Sex in Japan: Westerners, Women & The Way Of Bushido

[lalitadityamuktapida]

Are there no japanese men who are charming or have raw sexuality that is attractive to women?

[blackpassenger]

@lalitadityamuktapida I'm sure there are.

[lalitadityamuktapida]

@blackpassenger Have you met any?

[blackpassenger]

@lalitadityamuktapida any what?



[blackpassenger]

@lalitadityamuktapida I'm sure i have

[lalitadityamuktapida]

@blackpassenger the way you say "I'm sure I have", leads me to believe that you might have met such men but you did not know it at that time or even now. What you're saying is that you have met some many japanese men, that statistically atleast a couple have to be "The Man". But if I asked you to introduce me to one Japanese man who is charming or has that raw magnetism, would you be able to do it?

[blackpassenger]

@lalitadityamuktapida i know at least one, my very good friend shigehiro in wakayama. but keep in mind the herbivore male phenomenon thats present in japan at the moment. if you're not familiar with it, just google "herbivore men in Japan."

[lalitadityamuktapida]

@blackpassenger This whole herbovore men phenomenon is Silly. I think Shigehiro should start teaching his brothers in Japan on how to be men again.

[kelveto]

Hello Stef,

Have you dated ladies whose parents are divorced? What are your personal observations about such girls' development? Is it true they're attracted to older guys? Have you dated japanese girls from such backgrounds where their parents were divorced when they were 12 or 13 years old? Also, is true that a respected older japanese male colleague can be a substitute father to represent such a girl's hand in marriage? Is this a common japanese way for girls whose parents are divorced?

[blackpassenger]

@kelveto girls in japan from divorced parents, are usually more sexually available, i found. as to a substitute father in marriage, can't answer that question

[blackpassenger]

@kelveto dude, i don't take it like that, you're not sucking up to me. Im just honored that people are interested in my work as passionately as I was when i wrote it. yes, i do acknowledge that I possess advance social observation skills, thats why i will be doing a masters in social psychology after my master at sophia in tokyo. growing up in a very restricted cult, on a church commune, i wasnt allowed to go outside and interact with others, so developed voyeuristic behavior and keen

[kelveto]

@blackpassenger What are you currently interested in reading at Sophia? Cheers!

[blackpassenger]

@kelveto doing a masters in japanese studies.

[blackpassenger]

@kelveto observation skills since I was a child. As to your question about infantilism here in japan, I'm simply saying japan is a low eq society. its like a society of children. adults here are like 8 year olds in the west. even mcarthur said it 60 years ago, and its still true today.

[wingwaabuddha]

@blackpassenger what? what are you saying

[kelveto]

What do you mean by social infantilism in paragraph 3 of p 228? What are you really saying about the general collective behaviour there? You made this obervation and it is true. My female japanese friends studying at TUFS, Tokyo also observed this and relate this to me. I'm actually surprise and am glad at your insights. Please give me a private reply. I like to hear your thoughts on this. The main reason is that you're very spot on. You bring to the analysis such breathtaking honesty. Thank U!

[kelveto]

Hi! I bought your book. What do you mean by pg 228, 3rd paragraph by those in power being pedomorphic? You trying to comment something about their development? What do you mean, Stef? Thank you. I love your book.

[blackpassenger]

@kelveto pedo means child. its the same ped as in pediatrics, pedophile and morph means condition, state. i.e., metamorphosis

[kelveto]

@kelveto

Stef, I'd put in a review on Amazon about what I thought. I have another question. You mentioned the society suffers from social infantilsm. What do you mean about the collective behaviour of that society? The thing is I used to work there for a year and what you are commenting about is also spoken of by my female japanese friends who studied foreign studies at TUFS in Tokyo. I'm trying to understand paragraph 3, p228 better.

[kelveto]

Stephen, I bought your book and it's very enlgihtening. Man, how could I get in touch with you? Thank you for doing what you do. I hope you'd like candidly again and also on Japan.

[blackpassenger]

@kelveto thanks for purchasing my book. an honest review on amazon would be greatly appreciated. you can repost the same review on amazon UK and canada. Amazon Japan too, but you can't read japanese, so just Amazon US, UK and canada will be fine. I'm glad you enjoyed it. hit me on Facebook if you can.

[fionamcampbell]

i m sorry that japanese guys suck...I feel sad for japanese women who get the short (end of the) stick!! lol

[erdnola]

ay stephen i have watch those porn videos, i have seen a lot of squirting. What do japanese men not watch em or somethin?

[skjskj3]

may you sinners rot in hell by the wrath of allah.

[QuarterCrawl]

I luv asian women!..................

[tony1985ize]

@QuarterCrawl yeah me too

[KingArthur13th]

I'm shocked at the fact that this guy is 46!!

[blackpassenger]

@KingArthur13th 47 in four months. the sex fest in japan will keep you young

[klined]

I've been to japan several times while in the military, and last year purely as a tourist. I'm tempted to buy a second home in Tokyo. The sad thing is(or great thing), is that japan is a lot less fun than some other asian countries, which says a lot.

[stargaze007]

i loved this interview , i am a black man from america , and i love asian women this interview have answerd so many questions that i have had for so long , i cant wait ti go to japan .

[Beans661]

@xtremixt1 white women are generally unattractive. To each his own, isn't it?... Don't be quick to assume everyone loves white women or Asian women or Latin women etc...

[RougeRefuge]

Western men love to focus their hatred on Japanese men to feed their own egos. Denigrating Japanese men deflects any accusations of having shortcomings. I've seen so many of these losers nurse their western savior superiority complexes to the point that they don't recognize the weakness inherent in their paternalistic quest to liberate Japanese women. EVERY culture maintains some level of gender inequality and suppression. And let's be honest, these guys come to Japan to live like Japanese men.

[blackpassenger]

@RougeRefuge Dont know if YOU hate Japanese men, but I certainly don't.

[theabomation]

i dont think anyone will disagree with you on EVERY culture maintains some level of gender inequality and suppression but i am confused on the whole western men love to focus their hatred on Japanese men wtf Japanese culture is so huge in America @RougeRefuge 

[blackpassenger]

@theabomation i think you're confused indeed, as i did not imply any hate for japanese or any other men. i implied no hate for anyone. so what exactly is your point?

[blackpassenger]

Im 46 now, when that video was shot I was 43. But thanks for watching. Please write me an honest review on amazon when you get done reading the book.

[cuzcatlanochenta]

man!is this guy 46 years old?! he looks 26-27

[markanthonyabel]

enlightened, period x

m-a

[thesoulofjapan]

dame dame gaijin! honto ni dame!

[acdnan]

@thesoulofjapan come on dude gajin is a bad word. you should not be using that.

[blackpassenger]

@thesoulofjapan Tony Alexander, still hating I see. Youve been at it ever since i posted the first sections on myspace back 2007. Hating on me in public, but in private praising me and telling me you could live my life in Japan. The more you hate, Tony Alexander, the more progress I make. thank you.

[blackpassenger]

Brollicon, thanks man. Thats why I wrote this book: to enlighten people.

[brollicon]

after reading this mans book i finally understand the heart of the japanese people and why they have a big anime culture. i recommend reading his book for any socialist out their to truly understand the japanese culture but to also realize your own attractiveness to their society