IS GOING TO THE STRIP CLUB CHEATING WHEN UR IN A RELATIONSHIP????

[dhill2216]

Ladies, I think that it makes a relationship stronger because I am a man who loves a sexy butt and going to strip clubs is relaxing. So sexy dancing and hot girls will be a part of my life. So enjoy it and I will

[TequilaAssassin4eva]

mmmmm them's some beautiful black women...what do I gotta do to get at that damn!! Girls be givin' me jungle fever...

[Gary190tube]

It's only considered cheating if a man does it, coz that means he's an evil sex pervert. If a woman goes to a stripclub then it's OK coz she's just having a "bit of fun" with her friends.

It's called "feminist logic" !

[ScottRMcpherson]

i hope not, my old lady works at the strip club..

[LadyBludgeon]

My hubby actually asks me "Wanna go to a strip club?" I always say yes, because it spices me up. Men are boring at times & aren't as creative as us ladies are. It's entertainment. He does go on his own with his friends, though he doesn't do it a lot because he says it's cheaper seeing me strip & would get a happy ending without any STDs. LOL Any man who cheats on his gf or wife with a stripper ought to be careful, many of of them (not all) are diseased. Thanks for sharing. Peace to all.

[Gripmasta]

Ya say ya gonna go get a strip pole victoria secrets and go strip 4 ur man.

No wonder they in the strip club cuz ya late on ya grind pleasing your man should be 1st prioroty. If you guys were srtripin 4 your man they wouldnt be in the club.

common sense stop being boring in the bedroom and your men wont stray point blank.Thanx 4 the good topic.

[jawesome28]

The one in the pink wasup boo lol

[jawesome28]

its not cheating ur enjoyin urself I dnt care as long as she doin me lol

[M0R3N1TA09]

i agree 100%. if ur worried about ur man telling you he wants to go to the strip club.. DONT. he doesnt have plans on cheating on u cause if he did he wouldn't let u know in advance! lol but like you guys said if hes going, im going too! lol this was a good topic ;)

[illbiskits]

I know this video came out in 2009 but I will still respond. Personally I don't think it is necessarily cheating, because most of the time you can go out dancing at a club or something and get the same affect. Some girl grinding away on ya crotch, possibly get aroused, then you move on. So would you say that going out to a club is cheating also? And I have a question, have any of you girls ever gone to a male strip club? If so would you consider THAT cheating?

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

@illbiskits If you go to the club and you let some girl grind all over you yes that is cheating! Anything that you wouldn't do or say around your mate is cheating to us. And yes we have been to a male strip club duh!! And if you let the males grind up on you THAT is cheating.We never said GOING is cheating its what you do when you get there!

[DemonDog6661]

Wooow.... Look at the maturity level of these comments...

[yummdiddy]

nothing better than new booty so for some they need outside influence to keep the juices flowing

[earthdefenceftw]

Hey ladies, thanks a lot for this video. I personally wouldn't go to a strip club *never been to one*. I have a girlfriend right now and I don't need to see other naked girls to get turned on, she's enough for me. I don't see why a guy who is in a relationship would go to a strip club in the first place and I don't see how his girl would be okay with it. Getting insecure over your man checking out other women isn't worth it but it still is a concern isn't it?

[TheNDFX]

Honestly, ive always lived by this....you can look but you cant touch....so i mean if u just go to a strip club to hang out with some friends or something and enjoy ur self i dont see it as bad idea....but if you do more than just check out the strippers or whatever then yeah i would say thats cheating.

[SirFoggy2Doped]

NO FUCKING WAY.

I'm a man and I'll be getting turned on like that by MY girl and noone else.

Whod' need to go out and watch ANOTHER chick for the sake of makin'it with you???,LMAO!!!

[brielli81107]

me nd my man fight about this all the time when he goes but now i dont mind cuz he always ask me if its okay nd he isnt aloud 2 touch. I rather him go 2 a strip club then cheat on me nd he tells me y would i cheat on u nd pay for it if i can get at home for free

[cyc0tic]

I am fine with my partner going to a strip club. It's like looking at a fine body in the street or on the beach. I feel sorry for those guys who's women complain when they are get caught looking at a very attractive woman. Usually my wife points them out for me. :)

[rasclatpussyhole]

How come no one answered the question???? As for me............. That would be hot if my girlfriend went to a strip club! Like damn, my baby loves sex! I'd go with her if she wanted me to lol then when we got home I would make her cum like crazy!

[chicagosfinest2k10]

Its only cheating when your at the motel after you paid the hoe.Thats when its cheating.

[futurejones22]

bitch you ugly you bougish as hell stupid hoe ass mutha fucka dont post nomoe cause you BOUGISH!!!!!!!!!!

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

Bitch your mother is the ugly one do you even realize or care that you are the ignorant stupid one! you and ya moms are the whores ur granny too! dont post no more vids??? Bitch only if u kill urself!

[princesspebbles24]

man yall are so pretty to me...u guys dont look like the avrage female...and i love yall dreads too

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

AWW thank you!!!

[ejleed]

this went HARD. both of you...

[dmalgee89]

omg yall talk alike look a like act alike thats scary keep up the videos

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

:) Thanks

[bearr7]

GRIZZLYKINGs!

[bearr7]

I LOVE YOU BOTH!!!

[xekingx]

wht did yu say ? im deaf umm

[elusmus]

im a dude commenting on this topic so yeah u cheating if you go to a strip club

because what does that man have that i dont you shouldnt be looking at another man if we're in a relationship i could do that shit at home geez

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We can see where you're coming from...

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We agree with you!

[malcmerc]

(Plz read i didnt want to put all this for no reason) I say u pray and ask God to give u wisdom and well u better hope and pray that this is the guy for you because hes probably not paying any attention to you.

And another thing i may be young and yall may not agree with me but being a stripper is really not cool and i believe yall need o go to church and maybe see what Jesus has to say about this

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

First of all where are your parents and do they know you are on the internet trying to converse with adults about adult things????? second if someone wants to be a stripper who are you to judge? Third you are the one who needs to be in church and in school! Fourth who really cares what you believe ur only 13 and you can barely comprehend!!!!

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

and your trifling ass mother is a dick sucking whore. oh and we have jobs make sure you have one sucking dick is not a job bitch and we have nappy hair LOFAO we have lip gloss on so no ones lips are ashy suck both of our asses until your jaws explode with shit you jealous bitch ;)

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

Why should we get a life when its obvious you have no life! You sought us out and looked at our vids don't think we don't know that we had to block you before so how about you go and grease down your spermed covered lips!

[RASTATVREALTV]

NO THATS NOT CHEATING

[devinrodeo]

I SAY GO TOGEHER

[JellyMuck]

I would not care if my guy went 2 a strip club...just aslong as i can come 2....He can't get no lap dance....I will do that for him at home.

[newbooty1002]

Yo Shawtys Ima Keep It 100 wit ya'll now just thank of the spot ya man going.Now its tru when a man a the strip club they look and lust after these strippers Thats why its called a strip club now if you wont to go with ya man thats cool to now dont be surprized if he ask you to get a lap dance from the stripper. Hi like you said If the money rite he might get some from her tonight or should i say ya'll gonna get wild-n-busy tonight.

[scj816]

You both look so much like India.Arie!!! I loved the video...it's such a controversial topic. I don't think that it's cheating either but I DEFINITELY don't want him going to the strip club!

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

Wow really? That's a new one people always say we look like Lauryn Hill or either Fantasia cuz of our mouth lol But yes we feel u;)

[lordthought]

........when u have who u want those desires leave..its natural 2 find others attractive..but who can disopline themselves and walk the straight path?its about respect 4 ur mate and self control.dont lower ur standards by sayin he comes home 2 me!y would u want sum1 who hangs out lookin 4 or at other women 2 come back 2 u.u need 2 tell the nigga make his mind up.

[DestinyAwaiting]

ok read the last 1 then work yall way up.lol it made me break my comment up into 3 differnt comments

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

Girl everything you said was on point!!!

[DestinyAwaiting]

so with that being said,unless its some bachelor party or sumthin like that.why would u desire getting pleased by another woman.now days if u got the right amount u get more than a dance.f'dat!

[DestinyAwaiting]

if u in a relationship,wat ever it is u getting mentally (better not be physically)from that stripper u should already be getting from the 1 u with.

[DestinyAwaiting]

personally would be against my man going to any strip club.i would pick that over private at home strippers though.its not cheating but of course can be.

[PhoenixTheDragon]

It all depends on the mental and physical boundaries that are set between the parties involved.

If he or she goes to the s.c. because they have a "TYPE" and their mate is not that,their mate may be a place holder. If they go because they feel that they need mental and/or physical variety their mate may not be a one woman or one man person.

[humblechick3000]

any thing that could possibly take away the trust of your mate or something that you could not even think to tell your mate is cheating...so if your mate is cool with you going to the strip clubs..its not cheating. i mean thats just how i see it.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

That is a very good way to look at.....

[honeyhued08]

HI TWINZ, I am going to get beat up for this, but i think it is.

It all depends on the circumstances of your relationship.

If you look at someone and desire them (if the person is not desirable why go) for those who offer a rebuttal.

You are cheating on them,(mentally) your eyes are only meant for your mate.

But then too, I think a person does not belong to you unless you are married to them.

So if a marriage mate, yes, but if just "kickin it" not seriously dating I would agree no.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

Hey Girlie, You are right it does depend on the circumstances of the relationship this topic could be so touchy and deep cause people tend to think with emotions but we understand exactly what you are saying

[steven2be2003]

if they are not having sex then its not cheating..

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We agree :)

[SeanTimpson]

Its not cheating...if they fucking the strippers then yes its cheating. But me and my boys go to the strip club sometime. And never once have I cheated on my girl. And my girl is even welcome to come with me. She is not a insecure woman.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We hear you an that is good to invite ur girl too.

[johsibo]

Well, cheating is not only the fuck itself...you can cheat in other ways as well, we should not forget that! And if a woman/man don´t like her/his partner to go to strip clubs or even if they feel it´s okay, don´t make them any more or less insecure..... In fact the one who wants to go to strip clubs should ask him/herself why couldn´t the wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husb­and or partner do the strip to you!

[johsibo]

Why to go to see some stranger taking the clothes off if someone at home can do the same thing and then again, would you like if your very own partner would do the strip for somebody else other than you...? ..so everyone who thinks if not having sex=not cheating then u should think a bit deeper. -peace&love

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We get what you are saying but thats like a different topic. Most people consider cheating a physical thing but we think you can cheat mentally or emotionally too it depends on the situation.

[SeanTimpson]

Josibo, When I met my girl she was a stripper. I met her at the strip club and yes she was giving lap dances. At that time she was going the college...she worked as a cashier at a department store on weekdays and stripped on weekends to help pay college expenses and rent.

[SeanTimpson]

She no longer strips, she is an engineer. Plus she is my fiancee.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

That's whats up!! And thanks for keeping it real!!;)

[johsibo]

I personally don´t think it´s an option to take if you´re having a hard time with finacially and I do know what means to be Broke!! But we all think different, we all have to take different choices in life etc... But I´m very Proud of your girl and you two as a couple, though! (..No hard feelings whatsoever SeanTimpson)

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We think you can cheat in other ways but a female would consider going to see a dancer or getting a lap dance is cheating befoere a male would and that is because a female is more emotional than a man.

[ronzilla3000]

Its not cheating if she sell it under $60! but nah I dont mind if my girl goes as long as she dont come back with nut on her face hhaha no just kidding-as long as she dont come back pickin on my body flaws.I go sometimes but if my girl goes it kinda kills the point! sometimes i need 2 see somthin new. we always gonna wanna fuck new girls but the reality is its not in the best interest if u value ur relationship. ahhh science cccccc

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

Lol An we can dig it!

[marable65]

naw i dont think its cheatin its only cheatin wen ur partner is goin 2 get at otha females. in a way its a good thing like yall said ur man go 2 da strip club or a female go 2 da strip club n cum home beyond horny n work ur ass 2 death. it aint cheatin u cant jus b wit da norm all da time, a strip cliub can open up a new level of horniness 4 ur ass. it will help it da bedroom. i dont care if my gurl go 2 stri club as long as she cum home 2 daddy

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

LOL true.

[jasonbillie]

i dont think so...not unless u trying to fuck or pick up these women

now in the case of marriage its not still but its weird

strippers are just naked people who need dollar bills

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

Lol you are a trip but you right!

[kardeia]

for real it depends on how she handles herself in the club because some women get turned on from these dudes on TV so if she handles it like she suppose to so it is with it is

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We hear ya!!

[majestysozey]

hell noooo,it ain't cheating!!!now if u pulla jump off and smash something else from the club yes...but i think if u go make it drizzle a little have fun and go home and knock the lining out ur spouse with some off the chainess sex, then its all good!!

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

And you know this!! ;)

[majestysozey]

exactly,some people really don't know how to use the strip club to their advantage..i had an ex that basiclly sent me to clubs,but with rules..don't spend the rent money,don't have sex,and don't get to drunk..then bring all that pinned up aggression home and release!!!can u say WOW!!!!!!?

[BigboyHollywood]

While I don't think it's cheating by simply going to the strip club I wouldn't want my significant other doing that. Both parties have to be on the same page on this issue. Now if the man is thinking of having the woman learning stripper moves to spice of their love life then that's a whole different thing.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

True :)

[SpiritedAquarius]

Hmmm , honestly FOR ME...its his PERSONAL THOUGHTS...that I would be thinking about.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

LOL you do have a point there I would wond just a lil bit too!;)

[HatersInspireMe]

Some woman have no problem with they man going to the strip club. They go right a long with him.

Me personally, I don't want my man going to the strip club. It has to be 50/50. Come on now, keep it real...would ur man be comfortable with u going to the strip club? Hell no lol. If my man wants to see a stripper I know how to put on the lingerie and get my sexy on. But things like this need to be discussed in the beginning of the relationship so yall can have a clear understanding of things

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

You should talk about these things early in the relationship it would help a great deal!

[mischatal]

I'm a man, and I have to confess that I have never been to a strip club. If I ever did go to one, I would expect it be be a laugh, a guys night out. I suppose it depends on the type of club, does it have a bit of playfulness or is the club just an oggling dirt type? If your man goes by himself to these things, you got a problem.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

That is exactly why we use to go to get a laugh! when we went to see the men dance it was sexy and playful. When I went with my male friend to see the females it was some oggling but then I was oggling too cuz u see some females in there and you are just trying to figure out who told them they were sexy lol!

[b703ng]

personally i don't see it has cheating but i think it depends on the relationship you have with that person.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

We feel ya!

[monica24b]

I know if my man went out to the strip club even though I trust him, I would feel insecure because why does he need to go to a strip club if he has me, I could put on a show for him lol. He shouldn't even want to see other girls naked if hes with me.

[DIMEPIECETWINZ]

U right what would be the need!