This is bullcrap, Why stop violence against women only?, women are distinct in our society therefore subject to violence moreso, they are especially hated for that distinction. You won't stop voilence against women, only make it worse. You only care about women and not men, therefore the double standard, therefore the resentment.
If you are in, know someone in or think you are in a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship, Chicken Nachos is a must read! Change the laws to protect the innocent and help protect the victims as they free themselves from the abuse.
Reality: When WE ignore the majority of abuse victims (victims OF WOMEN) we'd might as well lend a hand to the abusers. Women commit the most dating, partner and spouse abuse, not men. Likewise, mothers commit the majority of child abuse & murders, not fathers. Stop blaming the most protective and stabilizing family member as an excuse for the real abuse - feminist lies ripping apart families through false abuse allegations and parental alienation child abuse, invisible, pandemic twin crimes.
For every 15 female victims of a violent assault in Australia there are 24 male victims. I have been hospitalized from assault before and I can tell you that no one showed me the support that I would have been afforded had I been a woman. I am a man, therefore expendable and such is the way of our "advanced" Western Culture. Women are afforded such privileges as to take them completely for granted, and continue to maintain their deluded ideas of self-entitlement. Violence upon "PEOPLE" must end!
@sp00nytube Yes, you might think life is brighter on the other side... But its not. Many female victims dont report the crimes against them because they fear no one will believe or give the support they need. Im sorry for all the victims of violance, no matter the gender!!! The main problem with violance against women is that this type of behavior is so natural for many members of our society that it appears to them a being natural and no real problem at all. :(
@iakunakuncula I don't doubt women face that, and I hope you don't doubt that men face the EXACT same thing. Hence my questioning of the term "violence against women" and what it suggests about the relevance of a victims' gender. Nobody should receive more or less support based on their race, religion, sexuality, and certainly not their biology.
@Stinkyknobcheese, so what if this is about women, so what if it discludes men! Its about STOPPING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN....you want to make your own video about others go ahead! All your doing is coming in her trying to upset people who support this cause. I am inclinded to think you are a disgruntled person that got nailed to hard for child support or someone make you suffer the consequences for beating your wife or partner. REAL MEN AND WOMEN don't get offended at stuff like this!
@lovelylittlelife This movie pisses rational minded men because we are not treated equally as victims of ANY CRIME! This video (while under the guise of a noble cause) is simply perpetuating our daily dilemma of not being as important as our wives, mothers, sisters or daughters in every sense, and pigs like you consider it socially acceptable to stand for one group and ignore men who are statistically more affected by violence. I'm not trivializing violence against anyone, it affects EVERYONE!
@sp00nytube Actually it is the opposite. Women historically have been "the property of men" to do what they wished. In fact, it wasn't until the late 1800 that a law was set in place to give women equal protection like that of men, needless to say, it was in vein, ppl still turned their face! Also, rational minded men would not be pissed because we are out here bringing out awareness of an epidmic that still plagues women. 0.8 per 1000 men are abused a year as opposed to 4.3 per 1000 women.
@sp00nytube Don't be upset because ppl have and support a platform to bring awareness for violence against women. Some people have a platform to only bring awareness for violence against children or cancer or rape or MS....it is one area that is dealt with by certain groups and no real person, man or woman would truly be pissed at that or judge it. In my professional experience I find that many men who are insulted by this are usually the batterers hiding under the disquise of a victim.
@lovelylittlelife Don't tell me not to be upset about something that affects me so deeply you have no right. Nor to label me as not a REAL MAN for taking offence. Your sexual bias clearly runs deep. My problem is with the difference in general social reaction to violence against women as opposed to men. Have you been a victim of assault and been told that because you are "capable" of amicable contest you do not need to be defended by the law? I hope not. I am a victim, no guise.
@lovelylittlelife Yes there are many platforms that focus solely on MS, Cancer, Child Protection or Rape. Each one being a noble, necessary and unbiased cause. Notice how they are not bringing awareness only to "female" children, or only "female" cancer sufferers (cervical/prostate being the exception)? I am not opposed to women, I cherish the women in my life. It is the "save the women and children 1st" mentality that needs to be disgarded to enforce truly unbiased equality. Are you willing to?
@sp00nytube They're not bringing awareness to other illnesses. Breast Cancer awareness is for Breast cancer, MS awareness is for MS and Violence against women awareness is violence against women, . Most people worried about women having their own awarenss platform have issues with women anyway. You can get along with Mother Teresa for all I care...if my platform is (and it is) 2 raise awarness of violence against women then that is what I am specifically bringing awareness on and nothing more.
@sp00nytube Are you willing to let women have a voice without a man trying to tell them what they are doing wrong or how it should be done? Are you willing to set aside your bias's and except what they have to say? You have got to be kidding about unbiased equality right? roflmao....don't feel left out! We aren't going anywhere and I will training others on this very subject. Violence against women! Since when is it equality for a man to beat a women?
@lovelylittlelife Don't try and demonize me by insinuating that I approve violence against women or consider it equal. You seem to have a problem with me drawing a comparison of a male victim and a female victim. Do you believe that one needs protection more so than the other? Violence is an act of aggression inflicting dominance over someone less able, in no way does that mean that men are not equally affected by it. Is your point that women are more affected, or just that they matter more?
@sp00nytube lol there are so many male groups out here that speak to stop violence against women...you should find them and debate with them! Maybe you will learn something!
@lovelylittlelife It is about as equal for a large man to hit a small woman as it is for a large man to hit a small man. I can assure you that the feeling of hopelessness and violation cross over to the male side of the gender barrier. The fact that I see a victim of violence as simply that and not a male/female victim is what draws the difference between you and I. My own mother was a victim to this and I defended her furiously, not because she is a woman, but because she is someone I love.
@mztracie0826 Oh I'm not worried about ol' boy. Those are usually the men that hit or abuse women and have had charges brought against them. Not surprising at all! They like to boohoo about womens rights and play "the victim" so people will pay them some attention lol...
@sp00nytube Typical response of a bitter man who has probably been turned in by the women he abused. Usually it is "pigs" like you that try to stop women from having a voice of their own to bring awareness on "WOMENS" issues. You trivialized it the second you denounced this video! Your dilemma is not with the video it is with women having something of their own and speaking about it. You will probably respond back with some bs spewing out of your mouth like your comment, typical justifications
@mztracie0826 I have written very clearly what my issues are with these "WOMEN'S" issues being treated as just that, as if men are unaffected by the same thing. I can proudly say that I have never laid a hand on another human being, even in self defense. But since you have already dismissed my every word as BS simply because you are unable to relate to my arguments I feel no need to justify them to you. Am I not entitled to express my opinion without presumption of guilt based on my biology?
@sp00nytube Then make a video for awareness of violence against men for crying out loud! Typical freakin man! What is up with you not wanting women to have a voice for themselves! So since you can't relate to womens arguments you still have to bully and cry and whine "it's not fair, its not equal, you are pigs, " whaa whaa whaa blah blah blah! Oh by the way I don't know where you get your statistics from but men are not more affected by violence from women!
@mztracie0826 Who could possibly stand to reason against such an articulate argument? The fact that you see my comparison of male and female damage from violence as a way of trivializing female victims clearly shows your lack of regard for male victims. I got my statistics from the Australian Institute of Criminology section on victims of violent crime, where do you get your statistics from? To make a video about violence against men would be just as narrow minded and unfair to female victims.
@sp00nytube I get my statistics from several places which include NCADV, (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence which is federal here in the United States.) Also, I don't disregard men being victims however, we are talking about women being victims of domestic violence at the hands of men. You trying to be pushy and demanding women include men in a cause that is for women. Again, if you want a cause to bring awareness for men then do so and stop trying intrude on something for women!
@mztracie0826 Your statistics focus solely on DOMESTIC violence, whereas mine cover all violent crime which includes domestic. You have outright admitted that you are happy to ignore that nearly 1 in 3 victims of domestic violence in the home is male as well as over 60% of all violent crime (in and out of the home) also being male. Stopping violence is noble you have no argument from me there, but focussing on 1 group for no good reason other than gender is nothing short of prejudice.
@sp00nytube 'but focussing on 1 group for no good reason other than gender is nothing short of prejudice.'
True and it is a shame watching lot of smart people dumbing themselves down for prejudice. Prejudges against women hurts men to, and prejudice and against men hurts women also.
@sp00nytube lol...I do laugh at you because I find it rather pathetic that you feel the need to jump on women and try to push your view on a group that is speaking out against violence at the hands of men and being under a mans thumb and here you are crying like a baby "what about men" trying to force your views and telling women they are wrong for not including men which is the sex they have been abused by. smh....Give women their piece and their voice and leave them alone!
@mztracie0826 For all your abuse directed at me you have still failed to answer the core question at my argument: Why draw a line in the sand that need not be there? Why not address violence as a whole instead of focussing on an individual group? For your information I voice quite regularly against mens opnions if I find them to be unjust, this need not be about men/women but has been turned into a battle of the sexes. Had this video been about violence against men my opinion would not change.
@mztracie0826 women have lot of voices. And thats good, but its paramount that we all spread the awareness that DV is not a gender issue. And all the conclusion based on gender are bogus. Because they dont take in consideration all the factors involved. Boys vs are bogus and obsolete.
@Kenshiroit Yup not wrong. I suppose that's one of the most damaging parts for me to hear "Men are the reason" as if it is the gender that is the governing factor of the actions that abusers take. Anger, depression, substance abuse, stress and trauma are the motives for violence, not anatomy. Men are definitely more likely, but that shouldn't incriminate all of us. I think it's well overdue that kind of mentality gets buried along with violence itself. Encouragement for good people is a must!
@sp00nytube true, I really cant take serious people (men/women) when they use the old bogus rethoric boys vs girls. We r in 2011 not 1968 we should have get smarter than that. All the semplicistic theoryes who sum everything up in good vs evil r always plain wrong. Social dynamics r far to complex to be potrayed with the same fraudolent equation. And im puzzled that some people, despite all moder mass media at disposal they stick to it like it was a religious thing. To much banality, sad indeed.
STFU get back in the kitchen and make me a fucking sandwich or else! LOL but seriously I've only meet one women who was treated bad by her "man" she told me she can't leave her husband becasue she was affraid of him, I asked "where is he now"? (she was at a party alone) "oh he's in jail right now" what.... the.... fuck....RUN BITCH RUN! nows your chance. She must have loved the drama or something I couldn't believe what she said!!!!
Truth = CURE for Domestic violence. FACT: STUDIES show men are not the main abusers in the home or dating, WOMEN ARE. Studies also show that the main cause of domestic violence injuries & deaths to women are likewise because "women can do no wrong," and thus WOMEN attack their male partners over and over until the majority are injured or murdered. Yet we don't dare address the best protection = equality. Try true equality next time for best results. Propaganda & Hysteria = the real problem.
Why men can be abused? but women can't be abused? I don't see any reason! Make laws fair! Someday I believe men will stand up against this.. if not WILL KEEP FIGHTING!!!
Some guyz are being defensive about the statz; factually, women & kidz bear the harshest physical consequencez of DV. However, we should keep in mind that many men were victimized as kidz & continue the cycle, whereas, many girls become women who seek the familiararity of being abused. I am unamuzed with women who do this, especiially when there are children to think about- staying in the situation makes them bystander abusers.
Thus, women play a large role in breaking these damaging cyclez!
@SJofDecatur You are completely off the mark again. It is a known fact that most abuse and murders on children are perpetrated by women. Mothers abuse murder their own children more than fathers do.
BTW: a bi-partisan support for ending DV [kidz & women stats are noted]whitehouse.gov/blog/2010/12/20/president-obama-signs-critical-legislation-prevent-child-abuse-and-domestic-violence
I am shocked that anyone would have anything negative to say about this video. The artwork is absolutely beautiful, the message is powerful and so incredibly important. Thank you for this message.
@StinkyKnobcheese There's nothing wrong with tru-feminism [where boys, men, trans, girls & women are seen as equal & worthy of justice] Anyhow, there are many more sourcez out there... perhaps you should do some HW... Also, it just occured to Me that with the screen name you have- there is little chance that you are a positive person, hence the anti-feminist sentimentz-
@StinkyKnobcheese As stated above- the sources I've shown you are non-partisan; no particulare feminist agenda, just trying to reduce the # of women & kidz damaged by DV - since it is a proven fact that they are the largest populationz abused.
If you have some great source to the contrary, please do share... I've been doing HW for 2 decadez & have not seen what you are ranting about. Also- there's no source that explainz a positive meaning for knob cheeze... stinky or otherwise
This vid was well done and the art is very moving and speaks volumes. To those who are "sick of heating about it", shut up! The world's women are sick of LIVING it!! The "might makes right" attitude is finally being effectively challenged in a big way thanks to the internet. Now we need the GOOD men of the world to form neighborhood groups who will go have meaningful "discussions" with known and suspected batterers to let them know THEY will not put up with it! Peer pressure and support for both
1 month ago 2 I am sick of the sexist, onesided, misleading commercials that depict women only as victims and men only as abusers. This denies reality and does not help stop violence against anyone, it just builds resentment. The makers of these ads and the prime movers of the thought behind it, should be arrested and charged with hate crimes. If we are to have a "STOP THE VIOLENCE", let it reflect the truth, men and women are both victim and abusers! STOP THE SEXISM.
I am sick of the sexist, onesided, misleading commercials that depict women only as victims and men only as abusers. This denies reality and does not help stop violence against anyone, it just builds resentment. The makers of these ads and the prime movers of the thought behind it, should be arrested and charged with hate crimes. If we are to have a "STOP THE VIOLENCE", let it reflect the truth, men and women are both victim and abusers! STOP THE SEXISM.
her house, he then beat her, and said if she ever phoned them again, he'd kill her. I'd like to take care of it personally, however obviously I can't teleport, however I plan on visiting her & him sometime next year... Violence against women is sick. If I knew anyone who did it, i'd break their fingers and other bones depending on how bad it was. I hope you all would aswell, and for anyone who does hurt women reading this, if I ever hear about you doing i to someone I know, you will get hurt.
@initbludROFL there is a national DV line freephone in the US 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.3224 (TTY)
Anonymous & Confidential Help 24/7 the website is ndvh.org
hope your friend is able to find her way free of the abuser ... also advise her if she is no longer living with him to get the lundy bancroft book "why does he do that, inside the minds of angry and controlling men" (it says men but might as well read people it is flexible to any abuser) bx
I'm from the UK, and I talk to a girl who's 18 in NYC America, and she's just told me that her ex-boyfriend gets drunk & high, and is violent... He recently, broke her ribs, shot her in the shoulder & cracked her skull. He then 3 days later after coming out of hospital, raped her, and re-broke her ribs (they were healing not healed). She phoned the police and told them what had happened, he managed to get out of it somehow and then he went straight from the police department to || (Part 1).
Why don't you show all the children and men which women abuse and beat up??? Women commit the most DV of all, especially against children whom they abuse AND kill at twice the rate fathers do. They initiate nearly twice as much partner violence as well... Why no concern there? Free pass? Supremacy is fine then? Double standards are the greatest violence of all.
@addvoc8 maybe you could organise a collection of artwork highlighting the impact of violence and abuse to male victims of DV?
also did you know that without the feminist refuge movement the male DV orgs would not exist or have a framework of practice from which to build on? maybe advocates against DV to men and those against DV to women should stop belittling and abusing each other and begin working together? Interested pm me i have a website aiming to do just that ...
@daobecca Actually neither you, I or anyone should want to follow the example of feminist women's "shelters" which are a mess. They exploit and abuse far more women than they help, and children too. No thanks you on that one... Shelters should be willing to help ALL and not exploit and abuse women and children while pretending the opposite is their goal...
To best accomplish your real goal - contact Trudy Schuett (do a search for her, and also: America's War on Families)
@addvoc8: - The shelters as i have experienced them in the UK though far from perfect save lives daily, and you know what without them the end violence against men movement would frankly be without direction ...
Feminism is far from perfect, particularly 'radical feminism' which is often hate speech against men, but without it neither you nor I would be able to speak about dv with any degree of knowledge, theory or practice upon which to build new practice, theory and knowledge on. fact.
I am. I'm against violence towards men, children, races(all races), gays and religions(all religions). This video happens to be about women. To support this cause is not to exclude others. For example- to support saving ocean life is not to say be damned with land creatures.
@SJofDecatur Yes 50% of Domestic violence would be stopped. The other 50% would still exist because women commit it.
Statistically if women were not allowed to look after their own kids, domestic violence and murder against their own kids would be almost wiped out since women beat and murder their own children far more.
Spiritflux, i guess that you, by ommission, are FOR women's violence against men, eh? Or is this just a plot to get laid? Why do you need a men against rape march? Did some idiot tell you that men are FOR rape? Are there ANY men you know personally that are FOR rape? Why not march for equality in DV law? Oh, that won't getcha laid, will it? Wise up and smell the equality coffee.
Anarqist: Following your logic a protest march against the war in Iraq implies that the protesters are FOR the war in Dafur/Gaza etc..; or a rally against racism implies support for homophobia.
Of course I'm against violence against men. I just believe VAW needs to be categorised separately in order to be dealt with effectively.
Obviously the fact that rape happens means that some men are pro-rape. Research in the UK found that a large minority of schoolboys thought that forced sex was acceptable in some circumstances. Luckily I no longer no any men like this personally.
If you are against anti-male sexism, then why do you make the assumption that any man supporting womens rights is only doing it to get laid? Your saying that all men are sex-crazed jerks who care more about selfish pleasure than moral principles. I find this sexist (anti-male) attitude highly offensive to good men everywhere. You sound just like Valerie Solanas!
For the record as a born-again Christian I am a virgin saving myself for marriage. I do not intend to use my anti-violence work as a means to attracting women as that would be seriously wrong.
I must also add that the organisation I am founding to organised this mens anti-rape march also plans to highlight the issue of male victims of violence.
So many angry men on this board..so many crimes against women in the world at the hands of a man. Pity, really that these "men" who have hatred towards women to such a degree that they rape and torture. It stems from their own self-hatred and exemplifies their own insecurities. Sorry that you are fat, balding, hairy, have small dicks, mental illness or whatever hideous attributes that have caused you to live your pathetic lives this way. Thank God for DNA and the sweet laws of justice!!!!
Go to dvstats(dot)org to see the real story unless you're a coward and afraid to see the truth. buck-buck-buck. Women commit DV as often as men. You have been brainwashed by the ugly pictures of bruised women. Time for an equal view, comrade.
"Religious mental illnes"? If I'm atheist... thank God!! ha, ha, ha.
Don't fool yourself: the real issue is violence that woman exerts.
Such violence may go from slaps to her boyfriends (all classic), to the brutal abortion, going through sexual harassment to men (not to get his sexual favors, but to strip his assets), and false victimhood.
I agree. Men who make these kinds of crazy comments about how DV stats are wrong or deflecting blame back towards women or feminists etc. are just losers. They have no respect.
There's more than one statistic for everything. The one's we cite are seldom said, so they're, at least, worth considering. If you look at the CDC and American Psychiatric Association reports, Anderson, K. L., Aizenman, M., & Kelley, G., Capaldi, D. M, Kim, H. K., & Shortt, J. W, Kalmuss, D., and Makepeace, J. M studies, to name a few, paint a different picture. Also it's kinda hard to claim that we "have no respect"; when you yourself say we "are just losers", without being hypocritical.
I agree, there are more than one stat but the stats I quote have been replicated over and over and over again so they tend to be more valid. I've looked at some of the methodology behind the claims that women are more violent than men. Using the CTS is not reliable nor is it valid. That is one of my main concerns. I can't tell you the countless times I've been attacked by MRA's without one iota of provocation from me. To me, it's backlash misogyny.
You are entitled to your opinions and beliefs. However, my best friend is a director of a battered women's shelter and she goes on calls at all hours of the day and night and I can tell you that 100% of her calls are because a man beat a woman. In cases: he's killed her and the family dog while the two young children cry over the bleeding dog, hit by baseball bats till unrecognizable, burned with cigs, punched, kicked when pregnant, teeth missing, etc. Plus I have my OWN experience:
I was at a DV shelter (2 separate ones) for 63 days. I saw a woman who's husband hit her so hard in the jaw that it broke her tooth, a MOLAR, in half, as well as her jaw. A woman who's hair was burned off by a carpet cutter machine, a woman whose face was almost totally bruised etc. In every video that deals with VAW, men come on and derail the subject of the video with the MRA party lines. Just like this vid and many many more on YT. It's pathetic and predictable.
From your additional comments, I can see that you have some integrity. VAW does not need more publicity; it has all it can handle. VAM otoh receives almost nil publicity. Your "rape' friends will tell you that 1 in 4 women will be violated in their lifetimes, with no stats to back them up. I'm telling you that women commit DV against men AS OFTEN AS men against women and I can provide bona fide stats. But where does the money and advertising go? We need Equality on DV, not lip service to VAW.
What about violence against men? What about when women abuse their children? Why do men not count when they're victims? Why do children not count when their mothers abuse them? Why are feminists so biased against men?
I bet you think your comment was funny right? It's just a joke right? Or maybe you're a woman hater and are battering a woman right now, as I type this. How do you think this comment you left makes you look? Yep, that's right, like a fool. Like a stupid fucking fool. These comments on VAW vids are yet another reason why I'm a feminist. Go read a book and stop talking like a moron.
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I say beat a woman when you get a chance. Women walk around doing what they want these days...opening their big mouth, hitting whomever they want, committing crimes and getting away with it. It's alright to beat a woman. She probably deserves every punch.
Men are subject to much more violence. My name is on a draft list just like every other male in my homeland, and I cold be be enslaved at a political whim to play soldier and be shot at. Incidentally, the number of men who are actually a conscript, is in the tens of millions.
@kbrummell Absolutely they need to be harsher for women who make false allegations of DV and rape. These women should get an equal time in prison as the men would have gotten. They should also be listed as sex offenders.
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But what about violence against men? I'm telling you, once we get rid of violence against women, violence against men is going to shoot up, as crazy as it sounds.
People need to stop being violent to each other no matter what gender. If for some weird reason violence against women ended, what makes you think it would go up for men? Women aren't the ones going into villages and raping and murdering. Men have to take responsibilty for being violent. Does this mean women are perfect? No Women can be violent too, but in comparison to men it's almost NOTHING.
I agree that stopping violence against women isn't going to make violence against men go up. But just because you don't hear about men being abused as much doesn't mean it doesn't happen as much, it just means you don't hear about it as much. And that's not to say that women are always the ones abusing men, likewise men aren't always the ones abusing women.
Instead of trying to get rid of violence against women, we should try to get rid of all violence. Unfortunately, it won't happen.
@Lamia7609 No but women are the ones making false allegations of DV and rape. Women need to take responsibility for themselves. 50% of DV is committed by women. Women are more than twice as likely to kill their children.
This is bullcrap, Why stop violence against women only?, women are distinct in our society therefore subject to violence moreso, they are especially hated for that distinction. You won't stop voilence against women, only make it worse. You only care about women and not men, therefore the double standard, therefore the resentment.
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Reality: When WE ignore the majority of abuse victims (victims OF WOMEN) we'd might as well lend a hand to the abusers. Women commit the most dating, partner and spouse abuse, not men. Likewise, mothers commit the majority of child abuse & murders, not fathers. Stop blaming the most protective and stabilizing family member as an excuse for the real abuse - feminist lies ripping apart families through false abuse allegations and parental alienation child abuse, invisible, pandemic twin crimes.
addvoc8 9 months ago
For every 15 female victims of a violent assault in Australia there are 24 male victims. I have been hospitalized from assault before and I can tell you that no one showed me the support that I would have been afforded had I been a woman. I am a man, therefore expendable and such is the way of our "advanced" Western Culture. Women are afforded such privileges as to take them completely for granted, and continue to maintain their deluded ideas of self-entitlement. Violence upon "PEOPLE" must end!
sp00nytube 9 months ago 6
@sp00nytube Yes, you might think life is brighter on the other side... But its not. Many female victims dont report the crimes against them because they fear no one will believe or give the support they need. Im sorry for all the victims of violance, no matter the gender!!! The main problem with violance against women is that this type of behavior is so natural for many members of our society that it appears to them a being natural and no real problem at all. :(
iakunakuncula 3 months ago
@iakunakuncula I don't doubt women face that, and I hope you don't doubt that men face the EXACT same thing. Hence my questioning of the term "violence against women" and what it suggests about the relevance of a victims' gender. Nobody should receive more or less support based on their race, religion, sexuality, and certainly not their biology.
sp00nytube 3 months ago
@Stinkyknobcheese, so what if this is about women, so what if it discludes men! Its about STOPPING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN....you want to make your own video about others go ahead! All your doing is coming in her trying to upset people who support this cause. I am inclinded to think you are a disgruntled person that got nailed to hard for child support or someone make you suffer the consequences for beating your wife or partner. REAL MEN AND WOMEN don't get offended at stuff like this!
lovelylittlelife 10 months ago
@lovelylittlelife This movie pisses rational minded men because we are not treated equally as victims of ANY CRIME! This video (while under the guise of a noble cause) is simply perpetuating our daily dilemma of not being as important as our wives, mothers, sisters or daughters in every sense, and pigs like you consider it socially acceptable to stand for one group and ignore men who are statistically more affected by violence. I'm not trivializing violence against anyone, it affects EVERYONE!
sp00nytube 9 months ago
@sp00nytube Actually it is the opposite. Women historically have been "the property of men" to do what they wished. In fact, it wasn't until the late 1800 that a law was set in place to give women equal protection like that of men, needless to say, it was in vein, ppl still turned their face! Also, rational minded men would not be pissed because we are out here bringing out awareness of an epidmic that still plagues women. 0.8 per 1000 men are abused a year as opposed to 4.3 per 1000 women.
lovelylittlelife 9 months ago
@sp00nytube Don't be upset because ppl have and support a platform to bring awareness for violence against women. Some people have a platform to only bring awareness for violence against children or cancer or rape or MS....it is one area that is dealt with by certain groups and no real person, man or woman would truly be pissed at that or judge it. In my professional experience I find that many men who are insulted by this are usually the batterers hiding under the disquise of a victim.
lovelylittlelife 9 months ago
@lovelylittlelife Don't tell me not to be upset about something that affects me so deeply you have no right. Nor to label me as not a REAL MAN for taking offence. Your sexual bias clearly runs deep. My problem is with the difference in general social reaction to violence against women as opposed to men. Have you been a victim of assault and been told that because you are "capable" of amicable contest you do not need to be defended by the law? I hope not. I am a victim, no guise.
sp00nytube 9 months ago
@lovelylittlelife Yes there are many platforms that focus solely on MS, Cancer, Child Protection or Rape. Each one being a noble, necessary and unbiased cause. Notice how they are not bringing awareness only to "female" children, or only "female" cancer sufferers (cervical/prostate being the exception)? I am not opposed to women, I cherish the women in my life. It is the "save the women and children 1st" mentality that needs to be disgarded to enforce truly unbiased equality. Are you willing to?
sp00nytube 9 months ago
@sp00nytube They're not bringing awareness to other illnesses. Breast Cancer awareness is for Breast cancer, MS awareness is for MS and Violence against women awareness is violence against women, . Most people worried about women having their own awarenss platform have issues with women anyway. You can get along with Mother Teresa for all I care...if my platform is (and it is) 2 raise awarness of violence against women then that is what I am specifically bringing awareness on and nothing more.
lovelylittlelife 8 months ago
@sp00nytube Are you willing to let women have a voice without a man trying to tell them what they are doing wrong or how it should be done? Are you willing to set aside your bias's and except what they have to say? You have got to be kidding about unbiased equality right? roflmao....don't feel left out! We aren't going anywhere and I will training others on this very subject. Violence against women! Since when is it equality for a man to beat a women?
lovelylittlelife 8 months ago
@lovelylittlelife Don't try and demonize me by insinuating that I approve violence against women or consider it equal. You seem to have a problem with me drawing a comparison of a male victim and a female victim. Do you believe that one needs protection more so than the other? Violence is an act of aggression inflicting dominance over someone less able, in no way does that mean that men are not equally affected by it. Is your point that women are more affected, or just that they matter more?
sp00nytube 8 months ago
@sp00nytube lol there are so many male groups out here that speak to stop violence against women...you should find them and debate with them! Maybe you will learn something!
lovelylittlelife 8 months ago
@lovelylittlelife It is about as equal for a large man to hit a small woman as it is for a large man to hit a small man. I can assure you that the feeling of hopelessness and violation cross over to the male side of the gender barrier. The fact that I see a victim of violence as simply that and not a male/female victim is what draws the difference between you and I. My own mother was a victim to this and I defended her furiously, not because she is a woman, but because she is someone I love.
sp00nytube 8 months ago
@lovelylittlelife Your so right! Don't pay no attention to this person!
mztracie0826 8 months ago
@mztracie0826 Oh I'm not worried about ol' boy. Those are usually the men that hit or abuse women and have had charges brought against them. Not surprising at all! They like to boohoo about womens rights and play "the victim" so people will pay them some attention lol...
lovelylittlelife 8 months ago
@lovelylittlelife victim blaming are actually normal for bigots. And that's a shame.
Kenshiroit 8 months ago
@sp00nytube Typical response of a bitter man who has probably been turned in by the women he abused. Usually it is "pigs" like you that try to stop women from having a voice of their own to bring awareness on "WOMENS" issues. You trivialized it the second you denounced this video! Your dilemma is not with the video it is with women having something of their own and speaking about it. You will probably respond back with some bs spewing out of your mouth like your comment, typical justifications
mztracie0826 8 months ago
@mztracie0826 I have written very clearly what my issues are with these "WOMEN'S" issues being treated as just that, as if men are unaffected by the same thing. I can proudly say that I have never laid a hand on another human being, even in self defense. But since you have already dismissed my every word as BS simply because you are unable to relate to my arguments I feel no need to justify them to you. Am I not entitled to express my opinion without presumption of guilt based on my biology?
sp00nytube 8 months ago
@sp00nytube Then make a video for awareness of violence against men for crying out loud! Typical freakin man! What is up with you not wanting women to have a voice for themselves! So since you can't relate to womens arguments you still have to bully and cry and whine "it's not fair, its not equal, you are pigs, " whaa whaa whaa blah blah blah! Oh by the way I don't know where you get your statistics from but men are not more affected by violence from women!
mztracie0826 8 months ago
@mztracie0826 Who could possibly stand to reason against such an articulate argument? The fact that you see my comparison of male and female damage from violence as a way of trivializing female victims clearly shows your lack of regard for male victims. I got my statistics from the Australian Institute of Criminology section on victims of violent crime, where do you get your statistics from? To make a video about violence against men would be just as narrow minded and unfair to female victims.
sp00nytube 8 months ago
@sp00nytube I get my statistics from several places which include NCADV, (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence which is federal here in the United States.) Also, I don't disregard men being victims however, we are talking about women being victims of domestic violence at the hands of men. You trying to be pushy and demanding women include men in a cause that is for women. Again, if you want a cause to bring awareness for men then do so and stop trying intrude on something for women!
mztracie0826 8 months ago
@mztracie0826 Your statistics focus solely on DOMESTIC violence, whereas mine cover all violent crime which includes domestic. You have outright admitted that you are happy to ignore that nearly 1 in 3 victims of domestic violence in the home is male as well as over 60% of all violent crime (in and out of the home) also being male. Stopping violence is noble you have no argument from me there, but focussing on 1 group for no good reason other than gender is nothing short of prejudice.
sp00nytube 8 months ago
@sp00nytube 'but focussing on 1 group for no good reason other than gender is nothing short of prejudice.'
True and it is a shame watching lot of smart people dumbing themselves down for prejudice. Prejudges against women hurts men to, and prejudice and against men hurts women also.
Kenshiroit 8 months ago
@sp00nytube lol...I do laugh at you because I find it rather pathetic that you feel the need to jump on women and try to push your view on a group that is speaking out against violence at the hands of men and being under a mans thumb and here you are crying like a baby "what about men" trying to force your views and telling women they are wrong for not including men which is the sex they have been abused by. smh....Give women their piece and their voice and leave them alone!
mztracie0826 8 months ago
@sp00nytube Your also intrusive and and insensitive to a womens cause which is actually obnoxious and pathetic!
mztracie0826 8 months ago
@mztracie0826 For all your abuse directed at me you have still failed to answer the core question at my argument: Why draw a line in the sand that need not be there? Why not address violence as a whole instead of focussing on an individual group? For your information I voice quite regularly against mens opnions if I find them to be unjust, this need not be about men/women but has been turned into a battle of the sexes. Had this video been about violence against men my opinion would not change.
sp00nytube 8 months ago
@mztracie0826 women have lot of voices. And thats good, but its paramount that we all spread the awareness that DV is not a gender issue. And all the conclusion based on gender are bogus. Because they dont take in consideration all the factors involved. Boys vs are bogus and obsolete.
Kenshiroit 8 months ago
@Kenshiroit Yup not wrong. I suppose that's one of the most damaging parts for me to hear "Men are the reason" as if it is the gender that is the governing factor of the actions that abusers take. Anger, depression, substance abuse, stress and trauma are the motives for violence, not anatomy. Men are definitely more likely, but that shouldn't incriminate all of us. I think it's well overdue that kind of mentality gets buried along with violence itself. Encouragement for good people is a must!
sp00nytube 8 months ago
@sp00nytube true, I really cant take serious people (men/women) when they use the old bogus rethoric boys vs girls. We r in 2011 not 1968 we should have get smarter than that. All the semplicistic theoryes who sum everything up in good vs evil r always plain wrong. Social dynamics r far to complex to be potrayed with the same fraudolent equation. And im puzzled that some people, despite all moder mass media at disposal they stick to it like it was a religious thing. To much banality, sad indeed.
Kenshiroit 8 months ago
the hotline dot org
TheAnnafisher 10 months ago
STFU get back in the kitchen and make me a fucking sandwich or else! LOL but seriously I've only meet one women who was treated bad by her "man" she told me she can't leave her husband becasue she was affraid of him, I asked "where is he now"? (she was at a party alone) "oh he's in jail right now" what.... the.... fuck....RUN BITCH RUN! nows your chance. She must have loved the drama or something I couldn't believe what she said!!!!
MrHangbush 10 months ago
Truth = CURE for Domestic violence. FACT: STUDIES show men are not the main abusers in the home or dating, WOMEN ARE. Studies also show that the main cause of domestic violence injuries & deaths to women are likewise because "women can do no wrong," and thus WOMEN attack their male partners over and over until the majority are injured or murdered. Yet we don't dare address the best protection = equality. Try true equality next time for best results. Propaganda & Hysteria = the real problem.
addvoc8 11 months ago
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Ilarysis 11 months ago
really nice work! No oppression No abuse!
thelksis 11 months ago
Great work!
ButHeLovesMe 1 year ago
Why men can be abused? but women can't be abused? I don't see any reason! Make laws fair! Someday I believe men will stand up against this.. if not WILL KEEP FIGHTING!!!
asstormery 1 year ago
Quit acting weak then you will be considered not weak duhhh
christio8p 1 year ago
Women are pathetic.
Quit whining you attention whores.
PersoAryanism 1 year ago
Some guyz are being defensive about the statz; factually, women & kidz bear the harshest physical consequencez of DV. However, we should keep in mind that many men were victimized as kidz & continue the cycle, whereas, many girls become women who seek the familiararity of being abused. I am unamuzed with women who do this, especiially when there are children to think about- staying in the situation makes them bystander abusers.
Thus, women play a large role in breaking these damaging cyclez!
SJofDecatur 1 year ago
@SJofDecatur You are completely off the mark again. It is a known fact that most abuse and murders on children are perpetrated by women. Mothers abuse murder their own children more than fathers do.
Do you need me to google for you again?
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
BTW: a bi-partisan support for ending DV [kidz & women stats are noted]whitehouse.gov/blog/2010/12/20/president-obama-signs-critical-legislation-prevent-child-abuse-and-domestic-violence
SJofDecatur 1 year ago
I am shocked that anyone would have anything negative to say about this video. The artwork is absolutely beautiful, the message is powerful and so incredibly important. Thank you for this message.
anaksunamoone 1 year ago
85% of DV victims are women... 30% to 60% of perpetrators of intimate partner violence also abuse children in the household
Go to ncadv.org DomesticViolenceFactSheet(National)
SJofDecatur 1 year ago
@SJofDecatur No 50% of domestic violence is committed by women. You can't trust a feminist source for your facts.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
@StinkyKnobcheese There's nothing wrong with tru-feminism [where boys, men, trans, girls & women are seen as equal & worthy of justice] Anyhow, there are many more sourcez out there... perhaps you should do some HW... Also, it just occured to Me that with the screen name you have- there is little chance that you are a positive person, hence the anti-feminist sentimentz-
SJofDecatur 1 year ago
@SJofDecatur True Feminism never existed. It started off as man hating hypocrisy (as in this video) and it still is today.
Yes there are plenty of resources that are impartial, with no feminist agenda, you should look into them.
Perhaps it is you who needs to do some HW. If you did you might realise my screen name is actually about.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
@StinkyKnobcheese As stated above- the sources I've shown you are non-partisan; no particulare feminist agenda, just trying to reduce the # of women & kidz damaged by DV - since it is a proven fact that they are the largest populationz abused.
If you have some great source to the contrary, please do share... I've been doing HW for 2 decadez & have not seen what you are ranting about. Also- there's no source that explainz a positive meaning for knob cheeze... stinky or otherwise
GIVE SOURCEZ!
SJofDecatur 1 year ago
@SJofDecatur
eworldwire (.) com/pressreleases/ 17670
Google is not hard to use.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
looking for a single woman
kimshitty 1 year ago
garbage.
The2rps 1 year ago
This is the most ridiculous stupid shit I have ever seen, women need to be put in their place, below the almighty man.
NiggaDildo69 1 year ago
This vid was well done and the art is very moving and speaks volumes. To those who are "sick of heating about it", shut up! The world's women are sick of LIVING it!! The "might makes right" attitude is finally being effectively challenged in a big way thanks to the internet. Now we need the GOOD men of the world to form neighborhood groups who will go have meaningful "discussions" with known and suspected batterers to let them know THEY will not put up with it! Peer pressure and support for both
DiaMentor087 1 year ago
1 month ago 2 I am sick of the sexist, onesided, misleading commercials that depict women only as victims and men only as abusers. This denies reality and does not help stop violence against anyone, it just builds resentment. The makers of these ads and the prime movers of the thought behind it, should be arrested and charged with hate crimes. If we are to have a "STOP THE VIOLENCE", let it reflect the truth, men and women are both victim and abusers! STOP THE SEXISM.
GTCism 1 year ago
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I am sick of the sexist, onesided, misleading commercials that depict women only as victims and men only as abusers. This denies reality and does not help stop violence against anyone, it just builds resentment. The makers of these ads and the prime movers of the thought behind it, should be arrested and charged with hate crimes. If we are to have a "STOP THE VIOLENCE", let it reflect the truth, men and women are both victim and abusers! STOP THE SEXISM.
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lynnemccarthysa 1 year ago
Violence against men video. Better make some sandwiches so we don't starve.
z2ato 1 year ago
her house, he then beat her, and said if she ever phoned them again, he'd kill her. I'd like to take care of it personally, however obviously I can't teleport, however I plan on visiting her & him sometime next year... Violence against women is sick. If I knew anyone who did it, i'd break their fingers and other bones depending on how bad it was. I hope you all would aswell, and for anyone who does hurt women reading this, if I ever hear about you doing i to someone I know, you will get hurt.
initbludROFL 1 year ago
@initbludROFL there is a national DV line freephone in the US 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.3224 (TTY)
Anonymous & Confidential Help 24/7 the website is ndvh.org
hope your friend is able to find her way free of the abuser ... also advise her if she is no longer living with him to get the lundy bancroft book "why does he do that, inside the minds of angry and controlling men" (it says men but might as well read people it is flexible to any abuser) bx
daobecca 1 year ago
I'm from the UK, and I talk to a girl who's 18 in NYC America, and she's just told me that her ex-boyfriend gets drunk & high, and is violent... He recently, broke her ribs, shot her in the shoulder & cracked her skull. He then 3 days later after coming out of hospital, raped her, and re-broke her ribs (they were healing not healed). She phoned the police and told them what had happened, he managed to get out of it somehow and then he went straight from the police department to || (Part 1).
initbludROFL 1 year ago
Why don't you show all the children and men which women abuse and beat up??? Women commit the most DV of all, especially against children whom they abuse AND kill at twice the rate fathers do. They initiate nearly twice as much partner violence as well... Why no concern there? Free pass? Supremacy is fine then? Double standards are the greatest violence of all.
See: abusegate investigate
addvoc8 1 year ago
@addvoc8 maybe you could organise a collection of artwork highlighting the impact of violence and abuse to male victims of DV?
also did you know that without the feminist refuge movement the male DV orgs would not exist or have a framework of practice from which to build on? maybe advocates against DV to men and those against DV to women should stop belittling and abusing each other and begin working together? Interested pm me i have a website aiming to do just that ...
daobecca 1 year ago
@daobecca Actually neither you, I or anyone should want to follow the example of feminist women's "shelters" which are a mess. They exploit and abuse far more women than they help, and children too. No thanks you on that one... Shelters should be willing to help ALL and not exploit and abuse women and children while pretending the opposite is their goal...
To best accomplish your real goal - contact Trudy Schuett (do a search for her, and also: America's War on Families)
addvoc8 1 year ago
@addvoc8: - The shelters as i have experienced them in the UK though far from perfect save lives daily, and you know what without them the end violence against men movement would frankly be without direction ...
Feminism is far from perfect, particularly 'radical feminism' which is often hate speech against men, but without it neither you nor I would be able to speak about dv with any degree of knowledge, theory or practice upon which to build new practice, theory and knowledge on. fact.
daobecca 1 year ago
I look forward to your 'Stop Violence Against Men!' video also. I know you will make one because you are clearly in support of equality.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago 4
@StinkyKnobcheese
I am. I'm against violence towards men, children, races(all races), gays and religions(all religions). This video happens to be about women. To support this cause is not to exclude others. For example- to support saving ocean life is not to say be damned with land creatures.
platch 1 year ago 3
@platch To support a blatantly sexist set of laws such as VAWA is still supporting sexism.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
@StinkyKnobcheese Statistically - if men stopped... the problem would be nearly solved...
SJofDecatur 1 year ago
@SJofDecatur Yes 50% of Domestic violence would be stopped. The other 50% would still exist because women commit it.
Statistically if women were not allowed to look after their own kids, domestic violence and murder against their own kids would be almost wiped out since women beat and murder their own children far more.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
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@StinkyKnobcheese 85% of DV victims are women... 30% to 60% of perpetrators of intimate partner violence also abuse children in the household
Go to ncadv.org DomesticViolenceFactSheet(National)
SJofDecatur 1 year ago
That artwork sucks and the music feels like something I'd listen to in an elevator.
SageofCancer 2 years ago
@SageofCancer Thanks. I'm glad you enjoyed it so much.
platch 1 year ago 8
The english are fags.
Parliamentary democracy is disaster and they are to blame. The jews too.
Never forget.
fitzpatrick2005 2 years ago
amazing artwork. really represents the issue well.
By the way I am a man and I'm against violence against women!
I am currently trying to organise a men against rape protest march! Check out the guys from White Ribbon Campaign and Walk a Mile in Her Shoes
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
Spiritflux, i guess that you, by ommission, are FOR women's violence against men, eh? Or is this just a plot to get laid? Why do you need a men against rape march? Did some idiot tell you that men are FOR rape? Are there ANY men you know personally that are FOR rape? Why not march for equality in DV law? Oh, that won't getcha laid, will it? Wise up and smell the equality coffee.
anarqist 2 years ago 2
Anarqist: Following your logic a protest march against the war in Iraq implies that the protesters are FOR the war in Dafur/Gaza etc..; or a rally against racism implies support for homophobia.
Of course I'm against violence against men. I just believe VAW needs to be categorised separately in order to be dealt with effectively.
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
Obviously the fact that rape happens means that some men are pro-rape. Research in the UK found that a large minority of schoolboys thought that forced sex was acceptable in some circumstances. Luckily I no longer no any men like this personally.
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
If you are against anti-male sexism, then why do you make the assumption that any man supporting womens rights is only doing it to get laid? Your saying that all men are sex-crazed jerks who care more about selfish pleasure than moral principles. I find this sexist (anti-male) attitude highly offensive to good men everywhere. You sound just like Valerie Solanas!
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
Funny how male chauvinists make the worst anti-male statements.
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
For the record as a born-again Christian I am a virgin saving myself for marriage. I do not intend to use my anti-violence work as a means to attracting women as that would be seriously wrong.
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
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SpiritFlux 2 years ago
I must also add that the organisation I am founding to organised this mens anti-rape march also plans to highlight the issue of male victims of violence.
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
So many angry men on this board..so many crimes against women in the world at the hands of a man. Pity, really that these "men" who have hatred towards women to such a degree that they rape and torture. It stems from their own self-hatred and exemplifies their own insecurities. Sorry that you are fat, balding, hairy, have small dicks, mental illness or whatever hideous attributes that have caused you to live your pathetic lives this way. Thank God for DNA and the sweet laws of justice!!!!
knockout68 2 years ago
"Thank God for DNA"
What does that mean you retard?
fitzpatrick2005 2 years ago
Go to dvstats(dot)org to see the real story unless you're a coward and afraid to see the truth. buck-buck-buck. Women commit DV as often as men. You have been brainwashed by the ugly pictures of bruised women. Time for an equal view, comrade.
anarqist 2 years ago 2
What about violence against unborn child (abortion)?
It's WORST than that "against women"?
excelmaster7 2 years ago
@excelmaster7 "abortion"
Fuck off with your religious mental illness.
fitzpatrick2005 2 years ago
fitzpatrick:
"Religious mental illnes"? If I'm atheist... thank God!! ha, ha, ha.
Don't fool yourself: the real issue is violence that woman exerts.
Such violence may go from slaps to her boyfriends (all classic), to the brutal abortion, going through sexual harassment to men (not to get his sexual favors, but to strip his assets), and false victimhood.
excelmaster7 2 years ago
hit a woman everyday and you will win the lottery i did
yankonthis 2 years ago
the male comments are typical, don't want to be part of the solution because they are the problem. So they deflect the blame away from themselves.
777hathor 2 years ago
I agree. Men who make these kinds of crazy comments about how DV stats are wrong or deflecting blame back towards women or feminists etc. are just losers. They have no respect.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
There's more than one statistic for everything. The one's we cite are seldom said, so they're, at least, worth considering. If you look at the CDC and American Psychiatric Association reports, Anderson, K. L., Aizenman, M., & Kelley, G., Capaldi, D. M, Kim, H. K., & Shortt, J. W, Kalmuss, D., and Makepeace, J. M studies, to name a few, paint a different picture. Also it's kinda hard to claim that we "have no respect"; when you yourself say we "are just losers", without being hypocritical.
menareangrynow 2 years ago
I agree, there are more than one stat but the stats I quote have been replicated over and over and over again so they tend to be more valid. I've looked at some of the methodology behind the claims that women are more violent than men. Using the CTS is not reliable nor is it valid. That is one of my main concerns. I can't tell you the countless times I've been attacked by MRA's without one iota of provocation from me. To me, it's backlash misogyny.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
You are entitled to your opinions and beliefs. However, my best friend is a director of a battered women's shelter and she goes on calls at all hours of the day and night and I can tell you that 100% of her calls are because a man beat a woman. In cases: he's killed her and the family dog while the two young children cry over the bleeding dog, hit by baseball bats till unrecognizable, burned with cigs, punched, kicked when pregnant, teeth missing, etc. Plus I have my OWN experience:
DianaBoston 2 years ago
I was at a DV shelter (2 separate ones) for 63 days. I saw a woman who's husband hit her so hard in the jaw that it broke her tooth, a MOLAR, in half, as well as her jaw. A woman who's hair was burned off by a carpet cutter machine, a woman whose face was almost totally bruised etc. In every video that deals with VAW, men come on and derail the subject of the video with the MRA party lines. Just like this vid and many many more on YT. It's pathetic and predictable.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
i'm not personally part of the problem, but I want to be part of the solution.
SpiritFlux 2 years ago
From your additional comments, I can see that you have some integrity. VAW does not need more publicity; it has all it can handle. VAM otoh receives almost nil publicity. Your "rape' friends will tell you that 1 in 4 women will be violated in their lifetimes, with no stats to back them up. I'm telling you that women commit DV against men AS OFTEN AS men against women and I can provide bona fide stats. But where does the money and advertising go? We need Equality on DV, not lip service to VAW.
anarqist 2 years ago
What about violence against men? What about when women abuse their children? Why do men not count when they're victims? Why do children not count when their mothers abuse them? Why are feminists so biased against men?
puyen58 2 years ago 2
@puyen58 because most of the abusers are male. Sure there are women abusing men and children but it's so much more common that abusers are male.
herrMaria 1 year ago
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TEKM0SIS 2 years ago
i'm gonna go get drunk and beat my wife
TEKM0SIS 2 years ago
I bet you think your comment was funny right? It's just a joke right? Or maybe you're a woman hater and are battering a woman right now, as I type this. How do you think this comment you left makes you look? Yep, that's right, like a fool. Like a stupid fucking fool. These comments on VAW vids are yet another reason why I'm a feminist. Go read a book and stop talking like a moron.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
I just punted my infant child across the room when I read your comment lol
TEKM0SIS 2 years ago
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Trash. They don't get hit hard enough!
survivalist111 2 years ago
who cares
n1ckz0r 3 years ago
i sure as hell don't
TEKM0SIS 2 years ago
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I say beat a woman when you get a chance. Women walk around doing what they want these days...opening their big mouth, hitting whomever they want, committing crimes and getting away with it. It's alright to beat a woman. She probably deserves every punch.
davidbenjamindix 3 years ago
aaw yo mama didn't hug you ain't that right?
That's why you instigatin us to with them fight?
What's wrong with you, you crazy little fag
you suck and deserve all the internet's lag! >=3
Women are to be loved for being women and respected for being human, If you as a man can't do it, you must be gay and stupid!!!
Firelore 3 years ago
there is also violence against men but it occur less
but men are victim of loosing their child when they break up, because most judges favours the woman in a divorce case
Cedde82 3 years ago
Men are subject to much more violence. My name is on a draft list just like every other male in my homeland, and I cold be be enslaved at a political whim to play soldier and be shot at. Incidentally, the number of men who are actually a conscript, is in the tens of millions.
mattcg90 2 years ago
Really worrying violence is the femenine violence.
excelmaster7 2 years ago
Violence against women has been an epidemic for the longest times. Laws need to be improved and harsher.
kbrummell 3 years ago 7
@kbrummell Absolutely they need to be harsher for women who make false allegations of DV and rape. These women should get an equal time in prison as the men would have gotten. They should also be listed as sex offenders.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
stop violence, not only violence against women. But violence against women is too popular, that's why people try to make it end.
Don't forget mentally violence!
Make peace now.<3
MangaVampire90 3 years ago 13
hey.. nic one too.. i have made a video too with same topic..
INOCENTYO 3 years ago 2
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But what about violence against men? I'm telling you, once we get rid of violence against women, violence against men is going to shoot up, as crazy as it sounds.
Punk13405 4 years ago
jesus christ
Norflon2k8 4 years ago 4
People need to stop being violent to each other no matter what gender. If for some weird reason violence against women ended, what makes you think it would go up for men? Women aren't the ones going into villages and raping and murdering. Men have to take responsibilty for being violent. Does this mean women are perfect? No Women can be violent too, but in comparison to men it's almost NOTHING.
Lamia7609 3 years ago 15
I agree that stopping violence against women isn't going to make violence against men go up. But just because you don't hear about men being abused as much doesn't mean it doesn't happen as much, it just means you don't hear about it as much. And that's not to say that women are always the ones abusing men, likewise men aren't always the ones abusing women.
Instead of trying to get rid of violence against women, we should try to get rid of all violence. Unfortunately, it won't happen.
thatdumbkid 3 years ago 2
yep I agree
Lamia7609 3 years ago
Why don't you think violence against women will stop?
DianaBoston 2 years ago
@Lamia7609 No but women are the ones making false allegations of DV and rape. Women need to take responsibility for themselves. 50% of DV is committed by women. Women are more than twice as likely to kill their children.
StinkyKnobcheese 1 year ago
@Lamia7609 It won't go up for men, but it would stay the same.
AmericaDevil 1 year ago
simply stunning.
lilyrose224 4 years ago 7
Aw, with the sensitivity and such.
jossminion 5 years ago 3