i agree with you.men shoukdnt look at other women just like women shouldnt look at other men when they re in a long turm relationship or married its disrespectful
@BaldButWigged Yeah I feel what you're saying. I don't think you should be staring at some other ladies tits and commenting while your wife is in front of you but if you just take a glance it shouldn't be a big deal
Bitch, you're insecure!!! Bottom line... God has given ppl eyes to LOOK. that;s what they're for. Just because a man looks at a woman doesn't make it inappropriate. I hate females who thinks that guys are checking them out just because he happens to look at her. I don't see why women say it's different when a female looks at a guy. Another girl gone astray in her own fantasy land!
What makes anyone here think that because a man looks at attractive women he doesn't love his wife? Thats bullcrap because women look at men all the time, like when you agree with your homegirls that guy X is very sexy. Just because you get married doesn't mean God shields your eyes or makes every other women in the worl ugly compared to your wife. It's childish to think so. It's only a problem when you fantasize about or go after the sexy woman your looking at. WOMEN LOOK ALL THE TIME!!!
Love does'nt make every other women in the world unattractive. It's only bad when you fantasize about her or go after her. Women look at men all the time but it's only a problem when men do it. Everyone looks you just can't be disrespectful and stare while your with your wife. Until God makes other women ugly compared to your wife, then men are gonna look. Love doesn't shield your eyes it keeps you from ever going after what your looking at. Have a great day!
Learn the usage of the word "are." I'm not trying to be mean and do think you are an intelligent person, but you don't sound it when you butcher the English language like that. Also, consider the use of "they're" over "they."
I don't think its cool for a man to look at other women like that either. My thing is you have 3.5 seconds to look and after that its inappropriate because that look is lasting entirely too long. You look acknowledge her beauty and keep it moving. If you are with me I should be getting the stares and being told I look nice that day to let me know you still find me attractive. I don't know it could be a female thing but I know I don't look at other men like that when I'm seeing someone.
Learn the usage of the word "are." I'm not trying to be mean and do think you are an intelligent person, but you don't sound it when you butcher the English language like that. Also, consider the use of "they're" over "they."
If you are with a girl you should keep your eyes in your head where they belong. If you have wandering eyes you obviously don't love her very much and you should move around. And the porno crap if stupid, stupid. There are real women out there with brains who can get naked just as quick. Seriously.
NICE YAWN!!! BUT... I feel you on the whole topic. I'm married but I will never disrespect my wife nor myself to stoop that low to pursue after anything my eyes lay on. I love my wife too much and there is non other on this planet my goods wanna' smash wit'. WORD UP!!!
i think its ok for anyone to look, its natural. However, if that person has issues with self control and doesnt appreciate the relationship they're in, then theyre a waste of space.
Okay, so I'm late, but I feel the same way. It's totally unacceptable. Just reading the comments, I see ppl saying women do it too. If a woman is doing it, she's no better than a man doing it. Disrespect is disrespect.
The difference is blatantly showing interest in another woman. It's just wrong. And there's nothing funny about it. Entertainment? Hmmmph. If my husband were an actor and got a check for looking at women that would be different! Great vid!
Is it just me or is this not fair? Why is it ok for him to do this to me??? But even the thought of me doing that to him would piss him the HELL off?!?!?!
[pt 1] it's NOT and NEVER a good thing for this to happen. you should know it yourself. you're in a win-lose type relationship. he can do whatever he wants, while you suffer on the sidelines. best advice: get out while you still can. seems like he's a bit controlling though. smh. dudes like to be in control and the ones who are more superior. some feel like women need to be at home cooking, cleaning and taking care of the babies.
[pt 2] that's a little old fashioned. either you can speak your piece and have him get all defensive. he'll act like a bissh, but he thinks he's THE MAN. he'll call you names or even get physical with it. OR..you can get up and walk out for good. women don't need to be mistreated in any way, form or fashion. do you ms lady. :)
so basically there is no hope for me? I don't have a big ass, I don't have big tits, I had a kid so my stomach is not the tightest it could be....so my man will just forever watch hoes on the internet shaking their shit around??? If he saw me do something like that...I swear on the HOLY BIBLE he would literally beat the shit out of me. He would call me a punk slut, a hoe....you name it....but if I even ask him why (not even mad...just ask him....) he again....will beat the shit out of me.
i'm assuming your a chick, so there is hope. just beat dude's azz into submission. naw i'm playing. but um..he knew what you were before the kid, and he knows what you are after. he should love you and only you, and not some other triflin chicks. if he doesn't, kick him to the curb. seems like he's got you wrapped around his finger. change your situation.
It's like you said. It's in our genes. It's a hard concept for women to grasp. A man being polygamist. Men will naturally never be monogamous unless they are forced.
Women are more into the mental instead of the physical, so that's why you probally don't think about other men. Women to us are like candy. You don't just want one flavor. Even if you had the best ass and titty's in the world, we are still going to check out other women.
You have to look past that as do we. It's just a fact.
One problem that is quite obvious is the lack of communication. I find that if I'm really diggin' a GAL (WOMEN for short I just like teasing my NIGERIAN cousin) then I wont even think of looking in any other FEMALES direction. It's just the boredom and cyclical event's that create the problem. I have been guilty of this but, DO YOU THINK IT COULD BE SOMETHING THE WOMEN IS NOT DOING AS WELL? OR IS IT GOING TO FOREVER BE ON THE BLAME OF MEN?
i don't women should go on forever blaming men, but i do agree with you when you say it's a lack of communication. something might result in what a woman might not be doing for her man, but of course i'll always challenge that. however, it just might be true.
Well just consider all thing's...All men haev similar characteristic's as women do but, we all are not alike. I'm glad you can think with a clear and open mind.
Anyhow, MEN look because that is just what were are doing...LOOKING. If I see a GAL walk up the street in a T SHIRT WITH NO PAMTIES ON what do you expect?!!?!?!
I MEAN! I MEAN!
All Jokes aside...I cant speak for all MEN but, I look because of the IDEA of WOMEN is just as big a FANTASY. Wondering is what the challenge is. I find myslef looking at other women if I am lacking the desire or excitement from the present position.
Believe me. Im not gay but I didnt auto look at a girl when I was married. Infact, I intentionally put my head down when I would have accidentally caught the attention of a hottie when just walking. Its all about training yourself and think, "would you want your wife to make eye contact or ck out some fella," when your around...or better yet...when your not around. Theres a reason why there is a Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have done unto you. Live it n it will be karma'd back!
it depends on the person, not all men are the same. some men look but thats all it is...something that caught your eye. end of the day, theyre going to be with you nomatter what. others just cant rezist trying to pick up another chic. when i was with mine, i LOOKED at other females all the time but end of the day, mine knew where my head was at. u just have to have that understanding between the two of you. its different for every relationship. later shaneice :)
Men look at other women, basically when the woman catches their eye! It has a lot to do with the womans attractive bits, bum, breasts etc. the more come on and get me the woman looks the more looks! Remember beauty is to be seen! but there's a Look! and there's a LOOOOOK! lol
this married guy i work with, he likes me a lot but yesterday i noticed he was a lot more interested than usual, just one of those moods both men and women can get into. at the end of the day, it comes from control. men are able to control themselves, just like women. its just that many don't have the moral character to do it. i met a religious man once. he was married and he was sexually attracted to me. but i saw him shut down his lust out of respect for his wife and it stopped. that is a MAN.
hey girlie, luv ya vids, and i understand where you comin from w/ the whole talkin about other females thing ALL THE TIME (that shit aint kool) nah mean, but you gotta understand whether you a dude or not, its human nature to find other people attractive. just cuz you in a relationship don't mean that that person is the ONLY person you find attractive. as long as you don't take it to an inappropriate level, it shouldn't matter if they comin home to you :)
human nature. i see. of-course i'll be hung up on the whole thing of why he looks. i mean.he shouldn't, but it's human/animalistic nature. i got it! thanks for watching.
Stop being so insecure, of course we are going to look, some of us even flirt with that pretty thing at the job! As long as we take it no further, it's just a ego thing we only make the full move if there's no happiness between us.
all men are gonna look no matter how much we would like them to stop
i dont mind mine lookin as long as that is all that he is doin with her cause i know i am not dead and if a good lookin man walks by my head is gonna turn
and who ever you are talkin about cause i have no idea his wife probably doesnt know about his YT activity
in a married or serious realtionship that's been going on for awhile. . ur going to look at the oppoisite sex.. . because females do it also. . . when ur at the job,store, or any public place. . .because hey u have to admit there are always beauitful people walking around some place somewhere
the serious issue is if ur actually thinking of leaving ur " love " for that person. . or if u keep eyeing the person down in a serious way
Men just like to look at women out of habit,because i do.But if i was married out of respect for my wife i wouldnt do that in her present.Its ok for married men to look at and talk about other women as long as their going home to their wifes.
just don't be disrespectful with it. . or when she is around. .
and to Shniece
its not cheating. . . but i mean lets be serious. . . ur not going to tell me the one ur in the relationship with is best looking thing in the world and everybody else is just " crap-face ". . lol to put in dumb-down terms. . .your going to look beacause. .
1. humans are prone to be curious 99% of the time
2. you can't deny beauty. when it comes to looks. . ur going to glance alittle
is it cheating when looking at other women? not necessarily, BUT..it shouldn't be done in the first place. meanwhile, yeah you might see someone who's so called "beautiful"..my thoughts would be..go out with her then. shoot. if she's that beautiful. making you break necks in here cuz of her beauty. my golly.
but that's the whole difference BBW. . . looks are just a small part of relationship. . . so to say " go out with her then " just because her looks are equal or to certain level better. . . than the mate u are with is lame. . WE ALL KNOW personality is what keeps with the person u are with and the reason you care for them. . . . and i'm not saying a male is going to call his own girl ugly or low-lvl. . but to say if he saw " clone " of Beyonce he wouldn't take a quick look?. . let's get serious
she can look like cindy crawford for all i care. dude shouldn't be looking or talking to the chick or whatever. you said if the chick is "beautiful", then it's ok to look or take a glance. your girl/wife/whatever should be that dang beautiful. yes, looks are a small part, but think about it..that's what got a person to talk to the chick or dude in the first place. so, my goodness. he might look @ a clone of beyonce, but why? cuz she's so called "beautiful"? stick to the beautiful gf when looking
and ur 99% correct he should always stick with his girl all the way. . . and should always admire her looks. . .no matter what. and it is wrong for him to look at another chick as if he is about to " holla ".. . shame shame shame. .
but for that 1% if ur going to tell me he has to keep " tunnel vision " and be scared to look at another female when he doing everyday crap like opening the door for one. . or talking to a everyday work-buddy, just because " that " might go as cheating?????
all i'm saying, is that ur with ur " mate " for a reason. . and u love them for a reason. . and they should know u well enough that ur not going to go around doing childish crap. . . but they should also be adults about this and should know if " America's Next Top Model " coming walking by, u might take a glance for a sec. . . .but NOTHING in your mind. . will ever come across leaving your mate. . if u trutly love them. .period
LOL I'm pretty sure if I get married which is a big IIIFFFFF I'll still mugg other women hell ya females do it to . You just should not be disrespectful with it. ....And dang someone sure got offended
who do you think i was talking about? meanwhile, i'm not un-subbing from you, because you do make great videos. i guess that gave you a hint, huh? altogether, it's your channel, so do you. look for my comments [like always].
i wasn't specifically speaking of you in my vid. i never mention anyone's names. no life there...it would have been blown out of proportion. of course it was a hint for you, but it was a vid that needed to be made again a long time ago.
thanks for your comments. i was making a video about this, because it boggled my mind. this highlights all males, married or not [the ones in regular rela's.]. you see the comments. i didn't understand why this was happening, so i vlogged.
that's great, fine and dandy your marriage is fantastic. more love to that. it's just a question i had, and i needed it to be answered. thanks. oh, no i'm not trying to get thousands of views. i'm just sharing what's on my mind. i won't take your vids too serious from now on. mmkay? ok. i mean..it bothered me enought to make a video, but now that you cleared it up..it's cool.
women look at other men more than men look at other woman...yall just know how to hide it better kuz a dude kant kontrol what happens NEXT...a female will see a nice guy & TO HERSELF IN HER HEAD WITHOUT THE ATTN OF ANYONE will say "hmmm...that was nice!"...men on the other hand will see a chick they like & they whole facial expression changes...leg gets limp...i think if it wasnt so obvious it wouldnt be a problem...also...it keeps a relationship fresh...if i tell u how i'll be killed...lmao!..
Okay you have to think man looks dont matter females do the samething with guys you see a guy you think is cute or whatever you look you dont put it all out in the open like some guys but yall look to and as far as married men you have to remember they have lot of stuff goin on now a days so if the man is looking hell the wife could be looking to now if my girl was to look i prolly wouldnt like it but then again she coming home with me so dont trip
LOL! Sometimes fantasies of other people (not nessisarily sexual ones) helps keep us Sane when we realize, we, in reality only have one option as far as the mate we are attached to.
I got that dudes back, whoever he is:) {Pretending like I don't know,...lol}
haha. yeah he definitely would. we're just waiting for the maker of the video to get to replying to comments. don't just calling nobody out and leee da house! lol...i think they scared. but as you can see, i ain't never!!!
well, took ya long enough. simple and plain. don't take my vids too seriously. you've never seen me kiss a woman or touch a woman in my vids. would you like to meet will smith or eddie murphy in real life or anybody you love in the movie industry. these actors are very much married and make love scenes with other women. but it's okay cause they get paid, right. i don't do that. probably never will...money is not that important to me. don't judge me from a video. you don't know me.
pt2: yeah, i look at other women, but my wife looks at whomever she chooses. it's very trivial to us. you have no idea how great our marriage is. my wife trusted me to go to brazil alone. she gets much props for that. no i shouldn't talk about it, but 'that's entertainment'.
do you really care about what we do on here or do you want views. does it bother you that much? cause believe me, i come on youtube a lot but if a woman from youtube came to me in front my wife, she wouldn't stand a chance.
I think its ok to look if you do it with tack you don't want your wife to feel uncomfortable or the person you're looking at, I think where some men go wrong is that they feel that it's they duty 2 get the booty so they feel that they have 2 say something that's probably inappropriate or get into a relationship outside of there own.
I disagree. I heard stories about men "respecting" women by tucking away those nekked lady posters because his gf is coming over...out of respect for her. Then after she leaves, out comes the poster and calenders again. Whether or not she is there, you shouldn't be doing that kind of schizz anyway. Learned behavior. And it's gotta stop at some point.
Its NOT chemically in us guys to look at other women;its learned behavior. If a guy is in a committed relationship with a woman, he needs to focus on her--and her alone. End of story.
no thing...just wondering. i like this vid. but are you really calling me out? you should have said my name if it was me my love. lol...don't be scurred...:) but it may have not been me. i'm just wondering...no biggie. am i giving this vid life? lol.
I think that looking at other women while you are in a relationship is more inappropriate than wrong. And LOOKING at a woman and lusting is a conscience decision. We can stop but why would we. Women right it off as genetics so we get away with it, lol.
BDT made a good point. Us women let men get away with it too much. We need to have more self-respect and command that respect. If they don't want to give it, we can always leave them. End of story.
Honestly, I though she was a prepubescent boy until she spoke.
Dmacho78 5 months ago
i agree with you.men shoukdnt look at other women just like women shouldnt look at other men when they re in a long turm relationship or married its disrespectful
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knetasimmons 1 year ago
i hate that men still like other girls when they're with me, it drives me so crazy and im like super duper jealous, so i cant handle it. v.v
Tutiflip 1 year ago
Your attraction for other people doesn't turn off when you get married
MrLocario 1 year ago
@MrLocario that makes sense, but i think it shouldn't be put out there in front of your mate. ya know?
BaldButWigged 1 year ago 2
@BaldButWigged Yeah I feel what you're saying. I don't think you should be staring at some other ladies tits and commenting while your wife is in front of you but if you just take a glance it shouldn't be a big deal
MrLocario 1 year ago
@BaldButWigged I agree, just because she's attractive doesn't mean you have to gawk, especially with your wife or girlfriend.
singergurl1807 5 months ago
@MrLocario well then you're not ready for marriage!
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philopadaumus 2 years ago
Bitch, you're insecure!!! Bottom line... God has given ppl eyes to LOOK. that;s what they're for. Just because a man looks at a woman doesn't make it inappropriate. I hate females who thinks that guys are checking them out just because he happens to look at her. I don't see why women say it's different when a female looks at a guy. Another girl gone astray in her own fantasy land!
dboucher26 2 years ago
What makes anyone here think that because a man looks at attractive women he doesn't love his wife? Thats bullcrap because women look at men all the time, like when you agree with your homegirls that guy X is very sexy. Just because you get married doesn't mean God shields your eyes or makes every other women in the worl ugly compared to your wife. It's childish to think so. It's only a problem when you fantasize about or go after the sexy woman your looking at. WOMEN LOOK ALL THE TIME!!!
supersayin1 2 years ago
i totally agree with you!! If the man loves you enough than he wouldn't be starring! Its actually a sin in the bible...fornication!
crystallil1dawn 2 years ago
Love does'nt make every other women in the world unattractive. It's only bad when you fantasize about her or go after her. Women look at men all the time but it's only a problem when men do it. Everyone looks you just can't be disrespectful and stare while your with your wife. Until God makes other women ugly compared to your wife, then men are gonna look. Love doesn't shield your eyes it keeps you from ever going after what your looking at. Have a great day!
supersayin1 2 years ago
married two and half years-i just wear sunglasses at the mall and beach
FantomShadowz 2 years ago
lmao. that's clever.
BaldButWigged 2 years ago
Always keep your sunglasses. Think about being married in South Florida in West Palm lol!!
supersayin1 2 years ago
Is you getting gubbamint monay?
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Learn the usage of the word "are." I'm not trying to be mean and do think you are an intelligent person, but you don't sound it when you butcher the English language like that. Also, consider the use of "they're" over "they."
stopglobalswarming 2 years ago
I don't think its cool for a man to look at other women like that either. My thing is you have 3.5 seconds to look and after that its inappropriate because that look is lasting entirely too long. You look acknowledge her beauty and keep it moving. If you are with me I should be getting the stares and being told I look nice that day to let me know you still find me attractive. I don't know it could be a female thing but I know I don't look at other men like that when I'm seeing someone.
jgee19 3 years ago
Learn the usage of the word "are." I'm not trying to be mean and do think you are an intelligent person, but you don't sound it when you butcher the English language like that. Also, consider the use of "they're" over "they."
eurohim 3 years ago
and this has to do with the subject matter in what sense? ha! NONE.
BaldButWigged 3 years ago
If you are with a girl you should keep your eyes in your head where they belong. If you have wandering eyes you obviously don't love her very much and you should move around. And the porno crap if stupid, stupid. There are real women out there with brains who can get naked just as quick. Seriously.
shacaca1 3 years ago
NICE YAWN!!! BUT... I feel you on the whole topic. I'm married but I will never disrespect my wife nor myself to stoop that low to pursue after anything my eyes lay on. I love my wife too much and there is non other on this planet my goods wanna' smash wit'. WORD UP!!!
nuncio78 3 years ago
There hormones are not an excuse there is a thing called self control which they can learn to have fuck that hormones excuse .
redlipstickfen 3 years ago
i think the reason u always yawn on camera is because u tired of other peoples bullshit, excuss my english,oh yeah, u pretty by the way...lol
PaperChaserNate 3 years ago 2
i think its ok for anyone to look, its natural. However, if that person has issues with self control and doesnt appreciate the relationship they're in, then theyre a waste of space.
ReallyAmBored 3 years ago
But staring is not ok .
redlipstickfen 3 years ago
no...single or attached...its rude...or pervy. LOL
ReallyAmBored 3 years ago
Okay, so I'm late, but I feel the same way. It's totally unacceptable. Just reading the comments, I see ppl saying women do it too. If a woman is doing it, she's no better than a man doing it. Disrespect is disrespect.
The difference is blatantly showing interest in another woman. It's just wrong. And there's nothing funny about it. Entertainment? Hmmmph. If my husband were an actor and got a check for looking at women that would be different! Great vid!
rnstyle 3 years ago
Is it just me or is this not fair? Why is it ok for him to do this to me??? But even the thought of me doing that to him would piss him the HELL off?!?!?!
barz2008 3 years ago
[pt 1] it's NOT and NEVER a good thing for this to happen. you should know it yourself. you're in a win-lose type relationship. he can do whatever he wants, while you suffer on the sidelines. best advice: get out while you still can. seems like he's a bit controlling though. smh. dudes like to be in control and the ones who are more superior. some feel like women need to be at home cooking, cleaning and taking care of the babies.
BaldButWigged 3 years ago
[pt 2] that's a little old fashioned. either you can speak your piece and have him get all defensive. he'll act like a bissh, but he thinks he's THE MAN. he'll call you names or even get physical with it. OR..you can get up and walk out for good. women don't need to be mistreated in any way, form or fashion. do you ms lady. :)
BaldButWigged 3 years ago
so basically there is no hope for me? I don't have a big ass, I don't have big tits, I had a kid so my stomach is not the tightest it could be....so my man will just forever watch hoes on the internet shaking their shit around??? If he saw me do something like that...I swear on the HOLY BIBLE he would literally beat the shit out of me. He would call me a punk slut, a hoe....you name it....but if I even ask him why (not even mad...just ask him....) he again....will beat the shit out of me.
barz2008 3 years ago
i'm assuming your a chick, so there is hope. just beat dude's azz into submission. naw i'm playing. but um..he knew what you were before the kid, and he knows what you are after. he should love you and only you, and not some other triflin chicks. if he doesn't, kick him to the curb. seems like he's got you wrapped around his finger. change your situation.
BaldButWigged 3 years ago
It's like you said. It's in our genes. It's a hard concept for women to grasp. A man being polygamist. Men will naturally never be monogamous unless they are forced.
Women are more into the mental instead of the physical, so that's why you probally don't think about other men. Women to us are like candy. You don't just want one flavor. Even if you had the best ass and titty's in the world, we are still going to check out other women.
You have to look past that as do we. It's just a fact.
tropicalmyth 3 years ago
One problem that is quite obvious is the lack of communication. I find that if I'm really diggin' a GAL (WOMEN for short I just like teasing my NIGERIAN cousin) then I wont even think of looking in any other FEMALES direction. It's just the boredom and cyclical event's that create the problem. I have been guilty of this but, DO YOU THINK IT COULD BE SOMETHING THE WOMEN IS NOT DOING AS WELL? OR IS IT GOING TO FOREVER BE ON THE BLAME OF MEN?
SANKOFA1 3 years ago
i don't women should go on forever blaming men, but i do agree with you when you say it's a lack of communication. something might result in what a woman might not be doing for her man, but of course i'll always challenge that. however, it just might be true.
BaldButWigged 3 years ago
Well just consider all thing's...All men haev similar characteristic's as women do but, we all are not alike. I'm glad you can think with a clear and open mind.
SANKOFA1 3 years ago
DAMN YOU HELLA CUTE!
Anyhow, MEN look because that is just what were are doing...LOOKING. If I see a GAL walk up the street in a T SHIRT WITH NO PAMTIES ON what do you expect?!!?!?!
I MEAN! I MEAN!
All Jokes aside...I cant speak for all MEN but, I look because of the IDEA of WOMEN is just as big a FANTASY. Wondering is what the challenge is. I find myslef looking at other women if I am lacking the desire or excitement from the present position.
SANKOFA1 3 years ago 2
Believe me. Im not gay but I didnt auto look at a girl when I was married. Infact, I intentionally put my head down when I would have accidentally caught the attention of a hottie when just walking. Its all about training yourself and think, "would you want your wife to make eye contact or ck out some fella," when your around...or better yet...when your not around. Theres a reason why there is a Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have done unto you. Live it n it will be karma'd back!
Straub22 3 years ago 5
@Straub22 in total agreement! i tried explaining that to my husband, but he thinks it's ok to look even in my presence
ticky23able 1 year ago
it depends on the person, not all men are the same. some men look but thats all it is...something that caught your eye. end of the day, theyre going to be with you nomatter what. others just cant rezist trying to pick up another chic. when i was with mine, i LOOKED at other females all the time but end of the day, mine knew where my head was at. u just have to have that understanding between the two of you. its different for every relationship. later shaneice :)
iLL .
iLL271 3 years ago
Men look at other women, basically when the woman catches their eye! It has a lot to do with the womans attractive bits, bum, breasts etc. the more come on and get me the woman looks the more looks! Remember beauty is to be seen! but there's a Look! and there's a LOOOOOK! lol
neotech888 3 years ago 2
I totally get what you are saying....men will be men
cherrysweet013 3 years ago 2
this married guy i work with, he likes me a lot but yesterday i noticed he was a lot more interested than usual, just one of those moods both men and women can get into. at the end of the day, it comes from control. men are able to control themselves, just like women. its just that many don't have the moral character to do it. i met a religious man once. he was married and he was sexually attracted to me. but i saw him shut down his lust out of respect for his wife and it stopped. that is a MAN.
JudgesEye 3 years ago 7
hey girlie, luv ya vids, and i understand where you comin from w/ the whole talkin about other females thing ALL THE TIME (that shit aint kool) nah mean, but you gotta understand whether you a dude or not, its human nature to find other people attractive. just cuz you in a relationship don't mean that that person is the ONLY person you find attractive. as long as you don't take it to an inappropriate level, it shouldn't matter if they comin home to you :)
ugimmefoood 4 years ago
human nature. i see. of-course i'll be hung up on the whole thing of why he looks. i mean.he shouldn't, but it's human/animalistic nature. i got it! thanks for watching.
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
Stop being so insecure, of course we are going to look, some of us even flirt with that pretty thing at the job! As long as we take it no further, it's just a ego thing we only make the full move if there's no happiness between us.
jeff2all 4 years ago
all men are gonna look no matter how much we would like them to stop
i dont mind mine lookin as long as that is all that he is doin with her cause i know i am not dead and if a good lookin man walks by my head is gonna turn
and who ever you are talkin about cause i have no idea his wife probably doesnt know about his YT activity
yvette404 4 years ago
If your a married man, you shouldn't be checking out other ladies. You should only have eyes for your wife.
prodigalson56 4 years ago 2
well put clowny. =]
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
let's be realistic about this. . .
in a married or serious realtionship that's been going on for awhile. . ur going to look at the oppoisite sex.. . because females do it also. . . when ur at the job,store, or any public place. . .because hey u have to admit there are always beauitful people walking around some place somewhere
the serious issue is if ur actually thinking of leaving ur " love " for that person. . or if u keep eyeing the person down in a serious way
pimpinnevaslipin 4 years ago
Men just like to look at women out of habit,because i do.But if i was married out of respect for my wife i wouldnt do that in her present.Its ok for married men to look at and talk about other women as long as their going home to their wifes.
mallen4000 4 years ago
pretty much. .
just don't be disrespectful with it. . or when she is around. .
and to Shniece
its not cheating. . . but i mean lets be serious. . . ur not going to tell me the one ur in the relationship with is best looking thing in the world and everybody else is just " crap-face ". . lol to put in dumb-down terms. . .your going to look beacause. .
1. humans are prone to be curious 99% of the time
2. you can't deny beauty. when it comes to looks. . ur going to glance alittle
pimpinnevaslipin 4 years ago
is it cheating when looking at other women? not necessarily, BUT..it shouldn't be done in the first place. meanwhile, yeah you might see someone who's so called "beautiful"..my thoughts would be..go out with her then. shoot. if she's that beautiful. making you break necks in here cuz of her beauty. my golly.
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
but that's the whole difference BBW. . . looks are just a small part of relationship. . . so to say " go out with her then " just because her looks are equal or to certain level better. . . than the mate u are with is lame. . WE ALL KNOW personality is what keeps with the person u are with and the reason you care for them. . . . and i'm not saying a male is going to call his own girl ugly or low-lvl. . but to say if he saw " clone " of Beyonce he wouldn't take a quick look?. . let's get serious
pimpinnevaslipin 4 years ago
she can look like cindy crawford for all i care. dude shouldn't be looking or talking to the chick or whatever. you said if the chick is "beautiful", then it's ok to look or take a glance. your girl/wife/whatever should be that dang beautiful. yes, looks are a small part, but think about it..that's what got a person to talk to the chick or dude in the first place. so, my goodness. he might look @ a clone of beyonce, but why? cuz she's so called "beautiful"? stick to the beautiful gf when looking
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
and ur 99% correct he should always stick with his girl all the way. . . and should always admire her looks. . .no matter what. and it is wrong for him to look at another chick as if he is about to " holla ".. . shame shame shame. .
but for that 1% if ur going to tell me he has to keep " tunnel vision " and be scared to look at another female when he doing everyday crap like opening the door for one. . or talking to a everyday work-buddy, just because " that " might go as cheating?????
pimpinnevaslipin 4 years ago
all i'm saying, is that ur with ur " mate " for a reason. . and u love them for a reason. . and they should know u well enough that ur not going to go around doing childish crap. . . but they should also be adults about this and should know if " America's Next Top Model " coming walking by, u might take a glance for a sec. . . .but NOTHING in your mind. . will ever come across leaving your mate. . if u trutly love them. .period
pimpinnevaslipin 4 years ago
Shniece u know i love when we debate about stuff.But it would be better, while having a 10 piece and 2 sides. . we have to set that up. . .lol :)
pimpinnevaslipin 4 years ago
heh. you do like debating. grr!! i'll have to take you up on that offer. 10 pieces sounds so good right now.
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
LOL I'm pretty sure if I get married which is a big IIIFFFFF I'll still mugg other women hell ya females do it to . You just should not be disrespectful with it. ....And dang someone sure got offended
blacktigerwu 4 years ago
well, you were specifically talking about someone as you described their channel. who ever could you have been talking about?
dejuanp 4 years ago
who do you think i was talking about? meanwhile, i'm not un-subbing from you, because you do make great videos. i guess that gave you a hint, huh? altogether, it's your channel, so do you. look for my comments [like always].
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
i wasn't specifically speaking of you in my vid. i never mention anyone's names. no life there...it would have been blown out of proportion. of course it was a hint for you, but it was a vid that needed to be made again a long time ago.
dejuanp 4 years ago
well, what you said needed to be said. ya know. but now..*moment of silence*
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
i'm gone...thanks for your time and getting back to me.
dejuanp 4 years ago
thanks for your comments. i was making a video about this, because it boggled my mind. this highlights all males, married or not [the ones in regular rela's.]. you see the comments. i didn't understand why this was happening, so i vlogged.
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
that's great, fine and dandy your marriage is fantastic. more love to that. it's just a question i had, and i needed it to be answered. thanks. oh, no i'm not trying to get thousands of views. i'm just sharing what's on my mind. i won't take your vids too serious from now on. mmkay? ok. i mean..it bothered me enought to make a video, but now that you cleared it up..it's cool.
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
you should know which one's to take seriously. edited vids are for show....now my vids with my son or about domestic abuse...real real son.
dejuanp 4 years ago
i don't think you've seen my latest video. i explain a lot in it.
dejuanp 4 years ago
so...um...if you was in a relationship???
joshuabobb89 4 years ago
here you go. smh
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
women look at other men more than men look at other woman...yall just know how to hide it better kuz a dude kant kontrol what happens NEXT...a female will see a nice guy & TO HERSELF IN HER HEAD WITHOUT THE ATTN OF ANYONE will say "hmmm...that was nice!"...men on the other hand will see a chick they like & they whole facial expression changes...leg gets limp...i think if it wasnt so obvious it wouldnt be a problem...also...it keeps a relationship fresh...if i tell u how i'll be killed...lmao!..
kattdizl 4 years ago
Okay you have to think man looks dont matter females do the samething with guys you see a guy you think is cute or whatever you look you dont put it all out in the open like some guys but yall look to and as far as married men you have to remember they have lot of stuff goin on now a days so if the man is looking hell the wife could be looking to now if my girl was to look i prolly wouldnt like it but then again she coming home with me so dont trip
justincredible214 4 years ago
LOL! Sometimes fantasies of other people (not nessisarily sexual ones) helps keep us Sane when we realize, we, in reality only have one option as far as the mate we are attached to.
I got that dudes back, whoever he is:) {Pretending like I don't know,...lol}
RevolutionaryINK 4 years ago
hmmmm...:)
dejuanp 4 years ago
Lol. I think I did a good job with that response. I think "THAT DUDE" would agree with that one. Do You think he would agree with me, Dejuan?
RevolutionaryINK 4 years ago
haha. yeah he definitely would. we're just waiting for the maker of the video to get to replying to comments. don't just calling nobody out and leee da house! lol...i think they scared. but as you can see, i ain't never!!!
dejuanp 4 years ago
ok..so why do you look at other women?
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
never answered the question. did i influence your video. there's a way you can answer and i'll leave it alone. i'm just wondering...
dejuanp 4 years ago
yes. you were an influence.
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
well, took ya long enough. simple and plain. don't take my vids too seriously. you've never seen me kiss a woman or touch a woman in my vids. would you like to meet will smith or eddie murphy in real life or anybody you love in the movie industry. these actors are very much married and make love scenes with other women. but it's okay cause they get paid, right. i don't do that. probably never will...money is not that important to me. don't judge me from a video. you don't know me.
dejuanp 4 years ago
pt2: yeah, i look at other women, but my wife looks at whomever she chooses. it's very trivial to us. you have no idea how great our marriage is. my wife trusted me to go to brazil alone. she gets much props for that. no i shouldn't talk about it, but 'that's entertainment'.
dejuanp 4 years ago
lastly:
do you really care about what we do on here or do you want views. does it bother you that much? cause believe me, i come on youtube a lot but if a woman from youtube came to me in front my wife, she wouldn't stand a chance.
dejuanp 4 years ago
I think its ok to look if you do it with tack you don't want your wife to feel uncomfortable or the person you're looking at, I think where some men go wrong is that they feel that it's they duty 2 get the booty so they feel that they have 2 say something that's probably inappropriate or get into a relationship outside of there own.
kingsolomonswelth 4 years ago
I disagree. I heard stories about men "respecting" women by tucking away those nekked lady posters because his gf is coming over...out of respect for her. Then after she leaves, out comes the poster and calenders again. Whether or not she is there, you shouldn't be doing that kind of schizz anyway. Learned behavior. And it's gotta stop at some point.
pintobeans77 3 years ago
WOW! im in good company in this comment section. just noticed it. thats not what i was gonna say. i was gonna say this...:
I'm not married.
DaveOfCleveland 4 years ago
Its NOT chemically in us guys to look at other women;its learned behavior. If a guy is in a committed relationship with a woman, he needs to focus on her--and her alone. End of story.
-Gregory
gregoryconway 4 years ago 3
exactly. And thats why men do it. Because we say "oh thats just men".
BeCoily3Paula 4 years ago
point blank period. thank you Gregory.
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
Where can I find a guy like you?
pintobeans77 3 years ago
@pintobeans77
I'm right here.
Gregory (Yes I'm the Gregory from above--I have a new account)
gregory2953 1 year ago
Ohhhh boy hhahah
Alphacat 4 years ago
hmmmm...i wonder who this could be. lol...know it's not me, right? :)
dejuanp 4 years ago
and if it is? :)
BaldButWigged 4 years ago
no thing...just wondering. i like this vid. but are you really calling me out? you should have said my name if it was me my love. lol...don't be scurred...:) but it may have not been me. i'm just wondering...no biggie. am i giving this vid life? lol.
dejuanp 4 years ago
I think that looking at other women while you are in a relationship is more inappropriate than wrong. And LOOKING at a woman and lusting is a conscience decision. We can stop but why would we. Women right it off as genetics so we get away with it, lol.
BigDaleT 4 years ago
BDT made a good point. Us women let men get away with it too much. We need to have more self-respect and command that respect. If they don't want to give it, we can always leave them. End of story.
pintobeans77 3 years ago