.Men account for the overwhelming majority of prisoners in all nations, and even moreso in the US. As a man is destined to be born and bred into 2nd class status,having served time in prison would exacerbate that into a third or even lower class with even less rights,privileges,opportunities in life.
@justcallmeassinine Yeah, I forgot to mention that. Well, I did talk about the injustice in court which kind of is the stage before going to jail, so I'll take that as my halfassed excuse ;)
But you are completely right, prisons are like catalysators for keeping men down.
@CaraDanaellea Yes it keeps men down but its actually more evil than that.In the US,a large number of prisons are privately owned and get paid per head by gov't. contract. Men are often given long terms for non violent offenses.The companies pay politicians to get the contracts.Then the inmates are given jobs.They have many contracts involving things like call centers and manufacturing jeans etc,etc,. The wage is 32 cents per hour.Less than child labor in Myanmar. Its been on the news and net.
@justcallmeassinine Darn, I didn't know that. This definitely is even worse than I thought. Goes a long way to tell you about the "abolishment" of slavery.
@finalfantasy4everock A dividing screen with a green blanket draped over it. Otherwise all you would see would be blinding light from the big windows behind me, and I don't deserve such a halo ;)
@tattooskin72 I had this video idea put off for far too long, so I put it on with a splash now ;)
Of course I said all genders, as a pangender myself I would have bit my own arse if I would embrace that totally arbitrary male-female-dichotomy. What would my videos about being pansexual and pangender be good for when I just speak in the normal stereotypes in the other videos? That's why I also said "ze" in this video, we all should use the gender neutral pronouns much more.
I have always been kind of pissed off that I as a male must pay more for my auto insurance than a female, seems pretty discriminatory to me. I applaud you for speaking up on our behalf. It seems too often that "equal rights" means one group gets more rights than another.
Well put. The nature of our interactions with each other, combined with our need to maximize resources which seems to drive specialization tends to put us on a course that diverges qualities. It would also seem to quide our regard of those at either end of the specrum of specialists.
@RichardRoy2 Specialisation in itself is positive I'd say, but it seems so easy to forget that every specialist started out unmoulded. And in that unmoulded state males and females are pretty much the same. Most of the typical sex differences can be scientifically shown to be due to socialization not biology. And even when they are biological they are tiny. And even if there are differences, we shouldn't let that be the reason for differing treatment on anything else but the difference itself.
@CaraDanaellea " we shouldn't let that be the reason for differing treatment on anything else but the difference itself. " Agreed. But as with anything, specialization, and I'm speaking of it from the biological aspect, can create problems. I expect biological differences have heightened through social desire for one gender to posess particular qualities, and another, others. Even our social regard has difficulty with the idea of a male posessing femininity, and females posessing masculinity.
@RichardRoy2 This fear of femininity or masculinity in a seemingly differing gender from it comes from the wrong impression that one can only be one OR the other. Due to me being a pangender I know only too well what problems this social norm brings with it. Biological and social specialisation are taken as the norm and everything that doesn't fit is seen as wrong. It is a self-reproducing circle that only gets harder to break out with time.
@CaraDanaellea Before you, I'd never heard of the term, "pangender". Interesting identity. I think it may be more inclusive to depolarize the associations society places on the genders. When did you come to associate yourself with this identity?
@RichardRoy2 Sorry for the late answer. I concur that it would be best to decrease the strict associations society has with being male or being female. Many differences evaporate when they aren't enforced by social norms. So breaking open the genders would be most inclusive.
It is hard to concretely say since when I identified as pangender since it was a process finding who I was. I had been not comfortable with being called female long before I found out what "exactly" I am, starting around 14.
@CaraDanaellea I can relate to the process of finding who you are. It's something I'd been working on for many years. I'm actually pleased with the thought that I'll never finish that self discovery process. Sometimes finding something about myself to challenge leads to new things to challenge. My problem with "sexuality" is that there doesn't seem to be a great deal of clarity on it, though it's a term that's thrown around with abandon.
@RichardRoy2 Perfection is stagnation, and there is nothing worse than not constantly moving forward. Challenging oneself is one of the joys of life, albeit not an easy one.
Sexuality, sex, gender etc. are really overused, I would rather abandon them altogether and just say we are all humans just with natural variation in body shapes. Personally I have very clear definitions for the terms but I'm afraid that these come from my research and not from the pooled cultural use.
So right. Your last line is the best. That's all we men want.
yasage 1 day ago
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Leslie0Heanue 3 days ago
Fantastic video, good to hear this out of a woman's mouth. Most men are ashamed to speak for themselves because they think it makes them look weak. Thanks for taking a stand for us :-)
sharpknifesedge 5 days ago
God dame this chick hit the spot. I always hated the idea that men care less about men and wemen care even less about men. Always sacrafice men first. I have always felt felt a sense of worthlesness because of this. I often think men are not needed periopd if wemen had just a little more strength or used they're heads more for general combat. But what do I know.
Just a guy.
Omikron1112 1 month ago
This video was brilliantly thought out and I agree.
GJ :)
TeHGoodReverend 1 month ago
You speak the truth!
FamGamebreaker 2 months ago
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that's why i think men in the western world need to stand the fuck up and stop letting themselves getting brainwashed.
Sam10947 2 months ago
i used 2 be a weak man too! i felt in love with a women that was only using me either when she was lonely or needing favors from me it's good to finally hear a women speak up about this and that's why now i am a subscriber.
ll706 2 months ago
One of the 5 best videos on YouTube in 2011 re: how feminism is keeping society from moving toward real humanity. An updated version of the old, "Do on to others as you would have them do on to you" with a feminine perspective done even handedly. We need truthful social commentary & less bias bullshit filled with hate videos. This corrupt society & it's money grubbing (follow the $'s) courts & politicians don't want equality or harmony any more than Burger King wants you to stop eating burgers.
MLJ1219 2 months ago
men plays: firestorm-card
women plays: i am the weak sex, i need protection!-card.
women win
XxPunkerkittyXx 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
thank you for speaking for men
TrueBlueCanuck 3 months ago
when i come to humans in general, women can survive without man, but it will end eventually because women gonne kill eachother because of the existance of man, man doesnt need women unless they want to kill his lust for plessure, thats why i find plessure in torture man for flirt and attention a weak thing about women.
Venomonia 3 months ago
Media Programs. I love her accent.
1cambiamos 3 months ago in playlist Gender Bias
I understand what it's like to be one of the few women that acknowledges men are getting the short end of the stick in a lot of ways. I've actually been called sexist for stating that, among other things. Great video; I enjoyed. :3
LadyRuin2012 4 months ago
@LadyRuin2012 I so know that feeling, most women seem so happy to loudly proclaim how bad their situation is and how every male should serve them, but the gods forbid that somebody tells them that males have their very own discrimination.
I get around being called sexist in stating from the beginning that I am a macho and then delving into a debate about how gender is a social construction, at that point most people are way to confused to state anything coherently ;D
CaraDanaellea 4 months ago
I'm in 8th grade and the sexism is already beginning. In 7th grade we didn't have to do 1 exercise if we ran the mile in under 9 minuets. Most boys got that little slip were about 3-4 girls got it. This year they changed it so the girls have to run under 11 minuets while the boys had to run 7. Most girls got the slip while more boys didn't. And then the girls go on to say that this is proof of why there superior. -_-'
KillerStarMan 5 months ago
@KillerStarMan Now this is wrong on several levels. Am I right in assuming that exercise was not in sports class?
In my opinion both the 9 minutes as well as the 7-11 minutes rule is unjust. As far as I know there is a rather slight difference in the possible running speed based on biology so a slightly longer time for females would be okay, but that difference is a plain discrimination.
It is really sad to see how early the construction of barriers between males and females starts :(
CaraDanaellea 5 months ago
Why can't more people be like you? :)
LeftoverJedi 6 months ago
@LeftoverJedi Because it's hard to be me and a lot of people would lack the perseverance ;)
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago 2
@CaraDanaellea :D
LeftoverJedi 6 months ago
NO AMERIKUNT WOULD EVER TALK THIS WAY.
BRAVA!
bltsrmsqt 6 months ago
WOW- she cannot be American!
bltsrmsqt 6 months ago
@bltsrmsqt Well, I'm not, I'm human :)
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
I agree with a lot of things you say expect ; many birth control pills have a lot of side effects and disturb natural production of hormones in women. Condoms are definitely safest birth control that can be used for men and women, I wouldn't say they are that expensive, I doubt any woman would sleep with a guy who cant even afford condoms. Otherwise great video, nice to listen to open minded woman . Good luck!!!
chafut 6 months ago
@chafut I do agree that birth control pills aren't really the best way to go, but there are a lot of other possibilities for women, from diaphragms to implants. And condoms become extremely expensive over time, in a relationship were you have sex on a regular daily basis the cost of condoms amounts to a really big expense. For casual sex outside any relationship, so you don't know the person very well, it is a completely different case of course, there I agree with you.
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
Thanks for that.
tatiebogle 6 months ago
You are my hero.
Viciouskiller 6 months ago
The first sentence in your description sums up a lot. We live in a society where even women know they will be attacked/mocked/ridiculed for daring to mention that men deserve to be treated with equality and dignity.
Good video.
6oodfella 6 months ago 3
After having 2 adulterous wives I've resigned myself to the fact that I will never meet a logical woman like this & am happy to be single for the rest of my days. It's good to see they are some out there & willing to speak up though.
taffwob 6 months ago
Thank you so much for your honesty and character in speaking the truth and advocating for gender justice for men in an increasingly more misandric Western World.
salahudeenabduladl 6 months ago
Contemporary Feminism was designed to go overboard. The days of the suffragettes are long gone.
leostomicek 6 months ago
Brilliant!
MRAGreatestHits 6 months ago
Very true thoughts. It is good to see the message circulating. Facts are facts. Men have 3 options with contraception. Condoms, vasectomy, or abstinence. Not much choice.
petekaz1977 6 months ago
Very interesting analysis, refreshingly objective. Original and personable approach, too.
capturedpilot 6 months ago
Woman, a young woman talking about rights AND responsibilities....brings a tear to my eye
ActaNonVerba71 6 months ago
@icthruu4evr NAWALT, but the risk isn't worth taking the chance that they aren't that pit....
megabrowser17 6 months ago
You know her "chick card" got revoked for this vid.
matlock12c 6 months ago
@matlock12c I don't think I ever had one of those. I just don't fit in with the "chicks", so I don't get nor want the privileges :)
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
@CaraDanaellea - Thanks for being one of the few women to recognize men are discriminated against too.
leecfb000 6 months ago 2
As a man myself, I do say it is the fault of males in marrying and having sex at all, given the literally extreme risks to their potential children and themselves.
megabrowser17 6 months ago
WOW another woman who gets it....
revemupman 6 months ago
@revemupman To be completely correct it would have to be: another person who gets it. I really don't feel as part of "womanhood" ;)
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
She's a genius. 99% of women believe the lie. This young lady tells it like it is.
mantleofvalor 6 months ago 15
I know all this but it's still impressive to hear it being uttered by an enlightened woman. Peace and respect
DislocatedDesign 6 months ago
take off the collar.
suavitas110289 6 months ago
@suavitas110289 Why should I?
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
@CaraDanaellea you've got a good message, that would be taken much more seriously if you aren't on a leash. just my opinion though, do what ever you want.
suavitas110289 6 months ago
@suavitas110289 I don't view the collar as being on a leash but rather as taking a symbol and turning it on its head to cry out a message louder than it otherwise would. Especially because the symbol on the collar is a bio-hazard sign, I am dangerous and alive is what it symbolizes to me :)
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
Truth!
drewmaughan 6 months ago
true what you say about not getting married. I wont ever get wed.Not because of commitment issues but because of the consequences of failure of a marriage
lee0nline1 6 months ago
@lee0nline1 What I hate about the whole problem of getting married is that you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Either you have to live in fear of the likely negative consequences or you have accept to be a second class citizen, paying more taxes and having less rights. I want a revoked marriage system!
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
Well said.
manwomanmyth 6 months ago
@manwomanmyth Wow, I'm humbled that as great and popular a channel watched my unimportant video. Thank you so much!
CaraDanaellea 6 months ago
@CaraDanaellea Your video is not unimportant. The truth is always important.
And please, don't be humbled. To have a really popular channel, I would need to be an atheist, a comedian or a woman with great cleavage. That's how it works :-)
manwomanmyth 6 months ago
You are unbelievably smart. I can't explain how refreshing it is to hear an argument like this be as unbiased as you've driven in it. Why this video hasn't received more views, I have no idea or reasoning for. However, I will work to change that by posting it to my FaceBook profile page. This video is beneficial in every point.
linkkid185 8 months ago
@linkkid185 Thank you very much. I try really hard to make my videos enjoyable and interesting to watch, so I'm glad you like it. I guess I have so few views is because my channel isn't so big and the topic of discrimination against men is completely underrated, so thanks a lot for you trying to promote me :)
CaraDanaellea 8 months ago 6
Women will NEVER be equal for the one simple fact that they bitch if we hit them. If you can hit man and i can't hit you back then we aren't fucking equal now are we bitch?
cakenugget 8 months ago
@SheIbyCobra Glad you like it. It is really important in my eyes that more attention is given to sex-discrimination, both positive against women and negative against men. The last decades were nothing but an unprosecuted hunting season on men's rights. Of course it is important that women have equal rights, but the key term here is equal not rights :)
CaraDanaellea 8 months ago
The problem is that men often underestimate women and end up being the weakest link in a relationship. Women just use them as money making machines while men are working their asses off, and if they get a divorce they got to pay the oppressive bitch every month, even if they are childless. That's at least what happens in my country where laws are pretty old-fashioned :P
lakeb0dom 9 months ago
@lakeb0dom I'd say the problem with that lies even deeper. It's not only that females get away with such behaviour. The men feel weak themselves if they don't get into the provider role. They believe that they MUST work their asses off to be a real man.
The blame is not solemnly on the women. Society in itself e.g. through laws facilitates the whole BS. Once socialized men and women stupidly fall into the roles and there we have the whole problem...
CaraDanaellea 9 months ago
@CaraDanaellea You neglected to mention one other glaring fact about men.I am surprised because I am sure you know it already.Men account for the overwhelming majority of prisoners in all nations, and even moreso in the US. As a man is destined to be born and bred into 2nd class status,having served time in prison would exacerbate that into a third or even lower class with even less rights,privileges,opportunities in life.
justcallmeassinine 8 months ago
@justcallmeassinine Yeah, I forgot to mention that. Well, I did talk about the injustice in court which kind of is the stage before going to jail, so I'll take that as my halfassed excuse ;)
But you are completely right, prisons are like catalysators for keeping men down.
CaraDanaellea 8 months ago
@CaraDanaellea Yes it keeps men down but its actually more evil than that.In the US,a large number of prisons are privately owned and get paid per head by gov't. contract. Men are often given long terms for non violent offenses.The companies pay politicians to get the contracts.Then the inmates are given jobs.They have many contracts involving things like call centers and manufacturing jeans etc,etc,. The wage is 32 cents per hour.Less than child labor in Myanmar. Its been on the news and net.
justcallmeassinine 8 months ago
@justcallmeassinine Darn, I didn't know that. This definitely is even worse than I thought. Goes a long way to tell you about the "abolishment" of slavery.
CaraDanaellea 8 months ago
I like the background ! Are those curtains, or a dividing screen?
finalfantasy4everock 9 months ago
@finalfantasy4everock A dividing screen with a green blanket draped over it. Otherwise all you would see would be blinding light from the big windows behind me, and I don't deserve such a halo ;)
CaraDanaellea 9 months ago
Oh wow, you really dove right in LOL. Some things I definitely agree with you on.
I love that you said "all genders" :) I think it's important to get out of this binary way of thinking.
tattooskin72 9 months ago
@tattooskin72 I had this video idea put off for far too long, so I put it on with a splash now ;)
Of course I said all genders, as a pangender myself I would have bit my own arse if I would embrace that totally arbitrary male-female-dichotomy. What would my videos about being pansexual and pangender be good for when I just speak in the normal stereotypes in the other videos? That's why I also said "ze" in this video, we all should use the gender neutral pronouns much more.
CaraDanaellea 9 months ago
I have always been kind of pissed off that I as a male must pay more for my auto insurance than a female, seems pretty discriminatory to me. I applaud you for speaking up on our behalf. It seems too often that "equal rights" means one group gets more rights than another.
27dcx 9 months ago
Well put. The nature of our interactions with each other, combined with our need to maximize resources which seems to drive specialization tends to put us on a course that diverges qualities. It would also seem to quide our regard of those at either end of the specrum of specialists.
RichardRoy2 9 months ago
@RichardRoy2 Specialisation in itself is positive I'd say, but it seems so easy to forget that every specialist started out unmoulded. And in that unmoulded state males and females are pretty much the same. Most of the typical sex differences can be scientifically shown to be due to socialization not biology. And even when they are biological they are tiny. And even if there are differences, we shouldn't let that be the reason for differing treatment on anything else but the difference itself.
CaraDanaellea 9 months ago
@CaraDanaellea " we shouldn't let that be the reason for differing treatment on anything else but the difference itself. " Agreed. But as with anything, specialization, and I'm speaking of it from the biological aspect, can create problems. I expect biological differences have heightened through social desire for one gender to posess particular qualities, and another, others. Even our social regard has difficulty with the idea of a male posessing femininity, and females posessing masculinity.
RichardRoy2 9 months ago
@RichardRoy2 This fear of femininity or masculinity in a seemingly differing gender from it comes from the wrong impression that one can only be one OR the other. Due to me being a pangender I know only too well what problems this social norm brings with it. Biological and social specialisation are taken as the norm and everything that doesn't fit is seen as wrong. It is a self-reproducing circle that only gets harder to break out with time.
CaraDanaellea 9 months ago
@CaraDanaellea Before you, I'd never heard of the term, "pangender". Interesting identity. I think it may be more inclusive to depolarize the associations society places on the genders. When did you come to associate yourself with this identity?
RichardRoy2 9 months ago
@RichardRoy2 Sorry for the late answer. I concur that it would be best to decrease the strict associations society has with being male or being female. Many differences evaporate when they aren't enforced by social norms. So breaking open the genders would be most inclusive.
It is hard to concretely say since when I identified as pangender since it was a process finding who I was. I had been not comfortable with being called female long before I found out what "exactly" I am, starting around 14.
CaraDanaellea 9 months ago
@CaraDanaellea I can relate to the process of finding who you are. It's something I'd been working on for many years. I'm actually pleased with the thought that I'll never finish that self discovery process. Sometimes finding something about myself to challenge leads to new things to challenge. My problem with "sexuality" is that there doesn't seem to be a great deal of clarity on it, though it's a term that's thrown around with abandon.
RichardRoy2 9 months ago
@RichardRoy2 Perfection is stagnation, and there is nothing worse than not constantly moving forward. Challenging oneself is one of the joys of life, albeit not an easy one.
Sexuality, sex, gender etc. are really overused, I would rather abandon them altogether and just say we are all humans just with natural variation in body shapes. Personally I have very clear definitions for the terms but I'm afraid that these come from my research and not from the pooled cultural use.
CaraDanaellea 9 months ago