@UltraProle21 Yes, I consider myself smart. Not in terms of having the highest IQ in the world...though I've usually done well academically. I'm talking in terms of being open minded, wanting to be culturally aware, trying to look at things from a worldly point of view, seeking understanding, and wanting to discuss subjects that actually matter. . I doubt you would be able to tell how intelligent I am by looking at a 3 minute and 50 second video.
@UltraProle21 plus, all smart people aren't boring! Yes, I'm a goofball, I'm silly..and I don't have to use 800 letter words to prove I'm smart. I can relate to all people! There's no need for me to act like a snot.
@MySmile012 lol i'm just giving you shit. you kind of invited it by posting a video that implies you're smart.
in response to your video, most men do not want to spend their time talking about emotional issues, things about "the depths of someone's soul," for example. women tend to think that going on about their feelings constitutes an intelligent conversation, and that if a man doesn't listen, then he must not value intelligence in a woman. cont'd...
@UltraProle21 Well my boyfriend, in addition to all the other guys that I've talked to seem to think I was rather intelligent...and no, I'm not just talking about "my feelings"..although If a guy really cares about a woman, he will care about what she has to say and how she is feeling. Most guys I know don't give a f*ck about me knowing math! lol..but I know what you were trying to say...thank you for my first semi-negative comment on this video sir. lmao
@MySmile012 ok, then i would say most of us guys worth pursuing a relationship with do value this. being physically attractive will make us want to sleep with you, but for us to want more, then of course we need some substance. critical thinking skills are great, as we really don't like women that talk about things like e.g. tarot cards, astrology, pop psychology, and all that pseudo-science. being goofy is also great, but you really don't seem that goofy...kinda cute, but not that goofy...
@MySmile012 in reality, "smart" is not the trait to which we attribute this behavior. that's not to say that having personal conversations is always bad, but men would call a woman smart based on her having skill in solving complex problems such as, for example, if she had a degree in math. talking about your feelings rather than shoes and celebrities does not necessarily make you smart in the eyes of a man.
It depends on the guy- I guess a smart guy would want a smart girl for a start.. there's a lot of stupid rules men apply to women and women apply to men for no reason other than some idiot way back in time drawing them up- pretty doesn't necessarily mean easy in a girl and nice (i.e. in control of his junk) guys can just be nice, not necessarily gay! People follow dumb rules into shitty situations! Far too many of the girls I meet end up behaving like "Cosmopolitan" stereotypes in my experience.
I'm a guy and I like intelligent conversations and a perfect girl for me would be a girl on my level, but I have also dated women that are just way too loud and think they're all that...I want a girl that's more laid back you know?
I get a bad rap from others for preferring women of average intelligence. What are they saying to me, that women of average intelligence don't deserve love? Only smart women deserve love?? Your intelligence level is not a choice.
also depends on your STRATEGY.. like if you are working for a company and you are around smart guys in order for you to get one of those guys and talk to them you may have to talk about something intelligent but you have to know how to take to the next level in his way of thinking. You understand what i mean. Like a construction worker he would be easy. A doctor you may have to get medical on him and be interested in his line of work to get inside his head. ok but in end its about the SEX
i think it depends on the GUY!! truthfully. in these weird recession days men are probably looking for same thing you are. But in reality i think men seem to like NASTY women who can give bomb ass head in most cases. Thats all these songs are about giving them Georgia dome or licking them like lollypops. Seriously. i honestly think men dont care how smart you are. they want to see you naked and performance. They dont care. rEally. only GAY men like women and not into them sexually. think??
I can't speak for all guys, but I know that I would love to have a woman that knows proper ethics and morals. The intelligence counts too, but I'd like to know why so many women out there want the dumbest guys they can find. That's the biggest mystery to me. Plus, in most cases finding a black woman that can be considered "intelligent" seems to be a nearly impossible task. At least where I'm from. So, that goes to show that a lot men do like dumb women. Personally, I prefer a smart one.
Yes, men like intelligent women. Just not know it alls. I think the same would go for women.
And also you have to know not to jump into a convo with a person talking about deep issues. Theres a buffer of time and meaniningless banter between two ppl that has to go on before its comfortable to get into those deeper kinds of dialogues. Thats just how human interaction works.
All dudes are about gettin some, but the guys who are thinking are hoping theres more to that girl than just sex.
I mean, for the most part, men arent seeking to be in a relationship with one woman. It isnt their objective to be in a committed relationship; they're looking for fun in most cases, but if they happen to come across a woman who has all the qualities he's looking for, then he attempts to pursue this interesting individual. The woman he plans to bring home to mom is the one who he cares should have smarts or not. The rest of the chicken heads can be as dumb as rocks for all he cares.
Also, a lot of times ive noticed that when a woman is smart, typically, they cant play those retarded man games on her. See, some guys love to test a woman to see where her head is. He tries one thing and then if the idiot chick he's fooling with isnt very observant, he tries the next thing. It all add ups until he gets what he wants from her and so, in this case most often times, he doesnt want a smart woman. Why would he want that? It would ruin his chances of getting what he wants.
I think it depends on the man, but from what ive noticed, if shes attractive she gets a pass to be dumb and if shes not that attractive, shed better have a whole host of other qualities about her that may hold his interest for a white. I hear guys say that they want a combination of characteristics in a woman... go figure. Who knows? Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Depends on where they are in life as well. When they're young, oh, I think its pretty clear for the majority.
I can't speak for all men but I love intelligent women (smiles). Except Physch Majors haha. Baby girl you have a growing intellectual curiosity about the world and your envoirnment. You need to find a man who shares that curiosity. A physical alone relationship will fail. Conversation is VERY important in a long term relationship. You need to seek maturer men or ANY man who values intellect and a shared passion. People need to express themselves and converse to grow as a person should.
no the guys dont like smart woman because they already have that smartness . what they like and what they need is what they dont have . and you know what they dont have .
Most people I've met hate smart women. I think they just hate intelligence in general, though. It's made me hate stupid people, which, with someone as smart as me, in comparison is just about everybody. That's something I'm trying to get over--hating people for being stupid. It's super tough. I grew up going to a "gifted" school where the person who didn't know as much was made fun of, which is really not a mentality I want to continue. But I got lucky and found a nerd hubby who luvz me a nerd!
@OneDayWeAreFree lol i understand you! That used to get on my nerves too but I have become accepting of all different types of ppl..i believe that most ppl aren't stupid they just don't realize their potential...or they realize it and let it go to waste. I also realized i wasn't as smart as i thought i was lol.. & im glad u found ur nerd!!
Yes, but only if they are equally intelligent.
bilal3700 1 month ago
IQ of 110 at least
fieldsstevie 3 months ago
you realy beautyfull.just in case here is my email.udoka2000@yahoo.com am in europe though
jayudoka 3 months ago
lol are you an example of a smart woman? good lord, your sex has a very low standard when it comes to throwing around the term "smart."
UltraProle21 5 months ago
@UltraProle21 Yes, I consider myself smart. Not in terms of having the highest IQ in the world...though I've usually done well academically. I'm talking in terms of being open minded, wanting to be culturally aware, trying to look at things from a worldly point of view, seeking understanding, and wanting to discuss subjects that actually matter. . I doubt you would be able to tell how intelligent I am by looking at a 3 minute and 50 second video.
MySmile012 5 months ago
@UltraProle21 plus, all smart people aren't boring! Yes, I'm a goofball, I'm silly..and I don't have to use 800 letter words to prove I'm smart. I can relate to all people! There's no need for me to act like a snot.
MySmile012 5 months ago
@MySmile012 lol i'm just giving you shit. you kind of invited it by posting a video that implies you're smart.
in response to your video, most men do not want to spend their time talking about emotional issues, things about "the depths of someone's soul," for example. women tend to think that going on about their feelings constitutes an intelligent conversation, and that if a man doesn't listen, then he must not value intelligence in a woman. cont'd...
UltraProle21 5 months ago
@UltraProle21 Well my boyfriend, in addition to all the other guys that I've talked to seem to think I was rather intelligent...and no, I'm not just talking about "my feelings"..although If a guy really cares about a woman, he will care about what she has to say and how she is feeling. Most guys I know don't give a f*ck about me knowing math! lol..but I know what you were trying to say...thank you for my first semi-negative comment on this video sir. lmao
MySmile012 5 months ago
@UltraProle21 I guess I mean a "critical thinker" then..since you don't want to use the word smart lol!
MySmile012 5 months ago
@MySmile012 ok, then i would say most of us guys worth pursuing a relationship with do value this. being physically attractive will make us want to sleep with you, but for us to want more, then of course we need some substance. critical thinking skills are great, as we really don't like women that talk about things like e.g. tarot cards, astrology, pop psychology, and all that pseudo-science. being goofy is also great, but you really don't seem that goofy...kinda cute, but not that goofy...
UltraProle21 5 months ago
@MySmile012 in reality, "smart" is not the trait to which we attribute this behavior. that's not to say that having personal conversations is always bad, but men would call a woman smart based on her having skill in solving complex problems such as, for example, if she had a degree in math. talking about your feelings rather than shoes and celebrities does not necessarily make you smart in the eyes of a man.
UltraProle21 5 months ago
It depends on the guy- I guess a smart guy would want a smart girl for a start.. there's a lot of stupid rules men apply to women and women apply to men for no reason other than some idiot way back in time drawing them up- pretty doesn't necessarily mean easy in a girl and nice (i.e. in control of his junk) guys can just be nice, not necessarily gay! People follow dumb rules into shitty situations! Far too many of the girls I meet end up behaving like "Cosmopolitan" stereotypes in my experience.
GeneralHPBastardo 6 months ago
I'm a guy and I like intelligent conversations and a perfect girl for me would be a girl on my level, but I have also dated women that are just way too loud and think they're all that...I want a girl that's more laid back you know?
EricSchwin22 7 months ago
I get a bad rap from others for preferring women of average intelligence. What are they saying to me, that women of average intelligence don't deserve love? Only smart women deserve love?? Your intelligence level is not a choice.
FreeBlago1 7 months ago
they just want someone that'll kay em from time to time
l0serpants 9 months ago
also depends on your STRATEGY.. like if you are working for a company and you are around smart guys in order for you to get one of those guys and talk to them you may have to talk about something intelligent but you have to know how to take to the next level in his way of thinking. You understand what i mean. Like a construction worker he would be easy. A doctor you may have to get medical on him and be interested in his line of work to get inside his head. ok but in end its about the SEX
WonderWomanFan4life 9 months ago
i think it depends on the GUY!! truthfully. in these weird recession days men are probably looking for same thing you are. But in reality i think men seem to like NASTY women who can give bomb ass head in most cases. Thats all these songs are about giving them Georgia dome or licking them like lollypops. Seriously. i honestly think men dont care how smart you are. they want to see you naked and performance. They dont care. rEally. only GAY men like women and not into them sexually. think??
WonderWomanFan4life 9 months ago
I can't speak for all guys, but I know that I would love to have a woman that knows proper ethics and morals. The intelligence counts too, but I'd like to know why so many women out there want the dumbest guys they can find. That's the biggest mystery to me. Plus, in most cases finding a black woman that can be considered "intelligent" seems to be a nearly impossible task. At least where I'm from. So, that goes to show that a lot men do like dumb women. Personally, I prefer a smart one.
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jabailey7 11 months ago
Yes, men like intelligent women. Just not know it alls. I think the same would go for women.
And also you have to know not to jump into a convo with a person talking about deep issues. Theres a buffer of time and meaniningless banter between two ppl that has to go on before its comfortable to get into those deeper kinds of dialogues. Thats just how human interaction works.
All dudes are about gettin some, but the guys who are thinking are hoping theres more to that girl than just sex.
SLICENSLASH 1 year ago
I mean, for the most part, men arent seeking to be in a relationship with one woman. It isnt their objective to be in a committed relationship; they're looking for fun in most cases, but if they happen to come across a woman who has all the qualities he's looking for, then he attempts to pursue this interesting individual. The woman he plans to bring home to mom is the one who he cares should have smarts or not. The rest of the chicken heads can be as dumb as rocks for all he cares.
Liliworld627 1 year ago
Also, a lot of times ive noticed that when a woman is smart, typically, they cant play those retarded man games on her. See, some guys love to test a woman to see where her head is. He tries one thing and then if the idiot chick he's fooling with isnt very observant, he tries the next thing. It all add ups until he gets what he wants from her and so, in this case most often times, he doesnt want a smart woman. Why would he want that? It would ruin his chances of getting what he wants.
Liliworld627 1 year ago
I think it depends on the man, but from what ive noticed, if shes attractive she gets a pass to be dumb and if shes not that attractive, shed better have a whole host of other qualities about her that may hold his interest for a white. I hear guys say that they want a combination of characteristics in a woman... go figure. Who knows? Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Depends on where they are in life as well. When they're young, oh, I think its pretty clear for the majority.
Liliworld627 1 year ago
I can't speak for all men but I love intelligent women (smiles). Except Physch Majors haha. Baby girl you have a growing intellectual curiosity about the world and your envoirnment. You need to find a man who shares that curiosity. A physical alone relationship will fail. Conversation is VERY important in a long term relationship. You need to seek maturer men or ANY man who values intellect and a shared passion. People need to express themselves and converse to grow as a person should.
MichaelPAUSA 1 year ago
@MichaelPAUSA thanks i agree with everything u said
MySmile012 1 year ago
let me answer your question .
no the guys dont like smart woman because they already have that smartness . what they like and what they need is what they dont have . and you know what they dont have .
smart woman ?? hahaha
m98m99 1 year ago
@m98m99 smh! lol
MySmile012 1 year ago
Most people I've met hate smart women. I think they just hate intelligence in general, though. It's made me hate stupid people, which, with someone as smart as me, in comparison is just about everybody. That's something I'm trying to get over--hating people for being stupid. It's super tough. I grew up going to a "gifted" school where the person who didn't know as much was made fun of, which is really not a mentality I want to continue. But I got lucky and found a nerd hubby who luvz me a nerd!
OneDayWeAreFree 1 year ago
@OneDayWeAreFree lol i understand you! That used to get on my nerves too but I have become accepting of all different types of ppl..i believe that most ppl aren't stupid they just don't realize their potential...or they realize it and let it go to waste. I also realized i wasn't as smart as i thought i was lol.. & im glad u found ur nerd!!
MySmile012 1 year ago
I love smart women! A women who is dumb as a doorknob is a turnoff.
smooth3d 1 year ago
@smooth3d agreed..they don't always have to be the smartest either..but just be willing to learn new things.
MySmile012 1 year ago
@smooth3d
thats you.. some men like stupid ass women of whom they can control and dictate.
WonderWomanFan4life 9 months ago
I Care!!! lol I dont like stupid people, so i know like hell if my girl gon be a dummy LOL
RizzyRapz 1 year ago
@RizzyRapz lol!! i knoww this rizz!
MySmile012 1 year ago
yes!!!!...we just don't like controlling women, just like you don't want a controlling man.
Chicago1SilkyBaby 1 year ago
@Chicago1SilkyBaby fair enough!!! lol. I'm glad you all do appreciate that quality in a woman.
MySmile012 1 year ago