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  • Such an emotional track.. this needs to be heard more only 150 k views

  • Big Lou is the truth. He is the spanish Frank White.

  • IM FEELING THE HOOK FROM WENDY...LET HER KNOW I HIT HER UP ON HER PAGE....

  • OH SNAP!!! THAT IS KAY SLAY....I THOUGHT THAT WAS HIM...

  • This song changed my life <3 thank you <3

  • damn. I cried.

  • B i think this should be displayed on the news, and more... its really down to the core, and it shows the truth, what happens when people are idiots... :/ I would say confront people like that, but theres always holding people back.. this though, opens a whole new emotion of sadness and anger and i dont even know how those people who do that can even hit a woman or a man.. SICK SICK PEOPLE.

  • Simpley stright up and wonderful. 

  • I didn't know Kay Slay was a woman abuser. RESPECT LOSS

    lol

  • so beautiful!!! <3

  • This song made me cry :'(

  • THIS IS FUCKEN AMAZING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • A man who hits a women aint a Fucking man!!

  • sad and y would ppl do this i mean ik y n all but thats messed up!

  • watch?v=wh8JOQL1Ga0 That's another video by Big Lou. It's not spam, you can go to my page to see that I made it.

  • 11 people are the abusers and have abused their partner.

  • @emogirl78 Not amusing.

  • @muffthegreater huh?o..o it might be true! maybe your one!

  • @emogirl78 It's not something to be taken so lightly, though. D:

  • I always find myself coming back to this song after a friend introduced it to me...he has skills. A good,but sad song.

  • this video makes me cry every time I watch it... I love how your music is about real stuff and not how many cars you have or how much money... I wish the best for you!

  • maybe we should hit those guys see how they like it

  • Lou when I saw this video I cried so much it's not even funny. I once helped a woman who was raped, this song hurt me so much because I was not in time to save her. At least I got to beat the tar out of the guy involved.

  • wooow i feel this rlly deep i got fkt up an sad and very emotionel of this i dont want too listen this but its soo good and real that i keep play this music evry time like an addiction damn true words bless big lou

  • Damn Kay Slay. You always get the good ones.

  • want more like this any suggestions ?

  • This is a bad ass song, I was with someone who abused me day in and day out and thought that I was always the problem. Some people don't know how real it is until they go through it. I had to get beatin so bad I was hospitalized before I opened my eyes. I just thank God I opened my eyes before he killed me.

  • this nigga is talented real talk...

  • good song.

  • BIG LOU IS A TRUE LYRICIST.....I SUPPORT HIM 100 %

  • this matt reeves raped and beat the fuck out of my ex girlfriend.

    that guy can't walk anymore

    teach some psychopaths some motherfuckin remourse and emotions for what they did.

  • Damn.

  • baiser pourquoi mecs sentent le besoin de battre sur les femmes qu'elles "amour"

  • hey three21media u could be nice and put big lou's name in the title

  • Amazing song.

  • thank u for this video, domestic violence is a serious thing.love is not abuse

  • once an og from the block was hittin his wife then she ran out side then every body started kickin his ass-REST IN PISS "EL 7" AND FREE .:FLAKO:.

  • Justin Beiber

  • @whitecanvashoe i hope u die

  • @biggstaffesc123 well thats nice. in that case i hope you get smacked around by an abusive husband.

  • Thankyou for such powerful music.. I was lucky enough to get out in time with my babies.. .. We are safe & happy now, & to remember..  I had no family, i went to a refuge- we now have a house ,a good life.. - with much love, strength and peace!

  • This song has me all shooken up. Damn great song.

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  • luv the song te word realy hit home with me

  • I'm not the nicest guy out there, my mother raised me and i have an overwhelming respect for women rights. I’m not the toughest but I’ve been through fucked up situations, seen fucked up things, i try to move pass what i was and what i've done, every time I hear this song it hits me, I think, I get chills from the back of my head down my neck and hold back tears, this pierces my heart, it makes me think of all the girls in my life what they've been through, there struggle and the ones i lost.

  • This Dude Deep/

  • dam this song makes me wana kill my dad for the shit hes done an put me an moms thro :/

  • true struggles of life well said

  • I usually only hit women to insert my dominance as alpha male of the pride... but I make sure the kids are watching so they know... Bitches are like your enemies they'll respect you once you hit them... and yes violence does solve problems... 

  • @TheBestTroller Your name says it all.

  • @TheBestTroller

    i guess thats another way of lookin at it.i guess i get these thoughts sometime but still negative energy doesnt solve your problems.positive energy is way more powerfull.

    the alpha male doesnt need to use violence to assert his superiority.thats a fucked up concept.

  • man buy a gun and implant one in the head and two in the chest

  • damn this shit is deep as fuck ive never heard a song this deep before other than Immortal Technique...other than that shit this is one of the deepest songs i have ever heard i love this track

  • Holy shit.... this is so fucking intense. I'm glad there are rappers out there with respect for women.

  • This song touches my soul

  • This is deep shit.

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  • @RockRussian u a stupid ass nigga! pac was the realest! this dude is ill but nigga he aint no pac.

  • I'm not the nicest guy out there, my mother raised me and i have an overwhelming respect for women rights, and good women. I’m not the toughest but I’ve been through fucked up situations, seen fucked up things, and I have too keep my mind occupied, to not bring my self back to them, every time I hear this song it hits, me I think, I get chills from the back of my head down my neck and hold back tears, this pierces my heart, it makes me think of the love of my life and how much she means to me.

  • @RockRussian

    I think you need to learn the difference between hip hop and rap sonny.

  • speachless

  • big lou is tryin 2 b da next 2pac

    cuz 2pac did a song positive 4 da females its called (keep your head up)

    now big lou is

    btw: he did say 2pac influenced him 2 do music

  • Hittin woman isnt even an option for man... Sad as...

  • anyone NEED the lyrics? Because i have em :]. Not in a video though lol. takin to long to process T_T.

  • @Babyphattrick101 Nevermind i'm lyin T_t haha the video is finally up now.

  • Good song. I've gone through it, and I got out for my son. Thankfully, we are both safe now.

  • shit makes me want to c walk over to my shortys crib and put a hurtin on that bitch yeeeeah

  • id hit the people who r singing this crappy song

  • @TheSparkle7 stfu if u dnt like real muzik den go listen 2 dat junky u listen 2 like justin beiber n lil wayne

    fukin geek

  • @EcMd856 you just leave justin beiber alone hes better than elvis the beatles and michael jackson put together

  • @TheSparkle7 Please don't compare a fucking 15 year old to 3 of the most iconic artists/groups in the world, ESPECIALLY the Beatles. You don't get your song lyrics written in stone at various places across the world (The Beatles- Imagine) for nothing.

  • @Drunkwraith you actually thought i was serious hahahahahahahaha

  • @TheSparkle7 Dude I've argued over the same thing with plenty of people that are far beyond the bounds of stupidity. It's better to be corrected than to argue with a 12 year old girl tho lol.

  • @Drunkwraith wot the fuck r u talking about corrected by 12yr old? i was fucking joking about wot i said now fuck off retard

  • @TheSparkle7 Are you serious. Reread my last comment you fucking moron, it wasn't an insult. You're reading comprehension skills are worse than a 2nd graders. You just made the little hope I had for humanity drop DRAMATICALLY. You calling me a retard made you look that much dumber to me and everyone that reads this astonishingly stupid BS.

  • @TheSparkle7

    there all talented in there own way.truly i dont have an idea what justin beiber sings cause i never listened to him before, and i dont care to listen to him because i doubt he has any positive messages in his songs.either way people shouldnt look up to either of these icons .make your own fuckin mind not what some one else pumps you up for on a song thats made to make you do things your normally wouldnt do.like most rap garbage,you know degrading women,violence, and all sorts....

  • Serious respect to all the women who put up with shit like this.

  • dammm .... this goes hard .... my girl send the link not knowing what i was gonna watch .....

    all da damm memories coming back ... some deep shit

  • Damn this gave me the chills. I remember when my dad blackened my moms eyes and stabbed her for the foodstamps they sent us. My mom lived and out lived him by 30 years. he died alone, stroked twice and with a diaper full of shit. lol

  • @Zalevspider i wish my dad wud die like that :/ i love ur mum for her bravery and u keep strong and dont let that piece of shit get on top of u man mine keeps trying to talk to me i wish he wud just leave me alone

  • @YUNGDMONEYXL

    its a shame nikkasz like yu are in dhis world.! anyways thanks for the song.! hopefully the message ghet out there.! i went threw 2years of getting beat down. i was pregnant with hes twins and one day he got mad because the bed wasnt made how he liked it he beat me i told him you going to kill our babies he aint care that was the first time i stood up and beat him down. i lost my twins because he kicked me 4 time in the stomach. Ladies there is help out there.

  • no!!!! you are a fucking whore!!!! you are a fucking messed up fucking whore!!!! you dont fucking hit someone because they did something you fucking dont like!!!!! you fucking douche you need to be fucking put behind fuckiung bars befor you fucking kill her you fucking bitch. i hope you fucking die a fucking painful death that humilaites you!!!! like your penis being cut off and bleeding to death you fucking giggalo!!!!!!!! FUCK YOU!!!!

  • your a fuckin coward, real niggas in the hood kno not to hit a women, you gon get stomped out one day nd kidnapped

  • Nigga you trollin haha!

  • Lou wattup...keep doin ya thing big homie. Jersey wattup???

  • damn yo my bitch is always playin this after i take her on walks

  • shes not your bitch shes a real person

  • Real music

  • LOL.....Funny shit

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  • Lol, you need to relax.

  • haha ok :) sorry i get real offencive to this stuff cuz ive just known people that have gone thorugh this :) so i just flip when it comes to this kind of stuff

  • @ryan3169 i hope u r jk

  • Lmao, that was my brother on my account....

  • ohh my god your so funny but if thats true man go to church man stop

  • No I don't It was my brother. I am only 19 I don't have a wife. lol

  • LMAO! thats jacked upp..

  • no its not! this happens every day! and people are messed up enough to do this and even kill people that they are supost to love!!!!

  • its jacked up that the guy said "i beat my wife to this song"! and yeah i know it happens :/ im barely 15 but ive seen this stuff.. and they "love" each other.. ?? =/

  • Lol, did you guys not read the comment where I said it was my brother on my account.?

  • yeah homie! i read it. dont trip.. im just messing around! LMAO! your bro is fucken funny though! hahaha. that comment made me crack up even though it would be kinda fucked up if it was true!

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  • Read the other comments, It wasn't me it was my brother. He isn't married, neither am I...relax...

  • uhhhhh i did and if you cant tell i do get deffensive pretty quickly ehehe -.-' i wasnt even paying attention oppsie poosie

  • Yea, I feel you my mom was in an abusive marriage for 12 years...I have no idea why my brother said it...Probably trying to get 12 messages in my inbox calling me an asshole, needless to say he succeeded lol

  • yea haha. friends?

  • who is the sample from this shit is so hot

  • dis song is def hot and mha gurl Wendy on dis track...love it

  • does anyone have the lyrics to this?

  • just write it down lazy bones

  • this is music, true music, not just some stupid person rappin about how much they got or how much have, its about the real issues in life and you sir, deserve a medal for that

    PEACE.

  • nigga u is a fuckin beast

  • omg this made me cry so much

  • Thank you!  I'm one of those abused people, unfortuneatly mine was my dad, his friends, and other guys in ym neighborhood when i was young. The abuse lasted for 18 years, i'm 23 now nad i'm fianlyl getting past it, when is this comin out and where can i get lyrics

  • yo i feel it for u man ..... shit like this is way to harsh

    wateva doesnt kill u can only make u stronger so

    try stay positive and move on ......

    hope u have a long ful filling life

  • i cant stop listen to this song ether its like omg am i goin to go throw that :(

  • I cant stop listning to this song

  • Very good song :(

  • please feel free to check out my promo music vid that highlights domestic violence...its called "if you allow him" Im a rapper. thank you for your time ;-)

  • this is horrible. !

  • Anyone know where to find the lyrics for this?

  • when can we get cd this shit is on smash also check out she's just sixteen

  • Vagina Muffin

  • I hope this song gets some support. It is put together very well and the message needs to be out there cause there are a lot of women dealing with this. It seems that we are quick to feed the poison of the abuse of women. Not only physically but mentally as well. Hip-hop use to be about sharing a message now all we do is party and b.s. Women are treated as the focus of success like some trophy. I am not perfect but I try. I know better.

  • big lou is one of the realest niggas ever

  • This song reminds me of so many woman that go through this on a daily basis. They are in my prayers. I hope I never go through that.

  • I grew up getting beat until I was 16 yrs old. I watched my mother beaten almost to death as well. He was insane and would have killed her if she had left or so he made her believe. Please reach out if you are being abused. You don't deserve like they say, it is not your fault that they get angry. Seek professional help to get away and then get help for yourself and your children if you have them. You will all need help undoing the damage that has been done to you. I will be praying 4 all of u.

  • i'm Posting my Video as a Response. This Song Made me Realize That i'm Not alone, and i Could Possibly Help Those Who Went Thru the Same Things i Did. Thanks for Posting This Video. it Gave me the Courage to Tell my Story..

    x0x,

    ~Nichole

  • pain

  • is there anywhere at all where i can download this tune?

  • amazing story but i didnt even really enjoy the beat or anything that much =/

  • Brilliant

  • i hate songs like this. They make me think about all the bitch niggas and worthless motherfuckers infesting the world.

  • lou u just made a #1 fan!! do your thing the real ones left are feeling you

  • My Friend is going threw this ... but she wont leave ... im so scared for her, hes so controling and possesive and she knows it but he has a hold over her i dont know what to do .. she knoes i care and im trying to help .. and she goes to leave but everytime he hits her or treats her like shit she just goes crawling back.... i wish i didnt care so much its kills me seeing her get hurt and abused .... this song gave me goose bumps

  • i don't know if you mind me giving you some advice...please keep asking/begging your friend to leave! even if she gets mad at you just keep at it. it will only get worse and the only way it will end is if she gets help or if she gets hurt enough for the emergency room or worse! please keep at your friend!

  • No thank you for the advice ... i am still trying im never gonna give up .. i lost the relationship between me and my sister becausae of some guy who treated her like shit ... he made her push away all her friends and her family ... i always stuck by her but she betrayed me ... it hurt that she would choose a guy over me ... its not the same anymore between me and her .. i i dnt want that to happen to me and my friend.... shes moving in with me on monday soo yay ... im on the right track ... :)

  • no problem, but with your sister, abuse is mental as well, don't upset about her "picking the guy" because in her mind he made her think that that was the only choice. mentally he has control of her and she will continue to be broken down until she can escape

  • im upset about the other stuff its a long story, he has a hold over her, he still does hes in jail (no surprise) and she still goes and sees him everyday,he tells her all this bullshit, shes still getting mentally abused by it and i cnt not care shes my sister,what hurts me more is she puts her daughter threw it whos 3 YO idno how it effected her :( he tried hitting her once and my sis still stuck around even though he threatened her daughter .. i dnt know what happend to her thank you anyway :)

  • break his arms at every joint and see if he keeps it up

  • LOL good idea .. ill give you his address and you can do it if you like lol id like to do alot more then that though lol

  • my grant grandpa killed my great grandma she had 6kids and she was only 36 all them had 2 go stay wit they aunts and they all beat them badly

    and sometimes put they hands on a hot stove my grandma's sis had it real bad

    on one day they made her go 2 a store at 12am and she got gang raped they dad only did 6mos in jail cuz he was a phrear my family has been tho alot :(

  • DAMN... Man, Reading this shit kind of gave me chills. Maybe it's the beat and the woman's vocals. My daddy beat on my momz, so I feel ya. At the age of 6, I was already contemplating a life in jail. All I could think was better me in jail, then my mother living in hell. I was plan on killing my dad, but thank God she took me and left him. I feel what you say like the fist stricken the door. A lot of us come from broken & war torn home like 2pac, we all R looking 4 that place called "Happy Home"

  • yah right now i liv wit my mom and

    my dad he lives wit his girlfriend (his going 2 be wife) and her son they do things 2gater as a family he NEVER calls me inless i call him my mom does EVERYTHING 4 ME he does NOTHING at all my grandma died and its been REALLY hard 4 me and my family cuz she was the1 who kep us all 2gater i sometimes cryed 2 myself cuz i cant cry 2 none else i used 2 cry on 2pac song smile 4 me now i still do

  • My dad was abusive towards my mother and controlling towards my sister and I. It ruined my life, although my parents are now separated, we have suffered a huge range of problems, from multiple-personality disorder (me), ADD (my sister), depression (everyone), to PTSD (my mom), and more. My sister and I have overcome much of our problems with therapy and friends, but my mom is still suffering from near-incapatating levels of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. We can't live normally. STOP THE ABUSE.

  • @kirakirakirimi i feel so sorry for u

  • To all of the women out there that have been through abusive relationships: For the love of God, please get away from him/her!! You are too precious to become just another statistic! If you don't believe me, ask your mother what would happen if you weren't around anymore? Ask your father, or your sister, or your brother... Ask anyone; it doesn't matter who. But you are more precious to all of them than you ever were to him.

    He never loved you; he only wanted to break you.

  • dude is just versitile .. he give it to u deep n straight raw

  • A relationship is what you make it, so it is important to spend your time wisely. You can spend your time ripping it apart, or spend your time building it up. A warm home is what you make it.

  • This kids gives me chills!!

  • hey its the crack head

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  • nice lyrics

    we need more rappers like this

  • amazing I love the lyrics

  • omg this clip is so truthful make me cry to hear about abuse ... iv been through this and i got help ... man STOP THE ABUSE

  • This song is very true i agree, it made me cry to reminded me of my past with my ex.

  • this song is sooo DEEP! yet the message is clear men please STOP IT!

  • this song made me cry too.

  • men hit women cuz they know other men will beat their asses.

  • Fool Shut Up And Speak For Yourself....You Bum, Ha....

  • a question for those niggas who bully their wives...if you love her why do you hit her?

  • i love this song this is a real song my sister had to deal with abuse..and this really hits home with me

  • Males who hit women should die.

  • fuck that if a bitch hit me bitch getting knocked out if you hit an inoocent woman yea thats bad but some bitches deserve it

  • icablock,,,yeah I understand you. You're so weak that you can't take a woman hitting you. Little pussies hit women, end of story. Maybe you'll change your mind once you become a man instead of the boy you are. Men don't hit women, only little boys who haven't been taught self respect. I feel sorry for you having to go through life as a pathetic piece of shit.

  • icablock - you don't make any sense.

  • my twin borther fucked me up with a steak knife when we were 15, males can be victims too

  • strong song

  • yes thts very true

  • good song tht is

  • this is the most beautiful song I have ever heard. this gives hip-hop a new outlook. I love it.

  • This Has Very Good Meaning. You (Three21Media) seem to upload music with good meaning, truth and more.

    But back to the video, it's unfortunate that women have to endure so much. It's so screwed up. I would never stand around and watch a woman be abused. It's so wrong.